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Just do this exercise.
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Please understand this: if you think about God, you will become hallucinatory Only when you are conscious of your mortality.
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Lily, Hey Psych2Goers, and welcome to another video. Thank you all so much for the love and support that you’ve given us enabling us to make yet another exploration into everyday psychology.
So let’s begin.
Loving yourself may sound simple, but we all know how hard it is.
Sometimes it can be a roller coaster ride between being happy with yourself and wishing you could change.
There are so many things that affect your image of yourself, and some of them may not be good Things such as the media set false expectations and ideals.
It can be a long journey to accept this, but it’s worth it.
We made this video to remind you that you should never give up on loving yourself because you deserve it and you’re worth it.
So here are 12 things that do not determine your self-worth Number one.
Your achievements.
Can you relate to loving yourself so much when something goes well, but the second something goes wrong? Your self-worth immediately takes the plunge Whether it’s your grades, your job, or a sport.
It’s easy to base your worth on what you accomplish, but how much you’re worth does not depend on your achievements, especially when it comes to competitions.
You can’t control your competitors, so you don’t need to blame yourself when things don’t go your way.
You are more than just a bullet-point list of all of your accomplishments.
You’re a complex person with a personality hobbies and so much more than your achievements, And it all makes you worth it Number two, your income and job.
Are you second-guessing your career? Do you often think of switching your job While your job plays a big part in your lifestyle? It does not determine your worth.
People who have less money, aren’t lesser than others like society and the media sometimes portrays Your job and income are sometimes the result of your situation.
There are so many factors that influence them like location, the economy, and competition, So they aren’t a reflection of who you are Number three, is your childhood.
Do you avoid thinking about your childhood? Do the memories make you uncomfortable? Your childhood may shape a lot of things about you, but it does not determine your worth.
It’s a phase well on its way out and you mustn’t. Let it overwhelm you Your rough childhood does not define who you are.
After all, you have no control over who your parents are, and you’re not responsible for their choices.
It may take some time to accept this, but your past does not define you Number four, your level of education, Much like your income, your level of education is also the result of so many factors, One of the biggest factors when it comes to deciding whether to Go to college, and where is how much money your family has? You can’t change, how much money your family has or the location of the schools you want na go to.
Therefore, you don’t need to feel bad.
If you don’t have a higher level of education, it doesn’t mean you’re, less intelligent or worth less than those who do Number Five.
How do other people view and treat you? Do you constantly stress about how others see you? Are you constantly trying to live up to their standards? Other people have no way of knowing who you truly are, While family and friends may have a good idea of it.
Only you fully know yourself, Knowing this your self-worth: isn’t based upon others, limited and sometimes biased opinions of you.
You cannot control what other people think or how they act.
Similarly, don’t base your value upon something completely up to others.
Trying to please others will ultimately lead you to be miserable, so try not to stress yourself out with other people’s opinions, even if it is difficult. Number six.
Other people,’s achievements.
Do you compare your achievements to other people?’s? It’s! Okay, because everyone does that occasionally – And it’s so easy to look at what you’ve done and compare it to someone else.’s achievements, especially when the internet gives you access to everyone.’s.
Amazing lives.
It may be hard to internalize.
But what do other people do? Doesn’t define you, You can’t control others.
So the only thing you can do is try your best, Regardless of the result trying your best is enough.
After all, everyone is different with varying skill sets and experiences, so it’s no use comparing two unique people.
Number seven is your appearance.
Are you unhappy with some physical features of yours? Is there anything you wish you could change about your appearance? Chances are, the answer is yes, Almost everyone wants what someone else has, which is the sad truth, especially living in today’s, society. It can be so easy to compare yourself to other people and all the gorgeous models on TV, But try to remember that what you look like doesn’t determine how much you’re worth.
You’ve probably heard it before, and we know how hard it is to accept and internalize, but it’s.
True You don’t need to feel bad because you might not look the way that people on TV do, because everyone is beautiful in their unique way.
Number eight, your relationship status.
Are you still looking for the one, But it seems like everyone.
You know is getting hitched Nowadays, there’s so much pressure to have a significant other and a picture, perfect relationship.
It can feel as if you constantly need to be pursuing someone out of fear of being a desperate lonely single.
However, there’s nothing wrong with being single.
Doesn’t make you less of a person because it means you’re, taking more time to focus on yourself and what you want na do You will only go for it when it feels right.
While a relationship may be nice, it’s, not something you need to have to be valued Nine, the number of friends you have Do you value quantity, over quality when it comes to friends, Or is it difficult for you to keep up with your circle of Friends Having more friends, doesn’t matter what kind of person you are, If you only have a few it doesn’t mean you’re, not sociable or kind, but it means you have a specific taste in people which isn’t a bad thing. You’re invested in finding friends who understand and care for you.
On the other hand, having more friends doesn’t mean you’re shallow and only interested in popularity.
It means that you’re friendly and open to new people.
The number of friends you have doesn’t say anything about your worth.
Rather it’s the quality of your friends that matters 10, your social media status.
Are you an avid scroller? Do you, post on social media habitually or occasionally With the amount of emphasis? The world seems to revolve around how many likes you get.
There is so much pressure to have a picture-perfect, aesthetically pleasing life.
However, your worth is not measured by how many people, like your posts, Social media, is for sharing parts of your life and forming connections with people It’s allowed getting likes.
May give you the satisfaction it doesn’t determine your self-worth.
Social media should be fun and uplifting, not a tool to gain validation. You are valid and worthy regardless of your social media status.
Number 11.
Your age, Both old and young people, are often judged due to their age.
People may think all young people are reckless and selfish, while all older people have their whole lives figured out, But your age, doesn’t control your personality, hobbies, likes dislikes and so much more It’s, not a reflection of who you are so it does. ‘t determine your worth After all Age aint, nothing, but a number Number 12.
Your decision to have children There’s a lot of societal pressure to have children to contribute to society, But having children is completely your own decision Not having children.
Doesn’t make you less worthy than others who do because it’s a major decision that affects you most of all, so it should be up to you Remember your decision is valid and valued either way.
In the end, you’re the only one who determines your self worth Cliche, but it’s, true, Not anyone or anything else, whether it be money, family, or friends.
It may be hard, but just try to remember that you are more than any single aspect.
We hope we were able to give you insight into some of the things that you should, ‘t base your worth on.
Do you use any of these things to measure your self-worth? If so, that’s – okay, we’ve all been there before, and we’re here for you Leave a comment down below and share your experiences and thoughts you have as well. If you find this video helpful be sure to hit the like button and share it with those out there still struggling with their self-worth, Don’t forget to subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell for more new videos.
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CEUs are available for this presentation at AllCEUs.com/CBT-CEU Hi everybody and welcome to today’s
presentation on cognitive behavioral therapy skills. Like the other
the presentation we did on assert not assertive community treatment acceptance
and commitment therapy, which is also based on just providing information
about skills that can be used not providing an evidence-based practice
we couldn’t cover that in a full hour or just an hour so over the
next hour we’re going to define cognitive behavioral therapy and its
basic principles a lot of us are familiar with this but it’s going to be
a good review and it also may highlight some nuances that you didn’t know about
will identify factors impacting people’s choice of behaviors explore causes and
impact of thinking errors and identify common thinking errors and their
relationships to cognitive distortions so why do we care well as therapists we
want to help people figure out the best way to live a happy healthy meaningful
goals-driven life for some people that’s going to mean using some cognitive
behavioral interventions that can be in addition to mindfulness that can be in
addition to a lot of other things but it’s important to help people understand
that the way we believe things to be the way we interpret things is going to
affect our reactions so for example think about a situation you know you’ve
walked into and maybe you walked into it with a small child and it was a
different situation it was a new situation but you know it was no big
deal you walked in it was not a threatening situation to you because you
were like hey I got this the little kid walks in and goes oh wow there are a lot
of people walking around here, this is the really scary same situation as two
different perceptions you probably didn’t have much of a stress reaction
going on whereas the little child probably had this fight-or-flight thing
going on grabbing onto your hand like please don’t let go
Atlanta Airport is a perfect example if you’ve ever
taken a little kid through Atlanta Airport it gives you an idea about how
people can perceive things differently and when you enact that fight-or-flight
reaction you’re going to have all those stress hormones you’re going to have all
either anxiety or anger or whatever that goes with it it may serve to
exhaust the person and leave them feeling hopeless and helpless so what we
want to do is help people see that but we also want to help them see that when
they’re depressed when they’re tired when they’re sick things are going to
seem a lot worse a lot of times because they don’t have the energy to perceive
it differently I mean when you’re sick it’s overwhelming to think of going
through Atlanta Airport so this is what we want to help people start
understanding is it’s two sides of the same coin they interact if one is you
know kind of going wonky is going to affect the other one the good thing is
if one’s going really good the other one’s going to go good if you’re
having positive thoughts you’re probably going to feel pretty good
there’s an activity and I think we’re going to talk about it later it’s called
the coin flip activity and I asked client clients to flip a coin in the
morning and in the morning if it turns heads then they have to be the most
positive Pollyanna all day long look for the silver lining and everything smile
walk with their head up hold those nonverbals up and see how they feel at
the end of the day besides a little sore because there are muscles they’re using
they haven’t been used in a while if it lands on tails they can just be their normal
selves which generally if they’re seeing me means that they are depressed anxious
stressed out angry about something in the negative realm then we
talk about how did things seem different on the days when you were feeling better
when you were walking taller when you were smiling even our nonverbals it
doesn’t even have to be sickness it can be our nonverbals that can make us feel
or make our body feel heavy and tired and make it seem like it’s a whole lot
harder to deal with life as a person who perceives the world
generally good and believes they can deal with challenges as
they arise that good old self-efficacy will be able to allow their stress
response system to function normally so if they’re like you know what I can deal
with whatever life throws at me I’ve got it and maybe I need help with it maybe
I’ll need to ask for support but I’ve got it it’s not going to completely
overwhelm me with people who see the world as hostile unsafe and unpredictable you
know for a variety of reasons whatever happened to make their scheme as such
that they don’t believe that people or the world is trustworthy are predictable
they are always on guard they’re always kind of like a hamster in a cage that has
Have you ever had a hamster hamsters don’t recognize you and go hey that’s my own
or human contact score hamsters go run under their little house
and you just kind of open the cage and stick your hand in there and flip over
their house and you’re like come here and give me cuddles and you’re like you
know 200 times bigger than they are so the little hamster is like freaking
out this is what it’s like for people and obviously, I’m exaggerating but this
is what it’s like for people who have a negative perspective a negative view or
a hostile view of the world so kind of keep that little hamster in your mind cognitive behavioral therapy we have
core beliefs those things that are in our hearts when I talk with my clients
about honesty step one and that’s what they’ve got to do to start recovery is
get honest with themselves first and then other people we talk about head
heart and gut honesty do you think it’s right does it seem like the right thing
to do does it feel right in your heart you know does it make you happy it
doesn’t make you feel good and then the spidey senses is your gut saying and or
is your gut fine if one of those is saying this might not be the right
choice and we need to think about what’s going on so we have those core beliefs
and I put them in the heart just because that’s the middle of the head heart and
gut but you have core beliefs about yourself whether you’re good with
you’re bad whether you’re effective at certain things yada yada
you have core beliefs about other people same thing good bad effective
predictable and you have core beliefs about the future and a lot of that goes
with the locus of control but also your past experiences if the world in the past is
seemed unfriendly and uncontrollable and you’ve perceived it that way then you’re
going to expect the future to be uncontrollable so what we want to do is
help people look at their schemas and their core beliefs about themselves
others in the future and figure out kind of what they want it to look like these
schemas are going to affect your behavior and your thoughts and your
feelings and you know you can pick wherever you want to start it doesn’t
matter because all three inter interface with one another so if you haven’t let’s
start with negative thoughts if you have negative thoughts then you might feel
anxious angry stressed dysphoric which will affect the behavior you’re going
to do different things than if you have positive thoughts about something you
feel excited and energized you’re going to have different behavior the best
thing example I can give you is if you’ve ever done public speaking or had
to present something some people detest public speaking it’s just
terrifying for them to get up in front of a group of people so their thoughts
am I going to trip up I going to forget what I’m going to say I’m going
to make a fool of myself I’m going to you know it can go on forever that when
you get on a roll you can get on a negative roll and go on forever or
positive hopefully get on that roll with those thoughts you start holding onto
those thoughts remember as we talked about in a CT the other day when you
hold those thoughts and you kind of mush them around in your mind and you come to
believe them that you’re going to make a fool of yourself and it’s going to be
awful you’re going to start feeling terrified likely which is going to
likely affect your behavior if you go out on the stage and you’re terrified
you’re going to probably stutter you’re probably going to get foggy-headed
you’re going to have that fight-or-flight reaction so there’s an
the adrenaline rush and you start sweating and you can’t focus and you can’t
concentrate you want to away as opposed to somebody like me who
loves public speaking and I’m just like cool I get to go out there and try to
engage however many people are in the audience it’s a game for me because when
I can see your faces I enjoy trying to figure out and make eye
contact with people and figure out what it is that they’re there for what is it
that’s going to make them tick what resonates with them so my behavior as
you can kind of see right now when I go out there I’m excited and I want to
engage people and it’s a fun experience for me again just like the airport the
same experience for two different people and two very different interpretations
and reactions to it so what effects I don’t like the term rational but when
we’re talking about CBT irrationally comes up a lot I like to replace it with
helpful because every behavior in its weird sort of way is or probably was
rational at one time that being said we’re going to get back to that stress
affects our behavioral choices if we’re under stress we can have negative
emotions negative emotions will affect our thoughts if we’re feeling sad we’re
probably going to look at the dark side if we feel sad we’re going to look at
the bottom falling out if we’re happy we’re probably going to look for that
silver lining physical factors if you’re in pain sick sleep-deprived poorly
nourished so your body can’t produce the neurotransmitters it needs to or heaven
forbid intoxicated you’re probably not going to make the same decisions as you
would if you were comfortable healthy well-rested nourished and not
intoxicated any of those things can go impact how you perceive a
situation or how you react in a situation, especially the intoxication
whereas in your non intoxicated State in your sober state, you may think that you
want to do something but then you’ve got that filter that goes not
not a good idea in an intoxicated State or even in a manic state if you’re you
know if you have somebody with bipolar that filter kind of goes away so the
behaviors that someone may normally not do because they have a rational filter
that goes you know punching this guy outs probably not the best idea right
now the filter goes away when you’re sleep-deprived you’re less generally
people are less patient generally people don’t have as much of a filter thing
about watching your children if you have children or your grandchildren or even
yourself I know myself when I’m sleepy I am giddy as all get-out and things I
wouldn’t normally say because they’re you know stupid I’ll just come out and
say anyway and my kids just roll their eyes or the mom you’re overtired could
go to bed, uh but that’s okay you know I’m okay with that
in that situation now if I acted that way at work it would be a worse thing
environmentally if you’re introduced to a new or unique situation and you
perceive it as stressful because the unknown we know can be stressful then
you may not make as rational of a choice or as helpful of a choice because you
maybe trying to escape the same thing as exposure to UNPROFOR bellowing for a
the word here but UNPROFOR ball is the best I could come up with we all prefer
certain situations some people as I said would rather do just about anything
then get up in front of a lecture hall of a hundred and fifty people and talk
but if they have to do it then they’re going to be under stress which may
affect how they do things so we want people to understand that their
perception and their feelings are affected by a lot of other things not
just you know an emotion here or a particular memory there’s a lot that
goes into it and social if peers your family convey
irrational thoughts as necessary very standards for social acceptance
people may tend to cling more to it to those unhelpful thoughts and unhelpful
behaviors you know in CBT they say irrational because quote nobody wants to
associate with those people you know who are those people and why can’t we
associate with them there are a lot of things if you think back think high
school you know high school is pretty rough if we’re going to talk about
having irrational thoughts and cognitions if you have to be part of
this particular group to be accepted you have to do this you have to
do that but do you do those kinds of all-or-nothing statements
are cognitive distortions and while they may have served a purpose in some way
shape or form in the past we need to encourage our clients to take a look at
them now and go are they still helpful ways of thinking is it still helpful for
me to think that I am only successful if I live in a million-dollar house in a
gated community and do this that and the other or can I be can I define success a
different way or do I define success differently and lack supportive
peers to buffer stress so we had those peers that caused stress by talking
about the half dues and categorizing and lots of attributions but then there’s
also not having somebody to go you know does this make any sense
because sometimes we are our own worst enemies and if we go to a friend and we
go you know this is what I’m thinking and I think I have to do this in order
to be acceptable to be loved or you know whatever the case may be
most people are not going to use those exact phrases a good friend is probably
going to listen and go yeah you’re right or no no that’s way off so supportive
peers are essential to reminding us to consciously regularly check in with our
cognitions to make sure that they are hopeful and rational so a note about
irrationality and this is mine this is not from CBT the origins of most beliefs
for rational and helpful given the information, the person had at the time
and their cognitive development their ability to process that information so
concepts and schemas and core beliefs that people formed when they were five
are probably going to be very egocentric you know the person is going to feel
like everybody sees it my way because this is how I see it you know just like
a five-year-old does a five-year-old doesn’t think well you know let me take
Johnny’s perspective is no he assumes that Johnny sees it the same way so it’s
going to be egocentric it’s probably going to be focused on only one aspect
of the situation because small children can’t focus on multiple aspects and it’s
probably going to be dichotomous it’s all-or-nothing
Mommy loves me mommy hates me and it could be personalized you know
everything a lot of kids think that everything has
to do with them so if something happens something bad happens many times
children will take it personally or be afraid it’s going to happen to them
again you know if hurricane katrina hurricane
Andrew those sorts of things you know we saw a lot of trauma in children and they
