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Is gonna pick up if you are in a household where you know you’re in college and
you’ve got four other roommates and all of your your other roommates tend to be
negative and naysayers you’re either probably going to move or you may that
might start wearing off on you a little bit likewise if they are you know all
kinds of go-getters that can wear off on you too so you know there’s going to be
an impact risk factor is peer and family reinforcement of negative or unhealthy
norms and expectations so if your family says you know people suck they’re
always going to take advantage of you what are you going to take away from
that and is that going to contribute to you probably having difficulties with
trusting and maybe developing depression possibly so we want to look at what kind
of messages is the peer group or family sending to the individual that may
contribute to the development of mood or anxiety disorders early sexual activity
among peers could communicate that well this is the norm so everybody’s doing it
ties to deviant peers and gang involvement you know especially at that
particular group there’s a lot of pressure to conform or there’s a
negative consequences family members who don’t spend much time together and this
could be because parents work a lot this could be because everybody’s you know
involved in all kinds of other stuff but they found that
when families are disengaged the parents tend to miss out on subtle cues when
families are disengaged even if they don’t have children in the mix that
there tends to be a weakening of those bonds supportive bonds so people
are at higher risk for development of depression and anxiety because they
don’t have that you know everybody’s behind me sort of feeling parents who
have trouble keeping track of youth can indicate that the youth may be at risk
for developing substance or more mood disorders lack of clear rules and
consequences you think about even just being at work when there’s a lack of
clear rules and consequences you don’t exactly know what you’re supposed to do
I know for me that creates doodles of anxiety I like manuals and to date
pretty much every job I’ve ever taken I’ve walked in and there hasn’t been a
manual and I’ve been like okay there must be a manual written and that’s been
my first thing now I’m kind of on the structured side so I don’t expect
everybody is that way but most of us tend to experience a little bit of
anxiety about failure about acceptance if we don’t know what’s expected so it’s
important whether it’s a family or a job situation to make sure there’s clear
rules and consequences you know what’s expected and what’s going to happen if
you mess up or if you don’t meet this expectation there also needs to be
consistent expectations and limits you know when people especially children but
a lot of us tested our limits when we were kids and even as adults you know I
know you know going back to working in organizations I would have staff who
would test limits and see how long they could go without turning in a progress
note before I’d be knocking on their door going paperwork it’s natural for
people to kind of test limits especially with stuff they don’t want to do stuff
that’s not rewarding family conflict and abuse can cause a high risk of depression
and anxiety whether adults or children I mean if there’s a
a lot of conflict and chaos it’s exhausting and it can cause a lot of
dysphoric emotions and loss of employment that’s kind of
self-explanatory protective factors close family relationships so as
clinicians we can encourage people to identify who they consider their family
it may not be their blood relatives or their family who are there for them
who can they call it 2:00 in the morning and how can they nurture those
relationships encourage people to develop relationships with peers that
are involved in pro-social activities like hiking or volunteering in the
community consistency of parenting is important in terms of producing children
who are who are stronger healthier more resilient encouraging education and
parents who are actively involved can help prevent future depression because
they’re creating children who can join the workforce and have that
individual capital to prevent depression and anxiety and cope with stress
positively and this is a family protective factor and a peer for
protective factor why because we learn from observation so if our peers cope
with stress positively by prayer or exercise or whatever it is they do and
our family has other positive ways of coping with stress and we’re going to
have a greater venue of stuff to choose from supportive relationships with
caring for adults beyond the immediate family is encouraged so we want
children to grow up being able to interact with teachers coaches with
you know Scout leaders whomever and start seeing that people outside of the
nuclear family are trustworthy sharing and family responsibilities including
chores and decision making and that’s true for children teenagers and even
adults you know if you’re living in the same household it
important that everybody feels like they have a say in what’s happening
and participates in the upkeep of the family environment and family
members are nurturing and support each other and this is one where I tend to
stop and I do a love languages little mini class to help people remember that
we don’t always experience nurturance in the same way so understanding one
another’s love language is really important to be able to nurture in a
way that’s meaningful to that other person peer and family interventions are
designed to identify norms goals and expectations in the family foster family
problem-solving skills so there’s not just one person always fixing it develop
structure and consistency within the family unit promote healthy
relationships and engage peers and family of choice in the recovery process
so if somebody’s already depressed we need to be able to hopefully engage
everybody that’s involved in this person’s immediate environment in
helping them move towards recovery and you know preferably not dragging them
back down so we want to engage them and make sure that people have a supportive
others school and work risk factors lack of clear expectations both academic or
performance-wise and behavioral lack of commitment or sense of belonging at
school or at work if you just kind of go and you feel like a number you punch in
punch out that may not make you feel appreciated which can contribute
to depression and you know just bad feelings high numbers of students
failing academically at school and work translates to high amounts of
turnover if you never know who’s going to get laid off it increases stress and
anxiety and parents and community members who are not actively involved
in keeping kids in school and helping make sure that the workforce workforce
is strong but we want to make sure that people have access to how
when it’s needed we want to make sure that people have access to tutoring in
school if they need it to prevent failing school they have access to
transportation to get to work now those are things those are meta concepts that
are more on the community level but it’s important that as a community member you
know we look at different things that we may be able to participate in advocacy
and say you know it’s really important to get a bus system going I live out
about 30 miles east of Nashville and we must have the
the train that goes from my city out to Nashville so people have
access to more jobs so that was important for us to get past the City
Commission protective factors school and work positive attitudes gotta find a
reason why you’re doing this you know and sometimes it’s hard to find a reason
for algebra but we need to help kids find a reason for that we need to help
adults find a reason for why they’re going to work why are they doing what
they’re doing regular attendance shows you know it is associated with higher
mood less less risk of mood or addictive disorders because you’re able to get up
and do it and interface with people and get that social support hopefully from
your colleague’s high expectations are communicated effectively in setting
and positive social development is encouraged you know whether it’s at work
or at school, there are goals there are things you’ve got to accomplish there
are performance objectives but we also want to encourage morale and positive
social bonding whatever the setting having a positive instructional climate
again whether at work or school, I know we learn things when we’re on the
job we learn things and I don’t want people to feel like they’re having
difficulty like they’re stupid I want people to feel like anything that we
teach them as a challenge and something that may be beneficial down the road
leadership and decision-making opportunities are really important again
for students or employees to prevent burnout keep morale up reduce
anxiety and increase a sense of personal empower
and connection and active involvement for everybody is fostered and the school or
organization is responsive to the student’s needs making sure that in
school in the case of school they have access to tutoring resources it’s a safe
environment for them to be in and the children that are going to that school
have enough food in their bellies you know they can’t learn if they’re
hungry all the time workplace is a little bit different but we still need
to be responsive to people’s needs in terms of you know family requirements
whether they need to if they’re going back to school
shifting schedules a little bit we need to try to work with people instead of
being completely rigid and it’s my way or the highway when possible to
promote the best mental health characteristics of settings in which
relationships are often associated with the development of mood disorders and
addictive behaviors so we want to look at the characteristics of schools that are
they safe are they positive environments are they cheering squads or are they
places where people know they’re gonna go and get thrown under the bus
same thing with workplaces you know when you walk into a place you get most of
we get a sense and you’re either like oh this is a cool place to work or oh I
can’t wait til I can get out of here you know we want to go toward the
other end and neighborhoods when you go into a neighborhood – people take care
of their environment do they or do they have trash strewn all over their lawn
all of these things communicate how people feel about their environment and
generally how they feel about themselves and whether they have the energy to take
care of stuff or they just feel completely disenfranchised and don’t
care more about community risk factors no sense of
connection to the community neighborhood disorganization rapid changes high
unemployment a lack of strong social institutions lack of monitoring of youths
