People experience anxiety in different ways. Your idea of how anxiety appears might not always align with how it presents itself. You may not notice traces of anxiety in someone who grapples with it internally and in private. To end the misconception and stigma, we made this video to raise awareness.
It is important to remember to always be kind, as you may never fully realize what others are struggling with when they are alone. If you are dealing with anxiety, know that you are not alone in facing these challenges.
Disclaimer: This video is for informative purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any condition. Please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional if you are struggling.
Want to learn more about anxiety? Watch our video on the little habits you may not know are signs of anxiety: https://youtu.be/QjLOWQqy2MU
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– [Narrator] Hi Psych2Goers. Have you noticed the little things you do when you’re feeling
stressed out or anxious? Like many people, when
you think of anxiety, you may think of someone who
is having trouble breathing or someone who is sweating profusely. But what about the more
subtle signs of anxiety? There are many less
obvious signs of anxiety you may not be aware of. So to help you out, here
are seven little habits you don’t know are signs of anxiety.
Number one. You excessively play with your hair. Have you ever heard people say that when a person is touching their hair, it’s a sign of flirting? While there is some truth in this, it does depend on the situation, the psychological state of the person, and who the person is interacting with. When you’re nervous, you may feel some sort of harmless relief when you touch your hair, but too much of this may
also lead to body-focused, repetitive behaviors, or BFRBs, which consist of a set of disorders like compulsive hair-pulling,
compulsive nail biting, and compulsive skin picking. Number two. You create multiple to-do lists. How many task lists do you have? Sometimes, when you’re an over-thinker, you may forget a lot of the little things, whether it’s buying groceries,
bringing a document to work, or to meet up with a
a friend at a certain time.
Writing your tasks may help
you remember what to do and reduce your overall
anxiety about forgetting them. But too many to-do-lists
may not be helpful either since writing tasks with no prioritization can end up overwhelming us as well. According to a study done
by a senior doctoral student at Carleton University, it is indeed effective to use
to-do lists to plan your day. However, its effectiveness may depend on how much you like
structure and organization. Every year, most people
set New Year’s resolutions, but around 80% of these will get abandoned in just the first two months.
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sleep through the night. Can you sleep well at night? When stressed out, people
with anxiety disorders tend to have a state
of mental hyperarousal, frequently marked by worry, which leads to hypersleep reactivity.
Research also found connections
between anxiety disorders and changes in a person’s sleep cycles. When you’re anxious and
ruminate before sleep, this affects rapid eye
movement or REM sleep, which may induce more unsettling dreams and result in a higher likelihood
of sleeping disruptions. Having nightmares during sleep may also reinforce a negative association between dread and sleep. Number four. You use fear language. Do a lot of your sentences start with, “I’m concerned, I’m
afraid, or I’m worried?” According to a licensed
clinical psychologist, Alicia H. Clark, PsyD PLLC, “The regular use of such phrases “may indicate a deeper problem. “Even though it may sound normal, “sometimes this fear language
can be a sign of anxiety “that is most often brushed off.” Number five. You’re not able to sit still. Can you be still when you’re sitting down? Perhaps you can’t help but tap your foot or scrum around in your chair.
According to Dr. Clark, being restless and unable to sit still can be a subtle sign of anxiety. However, it’s important to note that being unable to sit still can also be a classic example of attention deficit
hyperactivity disorder, ADHD, since sitting down is an
under-stimulating task that is unrewarding to the brain. Number six. You apologize excessively. Do you say sorry a lot? Another sign of anxiety
is when a word of apology comes too often and easily, even when it’s not your fault or when it’s out of your control.
With anxiety, you may find yourself still over-apologizing for the situation. According to Dr. Juliana Breines, an Assistant Professor of Psychology at the University of Rhode Island, “If you’re always hard on yourself “and have a tendency to
beat yourself up for things, “then it’s likely “you’ll also tend to over-apologize.” And number seven, you
forget important details. Are you always told off for
overlooking small details and making small mistakes? Sometimes, when you have anxiety, you may feel overwhelmed with thoughts, such as about how things may go wrong that you end up not paying attention to the things happening around you. This can make you overlook crucial moments in detail that are important. So if you find yourself
missing important details or forgetting crucial
information a lotta the time, it may be a sign of anxiety. What do you do when you’re anxious? Let us know in the comments below.
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family, and welcome back. If you’re new to this channel and by the end of the video
you enjoy our content, do consider subscribing and
joining the Psych2Go fam. Now, let’s begin. Narcissistic victim syndrome is a term that collectively
describes specific and often severe side effects
of narcissistic abuse. Many experts acknowledge
narcissistic abuse can have a serious long-lasting
impact on emotional health, although it is not recognized
as a mental health condition. As a result of chronic abuse, victims may struggle with
symptoms of PTSD or complex PTSD. If they had additional trauma such as being abused by
narcissistic parents. (beeping) (upbeat music) With that in mind, here are
10 signs that might suggest you have narcissistic victim syndrome. Number one, you felt like you
had a perfect relationship with that person in the beginning.
When you’re in a romantic relationship, this type of abuse usually begins slowly and it creeps up on you
after you’ve fallen hard and are in love with your partner. In the early stages of the relationship, this is when the love
bombing usually occurs. They may shower you with
gifts and affection and it can feel very intense. Then slowly, manipulative tactics start to invade the relationship and will replace the love bombing. In the case of narcissistic parents, they might also offer
love, adoration, praise, and financial support, until you do something to displease them and lose their favor. They use tactics such as
gaslighting and silent treatment which can leave you
questioning your sanity. And this is something that sticks with you even after you’ve cut
ties with that person. Number two, you feel like
you’re walking on eggshells. A common symptom of trauma
is avoiding anything that might make you relive
that particular trauma. Whether it be people,
places, or activities that pose a threat to you, you may feel like you’re
constantly worrying and being careful about what
you say or do around people because that is how you used to behave when you were around your abuser.