developed very real fears about thunderstorms and hurricane season
and if you’ve watched Florida hasn’t had a notable hurricane in years now but
there’s a lot of stuff that goes into that but young people
during some of those really bad hurricane seasons perceive those
situations differently okay so we need to help people understand that if we
especially if we use the term irrational those thoughts you formed when you are
knee-high to a grasshopper and they made perfect sense to you back then but now
that you’re an adult you’ve got more experience and you’re
able to take different perspectives your brain is more developed
let’s take a look at it and see if you can look at different perspectives and
come up with something a little more helpful maybe a different way of
perceiving this situation the irrational irrationality or unhelpful Nosov Fox
comes when those beliefs are perpetuated without examination so something a
belief that you formed when you’re five you’re still holding when you’re 35 and
you’ve never questioned it you’ve never gone you know does this make sense is
this is helpful to get me to where I want to be most of us don’t know
we form these attitudes and beliefs when we’re you know growing up when we’re in
elementary school middle school high school from watching TV to being
around our peers from being around our family in our community and we get all
this input of the way things should be and a lot of times people don’t stop to
question and go and go well does this make me happy is this really what
I want and they can be irrational if they continue to be held despite causing
harm to the person so the person continues to hold this belief even
though it is causing them general emotional cognitive harm is making them
miserable we need to look at why what’s motivating them to hold on to that
belief why is that belief so important and how can we make it so they can live
a happy values-driven life emphasis on the happy how can we make it less
harmful sometimes it’s more productive for clients to think of these thoughts
as unhelpful or helpful instead of irrational sometimes when I say
irrational to clients and you know I’m the same way if somebody says you’re
being irrational I’m like oh I’m not it elicits this instantaneous defensive
reaction it’s like when you tell them they’re being resistant they’re like I
am NOT rien resistant so helpful or unhelpful and then we talk about why it
is unhelpful in getting them toward their goals
basic principles of cognitive behavioral therapy we teach or help clients learn
to distinguish between thoughts and feelings I can think something is scary
I’ll probably feel it but if I have an automatic you know feeling I walk into
Atlanta Airport and I see yeah I went to an airport in New York I can’t even
remember which one it was because my plane was diverted and I got off and I
walked out there and I have never seen so many people packed in his place like
sardines before in my life I was just completely overwhelmed that was kind of
an automatic feeling now that was a feeling based on you know who knows it
was overwhelming to be surrounded by that many people so then I had to
separate the thoughts and go okay what am I thinking that’s making me feel so
overwhelmed and at that point you know I didn’t know how to get to my gate and
all that other sort of stuff with traveling I don’t travel well but
encouraging clients to stop and go okay why am I feeling this way what are my
what thoughts am I having that are contributing to these dysphoric feelings
CBT helps people become aware of how thoughts can influence
feelings in ways that are sometimes not helpful
we have hecklers in our gallery the automatic tapes that we plaything
memories that we have whatever you want to call them that when you try something
when you are just going through daily life you hear these voices in the back
of your head and not real voices but that is saying you’re never
going to make this or if you would have just blah blah blah then you’d be a
the better person helping clients become aware of those thoughts and how they’re
negatively influencing their feelings and keeping them kind of stuck is a huge
part of CBT we help them learn about thoughts that seem to occur
automatically without even realizing how they may affect emotions again those
thoughts from they’re saying you’re not good enough
you’re not smart enough and nobody’s gonna like you where did that come from
and do you believe it you know maybe it came from somebody
when you were in high school so was that a valid source maybe it
came from somebody yesterday on Facebook was that a valid source taking in those
thoughts and then figuring out is this something I’m going to hold because it
makes me happy or is this something that I’ve got to deal with because I’m having
a negative reaction constructively evaluate whether these automatic
thoughts and assumptions are accurate or perhaps biased the other thing to
remember is a lot of our clients not all of them but a lot of them hold
themselves to a standard there’s like up here and they hold everybody else to a
standard that’s down here so they are a failure if they don’t achieve this but
everybody else is successful as long as they achieve this so encouraging them to
take a look at how accurate and biased or unbiased are the thoughts and like I
said they may be their thoughts they may be telling themselves these things
evaluate whether the current reactions are a helpful and good use of energy or
unhelpful and a waste of energy that could be used to move toward those
people and things important not impotent important to the person road-rage you’re
in the car you’re driving somebody cuts you off okay natural reaction fight or
flight reaction you’re just like slam on the brakes and do whatever you got to do
aversive maneuvers you’re good so you could let it go at that point ago got
Lucky on that one and keep driving most people not all but most they found that
80% of drivers have reported incidences of road rage which is a
high number but most people will start getting all fired up and irritated
and grumpy and we and just rageful and so my question
would be I hear that and I hear that it made you angry
in retrospect did screaming at the person as you pass them at sixty miles
an hour in your car with the windows rolled up does any good did it do
any good at all what else could you have done with that energy if you wouldn’t
have expended it all yesterday we had to wait for the vet to come by and my
daughter just completely wore herself out worrying about when the vet was
going to get there what he was going to say about her donkeys and was beside
herself so by the time it got to evening and it was time for her to go to her
martial arts class she didn’t have the energy to go she’s like um wiped out I
just want to go to bed in retrospect we’re looking back and saying okay now
tell me what it was that you were so stressed out about and let’s talk about
whether that was a realistic and helpful line of thought to perseverate on all
day long and what could you have done differently because she didn’t bother to
mention any of that to me yesterday and then developed the skills to notice
interrupt and correct these biased thoughts independently causes of these
thinking errors information processing shortcuts when we form schemas and we
encounter a situation that reminds us of something in the past like when I go to
my grandmother’s house I have a schema I have a belief system I have you know
stuff that I know about my grandmother’s house so when I go to my grandmother’s
house it’s kind of a shortcut to knowing what to expect when I walk in and how to
behave how to do different things and it helps me plan and predict if you’re
using outdated or dichotomous all-or-nothing schemas it may cause
thinking errors because you may be now incorrectly processing current events
mental noise some of us have it a lot of us have it
not everybody thinks about trying to focus and study for a final exam in the
middle of a really busy sports bar okay this is a cause of thinking or you’re
going to miss important things you’re not going to be able to focus you’re not
going to necessarily attend to the correct things because there’s just so
much else going on your attention is drawn in 17 different directions and or
the brain’s limited information processing capacity due to age we talked
about that before young kids think all or nothing they think dichotomously
egocentric ly middle school-aged kids and older start developing the ability
for abstract thinking, by the time we get older, you know as adults theoretically
we’re able to you know think pretty well and think pretty clinically about different
events but if we’re in crisis when someone is in crisis and it could be
like what we think of clinically as a crisis or it could be they’re just
completely overwhelmed and burned out and have been burning the candle at both
ends for three months they’re not going to process information quite as well
they’re not going to take in all this stuff because they’re just like
shell-shocked have you ever seen teachers in the hallway of like an
elementary school Oh at the end of the second nine weeks they just kind of
stand there with this blank look on their face they’re not processing as
much as they were the first day of school and you know God loved them they
have a lot to deal with but we need to help our clients
understand that there are some times that they are going to have to really
stop and focus write things down so they can remember or they can make decisions
a little more my guess is most of us have times in our life when we’ve
been able to think through complex problems but then there are other times
where you just can’t keep it all in your head and you’ve got to put it on a
whiteboard maybe that’s just me but we want clients
to understand that they are not broken they’re not faulty they’re doing the
best they can with the tools they have and the knowledge they have and our job
is to help them see where some of this might have gone a little awry other
causes of thinking errors and emotional motivations I feel bad therefore
whatever I’m thinking must be bad if I’m scared that means whatever it’s coming
on the other end of the phone is bad news moral motivations I did it because
it was the right thing to do and that can be an excuse for doing wrong
behaviors as well it can also be you know you can argue on
the moral one social influence well everyone else is doing it so it must not
be bad set that again a lot of times and this is where the frames approaching the
motivational interviewing is helpful f stands for feedback
about the reality of what’s going on is everybody doing it let’s look at
statistics you know not subjective information let’s look at objective
information so the impact of these thinking errors makes people want to
fight or flee when they get upset and we use upset as a kind of this
all-encompassing garbage term emotionally they get depressed or
anxious we don’t want to feel that way anxiety and anger are flee or fight
fight or flee it’s our body saying there’s a threat you got to do something
depression is your body going I give up I just don’t I don’t even have the
energy to do it anymore behaviorally some people withdraw because they
shut down we all know people who get frustrated when they get overwhelmed
when they start feeling hopeless or helpless they just kind of withdraw from
everything and everyone’s addictions numb that out so they don’t have to feel
the dysphoria sleeping problem and changes when we start being on that
constant fight-or-flight hyper-vigilant sort of thing going on in the body is
always sort of turned on which means you’re not going to sleep as well then
the circadian rhythms get messed up which starts causing exhaustion and
lethargy and then everything seems harder because you’re sleep-deprived and
then you start thinking more negatively and more hopelessly you see where this
is going it’s a downward spiral and eating changes some people eat a lot
more because they’re eating comfort foods some people eat a lot less because
their stomach is so torn up from the stress they can’t even think about
holding anything down physical stress-related illnesses fibromyalgia
gastrointestinal problems headaches neck aches backache you know the whole
the gamut of it when you start feeling bad when you start hurting generally it gets
frustrating after a while and that frustration makes it kind of raises the
the bar brings you up a little bit so you’re
that is much closer to kind of just kind of being overwhelmed you don’t have as much
of a cushion as you would if you were happy healthy well nourished not in pain
and socially a lot of times we will get irritable or impatient with other people
or withdrawal when we’re having these negative cognitions these thinking
errors that are keeping us in a dysphoric state these effects of
thinking errors contribute to fatigue and a sense of hopelessness and
helplessness which intensifies thinking errors this is an important concept that
I want my clients to understand and I want to drive home in this presentation
so thinking errors what are they emotional reasoning feelings are not
facts and we want to help people to learn to effectively identify feelings
and separate them from facts so if somebody says I’m terrified
okay that is a feeling what are the facts supporting that feeling why are
you are terrified what is the evidence that you are in some sort of danger
right now you know and danger may not be the right word for your client at that
a particular point in time but what’s the evidence that there’s a threat in what
ways is this similar to other situations maybe it’s triggering something from the
past that was scary or you know you were too little to be able to
handle it but you can handle it now and how if you dealt with similar situations
like this, in the past, we want to help people just step back and get some
distance between their feelings and their thoughts and try to figure out you
know which thoughts are helpful and productive and even if a sought makes
people anxious or angry it can be helpful it may be telling them hey dude
you need to get your butt up and get out of there if it’s helpful it means it’s
moving them toward where they want to be happy healthy safe and values-driven
life so happy and helpful developed a stress tolerance skills when people use
emotional reasoning they feel emotions which then they start attributing
finding the facts to support those emotions instead of looking at all the
facts we want to help them learn to tolerate their distress so they can kind
of let that subside for a second they can accept their feeling they can name
they can say I’m scared I’m stressed I’m angry and whatever but they don’t
have to act on it right then they can tolerate the distress for a minute
without having to try to make it go away and emotional regulation skills they can
feel a feeling without having to make it go from zero to 120
you know if they feel sad they go I feel kind of sad instead of grabbing onto it
and going I wonder what I feel sad about I must feel sad about all these sad
things now I’m going to be sad and devastated so we want to
help people learn how to regulate their emotions identify them accept them
whatever word you want to use and tolerate them because feelings are
there for a reason they’re there to tell you your brain thinks something’s going
now thankfully we have that higher-order cognition stuff going on so
we can contradict our brain and we can go you know maybe that’s not true in
this situation cognitive bias negativity mental filter whatever you want to call
it people who focus on the negative they walk in they get up in the morning and
they look outside and it’s partly cloudy they get to work and they said instead
of saying there was it was very light traffic they said there was a fair
amount of traffic everything is always the flip side of
what somebody who’s optimistic would say so asking them what’s the
benefit to focusing on the negative in what ways is this helpful to you you
know some people say well it keeps me from getting disappointed because I know
it’s going to end up negative anyway so we can trap challenges that know that
whatever it is they think they know and see if there have been exceptions when
it hasn’t turned out that way what are the positives to this situation
I give the example a lot of you know I wash my car or it rains and maybe I
wanted to go out on a run that day but I can perceive it I can look at the
positives you know the rain washed my car for me so I don’t have to do it now
score it watered my garden all the better it knocked down some of the
pollen out of there even better I can find and I can encourage people to find
positives in a situation yes there are negatives there are negatives to every
situation if you want to find them you’re going to find them but if you
want to find the positives you can too which takes us down to what are all the
facts there’s the positive and the negative and the neutral I told you
earlier about the coin toss activity having people toss a coin on the
heads days they act like it is just the greatest day to be alive and see how
things are different when they do their journal because you know I have my
clients do I’m sort of a mindfulness check-in in
the morning and in the evening and preferably at lunchtime how are they
feeling what’s their emotional state what’s their energy level on the happy
days a lot of times it can be less and sometimes they need a little coaching
throughout because some of those old patterns kick in but I want them to
start challenging some of their automatic thoughts that we’re going to
talk about in a minute disqualifying or minimizing the positive most of us can
probably say we’ve had a bunch of clients that do this they are more than
happy to tell you about all the things that they mess up but then when they do
something right they minimize it encouraging people to hold themselves to
the same standard they would hold everyone else to and I know I talked
about that earlier ask them things like would it minimum would you minimize this
if it was your best friend’s experience your best friend came to you and said I
just got into such-and-such college would you say awesome or would you say
anybody can get in there how would that go ask them what is scary about
accepting these positive things that you might have had an
accomplishment for some people it means that it might mean other people expect
more of them for other people they just don’t know how to accept the positive
they don’t know how to accept compliments they don’t know how to be
the center of attention and they don’t like it and then we want to look at why
that is sometimes we disqualify the positive because it fails to meet
someone else’s standards so as people might that be true here you know I know
when I was growing up and going through college and going through school and
everything got my doctorate but I will always be ever and always being not
a real doctor because a Ph.D. is not an MD and I’m like really
so is it somebody else’s standards or can I feel good about having a Ph.D. egocentrism my perspective is the only
perspective I’ll being egocentric but it doesn’t work
most of the time so encouraging people to take alternate perspectives
maybe you’re texting with someone and they say something that is not that you
interpret as not the nicest thing and this happens in text messages a lot and
they get upset now an egocentric thinking error would say that purse is
just grumpy today someone that’s taking other perspectives would stop and go
back and read the text and go I wonder if maybe this could have been taken some
another way you know cuz their reaction is not what I intended
so egocentrism if you hold on to that I don’t understand anybody else because
you know I don’t see a problem with anything personalizing and mind-reading this is when you assume that everybody’s
frowning because of something you did your boss walks down the hallway
and looks at you and grimaces and continues to walk on oh I must have done
something wrong no maybe he just got out of his senior management meeting that
was five hours long and he’s got to go to the bathroom you know there could be
a hundred different explanations for why that happened so encourage clients to
ask themselves what are some alternate explanations for this event that
doesn’t involve me you know why might this have happened if they hold
on to that, I must have done something wrong but as soon as their boss calls
them up and goes hey can you come to my office for a second you know where their
thoughts are going to go I’m getting fired I’m going to get laid off I don’t
know what it was that I did wrong but he walked by me two weeks ago in the
hallway and grimaced and I’m just I’m the worst person in the whole world
but where did that come from so encouraging people to not necessarily
assume they know what’s going on in someone else’s mind and not
automatically attributing every person’s negative behavior to something they did
how often and then ask them how often has it been about you
now think about the last 10 times you’ve taken something personally how many of
those 10 times has it been about something you did versus something with
the other person then the availability heuristic remembering what’s most
prominent in your mind so asking clients what are the facts ah the most obvious
one that we talk about is plane crashes you know it is way dangerous to fly on a
plane because you hear about all those plane crashes well yeah you hear about
A few planes crash but you don’t hear about the 20,000 every day that land
safely so you remember it and it seems more dangerous because that’s what is in
your mind that’s what is available to you that’s what you’ve based your
thought processes on because maybe you didn’t know that 20,000 planes or more
fly and land just perfectly every day this can also be true with people
remembering what’s most prominent in your mind sometimes and this can be very
very true in domestically violent relationships if somebody falls in love
with someone and that person is just the greatest person since sliced bread for
the first four months and then the cycle starts and there’s this little tiny
a sliver of the honeymoon period after the battering cycle and the person’s like
that’s the person I fell in love with that’s what I remember and they try to
focus on that that’s most prominent in their mind and they ignore the rest of
the stuff so we need to encourage people to look objectively at the facts magnification are you confusing high and
low probability outcomes what are the chances that this is going to happen how
many clients have we worked with that have gone to the doctor and gotten in a
physical or get a test run and then the doctor had to call them back and
this could be true for you too and the doctor had to call them back two or
three days later when the tests came back from the lab and that whole three
days they were just in a panic because they
were afraid they were going to get some terminal diagnosis so thinking about
high and low probability outcomes another instance or example of
magnification is somebody that thinks this is the end of the world whatever it
I think I’ve told you before my little story about um tripping when I
was walking down the hall at work and falling and yeah it was embarrassing my
folders went everywhere and yeah but in that big scheme of things will it matter
that much from now you know are people gonna think oh she is such a clutch she
must be a ditz too no I mean they may have thought that at that time I don’t
know but you know in six months nobody’s going to remember and then ask them in
the past when something like this has happened when you’ve had to get a test
done and you’ve had to wait on results or if you’ve done something that was
embarrassing and you didn’t think you thought everybody was going to remember
it forever.