activities imbalanced media portrayals of safety health and appropriate
behavior misleading advertising and alcohol or drugs readily available
a lot of stuff we do we’re not going to be able to affect on the community level
so much but we’re gonna hit them real quick we want to improve the climate
process and policies within community schools and workplaces to make it safe and
promote positive health behaviors prevention strategies are designed to
reduce social isolation reduce and address stigma increase awareness of
local recovery models you know who’s out there that has recovered and can serve
as a role model improve economic and housing opportunities so people have a
house a safe roof over their head and they can you know earn money and feel
good about themselves increasing the accuracy and improving the positivity of
media messages and increasing physical and financial ability availability of
recovery so like I said I live in a little town so it’s nice that we have
a community mental health center here so people don’t have to rely on going into
Nashville but also making sure that services are financially available
whether you have a free clinic once a month or you know make sure you’ll you
take Medicaid but there are still a lot of people who have no insurance so where do
they go the socio-ecological model identifies
how the end the individual impacts and is impacted by not only his own
characteristics but also those of family peers community and culture prevention
takes the form of preventing the problem preventing the worsening of the problem and
preventing associated fallout like I said as clinicians a lot of what we’re
going to do is target the individual providing them with resiliency skills to deal
with some of this adversity that might be around them and to help them sort
through some of those media messages and go yeah
that’s not even true you know if I drink this vodka I’m not suddenly going to
have 14 supermodels hanging on me or whatever it is that’s being communicated
so encouraging people to be informed and Wylie consumers any change in the
the system will affect other parts of this system so if it’s a
positive change is probably going to have positive changes negative has
negative changes addressing addictive and mood disorder behaviors require a
the multi-pronged approach we need to look at the individual and you know provide
provide as many skills as possible there because that’s where we’re going to have
a lot of our impact especially in prevention but we also need to
realize that this person resides within a family you know whether they live
alone which sometimes is less problematic or they live in a household
with other people, we need to make sure that where they lay their heads at night
where they spend their non-working hours feel safe and is conducive to recovery
where they work or go to school also needs to feel safe and be conducive to
recovery and that’s part of the community so we need to kind of look at
these areas and if they aren’t safe or they don’t feel safe or aren’t conducive
to recovery, we need to help people how to figure out how they can fix that or
address it like I said they may not be able to move so what can you do to set
some boundaries to create as much safety as you can how can you do this and there
are a lot of different techniques that I’m sure you already have that you used
to help people but it’s important again not to just focus on the individual
because they don’t live in a bubble we need to look at everything right and are
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if somebody quits using and maybe you know you are seeing them as a mental health client and
they had an accident or had surgery or something they started using pills they got a couple of
refills then the doctor said no I’m cutting you off and now they’re going through a detox period
detox from opiates is unpleasant but it is rarely life-threatening unless somebody becomes their
electrolytes get imbalanced because of the flu symptoms but we still may see this in private
practice in mental health practice because of the scenario I just told you people can start
taking painkillers as prescribed for something they may get addicted you know take them for
a month or so then when they get off of them not only do they feel like you know really bad
but their pain is also back and it may be they had their wisdom teeth out that pain may be gone
but other aches and pains and everything you feel is probably going to be intensified until the
body kicks back in so educating clients about this is what happens you know it’s not uncommon
if you think it’s too bad go see your doctor helping them make sure they’re getting
good nutrition you know it’s hard if you’ve got flu symptoms to feel like you want to eat or
hold anything down so what can you do to make sure your body has the building blocks to make the
stuff that it needs to help you feel better what can you do to improve your sleep and a lot of our
clients and you know where I used to work we had a methadone clinic and we also had a mother
baby unit and as soon as the mothers would give birth then the doctor would start them on
their detox from methadone and he didn’t believe in the kinder gentler taper he was just like okay
baby’s gone threats gone because you can’t detox from somebody from opiates when they are pregnant
because it can cause the baby to die anyway so as soon as they would stop or as soon as
they weren’t pregnant anymore he would just D see them and they would feel really bad I mean
not only did they just push an 8-pound something out of their body but they also are experiencing
a decreased pain tolerance because they’re not on the opiates anymore and all they want to do is
sleep it’s just like please so understanding that is important in helping people get through
that period even though they may want to sleep all the time helping them understand that it’s
important to maintain their circadian rhythms if they have to take two or three ten-minute
power naps throughout the day to get through the day you know more power to them but if they
can practice good sleep hygiene they’re gonna be way better off in the long run OPD opiate
abuse is also or opiate use is also associated with the treatment of depression but it can cause
depressive symptoms due to its pharmacological properties I mean it slows everything down from
you’re gastrointestinal to your heart rate to your respiration you’re not breathing as much you’re
not getting as much oxygen in you’re gonna have more fatigue you’re gonna have more confusion
you’re going to have more of those symptoms of depression for some people they find it is and
certain opiates they find it is a powerful way to reduce anxiety it makes them feel like they’ve
got a ton of energy because they’re not stressed out anymore and this last one is one of the
The main reason that I find people don’t want to give up opiates is that they finally feel better when
they’re on the eating disorders commonly a coat co-occur with depression and anxiety which can
be caused by nutritional deficiencies you know you’re not giving your body the building blocks
so it can’t make the neurotransmitters it needs and it also probably disrupts your sleep some
and depression anxiety can cause or trigger or whatever you want to say eating disorders because
people with eating disorders may fear becoming fat have low self-esteem have a sense of lack of
self-control or have body dysmorphic disorder so we also want to be aware that there are mental
health stuff that can trigger dysfunctional eating patterns there’s about a 24% prevalence of PTSD
among people with eating disorders so if you’ve got a client with eating disorders especially
bulimia be on the lookout for depression anxiety body dysmorphic disorder alcoholism and PTSD they
maybe smoking too but of the things, I just listed that’s probably the least of their worries it’s
all eating disorders are also associated with alcoholism and smoking I said physical health
issues now you’re seeing somebody with an eating disorder it’s a mild eating disorder you’re seeing
them once a week outpatient so you’re not and you have you know you have training and
working with eating disorders or maybe it’s mild enough that you’re just getting supervision
on treating this issue whatever being aware that people with eating disorders anorexia or bulimia
can have irregular heartbeats and cardiac arrest due to potassium imbalances and electrolyte
imbalances so if they’re not eating or if they are binging and purging in some way shape or
form and that includes excessive exercise which can trigger a lot of heart problems they may have
loss of bone mass and osteoporosis so they may break bones a little bit easier going back up to
the heartbeat not to belabor the point but again heart problems mean a lack of available oxygen
mean confusion fatigue potential difficulty sleeping depressive symptoms and you know cardiac
arrest in and of itself is bad kidney damage from Doretta caboose and low potassium can also
potentially drain damaged the adrenals which are on the kidneys and so it’s important to be
aware of what people are using a lot of people with eating disorders are going to creatively
use stimulants to suppress their appetite think about any of your diet drugs your enter mean I
think it’s one of them the ones they give to help people lose weight they’re stimulants
they’re intense stimulants so people who are struggling with eating disorders are likely to go
towards abusing stimulants or at least using them which can drain the adrenals it can in some
cases have been linked to the development of Addison’s disease liver damage from not eating
or binging and purging causing toxin buildup and possibly pain we can help people deal with it
as much as we can anemia which can cause symptoms of depression in and of itself so goes back to
that nutrition making sure they’re getting enough infertility which in and of itself can be
devastating for young women if they can’t have children anymore or can’t have children
ever that may be a grief issue that we need to help them deal with cathartic: and this is
an important one to be aware of because you don’t have to have somebody who uses laxatives
all the time but people who regularly use or abuse laxatives can become dependent on them so
when they don’t use them they have a feeling of bloating feeling full and abdominal pain which
especially in people with eating disorders or body morphic disorders surrounding just general
body fit bad back body fat can greatly increase anxiety depression hopelessness and in some
cases of suicidality so again educating people is the first step to helping them understand what’s
going on and how dangerous laxatives can be but also if somebody is trying to cut back on their
use of laxatives or just recently stopped using laxatives like when people stopped using