You may present as
anxious and introverted, especially when in the
presence of other people, though you’re simply
acting out of extreme fear. Number three, you may have
experienced smear campaigns once the relationship ended. When breakups happen, it’s
common for people to take sides. This is no different when it
comes to a narcissistic abuser. They will twist your words and tell their version
of the story to others to try and get them to
feel sorry for them. They can often drum up
support from your loved ones by insisting that they only
have the best interest at heart. Then when you try to talk
about the abuse that happened, your loved ones might side
with the abuser over you. This can drop barriers between you and the people
in your support network and leave you feeling isolated. Number four, you feel
isolated and vulnerable.
When no one will listen
to you or your concerns, this can leave you
feeling very much alone. When you feel alone, you’re vulnerable to further
manipulation from your abuser. They may pull you back
in with fake apologies, a hand of kindness, or by brushing their past
abuse under the rock. This tactic, which is called hovering, is the perfect time to pounce when you’re lacking in support since you are more likely
to doubt your perceptions of the abuse when you can’t
talk to anyone about it.
Number five, you’ve developed
a pervasive sense of mistrust. Are you hypervigilant? Do you worry and get anxious
over other people’s intentions? The gaslighting techniques
used by the narcissistic abuser may have contributed to
how you view the world. And you may find that you have
a hard time trusting anyone, including yourself. Number six, you may
engage in self-sabotaging and self-destructive behavior. Victims often find themselves
ruminating over the abuse. This can enhance the frequency
of negative self-talk and the tendency towards self-sabotage. Malignant narcissists
will try and program you, conditioning you for self-destruction. This could potentially lead you to engage in risky
behaviors such as self-harm or even suicidal ideation. You might’ve developed a
knack for punishing yourself because of the toxic shame you carry, put there by the hypercriticism and verbal abuse of your abuser. If you feel like you’re
lacking any motivation to pursue your dreams and goals, then this could be a result
of narcissistic abuse. Number seven, you may experience unexplained physical symptoms.
Narcissistic abuse can trigger
anxious and nervous feelings that can trigger physical symptoms. The stress of chronic abuse may send your stress
levels into overdrive. As a result, your immune
system may take a severe hit leaving you vulnerable to
physical ailments and disease. You may notice symptoms such
as appetite changes, nausea, stomach pain, muscle aches and
pains, insomnia, and fatigue. Number eight, you may have
issues setting boundaries. The experience of narcissistic abuse can often leave you with
little respect for boundaries. This may be because when you tried to set
boundaries in the past, you may have been met with
challenges from the abuser who gave you the silent treatment until you did what they wanted. Once you end the relationship or gain distance from
a narcissistic parent, you promise yourself that
you won’t answer their calls or physically see them at all.
However, even if you’ve tried to cut ties, your abuser is confident that they will eventually wear you down because you’ve set aside
your boundaries with them so many times before. If you’ve experienced narcissistic abuse, you might also have trouble
setting healthy boundaries in your relationships
with others in the future. Nine, you may be questioning
your own identity. When facing abuse, many people
adjust their self-identity to accommodate an abusive partner. You may have stopped
doing things you enjoy or spending time with friends and family to better appease your abuser. These changes can often
lead to a loss of identity during and after the abuse. It’s not uncommon for
victims of narcissistic abuse to experience dissociation and attachment from the physical world.
Dr. van der Kolk writes
in his book titled, “The Body Keeps The Score” that dissociation is the essence of trauma. The overwhelming experience
is split off and fragmented so that the emotions,
sounds, images, thoughts, and physical sensations
take on a life of their own. Oof! Number 10, you may find
it hard to make decisions. When there has been a negative pattern of devaluation and criticism in your life, you might have very little self-esteem and confidence in yourself. Narcissistic abusers can make statements that imply that you are
unable to make good decisions.
Abusive partners may have called
you stupid, or ignorant, or they might’ve insulted you with a false and affectionate tone. They can manipulate you into believing you
imagine parts of reality making it seem less important
than it is. This type of controlling and deceitfulness can affect the way you
make future decisions. So, did you relate to any of the signs? Let us know in the comments below. I wanted to take a second
to say that I… Um, sorry. Hi, it’s Amanda, the voiceover voice. I’m reading the script for the first time and I related to it.
So I wanted to add a point that, in taking the time to learn about narcissistic
victim syndrome, you’re empowering yourself. Once you know you can grow. Acknowledging the effects of being in a narcissistic relationship is the first step to healing from one. As we close out, we want to say that not all
abuse is linked to narcissism, and not all people with a diagnosis of narcissistic
personality disorder will engage in abusive behavior. However, if you feel you might be a victim of this type of abuse, we encourage you to reach out for help. Talk to someone you can trust, like a good friend, a family
member, or a therapist. It’s not easy to leave
an abusive relationship, but with the right support,
you can move on with your life and start to heal from your past hurts. Like and share this video if it helped you and you think it could
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– [Amanda] Hey, Psych2Goers, do you feel distant from
your emotions, thoughts, surroundings, and memories? This is part of something
called dissociation. Dissociation is a defense mechanism where you unconsciously push away conflicting or threatening emotions and compartmentalize feelings so that you don’t have to deal with them. Within the umbrella of
dissociative symptoms, there are two that help
categorize the experience, detachment dissociation and compartmentalization dissociation.
Detachment dissociation
refers to feeling like you have been taken out of your body. Compartmentalization
dissociation refers to when your mind pushes aside distressing
moments or experiences, this usually results in memory loss. With that said, here are five signs you may be experiencing dissociation. Number one is memory loss. Memory loss is a common
symptom of dissociation. You may find yourself at work or school, but unable to remember how you got there. Memory loss is one of the
quickest symptoms to identify because it’s obvious. The main reason memory loss goes hand in hand with dissociation is that your brain cannot handle whatever is going on, so it switches to autopilot. Dissociation pulls you
outside of your body, hence it’s difficult for you to remember what happens around you
if you’re not there. But these moments of
dissociation don’t always occur when we are frightened or distressed, they could sometimes happen
while you’re doing something. Number two is derealization. Derealization is another
symptom of dissociation, it sometimes feels like a dream where things are
colorless, dull, or blurry. Derealization is distressing and can cause anxiety, but it’s common for those
with anxiety, depression, and other mental illnesses.
