Best Practices for Anxiety Treatment | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

  this episode was pre-recorded as part of a live continuing   education webinar on-demand CEUs are still available for this presentation   AllCEUs.com/Anxiety-CEU I’d like to welcome everybody to today’s presentation on best practices for the   treatment of anxiety I am your host, Dr. Dawn Elise Snipes now not too long ago we did a presentation on strengths-based biopsychosocial   approaches to addressing anxiety while those are wonderful you know I thought maybe   we ought to look at you know what’s some of the current research so I went into PubMed which is   I don’t know it’s a playground for me it’s where you find a lot of journal articles and you   can sort I sorted by articles that were done and meta-analyses that were done within   the past five years so that gives us an idea about current research I mean there’s a lot   of stuff that is still the same like some of the medications that were known to work ten   years ago are still known to be you know good first-line treatments but there are also some   newcomers that we’ll talk about and there are also some changes that we’re going to talk about so we’re going to explore some common causes for anxiety symptoms to treat, we need to and of course, this does play into the biopsychosocial aspect we need to   understand kind of what causes it because anxiety that’s caused by for example somebody having a   racing heart may be different than anxiety that’s caused for somebody who has abandonment issues so   we’re gonna treat the two things differently so we want to look at some of the common causes we’re   gonna look at some common triggers for anxiety Do you know what are some of these common themes that   we see in practice I will ask you to share some of the themes that you see that underline   or underlie a lot of your client’s anxiety and identify current best practices for anxiety   management including counseling interventions medications physical interventions and supportive   treatments so we care because anxiety can be debilitating and a lot of our clients   have anxiety a lot of our clients have anxiety comorbid with depression and they’re looking at   us going how can I feel anxious and stressed out and like I can’t sit still and be depressed at the   same time you know when you’re depressed you’re supposed to want to sleep well a lot of times   people who have both issues want to sleep but they can’t so I want to help clients   understand that also sometimes anxiety when people are anxious for long enough the body   starts kind of holding on to the cortisol the body recognizes at a certain point this is a   losing battle I’m not going to put energy into this anymore so it starts withdrawing some of   its excitatory neurotransmitters so to speak and people will start to feel depressed the   brain has already said this is hopeless this is you’re helpless to change the situation so   then people start feeling hopeless and helpless which is sort of the definition if you will of   depression low-grade chronic stress and anxiety arose energy and people’s ability to concentrate   so if we’re going to help them become their uber selves we need to help them figure out how to   address anxiety not just generalized overwhelming debilitating anxiety but also panic social anxiety   and those minor anxiety triggers that come along that may not meet the threshold for diagnosis   anxiety is a major trigger for addiction relapse if you have a client who is self-medicated before   or had an addiction for some reason anxiety is a major trigger increased physical pain when anxiety   goes up people tend to tense their muscles when they tense their muscles they tend to feel more   pain I mean think about when you’re stressed you tend to have more pain like in your neck your   back and things that already hurt may hurt more why because serotonin which is one of our major   anti-anxiety neurotransmitters is also one of our major pain modulators so when serotonin levels are   too low because anxiety is high then our pain perception is going to be more acute and people   can have sleep problems if they’re stressed out your body thinks there’s a threat you’re not   going to be able to get into that deep restful sleep you may have you may sleep you may sleep   a lot but it’s probably not quality sleep which means your neurotransmitters may get out of whack   your hormones make it out of whack and your body is going to start perceiving yourself in a   persistent state of stress when you’re exhausted the body knows that we may be the weakest link   in the herd so it continues to secrete cortisol to keep you on alert a little bit so you   may again you may be resting kind of like when you have a new baby at home those first couple   of months that my children were home from the hospital I slept but I didn’t sleep well I mean   the slightest little noise and I was awake and I was looking around and you know I felt it I felt   exhausted and a lot of new parents do so triggers for anxiety abandonment and rejection and we’re   going to talk about ways we might want to deal with these things but some of the underlying   themes that I’ve seen in a lot of clients and when I do the research and a lot of what themes that   come out include low self-esteem if someone has low self-esteem they’re looking to be externally   validated oftentimes they’re looking for somebody else to tell them you’re lovable you’re okay so   that can lead to anxiety about not having people to tell them you’re okay which makes   their relationships tenuous and can make them dysfunctional irrational thoughts and cognitive   distortions may lead people to believe that if I’m not perfect for example I am not lovable so we’re   going to look at some irrational thoughts and cognitive distortions unhealthy social supports   and relationships when you’re in a relationship it takes two to tango and even if your client is   relatively mentally and physically healthy if they are in a dysfunctional relationship they can fear   abandonment and rejection if that other person is always saying if you don’t do X I’m going   to leave you or if that other person is always cheating on them or whatever so relationships   can trigger abandonment anxiety and ineffective interpersonal skills can lead to relationship   turmoil and social exile if our clients are in relationships even if they’re not completely   dysfunctional if our clients are not able to ask for what they need and set appropriate boundaries   and manage conflict effectively because conflict happens in every relationship then they may start   to argue more which may lead to fearing may lead to relationships ending in the past and them going   well every relationship I get into ends which means I must not be lovable so they start fearing   abandonment and rejection these are four areas that we can look at one more assessing clients   another issue is the unknown and loss of control a lot of times negative self-talk and cognitive   distortions can contribute to that if I don’t have control of everything then it’s all going to be a   disaster negative others when clients hang out or when people hang out with negative people it   kind of wears on you after a while you notice that people who tend to be more negative   pessimistic conspiracy-minded tend to hang out with people who are also negatively pessimistic and   conspiracy-minded so if you’re hanging out with somebody who tends to be anxious then the anxiety   can be palpable and it can kind of permeate physical complaints can lead people to be   anxious because they don’t know what’s causing it like I said earlier sometimes if your heart starts   to race if you don’t know what’s causing it you can start thinking I’m having a heart attack or   I’m gonna die when people have panic attacks for the example they truly think they’re having a heart   attack and it’s I’ve had them they are very very unpleasant experiences but when people   start having physical complaints and it can be you know they have a weird rash that they can’t get to   go away or whatever but when they don’t know what it is and they can’t control it they can’t   make it go away they start thinking about all the worst-case scenarios and going online and   getting on WebMD which usually gives you all the worst-case scenarios um so physical complaints   are important we need to normalize the fact that nobody’s pain-free all the time and you know the   fact that you may have an ache or a pain or a lump or a bump or you know a cough most likely you know   when we look at probability the probability of it being something significant is pretty small now   do you want to get it checked out probably but you know the probability that is anything to be   worried about is relatively