How did you tolerate it how did you learn to deal with it building
on those strengths that they already have all-or-nothing thinking errors
these are things like love versus hate I love them or I hate them it’s all or
nothing she does this all the time or she never does it if I’m going to do it
I’m going to do it perfectly or I’m not going to do it at all thank you all good
intentions or all bad intentions you know sometimes we do things with good
intentions that have some bad repercussions so did we do it with all
bad intentions are all good intentions and the answer is neither most of the
time life is kind of in that middle-ground gray area encouraging clients to
look and find examples where something hasn’t been one of the polls when having
they do something that they’re proud of that wasn’t perfect or when again
when has somebody else do something that they were proud of that wasn’t
perfect remembering that with availability
heuristic remembering how often something happens and how long it’s
been since you’ve seen that behavior and remember that sometimes good times are
amazing but how frequent are they compared with the bad times another thinking error is a belief in a
just world or a fallacy of fairness I just asked clients to identify for good
people you know who’ve had bad things happen and in reality we all have bad
things happen good people do bad people do in between people do attributional
errors and this is a pet of mine you know labeling yourself is not a behavior so
global versus specific and I am stupid versus I’m stupid at math I don’t have
good math skills it’s not about me it’s about the skills I can change skills
stable I am and I always will be versus it’s something I can change it’s
something I can learn internally it’s about me as a person versus it’s about a
skill deficit or something I could learn or change and there’s you know lots of
information on attributions out there on the internet if you need a refresher on
it but we find that a lot of people who have dysphoria have negative global
stable internal attributions so questions for clients remember the
beliefs equal thoughts and facts plus personal interpretation another way of
saying it is reality is 10% perception is 10% reality and 90% interpretation so
what are the facts for and against my belief is the belief based on facts or
feelings does the belief focus on one aspect or the whole situation does the
belief seem to use any thinking errors what are alternate explanations what
would you tell your child or best friend if they had this belief how would you
want someone to tell what would you want someone to tell you about this belief so
if you’re telling somebody about this what are you hoping they’re going to say
in return and finally, how is this belief moving you toward what and who is
important to you or moving you away from what or who is important to you now they
can do a worksheet and have all of these or you can pick one or two of these
questions that are most salient for your clients but they can have kind of at
their fingertips so as they’re going through the day and something happens
they can ask themselves ok what’s an alternate explanation or you know
whatever it is this is salient for that client’s irrational thoughts about how to do these
thoughts impact the client’s emotions health relationships and perceptions of
the world you know this is what we want to ask them how is this thought
impacting you globally how may this thought have been helpful in the past
where did it come from how does it make sense from when you formed it in the
past when you’re dealing with it ask the person if the thought is bringing you
closer to those that are important are there any examples of this thought or
belief not being true and how can the statement be made less global less
all-encompassing so it’s about a specific incident a specific situation
less stable which means you can change it and less internal which means it’s
not about who you are as a person but maybe something that you do or a skill
that you have so we’re going to go through some of these thoughts real
quickly here mistakes are never acceptable and if I make one it means
that I’m incompetent well never is kind of stable and I am incompetent is kind
of global, that’s also that extreme all-or-nothing thinking so you can see
where these cognitive distortions end up leading to unhelpful beliefs
when somebody disagrees with me it’s a personal attack well there’s
personalization if I ever heard it before maybe it’s not about you may be
they’re having a bad day and you just happen to be the unlucky target or maybe
they’re disagreeing with you because they have a different point of view and
it’s not a personal attack it’s just their point of view if someone
criticizes or rejects me there must be something wrong with me
personalization all-or-nothing thinking global stable and internal something
wrong with me as a person to feel good about myself others must approve of me
now this is one we’ve talked about external validation before and we can’t
control other people to feel good about yourself how can you do that
besides necessarily requiring other people to approve of you to be
content in life I must be liked by all people Wow I’ve never met anybody who’s
liked by all people I’ve never even met anybody who’s been hated by all people
but it’s important to help clients see how this is dramatic to say all
people and for them to be content then everybody has to like them
I mean I like to be liked but if everybody doesn’t like me you know
that’s pretty understandable my true value as an individual depends on what
others think of me I would challenge this one this is all you know
also, very personally internally I would challenge people to look at and say it
so your child’s value as an individual depends on what other people think of
he or most people would say no but the perspective thing nothing ever turns
out the way you want it to okay all-or-nothing thinking and probably
availability heuristic if something bad just happened then they may be focusing
on that which causes them to focus on all the other bad things in the past
that have happened not to focus on that is okay you know bad thing
happen but look at all these good things I won’t try anything new unless I will
be good at it this fear of failure fear of rejection
it just really paralyzes a lot of people when they get stuck with that thinking
the area that they have to be perfect I am in total control of anything bad that
happens is my fault well that’s egocentric and personal if
they think they’re in total control that’s their perception of how the world
are they think if they’ve got everybody on marionette strings anything
bad in the world that happens is their fault how powerful are they
I feel happy about uh if I feel happy about life something will go wrong
it happens sometimes but let’s look at times when you’ve been happy that
something hasn’t gone wrong you know let’s get rid of that all-or-nothing
thinking it’s not my fault my life didn’t go the way I wanted could be true
but it seems like that’s making you unhappy so what do we do about that if
I’m not in an intimate relationship I’m alone
no, again that’s pretty extreme I’m either in an intimate relationship, or I
am alone and a loner and you know it’s just me and my 17 cats which follows
with there’s no gray area so encouraging people to look at what these
beliefs are saying important thoughts impact behaviors and emotional and
physical reactions emotional and physical reactions impact thoughts and
interpretations of events so if you do something and it’s pleasurable
and you have a great physical reaction you know let’s take bungee jumping or
skydiving if you go out there and it’s scary but you do it and you’re just like
whoa what a rush your interpretation of that is probably going to be good which
means you’ll probably do it again if you go out there and it’s just the most
horrible experience you’ve ever had you’re probably not going to do it again
and your interpretation of it is going to be not good which is going to make it
hard to understand why other people would do it irrational
thinking patterns are often caused by cognitive distortions so let’s just look
back at some of those because there are a lot fewer cognitive distortions or
general ways of thinking about the world then there are thinking errors because
there are lots and lots of thinking errors cognitive distortions are often schemas
which were formed based on faulty inaccurate or immature knowledge or
understanding and by identifying the thoughts of the hecklers you know the
automatic tapes that are maintaining our unhappiness the person can choose
whether to accept those thoughts or change them
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Hello Kermamedic friends here, and welcome to a new potion… Finally, here it is! In a previous video of my Oski exam in the Faculty of Medicine, I announced a major event in the future. Today is tomorrow!! Let me show you something. That’s what the last two weeks have been about. And tomorrow is Oski’s day. This is Oski’s final week in medical school. The biggest, hardest, most notorious, anxiety-inducing test. … Is tomorrow…And I want to tell you that I have lost the will to live as well as the desire to study for this exam. I am okay You’re done, boy. You’re done. So well, honestly, those last two days have been a solid, rigorous study and I got through it and that’s why I don’t plan on doing that much studying today at all.
I have a list of a few things that I still need to reconfirm and after I’m done I have to go through this list I just want to go over the 4 main exams, abdominal scan, cardiovascular, respiratory, cranial nerves, and motor exams of the upper and lower extremities because they are very likely to Come on the exam so I’m going to do it one last time to be in the best shape I can and well and that’s pretty much it after that I’m going to the gym for gym and then I’m going to play video games with my sister and I’m going to rest and relax because I’m over it and I’m almost done I want to…. ah ah Scream, this is what we’re going to do. We’re not going to think, we’re just going to stop thinking I’m going to study another day and I’m going to start studying today and I’ve got some delicious strawberries and I’m about to get some coffee, and let’s do this.
Well, let’s do this, put the phone on silent. And we throw him on the bed again, like the last time I was preparing for OSCEs in the fourth year, and if you haven’t seen his fluke I advise you to see it I like it very much and I will put it for you here and I use this book and it is my main and it is completely falling off let me show you as you can see All the pages are falling off and I’ve used and benefited from this book very well so the first thing on my list and I’m going to learn about it are decisions and directions that you can make in advance about your treatment in case of future aphasia and not being able to make those kinds of decisions on your own so I’m going to read this and then Moving on… { …………. ……………… } Today is Mother’s Day in the Arab world so we sent my mom some The flowers and the card she had just received… and I’d run back to her..and say, “Have a nice day.” Anyway, we’re back at work.
So I spent about an hour studying. It’s all over for that first little sticky note here. I’m just going to get rid of it and throw it away and now I have this second sticky note with things on it that I didn’t know would make it into the exam until my good friend Georgina told me about it yesterday. This is what we will study now. One of those things is a C spine imaging or C spine X-ray. I’m going to see a random YouTube video about that if you’re wondering what this thing is right here on the side screen on the iPad here. This is a video game that I’ve been running in the background doing something very weird, not necessarily fundamental so I can stay sane here and make my time at this desk more enjoyable. It’s kind of like an incentive for me to sit here and study and every 10 minutes or so I click here a little bit, play a little bit of this game and that’s what’s kept me up for the last day. It is what it is.
Anyway, without further ado let’s watch this video and take some notes Honestly, I can’t stress this enough. If there’s something you don’t understand or something you’re learning for the first time, I find watching YouTube videos to be the best way to do it. These are the people who have already learned the thing you are trying to learn and are now trying to explain it in an easy-to-understand way with all kinds of beautiful pictures, maps, locations..etc. This is often much easier than your 50-minute lecture I’m sure many 50-minute lectures cover cervical spine X-rays but you know a lot of detail is going to come out and a lot of research and history coming to where we are now I want to know how to interpret C spine X-ray and spine X-ray.
So this is what I need… Well, I’m going to present this as if today is the exam I’m looking at the spine C and the x-ray of patient John Smith a large man of fifty-five years old who was coming to the hospital OK the patient history record and communication is two parts of the Oski exam. We also have things like exams, procedural skills, and assessment stations. So it all involves doing hands-on things with our hands talking to patients and examining them with things like a stethoscope and a tendon hammer also and please avoid everything you see here the exam is tomorrow I don’t want to clean my room right now.. if you recall, inside some of my previous vlogs was We have Sonic the Hedgehog, this big damn game that I can check out and it was actually really useful but I just threw it in the trash. So that’s why it’s gone but instead, what we have is Mr. Chair, oops let me get a patch I found ok Mr. Chair so Mr.
The chair is 24 years old and he presented to the emergency department with severe shortness of breath. So I’ll check it out and mark the screen and hope I don’t miss anything. Practice exam skills. What’s funny about this, my friends is that: when we first started preparing for the OSCII exam in year 2, in fact, you probably already knew this if you were watching my videos at the time, I used to complain a lot about the six-minute timer we have to complete these exams is too short and how can we do All we need to do in the six minutes they give us and now when we practice for these exams as final year medical students we only pass it in one minute and sometimes even a minute and a half depending on the exam it’s terrible when you think back on it but I think it’s a testament to show That practice makes perfect.