opiates it takes the body a while to get back online but for most people it eventually does
people with eating disorders also have chronic ulcers which are painful and can keep you up at night
As you know gastric reflux and pancreatitis which can flare up at a moment’s notice will is
extraordinarily painful and can cause people to lose time from school or work social activities
feel bad about themselves and also pancreatitis causes a lot of bloating
which in eating disorders is a huge trigger for anxiety and depression pathological gambling
is associated with stimulant abuse especially cocaine methamphetamine and Ritalin to stay
focused disrupted sleep and rebound depression when they quit taking that stuff they wake up and
they’re like oh wow what did I just do alcoholism is also associated with pathological gambling
some people drink to calm their nerves some people drink because it’s the culture if you go
to any of the casinos you know their hand-and-out drinks, they’re trying to get you drunk so you
keep gambling more and there’s as we spoke about earlier rebound depression or anxiety smoking
may help people increase their focus or make them think they can increase their focus so if
you can’t smoke in public places this is more of an issue if you have somebody who does a lot of
online gambling or they gamble at their friend’s house or somebody’s house where there’s poker
games and stuff smoking has some anti-anxiety anti-anxiety properties and may be part of the
the culture I know when my daddy used to have his poker games everybody would smoke cigars and even
the one woman who went there would be smoking a cigar with everybody else and it was just the
culture of being there so there are a lot of different reasons that people may use substances
in addition to gambling mental health issues from gambling anxiety from the stimulant use or from
the tension and release of am I going to you know I’m down $20,000 am I going to make it back ADHD
is also strongly associated with pathological gambling bipolar disorder, especially during manic
phases are associated with pathological gambling generally you see them co-occurring it’s not
like gambling causes it it’s you will see co-occur depression can occur due to losses and
gambling can start because somebody’s depressed because of their financial situation and their
trying to figure out a way to you know borrow from Peter to pay Paul and get ahead you also see
pathological gambling is more strongly associated with people who have obsessive-compulsive
disorder if you’ve got clients with these diagnoses just kind of you know be attentive to
the fact that they are more likely to engage in pathological gambling or if they start gambling
it’s more likely to become a problem than for people who don’t have these issues internet
an addiction that is diagnoseable so you know I’m not just making something up
depending on your resource affects eight point two percent to thirty-eight percent of the
general population now obviously we were looking at you know like games versus you know games plus
Facebook plus shopping or something so depending on the study you looked at their parameters
were a little bit different but either way up to 38 percent of the population has sacrificed
significant personal recreational activities to engage in some sort of internet
behavior Internet addiction can cause anxiety or depression due to eyestrain and chronic headaches
you know if you’re hurting all the time it can make you feel wonky it can also interrupt your
sleep can cause circadian rhythm disorder which can trigger depression fatigue reduced stress
tolerance this is a condition when your body doesn’t know whether it’s supposed to be awake
or asleep because a lot of people who engage in internet-addictive behaviors do so in the dark or
you know they don’t pay attention to whether the lights are on or not they may just sit there kind of
in their cave carpal tunnel contributes to pain and sleep disruption because carpal tunnel does
wake you up at night back ache again may disrupt your sleep and can cause chronic pain during the
a day which can interrupt your daily activities poor nutrition I know a lot of gamers that will sit
there for an entire weekend and not get up to go eat so if it’s not brought to them they don’t eat
they’ll even wear adult diapers so they don’t have to get up to go to the bathroom reduced immunity
due to exhaustion from not sleeping and job or relationship problems I know uh several people
whose marriages ended over a world of warcraft’ so internet addiction is a real thing and it’s
something that we need to be cognizant of because it does cause a lot of problems and a lot of
relationships and it may be one of many problems but it’s something to look at sex addiction
can cause hepatitis and a variety of different STDs which if not treated can cause systemic problems
it’s related to anxiety and depression because sex addiction may begin in order because somebody
wants to feel loved or connected maybe after a breakup or because they never felt loved you’re
connected and then they feel that rush and they’re like oh I like that I want to do that again part
of it could be engaging in that behavior which is so thrilling you know depends on the person
psychological withdrawal from sex addiction people who have been engaging in sex addiction
type behaviors and I include pornography addiction in it for this presentation if they’re not able to
access that may start feeling anxious or depressed they can’t get to that they can’t get to the
the thing that’s gonna cause the dopamine rush and reflection on behaviors that they’ve engaged in
as a part of their sex addiction can also prompt anxiety about a spouse finding out you know am I
going to develop an STD and am I you know how I feel about what I’ve been doing so as clinicians
if we’re working with somebody who has compulsive sexual behaviors even if you know anywhere about that
the spectrum we need to be aware that these things may exist and figure out or help them figure out
how they feel about it and what they need to do to make sure that they’re getting good sleep
that they’re dealing with their depression and their anxiety so that they can have a safe internal
and external environment so back to that global perspective how can we and why is it important
to address chronic illness and disabilities that result from or cause mood disorders or
addictions how can we address depression anxiety and hopelessness that results from or causes
depression anxiety or physical problems how can we address physical problems that are caused
by mood or addictions and how can we address guilt or regret which may accompany addiction
recovery or the realization of a diagnosis of a disease caused by the addiction so while you kind
of ponder those there was a question that came in so question what about robbing Peter to
pay Paul in association with trauma specifically childhood trauma so if you could clarify that
for me a little bit I had mentioned robbing Peter to pay Paul in terms of gambling so I’m just so
mental health issues can be caused by or trigger addictions or physical health issues addictions
can cause or trigger mental health issues or physical health issues that can
be caused by addictions or mental health issues so again chicken-or-egg we don’t necessarily know
which one came first when you have any one of these it’s probably going to or likely impact
each other person or each other area common issues are seen in all three changes in sleeping
changes in nutrition fatigue and grief effective treatment requires addressing the underlying
causes as well as the ripple effects you know so yes after childhood trauma or trauma
of any sort, some people may spend a lot of time feeding the addiction as you put it or
engaging in addictive behaviors to avoid some of the PTSD symptoms to avoid thinking about it
to deal with the grief to deal with the shame so they may engage in something that makes them
feel better or helps them forget to cope with the trauma that happened until they
have other tools so they can come to some sort of terms with it and you know as I
say close that chapter in their book already if there are no other questions tomorrow’s
the presentation I learned a lot creating is on alcohol-related dementia and vascular dementia
and fetal alcohol spectrum disorders all three of which are issues that are caused by substance
use and specifically alcoholism and then I’ll give you a hint about where an acute Korsakoff a
a lot of clients who abuse alcohol but they’re not alcohol dependent who decide to stop drinking can
trigger where Nikki Korsakoff syndrome and causes alcohol-related dementia-type symptoms
so again in mental health, we need to be on the lookout for it if we hear that our clients
are trying to cut down on their alcohol use alrighty everybody and so tomorrow is that
presentation and then Thursday we’re going to look at different models of new bottles of
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If they’re telling you it’s a problem, then it’s a problem.They may not meet the criteria for binge eating disorder or bulimia, but it’s important to address it because they understand that they’re eating for a reason.Other than hunger, they want to stop because they want to eat, for hunger, but not otherwise, and for us as clinicians.The first thing we need to do is understand: why is it that they’re eating? Is it boredom? Is it a habit, so they need to keep a food log or a food journal for over a week or two weeks, and sometimes when people come in for an assessment, especially if that’s one of their main presenting issues? I’ll start by just doing a retrospective of the last three days to get an idea of what may be triggering some of their eating episodes.And then we can look at some of the habits or bad habits, maybe that they’ve gotten into, and start talking about ways to address those remembering that Rome wasn’t built in a day this isn’t going to go away overnight.But a lot of times, if you give people some tips, tricks, and tools to think about implementing when they walk out of your office after the assessment before the first official session, it provides them some hope and gets the momentum going and again you don’t Have to binge to be an emotional eater, some people graze all day long.Some people will eat and it’s not what would be considered technically a binge, but it’s more than they had anticipated.Maybe they go back for second helpings or third helpings when they weren’t hungry, but it was good.So why is eating so soothing? There are a lot of reasons.Now there’s obvious it’s, tastes good, so that’s.You know the big obvious bonus, but thinking about the function eating serves, we have to eat to survive.When you were an infant, it eating involved a closeness with your parental unit, which could release oxytocin, and I say, parental unit because even if it was dad feeding the baby a bottle there was