small and a sense of powerlessness can trigger fear of the unknown   and loss of control for somebody who doesn’t feel like they have any agency in their life   if they have an external locus of control or if they felt victimized all of their life then   they may fear not being in control they may be holding on and saying okay this is the one area   of my life I can control when I grew up you know I grew up in a very chaotic environment I had no   control I was bounced around in the foster system yadda yadda yadda now that I’m an adult you know I   can control these things and I am going to hold on with white knuckles and if I can’t control   everything then that terrifies me to death and loss are other triggers for anxiety and it can   be people or pets and pets are important I don’t want to minimize pets because you know they are   little parts of a lot of our families so making sure we check that my daughter’s dog for example   is it’s getting old she’s getting older she’s 14 now I think and you know she’s in decent health   we took her to the vet and the vet said yeah she’s got a little heart murmur but that’s expected for   a 14-year-old dog and but when she goes out if she doesn’t come back when I call her I have this rush   of anxiety for a second oh my gosh I hope this wasn’t the day so anxious around losing people   and you know if she when she crosses the bridge she will and you know I’m okay with that I’m   I have a harder time dealing with my daughter’s emotional turmoil when that happens and because   she’s grown up with this dog so you know those are the types of things that we want to talk about   with our clients what things are weighing on you that you may not even be thinking about because I   know in the back of my mind there’s always that worry about one of our donkeys and her dog jobs   and promotions can trigger anxiety if people are afraid they’re gonna lose their job if they’re   always afraid that you know they’re gonna walk in and get a pink slip or get fired you know we want   to help them look at how realistic they are you doing what you need to do to achieve   and keep your job and sometimes it’s not easy to answer I mean the first thought that a lot of us   have is well you know if you’re doing the right thing so just do it but there are those bosses   out there and I’ve had some amazing bosses a lot of them and I’ve had two horrendous   bosses and those two bosses I could never I never felt like I was able to do anything right   and so going to those jobs there was always this anxiety about what I’m what am I going to get in   trouble for today so you want to talk with people about does your job cause anxiety what can you   do to moderate that anxiety the same thing with promotions people may get anxious about whether   they’re going to get promoted to safety and security you know when you lose safety and security you can   feel anxious so if there’s a break-in at the house next door or shooting down the road   or you start watching the news you can feel very unsafe and insecure quickly so we want to   help people figure out how safe and secure are you really and a lot of it goes back to really looking   at facts when people lose their dreams and hopes or fear that they’re going to lose their dreams   and hopes they can start to get anxious you know they have this dream that they’re going to be   a doctor or I just finished the presentation on helping high school students transition to college   and a lot of high school students for example start college with these wide eyes and hopes   to save the world and they want to be doctors and engineers and this and that and they get   into it and they realize that it’s a lot harder then they thought or they realize that you know   what I don’t like this but I’ve already committed to it so what do I do I want to help   people but I can’t I can’t cut it doing this you know for me I figured out in my second year that   I wasn’t going to medical school because I wasn’t going to pass calculus and that caused a lot of   anxiety it was like okay what am I gonna do now Do you know what career should I choose to help people figure out do they have dreams that have maybe kind of crashed and burned and you have to   find new ones you know okay that one we’ve got to accept it figure out that it’s not going to be and   what can you do now people may also have dreams about relationships, they get into relationships   and see themselves with this person forever and then this relationship ends and or starts to   get rocky and they’re like but that’s my dream what happens if that’s got to happen because   it’s my dream I don’t know how to function if that goes away we want to help people be able to   rewrite their narrative and then sickness spiders and other phobias kind of go in with death a lot   of times when people get sick they start getting anxious that oh my gosh what if this is terminal   oh my gosh what if this is you know incurable if I get bit by a spider it’s gonna kill me and   which is rare you know there are very few spiders that is that poisonous same thing with   snakes going over bridges I’ve shared with you all that is not one of my irrational fears you know I   am just terrified that you know something’s going to happen and I’m going to get pushed off the side   of the bridge which is completely irrational but we need to help people look at those and identify   the thoughts that they’re telling themself about those phobias and dealing with that anxiety failure   is another trigger for anxiety especially in this culture our culture American culture is   in large part puts a high premium on success and perfectionism so when people realize that   they’re not perfect they may start to get anxious because they feel like if I’m not perfect then I’m   a failure you know those cognitive distortions of all-or-nothing thinking and they start with that   negative self-talk you know you can’t do anything right so those are some of the issues that you   know we often see in counseling sessions so what do we do you know somebody comes in and is like   I can’t live this way doc anxiety depression and substance disorders as well as a range of physical   disorders are often comorbid so this is the first the thing we need to realize is that   we’re very rarely dealing with a very simple diagnosis you know when somebody comes in we need   to figure out you know if they come in and they’re presenting with depression all right let’s talk   about that and then we start realizing that there depression started to occur after a long period   of being anxious okay so we need to deal with that but we also need to help them   with their sense of hopelessness and helplessness we need to develop that sense of empowerment and   then substance disorders we know that substance use is often a way of self-medicating but we also   know that it monkeys with the neurochemicals in the brain and can contribute to anxiety and   depression the same thing to physical issues pain from physical disorders anxiety about having   physical disorders medications you’re taking for physical disorders can all contribute to anxiety   so we need to look at the person as a whole and go what are all the things that are contributing to   the anxiety and what are all the things that the anxiety is contributing to so we have started having this big list of stuff that needs to be addressed and then we can start figuring out okay   where we start so knowing that these things are comorbid helps researchers explore pathways   to mental disorders so they can start figuring out you know what little string can we pull to   unravel this blanket of anxiety so it doesn’t suffocate somebody and for us as clinicians it   provides us key opportunities to intervene in you know sometimes clients will come in and start talking about their anxiety and their physical issues you   know maybe their anxieties about you know heart palpitations and because that’s a common one we   may want to encourage them to go see the doctor to get that ruled out you know rule out anything that   has to do with hormone imbalances or you know heart conditions or anything else that might be   contributing to it which can help them address it and if they do have physical disorders let’s   go with hormone imbalances that are contributing to the heart palpitations then they can start to   treat that if they don’t start to treat that then no amount of talk therapy we do is going to get   them to the quality of life that they’re looking for because they’re still gonna feel those so   we want to make sure that we’re addressing them holistically anxiety disorders should be treated   with psychological therapy pharmacy therapy or a combination of both and what they found and this   is no surprise this is kind of old news is that counseling Plus