Keep working on something..you’ll get better at it, etc..so let’s get started, and study for the exam Hello good morning, my name is Nasir and I’m a final year medical student in the emergency department I’m going to confirm your name and age please my name is Mr. Chair, I’m 24 years old Hello Mr. Chair, nice to meet you today. I’m going to check your lungs. This would include looking, listening, and examining your hands, your face, and your chest. Is that OK? Yes, sure, well, thank you very much, just to explain a few things to the examiner with me first, if that’s possible.
Thank you very much, Mr. Chair. Thank you very much. So, we have a minute and a half left on the timer. Assuming I haven’t missed anything major which is always possible. Let’s go to the marking chart and have a look at, the introduction – patient details, cones, screening of cervical lymph nodes aahhh check the lymph nodes in the back of the patient and feel for the supraclavicular nodes here……
Then we go to the submandibular salivary gland in front of the ear note; Don’t forget to check the lymph gland ooh oh yeah Fremitus Vocal 99 99 99 When you are listening to the patient’s chest in all the different areas you are supposed to listen to him again and ask him to say 99 99 99 99 99 This is a test called Acoustic Fremitus. And if you have coherence or a lump in the chest, then the sound will travel better, so you’ll hear 99% louder over the areas where there is reinforcement versus those where there isn’t, so this test!! Well, I remembered almost everything pretty much I didn’t do a fremitos audio 99 99 and check the lymph nodes and in my humble opinion this would be easy with the station and then of course you have to summarize your findings and you have to report this to the specialists etc.
And if you forget these two things. It’s okay, it’s not the end of the world. Well my friends, what’s the deal? With every check I do, it is expected that I will forget some things that are OK. But I have to reduce the number of things I forget. And that’s why we do the exercise. This puts in the big picture. Missing a few things on an exam is expected. It won’t be the end of the world. It certainly won’t let you down. But I want to forget as few things as possible. Hours later, we’re about to get to 1 pm. I have just written down in my diary all kinds of major steps and special tests that are done in all the musculoskeletal, shoulder, ankle, hands, and then also peripheral arterial and vein disease examinations and I feel ready. I feel good. Honestly, I don’t think I would do anything else.
Study wise for the rest of the day I’m going to ask Kenji and Georgina if either of them is rehearsing history to rehearse for a day earlier and later, but other than that I think I’m done with a very nice sunny day today so I’d like to enjoy that at least a little bit. I want to go to the gym, and maybe also play some video games with my sister in the evening.
Just relax, take a break, and calm down before the est date. So I’ll get some food, get some lunch, and yeah, we’ll get on with the day. I try to relax and take a break, and tomorrow is tomorrow… When testing, we have to look our best and that means clean shaven and then some formal wear with a shirt. Then confirmation. I have to get all that fluff out and trim those lines a little bit. Let’s do it I don’t know why I would, if I would wear a mask all the time.
It won’t make much difference but if you look good, you feel good and it generally gives you confidence. Therefore, I think it is worth it. I am surprised that this camera has not fallen so far, as it is a bit of a miracle. Well, we’re all done. Let’s get some food. Good. We’ll make ourselves lunch. And we’re going to watch the new episodes of Top Boy it’s awesome and as you all know, this is my favorite eating stand that just brings things together and makes everything so much more convenient. It makes me look like a grandfather..That’s the way it is. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the show.
By the way, bye to the moderators, not to spoil the show. Hello my friend how are you? Good, and you? I feel like your laptop will fall off the table, not that it is fixed with a stand on the back. Hello, Massad Al-Khair, my name is Nasir Kharma and I am a doctor here. Can you say your name and age, please? My name is Paul and…………!! Well, on my way to the gym, look at the beautiful weather we had here last week. Alas, I have been confined at home studying and preparing for the exam but I kind of went to take advantage of this once the exams are over anyway let’s start with the exercise step the stress of sweating just to rest and rest my head and I’ll see you in peace oh well this is well first day one of my friends, I’m just waiting outside the site which is a very nice place I got myself a quick coffee and my general plan is to get in at the last possible second. To listen to my music as often as I can.
That’s what I’m going to do for five minutes and then I’m going to the hall for the exam and I have to take the electronics so I can get in afterward And I’ll see you after that Peace….Oh my God Oh my God Well day one is done I’m not going to lie It was a lot more complex than I thought It wasn’t as straightforward as previous OSCE systems. I believe they deliberately tried to deceive us when going to the Respiratory Check Station, which later turned out to be the ATP Station. Well, then there were other stations where the wording was completely unclear. A lot of students complained about misunderstandings, what they wanted us to check, or what they wanted us to do, and they came and took feedback from all of us on how to change the wording moving forward. So you could have done a better job. But that’s okay, I wasn’t feeling great about two of the six stations we had today.
Then there are six more stops tomorrow. But once I get the written feedback from the examiners, I guess it kind of puts me at ease. The comments there were much better than I thought I did I’ll be fine. Anyway, that’s it. The first exam is over and another one is tomorrow. We have to start at 8 am and we have to stay until 11 am and then we do the exam and we are quarantined again until 1 pm until other students are counted in other universities around London and so we stay in quarantine and so that the information is not shared outside I think that’s good I think it good. I think it’s good. This is the end of my walk after the exam… I’m going home, I’m going to do some prescribing practice for today only, it’s possible to take one exam like this and nothing more than that I’m going to sit with Nour, it was very fun yesterday Anyway, see you my friends, peace…
… Hey my group (my friends) I’m home on the couch, just chill out and relax a bit. I m going to call Kenji and Georgina just to debrief about the stations we had today and the exam, talk about it a bit and get it off the chest and then maybe do a little practice description. I think I’ll finish it there I’ll pick up the camera again When I start calling it aits me that this is almost over as if medical school and university are finally almost over.
Mad madness, well see you in a little while..well, to PDF H 32 or 32, Article 32 or Page 32? Article 32….! Well, let’s say guys, last said before, more studying today won’t make any difference for today. And I think more study won’t make any difference at all for tomorrow. So we’ll end it here. It’s five in the evening, I’m going to rest and pack my bags. I’m ready to fly on Thursday early in the morning. So I can go out and celebrate tomorrow evening with everyone and I won’t have to pack for travel, and yeah, that’s what we’re doing for the day..almost done.
See you guys in a little while, Hello, Alright, so I’m going snowboarding tomorrow, not the day after tomorrow with about 10 of my friends from high school to celebrate finishing medical school, hopefully finishing medical undergraduate and all is well Alright tomorrow (let’s grab the wood) But let’s get started Time is running… Well, I’m packing up. It’s pretty much there. I just need to put some last things in tomorrow. Now it’s time to sit down with Noor… and play an episode of Eldon for a few hours. To relax and enjoy the night and that’s it. I’ll see you, my friends, tomorrow morning. Good morning and welcome to the day of the second OSC exam… I will be in a different location today, I am on the train and they separate us in different locations as Kings College London students so that we can see different examiners with different groups and things like that. It’s very popular this video of me releasing it tomorrow I put it on Instagram now I’m simply trying to relax as much as I can for a bit, before the exam I come early and I have some time, …
Hello … oh still filming … we are back on the youth campus. I guess today didn’t work as well as yesterday. I think there were a couple of stations that I found challenging and I don’t think I got the intended diagnosis in the end. But I hope my communication skills and everything else in history taken away will make up for it. But anyway, I wouldn’t think about it. I just had a meal with Aaron and Georgina I’m going to put the picture here..now I’m going to go to a coffee shop there and meet some friends to rest and breathe it’s been almost a week since I last logged in I forgot to close the blog and I just realized I hadn’t done it yet during this time I went skiing In Austria I came back..and surgery started this morning, I get up at 5 am everything was so crowded, but that will be another day for Flock.
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“Herbal Tea Update: Rooibos & Nettle” Rooibos, or red tea, is anecdotally
reported to aid stress-related symptoms but has none of the mood-altering
phytonutrients thought responsible for the increased calm and decreased
stress after drinking green tea. So, why do some people feel
less stressed drinking red tea? Well, researchers recently found human
adrenal gland cells in a petri dish produce about four times fewer steroid
hormones in the presence of red tea. Yes, this could quite possibly contribute
to “the alleviation of negative effects arising from elevated [stress hormone
levels]” if it damped down adrenal function that much in real life. But, the effect was so dramatic
they became concerned it might adversely affect the production
of sex hormones, as well. But, that’s not what they found when
they tested it on “human test subjects.” The same may not be true,
however, of nettle tea. Nettle is used to relieve
symptoms of prostate enlargement by boosting estrogen levels.
But, men drinking too much may grow
breasts, and women may start lactating. Nettles are often picked wild,
so there’s always a risk that someone might accidentally pick
something like this, instead of this, and come down with atropine poisoning because the nettle tea you thought you were drinking had some
belladonna (deadly nightshade). Also, not a good idea to put
the leaves in your mouth fresh. They don’t call them
stinging nettles for anything This is a close-up of the impalement
of a nettle spicule in the skin— not something you want your tongue. Nettle tea is touted for its
high mineral content, which always seemed kind of strange to me. I mean, yes, if you boil dark green leafy
vegetables long enough, you do lose minerals in the cooking water. But, how many minerals could we
be getting if we just steep some tea? We never knew because it
hadn’t been tested—until now.
They compared the mineral content
of nettle tea to chamomile tea, mint tea, St. John’s wort, and sage. Nettle tea didn’t seem to have
much more than any of the others— but, maybe they’re all high? Well, one cup of nettle tea
does have the iron of a dried apricot (that’s more than I expected), the zinc found in one pumpkin seed,
one-twentieth of a mushroom’s worth of copper— but four peanuts’ worth of magnesium,
and an entire fig’s worth of calcium. I agree with the researchers that,
you know, a cup of herbal tea may not be an important source
of minerals, but it’s not negligible. You know, greens are so packed
with nutrition that you can benefit from just drinking some hot water
they’ve been soaking in for a few minutes.
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An emotional void 7. you take too many medications Another reason for emotional void is the use of antidepressants, mood stabilizers and other sedatives which are drugs that disorient your central nervous system Emotional blockage and feelings of apathy are common side effects Some people say no if they feel like themselves when they use medication, then they stop using But it is important to talk to your doctor first so he can change your dose or the medication that best fits your needs Do you identify with any of these signs? If you know someone who needs online guidance, we’ve teamed up with Better Help, an online advice platform you can use. They’re constantly trying to improve their service and terms and conditions.
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Social anxiety is absolutely brutal to live with, but can this unconventional book help you out with your social anxiety, stay tuned as we discuss what is up everybody. This is Chris from the rewired soul, where we talk about the problem, but focus on the solution today,’s problem is social anxiety and I haven’t done a book review in a long time. I’ve been kind of just not even really slacking.
I’ve just been like picking up books and going through them and not finishing them all the way because they get kind of and all this other stuff.
But I’m back and I’m gon na be doing some book.
Reviews like the book reading are reignited in me, so, like this book is gon na surprise you, but first let me preface this by talking about my history with social anxiety like so many people who meet me, like they’re, so shocked when I tell them That I used to have social anxiety as I did.
It was brutal.
My brain was constantly going a million miles a minute.
I was so concerned about what I was doing.
What I was saying when I was thinking where you were looking at and all these other things I was trying to read you and I didn’t know if I was making you uncomfortable and all sorts of stuff like.
I was always worried about saying something that might offend or make somebody uncomfortable like.
I was just extremely socially awkward and it made me fumble over my words, even more, which made it even more awkward, and it was just terrible. It was so terrible and, like I just couldn’t talk to people unless there was somebody like that, I knew and if you’re socially anxious, you know exactly what I mean.
So what I try to do when I read books, no matter what book it is like, I try to see what we can learn from it and most of the books.
I do read our mental health books and this book has been on my list for a while, but I haven’t picked it up.
Cuz it’s, not a mental health book.
I’m, like you know, I bet this book might be able to help people who are socially anxious and it’s interesting because I don’t think a lot of people’s.
Social anxiety would pick up this book if they saw it in a bookstore or on Audible or Amazon or Kindle or whatever it is they might not pick it up, but it’s good.
So I’ll be honest with you.
I’m only three chapters in I’m, like you, everybody who subscribed to my channel, who has social anxiety, needs to read this book.
No, you asked me, Chris.
What are you talking about? What book is it? Well, it is called what everybody is Saying by Joe Navarro alright, so I listen to all my books on Audible. I just listen while I’m driving to work or if I’m doing some like tedious tasks at work.
I just have an audiobook playing and like so just to preface this book, so this guy Joe Navarro.
He is an ex-FBI agent and it was one of the best the reason why it was one of the best is that he’s amazing.
Reading body language, this book blends neuroscience with the science of body language, so that’s, something that sold me on this book.
For those of you who’ve been around for a while, I’m, really into neuroscience understanding how the brain works helps with understanding how we behave and how we think, and the way we do things in our mental health and all that kind of Stuff, so here’s the thing when it comes to social anxiety.
A lot of it is this concern that we don’t know what people are thinking, what’s going through their mind, but think about it for a second.
If we could better understand a person,’s body language and what certain things meant, then we could know if, if this person’s enjoying the conversation, if they’re, trying to get out of this conversation, if they’re uncomfortable, if they’re Nervous, like we can read all these different things and that’s just absolutely amazing.
So I’m just going to give a few little things that are in this book so far, but I’m only about three chapters in and I’m hustling through it because I joined the psych book club with some buddies.
Who I play fortnight with and I was super excited when they told me they were reading this book about you.
I need to get this book. I want to join your book club because not many of my friends read you know what I mean, so I’m glad that I get to like talk and discuss this stuff with other people besides you.
I love you, but I need some more human interaction, so anyways the book kind of starts with, and it goes through kind of like a curriculum of what this book’s gon na be about, but throughout it like Joe Navarro.
He kind of gives some examples of these different cases.
He worked and things that he learned and all sorts of stuff and kind of like his childhood and why he became fascinated with understanding body language because he came from another country and didn’t speak English.
So he had to learn how to read body language to know if people liked him or didn’t like him, and this kind of helped him out before he learned English.
So then, like one of the first chapters, I think it’s, chapter 2.
They start to talk about the limbic system and the prefrontal cortex, and things like that.
So the limbic system, which is the most primitive part of the brain, is the strongest part of the brain.
It is your emotional part of the brain right so, like he talks about how you can’t always believe what’s coming out of somebody’s mouth or their facial expressions, because, like they’re, actually not a good indicator.
You have to look at other cues on their body, which I’ll talk about in a second, and like for me like this book is kind of sold to people like you know, when you’re talking to your boss, you’re talking to A customer or you’re, talking to a client, we’re talking to a loved one or talking to your kids, but like for me. I’m like bad.
This could help with social anxiety.
You know what I mean so understanding these things.
So what are the great things that I want to make some dedicated videos to? This is one of the first things it does.
It talks about pacifying, behavior, okay, these are things that we do, unconsciously, that calm us down.
Okay, so some people might rub the skin right below their neck or they might rub their neck like this because these are filled with a lot of nerves and it releases calming neurotransmitters in your body, so it calms you down it soothes, you, okay, so I want to make some more videos on that because if you’re somebody who just gets anxious or stressed there are some points on your body that you can touch that calm you down, so you could do it more deliberately.
So this next chapter Armand, he talks in an earlier chapter about like what do you think the most telling part of the body is and a lot of people would say face and things like that.
