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presentation of dialectical behavior therapy techniques emotion regulation we are going to
start by reviewing the basic premises of DBT and the reason we’re doing that we’re only
going to do it in this one because emotion regulation we’re starting kind of at
the beginning but we want to go over what is the theory underlying a lot of what we’re going
to talk about we’ll learn about the HPA axis and this isn’t something that Linehan talks about
in DBT but it is important for understanding our physiological stress reactions will define
emotion regulation identify why emotion regulation is important and how it can help clients ourselves
staff yay and we will finally explore some emotion regulation techniques there are things
besides just preventing vulnerabilities that we can provide to clients to help them regulate
their emotions before moving into that distress tolerance realm of skills and activities so basic
DBT premises everything is interconnected when you get up in the morning if you’re having a bad
the day you know you didn’t sleep well your back hurts you’re cranky you got a lot of stuff to do
it’s raining outside you know yay you’re noticing all the negatives your thoughts
maybe more negative you may be more likely to notice the negative you may be more likely to have
what we call commonly call a bad attitude if you start to have a better attitude what happens to
what you observe and we’ll talk about that in a little while the reality is not static what is true
right now in the present may not be true which is you know was the future from what
the present was half a second ago so reality changes when we look at a situation when we look
at an event, we’re looking at how am i reacting and what is my feeling about the situation right now
you know we can learn to change where we’re at but with the information, I have right now what’s
going on and a constantly evolving truth can be found by synthesizing different points of view
because most of the time as humans it’s just kind of part and parcel of being humans we don’t have
the whole picture and I did the best I could with these little graphics here think back if you will
to some of PJ’s experiments when he was trying to demonstrate egocentrism when we’re looking at
this yin and yang sort of model the girl’s stick figure what does she see if you ask her what
color is this orb she would probably say black because we’re assuming she sees the black side
if we ask this little thick figure model over here what color is the orb she’s seeing the white
side so he’d say white now if we asked a little confused guy who is standing kind of on the third
side or the south side he sees both of them so he hears the stick figure girl say it’s black he
sees a stick figure boy say it’s white and he’s going well it’s kind of both you can synthesize
both perspectives and figure out that this is an orb that has multiple colors even though she
can’t necessarily see those colors and he can’t necessarily see those colors so BBT says let’s try
to take a look and see if there are blind spots see if there are things we’re not seeing or things
we didn’t observe the basic assumptions of DBT and well people do their best if we didn’t think
that we probably wouldn’t be in this profession so people are doing their best with the tools they
have and the knowledge they have at any given time and I added that extra part people
want to get better and be happy most people don’t want to be miserable if it seems like they don’t
want to get better then we need to ask ourselves what is the benefit to staying miserable why is
it is scarier more threatening more awful to look at getting better or being happy and that’s one of
those motivational things we’re not going to go there today but in general people are going to
choose the most rewarding option when prevents presented with multiple options okay now this
one area in that I kind of diverge from the official statement is clients need to work harder and be
more motivated to make changes in their lives I’ve had a lot of clients who have been working their
butt off but they may not have the right tools it’s like trying to unscrew something that is
Phillips head with a butter knife they’re working hard but it’s not going anywhere because
they can’t get any traction so I crossed out the work harder and I tend to replace it with work
smarter clients need to work smarter they need to have more tools they need to have more effective
tools and some of the tools they have may be awesome if we just tuned them up a little
bit sharpen their oil and grease them whatever you need to do and be more motivated to make changes
in their life and you’re saying well they’re in therapy they’re coming here for whatever reason
there why aren’t they motivated to make changes well again let’s look back at motivation and what’s
the most rewarding choice is if they tried to make changes before and it hasn’t worked out and
they’ve been told that it was their fault they were being resistant or you know they were blamed
in some way or they just felt disempowered what’s going to make them motivated to try to do that
again please let me run the gauntlet most people don’t want to do that so we need to help
clients work smarter and understand that they are working hard and they need to continue to do so
and we’re going to help them get more effective tools and we need to help them get more motivated
we need to help them see that this time it’s going to be different maybe a little bit different
but this time we’re trying something new it may be different even if people didn’t create their
problems they still must solve yep you know if you grew up in a dysfunctional household you
didn’t create that problem but it is negatively impacting you today so you’re going to have to fix
it if you want to be happy which is the whole goal of the lives of suicidal or addicted
people are unbearable and when we’re talking about DBT we’re generally talking about people
who are highly emotionally reactive and suicidal self-harm those behaviors are away at this point
that they’re trying to figure out how to tolerate what seems like an unbearable situation in their
head addiction is much the same way it provides some relief from something they feel they have no
control over people need to learn how to skillful live skillfully in all areas of their life well
yeah because every area is interconnected if you’re stressed out at work do you just
leave work go home and you have not stressed out anymore no that’s not the way it works it would
be great if it did but it’s just not even if you don’t take all your stresses of work home with you
it has taken a toll on your energy level so when you get home you’re more vulnerable to emotional
upset or just fallen asleep on the couch at 6:00 p.m.
Whatever it is so we need to help people
learn how to live skillfully in each area so the exhaustion or negativity or whatever it is
from one area doesn’t bleed over into the other area so we need to learn how to juggle stresses
in all of our areas to prevent vulnerabilities and people cannot fail in treatment when someone
relapses when someone you know backslides whatever word you want to use I look at it as a learning
the opportunity I say okay you made a different choice than we wanted you to make a different choice than
you were hoping you would make so let’s learn from and figure out why that was the most rewarding
choice than what was on your treatment plan the goal that you’re working toward why what
happened what were you more vulnerable so you didn’t choose the newer behaviors because they
weren’t as readily available let’s use this as a learning opportunity to figure out what’s going
on it’s not a failure it’s a learning moment or a teachable moment so what is emotion regulation
emotional dysregulation will start there results from a combination of high emotional
vulnerability so you’ve got somebody who is kind of reactive and extended time needed to return to
baseline so that when they get upset it takes them longer to de-escalate and get back to baseline
and an inability to regulate or modulate one’s own emotions so I want you to think about some
the time that you’ve been driving on the interstate and you’re just driving along cruising along and
heaven forbid if this has happened I hope not but if it did you’re probably just late a semi comes
along and runs you off the road onto the shoulder and oh my gosh you get onto the shoulder your legs
just to go in like this you can’t even press the gas pedal because you are so stressed out you’re
gripping your knuckles are white from gripping the steering wheel so tight your heart racing you’re
breathing fast you’re in full-out fight-or-flight mode so you went from a1 on the stress meter
you know kind of cruising along aware of the fact that you need to be cognizant of dangers to
a5 of oh crap that could have been bad alright so you take a couple of deep breaths you
your breathing goes down a little bit you get to the point where you can press the gas
pedal and you pull back out onto the highway now are you returning to baseline and just like
la-dee-da cutting around like you were before most likely not you’re a little bit more
on edge and you’re checking your bat rearview mirror more often you’re looking back making
sure nothing’s in your blood spot more awesome so you’re not returning to that same level of less
stress Tunis if you will you stay a little bit elevated because your brain is gone you know I
thought it was kind of a safe situation but I’m realizing now that not so much so I’m going to
keep you on higher alert and it’s going to take longer for you to return to baseline because
you’re looking for those threats now you’re much more aware that it could happen to people who
come from invalidating environment people who are regularly chronically stressed they’re constantly
looking around for anything else that is going to threaten them anything else that’s going to stress
them out so they’re not going from a 1 to a 5 back down to a 1 again they’re going from a 1 to a 5
back down to a 2 and then back up to a 5 and then now we’re only going down to a 3 it’s that
stress is ramping up so we need to figure out how to help people deescalate get back down to that
one and realize okay I got this that was an unpleasant situation but I got this now emotional
vulnerability refers to the situation in which an individual is more emotionally sensitive or
reactive than others or then they normally would be you know some people this is kind of and when
we’re talking about personality disorders this is pervasive when we’re talking about someone who
has been under a bunch of stress for six months this may be a situational sort of thing that we
need to help them figure out how to get out of but it may not be something that is completely
and utterly pervasive in any event when you are stressed you know you’re already kind of on edge
and something happens do you react the normal way that you normally would if you were just like
sitting there and going off oh well okay let’s figure out how to handle this or does it throw
you up sort of into the stratosphere and for a lot of people with emotional dysregulation when
they’re their relaxation is on the brink of chaos so they’re standing there teetering
and they’re going okay I cannot take one more wind or it’s going to push me over and then they
call them damp they get upset and they’re kind of on freefall for a while they get their balance
again but then they’re still right there on that precipice they never come down so what
we want to look at is what’s going on with these people that’s making them more reactive that’s
making them more alert and more hyper-vigilant to stresses and stressors some of these may be
because of differences in the HPA axis which play a role in making people more vulnerable or
reactive and we’re going to talk about the HPA axis in a minute environment of people who are
more emotionally reactive or often invalidating and what does that mean well pick Jane Jane
has had a heck of two years you know there’s just been death after death a job loss
she lost her home she’s living in an apartment right now but she’s not happy and you know yeah
you can just pile stuff on okay so James struggling right now she’s holding on and really
trying to do the next right thing she’s trying to make ends meet trying to do what’s right
by our kids just feeling stressed out and then something happens something that most of us
would react with it to you know it’s annoying but it wouldn’t throw us into utter chaos well James
on that precipice Jane’s already at a four maybe a four and a half depending on the day so when
this happened just that too puts her on a scale of one to five puts her at a
six-and-a-half which is in freefall but people may not understand that they may not understand
what’s going on in Jane’s life and they’re like this is not that big of a deal why are you just
overreacting which makes Jane feel guilty Phil is self-conscious and feels misunderstood so
then she feels isolated and rejected and we’ve talked about basic fears being rejection isolation
failure loss of control and the unknown well James kind of experiencing all of those right now and
the people around her instead of being validating and going okay you were already stressed out I
can see how this was just the straw that broke the camel’s back they’re going what is your
the problem so she doesn’t feel like she’s got social support she’s out there on an island unto
herself so we want to help Jane with emotional regulation because we know she’s up here and we
know she doesn’t like going into that freefall but how do we help her emotional regulation is the
ability to control or influence which emotions you have when you have them and how you experience or
express them and that’s a quote straight out of Linda hands book so emotion regulation prevents
unwanted emotions by reducing vulnerabilities so you can go through life you can go through
the day you can experience stress but instead of feeling overwhelmed or enraged you might feel
mildly irritated for a second and then choose to move on emotion regulation helps people learn how
to change painful emotions once they start so you don’t get stuck nurturing that emotion or feeding
into it and being angry with yourself because you got angry about something you have no control over
it teaches that emotions in and of themselves are not good or bad they just are it’s your brains
hardwired way of responding based on waiting for it the information that it has at this particular
point in time spiders if you’re afraid of spiders that is your brain’s way you see a spider and you
feel fear it’s your brain’s way of going threat spiders can be a poisonous big threat so you want
to get away from it that’s your body’s way your brain’s way of going let’s survive we want to do
this now you can figure out you can learn more about spiders so in the future when you encounter
then you realize that they’re not you know 99% of them are not threatening to humans but right now
at this moment your brain is saying warning getaway you probably want to do that so it teaches
that emotions internet themselves are just prompting us to do something they are survival
responses and suppressing them makes things worse telling yourself I shouldn’t feel afraid does that
do any good if your kid comes to you and tells you that you know I’m having a crappy day or I
hate this does it usually do any good to tell them well you shouldn’t feel that way feel better you
know just be happy does that work I’ve never had an experience where that worked now it may work
for some people but so we want to help people identify their emotions and not get consumed
by the emotions are effective when acting on the emotion is in your best interest so sometimes
it’s in your best interest expressing your emotion gets you closer to your ultimate goals sometimes
expressing your emotion gets you closer to your short-term goals like making the pain stop
and true pain is unpleasant however in the big scheme of things 15 minutes from now 3 hours
from now is that getting you closer to the goals that you want to achieve or was it just a
stopgap expressing your emotions will influence others in ways that will help you so if you want
to influence others in ways that are positive and will help you then emotions can be very kinder
that can be very helpful emotions are sending you an important message and we already talked about
that so I’m thinking the devil’s advocate amigos well I can think of a client that goes you rage
is a great emotion to express is it in my best interest yeah gets people to leave me the heck
alone does it get me closer to my ultimate goals yeah it reduces my stress by getting people to
leave me the heck alone will it influence others in ways that will help you, yeah it make them
go away and are these emotions sending you an important message yet rage is telling me that
these people like everybody are a threat to me so in the short term when you look at it that
way it can be tricky to see but we want to help people get outside of this immediate threat and
say where you want to be what happiness looks like to you or however you want to define
that ultimate goal and then once you get into distress tolerance was your Thursday talk about
how do you endure unpleasant emotions so you don’t take the stopgap route now on to our favorite
HPA axis the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis is our central stress response system and doesn’t
get too caught up and all the psychobiology of this I think it’s good to be cognizant of but
we’re not prescribing hypothalamus place in the brain release is a compound
called corticotropin-releasing factor or CRF which triggers the release of adrenocorticotropic
hormone from the pituitary gland which triggers the adrenal glands to release stress hormones
particularly cortisol and adrenaline now your adrenal glands are actually on your
kidneys and why is that important what I want you to see or understand is there are a lot of systems
involved there are a lot of hormones involved there’s a lot of stuff involved it’s not just box
you know you’re releasing a bunch of chemicals in your body that are altering the neurochemicals
and the other hormones to prepare you for spiders the adrenals control chemical reactions over large
parts of your body including the fight-or-flight response and produce even more hormones than
the pituitary gland so you’ve got these adrenals this is kind of your stress area if you will it
produces steroid hormones like cortisol which is a gluteal corticoid which means it makes your
body release glucose what we know is that glucose is blood sugar energy all right so it increases the
availability of glucose and fats for the long-term fight-or-flight reaction it also produces sex
hormones like DHEA and estrogen okay why is that important because we know that when estrogen
goes up serotonin availability goes up so if there are the adrenals are busy doing something
else it may cause other hormonal imbalances and it also produces stress hormones like adrenaline
that is going to ramp you up they’re going to increase your respiration increase your heart rate
all that kind of stuff so once you have that whole reaction we talked about and the perceived threat
passes cortisol levels return to normal great this is what happens in the ideal situation but what if
the threat never passes what if we’re working with a client who is constantly fearing rejection
and isolation they need external validation because they don’t feel good enough as they are
they don’t have social support because their emotional reactivity kind of pushes everybody
away so they’re constantly feeling this threat of rejection isolation failures loss of control
and the unknown they’re holding on just like you were holding on to the steering wheel after you
ran off the road and you got back on you know you kept chugging because you wanted to get to
your destination but you were scared witless okay so you’re chugging along what’s going
on what’s going on in that body the amygdala and the hippocampus are intertwined with the
stress response the amygdala modulates anger fear or fighter flight and the hippocampus helps
to develop and store memories when you’re under stress and think about a time when you are under
a lot of stress were you effective at learning and paying attention to the good things and the bad
things or were you just trying to make the pain stop and make the threat go away from the brain of the
child or adolescent is particularly vulnerable because of its high state of plasticity which is
why do we see people who tend to have personality disorders much of their trauma and stuff really
started early in their development and which is why it’s pervasive in every area or many areas
of their life, bad things are learned emotional upset prevent learning new positive things to
counterbalance it if you’re in a bad mood if you’re scared if you’re threatened you know if
you’re hungry homeless put whatever stuff is there are you paying attention to the
bluebirds that are flying around and singing pretty songs or are you paying attention
to the fact that you got an a on a test maybe not so, we need to understand this person who lives
in a chronically stressful environment may also have an overactive HPA axis so they’re already
they’ve already got some adrenaline and cortisol going on they live kind of in this state
of hyper-vigilance and then something happens and they’re just like through the roof kind of like
when you scare a cat what happens to the brain one is a chronic threat to its safety and a constant
the underlay of anxiety is constant undercurrent as it learns your brain forces synaptic connections
from experience and pruned away connections that aren’t utilized by people who feel a lack of control
over their environment are particularly vulnerable to excessive stimulation of the stress response
now it’s not just children abuse and neglected children pop right up there but abuse and
neglected adults think about a client you’ve worked with who’s been in an abusive relationship
for years does she have all the happy connections or is she pretty much terrified exhausted and
stressed out most of the time adults with anxiety or depressive disorders it doesn’t even
have to be an abusive or neglectful situation if you have someone that forever whatever reason has
clinical anxiety or depressive symptoms they are in this state of constant threat and constant of
people if you will so they’re not seeing they’re not able to learn and take in as much of the
good stuff so there’s more bad stuff coming in they’re paying attention to more of the bad stuff
or unpleasant stuff the synaptic connections that form the foundation of people’s schema of
themselves in the world become skewed towards the traumatic event at the expense of a synaptic
Network-based on positive experiences and healthy relationships so we had this client here and these
are her negative experiences she has a lot of them and she’s got these going through her head a lot
and it’s not they don’t just go away whenever she meets somebody and she’s like well they’re going
to leave me whenever something happened she feels isolated and alone she may fear so she’s got
really strong connections to those memories and past experiences and when you’re in the midst
of all this, there’s not a lot of happy stuff and even when she appears happy a lot of times she’s
faking it she’s not seeing and remembering all the happy stuff she just wants to avoid the pain
another example I could give you is thinking about a city planner now a city planner only has a
the certain budget just like we only have a certain amount of energy the city planner looks and says
what roads and what connections between cities get the most traffic and let’s devote our resources
and strengthen those connections because we know we’ve got all kinds of traffic going over there
and those roads that don’t travel those back roads we don’t need to pay much attention to
them right now because we need to make sure that those roads that are used the most are strong
but that’s the best analogy I can give without putting out strings and everything else but so
the hyper-vigilant state active IDEs activated by the stress response that disrupts our ability
to focus and learn you know we’re just trying to not die we’re trying to not be consumed by pain
it impairs the ability to form new memories and recall information due to the physiologic changes
in the hippocampus, it’s not time to learn and process and do all that kind of stuff have you
ever tried to study for a test when you had 16 other things going on that you are stressed about
how well did you remember this stuff over here sometimes people relate things to prior experience
well most of the time so maybe they’ve had a lot of dysfunctional relationships and they start to
get in a relationship which side is going to be triggered the negative memories are the positive
memories and then you have somebody who may be attached to some positive relationships they start to
get into a relationship and they remember some of the positives because there have been some really