pharmacotherapy tends to have the   best outcomes but separating the two have similar outcomes in many cases but that’s just   looking at and I hate to call it simple anxiety but we’re just looking at anxiety symptoms here   we’re not looking at the full quality of life and we want to make sure that we’re also including any   medical issues behavioral therapy is regarded as the psychotherapy with the highest level   of evidence, there are a variety of cognitive behavioral approaches ranging from acceptance   and commitment therapy to dialectical behavior therapy to CBT to debt you know any of those that   deal with the thoughts and the cognitions that fall in that realm and it is effective in the current conceptualization of the etiology of anxiety disorders includes an interaction of   psychosocial factors such as childhood adversity or stressful events and a genetic vulnerability   so the psychosocial factors and these are other things when we do our assessment we want to pay   attention to because our approach to treatment is going to be different for people for example   who have trauma-related brain changes maybe then for somebody who doesn’t so, we want to   look at childhood adversity and stressful events that it may have caused basically what I tell clients is like rewiring of the brain there are trauma-related brain changes in soldiers and   especially in children or in people who’ve been exposed to extreme trauma that is designed to   protect them but it also can cause complications kind of later on in dealing with anxiety coping   skills that were learned that are ineffective you know sometimes people grow up in a household or an   environment or a situation where they don’t learn effective coping skills so we need to kind of help   them unlearn those and learn new ones build on their strengths and trauma issues that may still   need to be dealt with such as domestic violence you know if they grew up a lot around a lot of   domestic violence they may think you know I’m out of that situation it’s over I don’t want to   think about it it’s not bothering me anymore or a parental absence and I put absence because it can   be death it can be a parent that just packed up and left it could be a child that got put up for   adoption whatever put the child in a position of feeling like they were rejected by a parent can   be very traumatic and bullying among other things but there are a lot of trauma issues that people   once they’re out of that situation often say you know I’m out of it it’s not a big deal I dealt   with it let’s move on and they don’t realize the full ramifications and how that’s contributing to   their current anxiety and their current self-talk and cognitions of current stressors if somebody has   a lot of current stressors that’s also going to impact whether they develop generalized anxiety   you know we’re kind of stacking the deck here and the current availability of social support if they   don’t have effective current social support then they’re gonna have difficulty bearing the weight   of everything on their shoulders so we want to look at all these psychosocial factors when   we do our assessment now going back to the trauma issues if you’ve taken the trauma courses at   all CEUs you know that some people are not ready to acknowledge that the trauma is still bothering   them or work on the trauma and that’s okay we can educate them that it might be an issue and   then let them choose how to address it but we want to bear in mind the fact that you   know this could be sort of an underlying force motivating some of the current cognitions and genetic vulnerability so you take any three people and you put them or 300 people and you   put them through roughly the same psychosocial situations they’re all probably going to react   a little bit differently based on their prior experiences but also because of their genetic   makeup there are certain permutations and they found four we’ll talk about later that make the   brain more or less responsive to stress and more or less responsive to serotonin which   is your calming chemical so brains that are less responsive to serotonin isn’t going to you know   send out as much or send out serotonin as easily so people can stay kind of tensed and wired that’s an oversimplified explanation but that’s all you need for right now so genetic   vulnerability impacts people’s susceptibility to the effects and development of dependence   on certain substances which can increase anxiety when people are detoxing from alcohol when they’re   detoxing from benzos when they’re detoxing from opiates they can feel high levels of anxiety when   they take opiates some people find that opiates have wonderful anti-anxiety properties not that   I am advocating for the use of opiates I’m just client experiences have shown that that   can be true so some people are going to be more susceptible to the anti-anxiety effects   of certain substances and some people are going to be Cerrone to become dependent on substances   where others may not and that part of that is genetic vulnerability and they estimate about   30% the predictability of the development of anxiety disorders is genetic and genetics   also impact which medications are effective if you have genetic makeup then SSRIs might   be helpful then atypical antipsychotics may be more effective   and SSRIs might not do anything which is why a lot of our clients get so frustrated because they know there’s no way to figure out exactly what I guess there is now that there’s genetic testing   out there but up until then it was harder to figure out which medications to start with and   most physicians matter of fact I don’t know of a single physician that starts by   saying well let’s do a genetic profile to see what med to start you out with most we’ll start with events as with an SSRI or some other anti-anxiety medication some sort of Benzo that’s been my experience so we may want to encourage clients to consider genetic   testing if they’re having difficulty finding a medication regime that works for them and they   are feeling like they have to have medication genetic vulnerability also affects what’s going   to make somebody more vulnerable now than all of you in class today you know thinking about sleep you   know sleep may not be a big deal for some of you I know people who can go days or weeks with four   or five hours of sleep and they feel fine it’s not a big deal, not me I need eight or nine hours   of sleep so genetically for whatever reason I am programmed to need a lot of sleep so when I don’t   get that much sleep I tend to be it tends to be harder for me to deal with life on life’s terms   and I know that that makes me more vulnerable to being irritable so genetic vulnerability affects   who can become addicted and affects what medications work best and affects what situations are going   to tend to make somebody more vulnerable to anxiety so our medications and I know the type   on here is small but we’re going to go through the first-line drugs are the SSRIs selective   serotonin reuptake inhibitors and SNRs is selective norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors   now the names are a little bit deceptive because selective norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors also   increase available serotonin but the mechanism of action is different the mechanism of action   for each SSRI is a little bit different as well which is why you can put somebody on Prozac and   they have an awful experience and you can put them on Zoloft and they have a much better experience like I said earlier a lot of the research pre five years ago had been done on medications and Zoloft paxil luvox lexapro celexa and their generics have all been found to be effective   at treating anxiety in certain people no one medication works for everybody in the last five   years effexor has come on the radar and it has been found effective according to the Hamilton rating scale for anxiety so that’s another one to consider if clients are not successful or getting   the treatment effect that they need for on some of the other medications obviously, none of us   probably are prescribers but we do need to educate clients about why the first drug or even the third   drug that the doc tries may not work so they don’t start feeling helpless and hopeless like   I said earlier there are at least four different genetic variations which are correlated with the   development of generalized anxiety disorder and different medications are more or less effective   depending on the genetic makeup of the person there’s a high mortality rate moving on to two   benzos the recommendation has switched to back off from the use of benzos now for   some doctors will prescribe an SSRI and for the first, four weeks while the SSRI is building