7 Signs You’re Depressed and Don’t Know It

  – [Narrator] There’s been a huge decline in mental health around the world, which is why we’re so committed to creating more content than we ever have. Thanks for being a part of our journey. Hey you, Psych2goer’s happy Mental Health Awareness Month. It’s so important to have a month dedicated to spreading awareness of medical conditions that can’t be seen. When you think of depression what do you think of? Being sad? Thoughts related to death, unanswered calls, or texts? These are all very common and noticeable signs of depression, but did you know, there are more subtle signs of depression that can fly under the radar? Let’s check out seven signs of depression that go unnoticed. Number one, you toggle between emotions depending on your surroundings. When we think of depression we often think of being sad all the time but did you know that that isn’t always the case? A subtle sign of depression is when an individual flips between sadness and happiness based on the scenario and setting.   For example, you might be sad when you’re alone but happy when you’re out with your friends. Having people around or something to keep your mind off things allows for a bit of reprieve. This can also be something called forced happiness, where the person feels inclined to put on a smile for others. A group of researchers found that potential depression sufferers on Twitter change the way they use language and interact on social media. You may notice them sending you more negative texts or posting darker posts on their social media accounts. But when you hang out with them in person, they’re completely happy. This online persona allows them to be and say what they want. Number two, you notice changes in your habits. There’s a certain stigma around staying up late at night. When you see posts or texts from a friend in those early hours, you may not think anything of it but when you notice it more consistently this could be cause for concern.   Other habits that can be disrupted can be eating, bathing, getting dressed, and going to work school or other appointments. Ignoring these basic human needs is not caring for yourself. Then it could be a sign that there are more things at play than just being tired or feeling lazy. Number three, you start blaming yourself for things even if it’s not your fault. When you’ve done something, it’s important to take responsibility for it and hold yourself accountable. But do you notice someone apologizing for everything, even for things they didn’t do? You say I spilled juice on my shirt. They say, sorry. You say it’s raining, I wanted to go running. They say, sorry. They didn’t make you spill juice on your shirt. They didn’t make it rain and purposely ruin the day but they feel like it’s their fault. This can even manifest as remembering or reliving an embarrassing memory and not moving on from it. Even having a feeling of guilt can leave someone feeling depressed.   Number four, you’re not doing what you used to do. Have you noticed a certain friend has declined a lot of your invitations to hang out later? Did you notice they’re not going anywhere besides work or school? Maybe there’s a friend who still shows up at their hobbies like sports practice or music rehearsal but has lost all enjoyment. These are all signs of potential depression. When you’re depressed, activities that used to produce dopamine, the feel-good hormone, don’t react the same way causing you to not feel that same joy. This is another sign that can be paired with toggling mentioned in the first point. The individual may feel like they need to match their previous high spirits and hide their new emotions so they don’t bring the mood down. Number five, you have difficulty making decisions. When you ask your significant other to hang out it’s nice to get some input on what they wanna do or even leave the decision up to them. Someone who may have depression may not have any opinions on anything. It can be as small as what to eat for dinner or more difficult as what to major in or deciding your budget.   This can mean the individual doesn’t feel like they’re good or smart enough to make the right decision. Pushing away from making decisions can be a good indicator of possible depression. Number six, you’re always on edge. Irritability is a common symptom of mental health conditions. But how can you tell the difference? Let’s say you’re crushing on someone and your friend knows it. If your friend starts flirting with your crush in front of you, this is a situation where being irritable is a valid and reasonable response but say you have a roommate and one shared TV.   You wanna watch a movie after work, but when you come home your roommate is already watching something which causes you to blow up at your roommate. The reaction is out of proportion to the situation. Sure, it’s annoying that someone’s watching TV but it’s something a simple conversation can solve. You can ask your roommate if they would mind you watching a movie after they’ve finished. That knee-jerk reaction to get angry can be a sign of other mental health issues like depression. And number seven, you feel physical pain. Have you ever felt pain like muscle ache or headache? And you have no idea where it came from? When you feel physical pains regularly, it’s always a good idea to consult a medical professional to determine if there are any underlying reasons for them. If nothing is found, it may be a good next step to contact a trusted mental health provider. So did any of these signs surprise you? Have you noticed these other signs of depression in yourself or a loved one? Let us know in the comments below.   If you are someone you know is concerned that they may be showing signs of depression, please consult a mental health professional. And if you found this video helpful please share it with others. The references and studies used are listed in the description below. Until next time, take care and see you soon. As found on YouTube Hi, My name is James Gordon 👻🗯 I’m going to share with you the system I used to permanently cure the depression that I struggled with for over 20 years. My approach is going to teach you how to get to the root of your struggle with depression, with NO drugs and NO expensive and endless therapy sessions. If you’re ready to get on the path to finally overcome your depression, I invite you to keep reading…

8 Signs You Might Have Social Anxiety

  Hey, Psych2Goers! And welcome back to another Psych2Go video. Do you find it hard to socialize with other people? Do you feel overwhelmed at the thought of going to a social event? It can be very easy to confuse social anxiety and shyness.. ..since they share many of the same characteristics. While shyness is a personality trait.. ..social anxiety is a mental illness. Before we begin we’d like to mention that this video is created for educational purposes only.. ..and is not intended to substitute a professional diagnosis. With that being said, here are eight signs you might have social anxiety. #1 You’re always self-conscious. One aspect of social anxiety is the extreme fear of being judged. According to Kocovski and Endler if you have social anxiety; You’ll constantly worry about the way you look or act and what others think of you. Your greatest fear is of embarrassing yourself in front of others. A shy person, on the other hand, will only worry about being judged in certain situations.. ..like in public speaking or when meeting someone new. #2 Your anxiety feels out of hand. There are times when it’s normal to feel shy or nervous around other people.   ..for example when you move to a new school or have to perform in front of an audience. But social anxiety is irrational and unwarranted. You may feel distressed about things as simple as making eye contact with someone,.. ..using public transportation, or eating in front of other people. The fear is always there. The fear is always there. #3 It interferes with your performance. Have you ever called in sick to work when your anxiety became too overwhelming? ..or have you kept quiet when you were having trouble in class? Social anxiety can impact your performance in many ways.. ..with the constant fear of people’s judgment You may even be afraid to do well to avoid drawing attention.   You don’t pitch ideas at meetings.. ..raise your hand in class… or join clubs because of how much anxiety it creates. #4 It affects your relationships. While it’s hard to make friends when you’re shy.. ..it can feel almost impossible when you have social anxiety. For a shy person, it’s usually about breaking the ice.. ..and going through the initial awkwardness of meeting each other. But having social anxiety can complicate your relationships. You feel tense and uneasy around people. ..no matter how close you are or how long you’ve known them. #5 It doesn’t go away with familiarity. It’s normal to feel shy at the beginning of a new relationship. But as you get to know each other the tension will start to subside. This isn’t the case if you have social anxiety. Instead, you always experience fear distress, and embarrassment whenever you’re around other people. Doesn’t matter if it’s your parent’s siblings or best friend.. ..you always feel uneasy and stressed unless you’re alone. #6 You overanalyze everything. Have you ever said things to yourself like; “I took too long to reply and now she doesn’t like me ..” or “He didn’t say hello this morning because he’s upset with me ..” Social anxiety can make you obsess over your social interactions. You may spend a lot of time and energy.. ..analyzing other people’s facial expressions.. ..body language and tone of voice.. ..to see if they mean what they’re saying or not. #7 You avoid social situations. Are you often absent or very late to social gatherings? It’s a serious matter if your social anxiety leads you to avoid social situations altogether.   You decline invitations, refuse to speak in front of people, ..and would rather sit in the corner.. ..to avoid being noticed and mingle with anyone else. It doesn’t matter if it’s a normal day at work or school.. ..your birthday party, or even your wedding day. And #8 You have physical symptoms. Do you feel nausea? dizziness or chest palpitations when you’re in social situations? Just like most anxiety disorders.. ..social anxiety is often accompanied by physical symptoms. Some common ones are sweaty palms, shortness of breath.. lightheadedness, and trembling. While these are also the same signs of someone having a panic attack. You’ll be able to tell the difference if you only show these symptoms.. ..when anticipating or being out in a social setting. Do you relate to any of these symptoms above? Let us know in the comments below.   If you do, you’re not alone…nor are you bad for feeling this way. The references and studies used in this video are added in the description below. If you find this video helpful, be sure to like, subscribe…and share this video with those who might benefit from it as well! Thanks for watching and we’ll see you in the next video! As found on YouTube Show me the simple steps to overcome shyness & cure social anxiety ➫ The Shyness and Social Anxiety System was created by Sean Cooper, a former social anxiety sufferer. Learn how to overcome your quietness, erase your insecurities and be confident around people using proven psychology.