But if that was the truth, then why would a poker face even be a thing, so the feet are the best indicator for this, and this is something I’ve heard a very long time ago and it’s something that I noticed.
I even notice myself doing it so just some quick examples: if somebody has their feet turned towards the door or an exit.
This means that they’re either uncomfortable or they’re in our curry, or they want to leave okay because that’s just our natural fight-or-flight instincts. Okay, so like when, when we get in these situations like our feet, they’re prepared to do something.
Okay, then it also talks about how having a wider stance is more confrontational.
So we discuss how to kind of diffuse a situation to make sure that your legs are together, because even on that unconscious level, if you, if you have a wider stance – and you’re, like kind of in a heated argument with somebody, they’re, Getting more prepared to attack back right, even if it’s verbally, okay, so it also talks about other things about how, when you cross your legs, you feel comfortable, and the reason this is is is because the brain is not preparing you to leave.
So when you cross your legs, you’re actually off balance.
So if somebody’s crossing their legs near you, whether it’s, you know one leg over the other and in their lap or if it’s just crossing their ankles.
Okay, because our center of gravity changes, so this means they’re very comfortable, so their brains not telling them hey, you might need to get out of this situation so like I find this very, very useful when like having conversations with other people noticing what their Hands are doing their arms are doing like there’s, one part where it talks about if somebody’s cupping their elbow.
This is also something that means that they’re uncomfortable.
If they move their hand, this means that they’re starting to relax.
So there are a lot of great tips in here, and I hope that some of you read it the more you understand about the brain and what we do, the more you will improve your mental health.
One of the reasons my mental health is so much better. These days are because I hate myself for this.
I’m gon na link a video up in the info card about something called the brain mechanic.
Okay, the more you understand about your brain, the better you’ll be able to handle a variety of different situations, whether it’s, anxiety, depression, and things like that.
But I like this book because it’s how to tell if other people are uncomfortable or confrontational and all that kind of good stuff.
So if you want to join me on this journey and read this book, I’m gon na put a link down in the description below that’s an affiliate link.
So if you’re interested in it go ahead and buy it from Amazon, it doesn’t cost you anything and it helps support the channel.
But I would love for you to read this book check it out and tell me your thoughts on it and then maybe I’ll do a full book review after I’m done with it.
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where’s the birthday girl usually my mom holds my treat money what come on Lauren I don’t have much time do you trust me I tricked you we’re going to use all three Amanda wait Amanda what listen some wd-409 [Music] when I tell you I’ve been thinking about this game since I recorded it last night I’ve been reading your comments I’m so stupid we gonna get to that I’m just saying it’s been a long time since I’m like yo I need to see what’s about to happen [Music] what’s up what’s going on Corey Kitchener welcome back to Amanda the Explorer the adventurer this this freaking game let me get back in let me get back in if you didn’t see the first episode of this you are in the wrong place go watch that first then come back to this one Playboy but for those who need a refresher first episode we got the bad ending the story so far seems to be that we inherited these tapes from our Aunt Kate now Kate we don’t know what she did cause on the surface we always thought that Aunt Kate was a librarian turns out nah she been like doing some investigating on this kid television show which doesn’t make sense because how is this a like TV show but I have to like type in stuff you know what I’m saying like sometimes she’ll ask you know but we can use to cut the apples how is the kid gonna type something in on a VHS whatever needless to say we need to figure out what’s going on we got one bad ending and then I went to the comments I had the piece of paper in my hand I didn’t realize this went to that this looks so long and yawl said it was something on the back of this robot caution do not get blab out wet that’s why it wasn’t working we need some double A and we also unlocked this pause button so let me get that piece of paper we open this up right we get this paper it goes here guys forgive me okay okay what does this mean so I know this has something to do with the plants like we got the H here the h means purple what is okay yeah we did find this one wait which one is this this one was uh Pink So pink grew a little bit we need to put this in the water oh oh my goodness how would what kind of mutant water is this that this is growing this fast okay so we just grew a whole plant uh uh okay let’s say we grow all the plants like what do we do with that we’re gonna come back to this we know how to grow the plants now what the freak we can do something with the mushroom too I don’t know what to do with this so let me go to the comments all right first comment comes from Jenna OMG if you put the peach in the microwave you get a secret tape we did find a peach here let’s try and see what this pause button is about I just saw a rat on the floor how do we even pause you could just straight up pause okay hi I’m Amanda and we could fast forward apple pie that sounds delicious fast forward good job pause boss oh first of all this is creepy looking oh but it says to pause what are we pausing something with the oven for [Music] why did the TV move what the [ __ ] this game is messing with me what just happened in that tape why is there cheese here meat pie what the frack is happening let’s just follow what it says 200 grams potatoes 200 grams mushroom 350 grams of meat all right first of all we got mushroom put that in there where are we getting meat from oh my God goodness the rat I knew I saw a rat oh oh oh goodness no no where are we getting a potato from what are we getting potato the moon plant we could get a potato we could get a potato with the moon plant I love games like this I mean obviously this is nothing too complicated but like you just get that satisfaction that fulfillment from figuring things out oh okay maybe I just put the whole pot in there wait wait wait hold up oh yo y’all trying to get you some meat pie what do you mean by that we got a new tape yo let’s go let’s go hi there I’m Amanda and I’m Willy me me some of our friends can come back to the neighborhood that’s great I like that there are so many friends in my neighborhood today I want to send something special to my friend first I need to go to the store to buy them a card do you know where the store is the vibe is already off I don’t need to go there right now what about this one do you think this is funny what Amanda you trying to start already I told you yesterday I’m not woolly good job let’s go to the stuffer let’s pick out a card my pet something bad happened what what kind of card should I send them uh but this one that’s not the right card like I want to make her mad but I don’t I don’t think we want this I think Amanda is confused hmm shh here’s a secret it’s my birthday maybe we can help her out what is happening right now what if I click this go ahead and pick a card friend are you sure that’s right it looks like it I bet your friend is really going to love this card my friend is my friend is having a break wants to get my friend where can I buy a treat from my friend well I know let’s get them some nice candy do you know where the candy store is the candy store wasn’t here yesterday or am I tripping also can we get some clarification on this they don’t have anything we need look at the stores which one sells candy I don’t want to go to the candy store what’s in this store uh does this help she is so tired of me bro she really is great now I can’t find this candy store I don’t know where to go can you help me oh all right now I kind of like really want to help her this one was the candy store don’t do that all right my bad it was this one hello there where do you want to go I said I don’t want to go listen I should have just took my butt to bed Amanda just tell us what’s the problem what will he just standing next this isn’t the candy store there is nothing here that I want maybe you can take us someplace else I want to get my friend a special treat all right well I mean you could get him a meat sandwich oh Amanda that’s that’s a nice birthday card do you want to give it to your friend now will you address the card who should I send this to [Music] woolly oh woolly it’s your birthday uh what’s that what is this what is this what we try to we went you took me uh uh huh uh hey where [Music] we tried to we went so there’s four factorial possible combinations here [Music] yeah what the freak what the freak oh 24 candy mate oh guts you got to cut the head off the doll bro we about to turn around installers about to kill us what does this mean die where’s the doll where’s the doll where’s the doll guts guys guts guts that’s what we gotta type in shout out berserk yeah you oh [Music] don’t jump scare me we got some scissors get some scissors and another tape okay everybody be cool everybody be chill the doll is missing and honestly I don’t want to be watching the tape water doll is walking around if anything the scissors gonna be in front of me hold on if we get this one if we get the peach open that up hold on hold on where’s the birthday girl usually my mom pulls my treat money what come on Lauren we have a special surprise for you here’s what I had he’s ready for ice cream and cake she’s busy with her best friend is that showing 24 7.
It’s like she didn’t even hear me and we need to talk about some new TV rules we got cake and ice cream we got your favorite and then chocolate chip come on baby we can watch Amanda another time it’s so much Lauren I love mint chocolate chip yo my eyes are watering for real dude this is so well done this Harkens back to what these letters were about which were kids were disappearing this letter wasn’t even about Lauren but kids watch the show and then they just poof they’re gone oh my goodness what’s a family oh boy put that one in [Music] [Applause] [Music] hi friends I’m Amanda and I’m woolly just made an animal sound he said bye because he is a sheep right can you make a sound like a sheep [Music] that’s great you sound just like Willie wow yeah you sound just like me wow pause it severe thunderstorm warning effective until nine o’clock EST it’s recommended starting to check your environment for any what first of all what is this what is this this is the thing that was over here all this time in this box pick your environment for any particularly at a petting zoo there are lots of animals here to pet and play with [Music] animals they are very different from people they look different and they don’t talk like people right Amanda I’m an animal and I’m animals don’t talk silly look at these lines let’s make sounds like the animals on the signs are you ready a goat says a chicken says a pig says like why did I pause it why did I pause on that watch out for any hazards during the thunderstorm am I about to get like shocked or something because there’s water on the floor I don’t know I’m confused what are you doing it it automatically goes to that okay well let’s just get through this stop pausing it [Music] one animals make funny sounds too let’s go see one of the animal family I want to see the chickens can you show me where the chickens are uh the chickens they’re this way wait let’s go see the silly chickens what a cute fiber [Music] I see a mommy chicken and baby chickens and I see I see a daddy chicken look at the chickens do you know what the daddy is called to me now obviously it’s a rooster but I don’t want to get it right and I don’t know how to spell obviously no that’s not what they’re called try tornado tornado and kinsdale that’s where I’m at until recommended stop and check your environment for potential hazards okay [Music] so what what’s happening I’m gonna get it wrong again do I have to help you with everything do you do you she took over my keyboard again the daddy is called a rooster the mommy is a head eat their babies yum yum no okay well go see some more animal families where should we go next I think it’s time to visit the sheep can you tell me where we can find the Sheep what if we click the wrong thing we got snakes spiders ew I don’t want to see those they’re scary I don’t want to go near flood warning okay sale oh you know what maybe I was supposed to be paying attention to those times I surely wasn’t the Sheep are waiting for us where are they okay let’s go look at Wooly look at the nice sheep family all the Sheep are right where they belong blizzard blizzard warning I’m sure you’re supposed to change the time in the room or something don’t move around your environment at all laughs am I a little kitten where is your family Amanda relax don’t kill the kitten all by herself how do you think she feels sad she must be so scared yeah and sad there’s nobody to love her I know that’s so sad do y’all think I typed that or do you all think she typed it the kitten is alone there is no one to help her will you help the lonely kittens what is what is this back here what is this yeah I’m gonna help the kid [Music] what’s happening I’m dead I’m dead I’m dead I’m dead I’m dead bro we didn’t get anything from that do not get wet there’s water here how can we get we need to capture some water [Applause] [Music] foreign oh we’re dead oh we’re dead oh it didn’t come from the chest it came from downstairs all that work for that ending and it didn’t go anywhere we lost the scissors oh no no no no no no no we still know the codes to things so I can still [Music] all right hey little doll come here [Applause] I wasn’t expecting that I wasn’t expecting that to make that noise I’m sorry what have I done with my dad did yawl are here to scream [Applause] let me play it again for you you heard that let me play it again for you all right what is this oh we got batteries [Music] I think this is going to be fun what oh yo who is this toy for I don’t have any numbers to punch in let’s go to cut it off all right let’s pause this some people in the comments did talk about this one five zero three two five now when I saw that when I was playing the other day you know I took a mental note of it like wow that costs a lot of money this is a password for this for this one five zero three two five who did they get to record voice dialogue for this Hannibal Lecter Kate what happened to the TV I don’t want to play anymore right now dang elations you’re one year older wishing you the best this year yet zero eight eight two say less zero eight eight two oh right here right here zero wait zero eight eight two right no or maybe it’s eight one no yeah because there’s a candle in the middle and there’s a candle at the bottom so it was on some they’re trying to confuse us lambast on there zero eight eight two maybe we typed that in there I don’t think that I want to do that what you mean the first line of dialogue had me thinking he was about to like zero eight eight two I’m clearly reading this wrong maybe we can’t pick it up to move it anywhere hmm I can hear our crying um that’s six numbers that’s six numbers [Music] 3 25 at 30 minutes 325 and 30 minutes 325 at 30 minutes 25 or 30 minutes [Music] hold up hold up we got another candle oh Matt I like math what’s this may your life be filled with many blessings first of all we got one candle times four obviously we can’t really do nothing with that we did get one candle though which we can put inside of that cake how we can’t remove it so if we just traded the candle as a one one times four would be four five minus one would be four five all right one times one plus one would be two one divided by one is one one plus one plus one is three and one minus one is zero zero what’s in the card is on the cake what’s in the card is on the cake what’s in the card is on the cake dead free five one six one [Applause] I tell you there is nothing more fulfilling than figuring out a puzzle without looking it up what’s in the card is on the cake how about for every candle we substitute two for every candle on the card since there are two candles on the cake we substitute it for two so instead of one times four two times four every time we see a candle it’s two and it worked take a picture it is [Applause] first of all that was extremely scary second of all see f [Music] please I don’t want to do no more puzzles bro [Music] I had no business screaming like that my vocal cords I just ripped them up I literally just ripped them up and I tell you what it did I tell you what it was it was the proximity of the left ear you could see me screaming and turning because I’m thinking is somebody in this room with me well played game devas well played oh no accidents I don’t have much time do you trust me do I trust you that’s an odd thing to say Willie that’s a very odd thing to say it instantaneously made me untrusty you but you know what sure ready for an adventure Amanda Lily had an accident when a friend has an accident sometimes nobody can help them but we can try well Amanda I’m fine I I just uh well Lily is so confused we really have to help him first we have to know what is wrong what part of Willie is broken oh all right so we got body and head I don’t know body isn’t really acting strange what could be wrong feet don’t you care about Willie he needs our help head Lily’s head is broken but Dr. Amanda is here to help let’s prepare the patient oh no here Willie drink this I don’t know Amanda [Music] Amanda I feel uh [Music] we need to operate immediately on the patient’s brain what tools should we use to fix wooley’s head the saw the hammer or the forceps bro oh man who are you making money why Amanda I know I write Amanda listen please listen woolly is fine we don’t need any of these that might be helpful but what else could we use this things could get really messy if we use that this that looks hard to use but I could try this I tricked you we’re going to use all three Amanda wait Amanda white a little healthier who are you going to help um obviously you’re not going to help me no by myself no way oh we’re dead oh we’re dead oh we’re dead oh we’re dead what is this Riley’s favorite movies they are so big I’m Blue hi trap door treat oh what hi I’m Willie trapdoor treat oh there was something in there was something in there I’m you know it’s crazy when every time I finish a tape I’m like zipping dude I’m zipping behind me the last game that like really creeped me out like this was duck season do y’all remember oh my life is on that level of like paranoia trap door oh summer 1989.