up   in the system they will also prescribe a Benzo to be taken as needed to moderate the   anxiety and you know you could argue on either side of that, if somebody has a history of substance   use or substance dependence benzos are really a bad idea because they do have a high rate of   dependence but the other reasons that they are now cautioning against the use of benzodiazepines is   that there’s a higher mortality rate among benzo users compared with non-users there’s an increased   risk for dependence with use for more than six months and that’s a long time to be using Benzo and when we’re talking about dependence and six months we’re talking about somebody who uses it   like every four hours or every eight hours depending on your Benzo every single day, not   a PRN user if somebody’s using it at night to help them go to sleep or you know three or four   times a week when the anxiety gets high the risk of dependence is relatively low but a   lot of people with anxiety because if they find the right Benzo makes them feel so much better   they may not want to be off of it and for a lot of people when that benzo reaches its half-life and   starts getting out of the system even more their anxiety spikes you know they have rebound anxiety   which they want to medicate with more benzos that’s gonna be an issue for them to discuss   with their doctor there’s also an increased risk of dementia identified in long-term benzodiazepine   users again this is for the people who use you know throughout the day every day for six months   or relatively every day for six months or more and it doesn’t matter if it’s you know we’re   talking about somebody who’s 65 or somebody who’s 35 who’s been using Benzos for you know   six months a year two years the risk of later life dementia is greatly increased according   to the research benzodiazepines also don’t treat depression okay so if you’ve got somebody who has   concurrent anxiety and depression there’s a much higher suicide risk if they’re on benzodiazepines   so being aware and generally that suicide risk comes from overdosing on benzodiazepines but   not always other treatment options you know if the benzos aren’t something that people want to touch   you know they scare the living daylights out of I SSRIs and SNRIs don’t seem to be working   then tricyclic antidepressants can be tried on those your older generation antidepressant seroquel   is used a lot and there are some there’s some research that shows it can be effective   with anxiety like some of the antidepressants and depending on the person the benzos seroquel can   make people very very very sleepy so you know it may not be the side effects of the Seroquel   the weight gain and the fatigue and you know sleepiness may be an unacceptable side effect for   some clients and boosts perón is the third option boost Barone works more like an anti-depressive   serotonin reuptake inhibitor and that it takes you know four weeks or so to kind of build up in   the system studies have shown that there’s really no long-term benefit to taking it but after six months   to eighteen months of use it has been shown to be effective in talking with clients a lot of   clients report that boost bar when they take it doesn’t necessarily help them stop being anxious   like a benzodiazepine does but it helps them not go from zero to 200 in 2.3 seconds it kind of you   know keeps them from having this gush of a freak out reaction every time something goes wrong which   a lot of clients report helps because they feel more stable throughout the day after remission   medication should be continued for six to twelve months and during that last six months first six   months keep it as is last six months you know they say that tapering is best it’s best not   to stop somebody cold turkey on any of these but it’s important for people once they’re   in remission to not just suddenly go okay I feel better I don’t need any of this anymore they need   to work into it and make sure they’ve developed the skills and tools that they need to deal with some of the anxiety that is going to happen in life so physical signs and symptoms   of anxiety may include fatigue irritability muscle tension or muscle aches try laying feeling twitchy   being easily startled trouble sleeping nausea diarrhea irritable bowel syndrome headaches so the   first thing we want to do with clients when we’re talking to them well second thing first thing is   say get a physical let’s rule out physiological causes of this but we can also help clients   look at you know what might be causing these things that you can do to mitigate it what might   be contributing to your fatigue what might be contributing to your irritability and your muscle   tension or your muscle aches I mean let’s look at economics did you recently get a new bed or do you   need to get a new bed what about your desk chair I know you know I get more muscle tension and muscle   achy when I do a lot of mousing because I have deplorable posture being becoming aware of that   helps and then I’m like okay well I know it caused unfortunately, it’s unpleasant but it’s not a   big deal trembling or feeling twitchy you know that can be caused by low blood sugar that can   be caused anxiety that can also be caused by early onset Parkinson’s symptoms you know   there’s you know it can be worst case scenario or it can be something benign so we want   to have people figure out you know when you start trembling or feeling twitchy is there something   that it’s related to you know I know when my son gets excited he’s he just sits there   and you can see him almost shake because he’s so excited about something so we want to have people prevent misidentification we don’t want them to jump to that worst-case scenario we don’t   want them to go onto WebMD and go oh my gosh I’ve got cancer I’ve got this debilitating disease and   I’m going to die in six months probabilistic Lee speaking it’s not gonna happen yes get a doctor’s   opinion I’m certainly not going to tell them it’s all in your head I want them to get an   evaluation but I do want to in the meantime help them think about how likely is   this and other things for headaches and this is one another one of those that can be frustrating   as we get older our eyesight starts to go and you know there was a period there I did fine   and then after I hit 45 my eyesight just started to like steadily and kind of rapidly in my mind   decline so I have to get my eyeglass prescription changed every couple of years and that can cause   headaches so instead of starting to worry about oh my gosh I’ve got a headache all the time   maybe I’ve got a brain tumor you know I know that it’s probably my glasses or I’m grinding my   teeth so other biological interventions that have been evaluated there’s something called   the floatation rest system that reduced environmental stimulation therapy reduces sensory input into   the nervous system through the act of floating supine which is on your back in a pool of water   saturated with Epsom salt you know I’m looking at this going sounds good and you can’t   quite get the same experience in a bathtub because you’re not floating you’ve got pressure points and   you’re still hearing stuff clients can sort of simulate it with you know earplugs or whatever   but it’s if they can access this it’s been shown to be effective the float experience is   calibrated so that sensory signals from visual auditory olfactory gustatory thermal tactile or   tactile vestibular gravitational and preceptive channels are minimized which means you don’t see   here taste touch smell feel anything as is most movement and speech so you want people to lay just   like completely motionless and not talk which can be hard for some people with anxiety in the study   the study I looked at fifty participants reported significant reductions in stress muscle   tension pain depression and negative effects and it was accompanied by significant improvement in mood   characterized by increases in relaxation happiness and well-being I read the study I’m like where can   I sign up you know it sounds in looking at some of the research this was more effective for   addressing anxiety than something like a massage Tai Chi also produced significant reductions in   anxiety there was approximately a 20% treatment effect 25% treatment effect in patients with   anxiety and fibromyalgia who practiced twice a week for a year now you know we want to look at   the confounding things here is it the Tai Chi itself or is it learning to control the muscles   and becoming more in tune with your body and learning to control your breathing helps   people reduce their anxiety either way you know Tai Chi helps people do that and it was shown that   after a year after the first six months, there was a significant treatment