that connection.There was that contact that caused the infant and the parent to release oxytocin. This is our bonding chemical, so eating was associated early on with bonding food may also have been associated with sleep.If the infant or child was given a bottle every night to go to sleep, then they may start thinking or they may be in the habit of eating to wind down or calm down, and we need to help them figure out different ways to do That as a toddler, what eating mean think about when you went from well, we probably don’t, remember that, but think about when your kids went from eating.You know food out of a jar to even their first Cheerios.That was a huge figure out.How to pick up that little cheerio and get it in their mouth and it involved exploration and mastery.They were discovering all different types of textures and tastes and figuring out what smell went with what taste, and it was a cool and exciting time for kids, and I mean think about it.They’re like a year old, so it doesn’t take much to amuse them, but this was the rewarding reward.Equals dopamine equals let’s do that again.It involved power and control of the child.At this point was starting to be able to feed himself or herself and was starting to be able to be somewhat independent of the parent when it came to the basic physiological function of eating. So eating itself had its rewards and it was self-esteem building because the child started learning.You know how to feed yourself and how to ask for what he or she wanted, at least in terms of food.There are formations of memories around foods, even as early as toddlerhood.You know we have celebrations, we have birthdays, we have different things and most children have certain foods that they like, and it could be because the first time that ate that food was a really happy experience or it could be just that’s, their favorite Food and that’s all they want to eat, but they remember that food and they remember when they ate it, they felt good.They felt happy so as an adult there,’s a part of their brain going chicken nuggets.Make me happy now that’s, how the toddler thought as an adult.We can understand that chicken nuggets themselves, aren’t making you happy, but you see the connections that we’re making.Here there’s been an association between happiness and chicken nuggets unhealthy foods, especially for children when, as adults, we’re still able to control what they eat.Your sugary foods and your unhealthy foods are usually reserved for treats or rewards.So when you’re feeling like you need to be rewarded when you’re feeling like you want to feel good, sometimes you’ll resort to those things. When you were a kid that made, you feel good like chocolate, chip, cookies, Haagen Dazs, or whatever it was for you.We’ve talked in the past, about associations and conditioning, and this is all coming back kind of full circle now because we need to understand that our brain has associated pleasure and reward with food for a lot of different reasons.Not just because of nourishment looking at the reasons why your patient eats is going to help you understand what underlying issues you may need to address in treatment.Culturally, we associate eating with caring and celebration and think about birthdays and holidays.What do we get together? We have buffets, we have pot Luck,’s.When someone passes away.What do you bring food over when somebody’s sick? What do you bring food over to in our culture? There is a lot of emphasis put on eating and nourishing, and that’s, true of a lot of different cultures.Low blood sugar can cause feelings of depression and anxiety which are quelled by food.So if somebody typically doesn’t eat well during the day, you know they go long periods without eating or if they have blood sugar issues, to begin with, and then they eat they feel better.So when they start feeling not so good, what do you think their first reaction is, let me eat and see if that helps evolution, predisposes the human body to crave high sugar, high fat, high-calorie foods for quick energy and to prepare for a famine. Our bodies are cool and frustrating at the same time because you know your body takes in this these foods and it says we’re going to secrete, the most amount of dopamine and the most amount of reward for these high-calorie foods because We want to make sure we’re prepared in case there’s a famine back.You know in the day many many many years ago, hundreds of years ago we couldn’t guarantee.We would have a meal every day, let alone three meals every day.So the body prepared – and it said alright – we need to get whatever we can when we can.So we’re going to make this higher fat higher calorie food more rewarding.Now I said it:’s also can be a blessing and a curse.Today, there’s still a little part of our primordial brain.That says, if it thinks there’s a famine, it will slow down your base metabolic rate, which causes people to gain weight.We see this a lot in people with eating disorders, who tend to not take in very many calories, or if they take them in they purge them.So the body goes well. I can’t guarantee I’m gon to get enough food.I’m going to get enough energy to survive.So I’m just going to turn down the thermostat a little bit and turn down the base metabolic rate, which compounds the problem for the person with the eating disorder.So it’s important to understand that the brain is somewhat active in what’s going on.So I keep saying we need to figure out what’s behind or underlying the craving.First, we need to rule out physical causes for some people.It’s as simple as this.If they’ve got low blood sugar because they’re not eating too often and obviously as counselors, we’re not going to diagnose this their doctor or their nutritionist will, but we can start exploring and go.It sounds like you might need to look at having your blood sugar checked or talk to your doctor about how frequently you need to eat because some people – and I know I’m – are very guilty of it.If I get into it into a groove doing something I’ll eat breakfast and then I’ll get into a groove and before I know it, it’s 3 00 in the afternoon and I haven’t eaten for like a whole bunch of Hours I’m not doing math today and my blood Sugar’s low and I’m starting to get foggy, headed and irritable and tired. So it’s a real, simple fix there in our society we are so driven and we are so.We get so caught up in things because that’s such a fast pace that it’s easy to forget to eat or is easy to avoid eating so that’s.The first thing we want to rule out.Are you eating in response to low blood sugar, which is making eating, seem more rewarding when you eat in response to low blood sugar a lot of times, people who do that end up eating more than they normally would because they start eating fast.It’s like I’m going to shovel, in as much as I can.Your brain doesn’t register you’re eating for 20 minutes or so so, before their brain, even registers.What’s gone on and gets the blood sugar back up? They’ve already eaten a whole ton of food.Why is this under-emotional eating? Well because generally, when they go in to just start eating, yes, they’re hungry, but they’re, also cranky and irritable, and most of the time they’re.Not thinking about I’m eating for the nourishment it’s, I’m eating, feel better lack of sleep, and this is so true for shift workers as well.As you know, new parents and college students, and anybody who’s not getting enough sleep. If we are surviving on sugar and stimulants, we’re going Peak and Lower Valley, Peak, and Lower Valley, and you just keep going up and down until you just crash, because every time you crash you crash a little bit lower.So if somebody’s on that roller coaster, they’re going to feel worse between you know: eating episodes they’re going to feel tired.They’re going to feel a flood of sluggish irritable fatigued and, to a certain extent, maybe depression, and they may be missing attribute those feeling, those emotional feelings to emotions versus physical causes, and likewise we also want to make sure that you know we’re addressing The emotional causes because there’s probably stuff there too, but if they’re not getting enough sleep and they’re living on sugar and stimulants their body is kind of in a state of hyper-vigilance, a lot of times it’s exhausted.So they’re going to be tired and cranky.So those are a couple of things that we want to look at.Those are relatively easy fixes or at least relatively easy things to point out and go let’s think about this.One of the things that I suggest for a lot of my clients is just to take a week and mindfully and it is difficult but try to eat healthfully.You know try to eat a few times a day.You know try to eat like three meals a day and get enough water and try to get enough sleep and try not to overdo it.On the stimulants at the, beginning I, 39, am not going to say cut out anything because that 39, is not, realistic and it’s not fair, and they 39, are probably already struggling if they’re coming in to see me, so if I go hey Let’s just turn your world upside down and guess what you’re not going to drink any caffeine anymore. It’s not going to create a happy person, so I asked them to try to make some small changes and see if that starts, to help dehydration causes fogginess and symptoms of depressionWe want to make sure that they rule that out and too many stimulantsAlso causes dehydration, so you know we’re looking at some of the physical causes of irritability and fatigue and cravings because again we’re going back to when I felt this way before not looking at it.Why I felt this way.But when I felt irritable depressed cranky, what made me feel better and generally food, and generally it’s, not good food.For me, it’s M Ms.I love my M Ms, especially the ones with almonds, but I digress.Nutritional causes of cravings, high carbohydrate, and high starch foods caused a greater release of serotonin and endorphins.So if you’ve got somebody who’s depressed for whatever reason that they may crave these kinds of foods to increase their serotonin level or increase the endorphins, their energy levels, chocolate people who crave chocolate may be low in magnesium.It also um the level of magnesium affects how much serotonin is available again. Just I keep saying this just for legal reasons.We want to make sure their doctor or nutritionist goes in and makes this diagnosis, but if there are particular foods that they do crave, they need to bring that up with their medical provider if they’re craving fatty foods.Now again, fatty foods are just good.I love fried foods, but it also could mean that they’re not getting enough Omega threes, Americans, typically don’t and interestingly, if they crave soda, they may be calcium deficient, who knew so?These are things to take a look at to ask people.You know if they’re craving soda, maybe cutting back on their soda a little bit and seeing what happens and or getting blood work done.