Let’s just see what kind of treat they got I am allergic to Apple how many chairs how many mushrooms how many how many plate how many chairs how many mushrooms how many chairs dang it’s a lot of chairs in here ain’t it how many lights and how many fruit so how many how many what’s the first one how many chairs was first right there’s one chair there’s one two three four five six seven eight mushrooms there’s one light two lights one two three four five six fruit right I’m allergic to Apple how many chairs how many mushrooms cheer mushrooms how many how many like also it said Woody’s allergic to apples for some reason so do we not count that I know it’s got to go here how many chairs it was one there was eight mushrooms there was six fruits lights was two right is there more than one chair there is that’s a chair right there it just it just goes on forever and ever so this obviously we could get this uh we could get the robot with that what is this tape what is this called home movies four four oh two five eight four one two five eight I mean let’s just type that in instantly obviously but first you need that key to my heart because it is not what you have on the outside that matters it is okay uh before I electrocute you with this water let me see what the rest of this says we don’t have much time we don’t have much time okay I’m sorry about that kind of person you’re not that kind of person I thought that I could trust you listen I’m not gonna do it what do you want me to do what can we do besides that the fact that this dude started talking as I approached him with the water do you need more proof that this is sentient or not wait let’s talk about this talk I know so what’s the what’s the key to your arm I agree all right sure I don’t know why you thought that you are not that kind of person I’m not but please please do not direct me please have mercy on me oh my goodness I will show you number combinations you’ve never even dreamed of okay do it I will do anything please give me another chance okay I am I am begging you I love you oh there I said it I am in love with you they really trying to make you feel bad for doing this let it be on record I didn’t want to do it you are not kind of person you’re wrong [Applause] I’m sorry Ben I’m so sorry I am so sorry he was under his head the whole time I’m about to freaking die too I deserve it [Music] foreign chaos heartbreak all because of Aunt Kate why did you give me this tape Kate why didn’t share look how look how look how much work we’ve been putting in dude it’s freaking five tapes down here about to be six [Music] hi I’m Amanda when you’re friends you can share all kinds of things with each other I can share my crayons with you so you can have fun coloring too look at silly Mr Fox what why was your favorite shows you care about someone friends can share toys they can share snacks I’ll share some of my snacks with you which snack would you like what kind of snacks are these do y’all see any snacks here or do you just see Rants and meat yum that’s my favorite friends can share other things too they can share secrets really can I share a secret with you oh boy oh boy you know what Amanda I really don’t want any secrets oh I thought you were different leave isn’t that where Amanda comes out from like the monster Amanda whoa whoa this is unlike anything that’s happened so far [Music] now I’m just sitting here wondering what was the secret they really rolled the credits on us [Music] we got another ending I should have been taking notes because I can’t remember all the stuff that we did why does this tape here oh this is like secret tapes go here or something and we all the way at the beginning bro I can’t remember this [Music] yum that’s my favorite are you sure it’s the big secret I’m sure is it really okay to share my secret with you Amanda yeah it is I’m out there somewhere oh my goodness [Music] [Music] now we got this ending they gave us yet another choice at the end I didn’t have to throw the brick we gonna talk about what she said after I get back to that and not throw the brick I’m out there somewhere all right we’re gonna do it they they kind of press you when they’re throwing it I don’t have to throw it [Music] oh it just repeats okay so you do have to do it bro if I seen this in real life I’m front flipping out of that freaking window bro she’s out there somewhere Amanda is out there somewhere that can’t be the true ending look listen to how sad this is [Music] we didn’t solve anything we’re gonna end this one here guys um for everything in the room this this except for this we figured out everything in this room we still got five spaces for tapes here the only things we haven’t figured out what happened to Kate what happened to Amanda and what what are we supposed to do for this tornado blizzard thing wow what an episode what a game we really put on our detective shades on this one everybody clap that up I’m gonna did this without you guys you know as emotional support but we still not done yet y’all go down in the comments what did we miss what did you see in this episode that you that’s giving you some idea of what we could possibly even do next because the only thing that I can think to do next this is the the actual real life tape is go through the tapes in order again and look for Clues I’m gonna get out of here if y’all ready for the next episode of Amanda the adventurer you already know what to do be sure to assist the samurai slice that like button subscribe today to join the Samurai and until next time my brothers and sisters [Music] friends you win perfect
Stress shows up differently for different people, each of us copes differently and it’s also important to recognize that everyone,’s, circumstances are unique. Some of you may be able to go home for spring break to visit loved ones, and some of you may not due to travel restrictions or limited resources.
During this time, you want na be mindful of what forms of self-care work for you.
Some forms of self-care that you may practice may be focused on mental well-being, physical well-being, or social well-being.
Examples of mental well-being and self-care include limiting your social media exposure.
You want to take time to unplug, Make sure to stay informed, but don’t overload on social media.
Other forms include focusing on what’s within your control and avoiding excessive worry.
Some tips for managing worry, include scheduling, and worry time, Write down your worries cross off what’s not within your control, and throw it away That’ll help you feel calmer, less overwhelmed, and more in control.
Another way to practice self-care is to focus on physical well-being.
Moving your body by engaging in physical activity.
You may want a go for a walk and get some fresh air When you do that. You want a focus on your surroundings, Use your five senses to be in the present moment That’ll help you feel more grounded and calm.
You may also want a check in with yourself and your breathing, Make sure you’re, taking deep, full breaths.
Other ways to focus on physical well-being include sleep, Develop a sleep routine, that’ll be relaxing and calming, For example, 30 minutes before bed do not use any electronics.
You may want a take a warm bath Write down five things.
You’re grateful for it.
Listen to a guided meditation relaxation practice Drink some tea, Whatever it may be, find something that is relaxing and calming That’ll.
Allow you to get better sleep.
Nutrition is important too.
You want na eat balanced meals, Make healthy food choices because that’ll boost your mood and make you feel more energized.
You also want a stay hydrated Social wellbeing is important as well. While you may want to isolate and socially withdraw during this time.
Given the circumstances, it is very important to stay connected, Find creative ways to stay connected to your loved ones.
For example, you may send them a note or a message expressing your gratitude.
Your appreciation Make a weekly phone call or FaceTime call to your loved ones.
You may also engage in random acts of kindness That also help to boost our mood and lifts our spirits.
During this time, I want a emphasize the importance of practicing kindness.
We want to be kind towards one another.
We want a check our assumptions and ways to do that are remaining curious and being compassionate towards others, What they may be going through and how we may be able to support them.
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presentation on a strengths-based biopsychosocial approach to recovery from bipolar disorder
so we’re going to talk a little bit about what bipolar is what causes it and how to
mitigate it by helping people understand their own bipolar because what triggers it for John
may not trigger it for James help them identify their warning signs because bipolar episodes
just like depressive episodes and manic episodes often don’t come from completely out of the
blue if we look backward we can see where the person was beginning to resume some unhealthy
lifestyle habits that were making them more vulnerable well look at the symptoms
of depression and mania and real quickly review bipolar one versus two and look at some
co-occurring disorders and interventions another thing I added to this presentation was a little
a short piece on differential diagnosis because I often see people who are diagnosed either only
with bipolar when there’s also attention deficit disorder present or they’re diagnosed with anxiety
when it’s bipolar disorder so we’re going to talk about how people might mistakenly diagnose
one for the other and how to kind of try to ferret that out a little bit one way is using the online
assessment measures there’s another measure we’re going to talk about in here too so we care
because uncontrolled bipolar puts people at risk for suicide addiction and addiction relapse you
know even if somebody doesn’t have an addiction when they are in a manic episode they can be more
likely to engage in potentially self-injurious behaviors, not for self-injury but
just because they’re looking for even more of a rush and when they’re in a depressive episode
they can also be at risk for addictions because they’re looking to feel better in some sort
of the way so a lot of it we’re talking about well with we’re talking about self-medication with
mania we’re just talking about what they perceive as something exciting and people are often in manic
episodes engage in extreme risk-taking behavior we don’t want our clients to go down any of these
paths so we want to be aware of what might trigger it and I don’t think I talk about it anywhere
else in the presentation, it’s important to be aware that for suicide when somebody is coming
out of a depressive episode who somebody who’s bipolar well or unipolar depression but when
they’re coming out of the depressive episode and they start having more energy is actually
when they’re at greater risk of suicide than when they’re at their absolute bottom not saying
they’re safe at their absolute bottom but we don’t want to get complacent when somebody starts
feeling better and assume that they’re out of the woods with poorly controlled bipolar disorder
can leave people feeling hopeless and helpless if they have bipolar one and they have at least
a full-blown manic episode but maybe more they may not mind that they may because it disrupts
their life the depressive episodes tend to be when patients usually present when they’ve got
bipolar disorder so we want to look at what’s going on with them and help them see how the
bipolar disorder disrupts their life because that can go a fair way to encouraging medication
and treatment compliance well controlled bipolar like well-controlled addiction helps a person feel
happy optimistic motivated and energized the key is helping them manage their vulnerabilities you
now take care of their body so they have enough energy to do things but also make sure
that they get their medications right some of the mood stabilizers can be flattened and make
people feel more exhausted and it’s important it’s vital that they openly communicate with their
psychiatrist or physician about the medications if they are if the side effects are so significant
is impairing their quality of life which means they’re likely to be medication non-compliance so
we want to make sure that if they’re feeling too flat that they talk it over with their medication
provider bipolar disorder is a brain disorder you know sometimes with like depression we can look
for situational causes for anxiety we can look for some situational causes we can look for some
cognitive stuff we know in bipolar disorder something is going on in the brain that causes
unusual shifts in mood energy activity levels and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks many
very successful let me go back to that so just to be clear and generalized anxiety panic disorder
depression they also can have a brain organic component to them but not always sometimes you
can have those from a situational cause whereas in bipolar disorder we know that there’s something
that’s not quite right with the balance of the neurotransmitters for most people with bipolar
okay so who has bipolar lots of people you’d be surprised Mel Gibson demi Lovato Axl Rose, Britney
Spears Jean-Claude Van Damme Marc Vonnegut and Amy Winehouse to name just a few that I came
across you know doing some internet research Lee Lee Thompson young and Robin Williams were
also, both are quite successful and revered in their fields despite if you want to call it losing
their battle with bipolar so why do I bring that up because a lot of times people when they
are given a diagnosis of bipolar disorder feel very isolated feel very unique and I want them to
realize that there are a lot of really successful awesome people who have bipolar disorder you
know it once it’s managed then people can live a stereotypical life I work hard to
avoid the word normal because what’s normal for one person may not be for another but we want
to look at they can have a very high-quality active life bipolar disorder is caused by imbalances and
neurochemicals especially dopamine serotonin and norepinephrine the imbalances could be genetic or
triggered by sex hormone changes or stress hormone changes so they may be at you know steady state
but when there’s a particular stressor some sort of change or you know other thing and it depends
on the person, it can throw those neurotransmitters out of balance enough that it causes either a
manic episode hypomanic episode or a depressive episode more than one in 50 adults are classified
as having bipolar disorder in any 12 months so I encourage people when they’re walking around
the store when they’re walking around the grocery store when they’re at church when they are sitting
in a meeting at work with you know 50 other people at least one person in that group has bipolar
disorder and or will be diagnosed with it in the year I want them to recognize how common
it is I want them to start looking around and thinking when they’re driving down the road on
rush-hour traffic you know every 50th car they pass somebody in those 50 cars probably had
bipolar disorder to help them realize again it’s not us weird diagnosis is pretty
doggone common among patients seen in primary care settings for depressive and/or anxiety
symptoms twenty to thirty percent are estimated to have bipolar disorder a lot of times primary
care physicians misdiagnosed bipolar disorder as either generalized anxiety or unipolar depression
so it’s you know eighty percent of the time seventy eighty percent of the time they’re right
but the other twenty to thirty percent you’ve got this person who is going to continue to struggle
and get frustrated because the treatments for generalized anxiety and depression are
generally, SSRIs and SSRIs can trigger mania so it can make the mood lability worse bipolar
the disorder is still under-recognized primarily due to misdiagnosis as unipolar depression and
that’s not just in primary care that’s also in you know our field because if we see somebody who
has unipolar depression you know they may not have had a manic episode yet likely they have but they
may not have had a manic episode yet or they may not report it or if it’s a hypomanic episode they
may not note that as something problematic and yes diagnosis of mental health conditions
is out of the scope for a lot of GPS and a lot of them will tell you that a lot of them will say
If you’ve been diagnosed before I can help you continue your medication but there are so many
nuances to psychological diagnosis I want you to get an evaluation from a psychiatrist in
order to better make sure that we’re getting you started on the right path because nothing is
more frustrating to somebody who is struggling and again generally they present in a depressive
episode nobody is nothing is more troubling for somebody who’s presenting and struggling then
getting on medication and not feeling like it’s working is one of the things they see and I’m jumping
ahead of me is when somebody who has bipolar disorder is started on an SSRI one effect could be
to set off a manic episode another effect could be to have rapid improvement and you know it
takes four to six weeks for the SSRIs to get in there but they tend to have rapid
improvement in days unfortunately that improvement doesn’t last and then they tend to go back into
a depressive episode and they start to feel even more defeated I want clients to understand us
if they start talking about that pattern where they’ve been on antidepressants and it works
for a little while but then it doesn’t anymore you know that may just be the wrong medication
for them, their case is not hopeless so we know the symptoms of depression apathy feeling down
empty hopeless low energy decreased activity sleep changes worrying difficulty concentrating
forgetting things a lot of changes in eating habits and feeling tired or slowed down how is this
different than Low Energy I’ve had clients ask me this before and what I try to the way I try to
differentiate is energy is your desire to get up and do things and feel like you can when people
are feeling tired or slowed down it almost feels like they’ve got a 50-pound rucksack on their back
or their arms and legs feel like they’re just lead and it is exhausting to even get up and walk
across the room go to the kitchen go outside so there’s a difference there’s energy to do things
and then there’s just feeling like you’re filled with cement mania people feel very up high or
elated now after people come out of a depressive episode even unipolar depression there’s a period
of mild very very mild euphoria and we don’t want to mistake that for hypomania or mania they’re
just feeling good they’re like oh my gosh I see the Sun again I see colors how awesome is this and
then you know it kind of levels out but you don’t have a crash it’s just kind of a good and
then a-ok contentment people in a manic episode have a lot of energy and increased activity levels
they often feel jumpy or wired you know like they can’t settle down they want to sometimes but they
can’t they’re wide awake and they’re just looking for something to do they have trouble sleeping
may talk fast about a lot of different things so they’re jumping around and when we talk
about ADHD in a minute, we’re going to talk more about these symptoms they may agitate irritably
or touchy not everybody who’s manic is in a good mood so they can be manic but agitated
they feel like their thoughts are going fast and think they can do a lot of things at
once people especially in a hypomanic episode often find themselves taking on three four five
six projects and not being able to complete them you know when they come out of their hypomanic
In the episode, they’re like oh my gosh what did I get myself into but there’s no sense of time in a
manic or hypomanic episode and they can especially in a manic episode engage in risky and reckless
behavior so mixed bipolar includes symptoms of both manic and depressive symptoms at the same
time which can be confusing to clients they’re up they feel like they’re wired but they
have no their flat they have apathy and just that lack of pleasure and anything they may feel
very sad empty and hopeless and energized bipolar one now that big difference is bipolar one has at
At least one full-blown manic episode if there hasn’t been one full-blown manic episode then we’re going
to look for bipolar 2 where you have hypomania and major depressive disorder bipolar one can have
either major depressive disorder or persistent depressive disorder so the big difference is if
there’s a manic episode there they’re number one bipolar one patients experienced depressive
symptoms more than three times as frequently as manic or hypomanic symptoms so yeah when they
hit a manic or hypomanic period it’s not a wonder they feel pretty good and they don’t want it to
go away if they experienced it three times more often bipolar 2 patients experience depressive