6 Physical Symptoms that Might Be Anxiety

  – [Presenter] Have you ever experienced physical symptoms and not known why? It could be that you’re experiencing anxiety without realizing it. So what exactly is anxiety? Experiencing occasional moments of anxiety is normal, such as when facing a problem at work or before taking an exam where you may feel your heart beating rapidly sweaty palms, or have nausea. But these symptoms of nervousness dissolve over time. While you may have experienced these symptoms at some point, anxiety is more than temporary worrying or stress. Worries and stress arise from external triggers such as an upcoming deadline or an argument with a loved one.   Anxiety on the other hand is persistent worry in the absence of stressors. The American Psychology The association defines it as an emotion characterized by apprehension and somatic symptoms of tensions in which an individual anticipates impending danger, catastrophe, or misfortune. Aside from its mental symptoms, anxiety also produces a roster of physical symptoms such as insomnia, fatigue, and muscle tension. Most people pay more attention to the physical symptoms as they’re easy to identify, and as a result, tend to treat the symptoms rather than the underlying cause. So with that said, here are six symptoms of anxiety that can help you discern if it’s an illness or anxiety.   Number one is irritability. Yes, this symptom may seem vague because when you’re unwell, who wouldn’t be a bit irritated? However, if you find yourself getting worked up over the slightest things, that could be a sign of anxiety. Anxiety triggers our fight-flight or freezes response. It also makes you believe that you’re constantly in danger which reduces your tolerance to stress. As your stress tolerance decreases you become more susceptible to snapping at someone. According to statistics, only a small percentage of you who watch our videos are subscribed. If you’re not subscribed yet and you enjoy what you see do consider hitting the subscribe button. This encourages your hoops algorithm in promoting more of our mental health content to more people out there. Number two is depersonalization or derealization. Another sign that your physiological symptoms are the result of anxiety and not a sickness is if you experience frequent bouts of derealization or depersonalization. Both symptoms disrupt how you perceive yourself and the world. Derealization is a sensation of being outside of your body and is a frightening thing to experience.   One minute you can be walking down the street and suddenly everything feels two-dimensional or unreal. Depersonalization is usually described as an out-of-body experience. Most times you feel like you’re watching and hearing yourself in real-time, but your actions feel distant like you’re not the person doing them and your limbs or body can appear distorted and foreign to you. Reports show that stress and anxiety are the primary causes of derealization and depersonalization because your fight or flight response to stress floods your brain with adrenaline which redirects blood from the brain to the larger muscle groups and core. Because your brain has less blood you may feel more lightheaded, and as a result, you may experience derealization and depersonalization. If this happens to you, it helps to breathe. The adrenaline usually takes two to three minutes to metabolize but you may take 20 minutes to calm down physically and mentally. Number three is phobias and coping mechanisms. Another sign that you’re experiencing anxiety and not a physical illness is if you notice that you’ve developed new and unexplainable phobias. We all have phobias whether they developed during childhood or are the result of a bad experience. Phobias are our brain’s way of trying to keep us from harm. However, some phobias are the results of anxiety and can become obstacles in your daily life. Technically phobias are categorized as anxiety disorders and fall into two groups; specific and complex. Specific phobias usually stem from a bad experience, but complex phobias stem from mental or emotional distress. Specific phobias usually don’t need treatment but complex phobias, like agoraphobia, the fear of being in busy places, and social phobia do. These phobic opioids can make you feel more alone and can also affect your self-esteem. Number four, attacks, trouble breathing.   A telltale sign of anxiety is experiencing a panic attack or anxiety attack. Though both terms are used interchangeably, they’re different. A panic attack is a sudden overwhelming surge of emotion such as fear and discomfort. You may feel your chest tighten as your breathing has stopped. You may also feel dizzy or lightheaded. While anxiety attacks have similar symptoms, they’re a bit different as they’re the result of symptoms that have been gradually building up. Number five is gastrointestinal disruptions. Gastrointestinal issues are another sign of anxiety but can also arise independently of your mental health. While anxiety and gastro illnesses are mutually exclusive, there is research supporting the theory that anxiety causes gastrointestinal disorders such as irritable bowel syndrome and studies have shown the comorbidity between anxiety and irritable bowel syndrome. There’s lots of research that treatment for some gastrointestinal disorders may involve therapy.   And number six, physiological strangeness. A final sign that you’re experiencing anxiety is if you feel tingling or numbness usually in your face and limbs, which is the feeling of blood rushing to your extremities as your fight or flight response kicks in. While blood rushes to our extremities, other areas of your body can feel weak. Tingling and numbing can also be caused by hyperventilation which indirectly happens when you’re anxious. Along with the symptoms listed in this article, there are other ways anxiety can manifest itself.   Despite its symptoms, anxiety is manageable. Please reach out to a medical health professional or a therapist for help. Do you recognize any of these symptoms in yourself? Let us know when the comments are below. And remember to like and share this video with those who might benefit. As always, the references and studies used are listed in the description below. Take care and thanks for watching. See you next time. As found on YouTube Hi, My name is James Gordon 👻🗯 I’m going to share with you the system I used to permanently cure the depression that I struggled with for over 20 years. My approach is going to teach you how to get to the root of your struggle with depression, with NO drugs and NO expensive and endless therapy sessions. If you’re ready to get on the path to finally overcome your depression, I invite you to keep reading…

Dating With Anxiety: 8 Struggles

  (lively music) (dinging) – [Narrator] Hi, Psych2Goers and welcome back to another video. Thank you so much for all the love and support you’ve given us, enabling us to venture further into everyday psychology. So let’s begin. Awkward silences, clumsy stumbles, and even mistaken names. Sound familiar? They’re all part of dating, whether you have anxiety or not. The true difference comes before and after the hiccup. Did you spend all day practicing what you would say? Are you going to come back to this small moment in time again and again when you think about dating? When you’re struggling with anxiety, it can be incredibly frustrating to have an extra obstacle to navigate when you’re trying to focus on finding love but you’re not alone. There are countless resources available both on and offline to help you learn, find support and cope with anxiety. Who knows, maybe you’ll meet someone who can relate. Before we begin, please remember Psych2Go is not a medical professional and these videos should not be used in place of a diagnosis.   With that said, here are eight dating struggles people with anxiety face. One, thoughts turn into obsessions so quickly. Have you ever been so preoccupied with dating that it feels like you run into couples wherever you look? It turns out there’s a science behind this phenomenon. Karen McDowell Ph.D. told Healthline that anxiety stems from the way we think so, she began, “If you fear that you’re unlovable, that your date will not like you or that you will do or say something awkward, your brain will go into overdrive, trying to confirm its suspicions.” Two, your fears try to end things before they even begin. Self-sabotage can sound as subtle as I can’t ask her out. She’s way out of my league. If you’ve given up on something before you’ve even tried, stop.   The anxious thoughts that make you hesitate are to protect you from potential region or embarrassment. But by avoiding dating altogether, you’re guarding yourself against opportunities and connection too. Three, what are you supposed to say? Does your mind race through what-ifs during introductions? Do you rehearse your hello for the 100th time until it sounds just right? Even though this can be an awkward moment to navigate for even those who don’t struggle with anxiety, meeting someone new can often be a trigger for anxious individuals. They might lose their train of thought altogether.   What does a person even say to someone they’ve just met? Four, you can’t stay present when you’re together. Do you find yourself ruminating in the past or worrying about the future? Time travel might be a cool concept in science fiction movies but when you’re trying to have a rom-com moment, it just doesn’t click. Connecting with someone requires you to be in the moment and attentive to the other person but this can be difficult when your brain is swirling with input. If you can relate to this, don’t be too hard on yourself because there’s a reason your mind wants to do it. Five, spending a night out means spending a night stressed out.   Leaving home makes a lot of people anxious. But for some, this can severely impact their social life. Mayo Clinic defines agoraphobia as a type of anxiety disorder in which you fear and avoid places or situations that might cause you to panic and make you feel trapped, helpless, or embarrassed. While this fear of stressful situations might keep you indoors and isolated, you are not alone. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, over 40 million people suffer from some type of anxiety disorder in the US alone. So you’re bound to find someone who’d be excited to spend a night with you. Six, anxiety’s physical symptoms can ruin a date night. Fewer things could ruin date night faster than an anxious thought, which spirals out of control. If you experience physical symptoms of anxiety, such as dizziness, heart palpitations, or sweating, you know just how real the struggle can be. These symptoms come on fast and can be extremely debilitating. Think of something along the lines of stomach trouble on a first date. As embarrassing as it can be in the moment, remember that everyone has times when their body and even their mind turn against them. Seven, you always assume things won’t end well. Are you a glass-half-empty kind of person? Has it become only too easy for you to find the worst-case the scenario in any situation? When anxious and intrusive thoughts have been around for a long time, they begin to become so habitual that they’re automatic.   It’s easy to imagine relationships crumbling to pieces or first dates ending so badly you’ll never show your face again. But if you’re able to give it time and lots of practice, imagining second dates and a happy love life may not be so hard either. Eight, it’s hard to get to know someone when communication is so scary.   One of the most frustrating things about anxiety is that it stops you from pursuing things you want deep down. Even though what you want is to connect with them, you still may seem nervous or even fearful around the person you’re interested in. In some cases, anxiety can stop you from expressing your feelings or communicating with anyone at all, which makes the frustration grow further. Do any of these apply to you? Leave a comment down below about your experiences. Also, know that you’re not alone in this contradictory struggle and there are so many understanding people in the world who want to know you, support you and maybe even go out with you. We hope we were able to give you a little insight into the inner workings of an anxious mind during dating. If you find this video helpful, be sure to hit the Like and Subscribe button and share it with those out there juggling anxiety in dating.   Thanks for watching and we’ll see you in the next video. As found on YouTube Show me the simple steps to overcome shyness & cure social anxiety ➫ The Shyness and Social Anxiety System was created by Sean Cooper, a former social anxiety sufferer. Learn how to overcome your quietness, erase your insecurities and be confident around people using proven psychology.