However, derealization differs from other psychotic disorder symptoms in the sense that there
is a degree of awareness, you are aware of reality and the feeling that
distances you from it. Number three, feeling lightheaded. There are many reasons why
you may feel lightheaded, but in the context of mental health, dissociation can be a cause. When lightheadedness is paired with another one of the
symptoms mentioned above, the cause is most
likely dissociation. The vestibular system is a sensory system responsible for special awareness and sense of balance, however, when you dissociate, you are not aware of your surroundings. When you come to the sudden realization
of your surroundings, there’s almost a vestibular simulation, and makes you lightheaded.
Number four, not feeling pain. Another sign of dissociation
is not feeling pain. There is research suggesting that dissociation not only
minimizes painful memories but also the physical
pain attached to them. However, the connection
between dissociation and pain is not solely related to trauma. People who experience chronic pain can also experience dissociation. For some who experience dissociation as a result of a mental health condition, the feeling of not feeling in your body can sometimes lead you to self-injure.
Although it makes sense to do something to bring you back into your body, self-injuring is not the best option. And number five, a loss of self-identity. Another aspect of dissociation
is depersonalization, it’s similar to derealization in the sense that you feel like you
are watching yourself. However, depersonalization
makes you feel distant from your mental process, you feel that you are an
observer of your own life. Depersonalization can
occur with other symptoms on this list, it can be a very scary feeling like you don’t have any
control of your body. Some clinicians believe that
extreme stress or trauma can produce depersonalization. So, do you relate to any of these signs? Dissociation can be frightening and, in some cases, intrusive.
It’s not like a physical illness where a diagnosis and treatment are administered via exams, but there is treatment, among them being
psychotherapy, medication, family therapy, and clinical hypnosis. If you experience any of these symptoms, please reach out to a medical health
professional for treatment. Please like and share this with friends who might find some good
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– [Narrator] Hey,
Psych2Goers welcome back. Do you have anxiety or do you know what it
might feel like to have it? If you answered no, then it’s still important
for us to educate ourselves and raise awareness about anxiety and other mental illnesses, so it’s a good thing you’re here. And if you have someone in your life who you think might be struggling
with feelings of anxiety, then it would do you a lot of good to learn more about what it’s
like to live with anxiety so you can help eliminate
the stigma against it and be there for them
in a way that they need. So with that said, here are eight things People with anxiety want you to know.
Number one, anxiety is real,
even if you can’t see it. One of the worst things you
can do to someone with anxiety or any kind of mental
health concern is to invalidate their feelings by saying their anxiety is a choice or that it’s all in their head. Just because you can’t see it doesn’t make their struggle
with mental illness any less real. Number two, anxiety
affects a lot of people all over the world. According to the Anxiety and Depression
Association of America, roughly 31% of those aged
18 years old and above have or will experience
an anxiety disorder at some point in their lives. That means over 40 million
adults in the United States alone suffer from anxiety every year. That makes anxiety one of
the most commonly diagnosed mental illnesses in the world, affecting people of all ages, races, genders, and backgrounds. Number three, people with
anxiety wish they could stop, but it’s complicated. Next time you ask your friend
to just snap out of it, relax, or get a grip on their anxiety, think back to a time when you
got sick or seriously injured. Could you just tell your
body to get over the cold or stop being allergic to something? To heal your bones or cure your infection with the sheer power of will? No, right? If you could, then life
would be much easier for you.
Well, mental illness
is the same way. Living with anxiety is far
from a walk in the park, and it’s not something that someone can just get over in a snap. Number four, anxiety
affects the mind and body. Sometimes our anxious thoughts lead to experiencing physical symptoms like sweaty palms,
trembling, muscle tension, shortness of breath, and a pounding heart. Anxiety is never just in your head. And trying to rationalize it, as kind as your intentions might be when you tell someone there’s
no need to be nervous, tends to make them feel worse, not better. Number five, anxiety has
nothing to do with you or the relationship. One of the reasons why it’s so difficult for people with mental illnesses to have healthy, thriving,
long-term relationships, be they platonic or romantic, is that most people tend to have this very problematic idea that
if you love someone enough, you can make their mental illness go away, that they can be well for
you or change for the better because of how much they love you and how much you love them.
But it just doesn’t work that way because their anxiety has
nothing to do with you or their relationship with you. And just because they feel
anxious around you sometimes doesn’t mean they love you any less. Number six, seemingly random
things can be triggering. Anxiety can be scary, especially when we don’t
understand the exact nature of why and when it happens. A lot of people suffering from anxiety are often triggered by
many different things. Oftentimes, it can be uncomfortable or unfamiliar situations, such as public speaking or
having fights with friends, but it can also be brought out by seemingly random, unrelated things.
Number seven, it’s not your
job to fix those with anxiety. When a friend or family member confides in you about their
struggles with anxiety, they’re doing it because they trust you and feel safe being vulnerable around you. They’re not asking you to fix them or make their problems go away. So just be there for them
like a good friend would, and any support or
understanding you can show will surely go a long way in helping them manage their anxieties.
And finally, number eight,
we are more than our anxiety. Finally, but maybe most importantly, people with anxiety want you to know that they are more than their
struggles with mental illness. They don’t let their anxiety
define them or their life, so you shouldn’t either. And just because someone
struggles with anxiety doesn’t mean they can’t
enjoy themselves anymore, reach their full potential, or have meaningful
relationships with others. Anxiety disorders are also one of the most highly treatable mental
illnesses in the world, so there’s always hope that
things will get better. So if you have anxiety, do
you agree with these points? Did you learn something new? Remember, if you or anyone you know is struggling with anxiety or any other serious
mental health concern, please do not hesitate to reach out to a mental healthcare
professional today and seek help. Did you find this video insightful? Tell us in the comments below. Please like and share it with friends who might find value in this video, too.