symptoms approximately hold your horses 39 that’s not a mistake 39 times more often than
hypomanic symptoms so people with bipolar 2 can have 39 depressives before a manic episode now
unfortunately, the body is not that consistent where we can go okay 38 39 you’re due for a manic
episode but we do know that both types of bipolar depression are experienced a lot more frequently
than mania or hypomania so a common misdiagnosis is generalized anxiety disorder how do you
differentiate because some people when they get anxious get revved up and they feel
like they’re wired and they can’t sleep the goal-directed activity and generalized anxiety
the disorder is often related to an anxiety theme like if they think that there’s a problem with
their finances or if they’re you know whatever they’re worried about their activities and their
thoughts generally race in that direction they’re not all over the place they’re pretty directed in
more or less and their mood is often irritable and energetic versus elated now again just because
somebody is irritable doesn’t mean it’s the anxiety we want to look specifically at what is causing
the sleep disruption and what are the themes of the thoughts that the person is having the racing
thoughts because if you know something’s going bad at work you hear there’s going to be layoffs
somebody can get anxious and go well if I get laid off then I’m going to lose my job if
If I lose my job then I’m not going to be able to pay the house payment and I’m dead a debt a debt
it and go in this rapid cycle of catastrophe and get themselves all worked up and then not sleep
then they start trying to figure out okay what I need to do to make sure I can pay
the house payment what do I need to do to make sure I can do this so anxiety disorder pretty
focused ADHD approximately 60 to 70 percent of people with bipolar disorder also have ADHD and
20% of people with ADHD have bipolar disorder so you can draw your own Venn diagram if you
want the take-home message is we don’t want to assume that they’re mutually exclusive because if
you’ve got somebody with bipolar disorder you can get that controlled but they’ve still got the ADHD
symptoms going on over here they’re going to feel often feel frustrated now what’s the difference
people with ADHD often have a hyper focus that’s one of the hallmarks this may happen on a deadline
pressure or when wrapped up in a compelling book project or video game and so you can you can
see where there’s a trigger for it hyper focus may cause a decreased need for sleep and look like
increased goal-directed activity but is often short-lived in people with ADHD who
feel exhausted when the hyper-focus fades so we want to look for number one was there something
that triggered this hyper-focus could be a video game could be an awesome book or even
a Netflix marathon whatever it is and once that hyper-focus faded did they feel exhausted
if so we’re probably looking more towards ADHD than bipolar a manic episode is independent of
external circumstances you know it’s not where somebody gets a project and it sends them into
In a manic episode, there’s a lot less control and predictability in people with bipolar disorder
and people with bipolar often want to go to sleep or relax but describe the feeling as if they can’t
wind down which can go on for a week or more so we’re looking at duration we’re looking at what
triggers it if they report let’s go back to here sometimes having manic episodes that there was
no trigger and they lasted a long time but they also report manic goal-directed activity under
deadline pressure or you know they can have all these symptoms which means you’re looking at ADHD
and mania or bipolar disorder together potentially in ADHD people often interrupt or talk too much
without noticing because they miss social cues or because they lose focus on the threads of
a conversation because their minds going six ways till Sunday I had a friend of mine one time
who had ADHD she was in graduate school with me and she gave a presentation on it one time and we
were talking and she was presenting and as she was presenting somebody started flicking the lights on
and off and all of us were looking around at each other going this is annoying and then a little
while later you know 30 seconds or a minute later somebody turned on the radio not loud but
low in the background and we’re all looking at each other and then she started doing something
else after that oh she turned on a fan so the fan was oscillating and blowing in our faces and and
finally, she’s like is this annoying and we were like yeah that’s annoying it’s hard
to concentrate and she said this is what life is like for somebody with ADHD many times because
we have difficulty filtering out what’s important to pay attention to and what’s not so we’re paying
attention to everything so that made it a lot more understandable to me which was helpful later when
my son was diagnosed with ADHD because you know it helped me tailor his learning environment
so people with ADHD kind of get lost and they’re paying attention so much that they
can miss the social cues people experiencing manic bipolar episodes are often very aware that they’re
changing topics quickly and sometimes randomly but they feel powerless to stop or understand they’re
quickly moving thoughts so they’re just trying to keep you in the loop in everything and they
may notice that you’re getting uncomfortable or irritated or impatient but they don’t feel like
they can stop racing thoughts you know all these kind of go together but kind of not people with
ADHD report racing thoughts that they can grasp and appreciate but can’t necessarily express
or record quickly enough think about the time you got excited about something and you just
had all these ideas whenever we get a new grant that comes in I’m in charge of or I used to be in
charge of writing the grant so I get the grant and I’d read through and I start identifying all the
different things that we could do to you know get this grant and it would be hard for me to
keep my pencil going fast enough to keep up with my ideas and you know I don’t have an and you
know that was perfectly normal but I was excited and so my mind was racing people with ADHD can do
this a lot you know not just because of a grant coming in people with mania the racing thoughts
flash by like a flock of birds overtaking them so fast that their color and type are impossible to
discern I loved this explanation because it’s just like you have this whole massive bird coming
in and then going out and you didn’t have a chance to even notice what they were people with with
mania often feels that way they don’t can’t grab any of those thoughts and hook on to them they’re
just in and out so helping people differentiate to make sure that if they’ve got anxiety and bipolar
if they’ve got anxiety and ADHD and bipolar bless their hearts that were attending to all of their
presenting symptoms and issues so what do they do to treat bipolar well we’re going to get down into
that in a minute sorry got ahead of myself things that can trigger a bipolar episode medications
antidepressants as I said can propel a patient into mania captopril which is an ACE inhibitor
something that’s used for high blood pressure can also trigger a bipolar episode corticosteroids
certain immunosuppressant medications levodopa which increases dopamine you may see patients
with schizophrenia or Parkinson’s taking web dopa and methylphenidate or dexmethylphenidate
which are ADHD medications all of these different categories of medications can potentially trigger
a bipolar so do they trigger it in every single person no so that makes it even more difficult
but it is important to be aware if somebody has bipolar when they start taking medications
that they need to be conscious and cognizant of their symptoms so they can you know identify
early onset of a depressive or a manic episode circadian rhythm desynchronization can trigger
or look like bipolar disorder hyperthyroidism can look like a manic episode that means too much
thyroid you know a lot of times we talk about hypothyroidism and depression hyperthyroidism
gets people to revved in children mania can be misdiagnosed or look like oppositional defiant
disorder and substance use both intoxication and withdrawal but more specifically intoxication can
also, look like mania or depression depending on whether they’re taking stimulants or depressants
so it’s important to make sure that the person when they’re being assessed is substance-free
Do you know what medications they’re on they’ve had a physical to rule out any hormone causes
the thyroid is a hormone and looks at their circadian rhythms if they happen to be visually impaired
that can cause problems in circadian rhythm if they are shift workers that can cause problems
with circadian rhythm so let’s make sure we don’t label something as bipolar and start treating
as such before we’ve ruled out everything else bipolar distinguishing factors and let’s see
let me see if I can get that open for me right now well anyway spontaneous hypomania premorbid
affective temperament particularly hyper thymic or cyclothymic so before somebody had an episode
that they presented with do they have a history of remembering dysthymic is feeling blue
low unhappy hyper thymic is more elated and cyclothymic is rapidly switching Moodle ability
increased mental or physical energy even during depressions family you know you know
we talked about the mixed episode if there’s a family history of bipolar disorder or a good
response to lithium for unipolar depression or bipolar that’s a risk factor or a hallmark
that you might be dealing with bipolar in this client if they have treatment-emergent hypomania
mania or mixed States so as soon as they start medication treatment generally SSRIs they have
an uncharacteristically rapid response followed by a crash again and or they have more than two
failures on antidepressants now we want to look at what that means because antidepressants work
differently for different people, somebody can be on and I’m going to use the trade names here just
because I don’t have all of the generics memorized I’m not promoting any particular trade name but
people could be on Lexapro or Paxil and feel like they can’t wake up people can be on Prozac and
feel like they’ve got more energy some people are on Zoloft and don’t feel any energy change some
people feel lousy but with antidepressants, we want to look at what failure means did it fail to
improve the mood or were the side effects so bad that the person had to switch if this if it was
the side effects that are not classified as a failure because the person wasn’t able to
stay on it long enough for that antidepressant to get in their system now I do want
you to see the mood disorders questionnaire, haha and that’s in this article here but there
are three all of these questions that you can have people just complete at assessment and
it helps you identify if they’ve had a manic or hypomanic episode so have there ever been
a period of time when you are not your usual self and you felt so good or hyper that people
thought you are not the normal self you were so irritable that you shouted at people or started
fights you felt much more self-confident than usual you got less sleep than usual and found
you didn’t miss it you were much more interested in sex than usual spending money got
you or your family in trouble you know you can go through all the rest of the questions and they
identify yes or no to each of these once they do that if they did check yes to more than one of the
above have they ever happened during the same period if yes then again we’re probably looking
at one of the bipolar and finally how much of a problem did any of these cause for you and if it’s
a minor problem then we may want to look for other things this does not diagnose bipolar but it is an
excellent screening instrument to give you an idea about whether you need to look in that direction
have clients keep a life chart ideally for three to six months where they chart their sleep their
dietary habits their exercise their life stressors hormones for women and any bipolar symptoms that
they’re having now when I have clients chart this much I create a really simple fill in the blank
a chart like for sleep number of hours did you feel rested yes or no dietary habits I have them
keep on their mobile device for exercise did you exercise yes or no if so how much for how long you
know really simple things so they can complete the chart in under five minutes otherwise, they’re
not going to do it for the bipolar symptoms I have check blocks you know did you feel depressed
did you have difficulty sleeping yada-yada so it’s easy it’s very very simple for them to fill
out and it’s also simple for me to evaluate when I go through it encourages people to understand
their bipolar because everybody’s presentation is going to be a little bit different have them
identify you know their cognitive patterns and negative thinking patterns that contribute to
their depression and if so how do they handle those in the past when they felt depressed how did
they change their thinking or what they do to help themself be a little bit more optimistic and
also looking cognitively what if they got going for them are they intelligent are they creative
are they you know build on those if somebody is creative you know I’m not so I it’s wonderful
to see creative people but for somebody who’s creating one of the greatest things they can do
to work with their depression is art therapy you know it’s very therapeutic for a lot of people
so find their strengths and use those to help them resolve their current presenting symptoms
physically encourage them to get adequate sleep to avoid opiate and sedative medications alcohol and
any sort of over-the-counter herbs including Jen Singh Sant Sami 5htp without talking to their
the doctor first encourages them to eat a good diet they may already be doing some of this so how much
they change at one time it is gonna vary between the person and what they’re motivated to change
remind them not to change too much at once let’s just do one or two things right now and then you
can work on two more things once you have those under underway situationally have them do
a coping skills inventory to figure out how they cope when things get stressful and have them
identify triggers for their bipolar that what types of situations make you feel depressed what
types of situations have you noticed might seem to trigger a manic episode some people when they
get stressed about something there’s that anxiety it can the stress of that and having the
HPA axis activated can trigger a manic episode for them so encourage them to you know in their chart
they’re going to be keeping track of what might be contributing to triggering and mitigating bipolar
symptoms so if they’re getting good sleep and eating a decent diet their life stressors are pretty
low and they’re not having any symptoms well we know what they can do interpersonally have them
identify supportive friends to help them learn about interpersonal behaviors that trigger them and ways
to deal with those interpersonal behaviors so if when somebody tends to be in a manic episode or
even in a depressive episode if they tend to be irritable think about having them look at what
behaviors trigger their irritability trigger their anger and figure out a plan to deal with
it to minimize the impact that being on one end of the spectrum or the other mood wise
might have on their relationships angers normal irritability is normal don’t get me wrong but when
somebody is in a depressive episode or a manic episode that irritability can be intensified
tenfold and people may be taken aback by it environmentally encourage clients to look around
their environments and look at what they can do to make their environment cheerful calm and safe you
know what that looks like for that particular person those are things that they can do because
it’s you know when you felt calm and safe before what was different or what was the same what helps
you feel cheerful we just recently had the inside of the house repainted because it was time but
I’ve always felt more cheerful, especially during the winter and when there’s less sunlight when I
have like a light yellow color on the walls like straw not bright yellow and that helps me feel
a little bit more cheerful which is in contrast to all the black that I put in there but whatever it
works for me and that’s how I feel comfortable in my environment to encourage clients especially
you know when they’re feeling like they’re heading toward a depressive or manic episode
to eliminate negativity from social media and television media you know if it stresses them out
to watch the news do they have to watch the news you know what will happen if they go for a month
without watching the news and in their real-life environment encourage them to try to eliminate
as much negativity as possible and that can be altering how they deal with interpersonal
relationships that can be looking around and finding things that stress them out and addressing
there are a lot of different things but we want to look at it as biopsychosocial II Romania
we still want to build on strengths and encourage them to become aware of any medications they’re
taking and how those medications affect them this can include stimulants thyroid medications, Sammy
and 5htp encourage them to avoid stimulants when possible and don’t combine them with caffeine
if they put ephedra for example in combination with caffeine that used to be a common
combination in pre-workout supplements that can get somebody revved up and so we want
to make sure that they’re aware of the effect not only on their body but the likelihood
that could also trigger a mood episode have them identify warning signs and
interventions sometimes like I said that for people with bipolar disorder the
depression and/or manic episode may seem like it comes out of the blue and sometimes
it may but 99% of the time when I’ve traced it back with clients they weren’t taking good
care of themselves they were either taking on too much at work or they weren’t getting
enough sleep or they weren’t eating well or you know there had been something that had
changed from when they were doing well and they felt good too when they started feeling
like they were heading down towards an episode some patients may try to identify triggers for
manic episodes to increase those we want to encourage them not to do that because
that’s like driving your car with the RPMs up at five indefinitely that’s not good for your
the car eventually something Bad’s gonna happen so we don’t want them to read themselves up that
much we need to help them find that happy medium where they’re content there are three or four
on a scale of 1 to 5 and they’re feeling good for some clients when they start feeling depressed
they notice thinking changes and have difficulty concentrating this is a warning sign you know they
may not feel completely depressed yet but they may be waking up in the morning going yeah not so sure
I want to get out of it they may have low energy changes in sleeping or eating irritability
sadness negativity resentment withdrawal and environmentally they may notice that they’re in
the area becomes more disorganized or they may just not be caring as much about personal hygiene as these
are all things that they can identify early on and say huh you know it looks like maybe I need to
take a little bit better care of myself and it’s hard for clients it’s hard for a lot of us to
listen to our body and go okay I wanted to do XYZ but my body is telling me that maybe I
need to rest for mania warning signs can include racing thoughts heightened creativity that’s
one that for people to be aware of especially if you’re dealing with somebody who’s naturally
creative they may thrive during this period of heightened creativity and get upset when
you start suggesting that they may need to temper that to stabilize their mood they’re
gonna have to cut the top off the highs and raise the bottom on the lows physically they may have
difficulty sleeping or sitting still maybe may feel elated excited irritable or thrill-seeking
you may have some anger outbursts frustration with others and environmentally what I’ve seen
with patients especially with full-blown mania, it varies on what they do sometimes they are
cleaning like crazy and other times it looks like a whirlwind absolutely hit the room but so it’s
usually extreme so treatment compliance we want to encourage clients to do a decisional balance
back exercise and I broke it down so it’s shorter what are the benefits of eliminating depressive
episodes if the person was no longer depressed how would they feel emotionally mentally physically
and how would it impact their family and friends a lot of times that this one’s easy to fill out