Once we’ve ruled out the obvious physical causes.They’ve gone to the doctor.Gotten blood work done everything I’m coming back happy.They’re getting enough sleep, but they’re still eating when they’re, not hungry, we need to rule out habits. Is there a particular time or activity that makes you crave this food? When I was growing up, I would go to the grocery store with my mother, and on the way back home from the grocery store.She would always we would always get junk food and she would get a bag of chips and put them in the front seat.It was like a 20-minute drive from the grocery store to our house and by the time we would get back to the house.We would have put a good dent in those potato chips.That being said, I got into the habit of whenever I went to the grocery store.I would get something out of the bag and put it in the front seat and eat on the way home.Now am I paying attention to what I’m eating? No likely am I eating, because I was hungry, probably not so.We want to look at habits.A lot of people will eat when they are watching TV.It’s a huge one. So we want to not do that or if you’re going to eat when you’re watching TV make sure you sit at the table.At least that makes you a little bit more mindful so think about whether are there particular times or activities that you eat and you’re just not hungry.Are there particular times that you mindlessly eat, like, like, I said when you’re driving or when you’re watching television? Those are both habits and can be mindless because you’re not paying attention to how much is going in your mouth.You’re not probably paying attention to the taste and you’re not paying attention to whether you’re full or not.So if you’re mindlessly eating, then there’s going to be a lot more calorie consumption.In addition to the fact that you’re not eating because you’re hungry, you’re just eating to eat, are you going too long between meals than needing a sugar boost which leads to a sugar crash? So again that’s a physical cause? But we want to rule it out.These are bad habits that we can tend to get into other things that can be construed as bad habits are eating without putting food on a plate.If you eat straight out of the bag, you’re going to eat.More than if you put it on a plate, so put it on a plate, sit down, try not to watch TV, all the things that your grandmother would have told you.So what do we do about it? Emotional eating interventions? I talked earlier about the food diary. Do a retrospective during the assessment if they want to get a jumpstart on things, but have them keep a food diary, preferably for the duration of treatment, but at least for a week.What time did they eat? Were they craving just any old food or something salty, something that was sweet, something that was sour? This will give you a general idea and can give their medical provider a general idea if there are any nutritional imbalances or if there are particular associations.What emotion or state were you in, I say state because being exhausted is not necessarily really an emotion.Were you happy sad, mad glad exhausted drained whatever state feels like it would work, and then, because of why were you feeling this way it doesn’t have to be a dissertation? It can be short and sweet, but I encourage clients to write down everything.They eat before they eat it during the first week, or you know, like I said, preferably throughout the entire course of treatment why, before they eat it because it’s a stop, remember we’ve talked before about how we have an urge.We have a craving, we have an urge and then we engage in the behavior oftentimes without stopping mindfully.Think is this what we want to do this provides that stop.It says: okay, I’ve got it to write down the time, and then I’ve got to think about why I’m eating, and honestly a lot of clients notice, a reduction and their habit of eating when they have to do this, just because they don’t want to record-keeping that up for a month or two months helps break some of the habits, eating that they might do like.I said before when they’re eating, I encourage them to use a plate.Sit down. Don’t walk around don’t stand at the counter, eliminate distractions as much as possible and focus on the food you’re eating that goes with mindfully eating.What does it taste like? Is it good to take small bites when my son was young, I think I’ve shared this before he had gastric reflux and we would sit down at the table and I would shovel in food as fast as I could get it in my mouth because He couldn’t be put down for too long before he would start to get fussy, at least until we figured out that he had gastric reflux and Zantac was just a lifesaver.I developed that habit when he was little and I kept it up for a while.It took a while to learn for me to learn to go back to take.You know reasonable bites and tasting my food, and even today, if I’m not paying attention too much, I’ll eat my dinner fast and then I’ll sit there and I’ll be like well.Yes, I’ll taste that a little bit later, because I didn’t taste it when I ate it encourage clients to be aware of their eating habits, and try to avoid setting up a binge by restricting certain foods.Now.Does that mean you have to have cakes and candy and whatever your trigger foods are in your house all the time and in your face? No, I would encourage people not to do that, but to say you know, I said for me M Ms, is one of my favorite reward foods.