effect but after a year   you know it kept growing and after a year it was about 25% so Tai Chi can be effective acupuncture at the HT 7 median Meridian can attenuate anxiety-like behavior induced by   withdrawal from chronic morphine treatment through the meditation of the GABA receptor system   what does that mean that means if you if the acupuncture is done in very certain places the anxiety behavior the GABA a receptor system GABA is your main calming relaxation   neurochemical that is triggered and causes your body to sort of flood that receptor system and   this research was done on people who were detoxing from morphine treatment but we can look at   generalizing the results and I would be interested to see further studies on it pain other things we   need to do to help people with anxiety when people are in chronic pain they often have anxiety that   oh my gosh this is getting worse or It’s never gonna get better or I just can’t take this pain   anymore or they may get anxious that they’re going to be rejected because they can’t do some of the   things they used to do because they’re in so much pain so there’s a lot of guilt and anxiety that   can kind of revolve around pain what can we do to help clients guided imagery is generally very   helpful if we can help them imagine you know if that pain in their shoulder imagine the pain is   like the color red flowing out of their arm or other focus mindfulness so you know when you   think about something you know when you get a shot if I don’t think about it it doesn’t hurt near as   much as if the nurse says okay now one two three and you know she’s counting down and I’m getting   prepared and I’m focused on it I had another nurse one time who she was just talking   to me and you know put the alcohol on my arm and just kept on talking and didn’t tell me she was   getting ready to give me a shot and before I knew it she had given me a shot and she was like okay   we’re done I’m like you didn’t give me a shot yet she said yes I did it’s like oh so not focusing   on it and next time you have an itch for example if you’ve ever been driving on the interstate and   you can reach on your foot I get those on the bottom of my foot sometimes and I’m like okay   I’m not going to pull over to each my foot if you focus on something besides the itch eventually, it   goes away I’m not saying the pain is gonna completely go away but the more people focus on it the more   it hurts physical therapy can help so encourage them to get a referral and encourage them to do a   self-evaluation if nothing else of ergonomics in their car at work where they watch TV and spend   most of their time at home and they’re sleeping so those are the four places that they spend most   of their time what do their ergonomics look like and that can help a lot of people mitigate   a lot of pain hormones are another thing that we need to look at imbalances of estrogen and   testosterone can contribute to anxiety symptoms heart palpitations fatigue irritability having   people get a physical we can’t as clinicians do anything about it but doctors can rapid heart   weight rate sweating palpitations are not uncommon in women in perimenopause or menopause so a lot   of women start feeling like they’re developing generalized anxiety and/or something’s going wrong   when they start reaching that mid-40s to mid-50s area and they start having some of these symptoms   again we’re not going to diagnose it but we do want them to recognize that it may not be anything   you know is catastrophic this is something that a a lot of women experience and help them figure out   how to deal with that supportive care biologically now you know this isn’t gonna treat anything but   we can help them minimize their vulnerabilities help them create a sleep routine so their brain   and body can rebalance this can help repair any adrenal issues that may be going on and improve   energy levels people with anxiety don’t sleep well so helping them figure out how to get some quality   sleep is important nutrition minimizing caffeine and other stimulants are going to be a big help   because those make people feel anxious and encourage them to work with a nutritionist to try to prevent   spikes and drops in blood sugar which can trigger the stress response when your blood sugar goes way   up or way down you can start getting kind of shaky and feel weird and that can cause people anxiety   because they might think oh my gosh I’m having a stroke or a heart attack or you know I don’t know   what these tremors are so it’s important that they don’t miss identify symptoms and encourage   them to drink enough water dehydration can lead to toxic Ardea which is increased heart rate   sunlight vitamin D deficiency is implicated in both depression and anxiety mood issues   vitamin D has been found in those main areas where serotonin receptors are found vitamin D receptors   are found so we know the serotonin and vitamin D have something going on sunlight prompts the skin   to tell the brain to produce neurotransmitters and set circadian rhythms which impact the release of   serotonin your calming neurochemical melatonin which is made from breaking down serotonin and helps you sleep and gaba so sunlight actually helps increase the release of GABA when it’s   time to start calming down and going to sleep exercise studies have shown that exercise can   have a relaxing effect and encourage clients to start slowly there’s not a whole lot of new research   on exercise and anxiety aromatherapy has been used a lot, especially in other countries in   the treatment of people with anxiety people with hospital anxiety people women who are giving birth   and they have some birth anxiety there they’ve been found to be effective in a lot of   those studies essential oils for anxiety include lavender rose Bedevere ylang ylang bergamot   chamomile frankincense and Clary sage encourage clients to just go to a health food store and   you know sniff some of these and see if it makes them feel happy and calm and content the aromatherapy   molecules enter the nasal membranes and they will start triggering neurochemical reactions   and so you don’t need to apply it you don’t need to ingest it all you need to do is so encourage   clients if they’re open to it to think about this because aromatherapy can be integrated into their bedroom for example with an atomizer or a Mr.   It can be incorporated in a lot of different places   again where they’re not applying it or ingesting it in any way all they’re doing is smelling it   they’ve used it in defusing aromatherapy in hospital emergency rooms and they found that it   reduces stress and irritability the people in emergency rooms and I’ve been to enough emergency   rooms over the years to know that people who are in ers typically are not in the   best mood so if it can help those people then it’s probably going to have some sort of an   effect so psychologically helping clients realize that their body thinks there’s a threat for some   reason that’s why it triggered the threat response system which is what they call anxiety so they   need to figure out why is there a threat you know sometimes it’s like the fire alarm going   off in my house it just means that the windows are open and there’s a strong breeze there is no fire   there is no problem there’s just a malfunction it’s a false alarm a lot of times clients get this threat reaction they get this stress reaction and it’s not a big deal right now so they   can start modifying what their brain responds to and again those basic fears that a lot of people   worry about failure rejection loss of control the unknown and death and loss distress tolerance is   one of those cognitive interventions that have taken center stage in anxiety research and   it isn’t about controlling your anxiety you know helping people recognize their anxiety acknowledge   it and say okay I’m anxious it is what it is how can I improve the next moment instead of   saying I’m anxious I shouldn’t be anxious I hate being anxious and slang with that anxiety let it   go just accept it is what it is have the client learn to start saying I am feeling anxious okay so distracted don’t react because I explain to them the whole notion of feelings comes in the crest and goes out   in about 20 minutes it’s like a wave so once they acknowledge their feeling if they can distract   themselves for twenty or thirty minutes you know they figured out there was no real threat if they can distract themselves for twenty or thirty minutes those emotions can go down and then   they can deal with it in their wise mind and encourage them to use distancing techniques instead of   saying I am anxious or I am terrified or whatever have them say I am having the thought that this   is the worst thing in the world I am having the thought