good relationships but you know they may remember the negative too but most likely they’re going
to remember more strongly the positive so what’s their reaction going to be if we’re trying to help
our clients develop a healthy support system we need to help them address some of those highways
that are going towards the negative memories emotion regulation is transdiagnostic or useful
with many disorders it helps people increase their present focused emotion awareness it says right
now right here right now what are your feelings what are your physical sensations what are your
thoughts and what are your urges it helps people increase cognitive flexibility because it helps
the kind of step back and take a look and say okay what are my options let me step back from
being intertwined with this feeling and go okay I feel angry got it what are my options here what
do I usually do what I want to do when I’m on autopilot what are some other options I could
do that might help me move toward where I want to go identifying and preventing patterns of emotion
avoidance and emotion-driven behaviors we don’t want to get into the situation of constantly trying
to avoid unpleasant emotions by lashing out by hurting ourselves or by doing things reactively
when I feel this way I must smoke a cigarette I must cut myself I must fill in the blank we want
to help people find alternate ways and be able to step back and say that is an option is it the
option I want to choose today increasing awareness and tolerance of emotion-related physical
sensations sometimes these physical sensations are just so powerful and so overwhelming and
sometimes the rush of adrenaline and that foggy wibbly-wobbly feeling you get in your head when
you have just adrenaline coursing through your veins is so overwhelming that people don’t know
what to do with it and are afraid it won’t stop so let’s help them increase their awareness and
tolerance of this helped them understand that it passes and use emotion-focused exposure procedures
when they get upset help them think about things in the group sessions that get them a little bit
revved up you know we don’t want to precipitate a full-scale crisis or talk about something that
happened last week that got them upset and let’s apply these procedures emotional behavior is
functional to change the behavior it’s necessary to identify the functions and reinforcers of the
behavior so when they did it you know let’s talk about cutting because you know that is one of
those behaviors that we see are self-injury it’s what is the function of that behavior cutting
or self-injury is a way of inflicting physical pain where the person has control and they focus
on that and they feel a sense of mastery when the stuff going on in their head feels completely
uncontrollable and intolerable it diverts their attention and it also is something that they
they can control how much pain they’re in so that’s how it’s functioning now is the best
the response we want no but we can see why somebody might engage in that behavior and what reinforces that
behavior well when they do that not only do they get a reprieve from this emotional turmoil that
they don’t feel like they can touch or control or do anything with but their body also releases
endorphins release natural painkillers to kill that physical pain which makes them feel a little
a bit better so they’ve got kind of a double whammy on reinforcers there so we understand that
now we need to find something else that they can do and help them figure out how to tolerate
the turmoil emotions function to communicate to others and influence and control their behaviors
and serve as an alert or an alarm to motivate one’s behaviors so let’s talk about the first
one communicate to others so I’m communicating to a rat around me the people around me through my
emotions what’s going on if I’m angry I’m lashing out I’m going to influence people’s behavior and
they’re probably going to back off if I am sad or crying or scared that might bring them closer
and in a more supportive sort of thing you know again you’ve got to look at some of the behavior
self-injury can elicit a caretaking response but these emotions before somebody start
acting out the behaviors the emotions serve as a cue that okay Sally is getting ready to go in
free fall so they can start reacting sooner and it serves as an alert or an alarm to the person to
motivate their behaviors if they know you’re on the precipice if you know you’re right on the
edge of being vulnerable cranky being irritable that day can motivate your own
behaviors to figure out how to reduce some of your vulnerabilities and identify obstacles to
changing emotions now we can’t just say be happy and all of a sudden somebody’s like oh I
don’t know why I didn’t think of that I’m just going to go ahead and be happy that’s just not
how it works we want to look at organic factors do they have an organic long-standing chemical
imbalance of some sort and it may not be neurochemical it may be hormonal they may have too
much estrogen too much testosterone too little estrogen too little testosterone whatever let’s
figure out you know have them go see their doctor and figure out if there is something fibroids
or moans whatever that might be affecting their mood okay once we identify anything that we can
tweak there we can’t measure neurotransmitters we’re out of luck there because they’re found
in so many places in the body that there’s no way to isolate how much serotonin is actually
in the brain can’t do it yes we want to look at other factors that are biological imbalances
neurochemical imbalances that are caused by chronic stress that cause addiction to sleep
deprivation and nutritional problems so what sort of chemical imbalances are we precipitating
by keeping the stress going and keeping the adrenaline going keeping your body revved up
all the time we want to look at obstacles well let me stay with biological factors here real
quick the organic things if we can refer to the physician and we can figure out ways to address
those that give the person one step forward so they’re not feeling as depressed or they’re not
feeling as reactive people with hyperthyroid you know when their thyroid is overactive may have
some anxiety issues or some other mood issues that can be addressed with medication then we
Looking at situationally caused things is the ways we can help them reduce their chronic stress
sometimes there are some easy right-now sort of solutions other times but chronic stress comes
from issues that are so long-standing it’s going to take a while it’s not that we can’t do it but
it’s going to be a process so we move on and we say okay addiction we know that when people use
stimulants rev them up and then they crash and it makes them more than emotional yo-yo caused
by the substances or the addictive behaviors also makes them more vulnerable to emotional
reactivity sleep deprivation is all kinds of hormones out of whack and tends to make people more
irritable that’s one almost everybody can look at addressing right now and nutritional problems
if they’re not eating well not eating at all encourage them to see a nutritionist to
make sure they’re getting something balanced that they will adhere to not something that
they look at and go yeah that looks great but no way I’m eating nuts skill factors what can we help
they with we can identify cognitive responses that are obstacles which as I can’t do that
I won’t do that resistance in some way my response to that obstacle is set to look at it and weigh
the positives and the negatives do a decisional balance exercise to address the cognitive
responses and figure out why is the dysfunctional or unhelpful reaction more rewarding why is it
more rewarding to be angry or scared than to look at doing things and thinking of things that will
help you feel happier what’s the disconnect generally, it comes back to prior failures and fear of
failure because they’ve been down that road before and it’s such a letdown when they’re feeling
good for like three weeks and then they crash behavioral responses that are obstacles to
changing emotions if somebody lashes out when they get upset they lash out and throw things
and then they feel guilty so this behavioral response may lead to having more difficulty
changing emotions because we’ve got to help them figure out how to pause before the behavioral
the response so they don’t compound the situation with more negative emotions and environmental factors
people places and things being in environments where you’re surrounded by people who either agon
negativity or who bring out you know they’re there with you they’re talking about conspiracy theories
they’re just negative about everything or they’re critical of you or remind you of situations where
you’ve been criticized before so first, we want to help people identify and label emotions a lot
of our clients are relatively Alex Simon you know they have a small repertoire if any of
noting their emotions they just generally go from situation to reaction and label what they
felt is kind of a mystery so we want to help them and doing it retrospectively is fine at first
because that’s probably all you’re going to be able to get the event profiting the emotion what
were your thoughts your physical sensations and your urges help me describe this in enough detail
that if we were going to give it to an actor or an actress they could recreate the situation what
expressive behaviors were associated with that emotion you know did you cry did you throw
things did you hit the wall what were your interpretations of that event at the moment not
retrospectively but at the moment what were your interpretations of what was going on
what history before the event increases your vulnerability to emotional dysregulation lots
of big words what happened before that that already stressed you out or had you on edge
and you know we go through a whole bunch of different things and this is you know behavior
chaining we’re looking at kind of what led up to the event what made you more vulnerable and what
were you feeling at that time and then what were the after-effects of the emotion or the reaction
on your other types of functioning so after this event and you went into freefall and you got angry
and you lashed out and you screamed and you threw things how did that affect your work how did that
affect your relationships with your family how did that affect your mood and just generally your
sense of being in yourself for the rest of the day changing unwanted emotions okay so we started
labeling them we figure out what we’re feeling we figure out that yeah when we feel that way
we act in ways that you know make us feel worse afterward what do we do about it let’s change
All alright we already talked about the obstacles and we’re trying to address those but in a moment
check for facts ask yourself what are the facts for and against your belief if you believe that
someone did something to be antagonistic towards you okay what was their motivation what is the
facts for and against that also ask yourself is this emotional or factual reasoning am I making
a decision based on how I felt I felt attacked therefore I must have been being attacked or
facts you know I felt attacked yes but that was because this person said ABCDE and all of those
were very attacking and I felt like I needed to defend myself so those are to check the facts sort
of steps or you can go with problem-solving so let’s change the situation that’s called cause
any unpleasant emotion like I said with spiders at the moment you may not have enough information
to not feel scared but maybe your spouse loves hiking and camping and you want to go but
you’re afraid of those aren’t spiders so how can you change the situation so spiders don’t
trigger that same reaction increase knowledge increase exposure there are a lot of different
ways but problem-solving says ok what can I do so my reaction my correct reaction is not one of
threat or anger but it is one of at least mild acceptance prevent vulnerabilities which helps
reduce reactivity if you are a hundred percent you know you get up and you’re like this is going
to be a good day to day things that come your way are probably going to roll more like water off a
duck’s back then smack you upside the face like a mud pie so we want to prevent vulnerabilities from the turn
down the stress response because when you’re not when you’re not up here already then you know
you can fluctuate a little bit more and they help the person be aware of and able to learn and
remember positive experiences so if you turn down that vulnerability and somebody’s in a good place
or a better place than they were at least they’re going to be able to notice and we’re going to
want to encourage them to notice the positive experiences you know instead of thinking that all
people are threatening all people are going to hurt me all people are going to leave they might
notice that you know there’s Sally over here who’s worked here for 15 years with me and you know
she’s there she sometimes calls in sick but then she comes back she’s generally in a good mood
you know she’s not such a bad person and you start noticing some of the things that are
not self-fulfilling processes building mastery through activities that build self-efficacy
self-control and competence smuggle we don’t want to say you don’t want to set a goal
where somebody needs to go an entire week without having an emotionally reactive response let’s
say go for hours or maybe even a whole day that would be wonderful but first, we’ve got to talk
about how to reduce those vulnerabilities so we set the person up for success what things can you
do and well and we’re going to get down here in a minute what can you do if you wake up and you’re
feeling vulnerable you know the creepy crowds are going around they cancel school
for the entire week for school the county school system kids are off for an entire week
because of illness right now but you wake up in the morning and you’ve got a fever and a sore
the throat you’re like I don’t want to go to work and get out of bed today what can you do
to prevent being grumpy and overly reactive throughout the day’s mental rehearsal and this can
go for if you’re getting ready to do something scary or threatening seeing yourself do that and
do it successfully and this can even be during the day just envisioning yourself getting up and eating
your breakfast driving to work going through your day seeing that one person at the office that
always has some sort of snarky comment to say or whatever irritates you laughing at it or dealing
with it just fine going through everything in your day as you would like to see it happen envision it
see see what you can do rehearse it rehearse how to handle negativity you know if you know you’re
going to have to go in for your annual evaluation with your boss okay so mentally rehearse how it’s
going to go how are you going to react what’s going to happen so you’re prepared for it you have
your responses and it takes some of the unknown out of the situation physical body mind care pain
and illness treatment and the acronym for this is please I changed one of them to laughter
it used to be physical illness and that was both PNL but I like laughter anyway we’ll get there
when you’re in pain or when you’re sick you’re vulnerable to being a little bit cranky you know
that’s just because your body is already saying you are weak you know back in the day when you had to
defend yourself against predators the sick ones and the ones that were in pain were the ones
that usually got taken out first as a part of our brain that still remembers that for whatever
the reason so when we’re in pain or when we’re sick our body keeps that cortisol keeps our cortisol
levels higher and the stress response a little bit higher so we want to deal with those things but
know if we wake up and we’re in that situation moment that was a little bit more vulnerable
so we need to handle it with care and laughter you can’t be miserable and happy at the same time laughter
releases endorphins laughter helps people feel a little bit better and find something to laugh at
and have on my phone I keep comedy skits every once in a while I’ll just pop one in even if
I’m not having a bad day pop it in because I like to laugh eat two-sport mental and physical
health avoid addictive or mood-altering drugs or behaviors that are going to put you on that
the up-and-down roller coaster that goes up and it goes even further down than you were when you
started to get adequate quality sleep and exercise also helps increase serotonin and release
endorphins which help people be in a better mood mindfulness is a judgemental observation and
description of the current emotions we’re not going to go deep into this right now
another class on mindfulness and you can also google it remembering that primary emotions
are often adaptive and appropriate I know I said that like six times much emotional distress
is a result of your secondary responses shame over having it I shouldn’t feel this way anxiety
about being wrong you know maybe this is the wrong way to respond or you know what if
I’m wrong about this or rage doing due to feeling judged for feeling that way I feel this way
and you’re telling me I shouldn’t how dare you so mindfulness is kind of an exposure technique
because it helps people identify that yes I feel that way but it helps them learn to step back and
figure out how to not judge that and just go okay I feel that way better or worse whatever that’s how I
feel exposure to intense emotions without negative consequences that non-judgmental acceptance just
going all right is what extinguishes the secondary emotional responses of feeling guilty
about it or feeling ashamed or angry at yourself for being angry so think of it this way if you
can’t see this one’s the best Bruce Lee picture I could come up with scenario one is an unpleasant
experience the person has an unpleasant emotion and then feels guilt shame or anger for feeling that
an emotion so instead of having to deal with one emotion one-on-one now you’re having to fight for
different unpleasant emotions and you start acting to try to stop the avalanche of negativity in the
absence of adequate skills now Bruce Lee he was able to take out four or five at a time but most
of us you know we would be beaten because all of these adversaries would be coming at us and
we would be building on them in scenario two and this is where we want people to get they have an
unpleasant experience which is part of life they identify unpleasant emotions again part of
life is sucky but part but they can deal with one emotion they’re like okay I’m
angry what do I do about it instead of I’m angry what do I do about it and I’m guilty and you
see how you know she’s got this she can take that one emotion so what we’re helping people do is
uncomplicated this regulation is common to many disorders people with dysregulated emotions
have a stronger and longer-lasting response to stimuli yes they’re already kind of stressed
out they’re already hyper-vigilant if you want to say they’re already wound up a little bit and
then something happens and it amps for months now we have a scale of 1 to 5 if they’re already on
a 4 and it amps them up 2 points they’ve fallen off the scale they’re in freefall so we need to
understand that what we perceive as an excessive emotional reaction they may not have been starting
from the same place that we were, we’re starting from a 1 if they’re starting from a 4 you know
then their reaction to the same thing you seemed pretty reasonable emotional dysregulation is often
punished or invalidated and increases hopelessness and isolation emotional regulation means we help
people use mindfulness to be aware of and reduce their vulnerabilities so we help them take it so
they’re not at a 4 there may be a 2 you know they’re in therapy for a reason we’re going to
help them work on the other stuff and get them down to a 1 but right now let’s help them figure
out ways, they can take down their stress response take down their just underlying anxiety, and stuff
identify the function and reinforcers for current emotions when they happen was understand where
they came from because they’re functional do that chaining worksheet check for facts ok now that
I know how I feel I know what my reactions are I know what my thoughts are I know what my urges
are let’s check the facts in the situation for and against that forces people to kind of step
back which lets the urge sail out some and then problem-solves what can I do right now to improve
the situation and what can I do in the future so I don’t necessarily experience this exact
the same situation again how can I break that mold okay so emotion regulation doesn’t provide us
with a whole lot of distress tolerance skills, emotion regulation is really about preventing
vulnerabilities and helping people figure out okay here’s where I’m at how do I pause so then
I can choose from my disgust distress tolerance problem-solving or interpersonal effectiveness
skills but it’s a big step how awesome would it be if you could eliminate some of your
vulnerabilities and think about it just for a minute or two what vulnerabilities you’ve
got going on in you right now and how many of those you know could you potentially over
the next week or two kinds of address sleeping and eating maybe you have 16 things going on
and you could pare it down to eight there are a lot of different things that you might
be able to kind of pull out of the rabbit hat if you will and what kind of a difference
would it make if you’re talking to your staff and looked around at your organizational environment
what vulnerabilities are there environmental vulnerabilities physical vulnerabilities my best
friend’s working somewhere right now where pretty much everybody is required to work doubles because
they are so short-staffed they’re going to start getting vulnerable pretty soon so look around
what can you do to moderate that so they can model effective emotional regulation but they
can also not be emotionally dysregulated by a client who has emotional dysregulation issues all
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I’d like to welcome everybody to group therapy, which is a product of treatment improvement.
Protocol 41.
Today we’re going to be going over chapters 1 and 2 tips 41.
They did make it into an in-service, which is what I loosely based.
The next set of presentations on and we’re, going to talk about some of the different ways you can use group and make it beneficial and hopefully easier than some other ways of approaching treatment.
So, in the first part of today’s presentation, the goal is to provide an overview of group therapy which is used in substance, abuse, and mental health treatment, and, as I said, I’m, loosely basing it on it, but a lot of times the groups That we’re doing in substance abuse are the same ones.
We’re doing in mental health.
We’re going to discuss the uses of group therapy in treatment, define five therapy models, explain the advantages of group therapy and modify group therapy to treat and address substance abuse issues.
So group therapy is awesome because it supports members in times of pain and trouble. It’s something that we can make available to the community mental health center that I worked at before and if you’ve worked in community mental health or even private mental health.
Maybe a lot of times.
There are waiting lists to get into IOP to get into PHP to get into residential to get into detox.
So one of the things that we started instituting was an intervention-level psycho-educational group, so we were able to sort of keep a tab on people who are on our waiting list.
They got on the waiting list and they started coming to these groups that provided them with tools provided them skills.
We weren’t treating any particular issue.
We were focusing more on life skills, distress, tolerance, emotion, regulation, and all that other DPP kind of stuff.
Helping them get through, was also enabling us to provide them with some hope and keep their motivation going.
Group therapy can enrich members with insight and guidance.
I found, and one of the reasons I love doing group so much is because you can ask a question to a group of 10 people and get 8 or 10 different answers to it, and the cool thing about that is that each person has their blind spots, so what they might not have thought about before might still be germane to them, and somebody else puts it out there. So when you start putting asking questions and putting the answers on the board or using the flip chart papers and having stations around the room that people go and contribute to the group process, you start getting a lot more feedback from individuals and they’re going To come up with ideas and suggestions and thoughts that not only each other had never had so they’re going to enrich each other’s lives, but they teach me something every single time.
So I loved doing and still do love doing group and it’s.
A natural ally with addiction, treatment or treatment in general group therapy enables us to provide a basic framework of information to people in a cost, effective manner.