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As found on YouTubeAnxiety disorders, phobias, and chronic panic attacks affect millions of people all over the world. Often, treatment consists of medications used to reduce anxiety, but these medications don’t work for everyone. Many people are too afraid to explore the real reason why they have anxiety or they’re too embarrassed to seek medical attention. Instead, they suffer for years struggling to learn how to cope with this condition, alone. More often than not this results in the person avoiding many of the places and activities they once loved because they’re so afraid they’ll have a panic attack in public. If you’re tired of trying new medications that don’t work or you’re looking for an all-natural approach to anxiety treatment, the 60 Second Panic Solution program can help.
Hey, Psych2Goers! Welcome back to another video! How do you deal with stress and sadness in
your life? According to Daniela Kaufer, associate professor
of integrative biology at the University of California, stress plays a very important
role in pushing you to optimal levels of alertness and cognitive performance. However, constantly being under high levels
of stress is bad for both your body and your mind. These are six signs of your psychological well-being
is at risk. ONE. Worrying a lot all the time. Do you feel like you are on high alert all
the time? Are you over-worrying about things that you
can’t control? If you are worrying and fretting more than
usual, chances are that your mental health is at risk. Worrying that turns into anxiety can interfere
with your everyday life. When your mind is under siege with worry and
fear, this can affect your relationships, life at work, and your motivation as well.
TWO. Feeling guilty or worthless. Do you constantly think that you’re a failure? Or think everything wrong that happens in
your life is your fault? Feeling guilty and worthless is indicative
of depression. You might have had very strict parents who
had extremely high expectations, or you might have been surrounded by a group of friends
who constantly made you feel bad about yourself. Such interactions can heavily affect your
mental health and self-esteem. THREE. Having difficulty readjusting to home or work
life. Have you experienced a traumatic experience
and can’t seem to readjust to your home or work life? Experiences such as the loss of a loved one
or natural disasters can have an extremely negative impact on your psychological well-being. According to Jeremy McAllister, from Hakomi
Experiential Psychotherapy, experiencing traumas moves your energy levels away from their natural
baselines to extremes, whether these are high or low.
The reason why you have trouble readjusting
after a traumatic experience is that your body has become used to these abnormal levels
of energy. FOUR. Pulling away from people. How long has it been since you last went out
with your family or friends? If you are starting to isolate yourself from
others, then your psychological well-being could be at risk. You might be dealing with shame or depression
and want to retract from people for a bit to process your thoughts and feelings. Taking time for self-care is perfectly okay. But if you find that you are in isolation
too long, try to get back out there and see some of your friends. You might get stuck in a downward spiral if
you are by yourself for too long. FIVE. Substance abuse. Have you recently started, or increased your
consumption of alcohol or drugs? This can be one of the biggest signs that
your psychological well-being is at risk.
When you use drugs or alcohol in excess to
numb the pain and escape reality, then that is when it becomes a problem. You might think that consuming substances
might make you feel better and help you cope with the problems that you are going through. However abusing drugs and alcohol can impact your
mental health as it can affect your motivation levels, mood, and sense of reality negatively. SIX. Suicidal thoughts. Have you recently started having suicidal
thoughts? This is one of the main signs that your psychological
well-being is at risk. Thinking about suicide is a clear indicator
you are most likely having a mental health problem. Whatever the reason for feeling like this,
you must remember that there are many people out there who are willing
to help you. You don’t need to force yourself to handle
this burden alone.
Call a suicide hotline or seek help from a
mental health professional if you are struggling with thoughts of suicide. Did you relate to any of these signs? Let us know in the comments below. Remember, your psychological well-being is
very important, and your feelings are valid. Please reach out to a mental health professional,
a family member, or a friend if you feel that you are possibly struggling with any of the
signs listed in this video. Please like and share this video if it helps
you and you think it can help someone else, too! The studies and references used are listed
in the description below.
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As found on YouTubeAnxiety disorders, phobias, and chronic panic attacks affect millions of people all over the world. Often, treatment consists of medications used to reduce anxiety, but these medications don’t work for everyone. Many people are too afraid to explore the real reason why they have anxiety or they’re too embarrassed to seek medical attention. Instead, they suffer for years struggling to learn how to cope with this condition, alone. More often than not this results in the person avoiding many of the places and activities they once loved because they’re so afraid they’ll have a panic attack in public. If you’re tired of trying new medications that don’t work or you’re looking for an all-natural approach to anxiety treatment, the 60 Second Panic Solution program can help.
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Have you been wondering if your mental
health is possibly getting worse? Mental health, just like physical health,
affects everyone whether you are suffering from a mental illness or not. Your mental and
emotional health can fluctuate from time to time depending on the stresses going on in
your life. So, it’s always a good idea to check in with yourself and try to gauge the
direction your mental health is going in. With that said, here are ten signs that
your mental health is getting worse. NUMBER ONE. You’re losing interest in the little things. Do your favorite activities suddenly seem meh
to you? If you’ve started to lose excitement for life’s little things, then this is a sign that
your mental health might not be at its best. You might be feeling this way because
of an overload of stress in your life, or you’re feeling overwhelmed with all
of your responsibilities and to-do lists. When you lose interest and don’t enjoy the hobbies
and activities that you once did, this could also be a warning sign of depression.
If you think this
could be what’s happening to you, know that you are not alone, and that help is just around the
corner. Talk with a trusted friend a family member, or a mental health professional to get the
help you need to navigate these troubling times. NUMBER TWO. You get overwhelmed easier. Do you find that you’ve been getting
overwhelmed more often than normal? When you have a to-do list for two
or three tasks, does it feel more like you have ten things to do? When you start to
get overwhelmed easily with everyday things, this could be a sign of worsening mental health.