that I cannot handle this because thoughts   come and go and that comes from acceptance and commitment therapy functional analysis makes it   possible to specify where and when with what frequency with what intensity and under what circumstances   the anxious response is triggered so it’s important that we help clients develop the   ability to do functional analyses on their own so when they start feeling anxious they can stop and   say okay where am I what’s going on how intense is it what are the circumstances and they start trying to figure out what causes this for them so they can identify any common themes from   their psychoeducation about cognitive distortions and techniques to prevent those circumstances or   mitigate them can be provided so if the client knows that they get anxious before they go into   a meeting with their boss and it’s usually a high the intensity of anxiety okay so we can educate them and help them identify what fears that may be related to techniques to slow their breathing and calm   their stress reaction and help them figure out times in the past when they’ve handled going in   and talking to their boss and it wasn’t the end of the world you know there’s lots of   different things we can do there for them there but the first key and it gives them a lot of   a huge sense of empowerment to start becoming detectives in their own life and going okay now   under what situations does this happen positive writing this was another cool study each   day for 30 days the experimental group and this was high school-aged youth in China but you know   the experimental group engaged in 20 minutes of writing about positive emotions they felt that   day so they’re writing about anything positive that make them happy that made them enthusiastic gave them hope whatever long-term expressive writing positive emotions so after 30 days it   appeared to help reduce test anxiety by helping them develop insight and use positive emotion   words so it got them out of the habit of using the destruction and doom words and encouraged them   to get in the habit of looking at the positive things and being more optimistic it’s a cool activity that clients can try it’s not gonna hurt anything if you have them journal each day   for 30 days mindfulness also came up in the research and was shown to be effective in   a meta-analysis of six articles about mindfulness based stress reduction four about mindfulness-based cognitive therapy and three about fear of negative appraisal and emotion regulation were   reviewed all of these showed that mindfulness was an effective strategy for the treatment of   mood and anxiety disorders and is an effective in therapy protocols with different structures   including virtual modalities so you know if you’re doing it via teleconference mindfulness can still   be helpful mindfulness helps people start learning how to observe what’s going on and become aware of   what’s going on more aware of those circumstances which will help them complete their functional   analysis but it also helps them become aware of vulnerabilities and head off things in the past   and if they’re taking better care of themselves that they’re living more mindfully then they may   not experience as many situations that trigger their anxiety mindfulness also encourages clients   to learn acceptance that radical acceptance of it is what it is I’m not gonna fight it I’m angry   right now I am anxious right now however I’m feeling right now is how I feel and that’s okay it’s hard for clients to get to that but once they get a hold of that and they truly believe it   and they can say all right it’s fine I’m not gonna feel this way forever I’m gonna do something else   until the feeling passes it helps and that’s where the labeling and letting go comes in mindfulness   can also help them identify trigger thoughts what thought were you having right before you   started feeling anxious if people are mindful or let’s start back when people are not mindful they   often notice or don’t notice that they’re getting anxious until they’re like super anxious   when people are mindful they become more aware of subtle cues address unhelpful thoughts when they   say or believe it’s a dire necessity for adults to be loved by significant others for almost   everything they do always running gonna happen why is it a necessity what we can encourage them   to do is concentrate on their self-respect on winning approval for practical purposes you   know for promotions or whatever but it’s not about me being lovable it’s about me getting a promotion   and making more money and focusing on loving rather than being loved because when we give   love we generally get love back with unhelpful thought number two people feel they aren’t able to stand   it if things are not the way they want them to be or are not in their control so encourage clients   to focus on the parts that are in their control and other things in life which are going well and   to which they’re committed number three misery is invariably externally caused and is forced   on us by outside people and events just by reading that makes me feel disempowered so encouraging   clients to focus on the fact that reactions such as misery or happiness are largely caused by the   view that people take of the conditions so if you see it as a tragedy and devastating then   it’s probably going to produce misery if you see it as an opportunity and a challenge it’s   probably going to produce a different emotional reaction if something is or may be dangerous or   fearsome people should be upset and endlessly upset about obsessing about it a lot of   people with anxiety get stuck on this you know if I feel like it’s fearsome I need to worry about   it getting on a plane for example if I fear that that’s dangerous that I need to think about it   and worry about it that’s not going to do any good so encourage clients to figure out how to   face it and render it harmless if possible and when that’s not possible accept the inevitable   so looking at airplanes you know facing it means researching to figure out how dangerous   is it really and realizing that it’s not that dangerous so that helps render it a little   bit harmless in their mind it proves to them that it’s not as dangerous as it could be and when   it’s not possible accepting the inevitable you know you got a fly so getting on there figuring   out how you’re gonna get through it hurricanes are the same way people especially in places   like Texas Louisiana Florida may obsess as soon as it starts coming to hurricane season or if a   hurricane is spotted out in the Atlantic somewhere they start checking the weather every hour or more   wondering what the path is going to be and you know what there’s you can’t change the path of the   hurricane so all you can do is board up your house evacuate if necessary and deal with the fallout child driving is just another example I’ll give you know my children are learning how to drive and   that’s kind of scary and fearsome you know what’s gonna happen when they’re out there you know you   see crashes all the time well render it harmless by making sure they’ve got good training on how   to drive make sure they’re good drivers and then accepting that some things are just not within   my control it’s easier to avoid than face life difficulties and responsibilities Well running   from fear is usually much harder in the long run so encourage clients to look back at times when they’ve avoided difficulties and responsibilities and the eventual outcome you know what happened   there people believe they should be thoroughly competent in achieving in all possible respects   or they will be isolated rejected and failures we need to encourage clients to accept themselves as   imperfect with human limitations and flaws and focus on what makes them loveable human being   what qualities like courage and intelligence and creativity and those things that can’t be taken   away what inherent qualities do they have that make them awesome people because something once   strongly affected people’s lives they should indefinitely fear it if you got lost you know   when little kids get lost it’s terrifying when you’re grown up if you get lost you turn on the   GPS and you figure out your way but some people still, you know freaked out about getting lost if   they got lost once so we want to help people look back at past episodes that may be contributing to   the current anxiety and compare the situation’s you know are you the same person or is this not   a big deal now that you’re older wiser stronger encourage them to learn from past experiences   but not be overly attached to or prejudiced by them yeah you could have maybe got lost in the   past and it was a horrible experience well you were six I can see where that would