10 Ways to Deal with Social Anxiety

  Welcome to happiness isn’t brain surgery with Dr. Snipes. This podcast was created to provide you the information and tools Doc Snipes gives her clients so that you too can start living happier. Our website DocSnipes.com has even more resources videos and handouts and even interactive sessions with Doc Snipes to help you apply what you learn. Go to DocSnipes.com to learn more. Hey everybody and Welcome to happiness isn’t brain surgery with Doc Snipes: Practical tools to improve your mood and quality of life. Tonight we’re talking about 10 ways to deal with social anxiety a lot of people have social anxiety and that’s basically having unreasonable fears that you know are kind of excessive when it comes to being in any kind of social situation some people have only social anxiety when they’ve got to do things like perform or public speaking or something like that other people have social anxiety when they have to go to work when they have to be in crowds they don’t like going to the shopping center or the mall where there are a lot of people around so depending on your level of social anxiety, some of these things may be helpful to help you work through and deal with your social anxiety the first is to minimize stimulants stimulants Reb you up anxiety Rebs you up when you take stimulants if you drink too much coffee you may feel anxious so if you’re drinking stimulants before you go into an anxiety-provoking situation you may miss attributing your anxiety about the social situation when in actuality it was the caffeine or the nicotine the other thing that you want to do is pay attention when you’re at some of these events that you’re minimizing your stimulants the other thing and I’ll you know this is not stimulant alcohol is technically a depressant but when alcohol starts to wear off about it 30 minutes after you drink your drink it starts to wear off and there’s an anxiety rebound with alcohol so if you have high anxiety if you have social anxiety drinking to quell that anxiety is probably not your best bet because in the end it’s gonna kind of backfire and bite you in the ass know your temperament not everybody likes being around big groups of people I draw energy from being around people so I love being around groups but my daughter on the other hand is much more of an introvert and she would prefer to be around you know two or three people at a time she gets exhausted when she has to be in big groups of people it doesn’t mean she’s got social anxiety so know what your preference is for being around people so when you’re developing your self-confidence when you’re developing your skills when you’re working through social anxiety you’re not putting yourself in situations that would stress you out anyway so know your temperament if you’re an introvert when you’re making your exposure hierarchy which we’re going to talk about it in a minute you’re gonna start with something like going out for coffee with a friend to Starbucks or maybe even having a friend over for coffee in your house depending on how bad your social anxiety is and then you’re gonna work up from there but if you are an introvert you’re never gonna be relaxed in a group of a large group of people so I just understanding the difference between being anxious and feeling like you’re gonna crawl out of your skin and be uncomfortable or have it be very draining to be in a large group of people who understand your temperament that’s part of it so you can say you know this is normal I am not the type of a person who likes to be in a large group of people so it’s going to take some preparation and it’s going to take a lot of energy but I can do it knowing your triggers different things trigger anxiety for different people some people have anxiety when they feel like they’re going to be evaluated so if they’re doing a presentation for their colleagues or their peers they’re more likely to be more anxious than if they’re say hanging out with five other parents at a kid’s play date or something some people have one of their triggers is authority figures I know whenever I had to present in front of the CEO or in front of my department chair or whoever gave me more anxiety than presenting even in front of a class of a hundred and fifty students so it’s kind of all about what your particular triggers are if the other trigger you might want to consider the situation you know if you feel like you are on stage if you feel like you are the center and everybody’s looking at you that’s probably going to be a lot more anxiety-provoking than if you are mixing and mingling with other people at a party so know what triggers your anxiety so thinking about how your social anxiety impacts your life what kinds of things can you not do or what kinds of things do you find are just terrifying to keep a list of all of those things starting with the things that only make you a little bit nervous about things that you would rather you know pull your eyebrows out then do and start at the beginning start with the things that only cause you a little bit of anxiety imagine them rehearsing and doing them in your mind see yourself going through them successfully for example a job interview or a first date imagine what it’s going to be like what the other a person is going to say how you’re going to respond and how it’s all going to go well just keep imagining that until you can imagine it or think about it and you don’t feel stressed than when you go in to do it it’s going to be a lot easier once you get past that first thing move on to the next thing that causes a little bit more anxiety all right start at the beginning again imagine doing it see yourself going all the way through maybe it’s doing a public speech see yourself getting dressed for it getting ready for walking out on stage and delivering the speech and seeing it go well you’re not going to see yourself tripping and falling you’re not going to see yourself stuttering and stammering or dropping all your note cards or anything those are the things the cat strophic thoughts that you have that are likely not going to happen I want you to imagine it going perfectly rehearse it in your mind until you can do it literally with your eyes closed then when you go out to do it, it’s going to be that much easier because you’ve already done it 20 times in your own head and been successful at it so just do it like you practiced keep a rational outlook a lot of times social anxiety is caused by catastrophic self-statements things that you tell yourself people are judging me they’re laughing at me people are gonna think I’m an idiot um whatever your thoughts are so keep a list what those thoughts are and write counter thoughts to the people are judging me well they may be but do you care so if people are judging me that’s on them if people are laughing at me well at least they’re laughing but in reality what other reasons could the people have had to be laughing what are three other explanations for why they might be laughing besides laughing at you so look at your catastrophic self statements like I told you before imagining that you’re going to go out on stage and you’re gonna walk out there you’re gonna trip over your own two feet and you’re gonna wipe out on the way to do this presentation and humiliate yourself well that’s pretty darn catastrophic so think about exactly what is going to happen what are you going to do and how rational how realistic how likely is it that all these things are gonna happen and you know if that is one of your fears watch the movie Miss Congeniality because she is going at as Miss America I think is who she’s trying to portray and she falls flat on her face and she just picks herself right back up and walks on and nobody thinks anything of it after that it’s not like a week later or 20 minutes later in the movie, people are still talking about her falling she did she over it and you know move past it when you make a big deal out of it when people start to think about it a little bit more practice breathing when we get stressed we tend to breathe more shallowly and more rapidly when you breathe slowly and deeply you’re triggering the relaxation response in your body it doesn’t mean you have to take those big giant deep breaths as you do at the doctor’s office or anything that’s overly dramas is it but focus on your breathing if you start feeling yourself getting an anxious breath in for a count of three hold for a count of three and breathe out for a count of three and you know again it doesn’t have to be noticeable that you’re doing it you can do it in a meeting and nobody will even know but if you can slow your breathing you’ll slow your heart rate and you’ll trigger the relaxation response to help you deal with your anxiety sometimes we’ve just got to suck it up and go through things that create a lot of anxiety for us I remember one place I worked once a month we would have to get up in front of all of our colleagues and all of the executives and give a report on how our department was doing I hated doing that I hated being up there giving this report not because of the content of the report I just hated being up there in front of everybody and it was no big deal but it would cause me a little bit of anxiety if I had to do it so distress tolerance techniques were always useful because it was an eight-hour meeting so it might be four hours of me sitting there anticipating going up and having to give my speech so what would I do during the four hours while I was waiting I would do activities I would listen to what other people were saying I would make notes I would sometimes go through clinical charts and sign off on documentation and not pay attention but you know I digress contributing so if you’re at a party you can’t do it in a meeting but if you’re at a party for example and used feeling anxious get up maybe help the hostess out or the host out in the kitchen go around pick up glasses pick up trash throw things away do something to be helpful to contribute so you’re not feeling like you’re having to sit there and be on the spot comparisons can help too you can just kind of blend back into the wall a little bit and compare how you’re doing to how other people are doing or how you’re doing to how you’ve done in the past because you’re probably doing better now than you did then trigger opposite emotions is another way of dealing with distress if you’re feeling anxious you know bring out the opposite tell a joke find something funny find a video or something that makes you laugh and share it with other people because that’ll make you start laughing and feel more relaxed and release endorphins you can also just push away some of those thoughts that keep coming into your head I’m gonna make a mistake I’m gonna say something stupid they’re judging me it’s gonna be awful just push those thoughts away and Do you know what no I can do this and I’m going to push through the final the thing you can do in this particular set of distress tolerance techniques is sensations focus on sensations some people have a rubber band that they snap on their wrists to kind of help them focus on something else some people wring their hands I don’t recommend that because you know that just kind of shows you’re anxious and keeps your anxiety going listening to loud music you can go into the bathroom and splash cold water on your face unless it’ll make your mascara run there are a variety of things you can do that you can also find go and find some coffee because coffee is hot and that focus on how the coffee feels in your hands when you’re holding the cup focus on the taste of the coffee that hot sensation will kind of distract you from other things that are going on so focus and we’re going to talk about one thing at a time in a minute another set of distress tolerance techniques that can help our imagery and we’ve talked about rehearsing it before you go to the party imagine what you’re going to do before you go to the mixer or your in-laws or wherever it is you’re going that’s potentially going to cause you anxiety imagine going through it and doing it successfully to find meaning in what you’re doing so sometimes you know maybe you’re going to your spouse’s holiday Christmas party and it’s like the last thing you want to do because you don’t like big crowds like that you don’t know anybody but find meaning in it why are you doing this is because it’s helpful to your spouse you’re providing support and you know maybe you can find somebody that has similar hobbies or something before you go if you’re going to your spouse’s Christmas party for example try to find out who might be at the party that shares similar hobbies and stuff I know my husband works with people who do organic gardening and who are kind of health-conscious I won’t say fanatical but health-conscious like I am and we like to use a lot of lentils and beans and cook in health healthy ways so identifying those people I can’t talk about what they do at work because that’s just way out of my wheelhouse and over my head but I can talk with them about these other things so I’m not just standing there looking around and feeling like I’m out of place so find meaning in what you’re doing and try to find connections and commonalities with other people before you go and then you know I can have I would have my spouse introduce me to one of the people that does organic gardening for example and then we could start talking once you get more comfortable then you’re going to feel more at ease walking up to people and going hey you know and striking up a conversation and finding out commonalities if you’ve got children a lot of other people have children so you can talk about your kids or if you’ve got pets you can talk about your pets your dog’s people love their dog’s prayer can help sometimes you just got to take a breath and say a prayer before you walk into that situation to kind of get you through and get you going practice relaxation if you’re feeling stressed just again don’t have to get out of your chair you don’t have to go anywhere but practice tensing and releasing your muscles clenching your fists and releasing your hands and feel the difference between tense and released and then tense kind of your whole upper body and you don’t have to do it like this because that’s obvious but you can kind of tense up a little bit and relax and feel the difference between stressed and relaxed and then when you do it one more time you tense and when you relaxed you feel all the stress just draining out of your body out of your fingertips so that’s a kind of guided relaxation to help you when you’re kind of on the spot one thing at a time when you’re in a the social situation there is a lot of input there is a lot of stimulus going around a lot of people focus on one thing at a time if you start getting overwhelmed if you’re at a party maybe you can go over and get something to eat and focus on talking to one person at a time or focusing on what you’re eating or you know find something that you can focus on so you’re not trying to keep up with everything that’s going on takes a mental vacation or a physical vacation sometimes you just got to excuse yourself and go to the bathroom and hide out for five minutes and that’s okay you know sometimes you need to go somewhere where you know nobody’s watching and you can take those good deep breaths and go you know I got this it’s gonna be okay I’m doing fine give yourself a pep talk look realistically over how the night’s gone and the majority of it has gone okay yeah they’re probably going to be some hiccups and Pho paws here and there and if there are that’s okay it happens to everybody nobody is perfect at their social interactions all the time and that’s okay but look over it realistically to realize that tonight is going okay it may not be going the way you had hoped it would but it’s going okay there’s nothing catastrophic ly wrong and remember that we are a lot more important in our minds than we are in anybody else’s mind so when we make a the mistake we will remember it for six months but other people probably forget it’s about sixty minutes later it’s just you know even if it’s something like you walked out of the bathroom and you had your dress tucked in the back your panties did that before trusting me not something I want to repeat but I would bet if I asked any of my staff now yes I did it at work about that incident they’d look at me and go no I don’t remember that I remember it because it was mortifying but nobody else cared they were passed it by the next day nobody thought anything about it so remember that a lot of stuff that seems huge and glaring to you is only because it happened to you and other people are so involved in their own life they probably didn’t notice or won’t remember that fear is an acronym standing for false evidence appearing real so always examine the evidence if something happens and you think it is the absolute worst thing in the world and you’re just gonna die how likely is it that that’s true is it the worst the thing in the world is people judging you so look at the evidence how do you know this is going on for certain and what are other explanations for what might be going on mentally rehearsing those stressful social situations get ready for it the job interview the first date and for some people even going to the doctor can be a stressful social situation because they get kind of a white coat syndrome where they don’t they’re afraid to speak up to their doctor, I found that if there is a certain set of things that you need to say like if you’re going in to talk to your boss or you’re going in to talk to your doctor sometimes it’s helpful to write down a list of the points that you want to cover with them or the symptoms that you’re having so you can go over it and make sure you get everything said and you don’t end up kind of getting shut down when I used to go have supervision with my boss you know I only got supervision for one hour once a week and that was if I was lucky so I would go in with a whole laundry list of things and it could be the stuff that I was upset about or having difficulty with and I could have a laundry list and just go through it and mark it off so I would make sure that I got everything said and I covered and we were on the same page by the end of the the meeting finally practice mindfulness and focus on your surroundings to know how you feel if you start feeling anxious a step back and ask yourself why am I anxious what do I need right now to feel calmer try to do this periodically so you don’t wait until your anxiety is off-the-charts focus on your surroundings look around to find places and little niches that you might feel comfortable maybe there’s somebody else sitting over in the corner and you can go sit down with them and chat maybe there’s an empty seat somewhere that you can just go sit down and take a breath or go out on if it’s a patio or a party maybe you can go out on the patio for a few minutes oftentimes there’s somebody sitting out on the patio trying to get a little peace so you can find a situation that’s less anxiety-provoking two little bonus things I’m going to tell you with social anxiety a lot of times people are afraid that they’re going to offend someone and these days it is so easy to offend people so what I tell my clients and my kids and what I try to remember myself is before I speak or when I’m talking to people if what I’m saying is true helpful important necessary and kind then you know there’s probably a good chance I won’t offend them look on your social media look at the comments people leave on other people’s posts and stuff and see if they meet these criteria true helpful important necessary and kind 90% of the time the answer is no well I won’t say that much about 50% of the time the the answer is no there are a lot of times people will just say nasty stuff that didn’t need to be said and that can be offensive but if you practice and focus on making sure what you say is true helpful important necessary and kind and if you’re following me that spells out think then the chances that you’re going to offend somebody are greatly reduced if the person still gets offended it’s probably more about them because you aren’t trying to offend them you weren’t trying to be hurtful you are trying to be helpful and kind therefore it may be more about their stuff whether they have an issue with you or they have an issue with something else that’s going on and you just happen to be kind of in the way it’s more about them you can’t control how they react to things it’s their responsibility if you’re being nice and they take it the wrong way and they get offended that’s their perception and they need to work on that the other bonus that I’ll tell you to take away is something I got from dr. Seuss and I love something he says about the judgment of those whose minds don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind so the people who matter in your life they’re going to be people judge you all the time that’s just the way humans are but those who mind what you do those who get offended those who judge you all the time they don’t matter the people who matter to you don’t mind if you make a mistake don’t mind if you’re not perfect they probably embrace all of your imperfections so before you approach a social situation remember not everybody’s gonna like you that’s just it’s not possible to have everybody like you so remember the wise words of dr. 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8 Signs You Might Have Social Anxiety