If you will, I don’t keep them in the house, but I will allow myself occasionally to buy a small snack-size pack of M Ms, when I’m out or I will get a regular-size pack and I’ll share it with my daughter, so I’m not restricting it.I’m not saying I can never M. Ms again, I’m just not making it available to myself when I might have some unrestricted time, try to avoid buying a bunch of comfort foods and keeping them around the house, and when you’ve got kids when you’ve got family, it’s not entirely possible, usually to not have some of that stuff around but try to avoid having the things that you particularly used for comfort, because if it’s not readily available, then you’ve got to focus on guess what dealing with the emotions.Instead of stuffing them with food, try not to go too long without eating.Like I said earlier, if you go too long, then by the time you get to the food, your blood, Sugar,’s low and you’re just shoveling it as fast as you can initially distract.If you know that you’re getting you’re eating and you’re, like I’m – really not hungry, but I want to eat, take a bath, take a walk, call a friend, heaven forbid get on Facebook.Whatever it is, you can do to distract yourself for 10 or 15 minutes if, after 10 or 15 minutes, you’re still going, I want whatever it is, then you can decide what to do about it.Then, most of the time when people stop and go, I’m not hungry.Let me distract myself.They get caught up in that distraction and before they know it, they’ve forgotten about the craving, and identify the emotions.If you know that you’re not hungry, but you want to eat, then say: okay, what’s going on what’s going on with me? It doesn’t mean that the person is never going to eat when, when they’re upset, because a lot of people do, and is it the end of the world, probably not necessary if they can start reducing the frequency of times that they eat.In response to emotional distress that’s, what we want, we want to progress, not perfect if it’s, depression, what’s causing them to feel hopeless or helpless right now, if it’s, stress, anxiety, or anger, remember our big kind of lump together stuff. What are they stressing out about? Do they feel like they’re overwhelmed? Are they afraid of failure, rejection, and loss of control of the unknown? We’ve gone through those things.We want them to identify what’s going on with them, and then they can make better choices about how to deal with it.So general coping helps them develop, alternate ways of coping with distress.Distract we’ve, already kind of gone over that one.I encourage people – and you know it’s – one of those DBT things – that a lot of therapists encourage their clients to keep a list of things.They can do to distract themselves because it’s not always practical to get up and go on a walk.If you’re at work or it’s, you know two in the morning.So what else can you do to distract yourself? Talk it out with a friend with yourself with your dog? Sometimes you just got to get it out.People who are more auditory will prefer talking it out as opposed to journaling it now.If they talk it out with themselves, they can record it if they want to, or sometimes it’s just better to have a dialogue with themself. If it worked for Freud, it can work for other people journaling.If your clients are inclined to journal, encourage them to write it down.Sometimes just getting stuff out of your head and onto paper will help the feelings dissipate a little bit.So you’re not mulling them over and obsessing over them and getting stuck in those thoughts and feelings.Additionally, while you’re distracted talking it out or journaling, this is also your break.Your stop between the urge and the behavior make a pro and con list of the de-stress, not the eating whatever it is, that’s stressing you out and how can you fix it or what are the pros of this situation and what are the downsides To this situation, encourage them to focus on the positive.You know.If something stressing you out at work, you know you’ve got a big meeting coming up or something you don’t want to do or what it is.You can get stuck on focusing on that or you can focus on the positive that you do have a job.That meeting only comes around once a month. You can it’s time you don’t have to be doing paperwork whatever the pros are for that person encourage them to focus on the positive.If you’re distressed because of some kind of a failure or perceived failure, figure out what you learned from it, whether it was a relationship failure, or maybe you learned what not to do in a relationship anymore. Maybe you learned things that you may have ignored.Maybe you learned what you should have done instead, but how can it be a learning opportunity, instead of somewhere to stay stuck and finally, if something’s making you upset if something’s causing anxiety, depression, hopelessness, helplessness, whatever the negative feeling figure out.If it’s worth your energy to get stuck here, is it worth the turmoil? Is it worth you know having to pacify yourself with food or whatever? It is a lot of times people say you know what now it’s, just it’s, not even worth my effort.It’s not worth moving me away from my goals, because my goal is to stop emotional eating.My goal is to eat for hunger, so I can go to dinner with people and feel comfortable.I can be at a party where there’s a buffet and not feel stressed out that I’m going to go and eat half the stuff on the buffet that’s my goal so is holding on to whatever this de-stress is getting me Closer to being able to do those things and generally the answer:’s no develop alternate ways of coping with the stress the ABCs, the a is the activating event.What is stressing you out and what’s causing the de-stress C is the emotional reaction.Angry depressed stressed, whatever be: are your behaviors? What behaviors or B are your beliefs? Sorry, what are the beliefs that are in there that may need to be addressed? What kind of things are you telling yourself, and, and how can you counter them? Cognitively eliminate your vulnerabilities.You knew we couldn’t get through a presentation without talking about vulnerabilities. If someone is well-rested.Well, the fed has a good social support network, not stretch timewise.Then it will be easier to deal with stress or stressors when they come your way.You’ll have more energy to deal with it, so there won’t be this overwhelming feeling of I just want to bury my head in a jar of peanut butter, be compassionate with yourself.Some days, you know you’re, just going to feel anxious.You’re going to feel depressed.You’re going to get angry.You can beat yourself up over it and you know a lot of people do.Is that the best use of your energy or can you be compassionate? Can you learn from it? Can you give yourself a break and go? You know what I’m having a bad day today and that’s okay, I’m not going to unpack and stay here, but I’m not going to fight.It either helps clients learn how to urge surf help. They understand that, just like a panic attack just like a wave just like a lot of other things in life, it will come, it will crest and it will go out again, so they can sort of identify where they are on the energy of that Urge other tools people can use close the kitchen once I have the kitchen cleaned and you know all the dishes are done and it looks pretty.I hate going in there and finding dishes in the sink again now I’ve got teenagers, so we always have dishes in the sink.But before I had children, you know at seven o’clock.I finished all the dishes and closed the kitchen, and that would be enough motivation for me to not go in there and at least not use plates and stuff to eat.So if we’re saying that we’re going to only eat using utensils plates and sitting and all that stuff that we already talked about, then once you close the kitchen, you’re not going back in, there turn off the light.That also helps so you’re not being attracted to the pretty lights, and you know all the goodies that are in the kitchen to brush your teeth.This is something my grandmother used to do and it works.There’s some research behind it.Minty flavors reduce our appetite.So if you brush your teeth, you get all the other flavors out of your mouth and it reduces your urges to eat because it again it’s clean and fresh. And do you really want to brush your teeth again, and meditate, sometimes just getting in a space where you’re, not obsessing about anything, can help people get past that urge to self-soothe by eating a CT for emotional eating.What am I feeling or thinking about what’s going on with me right now? What is important to me? So if I am thinking I want to eat, I want to you know just dive into this jar of peanut butter, and then I think about what’s important to me.Is it important to me to get control of this? Is it important to me to you know, be able to fit into my clothes in six months or not? So what is it in? What way is controlling my eating habits and eliminating emotional eating important to me, and how does that get me closer to other things that are important to me, and what other things could I do? That would get me closer to my goals.So if the goal is to have improved relationships, be able to feel more comfortable around food reduce the stress around going out to eat, and just around food in general, what else can you do when you are stressed out? Somebody also suggested that adding a blue light in the refrigerator decreases the appeal of foods, which is interesting because yellow red and orange, and browns, I think Pizza Hut – are all foods that increase people’s, hunger and desire to eat.But blue is just a completely different primary color, and adding a blue hue seems like that would be effective, so cool thanks for that.Little tidbit there holiday help, and you know we’re coming into the holidays.So I’ve got to bring that up at every single glass and choose lower-calorie foods.If you tend to get stressed out or caught up or mindlessly eat when you are at family gatherings.Okay, you know cut yourself a break, know that that’s, probably going to happen, and fill up on the lower-calorie foods.The carrot sticks the broccoli, the white meat, turkey, anything that’s available, that’s, not like sweet potato pie or brownies, keep water or low-calorie beverage. In your hand, if you’ve got your hand full, you can’t eat at the same time.So you know if you walk around with a cup in your hand, it helps talk to people.Hopefully, you don’t talk with your mouth open or talk with food in your mouth.So if you’re talking to people, you’re not going to be as inclined to go and get something to eat because