be terrifying   and a horrible experience but it doesn’t have to continue to impact you that way now when you’re   you know 26 getting lost you know could be an opportunity to try a new restaurant or something   people must have complete control over things well this doesn’t happen so encourage clients   to remember that the past and the future are uncontrollable we can’t change the past it is what   it is we can learn from it so it doesn’t repeat but we can’t change it and the future is largely   uncontrollable I mean there are a lot of things I can do to stay moving toward a rich and meaningful   life but life is going to throw me curveballs sometimes and there’s nothing I can do to plan for   or control that we can control our actions in the present to stay on our preferred path and general   develop general skills to deal with adversity should it arise so we want to help clients   develop those general problem-solving skills and the general support system so when they are thrown   a curveball you know it doesn’t knock them upside the head people have virtually no control over   their emotions and cannot help feeling disturbed by things well encourage them to think about the   fact that they have real control over destructive emotions if they choose to work at improving the   next moment and changing inaccurate thoughts then they’re not going to experience the destructive   emotions as intensely or as frequently when you feel an emotion you feel how you feel but again   you don’t have to wrestle with it fight it and nurture it you can say this is how I feel how   do I improve the next moment when it comes to cognitive distortions encourage them to find   alternatives when they start to personalize things if somebody laughs when you walk out of the room   then the and the person starts getting anxious thinking oh they were making fun of me I wonder   what they thought I wonder if I had something stuck to the back of my dress and they start   getting all panicked about it that doesn’t do any good encouraging them to think you know what   our three alternate explanations that hadn’t but had nothing to do with you for why they laughed   magnification of the worst thing you know taking something and saying if this happens then it’s   going to be a catastrophe and minimization going along with that a lot of times when people magnify   and see a catastrophe they minimize not only their strengths and resources but all the   other stuff that they’ve got going for them all they’re seeing is this catastrophe so encouraging   them to focus on the facts of what is actually happening and what is the high probability   event and encourage them to get information and look at the broader picture you know yes you   got into a car crash and your car is totaled and that is unfortunate you know it sucks but   you know that is not going to cause you to lose your job and then become homeless and penniless   and yadda-yadda it might cause your insurance to go up but okay so you don’t have a car but what   are the resources that you have who can Who do you work with that might be able to give you a   ride to work you know let’s look at the resources you have and work around so problem-solving helps   with magnification and also focusing on you know let’s be grateful for what didn’t happen you know   you could have been killed but you weren’t the car was totaled it’s replaceable all or nothing   thinking again have them think about what else could have been happening like Brittney suggested   finding the exceptions instead of saying she always does this look for exceptions when has   she not done that what else has she done instead of this selective abstraction and filtering is   when people look for the good the bad and the ugly a selective abstraction means you kind of   see what you expect to see so if you expect something to be devastating you see only the   devastating aspects of it which kind of goes with the magnification and minimization you filter out   the stuff a lot of times when people are in a bad mood or are anxious they see the negative because   that’s the state of mind they’re in so encouraging people to complete the picture alright there’s   all this bad stuff now what’s the good stuff you know to encourage them to look at the good the bad   and the ugly so they get a wide view of exactly what’s going on and encourage them to remember   that hindsight is twenty-twenty when people have something embarrassing happens or they get anxious   about something that happened they look back and they go I should have or I could have or Oh I   wish I wouldn’t have when you were in that situation you did what you did and you know   maybe you may have had a reason for it or you know you may have not had other options or it may have   just been a bonehead thing to do but okay so you made one mistake hindsight is 2020 that’s gonna   that mistake is gonna stand out just like the great big letter on the eye chart because you’re   thinking back and you’re looking at it and that’s all you see but encouraging clients to remember   that other people are too busy worrying about themselves to remember what they did jumping   to conclusions encourages clients to remember to get all the data if your significant other male   significant other comes home and is smelling like perfume don’t just jump to the conclusion that he   was cheating on you maybe he went to the mall to get a new tie and walked through the   perfume area and got spritzed or bought you some perfume or who knows maybe the person sitting next   to him at work sprayed her perfume on the desk and some of it filtered on there are all different   reasons that that might happen so encourage people to get all the data mind reading we can’t do it   you know you can’t read somebody’s mind you don’t know what they’re thinking so ask them what you think about this don’t assume anything and emotional reasoning encourages people to step back   from a situation and ask themselves am I feeling anxious about this because I’m feeling anxious and   I’m looking for reasons that it should be scary or am I feeling anxious about this because it’s   really scary for some reason there are facts support my anxiety a lot of times when we go into   new situations we may feel anxious because it’s a new situation but when we step back we say you   know what there’s nothing to be worried about here you know no big deal I got this and   move on so instead of rolling with it and trying to figure out okay I feel anxious so there must   be a reason not necessarily very likely a false alarm other psychological interventions relaxation   skills encourage people to learn how to relax not only physically but mentally diaphragmatic   breathing helps encourage them to breathe through their stomach and put their hand on their   belly and feel their belly expand and contract slows breathing down which triggers the rest and digestion reaction in the brain which is calming meditation can be helpful for some people some   people find trying to quiet their minds too frustrating because they’ve got too much   monkey mind going on that can be later or maybe never for some people we don’t want to increase   their anxiety with interventions cute progressive muscular relaxation also has a lot of research   support and remembers with cute progressive muscular relaxation we’re Sakura getting them   to attach a cue AK you word like relax or breathe with the relaxation response so they tense their   muscles and then relax their muscles and as they relax their muscles they say their “querk”-word   like relaxed and they work from head to toe or from toe to head tensing and relaxing different   muscle groups so they become more aware of what a tense muscle feels like versus a reactive relaxed   muscle there are great scripts that are online that people have already recorded that can walk   people walk clients through CPM are I highly encourage it because once they get used to it   then they can just think that cue they can think relax and as they exhale they will start to feel   their entire body kind of relaxing because it’s trained when it hears that just like when you hear   the word pop quiz when you were in high school you had a stress reaction well we want to use   it in reverse and train the body so that when it hears a cue word relaxes helps them develop   self-esteem because fear of failure and rejection a lot of times come from needing other people’s   approval to help them develop a rational idea of their real self develops compassion self-talk   instead of saying I’m an idiot or I’m stupid or I’ll never measure up to anything encourage them   to talk to themself like they would talk to their child or hopefully their best friend and encourage   them to spotlight strengths whenever they feel like they’ve got an imperfection to