  Hey Psych2Goers And welcome back to another Psych2Go video: Do you find it hard to socialize with other people? Do you feel overwhelmed at the thought of going to a social event? It can be very easy to confuse social anxiety and shyness since they share many of the same characteristics While shyness is a personality. Trait social anxiety is a mental illness.   Before we begin, we’d like to mention that this video is created for educational purposes.   Only and is not intended to substitute a professional diagnosis With that being said, here are eight signs.   You might have social anxiety.   1, You’re, always self-conscious.   One aspect of social anxiety is the extreme fear of being judged According to Kocovski and Endler.   If you have social anxiety, You’ll constantly worry about the way you look or act and what others think of you.   Your greatest fear is of embarrassing yourself in front of others.   A shy person, on the other hand, will only worry about being judged in certain situations like in public speaking or when meeting someone new 2.   Your anxiety feels out of hand. There are times when it’s normal, to feel shy or nervous around other people.   For example, when you move to a new school or have to perform in front of an audience, But social anxiety is irrational and unwarranted.   You may feel distressed about things as simple as making eye contact with someone using public transportation or eating in front of other people.   The fear is always there.   The fear is always there 3.   It interferes with your performance.   Have you ever called in sick to work when your anxiety became too overwhelming, or have you kept quiet when you were having trouble in class Social anxiety can impact your performance in many ways with the constant fear of people’s judgment, You may even be afraid To do well to avoid drawing attention You don’t pitch ideas at meetings, raise your hand in class or join clubs because of how much anxiety it creates 4?   It affects your relationships While it’s hard to make friends.   When you’re shy, it can feel almost impossible when you have social anxiety For a shy person.   It’s usually about breaking the ice and going through the initial awkwardness of meeting each other. But having social anxiety can complicate your relationships, You feel tense and uneasy around people, no matter how close you are or how long you’ve known them.     5.   It doesn’t go away with familiarity.   It’s normal to feel shy at the beginning of a new relationship, But, as you get to know each other, the tension will start to subside This isn’t the case.   If you have social anxiety Instead, you always experience fear, distress, and embarrassment.   Whenever you’re around other people, Doesn’t matter, if it’s your parents, siblings, or best friend, you always feel uneasy and stressed unless you’re alone, 6, You overanalyze everything.   Have you ever said things to yourself like I took too long to reply and now she doesn’t like me, or He didn’t, say hello this morning, because he’s upset with me?   Social anxiety can make you obsess over your social interactions.   You may spend a lot of time and energy analyzing other people,’s, facial expressions, body, language, and tone of voice to see if they mean what they’re saying or not.   7. You avoid social situations.   Are you often absent or very late to social gatherings? It’s a serious matter if your social anxiety leads you to avoid social situations altogether, You decline, invitations refuse to speak in front of people, and would rather sit in the corner to avoid being noticed and mingle with anyone else.   It doesn’t matter if it’s a normal day at work or school, your birthday party, or even your wedding day And 8.   You have physical symptoms.   Do you feel nausea, dizziness, or chest palpitations when you’re in social situations, Just like most anxiety disorders, social anxiety is often accompanied by physical symptoms.   Some common ones are sweaty palms shortness of breath, lightheadedness, and trembling.   While these are also the same signs of someone having a panic attack, You’ll be able to tell the difference if you only show these symptoms when anticipating or being out in a social setting, Do you relate to any of these symptoms? Above, Let us know in the comments below, If you do, you, ‘re, definitely not alone.   Nor are you bad for feeling this way, The references and studies used in this video are added in the description below.   If you find this video helpful be sure to like subscribe and share this video with those who might benefit from it as well, Thanks for watching and we’ll see you in the next video Continue reading 8 Signs You Might Have Social Anxiety

Tips for self-care during stressful times

  Stress shows up differently for different people, each of us copes differently and it’s also important to recognize that everyone,’s, circumstances are unique. Some of you may be able to go home for spring break to visit loved ones, and some of you may not due to travel restrictions or limited resources.   During this time, you want na be mindful of what forms of self-care work for you.   Some forms of self-care that you may practice may be focused on mental well-being, physical well-being, or social well-being.   Examples of mental well-being and self-care include limiting your social media exposure.   You want to take time to unplug, Make sure to stay informed, but don’t overload on social media.   Other forms include focusing on what’s within your control and avoiding excessive worry.   Some tips for managing worry, include scheduling, and worry time, Write down your worries cross off what’s not within your control, and throw it away That’ll help you feel calmer, less overwhelmed, and more in control.   Another way to practice self-care is to focus on physical well-being.   Moving your body by engaging in physical activity.   You may want a go for a walk and get some fresh air When you do that. You want a focus on your surroundings, Use your five senses to be in the present moment That’ll help you feel more grounded and calm.   You may also want a check in with yourself and your breathing, Make sure you’re, taking deep, full breaths.   Other ways to focus on physical well-being include sleep, Develop a sleep routine, that’ll be relaxing and calming, For example, 30 minutes before bed do not use any electronics.   You may want a take a warm bath Write down five things.   You’re grateful for it.   Listen to a guided meditation relaxation practice Drink some tea, Whatever it may be, find something that is relaxing and calming That’ll.   Allow you to get better sleep.   Nutrition is important too.   You want na eat balanced meals, Make healthy food choices because that’ll boost your mood and make you feel more energized.   You also want a stay hydrated Social wellbeing is important as well. While you may want to isolate and socially withdraw during this time.   Given the circumstances, it is very important to stay connected, Find creative ways to stay connected to your loved ones.   For example, you may send them a note or a message expressing your gratitude.   Your appreciation Make a weekly phone call or FaceTime call to your loved ones.   You may also engage in random acts of kindness That also help to boost our mood and lifts our spirits.   During this time, I want a emphasize the importance of practicing kindness.   We want to be kind towards one another.   We want a check our assumptions and ways to do that are remaining curious and being compassionate towards others, What they may be going through and how we may be able to support them.   . As found on YouTube Alzheimer’s Dementia Brain Health ➫➬ ꆛシ➫ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it.