According to Psychotherapist, Sheri Jacobson, feeling mentally overwhelmed could be an internal
reaction to excessive outside stress. To help cope with this overwhelming feeling, you can
journal, meditate, or practice mindfulness. NUMBER THREE. You don’t feel like
socializing that much anymore. Does it feel more exhausting to
interact with people nowadays? Regardless of whether you’re an introvert,
extrovert, or somewhere in between, we all have a standard comfort level
when it comes to social interaction. If you feel yourself slipping below your comfort
level, pay attention to this.
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day? When you have an irregular sleep schedule, this could signify increased stress in your
life and a decline in your mental health. If you’re struggling to regulate your sleep,
you can try setting up a routine to wake up and go to bed at the same time every
day.
This will get your body back into its regular rhythm of sleep and wake cycles,
therefore no longer causing sleep disturbance. FIVE. You always feel drained. Despite getting enough sleep and eating well,
do you constantly feel exhausted or drained? According to Healthline, mental exhaustion
can set in when you are under long-term stress and this type of exhaustion can make it feel
like you are trying to move up a mountain. More than just feeling tired, when you are this
drained and constantly exhausted, you might struggle to get anything done. Healthline
suggests practicing gratitude, relaxation, and yoga, as well as talking to a mental
health professional to provide medication for you if it’s needed. Treatment plans will
look different for everyone, but regardless, there is a way that will work best for you to help
pull yourself out of this state of exhaustion. SIX. Your anxiety seems to be increasing. Do you wake up in the morning with a crushing
sense of anxiety that stays with you all day? Does this anxiety cast a cloud over your
daily activities? Worsening anxiety can often coincide with worsening mental health.
Anxiety affects us all, whether or not you happen to suffer from a particular anxiety
disorder.
It’s important to monitor your anxiety levels because a noticeable change
can tell you a lot about your mental health. Anxiety is a response to stress and it can cause
a variety of psychological and physical symptoms. When you feel overly anxious, you might
notice that your heart rate speeds up and your breathing rate increases, and
you might experience a bout of nausea SEVEN. You feel mentally
and emotionally scattered. Do you feel like there are so many things
happening around you, but you can’t focus on any of them? If so, you’re not alone. From
time to time, it’s normal to feel this way, especially when you are going through
higher amounts of stress. However, if you are feeling scattered and like things are
spinning out of control, this could be a sign that your mental health is under strain. According to
Psychologist Rick Hanson from Psychology Today, you probably feel scattered because you are
struggling to find your center. This means that in order for your brain to feel more organized, you
need to feel at peace within yourself.
Practicing mindfulness, such as yoga and meditation, are
great places to start on the road to inner peace. EIGHT. You can’t seem to pay attention. Do you have a harder time
focusing and staying on task? When you’re reading, is it hard to comprehend?
Do you have to reread the same passage over and over again? Though it could relate to
potential psychological disorders such as ADHD, depression, or anxiety, it is also likely that
a lack of focus can be due to stress or poor self-care. It can be frustrating to start losing
focus so frequently and those feelings are valid and normal. Remember to take care of yourself
and, as you recover, know that help is available. NINE. You might be struggling
with your impulse control. Are you acting more on impulse? Are you
possibly indulging in things you shouldn’t? Whether it’s retail therapy, or binging all of
your shows, or playing video games for hours, when you act more on impulse like this, it
can signify worsening mental health.
You might pick up some unhealthy habits
as a way to cope with life stress, fulfill yourself, or distract yourself
from a major issue going on in your life. Journaling, mindfulness, and therapy are great
ways to start uncovering some of these issues! TEN. You are struggling to feel grounded. Similar to feeling centered, when you
are grounded, you are feeling confident and balanced within yourself. According to Irene
Langeveld, an energy worker, and meditation coach, grounding starts with the root chakra at the
base of the spine, known to help you feel secure. Activities that connect your body with
the world around you– such as hiking, meditating, or walking outside –are all great
ways to help you find your sense of grounding! Can you relate to any of the points made in
this video? Do you think your mental health could be slipping? If so, know that
there is help you can reach out to. You can talk to a trusted friend, family member,
or a mental health therapist for support. Please like and share this video if it helps
you and you think it can help someone else, too! The studies and references used are listed
in the description below.
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(upbeat music) – [Narrator] Hey Psych2goers,
welcome back to another video. Thank you so much for
all the love and support that you’ve given us. Our mission is to make mental health and psychology more
accessible to everyone. Today, we’ve invited Emma
McAdam, a licensed marriage and family therapist shares
her insights on depression and some tips on how to cope with it. Her channel is therapy in a nutshell, you can check it out in the
link in the description below. With that said, let’s get started. History of depression
in my family and myself, just like physical health, you have to maintain it by
taking care of your body with exercise eating the right food, and going to the doctor
when you’re injured or ill. With mental health, you also have to take daily action to be healthy. And when things are stressful, I have to take extra care
to manage my mental health.
So for example, when I was in grad school or when I was pregnant or
postpartum, and right now when we as a global community
are fighting a pandemic, we all have to take a little extra care of our mental health. What I’m going to talk about today is more about maintaining mental health than it is about getting out of the
deepest pit of depression. When you’re deep in a depressive episode, it can be really hard to see any light. It feels like you’re
at the bottom of a pit and can’t imagine what it
feels like to be out of it. At that place, often, all
you can do is tiny steps and hopefully get some
help to get out of there.
So don’t allow yourself to
get overwhelmed by my routine. Just choose one little thing to start with and then take the next step when you can. Number one is the morning routine. So the first thing I do every day is get on my knees and pray. I express gratitude for
the day of my life and for the opportunity I have
to do good in the world.