You know there are a lot of things like emotion, regulation, distress, tolerance, self, esteem, skills, effective interpersonal communication relationship skills, and self-esteem.
I may have already said that we give to all of our clients whether it’s substance, abuse or mental health, and everybody who’s coming through the program.
Has this curriculum? If you will go through now, it’s going to apply a little bit differently to each one and they’re going to take the stuff they get from those groups and they’re going to be able to take it back to their Therapists and say this is what I learned in group.
If it is just a group process, then they’re going to be able to talk among each other and come up with their ideas, but IOP, PHP, and residential all have individual accounts.
One component, if you’re doing an intervention level group 0 05 on the ACM.
If you will, you may not have that individual therapy component.
So you want to make sure that when you provide members with information – and you help them start gaining insight you tie it up in a nice little bow at the end and help them apply it. So what did you get out of today?’s group that could have been helpful last week and how could you have used it then go back around the room and say from whatever you got from today:’s group or what’s a morsel you got from today,’s, group that You’re going to use next week, and how do you expect to do that? So I encourage them to take one or two morsels and figure out how they can use that in their particular life.
A little bit of a slide track here.
In support groups, if somebody is going to celebrate recovery or 12 step group, or even a depression or anxiety management group, I encourage them when they walk out of the group to be able to answer the question.
What was in that group for me? What can I take away from that now? It may be, I know what I don’t want to do, or it may be.
That was a great idea that so and so had, but I want them to answer that question every time, not just walk out of a group and go well.
That was a good group.
Why? Why was it a good group? What did you get out of it? Group therapy, as opposed to self-help groups and support groups, if you will have trained leaders, so you do have a lot more ability to facilitate what’s going on and kind of point people in directions that you want them to go.
Where support groups may have facilitators, but they don’t have the training that clinicians do and group therapy produces healing and recovery from substance abuse and mental health issues.
You see a lot of people gain.
Hope you see a lot of people gain optimism. You see a lot of people learn tools from one another and nobody can comic con.
If you will – and I had to figure out a way to say that a little bit nicer than the way I usually do.
But when people are in recovery and you can even think about it with your teenagers, if you’ve been around known more if you have them, teenagers hear what their parents say and they’re like yeah, okay, whatever old, fuddy-duddy, but when their Parents or when their peers say it, it carries a lot more weight, so sometimes the hope and faith and tools and stuff that they hear from their cohort has more impact than what we say.
If we’ve created a good supportive, healthy, nurturing environment, group therapy has a lot of power to it because it’s basically like having a bunch of code therapists and the ability to control it a little bit more than in group therapy.
You can address factors associated with addiction or these factors by themselves, such as depression, anxiety, anger, shame, temporary cognitive impairment, character, pathology, ie, personality disorders, medication management, and pain management.
So let’s go through these a little bit.
Depression groups are wonderful.
Now we’re going to talk about different types of groups and there’s everything from the traditional therapy group where people are sitting in a circle and or however, usually in a circle and sharing what’s going on in their particular situation.
To psycho-educational and skills groups, where we’re, providing them the tools to understand what’s going on and the tools to deal with what they’re experiencing, and you know with depression.
One of the groups I’m, going to do is depression. Well, any of these is to talk about what is it. What causes it? Where did it come from? How is it impacting you to have people start figuring out what that means to them, then we’re going to start talking, probably in the next group, about what are some ways we can start addressing this and what has worked for you. What what has worked in the past and what things might you want to do? Try? Temporary cognitive impairment can be addressed in the group in the sense that we can provide some life skills coaching.
We can provide for early recovery and substance abuse.
For example, a lot of people come to our groups, or at least where I used to work.
They would get out of detox and they weren’t fully detoxed.
Yet they had two days under them and the drug was out of their system.
For the most part, you know, except for like marijuana or benzos, but they were still not on their game so getting them to just get there on time, be prepared, pay attention, and process what’s going on was huge.
We didn’t expect to make huge therapeutic gains, but what I wanted was somebody to be able to dress up and show up.
If you will character, pathology can be addressed in groups, one of the basic reasons that Marsha Linehan created dialectically.
Behavior therapy was to address borderline personality disorder and DBT is very strong in skills groups.
Now it has individual components and coaching components as well, but she uses the skills groups to help people with character, pathologies, and borderline personality disorder, among other things, start learning about what are these symptoms. What do they mean? What does it look like and how can I deal with them and then they personalize it in their sessions? Medication management is huge for me, whether it’s, somebody who’s on antidepressants or somebody who’s on methadone. I don’t care, but I think it’s really important for people when they start taking medication, especially psychotropic medication, whether it’s, addiction or mental depression, or anxiety to be able to go into a group and talk with others who’ve Been on similar medications understand the side effects understand that gets better understand what they’ve done, that helped them deal with the side effects.
For example, a lot of my clients used to be on Seroquel and Seroquel is extremely sedating, so a lot of them found that they needed to take it at night.
But I had a small group of people who, when they took it at night, you know they would go to sleep at like 11, 00 get up at 6 30 and they were still groggy.
As I’ll get out from the Seroquel and among themselves, they started talking about okay, so I need to take it at 7, 00 every night for it to be out of my system.
So I can function the next morning they worked it out by talking about how long before it starts sedating you and how long the sedating effects last, but it helped clients stay more compliant with their medication because a lot of times and not knock Psychiatrists or doctors, but the ones that I’ve had experience with.
For the most part, I’ve had a couple of awesome: attendings they don’t have the patients they don’t have time in their schedule to hear all of the issues and help the client brainstorm, and a lot of times they don’t think to share with the patient.
These are the most common side effects that people tell me they experience.
Yes, they get the handout from the pharmacist.
There are like six pages, long and in eight-point font of all the potential side effects.
But what do people feel like when they start taking it? This Zoloft is another one. You know that’s, what one is commonly prescribed and a lot of patients feel kind of like they’ve got the flu.
They feel dizzy for the first two-to-three days and then that wears off, if they understand that, if they have a place where they can go and talk about the side effects and talk about how to deal with some of the side effects, it helps.
And this is also a place where they can talk about things like weight, gain and fatigue, and lethargy.
And how do you deal with this when you’re on this Giller medication, it doesn’t have to be facilitated by a nurse or a doctor.
That’s more helpful if it’s facilitated by a clinician.
What we want to do is encourage patients to become aware of what their potential obstacles are to be maintained to remain med, compliant, and identify some ways to address them.
Some intervention that might be effective and then go talk to their doctor, so they are armed with knowledge when they go see their psychiatrist and say I’m having these problems, it also gives them a chance to talk to other people and understand what it looks like if the medication is working for them and gives them hope if they have to change two three four times to find the right medication, so medication management obviously, is a group that I think is important.
If you’ve got clients that are medicated on pain, management,’s, pain can cause depression and anxiety.
Your body perceives pain as a stressor, so anybody who has pain may experience negative affect, especially if it goes on for a while, so helping them figure out ways to deal with the pain and ways to deal with breakthrough pain.
If you’re dealing with somebody who’s in recovery, then you’re also dealing with the issue of pain management without narcotics, so pain management groups can help teach stress management skills, progressive muscular relaxation, and sharing nonpharmacological interventions that they can discuss with their doctor, such as massage physical therapy, acupuncture yay, it also is a place that people get hope again. This is going to keep coming up with group therapy hope because they hear other people’s stories and yeah.
I hear that after John’s accident, he was in agony for six months and he was able to get through it, so they can share and support one another.
Another group provides positive peer support for abstinence from substances or addictive behaviors.
Remember we want to check our clients, and assess our clients to make sure they’re, not engaging in addictive behaviors like internet gaming, pornography, gambling, food-ish food, and eating addiction.
Anything like that, but it also provides positive peer support for positive action in any direction.
So if it’s growth goals, if it’s depression goals, the group is there to cheer you on.
They’re also there to notice when you’re starting to lose your motivation and point it out and help you increase that motivation groups reduce isolation.
So if you’re dealing with someone who’s got empty nest syndrome, someone who’s got depression, someone who’s got it up an addiction.
It helps them understand that they’re, not the only one dealing with that and they can share and support, enabling the members to witness the recovery or transformation of their fellow group members and see how other people deal with similar problems, because we all I mean There’s what twelve people in class today.
So if I throw out any problem, I’m probably going to get at least eight or nine different suggestions for how to deal with it and that’s cool, but that’s. The awesome part about group two because they can share.
What do you do when you can’t get to sleep at night? What do you do when the anxiety is so oppressive that you feel like you can’t breathe, rich, and provide information to clients who are new to the recovery process? So they know what to expect they’re not going to be giddy as all get out.
Twenty-four hours, seven days a week, 365 days a year, probably ever that’s not reality, but it helps them learn what the recovery trajectory looks like helps.
They accept the fact that they’re going to be bad days and it helps them see how they can be empowered in the process.
It provides feedback on group members, values, and abilities.
They’re going to hone in on their values, and you know I encourage them in my groups and obviously from a multicultural perspective.
I think it’s vital that we encourage members to explore their values and accept or reject them as they are and do not meet them.
For me to say whether your values are right or wrong, I want you to know what your values are and make sure that they’re.
Yours, not something that came from the media or something that just kind of popped into your head.
You don’t know where it came from that you, don’t agree with, and sometimes that will come up, especially as it pertains to medication, use or controlled drinking, or anything like that. But it also provides feedback on their abilities, and this is where I focus more than values.
What is it that you have done already? What are your strengths if you went three hours yesterday without being depressed and crying that is awesome? What did you do? How did you do it? How are you able to do that, I want to highlight that ability, so we can build on it. We want to highlight the exceptions to the problems and offer the sort of family-like experience where people get a sense of belonging and support when groups are run well, even if their skills are psycho-educational groups when a group member leaves drops out relapses, whatever happens, They just if they suddenly leave.
It affects the entire group.
When you’ve got a well-run group and a group member graduates or completes treatment, there’s still a whole process and sort of a grieving process, as that person leaves the family and launches out of the nest.
Whatever you want to say, we the way I’ve always run groups and what the way I was taught was.
We always celebrate that at the end of somebody,’s treatment, or experience after the last group that that person attends we have a little bit of a little pizza party or something to celebrate.
Let people say their goodbyes and have a good sense of closure.
A lot of our clients did not have good family experiences, so we want them to have the experience of being supported, being able to have different opinions and disagree with others, but being respected and being able to care about groups encouraged coach support and reinforce What they’re doing? Well, we don’t have to focus on what they’re doing wrong.
You know, we can talk about that.
An individual – or you know it may become germane to the group, but what we want to do is reinforce what they’re doing. Right from a management perspective groups allows a single treatment professional to help several clients.
At the same time, as I said, there are a core set of groups – educational modules, if you will that, I think all clients need to be exposed to so group is a great way to do it instead of saying the same thing six times a day to Each one of your clients having a group available with the advent of media and Internet, just like we’re doing right now.
Web chat web groups.
You can do some skills-based groups, you know if they’re, not treatment.
You don’t have as many issues with confidentiality, but you can also have videos online that you have them watch, learn from complete a worksheet and then come and participate in a one-hour group, instead of maybe having to sit through the whole lesson, which is An hour or so and then participate in the group, so there are a lot of different things that you can do using group techniques to reach a bunch of people in with one treatment provider.
In the same hour.
Groups add needed structure and discipline because, generally the group leader has a certain goal for the group or has a certain style of managing the group, so it can help sort of add a rhythm.
If you will to the group process.
Now we’re talking about traditional therapy groups.
You’re going to be sort of like the parent that controls the rhythm of the family. If you’re talking skills or psycho, read groups, you’re going to be setting more of a tone like a teacher and creating a learning experience, but it adds structure, so people feel safe.
They know what they can share, what they’re.
What’s too much sharing or what’s inappropriate sharing and it helps people also learn to bite their tongue, wait their turn all those other things that can be helpful in life.
They instill hope in a sense that, if that person can make it so can I so they see people doing a little bit better yeah.
They also see some people doing a little bit worse, sometimes, but that’s an opportunity for them to be able to reach out and provide support, and that helps the person providing support as much as it helps the person receiving it.
I truly believe that most people get a sense of contentment if you will, by being able and being able to reach out and help someone that they are concerned about, it provides support and encouragement to one another outside the group setting now this gets a little dicey Depending on your groups and your agency philosophy in reality, in substance abuse groups, the people that are in your group are probably going to be going to the same support group meetings so telling them not to ever contact each other outside of the group is unrealistic.
They’re going to see each other in the community, so it’s important to help them understand how to set boundaries and what’s? Okay, behavior, and what’s? Not okay, behavior between group members, other groups, other facilities are less stringent on that and encourage the clients to reach out to one another outside of the group setting.
So, depending on the group, the issue, your agency, all that kind of stuff there’s going to be more or less sharing.
What I want to see, especially, is, if you have, for example, in IOPS three hours here and have three groups with breaks.
I want to see people talking outside a group. I want to see people sharing, not just all sitting in there going when do we get out of here?
I want them to develop relationships and learn how to effectively communicate so group therapy is not individual therapy done with an audience.
It is not a mutual support group.
It’s designed to help people develop and practice knowledge and skills in a microcosm.
You’re, creating a mini family or a mini-community.
It aids patients in learning how to develop healthy, supportive relationships and also how to terminate relationships, because sometimes when people graduate they move on it, which doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re going to continue to interact with the clients in the group.
Alright.
So the second half of this class, we’re, going to look at the group therapy models used in treatment, explain the stages of change, and discuss three specialized group therapy modules that may be used for the stages of change.
I’ve gone over this before for new people.
I’ll go over it again, real quick think about getting into a pool in the summer. It’s hot it’s like 90 degrees.
You are sweating bullets, pre-contemplation, and you’re still laying on the lawn chair going.
I ain’t hot.
Yet no, I’m not anywhere near hot enough to go near that pool contemplation you’re starting to get hot and sweaty, and you’re looking at the pool going.
You know that might be a nice change in preparation.
You move to the side of the pool and you’re dangling your feet in the water trying to figure out.
If you’re ready to take the plunge because it’s cold, I mean compared to the 90 92 5 degrees C is outside and you know your 98 6 body temperature water is cold, so you’re preparing action is when you jump in you. ‘re, like I, can’t take it anymore.
I’m too hot to jump in the pool.
Now, if that pool is too cold, if it’s too painful to stay in there because you’re just like a ho ho, you may jump back out again and back into preparation or further back.
If you get in there and get moving – and you know, get your body temperature back up that’s – sort of basically like treatment – and you’re getting the swing of things, then you just want to maintain. So you don’t get cold again and recurrence is when you get out you get hot again and go through this process again so pre-contemplation, I ain’t got a problem.
Contemplation yeah, I’m a little uncomfortable, but I’m not ready to do anything yet preparation.
I’m starting to get ready to make a change because this is uncomfortable, but I’m not very it action I’m on it, and maintenance is keeping your gains and maintaining a steady state, so variable factors for groups, the group leader group or Leader of focus, so if you’re focusing on a part of it, is your training.
You know if you are more Rogerian client-centered in your training versus cognitive, behavioral versus DBT versus AC T, whatever your theoretical underpinnings are and what you choose to focus on.
In that particular group, there’s a lot of stuff.
We can focus on whether it’s cognitive, physical, or emotional.
We want to another thing that affects it is the specificity of the group agenda.
If you’re going to have a group and it’s on self-esteem, well that’s not specific, so we could go sixteen different ways till Sunday if you’re looking at self-esteem and disarming the internal critic.
Now that’s much more specific for that group, so that’s going to affect what that group looks like for that session or that says sessions how similar or different your group members are.
If they have a lot of different experiences, you’re going to have a different experience as a group leader. Then, if you have a lot of people who have the same experiences, open, ended or determinant duration of treatment, if you’ve got a group that somebody can join and if they want to stay for 104 weeks, they can stay for 104 weeks.
That’s up to them versus a group that is 16 weeks long that’s also going to affect how your group goes.
What do you cover, how connected do group members become? I use 104 weeks just to sort of overemphasize.
I hope nobody stays in the group for 104 weeks, but the level of leader activity is.
I have seen groups where its leaders will throw out a discussion and are like okay topic for today is what do you think about it, and let the group facilitator with a little bit of nudging here and there versus other groups where the leader is very involved In goes around goes okay, Sam.
What do you think about this sally? What do you think about it and that affect how people react and what they expect it? Doesn’t necessarily affect what they get out of it, but these are variables that could affect how someone meshes with the group.
Not everybody is going to like a real open, ended, a loosey-goosey group I don’t.
You know I’m structured.
So I prefer to be in groups where I know what the agenda is, and what we’re going to do.
In my groups, start with a review from the last group that’s the first five minutes, and check in with everybody. Next, in five minutes we do a 15 to 20-minute psycho, ed piece, and then the last.
You know 30 minutes of group.
I spend going around the room and having people tell me, what is it that you got out of this? What do you think you could use this next week etc and apply it to what they know that’s how my groups go, so they’re, really very structured.
You’ve got to be able to drop back and punt.
If a client is in crisis or something strikes a nerve with them, you know you might have to change up a little bit.
But overall you’re sort of setting the tone for what’s going to happen in the group, the duration of treatment, and the length of each session.
You’re going to cover a lot more in a 3 hour of IOP session.
That and treatment is five days.
A week for 12 weeks, then you’re going to cover in a treatment program that’s one hour a week for eight weeks, just knowing what you’re going to try to cover will affect the depth or the breadth of what you go through.
The arrangement of the room also affects how the people interact. If you have them set up in theatre, style, or classroom style.
People interact differently than if they’re all sitting around in a circle, and if you ever want to experiment with that, it is interesting to notice how much differently people interact and how much more they seem to participate when they’re sitting sort of in A circle versus when they’re in theater style and I feel like they can hide and the characteristics of the individuals.
Sometimes you’re, going to have people who are enthusiastic and chatting.
Sometimes you’re going to have people who are not, and it could be for a whole host of reasons.
It could be a bad fit, it could be their involuntary, or it could be they just got out of detox.
It could be that they’re.
All are just at that level of clinical depression that they’re having a hard time staying with the group and it’s up to us to adjust to try to meet the needs of as many people in a group as possible.
Now, while I’m saying this, they didn’t say to size of the group.
Here, the recommended size of the group is 8 to 12 people.
If you’re dealing with adolescents or people with severe and assistant Mental Illness, it’s more along the lines of 812. For your average group 15 for psycho-educational and skills groups any more than 15.