A Strengths Based Approach to Bipolar Disorder Treatment

  this episode was pre-recorded as part of a live continuing   education webinar on-demand, CEUs are still available for this presentation   through all CEUs register at all CEUs comm slash counselor toolbox I’d like to welcome everybody to today’s presentation on a strengths-based biopsychosocial   approach to recovery from bipolar disorder so we’re going to talk a little bit about   what bipolar is what causes it and how to mitigate it by helping people understand their   own bipolar because what triggers it for John may not trigger it for James help them identify   their warning signs because bipolar episodes just like depressive episodes and manic episodes   often don’t come from completely out of the blue if we look backward we can see where the   person was beginning to resume some unhealthy lifestyle habits that were making them   more vulnerable well look at the symptoms of depression and mania and real quickly   review bipolar one versus two and look at some co-occurring disorders and interventions another   thing I added to this presentation was a little a short piece on differential diagnosis because   I often see people who are diagnosed either only with bipolar when there’s also attention deficit   disorder present or they’re diagnosed with anxiety when it’s bipolar disorder so we’re going   to talk about how people might mistakenly diagnose one for the other and how to kind of try to ferret   that out a little bit one way is using the online assessment measures there’s another measure   we’re going to talk about in here too so we care because uncontrolled bipolar puts people at risk   for suicide addiction and addiction relapse you know even if somebody doesn’t have an addiction   when they are in a manic episode they can be more likely to engage in potentially self-injurious   behaviors, not for self-injury but just because they’re looking for even more of a   rush and when they’re in a depressive episode they can also be at risk for addictions because   they’re looking to feel better in some sort of the way so a lot of it we’re talking about well   with we’re talking about self-medication with mania we’re just talking about what they perceive   as something exciting and people are often in manic episodes engage in extreme risk-taking behavior   we don’t want our clients to go down any of these paths so we want to be aware of what might trigger   it and I don’t think I talk about it anywhere else in the presentation, it’s important to be   aware that for suicide when somebody is coming out of a depressive episode who somebody who’s   bipolar well or unipolar depression but when they’re coming out of the depressive episode   and they start having more energy is actually when they’re at greater risk of suicide than   when they’re at their absolute bottom not saying they’re safe at their absolute bottom but we don’t   want to get complacent when somebody starts feeling better and assume that they’re out   of the woods with poorly controlled bipolar disorder can leave people feeling hopeless and helpless   if they have bipolar one and they have at least a full-blown manic episode but maybe more they   may not mind that they may because it disrupts their life the depressive episodes tend to be   when patients usually present when they’ve got bipolar disorder so we want to look at what’s   going on with them and help them see how the bipolar disorder disrupts their life because   that can go a fair way to encouraging medication and treatment compliance well controlled bipolar   like well-controlled addiction helps a person feel happy optimistic motivated and energized the key   is helping them manage their vulnerabilities you now take care of their body so they have   enough energy to do things but also make sure that they get their medications right some of   the mood stabilizers can be flattened and make people feel more exhausted and it’s important   it’s vital that they openly communicate with their psychiatrist or physician about the medications if   they are if the side effects are so significant is impairing their quality of life which means   they’re likely to be medication non-compliance so we want to make sure that if they’re feeling too   flat that they talk it over with their medication provider bipolar disorder is a brain disorder you   know sometimes with like depression we can look for situational causes for anxiety we can look   for some situational causes we can look for some cognitive stuff we know in bipolar disorder something is going on in the brain that causes unusual shifts in mood energy activity levels   and the ability to carry out day-to-day tasks many very successful let me go back to that so just to   be clear and generalized anxiety panic disorder depression they also can have a brain organic   component to them but not always sometimes you can have those from a situational cause whereas in bipolar disorder we know that there’s something that’s not quite right with the balance of the   neurotransmitters for most people with bipolar okay so who has bipolar lots of people you’d be   surprised Mel Gibson demi Lovato Axl Rose, Britney Spears Jean-Claude Van Damme Marc Vonnegut and   Amy Winehouse to name just a few that I came across you know doing some internet research   Lee Lee Thompson young and Robin Williams were also, both are quite successful and revered in their   fields despite if you want to call it losing their battle with bipolar so why do I bring   that up because a lot of times people when they are given a diagnosis of bipolar disorder feel   very isolated feel very unique and I want them to realize that there are a lot of really successful   awesome people who have bipolar disorder you know it once it’s managed then people can   live a stereotypical life I work hard to avoid the word normal because what’s normal for   one person may not be for another but we want to look at they can have a very high-quality active   life bipolar disorder is caused by imbalances and neurochemicals especially dopamine serotonin and   norepinephrine the imbalances could be genetic or triggered by sex hormone changes or stress hormone   changes so they may be at you know steady state but when there’s a particular stressor some sort   of change or you know other thing and it depends on the person, it can throw those neurotransmitters   out of balance enough that it causes either a manic episode hypomanic episode or a depressive   episode more than one in 50 adults are classified as having bipolar disorder in any 12 months so I encourage people when they’re walking around the store when they’re walking around the grocery   store when they’re at church when they are sitting in a meeting at work with you know 50 other people   at least one person in that group has bipolar disorder and or will be diagnosed with it in   the year I want them to recognize how common it is I want them to start looking around and   thinking when they’re driving down the road on rush-hour traffic you know every 50th car they   pass somebody in those 50 cars probably had bipolar disorder to help them realize again   it’s not us weird diagnosis is pretty doggone common among patients seen in primary   care settings for depressive and/or anxiety symptoms twenty to thirty percent are estimated   to have bipolar disorder a lot of times primary care physicians misdiagnosed bipolar disorder as   either generalized anxiety or unipolar depression so it’s you know eighty percent of the time   seventy eighty percent of the time they’re right but the other twenty to thirty percent you’ve got   this person who is going to continue to struggle and get frustrated because the treatments   for generalized anxiety and depression are generally, SSRIs and SSRIs can trigger mania so it can make the mood lability worse bipolar the disorder is still under-recognized primarily   due to misdiagnosis as unipolar depression and that’s not just in primary care that’s also in   you know our field because if we see somebody who has unipolar depression you know they may not have   had a manic episode yet likely they have but they may not have had a manic episode yet or they may   not report it or if it’s a hypomanic episode they may not note that as something problematic and yes diagnosis of mental health conditions is out of the scope for a lot of GPS and a lot   of them will tell you that a lot of them will say If you’ve been diagnosed before I can help you   continue your medication but there are so many nuances to psychological diagnosis I want   you to get an evaluation from a psychiatrist in order to better make sure that we’re getting you   started on the right path because nothing is more frustrating to somebody who is struggling   and again generally they present in a depressive episode nobody is nothing is more troubling for   somebody who’s presenting and struggling then getting on medication and not feeling like it’s   working is one of the things they see and I’m jumping ahead of me is when somebody who has bipolar   disorder is started on an SSRI one effect could be to set off a manic episode another effect could be   to have rapid improvement and you know it takes four to six weeks for the SSRIs to get in there but they tend to have rapid improvement in days unfortunately that improvement   doesn’t last and then  they tend to go back into a depressive episode and they start to feel even   more defeated I want clients to understand us if they start talking about that pattern where   they’ve been on antidepressants and it works for a little while but then it doesn’t anymore   you know that may just be the wrong medication for them, their case is not hopeless so we know   the symptoms of depression apathy feeling down empty hopeless low energy decreased activity   sleep changes worrying difficulty concentrating forgetting things a lot of changes in eating habits   and feeling tired or slowed down how is this different than Low Energy I’ve had clients ask   me this before and what I try to the way I try to differentiate is energy is your desire to get up   and do things and feel like you can when people are feeling tired or slowed down it almost feels   like they’ve got a 50-pound rucksack on their back or their arms and legs feel like they’re just lead   and it is exhausting to even get up and walk across the room go to the kitchen go outside so   there’s a difference there’s energy to do things and then there’s just feeling like you’re filled   with cement mania people feel very up high or elated now after people come out of a depressive   episode even unipolar depression there’s a period of mild very very mild euphoria and we don’t want   to mistake that for hypomania or mania they’re just feeling good they’re like oh my gosh I see   the Sun again I see colors how awesome is this and then you know it kind of levels out but you don’t   have a crash it’s just kind of a good and then a-ok contentment people in a manic episode   have a lot of energy and increased activity levels they often feel jumpy or wired you know like they   can’t settle down they want to sometimes but they can’t they’re wide awake and they’re just looking   for something to do they have trouble sleeping may talk fast about a lot of different   things so they’re jumping around and when we talk about ADHD in a minute, we’re going to talk more   about these symptoms they may agitate irritably or touchy not everybody who’s manic is in a good   mood so they can be manic but agitated they feel like their thoughts are going fast and think they can do a lot of things at once people especially in a hypomanic episode   often find themselves taking on three four five six projects and not being able to complete them   you know when they come out of their hypomanic In the episode, they’re like oh my gosh what did I get   myself into but there’s no sense of time in a manic or hypomanic episode and they can especially   in a manic episode engage in risky and reckless behavior so mixed bipolar includes symptoms of   both manic and depressive symptoms at the same time which can be confusing to clients   they’re up they feel like they’re wired but they have no their flat they have apathy and just   that lack of pleasure and anything they may feel very sad empty and hopeless and energized bipolar   one now that big difference is bipolar one has at At least one full-blown manic episode if there hasn’t   been one full-blown manic episode then we’re going to look for bipolar 2 where you have hypomania and   major depressive disorder bipolar one can have either major depressive disorder or persistent   depressive disorder so the big difference is if there’s a manic episode there they’re number one   bipolar one patients experienced depressive symptoms more than three times as frequently   as manic or hypomanic symptoms so yeah when they hit a manic or hypomanic period it’s not a wonder   they feel pretty good and they don’t want it to go away if they experienced it three times more   often bipolar 2 patients experience depressive symptoms approximately hold your horses   39 that’s not a mistake 39 times more often than hypomanic symptoms so people with bipolar 2 can   have 39 depressives before a manic episode now unfortunately, the body is not that consistent   where we can go okay 38 39 you’re due for a manic episode but we do know that both types of bipolar   depression are experienced a lot more frequently than mania or hypomania so a common misdiagnosis is generalized anxiety disorder how do you differentiate because some people when they get   anxious get revved up and they feel like they’re wired and they can’t sleep the   goal-directed activity and generalized anxiety the disorder is often related to an anxiety theme   like if they think that there’s a problem with their finances or if they’re you know whatever   they’re worried about their activities and their thoughts generally race in that direction they’re   not all over the place they’re pretty directed in more or less and their mood is often irritable and   energetic versus elated now again just because somebody is irritable doesn’t mean it’s the anxiety   we want to look specifically at what is causing the sleep disruption and what are the themes of   the thoughts that the person is having the racing thoughts because if you know something’s going bad   at work you hear there’s going to be layoffs somebody can get anxious and go well if   I get laid off then I’m going to lose my job if If I lose my job then I’m not going to be able to   pay the house payment and I’m dead a debt a debt it and go in this rapid cycle of catastrophe and   get themselves all worked up and then not sleep then they start trying to figure out okay what I need to do to make sure I can pay the house payment what do I need to do to make   sure I can do this so anxiety disorder pretty focused ADHD approximately 60 to 70 percent of   people with bipolar disorder also have ADHD and 20% of people with ADHD have bipolar disorder   so you can draw your own Venn diagram if you want the take-home message is we don’t want to   assume that they’re mutually exclusive because if you’ve got somebody with bipolar disorder you can   get that controlled but they’ve still got the ADHD symptoms going on over here they’re going to feel   often feel frustrated now what’s the difference people with ADHD often have a hyper focus that’s   one of the hallmarks this may happen on a deadline pressure or when wrapped up in a compelling book   project or video game and so you can you can see where there’s a trigger for it hyper focus may   cause a decreased need for sleep and look like increased goal-directed activity   but is often short-lived in people with ADHD who feel exhausted when the hyper-focus fades so we   want to look for number one was there something that triggered this hyper-focus could be a video   game could be an awesome book or even a Netflix marathon whatever it is and once   that hyper-focus faded did they feel exhausted if so we’re probably looking more towards ADHD   than bipolar a manic episode is independent of external circumstances you know it’s not where   somebody gets a project and it sends them into In a manic episode, there’s a lot less control and   predictability in people with bipolar disorder and people with bipolar often want to go to sleep   or relax but describe the feeling as if they can’t wind down which can go on for a week or more so   we’re looking at duration we’re looking at what triggers it if they report let’s go back to here   sometimes having manic episodes that there was no trigger and they lasted a long time but they   also report manic goal-directed activity under deadline pressure or you know they can have all   these symptoms which means you’re looking at ADHD and mania or bipolar disorder together potentially   in ADHD people often interrupt or talk too much without noticing because they miss social cues   or because they lose focus on the threads of a conversation because their minds going six   ways till Sunday I had a friend of mine one time who had ADHD she was in graduate school with me   and she gave a presentation on it one time and we were talking and she was presenting and as she was   presenting somebody started flicking the lights on and off and all of us were looking around at each   other going this is annoying and then a little while later you know 30 seconds or a minute later   somebody turned on the radio not loud but low in the background and we’re all looking at   each other and then she started doing something else after that oh she turned on a fan so the fan   was oscillating and blowing in our faces and and finally, she’s like is this annoying and we were   like yeah that’s annoying it’s hard to concentrate and she said this is what life   is like for somebody with ADHD many times because we have difficulty filtering out what’s important   to pay attention to and what’s not so we’re paying attention to everything so that made it a lot more   understandable to me which was helpful later when my son was diagnosed with ADHD because you know   it helped me tailor his learning environment so people with ADHD kind of get lost and they’re paying attention so much that they can miss the social cues people experiencing manic   bipolar episodes are often very aware that they’re changing topics quickly and sometimes randomly but   they feel powerless to stop or understand they’re quickly moving thoughts so they’re just trying   to keep you in the loop in everything and they may notice that you’re getting uncomfortable or   irritated or impatient but they don’t feel like they can stop racing thoughts you know all these   kind of go together but kind of not people with ADHD report racing thoughts that they can grasp   and appreciate but can’t necessarily express or record quickly enough think about the time you   got excited about something and you just had all these ideas whenever we get a new grant   that comes in I’m in charge of or I used to be in charge of writing the grant so I get the grant and   I’d read through and I start identifying all the different things that we could do to you   know get this grant and it would be hard for me to keep my pencil going fast enough to keep up with   my ideas and you know I don’t have an and you know that was perfectly normal but I was excited   and so my mind was racing people with ADHD can do this a lot you know not just because of a grant   coming in people with mania the racing thoughts flash by like a flock of birds overtaking them   so fast that their color and type are impossible to discern I loved this explanation because it’s just like you have this whole massive bird coming in and then going out and you didn’t have a chance   to even notice what they were people with with mania often feels that way they don’t can’t grab   any of those thoughts and hook on to them they’re just in and out so helping people differentiate to make sure that if they’ve got anxiety and bipolar if they’ve got anxiety and ADHD and bipolar bless   their hearts that were attending to all of their presenting symptoms and issues so what do they do   to treat bipolar well we’re going to get down into that in a minute sorry got ahead of myself things   that can trigger a bipolar episode medications antidepressants as I said can propel a patient   into mania captopril which is an ACE inhibitor something that’s used for high blood pressure can   also trigger a bipolar episode corticosteroids certain immunosuppressant medications levodopa   which increases dopamine you may see patients with schizophrenia or Parkinson’s taking web   dopa and methylphenidate or dexmethylphenidate which are ADHD medications all of these different   categories of medications can potentially trigger a bipolar so do they trigger it in every single   person no so that makes it even more difficult but it is important to be aware if somebody has   bipolar when they start taking medications that they need to be conscious and cognizant of   their symptoms so they can you know identify early onset of a depressive or a manic episode   circadian rhythm desynchronization can trigger or look like bipolar disorder hyperthyroidism can   look like a manic episode that means too much thyroid you know a lot of times we talk about   hypothyroidism and depression hyperthyroidism gets people to revved in children mania can be   misdiagnosed or look like oppositional defiant disorder and substance use both intoxication and   withdrawal but more specifically intoxication can also, look like mania or depression depending on   whether they’re taking stimulants or depressants so it’s important to make sure that the person   when they’re being assessed is substance-free Do you know what medications they’re on they’ve   had a physical to rule out any hormone causes the thyroid is a hormone and looks at their circadian   rhythms if they happen to be visually impaired that can cause problems in circadian rhythm if   they are shift workers that can cause problems with circadian rhythm so let’s make sure we don’t   label something as bipolar and start treating as such before we’ve ruled out everything else bipolar distinguishing factors and let’s see let me see if I can get that open for me right   now well anyway spontaneous hypomania premorbid affective temperament particularly hyper thymic   or cyclothymic so before somebody had an episode that they presented with do they have a history   of remembering dysthymic is feeling blue low unhappy hyper thymic is more elated and   cyclothymic is rapidly switching Moodle ability increased mental or physical energy even during   depressions family you know you know we talked about the mixed episode if there’s a   family history of bipolar disorder or a good response to lithium for unipolar depression   or bipolar that’s a risk factor or a hallmark that you might be dealing with bipolar in this   client if they have treatment-emergent hypomania mania or mixed States so as soon as they start   medication treatment generally SSRIs they have an uncharacteristically rapid response followed   by a crash again and or they have more than two failures on antidepressants now we want to look at what that means because antidepressants work differently for different people, somebody can be   on and I’m going to use the trade names here just because I don’t have all of the generics memorized   I’m not promoting any particular trade name but people could be on Lexapro or Paxil and feel like   they can’t wake up people can be on Prozac and feel like they’ve got more energy some people are   on Zoloft and don’t feel any energy change some people feel lousy but with antidepressants, we want   to look at what failure means did it fail to improve the mood or were the side effects so bad   that the person had to switch if this if it was the side effects that are not classified   as a failure because the person wasn’t able to stay on it long enough for that antidepressant   to get in their system now I do want you to see the mood disorders questionnaire, haha and that’s in this article here but there are three all of these questions that you can   have people just complete at assessment and it helps you identify if they’ve had a manic   or hypomanic episode so have there ever been a period of time when you are not your usual   self and you felt so good or hyper that people thought you are not the normal self you were so   irritable that you shouted at people or started fights you felt much more self-confident than   usual you got less sleep than usual and found you didn’t miss it you were much more   interested in sex than usual spending money got you or your family in trouble you know you can   go through all the rest of the questions and they identify yes or no to each of these once they do   that if they did check yes to more than one of the above have they ever happened during the same period if yes then again we’re probably looking at one of the bipolar and finally how much of a   problem did any of these cause for you and if it’s a minor problem then we may want to look for other   things this does not diagnose bipolar but it is an excellent screening instrument to give you an idea   about whether you need to look in that direction have clients keep a life chart ideally for three   to six months where they chart their sleep their dietary habits their exercise their life stressors   hormones for women and any bipolar symptoms that they’re having now when I have clients chart this   much I create a really simple fill in the blank a chart like for sleep number of hours did you   feel rested yes or no dietary habits I have them keep on their mobile device for exercise did you   exercise yes or no if so how much for how long you know really simple things so they can complete the   chart in under five minutes otherwise, they’re not going to do it for the bipolar symptoms I   have check blocks you know did you feel depressed did you have difficulty sleeping yada-yada so   it’s easy it’s very very simple for them to fill out and it’s also simple for me to evaluate when   I go through it encourages people to understand their bipolar because everybody’s presentation   is going to be a little bit different have them identify you know their cognitive patterns and negative thinking patterns that contribute to their depression and if so how do they handle   those in the past when they felt depressed how did they change their thinking or what they do to   help themself be a little bit more optimistic and also looking cognitively what if they got going   for them are they intelligent are they creative are they you know build on those if somebody is   creative you know I’m not so I it’s wonderful to see creative people but for somebody who’s creating one of the greatest things they can do to work with their depression is art therapy you   know it’s very therapeutic for a lot of people so find their strengths and use those to help   them resolve their current presenting symptoms physically encourage them to get adequate sleep to avoid opiate and sedative medications alcohol and any sort of over-the-counter herbs including Jen   Singh Sant Sami 5htp without talking to their the doctor first encourages them to eat a good diet   they may already be doing some of this so how much they change at one time it is gonna vary between   the person and what they’re motivated to change remind them not to change too much at once let’s   just do one or two things right now and then you can work on two more things once you have those   under underway situationally have them do a coping skills inventory to figure out how they cope when things get stressful and have them identify triggers for their bipolar that what   types of situations make you feel depressed what