And that connection with God for me helps me feel loved and
purposeful throughout my day. If you’re not religious you could do some meditation
or a breathing exercise here. I try not to look at my phone
first thing in the morning because I wanna start
my day intentionally, the way I want it to be. If I open social media I’m letting others choose what I take in and that could be positive,
negative, stressful, uplifting, or critical. And so I just choose to start
my day with some quiet time. I do a little reading and
then I write out my goals and priorities for the day. And right now with all the
news, that’s frightening. I choose to listen to the news
around lunchtime, once a day so that I don’t get
constantly stressed out and have time to process
it during my waking hours.
And speaking of waking hours let’s talk about sleep for a minute. I have three kids, five and under. So I usually wake up before
them to get some quiet time to set my intention for the day. My natural wake-up time
is around 5:00 a.m. I don’t usually set an
alarm, but to wake up I often go to bed between
9.00 to 10:00 p.m. I’m not fighting my natural biorhythms. I just listen to my body. And this is the schedule that
works best for me.
Many people, might
have different sleep needs or different schedules. Sleep is super important
to managing depression. There’s a massive correlation
between sleep problems and depression. Lack of sleep can cause depression and getting good sleep can
let your brain heal from depression. So I value my sleep. I have old friends who nicknamed me 905 because I often go to bed at that time. And I miss out on some fun for sure, but it’s what keeps me healthy.
So it’s worth it for me. For each person, your
sleep needs are different but getting enough sleep can
make a big difference. One study found that 87%
of people with depression who resolved their insomnia significantly decreased
their depression symptoms. Number two, get dressed and showered. So after waking up refreshed
and taking quiet time to pray, study, and set my intentions for the day, I make sure to get showered and dressed. I found that this can be
hard when you’re depressed, but being clean and dressed
helps me feel more energetic and gets rid of my excuses. I mean, if I have yesterday’s
makeup all over my face and I’m wearing PJs, it
makes it hard for me to want to go out and see friends or
be social or get things done. So just get dressed for the day. Then I take my multivitamins. And if I remember I take
my omega-3 supplements, and nutrition is an important
part of my routine as well.
I try to eat a lot of plants
and not too much sugar or processed foods, but I’m not going to go into
that too much right now. Number three, exercise. The other essential part of my mental health
maintenance is exercise. There’s so much research
that proves that exercise is great for mental health. It helps clear brain fog, and it helps reduce stress
chemicals in your brain. I feel like when I exercise,
it just works through a backlog of pent-up emotions and
I can feel my body relax.
I think it also helps me deal
with anger and frustration. And I just like it. I know a lot of people
exercise in the morning, but for me back when I worked full-time, I used to always go climbing or for a hike or run after work. That’s when I needed it the most. And it was hard for me to
get motivated in the morning but by afternoon, I was
looking forward to it. Now that I’m a full-time mom, I have to be more creative
in how I get my exercise in.
I often just work out
in the yard, gardening, digging in the dirt, and
running around the yard with my wheelbarrow, or I’ll do some yoga on TV
or go for a walk with my kids or pull them behind my bike. Now that we’re stuck in our homes with the coronavirus pandemic, I’m doing more inside workouts. I like the seven-minute
workouts on my phone or The Fitness Marshall on YouTube. Number four is nature time. This takes me back to another aspect of my mental health routine
that is important to me. Outside time. I need nature. I need to see the sky
and soak in some sun.
I’m fortunate to live
in a beautiful place. And I take advantage of
that by getting outside. There is some research showing
that sunshine nature and being outside change our physiology. It slows our heart rate and decreases the stress
chemicals and stuff. But regardless of the research, I can just feel the difference for me. If you can’t get outside,
open your windows, and sit on your porch. Or if you can’t do any of that then you can spend some time looking at beautiful landscape
photography or a nature film. Your brain can bring to mind the feelings of nature just by imagining it. Number five is my evening routine.
My evening routine looks
like getting my kids to bed and then taking some
quiet time for myself. I usually take a hot bath and read a book or an archeology journal. I’m kinda nerdy, but that’s what I like. Even though I have very few hours to work on my passion project, these videos, I don’t usually work in the evenings, because it would just
stress me out a little and I need the downtime to stay healthy. So then before bed, I write in my journal, I often take the time
to write about my wins and accomplishments of the day
so that I can remember them because it’s my natural habit to dwell on my mistakes and shortcomings. So I write about my wins
and then I pray a prayer of gratitude and talk with my
heavenly father about my day. Again, gratitude practice
is an essential habit of mental health, and it’s been shown to be an effective
treatment for depression. So you can pray about it like me, express gratitude as a family,
which we do at dinner time, or write about it, whatever works for you.
And then I go to bed. I try not to spend too much
time looking at screens before bed, but if I do, I
choose some calming documentary or a mudlarking channel
like Nikola Whites. If you don’t know what mudlarking is, it’s just finding
historical bits of treasures on themes in London. Anyway, I find it relaxing. I encourage people not to be on TV because it’s just not
super great for your brain. But if you do choose a
short and calming show. Lastly, other self-care. For me, that includes scheduling
and some time for my hobby. I have tons of hobbies, but
because I’m so busy with kids I don’t have
time to do most of them I make sure to carve
out about two hours a week to do at least one of them. Right now that’s metal detecting which is something fun
and relaxing for me. I put it on the calendar so
that I make sure it happens.
I also take the Sabbath
off, no work, no housework. I don’t check my work email. I let my brain completely
focus on other things. Mostly my family, which
is also exhausting, but it’s a day that is
different from the others. And I make sure to have
social time as well. Having social interactions
is essential for mental health. Our brains are inherently social. We are social creatures. So right now this is going
to be an extra challenge with the Coronavirus. I’m taking the time to
call up old friends. I have some groups I’m
hanging out with on Zoom and when we’re not on lockdown I meet up with friends
to let the kids play or to go out to lunch or whatever. So there you have it.
My daily routine to
maintain mental health. I have a careful morning routine. I make sure to get enough sleep. I get dressed every day. I exercise and get some outside time, I carve out time to relax each
evening, practice gratitude, and acknowledge my successes of the day. And once a week, I make sure to get out and do something just
for me, stress, anxiety, and social isolation can
all contribute to depression but you can prevent depression
during stressful times like the pandemic and social distancing by using daily habits that
promote mental health.