You’re doing a class and not a group.
Psycho-egg groups assist individuals in every stage of change, pre-contemplation contemplation, yay.
It helps clients, learn about their disorders, their treatment or intervention options, and other resources that might be available to them, such as assistance with prescriptions or physical therapy, or whatever other wraparound services.
We often call it might be available.
They can also be used to provide family members with an understanding of the person in recovery, so family egg groups can be awesome because then you get to understand and hear what the family thinks is going on and expects is going to happen in treatment and What they’re seeing and hearing, and you can normalize for them what’s going on with the client, so somebody recovering from clinical depression or somebody with bipolar disorder.
You know this is what recovery looks like this is what living with the disorder looks like.
This is what being on this medication looks like, I, ‘ve had a lot of patients because I deal with mainly co-occurring.
I’ve had a lot of patients who have bipolar disorder, and you know some sort of substance abuse issue.
They start taking. Seroquel, because that seemed to be the drug of choice for our prescribing at that particular time and they would start acting all groggy and family would freak out going you’re using again, and so Family Education groups were a great time for us to educate.
Not only about the disorder but also about treatment, medication, side effects, and how to interact with the loved one to be as most supportive as possible.
So ad groups educate about a disorder or teach a skill or tool and work to engage the clients in the discussion.
I don’t want to stand up there in the lecture.
I want them to be able to throw out ideas.
So if I say you know what is it that you do when you’re struggling with somebody, because they just great on your every last nerve, what are some things you do to solve that problem or to deal with it? I don’t want to just tell them everything I want to do something more Socratic and encourage them to tell me how they work with it, and if they come up with something that’s, not quite on point.
As far as being the most effective or healthiest approach, then we’ll talk about it and we’ll say well.
I’m sure that’s worked for you.
I’m wondering you know if there’s a kinder gentler way to do it, or you know you kind of massage it a little bit to morph it into something useful.
We want to prompt clients to relate what they learn to their issues, including their disorders. You know how you, how this relates to your depression, but also your goals, your challenges, and your successes?
Psycho-ed groups are highly structured and follow a manual or curriculum, and it doesn’t have to be a manualized curriculum that you buy from somewhere.
You can create your curriculum, but you teach the same thing and it’s sequential and it follows a teach, apply practice method.
So you teach a skill, you have them talk about how they would apply it, how that might apply to them, and then you have them practice it in role plays or imagine how they might use it.
Next week, basic teaching skills are required for psycho-ed groups, though, which requires that you understand the basic components of learning, and I call these the three C’s capture, which is how you get the knowledge I mean you got to get it into your brain.
Somehow I am a visual kinesthetic learner.
I learned virtually nothing from sitting in lecture classes.
I’m off in la la land in about 30 seconds.
I know this about myself, so I need to have material that I and see, which is why I do powerpoints here some of y’all may not might not even be looking at the screen.
You may be often doing something else and listening to me more power to you. However, you get the information in your brain is great.
Global and sequential.
Some people are global.
They need the big picture when they’re doing a puzzle.
They want to see the box first to do the frame and then fit all the pieces in sequential people.
Don’t want the box that’s cheating they look for pieces and put them together and then try to figure out how all the pieces go together to make a hole and then their wall out as a whole.
To appeal to both of those at the beginning of the group give an overview of what you’re going to cover in the group, and if you can sort of a written agenda it’s, not always practical.
I always tried to put it up on the whiteboard.
We always had issues with how many copies we were allowed to make and stuff.
So in the interest of saving trees, try to give them some sort of an agenda, so they know what the progress is or what they can expect from group talk about it, so people can hear it and apply it through role plays having them apply it to themselves. Make them manipulate that information in their mind and provide visual representations like bullet points of what you’re going over. If you can’t, if copies again are an issue, have them bring a notebook and write on a whiteboard, so they can see it.
So you’re presenting information in as many ways as possible.
Conceptualization is relating the information to building blocks.
So if you’re teaching a unit on cognitive distortions, then you’re going to talk about maybe using extreme words or nothing talk.
So I might say tell me about a time that you’ve said something like you always do this and then what we’re going to talk about, how to change that and how you know.
Thinking about things that way might be contributing to some of their distress and then caring.
This is the biggest one which is again why I have clients when they leave a group, ask themselves: what could I get out of that? Why was that important to me if they’re not motivated to remember it, they’re not going to think back to high school biology or college humanities archaeology?
101.
For me, I learned what I needed to learn for as long as I need to learn.
It’s to pass the test, and then I forgot it all because I didn’t care about it, so we want them to care or they’re not going to remember so get it in their heads and help them relate it to something they know and make Them care about it, make them figure out why it’s important to them, foster an environment, to support participation, encourage participants to take responsibility for their learning, use a variety of learning methods that require sensory experiences, which means talking about it. You know talking about it listening to it and maybe drawing art therapy try to incorporate as many senses as possible.
I always find that role plays are a big hit.
You can also break up concepts and have to break up your group into smaller groups and have each of the smaller groups reteach a concept to make sure that they understand it and be mindful of cognitive impairments.
So if you’ve got someone who is impaired in some way, make sure that you have some sort of method to ensure that that person is keeping up with the rest of the group.
If it’s a diverse group skills development cultivates the necessary skills to prevent a relapse, depression, anxiety, and addiction and achieve an acceptable quality of life.
Part of the skills groups assumes that the clients lack needed skills such as coping skills, interpersonal skills, and communication skills, hence the term skills group.
So we want to allow clients to practice skills in groups.
Psycho-ed groups provide the knowledge and, if you remember basic treatment, planning, and knowledge skills and abilities, so you know it, you learn how to use the skill and then the ability is a put those skills into practice.
So we want them to be able to practice.
These skills in a safe microcosm, you want to focus on skills, directly related to recovery and those to thrive in general. Think about Maslow’s hierarchy.
They need to get those biological needs met, they need food, shelter, medication, pain management, health, safety and safety from themselves and love and belonging.
So we want to help them make sure they’re getting those not just focusing specifically on depression or anxiety skills development groups have a limited number of sessions and a limited number of participants.
So everybody can practice.
We don’t want a big auditorium.
We want that 8 to 15 number ideally, and there used to strengthen behavioral and cognitive resources.
Skills groups focus on developing an information base on which decisions can be made and actions can be taken.
So when they’re thinking when they practice the pause and they’re trying to decide okay, what is the best reaction to this current situation that’s when skills kick in and they’ve got a menu of skills to choose from cognitive, behavioral Groups, conceptualize dependence on substances as a learned, behavior that subjects to modifications through various interventions, which is a bunch of garbage garbled a for CBT groups, really look at using as a triggered behavior in response to pain.
You want the pain to go away and your drug of choice does that.
The same is true for self-injury or a variety of other symptoms that we see in our patients. So we want to look at what’s triggering those and how can we. What are they trying to meet? What need are they trying to meet with that behavior and how can we help them meet that? Otherwise, sorry, my nose is itchy today, work to change, my learned, behavior by changing my thinking, patterns, beliefs, and perceptions and include psychological elements like thoughts, beliefs, decisions, opinions, and assumptions.
Cbt groups develop social networks that support abstinence, so the person with dependence becomes aware of behaviors that may lead to relapse and develop strategies to continue in recovery.
Now that’s for addictions, groups for anxiety and depression, the same is true.
We want them to have social networks with other people who experience the same diagnosis.
If you will so, they can become aware of relapse.
Warning signs when are starting to become impatient.
They’re not sleeping as much, whatever their relapse warning signs are for their condition, disorder, whatever you want to call it, so they can develop.
Strategies to stay, happy and healthy educational devices are used in CBT groups including worksheets role plays, and videos that encompass a variety of proof, and approaches that focus on changing the way we think and the behavior that flows from it.
I cannot stand feeling this way can be changed too.
I don’t like feeling this way, but I know it will change. In the next moment.
Cbt techniques teach group members about self-destructive, behavior and thinking that lead to maladaptive behavior.
We look at those unhelpful, cognitions and their effects of them.
How does that impact you in your relationships? The way you perceive the world and your general sense of empowerment and happiness? They focus on problem-solving and short and long-term goal-setting which a lot of people don’t know how to do.
Imagine how much better people and more empowered people feel when they figure out hey.
I know how to do that.
I know how to see a problem, develop a plan and solve the problem and they help clients, monitor feelings and behavior, particularly those associated with their diagnosis.
Support groups are useful for apprehensive clients who are looking for a safe environment and they boast remembers efforts to develop and strengthen their ability to manage thinking and emotions and interpersonal skills support groups.
Don’t have a trained facilitator necessarily, so they’re.
Not necessarily. How do I want to say this? They’re only as effective as the effectiveness of the group leader and the health of the group leader, support groups, address pragmatic concerns, and generally improve members, self-esteem and self-confidence they’re.
Often open-ended with changing members, encourage discussion about members, current situations, and recent problems.
So we’re less focused on education and skill building and more focused on what’s going on with you today, and they provide peer feedback and require members are accountable to one.
Other support groups vary with group goals and member needs and include facilitating desilting discussion among members while maintaining appropriate group boundaries, which can be a little difficult, especially with untrained if there are no trained facilitators there.
These groups can help the group the whole group work through obstacles and conflicts.
So if you’ve got people that are arguing within the group remember, this is a microcosm.
This is a little family, whether it’s a support group or any other kind of group.
These people meet every week and there are going to be conflicts, so we want to help people work through these and develop acceptance and regard for one another support groups ensure that interpersonal struggles among group members do not hinder group development.
So if you’ve got a relationship budding between two people, not unheard of, or if you’ve, got a huge conflict, getting ready to happen between two people.
You want to make sure that doesn’t interfere with the group process, so you may need to handle that outside of the group, or you know, figure out how to address it. Interpersonal process groups recognized conflicting forces in the mind, some of which may be outside of one’s.
Awareness determines a person’s behavior, whether it’s helpful or unhelpful.
So interpersonal process groups help people identify the developmental influences and other things that have gotten them to where they are, that influence, how they act and react the way they do currently, and bring a lot of stuff into awareness.
Oh, that makes sense that I react that way because that’s how my mom used to react or when I did that when I was a kid I got in trouble for it whatever the case may be interpersonal process groups delve into major developmental issues.
Searching for patterns that contribute to the problem or interfere with recovery abandonment issues is one that comes up a lot looking at the family of origin and their coping skills.
We want to learn.
What did you learn when you were growing up that is? You are using now and how effective is that for you, these groups use psycho dynamics or the way people function psychologically to promote change and healing and rely on the here-and-now interactions of members.
So we’re focusing on all this stuff.
That made you who you are and gave you the tools that you have right now, how’s that working for you?
So there are multiple types of groups that are available to assist clients in achieving their goals. We view current coping skills as creative adaptations to what they’ve learned and ways to get their needs met.
They may not be the healthiest coping skills, but they are serving a purpose.
So we want to look at the way.
Clients are coping acting interacting.
Just look at their behaviors and ask ourselves what’s the benefit to that? What’s motivating is that, because we always choose the behavior.
That seems – and I emphasize the word seems to have the most reward to it, based on reward and effort groups, help strengthen the healthy skills, but they also help point out some of the unhealthy ones, and again a lot of times it has more to it.
If it comes from a peer, as opposed to, if it comes from a therapist skills required to facilitate groups, overlap significantly a lot of my psycho, groups are also kind of skills groups.
I kind of do a psycho, ed skills blend when I do groups that are, my style though, and the group facilitator needs to figure out his or her style because you’re going to set the tone for your group.
Not everybody is going to thrive in your group.
Just like not everybody is going to mesh with you as an individual therapist, knowing your style and being confident is one of the first steps to having a really strong group experience. Types of groups include psychoeducational, which provides your knowledge, and classroom-type format.
Skills development provides takes the information that knowledge and helps people translate it into skills.
Okay.
Now I know what an unhelpful thought or a cognitive distortion is.
What do I do about it? Skills group is the: what do I do about it and let’s practice it.
So when I have this thought, what can I do? Cognitive behavioral groups kind of integrate those but focus strongly on what’s going on with the individual and the thoughts if you think, of the ABCs, the automatic beliefs that may be perpetuating or maintaining the unpleasant consequences and support groups are those groups that Are not facilitated by a trained facilitator or by a clinical facilitator.
In some groups like smart recovery, the facilitators are trained, but they’re, not necessarily clinicians and group members are accountable to one another more so than accountable to a group leader who starts the group by telling people what they’re going to learn and do and why it’s useful to them make them care, give them that global perspective of what’s going to happen and then go through the information step by step or sequentially.
So all of your learners are getting as much as possible provide an overview of what you’re talking about have written material like I said, if copies are a big issue where you come from it’s, not unheard of, or if you just don’t like making lots of Xerox copies, write it on a whiteboard and encourage clients to bring a notebook and write it down.
Clients will remember things better if they have to write them down because they’re going.
To paraphrase it, which is a form of kinesthetic learning before they write it down most likely because they want to write down as little as possible, discuss the material and apply it ask for their input. How do you deal with this? What do you think about this option? How could you use this? How could you have used this last week and what do you think you might? How do you think you might use it next week and give me an example of what that would look like for you? Can also have them roleplay, maybe they’re having somebody in the group having a particular issue with a supervisor or roommate.
You may choose to roleplay that in a group and have them apply a skill that you’re talking about.
Have each group member close by identifying one thing they got at a group and how they are going to use it in their recovery plan. Again, it brings it back to caring, has the kind of tie it up into a neat bow, and is able to walk out with one tool.
Yep give them two too many tools in one group and they’re going to walk out, and none of them are going to get used.
You give them one tool and they walk out.
They may try to use it throughout the week and then next week in the group, you can ask them how’d it go.
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than we ever have. Thanks for being a part of our journey. Hey you, Psych2goer’s happy
Mental Health Awareness Month. It’s so important to
have a month dedicated to spreading awareness of medical conditions that can’t be seen. When you think of depression
what do you think of? Being sad? Thoughts related to death,
unanswered calls, or texts? These are all very common
and noticeable signs of depression, but did you know,
there are more subtle signs of depression that can
fly under the radar? Let’s check out seven signs of
depression that go unnoticed. Number one, you toggle between emotions depending on your surroundings. When we think of depression we often think of being sad all the time but did you know that that
isn’t always the case? A subtle sign of depression
is when an individual flips between sadness and happiness based on the scenario and setting.
For example, you might
be sad when you’re alone but happy when you’re
out with your friends. Having people around or
something to keep your mind off things allows for a bit of reprieve. This can also be something
called forced happiness, where the person feels inclined to put on a smile for others. A group of researchers found that potential depression
sufferers on Twitter change the way they use language and interact on social media. You may notice them sending
you more negative texts or posting darker posts on
their social media accounts. But when you hang out with them in person, they’re completely happy. This online persona allows them to be and say what they want. Number two, you notice
changes in your habits. There’s a certain stigma around
staying up late at night. When you see posts or texts from a friend in those early hours, you
may not think anything of it but when you notice it more consistently this could be cause for concern.
Other habits that can be
disrupted can be eating, bathing, getting dressed, and going to work school or other appointments. Ignoring these basic human needs
is not caring for yourself. Then it could be a sign that
there are more things at play than just being tired or feeling lazy. Number three, you start
blaming yourself for things even if it’s not your fault. When you’ve done something, it’s important to take
responsibility for it and hold yourself accountable. But do you notice someone
apologizing for everything, even for things they didn’t do? You say I spilled juice on my shirt. They say, sorry. You say it’s raining,
I wanted to go running. They say, sorry. They didn’t make you
spill juice on your shirt. They didn’t make it rain
and purposely ruin the day but they feel like it’s their fault. This can even manifest as remembering or reliving an embarrassing memory and not moving on from it. Even having a feeling of guilt can leave someone feeling depressed.
Number four, you’re not
doing what you used to do. Have you noticed a certain friend has declined a lot of your
invitations to hang out later? Did you notice they’re not going anywhere besides work or school? Maybe there’s a friend who
still shows up at their hobbies like sports practice or music rehearsal but has lost all enjoyment. These are all signs of
potential depression. When you’re depressed, activities that used to produce dopamine, the feel-good hormone,
don’t react the same way causing you to not feel that same joy. This is another sign that can be paired with toggling mentioned
in the first point. The individual may feel
like they need to match their previous high spirits and hide their new emotions so they don’t bring the mood down. Number five, you have
difficulty making decisions. When you ask your
significant other to hang out it’s nice to get some
input on what they wanna do or even leave the decision up to them. Someone who may have depression may not have any opinions on anything. It can be as small as
what to eat for dinner or more difficult as what to major in or deciding your budget.
This can mean the
individual doesn’t feel like they’re good or smart enough
to make the right decision. Pushing away from making
decisions can be a good indicator of possible depression. Number six, you’re always on edge. Irritability is a common symptom of mental health conditions. But how can you tell the difference? Let’s say you’re crushing on someone and your friend knows it. If your friend starts
flirting with your crush in front of you, this is a situation where being irritable is a valid
and reasonable response but say you have a
roommate and one shared TV.
You wanna watch a movie after
work, but when you come home your roommate is already
watching something which causes you to blow
up at your roommate. The reaction is out of
proportion to the situation. Sure, it’s annoying that
someone’s watching TV but it’s something a simple
conversation can solve. You can ask your roommate
if they would mind you watching a movie
after they’ve finished. That knee-jerk reaction
to get angry can be a sign of other mental health
issues like depression. And number seven, you feel physical pain. Have you ever felt pain like
muscle ache or headache? And you have no idea where it came from? When you feel physical pains regularly, it’s always a good idea to
consult a medical professional to determine if there are any
underlying reasons for them. If nothing is found, it
may be a good next step to contact a trusted
mental health provider. So did any of these signs surprise you? Have you noticed these other signs of depression in yourself or a loved one? Let us know in the comments below.
If you are someone you know is concerned that they may be showing
signs of depression, please consult a mental
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Hey, Psych2Goers! And welcome back to another Psych2Go video. Do you find it hard to socialize with other people? Do you feel overwhelmed at the thought of going to a social event? It can be very easy to confuse social anxiety and shyness.. ..since they share many of the same characteristics. While shyness is a personality trait.. ..social anxiety is a mental illness. Before we begin we’d like to mention that this video is created for educational purposes only.. ..and is not intended to substitute a professional diagnosis. With that being said, here are eight signs you might have social anxiety. #1 You’re always self-conscious. One aspect of social anxiety is the extreme fear of being judged. According to Kocovski and Endler if you have social anxiety; You’ll constantly worry about the way you look or act and what others think of you. Your greatest fear is of embarrassing yourself in front of others. A shy person, on the other hand, will only worry about being judged in certain situations.. ..like in public speaking or when meeting someone new. #2 Your anxiety feels out of hand. There are times when it’s normal to feel shy or nervous around other people.