you’re wanting to stay engaged in that conversation.Stay away from the buffet, especially if you know that it could get stressful, or maybe you know for me, I turn into a pumpkin at like 7 30 at night.I get up at 4 00, but I turn into a pumpkin at 7, 30 and a lot of times holiday parties and those sorts of things are at eight, nine, o’clock at night, and you know I’ve already turned into a pumpkin.So I know that if I go to those I’m going to be more likely to eat just to kind of stay away because I’m tired and it’s a bad habit.It’s not because I’m hungry.So I know I need to stay away from the buffet during those times we rehearse refusal skills.If somebody says. Oh, you, I’ve got to try it by two.This figure out how you’re going to address that ahead of time, because there’s generally probably a lot of really good foods, and you may really want to taste some, but sometimes people who emotionally eat know if they start eating.If they start eating high-fat high calorie foods, they’re going to want to eat everything.So if I start with one bite of a brownie, I’m going to want to eat every suit that’s on the table.If they know that, then they may want to choose to not even go down that road at that juncture, encourage people to stay mindful of their distress meter before they go back for another helping and ask themselves, am I hungry? Am I just wanting to taste what’s here and how do I feel about that? Or am I eating just because I don’t want to be here and I’m bored and I want to fill the time? Have people keep an index card with their coping mantra and two reasons they don’t want to emotionally eat, so I need to be here.I can do this whatever the mantra is that’s going to get them through the night, whatever they’re.Telling themselves that it’s going to help them plow through and make the right choices, but also two reasons that they don’t want to eat, or they’re going to get around it.Maybe they’ve got something at home that they can eat when they get home eating before they go to.The party may also help prevent some grazing holidays, bringing out a lot of emotions in people.Some people struggle with depression, anxiety, jealousy, grief, and anger. You know the whole gamut during this time and during this time there’s food everywhere I mean starting at Halloween when your kids bring home the Halloween candy, which usually lasts about a week in our house baby.Oh, Halloween candy followed by getting ready for Thanksgiving, followed by doing all the baking or whatever you do, and the holiday parties coming up on the December holiday season.There’s just food everywhere, so it’s really easy to cope.If you will, with stress being overwhelmed with being tired by not eating enough healthy food by binging on unhealthy and soothing food if you will so it’s, encouraged it’s important to encourage people to stay.Mindful of why they’re eating what they’re eating, when constantly bombarded with high-fat high carbohydrate foods, people are tempted to eat to feel calm yeah.I challenge anybody to say that they’ve never eaten and go okay.You know I’m.Just focused on this right now I’m not thinking about everything out here and it feels good um.I’m good now, good, probably not the word I should use, but it does help people distract themselves sometimes when they eat, especially those high-intensity foods.You feel happier serotonins are released. Dopamine is released.You’re, like oh, that’s good.I want to do that again or you just feel numb.You can get into a zone where you’re just eating and not caring about it’s.Not that you’re feeling calm, you’re just not feeling anything, and a lot of times when people get into that zone.They’re not tasting the food either.They’re just kind of on autopilot for emotional eating, like most other escape behaviors.Never addresses the underlying emotions and their causes, so we need to look at them.Are you feeling anxious? Are you feeling jittery? Are you feeling depressed because your blood Sugar’s low, because you’re nutritionally deficient because you’re not getting enough sleep or because there’s something cognitive going on, or all of the above emotional eating, often results in physical issues like weight gain Poor sleep and reduced energy weight gain, are you know in and of itself a few pounds here and they’re not a big deal, but some people can start emotionally eating to feel better.They gained a lot of weight. Then they start feeling less energetic.It starts being harder to move around.They get to the point where they are clinically obese.Then they’re going.I’m never going to take all this weight off.They feel hopeless and helpless.You see where this is going, so they eat some more.Can cause poor sleep apnea, it’s hard to get it’s also hard to get comfortable.Sometimes, if you’ve eaten a whole bunch of food right before you go to bed, you know your bellies are all full, and little you wake up.The next morning and your belly are still awful, which means you probably didn’t, sleep very well the night before and emotional eating often results in reduced energy because the foods we binge on the foods we eat for self-soothing often end up causing a sugar Crash some people try to undo emotional eating by restricting other calories which can lead to nutritional deficits and more cravings. I had a girlfriend when I was in high school and you know think back to I don’t know if they still do it, but when we were in high school there was always some kind of candy sale going on and she would always forgo all Other food, so she could have two chocolate bars each day and you know we’re not going to get into the all the other issues surrounding only eating two chocolate bars.But the point I’m making it right now is the fact she wasn’t getting protein.She wasn’t getting it.You know most of her vitamins and minerals and stuff that her body needed to make the neurotransmitter.So she could feel happy and she was contributing to a sugar crash, but I also know that it’s common around the holidays for people to do this.They’ll let go all day without eating because they know they’re going to a party tonight and there’s going to be a lot of really good food doing that once in a while.Not a big deal doing that 10 or 15 times in a month could start to have problems.Emotional eaters need to first find a way to stop before they eat, so, whether it’s writing in a journal or adding.There are a lot of apps on your phone that you can put your food in, even if you’re, not writing about your emotions and your cravings and all that kind of stuff.Sometimes it’s enough to make people stop before they reach. For the food – or you know, kind of an extreme way to go is to not keep pre-processed or prepackaged foods in the house.So anything that you’re going to eat you’ve got to make second identify the underlying reason for your eating figure out.Do I generally eat in response to and then address the thoughts and emotions leading to the urges?So if you figure out the underlying emotions for your eating or your depression, then what thoughts are maintaining that depression? And how can you address it once you address the underlying issues, some of the emotional eating will go away, but some of its habits?We’re going to have to break that habit and, throughout you know, the past couple of decades of working with people.My experience has been the majority of the time people don’t want to hear.Well, once you deal with your emotional issues, the emotional eating will go away now.They’re there because they want to stop that behavior right now.So, yes, we need to work on all the underlying issues but give them a tip or a trick or a tool whatever you want to call it to use before they walk out of your office after every single session.That way, they have something else they can put in their toolbox and feel more empowered to have control over what’s going on with them. And what’s coming their way, having the knowledge of what and why is 80 of helping them get to the recovery point now, if there’s co-occurring or if the eating issues are more than just emotional eating, if there’s, the person meets The criteria for binge eating disorder, bulimia or anorexia.There are a lot of other underlying issues they’re going to have to be dealt with.So I don’t want to trivialize that, but I do want people to feel like they’ve got some hope over what’s going on.Are there any questions? If you enjoy this podcast, please like and subscribe either in your podcast player or on YouTube, you can attend and participate in our live webinars with doctor Snipes by subscribing at all CEUs comm slash counselor toolbox.This episode has been brought to you in part by all CEUs com providing 24 7 multimedia, continuing education, and pre-certification; training to counselors therapists, and nurses, since 2006 use coupon code consular toolbox to get a 20 discount off your order.This month,As found on YouTubeAnimated Video Maker – Create Amazing Explainer Videos | VidToon™ #1 Top Video Animation Software To Make Explainer, Marketing, Animated Videos Online It’s EASIER, PRODUCTIVE, FASTER Get Commercial Rights INCLUDED when you act NOW Get Vidtoon™
other tools people can use close the kitchen once I have the kitchen cleaned and you know all the
dishes are done and it looks pretty I hate going in there and finding dishes in the sink again now
I’ve got teenagers so we always have dishes in the sink but before I had children you know at
seven o’clock I finished all the dishes and closed the kitchen and that would be enough motivation
for me to not go in there and at least not use plates and stuff to eat so if we’re saying that
we’re going to only eat using utensils plates and sitting and all that stuff that we already talked
about then once you close the kitchen you’re not going back in there turn off the light that
also helps so you’re not being attracted to the pretty lights and you know all the
goodies that are in the kitchen brush your teeth this is something my grandmother used
to do and it works there’s some research behind it minty flavors reduce our appetite so
if you brush your teeth you get all the other flavors out of your mouth and it reduces your
urges to eat because it again it’s clean and fresh and do you want to brush your teeth
again meditate sometimes just getting in a space where you’re not obsessing about anything can
help people get past that urge to self-soothe with eating a CT for emotional eating what am I
feeling or thinking about what’s going on with me right now and what is important to me so if I am thinking
I want to eat I want to you know just dive into this jar of peanut butter and then I think about