the drawbacks to eliminating depression are this can be harder to fill out because they’re like well
I’ll see any drawbacks okay we can leave that for now sometimes patients come to the awareness
that if they’re no longer depressed they may not get as much attention and people may expect more
of them which is anxiety provoking but this area usually doesn’t have a whole bunch of stuff
in it and then we want to ask them what are the benefits of eliminating the mania emotionally
mentally physically and socially this one’s a little harder not as hard as the drawbacks to
eliminating depression a lot of times clients can see the benefits of eliminating the manic
episodes because they don’t have the periods I mean they have the highs and those are awesome
but they don’t have the periods where they have the lows and they don’t feel like they can do as
much they don’t have the loss of time they don’t kind of come out of it and realize that they’re
completely overwhelmed because when they were in the manic episode they took on 17 things so there
are a lot of things that clients may identify as benefits to eliminating the mania but we also
want to talk about the drawbacks to eliminating it because like I said for some people that’s
when they’re their most creative and if they’re a writer or an artist or a musician this may be
the time when they are feeling like they’re uber selves so they don’t want to get rid of it and
it’s terrifying to them to think that they might not be able to tap into what we can talk about
ways to tap into their creativity when they’re not manic and you know there are techniques that
they can use it to get that focus that they so desire but it depends on the person exactly
what you’re going to use if we don’t address all of these concerns about eliminating their
mania treatment compliance is going to be lower because people will just they’ll miss it they’ll
miss it a lot and they’ll want to feel that high again so general techniques in clot ask
clients how do you deal with it up until now when you felt depressed what have you done this helped
you feel better even for 10 minutes or an hour or half a day you know maybe it didn’t work the whole
time but or it helped you feel instead of feeling just devastated you felt sad you know it helps
you feel a little bit less intensely depressed build on that ask them what they’re willing to do
some clients are gonna look at you and go no I’m not gonna do that keep your
journal no not gonna do that okay so what are you willing to do I tell my clients a lot of times I’m
gonna suggest things that you may not think fit for you or work for you or you’re not going to do
well I’d rather you tell me number one that you’re not going to do it and what I’m more
concerned about is what you’re gonna do instead if you don’t want to keep the journal okay how are
we going to be able to notice changes and find connections between your eating your sleeping your
stress levels and your mood episodes you know help me let’s figure out a way that we can we can
do this and they may come up with something you know I state what it is that I want to
do or accomplish and why it’s important and I say is there another way we can accomplish this
when I work with clients and recovery sometimes they don’t want to go to 12-step meetings okay
if you’re not going to go then what are you gonna do instead because you need to have some social
support you need to have something to do besides sitting alone in your apartment from the time you get
off work until the time you go to work the next day because that’s a dangerous period encourage
clients emotionally to practice mindfulness because it does prevent episodes from sneaking up
if they start feeling run down or tired or off you know sometimes I hear that word I just feel off
okay that’s when you need to stop and check in with yourself and go what’s going on how do I feel
what do I need and mindfulness also encourages behaviors that prevent vulnerabilities when people
check in with themselves they may say you know what I’m really tired today I need to rest and
that’s a good thing because it keeps them from becoming vulnerable and potentially triggering
an episode of stress reduction encourages clients to identify and eliminate or mitigate stressors
so what stressors do you have and they can write them down on the list they can a lot of times if
I’m doing an individual I’ll have somebody write down on our big whiteboard all of their stressors
and then we go through on one by one and say okay can this one be eliminated if so how and the
the client will start making a plan for how they’re going to start eliminating stressors if there’s a
a stressor that can’t be eliminated maybe they don’t get along with their in-laws and periodically
the in-laws come to visit or whatever okay well you can’t eliminate that so how are you going
to mitigate that stressor before your in-laws come what can you do or may it be less stressful
if you go to their house instead of them coming to yours so we talk about different things we talk
about time management because in those manic and hypomanic episodes people can take on too much and
then they feel a little overwhelmed when they’re steady-state and they feel overwhelmed
if they’re in a depressive episode I do want to point out and I think most of us know this person
don’t usually cycle from a manic to a depressive to a manic like that they can have a depressive
episode and then be asymptomatic for anything for months and then have another depressive episode
or a manic episode so it’s important to recognize that most people who are bipolar don’t rapidly
cycle and there are periods of remission or symptomatology in between cognitive processing
therapy can also help people mitigate stressors when they start feeling overwhelmed encouraging
them to identify what thoughts they’re having that are contributing to them feeling stressed
or overwhelmed and then looking for the facts for and against that thought if they’re feeling
like they’ve got too much to do what are the facts for it what are the facts against it if
they do have too much to do then they need to figure out how to address it but this helps keep
people from getting stuck in emotional reasoning where every time they feel stressed or they feel
depressed or they feel anxious they think there’s something to be dysphoric about encourage people
to identify their anger management triggers they differ for everyone they need to develop a plan
for de-escalation and begin addressing their anger triggers to maintain control of their energy
they need to identify if driving in heavy traffic stresses you out and makes you irritable and angry
well ok how can you address those triggers maybe driving a different way or maybe putting on your
favorite music loud in the car or whatever it is that you can do to mitigate that anger anger
takes a lot of energy everybody everybody’s energy is precious but people with bipolar disorder
stress and excess energy drain can potentially trigger an episode so we want to help them
conserve their energy so yeah they’re gonna get angry about some stuff but help them identify
what’s worth getting angry about and using their anger energy for and how to deal with the
rest of it so they have more energy to enjoy the life we’ve been talking about the negatives but let’s
look at the positive they need to infuse happiness have them make a list of what makes them happy and
do more of it or be around it more encourage them to schedule a belly laugh every day and there are
Reddit forums there are YouTube videos there are places they can go to get a good old belly laugh
but it helps release endorphins and release some of the calming neurotransmitters that have them keep
a good things silver lining or gratitude journal and it doesn’t have to be prose you can have them
identify at the end of the day three things three good things that happen that day or three things
they’re grateful for or when things go bad they say I got demoted at my job today alright well
what’s the silver lining to that you didn’t get fired and maybe have less responsibility now I
don’t know but there are different ways you can approach it but encouraging people to be cognizant
and try to embrace the dialectics there’s going to be bad in life but help them focus on the good to
reduce dysphoria mentally address cognitive errors all Arnon thinking focusing on only the positive
or negative using feelings as facts and focusing only on a small piece when something happens maybe
you turned in a group project and your boss sent it back and said uh no try again some people will
take it very personally and focus only on the fact that the boss sent it back with feedback instead
okay it wasn’t just me participating in this project so you know all of us need to contribute
to it again and you know yes it was given back to us but we get a second opportunity so it’s looking
at a bigger piece of the puzzle encourage clients to develop their self-esteem and view failures
as lessons applaud courage and creativity and nurture their inner child I have an inner
the child my inner child comes out a lot more than some people would like to admit or really
like to see but that’s okay you know on Saturday morning it is not uncommon for me to be watching
cartoons in the living room my kids are teenagers I can’t say I’m watching it with them anymore I
like Yogi Bear I’m sorry I’m weird that way but you know sometimes at the end of a long week of
being serious and everything I just kind of need to regress for you know half an hour two hours no
encourage people to nurture their inner child and don’t be afraid to be silly don’t be afraid to
laugh or do something goofy physically increase clients to exercise class to increase exercise
it increases serotonin levels reduces stress helps balance hormones and neurochemicals and
may combat some medication side effects exercise is anything that moves the body gardening cleaning
going to the gym of course walking the dog playing soccer with the kid anything like that so what
is it that they like to do or at least they’re willing to do nutrition provides the building
blocks for the neurochemicals so people need to have quality proteins and a nutritionist
A friend of mine suggested always try to have three colors on your plate at every meal and use
a salad plate that is smaller instead of a dinner plate because it tricks your brain into thinking
that you’re getting more food as Americans we tend to eat way more than we need and try
to avoid mindless or comfort eating when people start comfort eating a lot of times they’re not
being mindful they’re eating to deal with stress instead of acknowledging the stress and dealing
with it so yeah they’re infusing themselves with carbohydrates and fats and getting the serotonin
and dopamine flowing but when all that goes away whatever was causing the stress is probably
still there so they’re either gonna have to stress eat again or deal with it so encouraging
people to be mindful of their eating sleep helps the body repair and rebalance and sleep
deprivation is known to trigger both manic and depressive episodes too much sleep or sleeping
at the wrong times can also mess up circadian rhythms so keeping naps to a minimum of 45 minutes
one time a day, if the person has to take a nap, is important so they don’t get into that deep
sleep and preferably try to avoid naps for most of a 15-minute power nap where you’re
closing your eyes and you don’t ever completely drift off has been shown to increase focus in
the afternoon but naps where you’re laying down and getting under the covers tend to mess
up circadian rhythms, if people are on medication for their bipolar which they probably will be
have them work with their doctor to adjust the dosages and dosage times to fit their schedule so
if they have a medication that makes them feel sleepy maybe they take it right before
dinner so it’s worn off completely by the time they get up in the morning and it’ll be up to the
person to work with their doctor I had one client who took Seroquel and she ended up having to take
it at 2:00 in the afternoon for it to be out of her system enough where she felt alert
when she woke up at 6 o’clock the next morning so it’s gonna differ for different clients again
encourage them to discuss any negative medication side effects with their doctor and not to expect
a pill to do everything you know the pill can help stabilize the moods but if you’re taking this pill
but then you’re still you know pulling the rug out from under it by not sleeping and using cocaine or
or whatever it’s likely the pill is just not going to be able to do it all interpersonally support
groups are really helpful to chat rooms if the person is either in a rural area working shift work can’t
get to an appropriate support group not all communities have support groups that are embracing
of all different types of people so it’s important to recognize that even though there may be a support
group the person that you’re working with may not feel comfortable with the people that are in that
the particular group so chat rooms can be helpful in the know family and friends and I say in the know
these are people who have to understand or have to know that the person has bipolar disorder and be
aware of their warning signs trigger their symptoms which helps so they can be supportive
and facilitative environmental clients can explore things that improve their environment
different pictures a temperature can also be a big thing if you’re too cold or too hot it can
make people irritable certain essential oils can help increase energy such as peppermint rosemary
or lemon calming essential oils if somebody tends to have some anxiety going on lavender chamomile
valerian Valerians kind of they say woody some people think it stinks to high heaven some people
love it catnip is the same way yes stuff you use for your cats you can get it in essential oil
and it’s a sedative type essential oil for humans bergamot it’s a pretty mild smell
rose is helpful rose geranium is a little bit less expensive and frankincense is all supposed
to help with calming so he’s hypomanic having difficulty winding down anxious whatever some of
these may help memory triggering include ginger cloves cinnamon orange and jasmine which works for
one person is not necessarily going to work for another I mean there are studies out there that
show certain essential oils have effectiveness at anxiety reduction and depression improvement but
it’s going to be up to that person and I found that when a person smells something if it
smells noxious to them then it’s probably not something that they need if they smell valerian
and they’re like oh my gosh that stinks okay that’s not triggering what their brain needs their
the brain knows what it needs I do the same thing with my rescue animals you know I let them take a
a good whiff of it and if they like it they’ll stick around and they’ll sniff it some more if
it’s not what they need then they’ll go somewhere else I tried fur for our donkeys when we first
got them into rescue I tried lavender because I thought you know that’ll help them calm down they
hated it they liked valerian so I learned that for them they preferred that particular
essential oil for whatever way it works in the brain and encourage clients to visit a store that
sells essential oils because they have testers and they can sniff them to see which ones work for
they and essential oils also smell different from different manufacturers so it’s important
again for them to figure out places that they can get their essential oils and try to stick with
the same company once they find one that works organization can help another thing that’s
important for people with Bipolar is to manage impulse items when they go into a manic or
hypomanic episode especially and they’re prone to engage in risk-taking behavior or less restrained
behavior car keys need to be somewhere where maybe they can’t access them if they’re known to go out
and drag race or you know drive 100 miles an hour just to see how it feels credit cards that’s a
big one credit cards need to be somewhere some of my clients will freeze their credit cards in
a block of ice so they can’t get to them and they can’t see the numbers to read them and
put them in on the phone this can help prevent unrestrained spending, especially at 2:00 a.m.
or something when the infomercials are on porn sites if the client happens to have an attraction
to porn sites having those blocked because it’s really easy to get sucked into that same thing
with video games and alcohol and other drugs alcohol a lot of people have in their house so
if this is a dangerous impulse item for somebody make sure they have it locked up somewhere so if
they do and have a hypomanic or manic episode they can’t drink the same thing with certain medications
especially the benzos and the opiates if you can keep it locked up somewhere all the better and
during the day keep it light and bright try not to be in an office where it’s dark
some people can’t help it I mean if you’re a nurse and you’re working in the neonatal intensive
care unit it’s going to be dark most of the time and there’s nothing you can do about that
but if you can help it keep the lights on if you don’t like fluorescent lights get lots of stand up
lights that you can put around to keep it bright so your brain knows that it’s time to be awake
co-occurring disorders depression can co-occur with bipolar I mean you can have part
of bipolar is depression so when somebody is in depressive episode suicidality high-risk and
addictive behaviors and self-medication we want to shout for it just like we would for unipolar
depression with mania we want to help the person become aware and look out for explosive anger
which can get them into legal trouble relationship issues etc heightened libido which also can get
them into legal trouble and relationship issues etc and any other risk-taking that they do because
when they’re in a manic episode is like they’re this is a bad idea filter is completely turned off
or it’s switched on the other way and as the let’s try this filter so helping them understand that
when they’re in that manic state it’s important to have safeguards so that when they come out of it they
haven’t done something that they’re going to end up regretting or have to undo so bipolar is caused
by neurochemical imbalances especially among serotonin dopamine and norepinephrine the symptoms
and presentation varies widely depending on the person it’s more important to address each symptom
then to address bipolar as a whole you know we want to look at what symptoms this person
presenting with and how can we help them manage those the medication provider is going to be
managing kind of the bipolar as a whole and trying to stabilize the mood but we want to help them
start addressing their symptoms so they can feel as healthy happy healthy and productive as
possible help them address each symptom identify warning signs and eliminate or mitigate
triggers and vulnerabilities remember that treatment compliance is a huge issue because the mood
stabilizers tend to flatten those highs and people miss the most dangerous times for suicidal
ideation and people with bipolar disorder are when they’re coming out of a depressive episode
or and I didn’t mention this before or during a mixed episode remember mixed they can be depressed
and have high energy both at the same time ensure people with bipolar disorder have a crisis plan
and people who interact with them daily who are aware of their warning signs and symptoms because
sometimes they’re not being mindful and most of us are guilty of not being mindful all the time
sometimes these symptoms can creep up so if they have people they interact with daily
who are in the know and can say you know John it seems like you’re starting to destabilize a
little bit then John can take a look at it people with co-occurring addictions also need to be aware
that a bipolar episode can trigger an addiction relapse and vice versa so they need to be aware
and have an extra-special relapse addiction relapse prevention plan for when their mood
symptoms arise if you haven’t already signed up please remember that addiction and mental health
counseling and Social Work continuing education credits are available for this presentation and
are accepted in most US states Canadian provinces Great Britain Australia and South Africa go to all
CEUs com counselor toolbox and click on the link counselor toolbox CEU spreadsheet to easily
locate the course based on this presentation okay are there any questions now remember we’re not having class
tomorrow but we’re having class on Thursday and that is just chock-full of
stuff that I’ve never actually presented before so there is no repeat possible there
oh and then next Tuesday we’re going to be talking about enhancing social justice
and why that’s important for recovery you
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