Depression is treatable and there are some simple
things you can do every day to prevent depression and
stay mentally healthy. I hope you can find some things from this list that help you figure out a way to maintain your mental health. Today, this week, and
during the crazy pandemic that we’re going through. And remember, you’re braver than you know and stronger than you think. Thanks for watching and take care. If you enjoyed this video and would like to learn more
about therapy, mental health, and what you can do to improve depression, anxiety, or other mental illnesses, check out Emma’s channel,
Therapy, in a Nutshell, the link will be in the description.
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Narrator Hello, Psych2Goers, Did you know with the recent movement on mental health awareness over the past few years, people are gradually coming to understand more and more about matters of depression, anxiety, trauma, and other mental disorders? There’s also less stigma surrounding the need for therapy and mental health care.
Nowadays, thanks to the countless public figures who have bravely spoken up about their struggles with mental illness, Do any of your favorite celebrities come to mind Still?
There remains a lot unknown about the true nature of depression: the world’s most common mental illness And even more it’s, only those struggling with it.
That can truly understand So with that said, here are 10 things.
Only depressed people will understand the Number one difficulty with communicating your emotions Within the depths of depression.
There may reside complex emotions such as sadness, hopelessness, helplessness, anger, fear, shame, and guilt.
Further still, depression might manifest as an unending sense of emotional numbness and desolation, Either way.
Putting your feelings into words and communicating them with others is a constant struggle when you’re depressed, especially when loved ones are asking you how you feel or how you’re doing because they suspect something is wrong.
You don’t want them to worry, But when you’re in the clutches of depression, you just don’t know what or even how to tell them Number two the guilt of not having a good reason for being depressed.
Well, why are you depressed? What do you even have to be depressed about? In the first place, Sound familiar, Perhaps one of the most difficult things about having depression? Is the pain of being misunderstood or judged? Do you agree? Depression needs to have a tangible reason, Though. You understand that depression is something that affects people of all ages, genders races, classes, and social backgrounds.
You still can’t help but feel guilty when others judge you for not having a good reason for being depressed.
Number.
Three, the anger over constantly being told I understand: Do you find it hard to believe when others say they understand what you’re going through? Another thing not talked about enough when it comes to depression is how frustrating it can feel to constantly be told by others that they understand when all you want na do is tell them that unless they’ve been diagnosed with depression themselves and been inside Your mind: no, they don’t Just because they’ve felt really sad sometimes or this terrible thing happened to them once upon a time does not mean that they know how it feels to have clinical depression Number four, the pain of losing your love And passion for life: How long has it been since you picked up a paintbrush or strummed a tune? The American Psychological Association states that the defining feature of clinical depression is markedly diminished interest or pleasure in all, or most all activities Simply put.
This means that when you’re suffering from depression, it’s a struggle for you to find joy or enjoyment, even in the hobbies and activities that you once loved so much It makes you lose passion for life.
Depression makes you unable to feel motivated to do anything anymore, and so it robs you of even the simplest of life.’s pleasures Number five, is the frustration of not being able to just snap out of it.
Have you been told that a few days of rest can cure depression? One of the many reasons why depression is such a devastating mental illness.
Is that a lot of people don’t understand its true nature? They think that people who are depressed can just snap out of it or just need to think more positively.
There is no built-in switch for this.
Your feelings are every bit as real as they feel You’re not obligated to feel any other way just because others, don’t feel the same Number six. The compulsive desire to self-isolate.
Why do counselors and therapists alike? Stress the need for those struggling with depression to have a good social support system, Even though you understand the need to be surrounded by supportive loved ones.
The truth is when you’re depressed, you, ‘ll most likely feel a compulsive desire to isolate yourself from others, With no energy or motivation to engage in social interactions.
You tend to prefer isolation.
Constant difficulty with communicating and finding enjoyment in things leads to struggling with feelings of low self-esteem and self-worth Talking to people, and staying in touch can often feel too overwhelming.
When you’re struggling with depression, triggering a need to withdraw from society in general Number.
Seven people think depression is the same as sadness.
Sadness is part of a healthy spectrum of human emotions and is quite normal to feel from time to time.
Depression, on the other hand, is a serious and debilitating mental illness that needs to be treated with professional help and therapy.
These things are not all the same, and yet some people just can’t seem to grasp the difference. This can often feel very frustrating, especially when others disregard what you’re feeling as mere sadness and tell you not to think about it.
Number eight people not understanding that mental illness is real.
Many people still seem to think that depression is a choice and a mental illness.
Isn’t real, But just because there are no physical manifestations to see doesn’t mean that the suffering you feel is not real.
It’s, not just in your head.
If you’re able to feel it, then it is very much real When others downplay its potency.
It often leaves you feeling, as if you’re doing something wrong.
As a result, you may even choose to remain silent about it.
Instead, Number nine people think depression is the same for everybody Every individual’s.
Experience of a mental disorder is different from Depression. Doesn’t look the same for everybody.
Some people might stop eating and struggle with insomnia, while others might overeat and oversleep.
Some people have high-functioning depression and may not even seem like they’re struggling at all for others, their depression might force them to lie in bed all day and do nothing.
Nevertheless, all experiences of depression are valid, And number 10 learning to celebrate the little things.
Finally, but perhaps most importantly, when you struggle with depression, even the littlest of victories deserve to be celebrated, Got outta bed today, smiled Managed a short conversation with someone Took the time to brush my hair, or take a bath.
Give yourself a mental pat on the back.
Those are all very, very important achievements for someone with depression.
They might not mean much to other people, But to you struggling with mental illness on an everyday basis.
They make up the good days that remind you why you need to keep fighting and why it’s so important to keep holding on It.’s important to remember not to allow others to dictate how you should feel Just because others are not feeling the same does not make it any less real.