..for example when you move to a new school or have to perform in front of an audience. But social anxiety is irrational and unwarranted. You may feel distressed about things as simple as making eye contact with someone,.. ..using public transportation, or eating in front of other people. The fear is always there. The fear is always there. #3 It interferes with your performance. Have you ever called in sick to work when your anxiety became too overwhelming? ..or have you kept quiet when you were having trouble in class? Social anxiety can impact your performance in many ways.. ..with the constant fear of people’s judgment You may even be afraid to do well to avoid drawing attention.
You don’t pitch ideas at meetings.. ..raise your hand in class… or join clubs because of how much anxiety it creates. #4 It affects your relationships. While it’s hard to make friends when you’re shy.. ..it can feel almost impossible when you have social anxiety. For a shy person, it’s usually about breaking the ice.. ..and going through the initial awkwardness of meeting each other. But having social anxiety can complicate your relationships. You feel tense and uneasy around people.
..no matter how close you are or how long you’ve known them. #5 It doesn’t go away with familiarity. It’s normal to feel shy at the beginning of a new relationship. But as you get to know each other the tension will start to subside. This isn’t the case if you have social anxiety. Instead, you always experience fear distress, and embarrassment whenever you’re around other people. Doesn’t matter if it’s your parent’s siblings or best friend.. ..you always feel uneasy and stressed unless you’re alone. #6 You overanalyze everything. Have you ever said things to yourself like; “I took too long to reply and now she doesn’t like me ..” or “He didn’t say hello this morning because he’s upset with me ..” Social anxiety can make you obsess over your social interactions. You may spend a lot of time and energy.. ..analyzing other people’s facial expressions.. ..body language and tone of voice.. ..to see if they mean what they’re saying or not. #7 You avoid social situations. Are you often absent or very late to social gatherings? It’s a serious matter if your social anxiety leads you to avoid social situations altogether.
You decline invitations, refuse to speak in front of people, ..and would rather sit in the corner.. ..to avoid being noticed and mingle with anyone else. It doesn’t matter if it’s a normal day at work or school.. ..your birthday party, or even your wedding day. And #8 You have physical symptoms. Do you feel nausea? dizziness or chest palpitations when you’re in social situations? Just like most anxiety disorders.. ..social anxiety is often accompanied by physical symptoms. Some common ones are sweaty palms, shortness of breath.. lightheadedness, and trembling. While these are also the same signs of someone having a panic attack. You’ll be able to tell the difference if you only show these symptoms.. ..when anticipating or being out in a social setting. Do you relate to any of these symptoms above? Let us know in the comments below.
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experienced physical symptoms and not known why? It could be that you’re
experiencing anxiety without realizing it. So what exactly is anxiety? Experiencing occasional
moments of anxiety is normal, such as when facing a problem at work or before taking an
exam where you may feel your heart beating rapidly
sweaty palms, or have nausea. But these symptoms of
nervousness dissolve over time. While you may have experienced
these symptoms at some point, anxiety is more than
temporary worrying or stress. Worries and stress arise
from external triggers such as an upcoming deadline or an argument with a loved one.
Anxiety on the other hand is persistent worry in the absence of stressors. The American Psychology
The association defines it as an emotion characterized by apprehension and somatic symptoms of tensions in which an individual
anticipates impending danger, catastrophe, or misfortune. Aside from its mental symptoms, anxiety also produces a
roster of physical symptoms such as insomnia, fatigue, and muscle tension. Most people pay more attention
to the physical symptoms as they’re easy to identify, and as a result, tend to treat the symptoms rather than the underlying cause. So with that said, here
are six symptoms of anxiety that can help you discern if
it’s an illness or anxiety.
Number one is irritability. Yes, this symptom may seem vague
because when you’re unwell, who wouldn’t be a bit irritated? However, if you find
yourself getting worked up over the slightest things, that
could be a sign of anxiety. Anxiety triggers our fight-flight or freezes response. It also makes you believe that
you’re constantly in danger which reduces your tolerance to stress. As your stress tolerance decreases you become more susceptible
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mental health content to more people out there. Number two is depersonalization
or derealization. Another sign that your
physiological symptoms are the result of anxiety
and not a sickness is if you experience frequent
bouts of derealization or depersonalization. Both symptoms disrupt
how you perceive yourself and the world. Derealization is a sensation
of being outside of your body and is a frightening thing to experience.
One minute you can be
walking down the street and suddenly everything feels
two-dimensional or unreal. Depersonalization is usually described as an out-of-body experience. Most times you feel like you’re watching and hearing yourself in real-time, but your actions feel distant like you’re not the person doing them and your limbs or body
can appear distorted and foreign to you. Reports show that stress and
anxiety are the primary causes of derealization and depersonalization because your fight or flight
response to stress floods your brain with adrenaline
which redirects blood from the brain to the larger
muscle groups and core. Because your brain has less blood you may feel more lightheaded, and as a result, you may
experience derealization and depersonalization. If this happens to you,
it helps to breathe. The adrenaline usually
takes two to three minutes to metabolize but you may take 20 minutes to calm down physically and mentally. Number three is phobias
and coping mechanisms. Another sign that you’re
experiencing anxiety and not a physical
illness is if you notice that you’ve developed new
and unexplainable phobias.
We all have phobias whether
they developed during childhood or are the result of a bad experience. Phobias are our brain’s way of
trying to keep us from harm. However, some phobias are
the results of anxiety and can become obstacles
in your daily life. Technically phobias are
categorized as anxiety disorders and fall into two groups;
specific and complex. Specific phobias usually
stem from a bad experience, but complex phobias stem from
mental or emotional distress. Specific phobias usually
don’t need treatment but complex phobias, like agoraphobia, the fear of being in busy
places, and social phobia do. These phobic opioids can
make you feel more alone and can also affect your self-esteem. Number four, attacks, trouble breathing.
A telltale sign of anxiety is
experiencing a panic attack or anxiety attack. Though both terms are
used interchangeably, they’re different. A panic attack is a sudden
overwhelming surge of emotion such as fear and discomfort. You may feel your chest tighten as your breathing has stopped. You may also feel dizzy or lightheaded. While anxiety attacks
have similar symptoms, they’re a bit different as
they’re the result of symptoms that have been gradually building up. Number five is gastrointestinal disruptions. Gastrointestinal issues
are another sign of anxiety but can also arise independently
of your mental health. While anxiety and gastro
illnesses are mutually exclusive, there is research supporting the theory that anxiety causes
gastrointestinal disorders such as irritable bowel syndrome and studies have shown the comorbidity between anxiety and
irritable bowel syndrome. There’s lots of research that treatment for some gastrointestinal
disorders may involve therapy.
And number six, physiological strangeness. A final sign that you’re
experiencing anxiety is if you feel tingling or numbness usually in your face and limbs, which is the feeling of blood
rushing to your extremities as your fight or flight response kicks in. While blood rushes to our extremities, other areas of your body can feel weak. Tingling and numbing can also
be caused by hyperventilation which indirectly happens
when you’re anxious. Along with the symptoms
listed in this article, there are other ways
anxiety can manifest itself.
Despite its symptoms,
anxiety is manageable. Please reach out to a
medical health professional or a therapist for help. Do you recognize any of
these symptoms in yourself? Let us know when the comments are below. And remember to like and share this video with those who might benefit. As always, the references and studies used are listed in the description below. Take care and thanks for watching. See you next time.
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Welcome to happiness isn’t brain surgery with Doc Snipes: Practical tools to
improve your mood and quality of life. Tonight we’re talking about 10 ways to
deal with social anxiety a lot of people have social anxiety and that’s basically
having unreasonable fears that you know are kind of excessive when it comes to
being in any kind of social situation some people have only social anxiety
when they’ve got to do things like perform or public speaking or something
like that other people have social anxiety when they have to go to work
when they have to be in crowds they don’t like going to the shopping center
or the mall where there are a lot of people around so depending on your level
of social anxiety, some of these things may be helpful to help you work through
and deal with your social anxiety the first is to minimize stimulants
stimulants Reb you up anxiety Rebs you up when you take stimulants if
you drink too much coffee you may feel anxious so if you’re drinking stimulants
before you go into an anxiety-provoking situation you may miss attributing your
anxiety about the social situation when in actuality it was the caffeine or the
nicotine the other thing that you want to do is pay attention when you’re at
some of these events that you’re minimizing your stimulants the other
thing and I’ll you know this is not stimulant alcohol is technically a
depressant but when alcohol starts to wear off about it 30 minutes after you
drink your drink it starts to wear off and there’s an anxiety rebound with
alcohol so if you have high anxiety if you have social anxiety drinking to
quell that anxiety is probably not your best
bet because in the end it’s gonna kind of backfire and bite you in the ass know
your temperament not everybody likes being around big groups of people
I draw energy from being around people so I love being around
groups but my daughter on the other hand is much more of an introvert and she
would prefer to be around you know two or three people at a time she gets
exhausted when she has to be in big groups of people it doesn’t mean
she’s got social anxiety so know what your preference is for being around
people so when you’re developing your self-confidence when you’re developing
your skills when you’re working through social anxiety you’re not putting
yourself in situations that would stress you out anyway so know your temperament
if you’re an introvert when you’re making your exposure hierarchy which
we’re going to talk about it in a minute you’re gonna start with something like
going out for coffee with a friend to Starbucks or maybe even having a friend
over for coffee in your house depending on how bad your social anxiety is and
then you’re gonna work up from there but if you are an introvert you’re never
gonna be relaxed in a group of a large group of people so I just
understanding the difference between being anxious and feeling like
you’re gonna crawl out of your skin and be uncomfortable or have it be very
draining to be in a large group of people who understand your temperament
that’s part of it so you can say you know this is normal I am not the type of
a person who likes to be in a large group of people so it’s going to take some
preparation and it’s going to take a lot of energy but I can do it knowing your
triggers different things trigger anxiety for different people some people
have anxiety when they feel like they’re going to be evaluated so if they’re
doing a presentation for their colleagues or their peers they’re more
likely to be more anxious than if they’re say hanging out with five other parents at a
kid’s play date or something some people have one of their triggers is
authority figures I know whenever I had to present in front of the CEO or in
front of my department chair or whoever gave me more anxiety than
presenting even in front of a class of a hundred and fifty students so it’s kind
of all about what your particular triggers are if the other trigger you
might want to consider the situation you know if you feel like you are on
stage if you feel like you are the center and everybody’s looking at you
that’s probably going to be a lot more anxiety-provoking than if you are mixing
and mingling with other people at a party so know what triggers your anxiety
so thinking about how your social anxiety impacts your life what kinds of
things can you not do or what kinds of things do you find are just terrifying
to keep a list of all of those things starting with the things that only make
you a little bit nervous about things that you would rather you know pull your
eyebrows out then do and start at the beginning start with the things that
only cause you a little bit of anxiety imagine them rehearsing and doing them
in your mind see yourself going through them successfully for example a job
interview or a first date imagine what it’s going to be like what the other
a person is going to say how you’re going to respond and how it’s all going to go
well just keep imagining that until you can imagine it or think about it and you
don’t feel stressed than when you go in to do it it’s going to be a lot easier
once you get past that first thing move on to the next thing that causes a
little bit more anxiety all right start at the beginning again imagine doing it
see yourself going all the way through maybe it’s doing a public speech see
yourself getting dressed for it getting ready for walking out on stage and
delivering the speech and seeing it go well you’re not going to see yourself
tripping and falling you’re not going to see yourself stuttering and stammering
or dropping all your note cards or anything those are the things the cat
strophic thoughts that you have that are likely not going to happen I want you to
imagine it going perfectly rehearse it in your mind until you can do it
literally with your eyes closed then when you go out to do it, it’s going to
be that much easier because you’ve already done it 20 times in your own
head and been successful at it so just do it like you practiced keep a rational
outlook a lot of times social anxiety is caused by catastrophic self-statements
things that you tell yourself people are judging me they’re laughing at me
people are gonna think I’m an idiot um whatever your thoughts are so keep a
list what those thoughts are and write counter thoughts to the people
are judging me well they may be but do you care so if people are judging me
that’s on them if people are laughing at me well at least they’re laughing but in
reality what other reasons could the people have had to be laughing what are
three other explanations for why they might be laughing besides laughing at
you so look at your catastrophic self
statements like I told you before imagining that you’re going to go
out on stage and you’re gonna walk out there you’re gonna trip over your own
two feet and you’re gonna wipe out on the way to do this presentation and
humiliate yourself well that’s pretty darn catastrophic so think about exactly
what is going to happen what are you going to do and how rational how
realistic how likely is it that all these things are gonna happen and you
know if that is one of your fears watch the movie Miss Congeniality because she
is going at as Miss America I think is who she’s trying to portray and she
falls flat on her face and she just picks herself right back up and walks on
and nobody thinks anything of it after that it’s not like a week later or 20
minutes later in the movie, people are still talking about her falling she
did she over it and you know move past it when
you make a big deal out of it when people start to think about it a little
bit more practice breathing when we get stressed we tend to breathe more
shallowly and more rapidly when you breathe slowly and deeply you’re
triggering the relaxation response in your body it doesn’t mean you have to
take those big giant deep breaths as you do at the doctor’s office or
anything that’s overly dramas is it but focus on your breathing if you start
feeling yourself getting an anxious breath in for a count of three hold for a count
of three and breathe out for a count of three and you know again it doesn’t have
to be noticeable that you’re doing it you can do it in a meeting and nobody
will even know but if you can slow your breathing you’ll slow your heart rate
and you’ll trigger the relaxation response to help you deal with your
anxiety sometimes we’ve just got to suck it up and go through things that create
a lot of anxiety for us I remember one place I worked once a month we would
have to get up in front of all of our colleagues and all of the executives and
give a report on how our department was doing I hated doing that I hated being
up there giving this report not because of the content of the report I just
hated being up there in front of everybody and it was no big deal
but it would cause me a little bit of anxiety if I had to do it
so distress tolerance techniques were always useful because it was an
eight-hour meeting so it might be four hours of me sitting there anticipating
going up and having to give my speech so what would I do during the four hours
while I was waiting I would do activities I would listen to what other
people were saying I would make notes I would sometimes go through clinical
charts and sign off on documentation and not pay attention but you know I digress
contributing so if you’re at a party you can’t do it in a meeting but if
you’re at a party for example and used feeling anxious get up maybe help the
hostess out or the host out in the kitchen go around pick up glasses pick
up trash throw things away do something to be helpful to contribute so you’re
not feeling like you’re having to sit there and be on the spot comparisons can
help too you can just kind of blend back into the wall a little bit and compare
how you’re doing to how other people are doing or how you’re doing to how you’ve
done in the past because you’re probably doing better now than you did then
trigger opposite emotions is another way of dealing with distress if you’re
feeling anxious you know bring out the opposite tell a joke find something
funny find a video or something that makes you laugh and share it with other
people because that’ll make you start laughing and feel more relaxed and
release endorphins you can also just push away some of those thoughts that
keep coming into your head I’m gonna make a mistake I’m gonna say something
stupid they’re judging me it’s gonna be awful just push those thoughts away and
Do you know what no I can do this and I’m going to push through the final
the thing you can do in this particular set of distress tolerance techniques is
sensations focus on sensations some people have a rubber band that they snap
on their wrists to kind of help them focus on something else
some people wring their hands I don’t recommend that because you know that
just kind of shows you’re anxious and keeps your anxiety going listening to
loud music you can go into the bathroom and splash cold water on your face
unless it’ll make your mascara run there are a variety of things you can do that you
can also find go and find some coffee because coffee is hot and that focus on
how the coffee feels in your hands when you’re holding the cup focus on the
taste of the coffee that hot sensation will kind of distract you from other
things that are going on so focus and we’re going to talk about one thing at a
time in a minute another set of distress tolerance techniques that can help our
imagery and we’ve talked about rehearsing it before you go to the party
imagine what you’re going to do before you go to the mixer or your in-laws
or wherever it is you’re going that’s potentially going to cause you anxiety
imagine going through it and doing it successfully to find meaning in what you’re
doing so sometimes you know maybe you’re going to your spouse’s holiday Christmas
party and it’s like the last thing you want to do because you don’t like big
crowds like that you don’t know anybody but find meaning in it why are you doing
this is because it’s helpful to your spouse you’re providing support and you know
maybe you can find somebody that has similar hobbies or something before you
go if you’re going to your spouse’s Christmas party for example try to find
out who might be at the party that shares similar hobbies and stuff I know
my husband works with people who do organic gardening and who are kind of
health-conscious I won’t say fanatical but health-conscious like I am and we
like to use a lot of lentils and beans and cook in health healthy ways so
identifying those people I can’t talk about what they do at work because
that’s just way out of my wheelhouse and over my head but I can talk with them
about these other things so I’m not just standing there looking around and feeling
like I’m out of place so find meaning in what you’re doing and try to find
connections and commonalities with other people before you go and then you know I
can have I would have my spouse introduce me to one of the people that
does organic gardening for example and then we could start talking once you get
more comfortable then you’re going to feel more at ease walking up to people
and going hey you know and striking up a conversation and finding out
commonalities if you’ve got children a lot of other people have children so
you can talk about your kids or if you’ve got pets you can talk about your
pets your dog’s people love their dog’s prayer can help sometimes you
just got to take a breath and say a prayer before you walk into that
situation to kind of get you through and get you going
practice relaxation if you’re feeling stressed just again don’t
have to get out of your chair you don’t have to go anywhere but practice tensing
and releasing your muscles clenching your fists and releasing your hands and feel
the difference between tense and released and then tense kind of your
whole upper body and you don’t have to do it like this because that’s obvious
but you can kind of tense up a little bit and relax and feel the difference
between stressed and relaxed and then when you do it one more time you tense
and when you relaxed you feel all the stress just draining out of your body
out of your fingertips so that’s a kind of guided relaxation to help you when
you’re kind of on the spot one thing at a time when you’re in a
the social situation there is a lot of input there is a lot of stimulus going around
a lot of people focus on one thing at a time if you start getting overwhelmed if
you’re at a party maybe you can go over and get something to eat and focus on
talking to one person at a time or focusing on what you’re eating or you know find
something that you can focus on so you’re not trying to keep up with
everything that’s going on takes a mental vacation or a physical vacation
sometimes you just got to excuse yourself and go to the bathroom and hide
out for five minutes and that’s okay you know sometimes you need to go somewhere
where you know nobody’s watching and you can take those good deep breaths and go
you know I got this it’s gonna be okay I’m doing fine give yourself a pep talk
look realistically over how the night’s gone and the majority of it has gone
okay yeah they’re probably going to be some hiccups and Pho paws here and there
and if there are that’s okay it happens to everybody nobody is perfect at their
social interactions all the time and that’s okay
but look over it realistically to realize that tonight is going
okay it may not be going the way you had hoped it would but it’s going okay
there’s nothing catastrophic ly wrong and remember that we are a lot more
important in our minds than we are in anybody else’s mind so when we make a
the mistake we will remember it for six months but other people probably forget
it’s about sixty minutes later it’s just you know even if it’s something like you
walked out of the bathroom and you had your dress tucked in the back your
panties did that before trusting me not something I want to repeat
but I would bet if I asked any of my staff now yes I did it at work about
that incident they’d look at me and go no I don’t remember that I remember it
because it was mortifying but nobody else cared they were passed it by
the next day nobody thought anything about it so remember that a lot
of stuff that seems huge and glaring to you is only because it happened to you
and other people are so involved in their own life they probably didn’t
notice or won’t remember that fear is an acronym standing for false
evidence appearing real so always examine the evidence if
something happens and you think it is the absolute worst thing in the world
and you’re just gonna die how likely is it that that’s true is it the worst
the thing in the world is people judging you so look at the evidence how do you
know this is going on for certain and what are other explanations for what
might be going on mentally rehearsing those stressful social situations get
ready for it the job interview the first date and for some people even going to
the doctor can be a stressful social situation because they get kind of a
white coat syndrome where they don’t they’re afraid to speak up to their
doctor, I found that if there is a certain set of things that you need to
say like if you’re going in to talk to your boss or you’re going in to talk to
your doctor sometimes it’s helpful to write down a list of the points that you
want to cover with them or the symptoms that you’re having
so you can go over it and make sure you get everything said and you don’t end up
kind of getting shut down when I used to go have supervision with my boss you
know I only got supervision for one hour once a week and that was if I was lucky
so I would go in with a whole laundry list of things and it could be the stuff
that I was upset about or having difficulty with and I could have a
laundry list and just go through it and mark it off so I would make sure that I
got everything said and I covered and we were on the same page by the end of the
the meeting finally practice mindfulness and focus on your surroundings to know how you
feel if you start feeling anxious a step back and ask yourself why am I anxious
what do I need right now to feel calmer try to do this periodically
so you don’t wait until your anxiety is off-the-charts focus on your
surroundings look around to find places and little niches that you might feel
comfortable maybe there’s somebody else sitting over in the corner and you can
go sit down with them and chat maybe there’s an empty seat somewhere that you
can just go sit down and take a breath or go out on if it’s a patio or a party
maybe you can go out on the patio for a few minutes oftentimes there’s somebody
sitting out on the patio trying to get a little peace so you
can find a situation that’s less anxiety-provoking two little bonus things I’m
going to tell you with social anxiety a lot of times people are afraid that
they’re going to offend someone and these days it is so easy to offend
people so what I tell my clients and my kids and what I try to remember myself
is before I speak or when I’m talking to people if what I’m saying is true
helpful important necessary and kind then you know
there’s probably a good chance I won’t offend them look on your social media
look at the comments people leave on other people’s posts and stuff and see
if they meet these criteria true helpful important necessary and kind 90% of the
time the answer is no well I won’t say that much about 50% of the time the
the answer is no there are a lot of times people will just say nasty stuff that
didn’t need to be said and that can be offensive but if you practice and
focus on making sure what you say is true helpful important necessary and
kind and if you’re following me that spells out think then the chances that you’re going to
offend somebody are greatly reduced if the person still gets offended it’s
probably more about them because you aren’t trying to offend them you weren’t
trying to be hurtful you are trying to be helpful and kind therefore it may be
more about their stuff whether they have an issue with you or they have an issue
with something else that’s going on and you just happen to be kind of in the way
it’s more about them you can’t control how they react to things it’s their
responsibility if you’re being nice and they take it the wrong way and they get
offended that’s their perception and they need to work on that the other
bonus that I’ll tell you to take away is something I got from dr.