what’s important to me is it important to me to get control of this is it important to me to you
know to be able to fit in my clothes in six months or not so what is in what way is controlling
my eating habits and eliminating emotional eating important to me and how does that get
me closer to other things that are important to me and what other things could I do that would
get me closer to my goals so if the goal is to have improved relationships and be able to feel more
Being comfortable around food reduces the stress around going out to eat and just around food in general
what else can you do when you are stressed out somebody also suggested adding a blue light
in the refrigerator decreases the appeal of foods which is interesting because yellow red and
orange and browns I think Pizza Hut are all foods that increase people’s hunger and desire to eat
but blue is just a completely different primary color and adding a blue hue seems like
that would be effective so cool thanks for that little tidbit their holiday help
and you know we’re coming into the holidays so I’ve got to bring that up at every single glass
choose lower-calorie foods if you tend to get stressed out or caught up or mindlessly eat when
you are at family gatherings, okay you know cut yourself a break know that that’s probably gonna
happen to fill up on the lower calorie foods the carrot sticks broccoli the white meat turkey
anything available that’s not like sweet potato pie or brownies keeps water or low calorie
beverage in your hand if you’ve got your hand full you can’t eat at the same time so you know if you
walk around with a cup in your hand it helps talk to people hopefully you don’t talk with your
mouth open or talk with food in your mouth so if you’re talking to people you’re not going to be as
inclined to go get something to eat because you’re wanting to stay engaged in that conversation stay
away from the buffet especially if you know that it could get stressful or maybe you know for me I
turn into a pumpkin at like 7:30 at night I get up at 4:00 but I turn into a pumpkin at 7:30 and a
a lot of times holiday parties and those sorts of things are at eight nine o’clock at night and you
know I’ve already turned into a pumpkin so I know that if I go to those I’m gonna be more
likely to eat just to kind of stay away because I’m tired and it’s a bad habit it’s not because
I’m hungry so I know I need to stay away from the buffet during those times we rehearse refusal
skills if somebody says oh you’ve got to try it by two this figure out how you’re going to address
that ahead of time because there’s generally probably a lot of really good foods and you may
want to taste some but sometimes people who emotionally eat know if they start eating if they
start eating high-fat high calorie foods they’re gonna want to eat everything so if I start with
one bite of a brownie I’m gonna want to eat every suite that’s on the table if they know that then
they may want to choose to not even go down that road at that juncture and encourage people to stay
mindful of their distress meter before they go back for another helping and ask themselves am i
hungry am I just wanting to taste what’s here and how do I feel about that or am I eating
just because I don’t want to be here and I’m bored and I want to fill the time have people
keep an index card with their coping mantra and two reasons they don’t want to emotionally
eat so I need to be here I can do this whatever the mantra is that’s gonna get them through the
night whatever they’re telling themselves that it’s gonna help them plow through and make the
right choices but also two reasons that they don’t want to eat or they’re going to get around
maybe they’ve got something at home that they can eat when they get home eating before they go
to the party may also help prevent some grazing holidays bring out a lot of emotions in people
some people struggle with depression anxiety jealousy grief anger you know the whole gamut
during this time and during this time there’s food everywhere I mean starting at Halloween when
your kids bring home the Halloween candy which usually lasts about a week in our house baby
Oh Halloween candy followed by getting ready for Thanksgiving followed by doing all the baking
or whatever you do and the holiday parties coming up on the December holiday season there’s just
food everywhere so it’s really easy to cope if you will with stress being overwhelmed by being
tired by not eating enough healthy food by binging on unhealthy and soothing food if you will so it’s
encouraged it’s important to encourage people to stay mindful of why they’re eating what they’re
eating when constantly bombarded with high-fat high carbohydrate foods people are tempted to eat
to feel calm yeah I challenge anybody to say that they’ve never eaten and go okay you know I’m just
focused on this right now I’m not thinking about everything out here and it feels good um I’m good
now goods are probably not the word I should use but it does help people distract themselves sometimes
when you eat especially those high-intensity foods you feel happier serotonins release dopamine
is released you’re like oh that’s good I want to do that again or you just feel numb you
can get into a zone where you’re just eating and not caring it’s not that you’re feeling calm
you’re just not feeling anything and a lot of times when people get into that zone they’re
not tasting the food either they’re just kind of on an autopilot emotional eating like most other
escape behaviors never address the underlying emotions and their causes so we need to look
at it are you feeling anxious are you feeling jittery are you feeling depressed because your
blood Sugar’s low because you’re nutritionally deficient because you’re not getting enough sleep
or because there’s something cognitive going on or all of the above emotional eating often results
in physical issues like weight gain poor sleep and reduced energy weight gain is you know in and
of itself, a few pounds here and they’re not a big deal but some people can start emotionally eating
to feel better they gained a lot of weight then they start feeling less energetic it starts being
harder to move around they get to the point where they are clinically obese then they’re going I’m
never going to take all this weight off they feel hopeless and helpless you see where this is going
so they eat some more can cause poor sleep apnea it’s hard to get it’s also hard to get
comfortable sometimes if you’ve eaten a whole bunch of food right before you go to bed you know
your bellies all full and little you wake up the next morning and your belly still awful which
means you probably didn’t sleep very well the night before and emotional eating often results
in reduced energy because the foods we binge on the foods we eat for self-soothing often end up
causing a sugar crash some people try to undo emotional eating by restricting other calories
which can lead to nutritional deficits and more cravings I had a girlfriend when I was in high
school and you know think back to I don’t know if they still do it but when we were in high school
there was always some kind of candy sale going on and she would always forgo all other food so she
could have two chocolate bars each day and you know we’re not going to get into the all the other
issues surrounding only eating two chocolate bars but the point I’m making it right now is the fact
she wasn’t getting protein she wasn’t getting you to know most of her vitamins and minerals and stuff
that her body needed to make the neurotransmitter so she could feel happy and she was contributing
to a sugar crash but I also know that it’s common around the holidays for people to do this they’ll
let go all day without eating because they know they’re going to a party tonight and there’s going
to be a lot of really good food doing that once in a while is not a big deal doing that 10 or 15 times
in a month could start to have problems emotional eaters need to first find a way to stop before
they eat so whether it’s writing in a journal or adding there are a lot of apps on your phone
that you can put your food in even if you’re not writing about your emotions and your cravings
and all that kind of stuff sometimes it’s enough to make people stop before they each
for the food or you know kind of an extreme way to go is to not keep pre-processed or prepackaged
foods in the house so anything that you’re going to eat you’ve got to make a second identity
the underlying reason for your eating figure out do I generally eat in response to and then
address the thoughts and emotions leading to the urges so if you figure out that the underlying
emotions for your eating or your depression then what thoughts are maintaining that depression
and how can you address it once you address the underlying issues of some of the emotional eating
will go away some of its habits we’re going to have to break that habits and over the course of
you know past couple of decades of working with people my experience has been the majority of the
time people don’t want to hear well once you deal with your emotional issues the emotional eating
will go away now they’re there because they want to stop that behavior right now so yes we need to
work on all the underlying issues but give them a tip or a trick or a tool whatever you want to
call it to use before they walk out of your office after every single session that way they have
something else they can put in their toolbox and feel more empowered to have control over what’s
going on with them and what’s coming their way knowing what and why is
80% of helping them get to the recovery point now if there’s co-occurring or if the
eating issues are more than just emotional eating if there’s the person meets the
criteria for binge eating disorder bulimia or anorexia there are a lot of
other underlying issues they’re gonna have to be dealt with so I don’t want
to trivialize that but I do want people to feel like they’ve got some hope over
what’s going on are there any questions if you enjoy this podcast please like and
subscribe either in your podcast player or on YouTube you can attend and participate
in our live webinars with doctor Snipes by subscribing at all CEUs comm slash
counselor toolbox this episode has been brought to you in part by all CEUs
com providing 24/7 multimedia continuing education and pre-certification training to
counselors therapists and nurses since 2006 used coupon code consular toolbox to get
a 20% discount on your order this month
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