types of situations have you noticed might seem   to trigger a manic episode some people when they get stressed about something there’s that   anxiety it can the stress of that and having the HPA axis activated can trigger a manic episode for   them so encourage them to you know in their chart they’re going to be keeping track of what might be   contributing to triggering and mitigating bipolar symptoms so if they’re getting good sleep and eating   a decent diet their life stressors are pretty low and they’re not having any symptoms well we   know what they can do interpersonally have them identify supportive friends to help them learn about   interpersonal behaviors that trigger them and ways to deal with those interpersonal behaviors so if   when somebody tends to be in a manic episode or even in a depressive episode if they tend to be   irritable think about having them look at what behaviors trigger their irritability trigger   their anger and figure out a plan to deal with it to minimize the impact that being on   one end of the spectrum or the other mood wise might have on their relationships angers normal   irritability is normal don’t get me wrong but when somebody is in a depressive episode or a manic   episode that irritability can be intensified tenfold and people may be taken aback by it   environmentally encourage clients to look around their environments and look at what they can do to   make their environment cheerful calm and safe you know what that looks like for that particular   person those are things that they can do because it’s you know when you felt calm and safe before   what was different or what was the same what helps you feel cheerful we just recently had the inside   of the house repainted because it was time but I’ve always felt more cheerful, especially during   the winter and when there’s less sunlight when I have like a light yellow color on the walls like   straw not bright yellow and that helps me feel a little bit more cheerful which is in contrast to   all the black that I put in there but whatever it works for me and that’s how I feel comfortable in   my environment to encourage clients especially you know when they’re feeling like they’re   heading toward a depressive or manic episode to eliminate negativity from social media and television media you know if it stresses them out to watch the news do they have to watch the news   you know what will happen if they go for a month without watching the news and in their real-life environment encourage them to try to eliminate as much negativity as possible and that can   be altering how they deal with interpersonal relationships that can be looking around and   finding things that stress them out and addressing there are a lot of different things but we   want to look at it as biopsychosocial II Romania we still want to build on strengths and encourage   them to become aware of any medications they’re taking and how those medications affect them this   can include stimulants thyroid medications, Sammy and 5htp encourage them to avoid stimulants when   possible and don’t combine them with caffeine if they put ephedra for example in combination   with caffeine that used to be a common combination in pre-workout supplements that can get somebody revved up and so we want to make sure that they’re aware of the effect   not only on their body but the likelihood that could also trigger a mood episode have them identify warning signs and interventions sometimes like I said   that for people with bipolar disorder the depression and/or manic episode may seem   like it comes out of the blue and sometimes it may but 99% of the time when I’ve traced it   back with clients they weren’t taking good care of themselves they were either taking   on too much at work or they weren’t getting enough sleep or they weren’t eating well or   you know there had been something that had changed from when they were doing well and   they felt good too when they started feeling like they were heading down towards an episode some patients may try to identify triggers for manic episodes to increase those we   want to encourage them not to do that because that’s like driving your car with the RPMs up   at five indefinitely that’s not good for your the car eventually something Bad’s gonna happen   so we don’t want them to read themselves up that much we need to help them find that happy medium   where they’re content there are three or four on a scale of 1 to 5 and they’re feeling good   for some clients when they start feeling depressed they notice thinking changes and have difficulty   concentrating this is a warning sign you know they may not feel completely depressed yet but they may   be waking up in the morning going yeah not so sure I want to get out of it they may have low energy   changes in sleeping or eating irritability sadness negativity resentment withdrawal and   environmentally they may notice that they’re in the area becomes more disorganized or they may just   not be caring as much about personal hygiene as these are all things that they can identify early on and   say huh you know it looks like maybe I need to take a little bit better care of myself and it’s   hard for clients it’s hard for a lot of us to listen to our body and go okay I wanted   to do XYZ but my body is telling me that maybe I need to rest for mania warning signs can include   racing thoughts heightened creativity that’s one that for people to be aware of especially   if you’re dealing with somebody who’s naturally creative they may thrive during this period of   heightened creativity and get upset when you start suggesting that they may need to temper   that to stabilize their mood they’re gonna have to cut the top off the highs and raise   the bottom on the lows physically they may have difficulty sleeping or sitting still maybe may   feel elated excited irritable or thrill-seeking you may have some anger outbursts frustration   with others and environmentally what I’ve seen with patients especially with full-blown mania, it varies on what they do sometimes they are cleaning like crazy and other times it looks like   a whirlwind absolutely hit the room but so it’s usually extreme so treatment compliance we want   to encourage clients to do a decisional balance back exercise and I broke it down so it’s shorter   what are the benefits of eliminating depressive episodes if the person was no longer depressed how   would they feel emotionally mentally physically and how would it impact their family and friends   a lot of times that this one’s easy to fill out the drawbacks to eliminating depression are this can   be harder to fill out because they’re like well I’ll see any drawbacks okay we can leave that   for now sometimes patients come to the awareness that if they’re no longer depressed they may not   get as much attention and people may expect more of them which is anxiety provoking but this   area usually doesn’t have a whole bunch of stuff in it and then we want to ask them what are the   benefits of eliminating the mania emotionally mentally physically and socially this one’s a   little harder not as hard as the drawbacks to eliminating depression a lot of times clients   can see the benefits of eliminating the manic episodes because they don’t have the periods I   mean they have the highs and those are awesome but they don’t have the periods where they have   the lows and they don’t feel like they can do as much they don’t have the loss of time they don’t   kind of come out of it and realize that they’re completely overwhelmed because when they were in   the manic episode they took on 17 things so there are a lot of things that clients may identify as   benefits to eliminating the mania but we also want to talk about the drawbacks to eliminating   it because like I said for some people that’s when they’re their most creative and if they’re   a writer or an artist or a musician this may be the time when they are feeling like they’re uber   selves so they don’t want to get rid of it and it’s terrifying to them to think that they might   not be able to tap into what we can talk about ways to tap into their creativity when they’re   not manic and you know there are techniques that they can use it to get that focus that they   so desire but it depends on the person exactly what you’re going to use if we don’t address   all of these concerns about eliminating their mania treatment compliance is going to be lower   because people will just they’ll miss it they’ll miss it a lot and they’ll want to feel that high again so general techniques in clot ask clients how do you deal with it up until now when   you felt depressed what have you done this helped you feel better even for 10 minutes or an hour or   half a day you know maybe it didn’t work the whole time but or it helped you feel instead of feeling   just devastated you felt sad you know it helps you feel a little bit less intensely depressed   build on that ask them what they’re willing to do some clients are gonna look at you and go no I’m   not gonna do that keep your journal no not gonna do that okay so what are you   willing to do I tell my clients a lot of times I’m gonna suggest things that you may not think fit   for you or work for you or you’re not going to do well I’d rather you tell me number one that you’re   not going to do it and what I’m more concerned about is what you’re gonna do instead if   you don’t want to keep the journal okay how are we going to be able to notice changes and find   connections between your eating your sleeping your stress levels and your mood episodes you know   help me let’s figure out a way that we can we can do this and they may come up with something you   know I state what it is that I want to do or accomplish and why it’s important and I   say is there another way we can accomplish this when I work with clients and recovery sometimes   they don’t want to go to 12-step meetings okay if you’re not going to go then what are you gonna   do instead because you need to have some social support you need to have something to do besides sitting alone in your apartment from the time you get off work until the time you go to work the next   day because that’s a dangerous period encourage clients emotionally to practice mindfulness   because it does prevent episodes from sneaking up if they start feeling run down or tired or off you   know sometimes I hear that word I just feel off okay that’s when you need to stop and check in   with yourself and go what’s going on how do I feel what do I need and mindfulness also encourages   behaviors that prevent vulnerabilities when people check in with themselves they may say you know   what I’m really tired today I need to rest and that’s a good thing because it keeps them from   becoming vulnerable and potentially triggering an episode of stress reduction encourages clients   to identify and eliminate or mitigate stressors so what stressors do you have and they can write   them down on the list they can a lot of times if I’m doing an individual I’ll have somebody write   down on our big whiteboard all of their stressors and then we go through on one by one and say okay   can this one be eliminated if so how and the the client will start making a plan for how they’re   going to start eliminating stressors if there’s a a stressor that can’t be eliminated maybe they don’t   get along with their in-laws and periodically the in-laws come to visit or whatever okay well   you can’t eliminate that so how are you going to mitigate that stressor before your in-laws   come what can you do or may it be less stressful if you go to their house instead of them coming   to yours so we talk about different things we talk about time management because in those manic and   hypomanic episodes people can take on too much and then they feel a little overwhelmed when they’re   steady-state and they feel overwhelmed if they’re in a depressive episode I do want to   point out and I think most of us know this person don’t usually cycle from a manic to a depressive   to a manic like that they can have a depressive episode and then be asymptomatic for anything for   months and then have another depressive episode or a manic episode so it’s important to recognize   that most people who are bipolar don’t rapidly cycle and there are periods of remission or symptomatology in between cognitive processing therapy can also help people mitigate stressors   when they start feeling overwhelmed encouraging them to identify what thoughts they’re having   that are contributing to them feeling stressed or overwhelmed and then looking for the facts   for and against that thought if they’re feeling like they’ve got too much to do what are the   facts for it what are the facts against it if they do have too much to do then they need to   figure out how to address it but this helps keep people from getting stuck in emotional reasoning   where every time they feel stressed or they feel depressed or they feel anxious they think there’s   something to be dysphoric about encourage people to identify their anger management triggers they   differ for everyone they need to develop a plan for de-escalation and begin addressing their anger   triggers to maintain control of their energy they need to identify if driving in heavy traffic   stresses you out and makes you irritable and angry well ok how can you address those triggers maybe   driving a different way or maybe putting on your favorite music loud in the car or whatever   it is that you can do to mitigate that anger anger takes a lot of energy everybody everybody’s energy   is precious but people with bipolar disorder stress and excess energy drain can potentially   trigger an episode so we want to help them conserve their energy so yeah they’re gonna   get angry about some stuff but help them identify what’s worth getting angry about and using their   anger energy for and how to deal with the rest of it so they have more energy to enjoy the life   we’ve been talking about the negatives but let’s look at the positive they need to infuse happiness   have them make a list of what makes them happy and do more of it or be around it more encourage them   to schedule a belly laugh every day and there are Reddit forums there are YouTube videos there are   places they can go to get a good old belly laugh but it helps release endorphins and release some   of the calming neurotransmitters that have them keep a good things silver lining or gratitude journal   and it doesn’t have to be prose you can have them identify at the end of the day three things three   good things that happen that day or three things they’re grateful for or when things go bad they   say I got demoted at my job today alright well what’s the silver lining to that you didn’t get   fired and maybe have less responsibility now I don’t know but there are different ways you can   approach it but encouraging people to be cognizant and try to embrace the dialectics there’s going to   be bad in life but help them focus on the good to reduce dysphoria mentally address cognitive errors   all Arnon thinking focusing on only the positive or negative using feelings as facts and focusing   only on a small piece when something happens maybe you turned in a group project and your boss sent   it back and said uh no try again some people will take it very personally and focus only on the fact   that the boss sent it back with feedback instead okay it wasn’t just me participating in this   project so you know all of us need to contribute to it again and you know yes it was given back to   us but we get a second opportunity so it’s looking at a bigger piece of the puzzle encourage clients   to develop their self-esteem and view failures as lessons applaud courage and creativity   and nurture their inner child I have an inner the child my inner child comes out a lot more than   some people would like to admit or really like to see but that’s okay you know on Saturday   morning it is not uncommon for me to be watching cartoons in the living room my kids are teenagers   I can’t say I’m watching it with them anymore I like Yogi Bear I’m sorry I’m weird that way but   you know sometimes at the end of a long week of being serious and everything I just kind of need   to regress for you know half an hour two hours no encourage people to nurture their inner child and   don’t be afraid to be silly don’t be afraid to laugh or do something goofy physically increase   clients to exercise class to increase exercise it increases serotonin levels reduces stress   helps balance hormones and neurochemicals and may combat some medication side effects exercise   is anything that moves the body gardening cleaning going to the gym of course walking the dog playing   soccer with the kid anything like that so what is it that they like to do or at least they’re   willing to do nutrition provides the building blocks for the neurochemicals so people need   to have quality proteins and a nutritionist A friend of mine suggested always try to have   three colors on your plate at every meal and use a salad plate that is smaller instead of a dinner   plate because it tricks your brain into thinking that you’re getting more food as Americans we tend   to eat way more than we need and try to avoid mindless or comfort eating when people   start comfort eating a lot of times they’re not being mindful they’re eating to deal with stress   instead of acknowledging the stress and dealing with it so yeah they’re infusing themselves with   carbohydrates and fats and getting the serotonin and dopamine flowing but when all that goes away   whatever was causing the stress is probably still there so they’re either gonna have to   stress eat again or deal with it so encouraging people to be mindful of their eating sleep   helps the body repair and rebalance and sleep deprivation is known to trigger both manic and   depressive episodes too much sleep or sleeping at the wrong times can also mess up circadian   rhythms so keeping naps to a minimum of 45 minutes one time a day, if the person has to take a nap, is   important so they don’t get into that deep sleep and preferably try to avoid naps for most of a 15-minute power nap where you’re closing your eyes and you don’t ever completely   drift off has been shown to increase focus in the afternoon but naps where you’re laying down   and getting under the covers tend to mess up circadian rhythms, if people are on medication   for their bipolar which they probably will be have them work with their doctor to adjust the   dosages and dosage times to fit their schedule so if they have a medication that makes them feel sleepy maybe they take it right before dinner so it’s worn off completely by the time   they get up in the morning and it’ll be up to the person to work with their doctor I had one client   who took Seroquel and she ended up having to take it at 2:00 in the afternoon for it to be   out of her system enough where she felt alert when she woke up at 6 o’clock the next morning   so it’s gonna differ for different clients again encourage them to discuss any negative medication   side effects with their doctor and not to expect a pill to do everything you know the pill can help   stabilize the moods but if you’re taking this pill but then you’re still you know pulling the rug out   from under it by not sleeping and using cocaine or or whatever it’s likely the pill is just not going   to be able to do it all interpersonally support groups are really helpful to chat rooms if the person   is either in a rural area working shift work can’t get to an appropriate support group not all   communities have support groups that are embracing of all different types of people so it’s important   to recognize that even though there may be a support group the person that you’re working with may not   feel comfortable with the people that are in that the particular group so chat rooms can be helpful in   the know family and friends and I say in the know these are people who have to understand or have to   know that the person has bipolar disorder and be aware of their warning signs trigger their   symptoms which helps so they can be supportive and facilitative environmental clients can   explore things that improve their environment different pictures a temperature can also be   a big thing if you’re too cold or too hot it can make people irritable certain essential oils can   help increase energy such as peppermint rosemary or lemon calming essential oils if somebody tends   to have some anxiety going on lavender chamomile valerian Valerians kind of they say woody some   people think it stinks to high heaven some people love it catnip is the same way yes stuff you use   for your cats you can get it in essential oil and it’s a sedative type essential oil   for humans bergamot it’s a pretty mild smell rose is helpful rose geranium is a little bit   less expensive and frankincense is all supposed to help with calming so he’s hypomanic having   difficulty winding down anxious whatever some of these may help memory triggering include ginger   cloves cinnamon orange and jasmine which works for one person is not necessarily going to work for   another I mean there are studies out there that show certain essential oils have effectiveness at   anxiety reduction and depression improvement but it’s going to be up to that person and I   found that when a person smells something if it smells noxious to them then it’s probably not   something that they need if they smell valerian and they’re like oh my gosh that stinks okay   that’s not triggering what their brain needs their the brain knows what it needs I do the same thing with   my rescue animals you know I let them take a a good whiff of it and if they like it they’ll   stick around and they’ll sniff it some more if it’s not what they need then they’ll go somewhere   else I tried fur for our donkeys when we first got them into rescue I tried lavender because I   thought you know that’ll help them calm down they hated it they liked valerian so I learned that for   them they preferred that particular essential oil for whatever way it works in the   brain and encourage clients to visit a store that sells essential oils because they have testers and   they can sniff them to see which ones work for they and essential oils also smell different   from different manufacturers so it’s important again for them to figure out places that they can   get their essential oils and try to stick with the same company once they find one that works organization can help another thing that’s important for people with Bipolar is to   manage impulse items when they go into a manic or hypomanic episode especially and they’re prone to   engage in risk-taking behavior or less restrained behavior car keys need to be somewhere where maybe   they can’t access them if they’re known to go out and drag race or you know drive 100 miles an hour   just to see how it feels credit cards that’s a big one credit cards need to be somewhere some   of my clients will freeze their credit cards in a block of ice so they can’t get to them and they   can’t see the numbers to read them and put them in on the phone this can help prevent unrestrained spending, especially at 2:00 a.m. or something when the infomercials are on porn   sites if the client happens to have an attraction to porn sites having those blocked because it’s   really easy to get sucked into that same thing with video games and alcohol and other drugs   alcohol a lot of people have in their house so if this is a dangerous impulse item for somebody make sure they have it locked up somewhere so if they do and have a hypomanic or manic episode they   can’t drink the same thing with certain medications especially the benzos and the opiates if you can   keep it locked up somewhere all the better and during the day keep it light and bright try not   to be in an office where it’s dark some people can’t help it I mean if you’re a nurse   and you’re working in the neonatal intensive care unit it’s going to be dark most of the   time and there’s nothing you can do about that but if you can help it keep the lights on if you   don’t like fluorescent lights get lots of stand up lights that you can put around to keep it bright   so your brain knows that it’s time to be awake co-occurring disorders depression can co-occur   with bipolar I mean you can have part of bipolar is depression so when somebody is in depressive episode suicidality high-risk and addictive behaviors and self-medication we want   to shout for it just like we would for unipolar depression with mania we want to help the person   become aware and look out for explosive anger which can get them into legal trouble relationship   issues etc heightened libido which also can get them into legal trouble and relationship issues   etc and any other risk-taking that they do because when they’re in a manic episode is like they’re   this is a bad idea filter is completely turned off or it’s switched on the other way and as the let’s   try this filter so helping them understand that when they’re in that manic state it’s important to   have safeguards so that when they come out of it they haven’t done something that they’re going to end   up regretting or have to undo so bipolar is caused by neurochemical imbalances especially among   serotonin dopamine and norepinephrine the symptoms and presentation varies widely depending on the   person it’s more important to address each symptom then to address bipolar as a whole you know we   want to look at what symptoms this person presenting with and how can we help them manage   those the medication provider is going to be managing kind of the bipolar as a whole and trying   to stabilize the mood but we want to help them start addressing their symptoms so they   can feel as healthy happy healthy and productive as possible help them address each symptom identify   warning signs and eliminate or mitigate triggers and vulnerabilities remember that   treatment compliance is a huge issue because the mood stabilizers tend to flatten those highs and people   miss the most dangerous times for suicidal ideation and people with bipolar disorder are   when they’re coming out of a depressive episode or and I didn’t mention this before or during a   mixed episode remember mixed they can be depressed and have high energy both at the same time ensure   people with bipolar disorder have a crisis plan and people who interact with them daily who are   aware of their warning signs and symptoms because sometimes they’re not being mindful and most of   us are guilty of not being mindful all the time sometimes these symptoms can creep up so if they   have people they interact with daily who are in the know and can say you know John   it seems like you’re starting to destabilize a little bit then John can take a look at it people   with co-occurring addictions also need to be aware that a bipolar episode can trigger an addiction   relapse and vice versa so they need to be aware and have an extra-special relapse addiction   relapse prevention plan for when their mood symptoms arise if you haven’t already signed up   please remember that addiction and mental health counseling and Social Work continuing education   credits are available for this presentation and are accepted in most US states Canadian provinces   Great Britain Australia and South Africa go to all CEUs com counselor toolbox and click on the link counselor toolbox CEU spreadsheet to easily locate the course based on this presentation okay are there any questions now remember we’re not having class tomorrow but we’re having class on   Thursday and that is just chock-full of stuff 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Pain Relief: From Physiology to Neurology | Sadhguru @ Harvard Medical School