Seuss and I
love something he says about the judgment of those whose minds don’t matter and those
who matter don’t mind so the people who matter in your life they’re going to be
people judge you all the time that’s just the way humans are but those who
mind what you do those who get offended those who judge you all the time they
don’t matter the people who matter to you don’t mind if you make a mistake
don’t mind if you’re not perfect they probably embrace all of your
imperfections so before you approach a social situation remember not
everybody’s gonna like you that’s just it’s not possible to have everybody like
you so remember the wise words of dr. Seuss those whose minds don’t matter and
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Panic attacks can affect your quality of life and drag you down from doing the things you enjoy. If you have ever experienced a panic attack, then you know the feeling of terror that accompanies them, as well as the crippling fear that it might happen again. If you are one of the three million Americans who have had multiple panic attacks, you should know that there are ways to control panic attack symptoms. The symptoms are similar to a heart attack, and a sensation that you have lost touch with reality and an impending dread often accompany the physical symptoms. While you might end up in the emergency room the first time, this is not adequate treatment. To control panic attack symptoms, you need to help prevent them in the first place. Options One option is to consult a physician about getting treatment Some medicines on the market can help panic attack sufferers from reoccurrences. Another option available is cognitive-behavior therapy. This method utilizes visualization, breathing,g and relaxation techniques to fend off the symptoms of a panic attack when they occur. Another option that some sufferers choose to help control panic attack symptoms is to face their fears. For some, gradually confronting the situations that cause panic can help eradicate them. There is a method to this treatment, and it should be undertaken under the care of a physician or therapist so as not to aggravate the problem. Chronic panic attacks, known as Panic Disorder, are a serious medical condition that can drastically affect the quality of your life. Panic Disorder is not necessarily permanent and can be treated successfully. Knowing that there are treatments out there though should help you can beat those fears and control panic attack symptoms! Results By using the options that work for you to help control your panic attacks, you can live a life that is free of suffering from constantly being consumed with fear of your next panic attack. You can also use what you know to help others that may be in the same position you were in before you found the proper help. Of course, encouraging someone to see their doctor is the best way to go, but because many people are afraid to seek professional help or because they are ashamed of their condition, helping them to learn breathing exercises and the like that have worked for you is something that can offer them at least a small amount of relief. Your doctor is your best choice always when you are having trouble. He can make a correct diagnosis and get you started in the right direction to end your anxiety attacks. I have used a book and audio that have made a difference. You can find the link at the top of my website. Panic Attacks Panic Attacks and Depression – You Shouldn’t Have to Suffer Panic Attacks Today depression and panic attacks a very common for millions of people around the world. On average, fourteen million Americans suffer from major panic attacks and depression. Three million Americans suffer from panic disorder. It is very common for those with major depression to also have panic attacks and elevated anxiety levels. Because panic can mimic other disorders, such as hypoglycemia, heart problems, asthma, and many more serious conditions, sufferers who have not been diagnosed with panic disorder can feel afraid and tentative about their health. If you are having panic attacks, but are unaware, and are also suffering from depression, then the two can aggravate the other until proper treatment is realized. As depression is another difficult illness to properly diagnose and treat, it is imperative to actively find a treatment that works for you. The Results of Panic Attacks and Depression People suffering from depression will feel bored, sad, hopeless, sluggish, alone, and unloved. They may suffer from insomnia and will have elevated anxiety levels. Because of this elevated anxiety, people with panic attacks and depression will often experience panic attacks on a normal basis. When someone has more than one panic attack, they can develop a phobia of the situation, or a fear to return to a specific place. Add in an already depressed view of the world, a worry that others find no worth in you, and you have a recipe for one miserable person. Healthcare professionals are learning that instances of panic attacks and depression coinciding together are more common than thoughts. While not everyone who is depressed will have panic attacks, many people who suffer from panic may very well be depressed. There are certain SSRI antidepressants on the market today that are specifically recommended for use in treating anxiety along with depression. Many people who suffer from depression do not know it. When someone who experiences panic attacks and depression has a panic attack, it can be very frightening. Oftentimes, people in the middle of panic attacks feel like they are going to die, or that they will lose their minds and “go crazy”. This can prevent some from seeking treatment, as they do not understand what is happening to them, and fear the worse. When the panic attack is over and the sufferer feels normal again, they may not think anything of it until it happens again. Many people who suffer from panic attacks do not realize that they are not alone. A person who is experiencing panic attacks and depression may feel especially overwhelmed and will aggravate the situation by worrying and inflating the scenario in their mind. They may feel hopeless to the point where they cannot see how treatment would be effective. Treatment for depression with panic attacks is available and very effective. Through any combination of medication, cognitive-behavior therapy,y and relaxation techniques, sufferers can gain control of their lives back. The first thing you always want to do is see your doctor and discuss the symptoms and trouble that you are having. Your doctor will get you on your way to resolving your trouble. Feel free to visit some of my sites or bookmark one Stop Anxiety Attacks and Stop Anxiety Now
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Stress shows up differently for different people, each of us copes differently and it’s also important to recognize that everyone,’s, circumstances are unique. Some of you may be able to go home for spring break to visit loved ones, and some of you may not due to travel restrictions or limited resources.
During this time, you want na be mindful of what forms of self-care work for you.
Some forms of self-care that you may practice may be focused on mental well-being, physical well-being, or social well-being.
Examples of mental well-being and self-care include limiting your social media exposure.
You want to take time to unplug, Make sure to stay informed, but don’t overload on social media.
Other forms include focusing on what’s within your control and avoiding excessive worry.
Some tips for managing worry, include scheduling, and worry time, Write down your worries cross off what’s not within your control, and throw it away That’ll help you feel calmer, less overwhelmed, and more in control.
Another way to practice self-care is to focus on physical well-being.
Moving your body by engaging in physical activity.
You may want a go for a walk and get some fresh air When you do that. You want a focus on your surroundings, Use your five senses to be in the present moment That’ll help you feel more grounded and calm.
You may also want a check in with yourself and your breathing, Make sure you’re, taking deep, full breaths.
Other ways to focus on physical well-being include sleep, Develop a sleep routine, that’ll be relaxing and calming, For example, 30 minutes before bed do not use any electronics.
You may want a take a warm bath Write down five things.
You’re grateful for it.
Listen to a guided meditation relaxation practice Drink some tea, Whatever it may be, find something that is relaxing and calming That’ll.
Allow you to get better sleep.
Nutrition is important too.
You want na eat balanced meals, Make healthy food choices because that’ll boost your mood and make you feel more energized.
You also want a stay hydrated Social wellbeing is important as well. While you may want to isolate and socially withdraw during this time.
Given the circumstances, it is very important to stay connected, Find creative ways to stay connected to your loved ones.
For example, you may send them a note or a message expressing your gratitude.
Your appreciation Make a weekly phone call or FaceTime call to your loved ones.
You may also engage in random acts of kindness That also help to boost our mood and lifts our spirits.
During this time, I want a emphasize the importance of practicing kindness.
We want to be kind towards one another.
We want a check our assumptions and ways to do that are remaining curious and being compassionate towards others, What they may be going through and how we may be able to support them.
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CEUs comm slash counselor toolbox I’d like to welcome everybody to today’s
presentation on a strengths-based biopsychosocial approach to recovery from bipolar disorder
so we’re going to talk a little bit about what bipolar is what causes it and how to
mitigate it by helping people understand their own bipolar because what triggers it for John
may not trigger it for James help them identify their warning signs because bipolar episodes
just like depressive episodes and manic episodes often don’t come from completely out of the
blue if we look backward we can see where the person was beginning to resume some unhealthy
lifestyle habits that were making them more vulnerable well look at the symptoms
of depression and mania and real quickly review bipolar one versus two and look at some
co-occurring disorders and interventions another thing I added to this presentation was a little
a short piece on differential diagnosis because I often see people who are diagnosed either only
with bipolar when there’s also attention deficit disorder present or they’re diagnosed with anxiety
when it’s bipolar disorder so we’re going to talk about how people might mistakenly diagnose
one for the other and how to kind of try to ferret that out a little bit one way is using the online
assessment measures there’s another measure we’re going to talk about in here too so we care
because uncontrolled bipolar puts people at risk for suicide addiction and addiction relapse you
know even if somebody doesn’t have an addiction when they are in a manic episode they can be more
likely to engage in potentially self-injurious behaviors, not for self-injury but
just because they’re looking for even more of a rush and when they’re in a depressive episode
they can also be at risk for addictions because they’re looking to feel better in some sort
of the way so a lot of it we’re talking about well with we’re talking about self-medication with
mania we’re just talking about what they perceive as something exciting and people are often in manic
episodes engage in extreme risk-taking behavior we don’t want our clients to go down any of these
paths so we want to be aware of what might trigger it and I don’t think I talk about it anywhere
else in the presentation, it’s important to be aware that for suicide when somebody is coming
out of a depressive episode who somebody who’s bipolar well or unipolar depression but when
they’re coming out of the depressive episode and they start having more energy is actually
when they’re at greater risk of suicide than when they’re at their absolute bottom not saying
they’re safe at their absolute bottom but we don’t want to get complacent when somebody starts
feeling better and assume that they’re out of the woods with poorly controlled bipolar disorder
can leave people feeling hopeless and helpless if they have bipolar one and they have at least
a full-blown manic episode but maybe more they may not mind that they may because it disrupts
their life the depressive episodes tend to be when patients usually present when they’ve got
bipolar disorder so we want to look at what’s going on with them and help them see how the
bipolar disorder disrupts their life because that can go a fair way to encouraging medication
and treatment compliance well controlled bipolar like well-controlled addiction helps a person feel
happy optimistic motivated and energized the key is helping them manage their vulnerabilities you
now take care of their body so they have enough energy to do things but also make sure
that they get their medications right some of the mood stabilizers can be flattened and make
people feel more exhausted and it’s important it’s vital that they openly communicate with their
psychiatrist or physician about the medications if they are if the side effects are so significant
is impairing their quality of life which means they’re likely to be medication non-compliance so
we want to make sure that if they’re feeling too flat that they talk it over with their medication
provider bipolar disorder is a brain disorder you know sometimes with like depression we can look
for situational causes for anxiety we can look for some situational causes we can look for some
cognitive stuff we know in bipolar disorder something is going on in the brain that causes
unusual shifts in mood energy activity levels and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks many
very successful let me go back to that so just to be clear and generalized anxiety panic disorder
depression they also can have a brain organic component to them but not always sometimes you
can have those from a situational cause whereas in bipolar disorder we know that there’s something
that’s not quite right with the balance of the neurotransmitters for most people with bipolar
okay so who has bipolar lots of people you’d be surprised Mel Gibson demi Lovato Axl Rose, Britney
Spears Jean-Claude Van Damme Marc Vonnegut and Amy Winehouse to name just a few that I came
across you know doing some internet research Lee Lee Thompson young and Robin Williams were
also, both are quite successful and revered in their fields despite if you want to call it losing
their battle with bipolar so why do I bring that up because a lot of times people when they
are given a diagnosis of bipolar disorder feel very isolated feel very unique and I want them to
realize that there are a lot of really successful awesome people who have bipolar disorder you
know it once it’s managed then people can live a stereotypical life I work hard to
avoid the word normal because what’s normal for one person may not be for another but we want
to look at they can have a very high-quality active life bipolar disorder is caused by imbalances and
neurochemicals especially dopamine serotonin and norepinephrine the imbalances could be genetic or
triggered by sex hormone changes or stress hormone changes so they may be at you know steady state
but when there’s a particular stressor some sort of change or you know other thing and it depends
on the person, it can throw those neurotransmitters out of balance enough that it causes either a
manic episode hypomanic episode or a depressive episode more than one in 50 adults are classified
as having bipolar disorder in any 12 months so I encourage people when they’re walking around
the store when they’re walking around the grocery store when they’re at church when they are sitting
in a meeting at work with you know 50 other people at least one person in that group has bipolar
disorder and or will be diagnosed with it in the year I want them to recognize how common
it is I want them to start looking around and thinking when they’re driving down the road on
rush-hour traffic you know every 50th car they pass somebody in those 50 cars probably had
bipolar disorder to help them realize again it’s not us weird diagnosis is pretty
doggone common among patients seen in primary care settings for depressive and/or anxiety
symptoms twenty to thirty percent are estimated to have bipolar disorder a lot of times primary
care physicians misdiagnosed bipolar disorder as either generalized anxiety or unipolar depression
so it’s you know eighty percent of the time seventy eighty percent of the time they’re right
but the other twenty to thirty percent you’ve got this person who is going to continue to struggle
and get frustrated because the treatments for generalized anxiety and depression are
generally, SSRIs and SSRIs can trigger mania so it can make the mood lability worse bipolar
the disorder is still under-recognized primarily due to misdiagnosis as unipolar depression and
that’s not just in primary care that’s also in you know our field because if we see somebody who
has unipolar depression you know they may not have had a manic episode yet likely they have but they
may not have had a manic episode yet or they may not report it or if it’s a hypomanic episode they
may not note that as something problematic and yes diagnosis of mental health conditions
is out of the scope for a lot of GPS and a lot of them will tell you that a lot of them will say
If you’ve been diagnosed before I can help you continue your medication but there are so many
nuances to psychological diagnosis I want you to get an evaluation from a psychiatrist in
order to better make sure that we’re getting you started on the right path because nothing is
more frustrating to somebody who is struggling and again generally they present in a depressive
episode nobody is nothing is more troubling for somebody who’s presenting and struggling then
getting on medication and not feeling like it’s working is one of the things they see and I’m jumping
ahead of me is when somebody who has bipolar disorder is started on an SSRI one effect could be
to set off a manic episode another effect could be to have rapid improvement and you know it
takes four to six weeks for the SSRIs to get in there but they tend to have rapid
improvement in days unfortunately that improvement doesn’t last and then they tend to go back into
a depressive episode and they start to feel even more defeated I want clients to understand us
if they start talking about that pattern where they’ve been on antidepressants and it works
for a little while but then it doesn’t anymore you know that may just be the wrong medication
for them, their case is not hopeless so we know the symptoms of depression apathy feeling down
empty hopeless low energy decreased activity sleep changes worrying difficulty concentrating
forgetting things a lot of changes in eating habits and feeling tired or slowed down how is this
different than Low Energy I’ve had clients ask me this before and what I try to the way I try to
differentiate is energy is your desire to get up and do things and feel like you can when people
are feeling tired or slowed down it almost feels like they’ve got a 50-pound rucksack on their back
or their arms and legs feel like they’re just lead and it is exhausting to even get up and walk
across the room go to the kitchen go outside so there’s a difference there’s energy to do things
and then there’s just feeling like you’re filled with cement mania people feel very up high or
elated now after people come out of a depressive episode even unipolar depression there’s a period
of mild very very mild euphoria and we don’t want to mistake that for hypomania or mania they’re
just feeling good they’re like oh my gosh I see the Sun again I see colors how awesome is this and
then you know it kind of levels out but you don’t have a crash it’s just kind of a good and
then a-ok contentment people in a manic episode have a lot of energy and increased activity levels
they often feel jumpy or wired you know like they can’t settle down they want to sometimes but they
can’t they’re wide awake and they’re just looking for something to do they have trouble sleeping
may talk fast about a lot of different things so they’re jumping around and when we talk
about ADHD in a minute, we’re going to talk more about these symptoms they may agitate irritably
or touchy not everybody who’s manic is in a good mood so they can be manic but agitated
they feel like their thoughts are going fast and think they can do a lot of things at
once people especially in a hypomanic episode often find themselves taking on three four five
six projects and not being able to complete them you know when they come out of their hypomanic
In the episode, they’re like oh my gosh what did I get myself into but there’s no sense of time in a
manic or hypomanic episode and they can especially in a manic episode engage in risky and reckless
behavior so mixed bipolar includes symptoms of both manic and depressive symptoms at the same
time which can be confusing to clients they’re up they feel like they’re wired but they
have no their flat they have apathy and just that lack of pleasure and anything they may feel
very sad empty and hopeless and energized bipolar one now that big difference is bipolar one has at
At least one full-blown manic episode if there hasn’t been one full-blown manic episode then we’re going
to look for bipolar 2 where you have hypomania and major depressive disorder bipolar one can have
either major depressive disorder or persistent depressive disorder so the big difference is if
there’s a manic episode there they’re number one bipolar one patients experienced depressive
symptoms more than three times as frequently as manic or hypomanic symptoms so yeah when they
hit a manic or hypomanic period it’s not a wonder they feel pretty good and they don’t want it to
go away if they experienced it three times more often bipolar 2 patients experience depressive
symptoms approximately hold your horses 39 that’s not a mistake 39 times more often than
hypomanic symptoms so people with bipolar 2 can have 39 depressives before a manic episode now
unfortunately, the body is not that consistent where we can go okay 38 39 you’re due for a manic
episode but we do know that both types of bipolar depression are experienced a lot more frequently
than mania or hypomania so a common misdiagnosis is generalized anxiety disorder how do you
differentiate because some people when they get anxious get revved up and they feel
like they’re wired and they can’t sleep the goal-directed activity and generalized anxiety
the disorder is often related to an anxiety theme like if they think that there’s a problem with