There’s no need to cover up or force yourself to change these feelings. The fact that you’re feeling it is reason enough to validate it If you are struggling with depression or any other mental illness.
Please know that there is always hope and help and that someday things can be better.
Seeking professional help can help you on the road to improvement, Leave a comment down below about your experience with depression.
If you’d, like, Please, feel free to share any thoughts you have as well, If you found this video helpful, be sure to hit the like button and share it with those out there needing to hear this, Don’t forget to subscribe to Psych2Go and Hit the notification bell for more new videos And, as always thanks so much for watching We’ll see you next time.
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Narrator, Hey Psych2Goers, welcome back to another video Healing is not easy. There’s a lot of stigma regarding going to therapy and doing any independent inner self-work.
It’s still seen as something that either weak or crazy people do, and that’s – just not true, It might not be 100 easy, but healing is a journey that leads to deep fulfillment that nothing outside of you could shake or take away.
This process is very humbling, but with high risk comes high reward.
During this journey, you will start to feel the growing pains of change and self-integration Keep moving forward.
This discomfort is helping you move into a beautiful life in which you have a deeper sense of inner peace.
Here are nine uncomfortable signs that you are healing Number one.
You allow yourself to feel your emotions When you’re still stuck in survival mode.
You are mostly focused on logic and what you see because emotions are painful for you to feel and process It’s hard for you to take the time and make room for your emotions to just be acknowledged and validated because it reminds you of the hurt that You would’ve liked to keep buried When you heal.
You start acknowledging your negative and positive emotions because you realize that extreme focus on one is detrimental to your whole being and that you are a whole person.
It’s uncomfortable at first, but as you are no longer suppressing or denying them, you see the value of your emotions and feelings and of just letting yourself sit with them and allowing them to pass Number Two. You’re getting better at expressing and maintaining boundaries When you’re not healed or in the process, you struggle with stating and enforcing boundaries because you’re afraid of rejection, feelings of shame and guilt from putting your interest first or saying what’s on your mind, It’s unusual to set firm boundaries when you’re not used to it, but once you start, it creates more healthy interpersonal dynamics, because you stated your opinions and emotions.
You have the mental and emotional clarity and you are more capable of making your decisions Number three.
You accept that you’ve, been through difficult experiences.
Life is hard and unfair, and instead of suppressing all of the experiences that you have been through, you acknowledge and accept that they happened.
You accept that these people’s place and things had a life-changing impact on you and probably still do Once.
You have accepted that these uncomfortable events impacted you in their entirety.
They start to hurt you less because you’ve accepted the truth and are in charge of the narrative of your life again Number four, you’re, less reactive and more responsive.
When you’re in survival mode, Everything and everyone is a threat and is treated as such.
Nothing is trusted and you, don’t have time to sit and logically think things through, because you are pure action needing to defend yourself constantly.
Once you start healing your natural response of lashing out shutting down, running away, or people-pleasing is tested and slowly makes way for questioning your feelings and reactions. Regarding things, You even find yourself asking.
Why do I think this way? Where does this thinking come from? You start practicing emotional self-regulation, self-analysis, and responsibility.
Number five you realize that healing is not linear Healing is uncomfortable because you are unearthing and confronting things you would’ve preferred to keep suppressed.
Once you get into the rhythm, you realize that part of that healing is that this distress is okay and normal, because it’s not a straight road to inner peace and healing You understand and has experienced the highs and lows of healing and know that the feeling of today will not match the feelings of tomorrow or even later, on Number six.
You begin to step out of your comfort zone Here,’s the thing about healing It:’s, not something everyone will do.
However, if you decide to it has far-reaching benefits beyond the acceptance and acknowledgment of the traumatic experience Once you are in the healing process, you are developing bravery around your emotions and your mind With this newfound conscious control.
You are no longer scared by things that scared you before Scared of making a living situation change.
You now are redecorating your bedroom and experimenting with paint colors.
You never thought you would Go to a party you don’t know Before you would’ve recoiled at the thought, but now it’s a little less anxiety-inducing and you have a bit more confidence Number seven.
You easily accept disappointments and take them in stride. Life is a balance of success and failure, light and dark ups and downs.
When you’re not healing disappointments hit, you like a freight truck to the chest, knocking all of the motivation and passion out of you With healing you understand that bad days do happen and can’t be avoided, but are also temporary Any disappointments or unmet Expectations are accepted and taken in stride.
You respond in better healthier ways that are less reactive Number.
Eight you have more inner peace Healing brings about self-integration.
If you’re a Harry Potter, fan it’s as if Voldemort brought back all of his Horcruxes and decided on becoming a better complete person who accepts the natural way of life on a soul level.
And if you’re, not a fan.
It’s like taking inventory of all of your experiences painful or not, and seeing yourself as the whole person You develop this inner peace because you deeply forgive yourself and you can readily forgive others too.
By having this peace and integration, you are less likely to self-sabotage because you’re no longer a warring country within yourself with conflicting desires and emotions.
You reconcile your inner differences.
You no longer criticize and dismantle your character in your mind And number nine. You welcome help and support The independent survivor.
Has a don’t ask for help mentality, maybe because they never got it when they needed it or because of the harsh rejection when they spoke up, They shut down to get by and decided to do it by themselves because they had no choice With healing You start to realize that as strong as you are, you can’t carry and do everything by yourself.
You do need help and we all do and it’s available out there for you.
You are more open to support and less afraid of having this need for assistance met.
The pride and shame you might feel for asking for help are gone, because you know that it’s, okay, to let go of the heavy burden on your shoulders and have someone to lean on.
Did you relate to any of these points? Do you feel that you are beginning to heal As rewarding as the first step of healing? You will run into the discomfort of your healing and this will try to make you stop to lessen or ignore the pain, but whatever you resist you prolong.
If you are in the healing process, well done, I’m proud of you for doing this work and I hope you can find peace through it And if you’re not that’s, okay, because healing is a long process that takes time you’re still living and doing what you can Applaud yourselves.
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