  the neurological system in the body if we have a way of monitoring that killing the pain completely at certain moments when we want just by touching certain parts of the body well let me pose you a question inside there so we can perhaps work as individuals – now that I know I take away wakefulness and not consciousness right make to move towards consciousness and that’s an individual’s decision – may be trained in this particular way so is there some way that we can harness these insights like you have harness these this understanding and use it as anesthesiologist to take care of patients because if we can reduce it – or if we can adapt it I should say reduce it we can adapt it in that way you know that would be very very helpful because we would be using the powers in a way that would control half use the word the brain in a way that would be perhaps more more physiologic I’m not the expert in the subject but because you are asking me the question and say something but you are the expert in anesthesiology I in my simple understanding anesthesia as a process has come into being in this world is existing right now because there is pain pain when it happens to us is a bad thing nobody wants pain but at the same time if there was no pain most people would not even know how to preserve their own body it’s available there is no pain in how many ways they’ve cut it suppose there was no pain in your nose they would have cut it in various shapes it’s part of the fashion there’s no pain at all believe me they would have pulled out into steins and swing it on the street and go you have any doubt about that whatsoever so essentially because there is pain in the body and pain is a protective mechanism because most human beings still don’t have the necessary intelligence even to preserve themselves if there was no pain even if a bicycle comes people step back don’t think this is out of civilisation consequence of pain it was no pain even if a truck comes they would just walk yes they would so because of pain so pain is essentially a protective mechanism for us without it people wouldn’t know how to stay alive how to stay in one piece they would have cut themselves into pieces so but sometimes as what is called a surgery is in some way cutting people up for sure so you it has become a necessity to cut someone how to cut them with minimum amount of disturbance to the system that’s the whole effort so in this effort as you said essentially you’re disengaging different parts of the brain I don’t know if it’s an exact science or it’s generally getting disengaged whichever way is it getting effectively disengage that people go through surgeries without him knowing what happened when something major was done to them their ribs were opened up and rib cage was opened up heart was open up brain was opened up they don’t even know what happened very innocently they wake up after a day or so whatever their amount of time so this is anesthesia how could we use c11 dimension because when when you when we were speaking in the room when you said essentially if I’m wrong please correctly you are monitoring the physiological systems of heartbeat blood pressure and temperature and brainwaves whatever else the physiological factors if I don’t know if it’s even a possibility but if if you find a way to monitor the neurological system ignoring the physiological system completely see the concern maybe the moment you put somebody on the table and start opening the body the concern of a doctor or a surgeon may be that you don’t want him dead on the table so you’re watching his heart wait you’re watching his pulse and you’re watching is all the other parameters I understand and appreciate that concern but instead of okay let’s leave the physiological monitoring as it is but if we have a way I don’t know if there is a way in the medical science if we monitor the neurological system not just the brain the neurological system in the body if we have a way of monitoring that I think the entire art of anesthesia could raise to a different level at a very minimum interference it could happen the cause why I am saying disease there is something called as murmur in yoga and also in what is called as coloring in South India it’s a certain form of martial art Mirman is a way of creating killing the pain completely at certain moments when we want to just by touching certain parts of the body handling body in a certain way so essentially what we are doing is the neurological system we’re shutting it off and there is no pain at all we can go ahead and do what we have to do and only when we release it the pain will come back so using that as a basis I’m saying if medical science has a way of monitoring the neurological impulse as it’s happening and if there is some way to introduce introduced anesthetics in whatever form that you use I don’t all the cocktails that are used but if it is done properly probably I’m just guessing I’m not an expert on this probably with 2% or 3% of your medicine you could still have the same effect on the patient because how do you use any medicine on the body and how you use it on the neurological system I would say 1% of what you use on the muscle if you use it on it now it would produce equal effect but it’s interesting because I think what you’re saying has contact also with the work that we do in the recovery phase and there are people now looking very carefully at cardiac and brain interactions and and they do signal some of these changes and it it’s suggestive I mean that may be more more the body could be engaged in in the way we think and measure and that makes a lot of sense to me actually [Music] [Applause] [Music] you   As found on YouTube Alzheimer’s Dementia Brain Health ➫➬ ꆛシ➫ I was losing my memory, focus – and my mind! 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Sadhguru and Shekhar Kapur on Stress