their finances or if they’re you know whatever they’re worried about their activities and their
thoughts generally race in that direction they’re not all over the place they’re pretty directed in
more or less and their mood is often irritable and energetic versus elated now again just because
somebody is irritable doesn’t mean it’s the anxiety we want to look specifically at what is causing
the sleep disruption and what are the themes of the thoughts that the person is having the racing
thoughts because if you know something’s going bad at work you hear there’s going to be layoffs
somebody can get anxious and go well if I get laid off then I’m going to lose my job if
If I lose my job then I’m not going to be able to pay the house payment and I’m dead a debt a debt
it and go in this rapid cycle of catastrophe and get themselves all worked up and then not sleep
then they start trying to figure out okay what I need to do to make sure I can pay
the house payment what do I need to do to make sure I can do this so anxiety disorder pretty
focused ADHD approximately 60 to 70 percent of people with bipolar disorder also have ADHD and
20% of people with ADHD have bipolar disorder so you can draw your own Venn diagram if you
want the take-home message is we don’t want to assume that they’re mutually exclusive because if
you’ve got somebody with bipolar disorder you can get that controlled but they’ve still got the ADHD
symptoms going on over here they’re going to feel often feel frustrated now what’s the difference
people with ADHD often have a hyper focus that’s one of the hallmarks this may happen on a deadline
pressure or when wrapped up in a compelling book project or video game and so you can you can
see where there’s a trigger for it hyper focus may cause a decreased need for sleep and look like
increased goal-directed activity but is often short-lived in people with ADHD who
feel exhausted when the hyper-focus fades so we want to look for number one was there something
that triggered this hyper-focus could be a video game could be an awesome book or even
a Netflix marathon whatever it is and once that hyper-focus faded did they feel exhausted
if so we’re probably looking more towards ADHD than bipolar a manic episode is independent of
external circumstances you know it’s not where somebody gets a project and it sends them into
In a manic episode, there’s a lot less control and predictability in people with bipolar disorder
and people with bipolar often want to go to sleep or relax but describe the feeling as if they can’t
wind down which can go on for a week or more so we’re looking at duration we’re looking at what
triggers it if they report let’s go back to here sometimes having manic episodes that there was
no trigger and they lasted a long time but they also report manic goal-directed activity under
deadline pressure or you know they can have all these symptoms which means you’re looking at ADHD
and mania or bipolar disorder together potentially in ADHD people often interrupt or talk too much
without noticing because they miss social cues or because they lose focus on the threads of
a conversation because their minds going six ways till Sunday I had a friend of mine one time
who had ADHD she was in graduate school with me and she gave a presentation on it one time and we
were talking and she was presenting and as she was presenting somebody started flicking the lights on
and off and all of us were looking around at each other going this is annoying and then a little
while later you know 30 seconds or a minute later somebody turned on the radio not loud but
low in the background and we’re all looking at each other and then she started doing something
else after that oh she turned on a fan so the fan was oscillating and blowing in our faces and and
finally, she’s like is this annoying and we were like yeah that’s annoying it’s hard
to concentrate and she said this is what life is like for somebody with ADHD many times because
we have difficulty filtering out what’s important to pay attention to and what’s not so we’re paying
attention to everything so that made it a lot more understandable to me which was helpful later when
my son was diagnosed with ADHD because you know it helped me tailor his learning environment
so people with ADHD kind of get lost and they’re paying attention so much that they
can miss the social cues people experiencing manic bipolar episodes are often very aware that they’re
changing topics quickly and sometimes randomly but they feel powerless to stop or understand they’re
quickly moving thoughts so they’re just trying to keep you in the loop in everything and they
may notice that you’re getting uncomfortable or irritated or impatient but they don’t feel like
they can stop racing thoughts you know all these kind of go together but kind of not people with
ADHD report racing thoughts that they can grasp and appreciate but can’t necessarily express
or record quickly enough think about the time you got excited about something and you just
had all these ideas whenever we get a new grant that comes in I’m in charge of or I used to be in
charge of writing the grant so I get the grant and I’d read through and I start identifying all the
different things that we could do to you know get this grant and it would be hard for me to
keep my pencil going fast enough to keep up with my ideas and you know I don’t have an and you
know that was perfectly normal but I was excited and so my mind was racing people with ADHD can do
this a lot you know not just because of a grant coming in people with mania the racing thoughts
flash by like a flock of birds overtaking them so fast that their color and type are impossible to
discern I loved this explanation because it’s just like you have this whole massive bird coming
in and then going out and you didn’t have a chance to even notice what they were people with with
mania often feels that way they don’t can’t grab any of those thoughts and hook on to them they’re
just in and out so helping people differentiate to make sure that if they’ve got anxiety and bipolar
if they’ve got anxiety and ADHD and bipolar bless their hearts that were attending to all of their
presenting symptoms and issues so what do they do to treat bipolar well we’re going to get down into
that in a minute sorry got ahead of myself things that can trigger a bipolar episode medications
antidepressants as I said can propel a patient into mania captopril which is an ACE inhibitor
something that’s used for high blood pressure can also trigger a bipolar episode corticosteroids
certain immunosuppressant medications levodopa which increases dopamine you may see patients
with schizophrenia or Parkinson’s taking web dopa and methylphenidate or dexmethylphenidate
which are ADHD medications all of these different categories of medications can potentially trigger
a bipolar so do they trigger it in every single person no so that makes it even more difficult
but it is important to be aware if somebody has bipolar when they start taking medications
that they need to be conscious and cognizant of their symptoms so they can you know identify
early onset of a depressive or a manic episode circadian rhythm desynchronization can trigger
or look like bipolar disorder hyperthyroidism can look like a manic episode that means too much
thyroid you know a lot of times we talk about hypothyroidism and depression hyperthyroidism
gets people to revved in children mania can be misdiagnosed or look like oppositional defiant
disorder and substance use both intoxication and withdrawal but more specifically intoxication can
also, look like mania or depression depending on whether they’re taking stimulants or depressants
so it’s important to make sure that the person when they’re being assessed is substance-free
Do you know what medications they’re on they’ve had a physical to rule out any hormone causes
the thyroid is a hormone and looks at their circadian rhythms if they happen to be visually impaired
that can cause problems in circadian rhythm if they are shift workers that can cause problems
with circadian rhythm so let’s make sure we don’t label something as bipolar and start treating
as such before we’ve ruled out everything else bipolar distinguishing factors and let’s see
let me see if I can get that open for me right now well anyway spontaneous hypomania premorbid
affective temperament particularly hyper thymic or cyclothymic so before somebody had an episode
that they presented with do they have a history of remembering dysthymic is feeling blue
low unhappy hyper thymic is more elated and cyclothymic is rapidly switching Moodle ability
increased mental or physical energy even during depressions family you know you know
we talked about the mixed episode if there’s a family history of bipolar disorder or a good
response to lithium for unipolar depression or bipolar that’s a risk factor or a hallmark
that you might be dealing with bipolar in this client if they have treatment-emergent hypomania
mania or mixed States so as soon as they start medication treatment generally SSRIs they have
an uncharacteristically rapid response followed by a crash again and or they have more than two
failures on antidepressants now we want to look at what that means because antidepressants work
differently for different people, somebody can be on and I’m going to use the trade names here just
because I don’t have all of the generics memorized I’m not promoting any particular trade name but
people could be on Lexapro or Paxil and feel like they can’t wake up people can be on Prozac and
feel like they’ve got more energy some people are on Zoloft and don’t feel any energy change some
people feel lousy but with antidepressants, we want to look at what failure means did it fail to
improve the mood or were the side effects so bad that the person had to switch if this if it was
the side effects that are not classified as a failure because the person wasn’t able to
stay on it long enough for that antidepressant to get in their system now I do want
you to see the mood disorders questionnaire, haha and that’s in this article here but there
are three all of these questions that you can have people just complete at assessment and
it helps you identify if they’ve had a manic or hypomanic episode so have there ever been
a period of time when you are not your usual self and you felt so good or hyper that people
thought you are not the normal self you were so irritable that you shouted at people or started
fights you felt much more self-confident than usual you got less sleep than usual and found
you didn’t miss it you were much more interested in sex than usual spending money got
you or your family in trouble you know you can go through all the rest of the questions and they
identify yes or no to each of these once they do that if they did check yes to more than one of the
above have they ever happened during the same period if yes then again we’re probably looking
at one of the bipolar and finally how much of a problem did any of these cause for you and if it’s
a minor problem then we may want to look for other things this does not diagnose bipolar but it is an
excellent screening instrument to give you an idea about whether you need to look in that direction
have clients keep a life chart ideally for three to six months where they chart their sleep their
dietary habits their exercise their life stressors hormones for women and any bipolar symptoms that
they’re having now when I have clients chart this much I create a really simple fill in the blank
a chart like for sleep number of hours did you feel rested yes or no dietary habits I have them
keep on their mobile device for exercise did you exercise yes or no if so how much for how long you
know really simple things so they can complete the chart in under five minutes otherwise, they’re
not going to do it for the bipolar symptoms I have check blocks you know did you feel depressed
did you have difficulty sleeping yada-yada so it’s easy it’s very very simple for them to fill
out and it’s also simple for me to evaluate when I go through it encourages people to understand
their bipolar because everybody’s presentation is going to be a little bit different have them
identify you know their cognitive patterns and negative thinking patterns that contribute to
their depression and if so how do they handle those in the past when they felt depressed how did
they change their thinking or what they do to help themself be a little bit more optimistic and
also looking cognitively what if they got going for them are they intelligent are they creative
are they you know build on those if somebody is creative you know I’m not so I it’s wonderful
to see creative people but for somebody who’s creating one of the greatest things they can do
to work with their depression is art therapy you know it’s very therapeutic for a lot of people
so find their strengths and use those to help them resolve their current presenting symptoms
physically encourage them to get adequate sleep to avoid opiate and sedative medications alcohol and
any sort of over-the-counter herbs including Jen Singh Sant Sami 5htp without talking to their
the doctor first encourages them to eat a good diet they may already be doing some of this so how much
they change at one time it is gonna vary between the person and what they’re motivated to change
remind them not to change too much at once let’s just do one or two things right now and then you
can work on two more things once you have those under underway situationally have them do
a coping skills inventory to figure out how they cope when things get stressful and have them
identify triggers for their bipolar that what types of situations make you feel depressed what
types of situations have you noticed might seem to trigger a manic episode some people when they
get stressed about something there’s that anxiety it can the stress of that and having the
HPA axis activated can trigger a manic episode for them so encourage them to you know in their chart
they’re going to be keeping track of what might be contributing to triggering and mitigating bipolar
symptoms so if they’re getting good sleep and eating a decent diet their life stressors are pretty
low and they’re not having any symptoms well we know what they can do interpersonally have them
identify supportive friends to help them learn about interpersonal behaviors that trigger them and ways
to deal with those interpersonal behaviors so if when somebody tends to be in a manic episode or
even in a depressive episode if they tend to be irritable think about having them look at what
behaviors trigger their irritability trigger their anger and figure out a plan to deal with
it to minimize the impact that being on one end of the spectrum or the other mood wise
might have on their relationships angers normal irritability is normal don’t get me wrong but when
somebody is in a depressive episode or a manic episode that irritability can be intensified
tenfold and people may be taken aback by it environmentally encourage clients to look around
their environments and look at what they can do to make their environment cheerful calm and safe you
know what that looks like for that particular person those are things that they can do because
it’s you know when you felt calm and safe before what was different or what was the same what helps
you feel cheerful we just recently had the inside of the house repainted because it was time but
I’ve always felt more cheerful, especially during the winter and when there’s less sunlight when I
have like a light yellow color on the walls like straw not bright yellow and that helps me feel
a little bit more cheerful which is in contrast to all the black that I put in there but whatever it
works for me and that’s how I feel comfortable in my environment to encourage clients especially
you know when they’re feeling like they’re heading toward a depressive or manic episode
to eliminate negativity from social media and television media you know if it stresses them out
to watch the news do they have to watch the news you know what will happen if they go for a month
without watching the news and in their real-life environment encourage them to try to eliminate
as much negativity as possible and that can be altering how they deal with interpersonal
relationships that can be looking around and finding things that stress them out and addressing
there are a lot of different things but we want to look at it as biopsychosocial II Romania
we still want to build on strengths and encourage them to become aware of any medications they’re
taking and how those medications affect them this can include stimulants thyroid medications, Sammy
and 5htp encourage them to avoid stimulants when possible and don’t combine them with caffeine
if they put ephedra for example in combination with caffeine that used to be a common
combination in pre-workout supplements that can get somebody revved up and so we want
to make sure that they’re aware of the effect not only on their body but the likelihood
that could also trigger a mood episode have them identify warning signs and
interventions sometimes like I said that for people with bipolar disorder the
depression and/or manic episode may seem like it comes out of the blue and sometimes
it may but 99% of the time when I’ve traced it back with clients they weren’t taking good
care of themselves they were either taking on too much at work or they weren’t getting
enough sleep or they weren’t eating well or you know there had been something that had
changed from when they were doing well and they felt good too when they started feeling
like they were heading down towards an episode some patients may try to identify triggers for
manic episodes to increase those we want to encourage them not to do that because
that’s like driving your car with the RPMs up at five indefinitely that’s not good for your
the car eventually something Bad’s gonna happen so we don’t want them to read themselves up that
much we need to help them find that happy medium where they’re content there are three or four
on a scale of 1 to 5 and they’re feeling good for some clients when they start feeling depressed
they notice thinking changes and have difficulty concentrating this is a warning sign you know they
may not feel completely depressed yet but they may be waking up in the morning going yeah not so sure
I want to get out of it they may have low energy changes in sleeping or eating irritability
sadness negativity resentment withdrawal and environmentally they may notice that they’re in
the area becomes more disorganized or they may just not be caring as much about personal hygiene as these
are all things that they can identify early on and say huh you know it looks like maybe I need to
take a little bit better care of myself and it’s hard for clients it’s hard for a lot of us to
listen to our body and go okay I wanted to do XYZ but my body is telling me that maybe I
need to rest for mania warning signs can include racing thoughts heightened creativity that’s
one that for people to be aware of especially if you’re dealing with somebody who’s naturally
creative they may thrive during this period of heightened creativity and get upset when
you start suggesting that they may need to temper that to stabilize their mood they’re
gonna have to cut the top off the highs and raise the bottom on the lows physically they may have
difficulty sleeping or sitting still maybe may feel elated excited irritable or thrill-seeking
you may have some anger outbursts frustration with others and environmentally what I’ve seen
with patients especially with full-blown mania, it varies on what they do sometimes they are
cleaning like crazy and other times it looks like a whirlwind absolutely hit the room but so it’s
usually extreme so treatment compliance we want to encourage clients to do a decisional balance
back exercise and I broke it down so it’s shorter what are the benefits of eliminating depressive
episodes if the person was no longer depressed how would they feel emotionally mentally physically
and how would it impact their family and friends a lot of times that this one’s easy to fill out
the drawbacks to eliminating depression are this can be harder to fill out because they’re like well
I’ll see any drawbacks okay we can leave that for now sometimes patients come to the awareness
that if they’re no longer depressed they may not get as much attention and people may expect more
of them which is anxiety provoking but this area usually doesn’t have a whole bunch of stuff
in it and then we want to ask them what are the benefits of eliminating the mania emotionally
mentally physically and socially this one’s a little harder not as hard as the drawbacks to
eliminating depression a lot of times clients can see the benefits of eliminating the manic
episodes because they don’t have the periods I mean they have the highs and those are awesome
but they don’t have the periods where they have the lows and they don’t feel like they can do as
much they don’t have the loss of time they don’t kind of come out of it and realize that they’re
completely overwhelmed because when they were in the manic episode they took on 17 things so there
are a lot of things that clients may identify as benefits to eliminating the mania but we also
want to talk about the drawbacks to eliminating it because like I said for some people that’s
when they’re their most creative and if they’re a writer or an artist or a musician this may be
the time when they are feeling like they’re uber selves so they don’t want to get rid of it and
it’s terrifying to them to think that they might not be able to tap into what we can talk about
ways to tap into their creativity when they’re not manic and you know there are techniques that
they can use it to get that focus that they so desire but it depends on the person exactly
what you’re going to use if we don’t address all of these concerns about eliminating their
mania treatment compliance is going to be lower because people will just they’ll miss it they’ll
miss it a lot and they’ll want to feel that high again so general techniques in clot ask
clients how do you deal with it up until now when you felt depressed what have you done this helped
you feel better even for 10 minutes or an hour or half a day you know maybe it didn’t work the whole
time but or it helped you feel instead of feeling just devastated you felt sad you know it helps
you feel a little bit less intensely depressed build on that ask them what they’re willing to do
some clients are gonna look at you and go no I’m not gonna do that keep your
journal no not gonna do that okay so what are you willing to do I tell my clients a lot of times I’m
gonna suggest things that you may not think fit for you or work for you or you’re not going to do
well I’d rather you tell me number one that you’re not going to do it and what I’m more
concerned about is what you’re gonna do instead if you don’t want to keep the journal okay how are
we going to be able to notice changes and find connections between your eating your sleeping your
stress levels and your mood episodes you know help me let’s figure out a way that we can we can
do this and they may come up with something you know I state what it is that I want to
do or accomplish and why it’s important and I say is there another way we can accomplish this
when I work with clients and recovery sometimes they don’t want to go to 12-step meetings okay
if you’re not going to go then what are you gonna do instead because you need to have some social
support you need to have something to do besides sitting alone in your apartment from the time you get
off work until the time you go to work the next day because that’s a dangerous period encourage
clients emotionally to practice mindfulness because it does prevent episodes from sneaking up
if they start feeling run down or tired or off you know sometimes I hear that word I just feel off
okay that’s when you need to stop and check in with yourself and go what’s going on how do I feel
what do I need and mindfulness also encourages behaviors that prevent vulnerabilities when people
check in with themselves they may say you know what I’m really tired today I need to rest and
that’s a good thing because it keeps them from becoming vulnerable and potentially triggering
an episode of stress reduction encourages clients to identify and eliminate or mitigate stressors
so what stressors do you have and they can write them down on the list they can a lot of times if
I’m doing an individual I’ll have somebody write down on our big whiteboard all of their stressors
and then we go through on one by one and say okay can this one be eliminated if so how and the
the client will start making a plan for how they’re going to start eliminating stressors if there’s a
a stressor that can’t be eliminated maybe they don’t get along with their in-laws and periodically
the in-laws come to visit or whatever okay well you can’t eliminate that so how are you going
to mitigate that stressor before your in-laws come what can you do or may it be less stressful
if you go to their house instead of them coming to yours so we talk about different things we talk
about time management because in those manic and hypomanic episodes people can take on too much and
then they feel a little overwhelmed when they’re steady-state and they feel overwhelmed
if they’re in a depressive episode I do want to point out and I think most of us know this person
don’t usually cycle from a manic to a depressive to a manic like that they can have a depressive
episode and then be asymptomatic for anything for months and then have another depressive episode
or a manic episode so it’s important to recognize that most people who are bipolar don’t rapidly
cycle and there are periods of remission or symptomatology in between cognitive processing
therapy can also help people mitigate stressors when they start feeling overwhelmed encouraging
them to identify what thoughts they’re having that are contributing to them feeling stressed
or overwhelmed and then looking for the facts for and against that thought if they’re feeling
like they’ve got too much to do what are the facts for it what are the facts against it if
they do have too much to do then they need to figure out how to address it but this helps keep
people from getting stuck in emotional reasoning where every time they feel stressed or they feel
depressed or they feel anxious they think there’s something to be dysphoric about encourage people
to identify their anger management triggers they differ for everyone they need to develop a plan
for de-escalation and begin addressing their anger triggers to maintain control of their energy
they need to identify if driving in heavy traffic stresses you out and makes you irritable and angry
well ok how can you address those triggers maybe driving a different way or maybe putting on your
favorite music loud in the car or whatever it is that you can do to mitigate that anger anger
takes a lot of energy everybody everybody’s energy is precious but people with bipolar disorder
stress and excess energy drain can potentially trigger an episode so we want to help them
conserve their energy so yeah they’re gonna get angry about some stuff but help them identify
what’s worth getting angry about and using their anger energy for and how to deal with the
rest of it so they have more energy to enjoy the life we’ve been talking about the negatives but let’s
look at the positive they need to infuse happiness have them make a list of what makes them happy and
do more of it or be around it more encourage them to schedule a belly laugh every day and there are
Reddit forums there are YouTube videos there are places they can go to get a good old belly laugh
but it helps release endorphins and release some of the calming neurotransmitters that have them keep
a good things silver lining or gratitude journal and it doesn’t have to be prose you can have them
identify at the end of the day three things three good things that happen that day or three things
they’re grateful for or when things go bad they say I got demoted at my job today alright well
what’s the silver lining to that you didn’t get fired and maybe have less responsibility now I
don’t know but there are different ways you can approach it but encouraging people to be cognizant
and try to embrace the dialectics there’s going to be bad in life but help them focus on the good to
reduce dysphoria mentally address cognitive errors all Arnon thinking focusing on only the positive
or negative using feelings as facts and focusing only on a small piece when something happens maybe
you turned in a group project and your boss sent it back and said uh no try again some people will
take it very personally and focus only on the fact that the boss sent it back with feedback instead
okay it wasn’t just me participating in this project so you know all of us need to contribute
to it again and you know yes it was given back to us but we get a second opportunity so it’s looking
at a bigger piece of the puzzle encourage clients to develop their self-esteem and view failures
as lessons applaud courage and creativity and nurture their inner child I have an inner
the child my inner child comes out a lot more than some people would like to admit or really
like to see but that’s okay you know on Saturday morning it is not uncommon for me to be watching
cartoons in the living room my kids are teenagers I can’t say I’m watching it with them anymore I
like Yogi Bear I’m sorry I’m weird that way but you know sometimes at the end of a long week of
being serious and everything I just kind of need to regress for you know half an hour two hours no
encourage people to nurture their inner child and don’t be afraid to be silly don’t be afraid to
laugh or do something goofy physically increase clients to exercise class to increase exercise
it increases serotonin levels reduces stress helps balance hormones and neurochemicals and
may combat some medication side effects exercise is anything that moves the body gardening cleaning
going to the gym of course walking the dog playing soccer with the kid anything like that so what
is it that they like to do or at least they’re willing to do nutrition provides the building
blocks for the neurochemicals so people need to have quality proteins and a nutritionist
A friend of mine suggested always try to have three colors on your plate at every meal and use
a salad plate that is smaller instead of a dinner plate because it tricks your brain into thinking
that you’re getting more food as Americans we tend to eat way more than we need and try
to avoid mindless or comfort eating when people start comfort eating a lot of times they’re not
being mindful they’re eating to deal with stress instead of acknowledging the stress and dealing
with it so yeah they’re infusing themselves with carbohydrates and fats and getting the serotonin
and dopamine flowing but when all that goes away whatever was causing the stress is probably
still there so they’re either gonna have to stress eat again or deal with it so encouraging
people to be mindful of their eating sleep helps the body repair and rebalance and sleep
deprivation is known to trigger both manic and depressive episodes too much sleep or sleeping
at the wrong times can also mess up circadian rhythms so keeping naps to a minimum of 45 minutes
one time a day, if the person has to take a nap, is important so they don’t get into that deep
sleep and preferably try to avoid naps for most of a 15-minute power nap where you’re
closing your eyes and you don’t ever completely drift off has been shown to increase focus in
the afternoon but naps where you’re laying down and getting under the covers tend to mess
up circadian rhythms, if people are on medication for their bipolar which they probably will be
have them work with their doctor to adjust the dosages and dosage times to fit their schedule so
if they have a medication that makes them feel sleepy maybe they take it right before
dinner so it’s worn off completely by the time they get up in the morning and it’ll be up to the
person to work with their doctor I had one client who took Seroquel and she ended up having to take
it at 2:00 in the afternoon for it to be out of her system enough where she felt alert
when she woke up at 6 o’clock the next morning so it’s gonna differ for different clients again
encourage them to discuss any negative medication side effects with their doctor and not to expect
a pill to do everything you know the pill can help stabilize the moods but if you’re taking this pill
but then you’re still you know pulling the rug out from under it by not sleeping and using cocaine or
or whatever it’s likely the pill is just not going to be able to do it all interpersonally support
groups are really helpful to chat rooms if the person is either in a rural area working shift work can’t
get to an appropriate support group not all communities have support groups that are embracing
of all different types of people so it’s important to recognize that even though there may be a support
group the person that you’re working with may not feel comfortable with the people that are in that
the particular group so chat rooms can be helpful in the know family and friends and I say in the know
these are people who have to understand or have to know that the person has bipolar disorder and be
aware of their warning signs trigger their symptoms which helps so they can be supportive
and facilitative environmental clients can explore things that improve their environment
different pictures a temperature can also be a big thing if you’re too cold or too hot it can
make people irritable certain essential oils can help increase energy such as peppermint rosemary
or lemon calming essential oils if somebody tends to have some anxiety going on lavender chamomile
valerian Valerians kind of they say woody some people think it stinks to high heaven some people
love it catnip is the same way yes stuff you use for your cats you can get it in essential oil
and it’s a sedative type essential oil for humans bergamot it’s a pretty mild smell
rose is helpful rose geranium is a little bit less expensive and frankincense is all supposed
to help with calming so he’s hypomanic having difficulty winding down anxious whatever some of
these may help memory triggering include ginger cloves cinnamon orange and jasmine which works for
one person is not necessarily going to work for another I mean there are studies out there that
show certain essential oils have effectiveness at anxiety reduction and depression improvement but
it’s going to be up to that person and I found that when a person smells something if it
smells noxious to them then it’s probably not something that they need if they smell valerian
and they’re like oh my gosh that stinks okay that’s not triggering what their brain needs their
the brain knows what it needs I do the same thing with my rescue animals you know I let them take a
a good whiff of it and if they like it they’ll stick around and they’ll sniff it some more if
it’s not what they need then they’ll go somewhere else I tried fur for our donkeys when we first
got them into rescue I tried lavender because I thought you know that’ll help them calm down they
hated it they liked valerian so I learned that for them they preferred that particular
essential oil for whatever way it works in the brain and encourage clients to visit a store that
sells essential oils because they have testers and they can sniff them to see which ones work for
they and essential oils also smell different from different manufacturers so it’s important
again for them to figure out places that they can get their essential oils and try to stick with
the same company once they find one that works organization can help another thing that’s
important for people with Bipolar is to manage impulse items when they go into a manic or
hypomanic episode especially and they’re prone to engage in risk-taking behavior or less restrained
behavior car keys need to be somewhere where maybe they can’t access them if they’re known to go out
and drag race or you know drive 100 miles an hour just to see how it feels credit cards that’s a
big one credit cards need to be somewhere some of my clients will freeze their credit cards in
a block of ice so they can’t get to them and they can’t see the numbers to read them and
put them in on the phone this can help prevent unrestrained spending, especially at 2:00 a.m.
or something when the infomercials are on porn sites if the client happens to have an attraction
to porn sites having those blocked because it’s really easy to get sucked into that same thing
with video games and alcohol and other drugs alcohol a lot of people have in their house so
if this is a dangerous impulse item for somebody make sure they have it locked up somewhere so if
they do and have a hypomanic or manic episode they can’t drink the same thing with certain medications
especially the benzos and the opiates if you can keep it locked up somewhere all the better and
during the day keep it light and bright try not to be in an office where it’s dark
some people can’t help it I mean if you’re a nurse and you’re working in the neonatal intensive
care unit it’s going to be dark most of the time and there’s nothing you can do about that
but if you can help it keep the lights on if you don’t like fluorescent lights get lots of stand up
lights that you can put around to keep it bright so your brain knows that it’s time to be awake
co-occurring disorders depression can co-occur with bipolar I mean you can have part
of bipolar is depression so when somebody is in depressive episode suicidality high-risk and
addictive behaviors and self-medication we want to shout for it just like we would for unipolar
depression with mania we want to help the person become aware and look out for explosive anger
which can get them into legal trouble relationship issues etc heightened libido which also can get
them into legal trouble and relationship issues etc and any other risk-taking that they do because
when they’re in a manic episode is like they’re this is a bad idea filter is completely turned off
or it’s switched on the other way and as the let’s try this filter so helping them understand that
when they’re in that manic state it’s important to have safeguards so that when they come out of it they
haven’t done something that they’re going to end up regretting or have to undo so bipolar is caused
by neurochemical imbalances especially among serotonin dopamine and norepinephrine the symptoms
and presentation varies widely depending on the person it’s more important to address each symptom
then to address bipolar as a whole you know we want to look at what symptoms this person
presenting with and how can we help them manage those the medication provider is going to be
managing kind of the bipolar as a whole and trying to stabilize the mood but we want to help them
start addressing their symptoms so they can feel as healthy happy healthy and productive as
possible help them address each symptom identify warning signs and eliminate or mitigate
triggers and vulnerabilities remember that treatment compliance is a huge issue because the mood
stabilizers tend to flatten those highs and people miss the most dangerous times for suicidal
ideation and people with bipolar disorder are when they’re coming out of a depressive episode
or and I didn’t mention this before or during a mixed episode remember mixed they can be depressed
and have high energy both at the same time ensure people with bipolar disorder have a crisis plan
and people who interact with them daily who are aware of their warning signs and symptoms because
sometimes they’re not being mindful and most of us are guilty of not being mindful all the time
sometimes these symptoms can creep up so if they have people they interact with daily
who are in the know and can say you know John it seems like you’re starting to destabilize a
little bit then John can take a look at it people with co-occurring addictions also need to be aware
that a bipolar episode can trigger an addiction relapse and vice versa so they need to be aware
and have an extra-special relapse addiction relapse prevention plan for when their mood
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the neurological system in the body if we have a way of monitoring that killing the pain completely at certain moments when we want just by touching certain parts of the body well let me pose you a question inside there so we can perhaps work as individuals – now that I know I take away wakefulness and not consciousness right make to move towards consciousness and that’s an individual’s decision – may be trained in this particular way so is there some way that we can harness these insights like you have harness these this understanding and use it as anesthesiologist to take care of patients because if we can reduce it – or if we can adapt it I should say reduce it we can adapt it in that way you know that would be very very helpful because we would be using the powers in a way that would control half use the word the brain in a way that would be perhaps more more physiologic I’m not the expert in the subject but because you are asking me the question and say something but you are the expert in anesthesiology I in my simple understanding anesthesia as a process has come into being in this world is existing right now because there is pain pain when it happens to us is a bad thing nobody wants pain but at the same time if there was no pain most people would not even know how to preserve their own body it’s available there is no pain in how many ways they’ve cut it suppose there was no pain in your nose they would have cut it in various shapes it’s part of the fashion there’s no pain at all believe me they would have pulled out into steins and swing it on the street and go you have any doubt about that whatsoever so essentially because there is pain in the body and pain is a protective mechanism because most human beings still don’t have the necessary intelligence even to preserve themselves if there was no pain even if a bicycle comes people step back don’t think this is out of civilisation consequence of pain it was no pain even if a truck comes they would just walk yes they would so because of pain so pain is essentially a protective mechanism for us without it people wouldn’t know how to stay alive how to stay in one piece they would have cut themselves into pieces so but sometimes as what is called a surgery is in some way cutting people up for sure so you it has become a necessity to cut someone how to cut them with minimum amount of disturbance to the system that’s the whole effort so in this effort as you said essentially you’re disengaging different parts of the brain I don’t know if it’s an exact science or it’s generally getting disengaged whichever way is it getting effectively disengage that people go through surgeries without him knowing what happened when something major was done to them their ribs were opened up and rib cage was opened up heart was open up brain was opened up they don’t even know what happened very innocently they wake up after a day or so whatever their amount of time so this is anesthesia how could we use c11 dimension because when when you when we were speaking in the room when you said essentially if I’m wrong please correctly you are monitoring the physiological systems of heartbeat blood pressure and temperature and brainwaves whatever else the physiological factors if I don’t know if it’s even a possibility but if if you find a way to monitor the neurological system ignoring the physiological system completely see the concern maybe the moment you put somebody on the table and start opening the body the concern of a doctor or a surgeon may be that you don’t want him dead on the table so you’re watching his heart wait you’re watching his pulse and you’re watching is all the other parameters I understand and appreciate that concern but instead of okay let’s leave the physiological monitoring as it is but if we have a way I don’t know if there is a way in the medical science if we monitor the neurological system not just the brain the neurological system in the body if we have a way of monitoring that I think the entire art of anesthesia could raise to a different level at a very minimum interference it could happen the cause why I am saying disease there is something called as murmur in yoga and also in what is called as coloring in South India it’s a certain form of martial art Mirman is a way of creating killing the pain completely at certain moments when we want to just by touching certain parts of the body handling body in a certain way so essentially what we are doing is the neurological system we’re shutting it off and there is no pain at all we can go ahead and do what we have to do and only when we release it the pain will come back so using that as a basis I’m saying if medical science has a way of monitoring the neurological impulse as it’s happening and if there is some way to introduce introduced anesthetics in whatever form that you use I don’t all the cocktails that are used but if it is done properly probably I’m just guessing I’m not an expert on this probably with 2% or 3% of your medicine you could still have the same effect on the patient because how do you use any medicine on the body and how you use it on the neurological system I would say 1% of what you use on the muscle if you use it on it now it would produce equal effect but it’s interesting because I think what you’re saying has contact also with the work that we do in the recovery phase and there are people now looking very carefully at cardiac and brain interactions and and they do signal some of these changes and it it’s suggestive I mean that may be more more the body could be engaged in in the way we think and measure and that makes a lot of sense to me actually [Music] [Applause] [Music] you
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