  Shekhar Kapur: And one last question, because I know people will say, “Well, why didn’t you ask him about stress?” (Sadhguru Laughs) And I’ll say, “Well…” Because I don’t understand I cannot define stress. (Sadhguru Laughs) There’re a lot of the things that a lot of the questions people ask me, and very well know that since I’ve been interviewing you, they’ll say but I know that we get addicted to keywords, but is there a… is there, I mean, what is there a definition that we can assign to the idea of stress? Sadhguru: (Laughs) I must tell you this. When I first went to the United States a few years ago, wherever I went, everybody was talking about stress management. I really couldn’t understand this, because in my understanding we manage things which are precious to us, okay? (Laughs) Shekhar Kapur: All right. (Laughs) Okay. Sadhguru: Our business, our family Shekhar Kapur: Yeah. Sadhguru: …our money, our wealth, our children we manage all these things because these are all things precious to us. Why would anybody manage stress? I couldn’t get this.   (Both Laugh) When this word was thrown at me everywhere, “Stress management, stress management,” I said, “Why manage stress?” It took me a while to understand these people have concluded that stress is a part of their life. Stress is not a part of your life. Stress is just your inability to manage your system. Stress is not because of the nature of your work. The Prime Minister is complaining of stress. The chapparasi also complain of stress. In between, every other person saying his job is stressful and unemployed is stressful. (Claps) (Laughs) Shekhar Kapur: Yeah. Sadhguru: They don’t have anything to do (Laughs) – that also they’re stressful. So you’re suffering your job. If I get you fired, will you be joyful? Shekhar Kapur: No.   Sadhguru: No. So, stress is not about your job, isn’t it? It is just that you do not know how to manage your body, how to manage your mind, how to manage your emotions, your energy, and your chemistry, you do not know how to manage anything! You’re functioning by accident, so everything is stressful. you get into a car without a steering wheel or you get into a car, if you turn this way (Gestures), it goes in the opposite direction you will be stressed, isn’t it? Shekhar Kapur: Yeah. Sadhguru: So right now that’s the kind of machine you’re driving. Without understanding anything about it, just by chance, you’re going, blundering through life you will be stressed. So stress is not because of the nature of the activity that you’re performing, not because of life situations. Stress is simply because you do not know how to manage your system.   What is stressful for you, somebody is breezing through it. Isn’t it so? Shekhar Kapur: Correct. Sadhguru: stress is not situational. It is just an inability to manage the inner situation, not the outer situation. Sadhguru: Essentially the quality of our lives change and transform not because we change the content of our lives but only because we have changed the context of our life. Someone living a beautiful life does not mean he’s doing something different when he wakes up in the morning.     He also goes to the toilet. He also brushes his teeth. He also does the same things. But somehow his life is magical and beautiful because of the context. This could have happened to people when they fall in love with somebody. They were doing the same thing, suddenly they are in love with someone, and suddenly everything is different because the context of their life has changed.   But then once they fall out of it, again (Laughs) the context of their life changes and it becomes miserable. Now, changing the context is voluntary, which is just something that you can do willfully. Changing the content may not be possible as you will. Because to change the content of your life, you need permission from the situations in which you exist, isn’t it? Shekhar Kapur: Yeah. Sadhguru: But to change the context of life, you don’t need anybody’s permission. You… it is not at all situational. So on a certain day, three men were working in one place. another man came by and asked the first man, “What are you doing here?” This man looked up and said, “Can’t you see I’m cutting stone? Are you blind?” This man moved on to the next man and asked, “What are you doing here?” That man looked up and said, “Something… something to fill my belly.   I come here and do whatever they ask me to do. I just have to fill my belly, that’s all.” He went to the next man, the third man, and asked, “What are you doing here?” That man stood up in great joy and said, “I’m building a beautiful temple here!” All of them are doing the same thing, but their experience of what they’re doing is worlds apart. Every human being, every moment of his life could be doing whatever he is doing in any one of these three contexts and that’ll determine the quality of his life, not what he is doing. How simple an activity you’re doing or how complex an activity you’re doing doesn’t change the quality of your life. In what context are you doing, changes the quality of your life, isn’t it? Shekhar Kapur: Completely. As found on YouTube Alzheimer’s Dementia Brain Health ➫➬ ꆛシ➫ I was losing my memory, focus – and my mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it.