identify these   three strengths that they have so they’re you know balancing out the imperfections and the strengths of cognitive restructuring reframes challenges in terms of current strengths, not past weaknesses   so if you’re going to give a presentation in front of 60 people and you hate public speaking instead   of thinking about you know this is terrifying because the last time I went up in front of people   I forgot everything I was going to say and drop my note cards well that’s a past weakness what   is your current strength you’re prepared you know the material you Jabba-dada so encourages people   to look at all the strengths and resources they currently have them develop an attitude of   gratitude and optimism because like I said with that the positive writing exercise when people   are in a grateful optimistic frame of mind they tend to see more of the good stuff they see the   bad stuff too but they can also see more of the good stuff and some of the bad stuff they see   opportunistically instead of as a devastation acceptance and commitment therapy says that some of the reasons that we’re miserable are fear we get fused with our thoughts we think I   am terrified well if I am terrified then I can’t I mean if I am I can’t get rid of anything I am   if I’m having the thought that I’m terrified well I can get rid of a thought I can forget   things easily encourage people to evaluate their experience and empower them to look at things as   challenges and opportunities instead of hardships encourage them not to avoid their experiences so   things that are scary gradual exposure and finding exceptions like for me bridges you   know I love public speaking so that’s not a thing but when I go to a bridge you know when   I Drive to the bridge you know when I’m on the bridge somebody else is driving I get used to   doing that when I Drive over a bridge than when I Drive over one of those bridges that opens up   I hate those bridges um I know y’all are just like oh my gosh yeah it’s an irrational fear I realize   that but instead of going straight for the bridge that opens up going for the little bridges first   and then thinking back over times that I’ve gone over bridges and there’s been no problem you know there are exceptions nothing happened it wasn’t a big deal Sometimes I didn’t even notice it until   somebody pointed out hey look down there at that pretty water and I’m like oh we’re on a bridge so   encourage people to not avoid their experiences get used to them embrace them and learn that they   have the power to deal with them and stop reason giving for behavior you know use the challenging   questions if something is fearsome let’s look for at the evidence for and against it instead   of you know making excuses for social interventions improve their relationship with their self which   goes with self-esteem improvement people are going to feel less anxious about getting their needs and   wants to be met if they know what their needs and wants are so part of that is becoming mindful cuz a lot   of our clients don’t know what they need and want they just want to feel better but they don’t   know how they don’t know what they need to feel better so helping them identify their needs and   wants to encourage them to be their own best friend you know when they get a promotion take themselves   out to dinner pat themselves on the back whatever it is don’t rely on other people to do it because   other people it’s not that they don’t care but other people are often very involved in thinking   about their stuff and they may not notice encourage them to develop a method of internal   validation so they can feel like they are all that ‘no bag of chips and they realize why they   are lovable human beings and they accept the the fact that everybody is not going to like them   and nobody is gonna like them all the time and that’s okay you know my kids don’t like me all   the time my husband doesn’t like me all the time I’m okay with that I know I can be challenging but   you know most of the time you know they like me and that’s okay and there are some people you   know who don’t like me at all and okay there’s nothing I can do about that helping our clients   develop an okayness with that helps relieve a lot of anxiety because a lot of people feel like they   have to be liked by everybody and if somebody doesn’t like them it’s like what did I do wrong   oh my gosh encourage them to develop healthy supportive relationships with good boundaries   develop assertiveness skills so they can ask for help when they need it anxiety a lot of times you   know that’s the body saying there’s a threat well if there’s a threat maybe you need some help you   know dealing with it so people need to be willing and able to ask for help and not feel like that’s   going to lead them to be rejected and allow them a certify this will allow them to say no to requests   again without feeling like that’s going to result in them being fully rejected describe the ideal   healthy supportive relationship and encourage them to separate the ideals from the reals you   know let’s look at if you had the best relationship what would it look like okay you know Warden June   Cleaver we got that now how realistic is that you know let’s look at you know rephrasing this   a little bit so it’s less extreme you know warden June Cleaver never fought their kids were perfect   you know all those extreme words let’s look at what’s real what happens in real relationships encourages people to identify who would be a good partner in supportive relationships   I’m not meaning necessarily romantic I’m meaning friends and where they can be found you know where   would you find people that you could be friends with and encourage them to play through what it means when gaming cuz a lot of times again this goes with my reading you know what it means when your friend doesn’t return your text right away what does it mean when your friend cancels   dinner on Friday night what does it mean when you see where I’m going with this and a lot of   times clients with anxiety and rejection issues and low self-esteem will go to the worst-case   scenario so encourage them to go back to finding the exceptions what else could have been happening   what else could it be that caused this and it’s not about you so anxiety is a natural emotion that   serves a survival function excessive anxiety can develop from lack of sleep nutritional problems   neurochemical imbalances failure to develop adequate coping skills cognitive distortions low   self-esteem and a variety of other stuff recovery Ambala involves improving health behaviors making sure your body’s functioning and making the neurotransmitters it needs and you know release   them as needed to 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As found on YouTube Brain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: OIP-73 Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it!

10 Things Depression Makes Us Do

  Depression affects many of us around the globe. According to the World Health Organization, 300 million people of all ages battle with it Depression is a sneaky mental disorder. It’s difficult to catch during the early stages. Most of us realize we have depression when we are deep in the grips of it. Those with this mental disorder feel hopeless, empty or sad, fatigued, irritable, and restless. Depression not only takes your motivation away, but you can have problems concentrating and making decisions.   Those of us with this disorder can act in ways that will worsen the situation. Here’s a list of 10 things depression makes you do. 1. Isolating yourself. Individuals with depression isolate themselves for different reasons. Some will keep to themselves because they feel overwhelmed socializing, and others believe it’s better to be alone. In other cases, the person may feel so much self-hatred that they prefer to not interact with people. Those with severe depression may even stay in their house for weeks. 2. Being disorganized. Depression leaves you feeling exhausted, so cleaning a room or home becomes an endeavor.   Dirty dishes and clothes start piling up while your garbage is overflowing the trash. It becomes an even bigger a physical challenge to walk around your room because everything is on the floor. Living in a cluttered place leaves you feeling uneasy, but the lack of energy doesn’t help. 3. Poor hygiene. Depression zaps all your energy. It’s difficult enough to get out of bed, so showering, brushing your teeth, washing your hair and taking care of your body, it goes out the window.   Those without depression may see this behavior as lazy, but the truth is, showering or changing into clean clothes is exhausting and painful at times. 4. Struggling with sleep. Depression affects your sleeping schedule, some of you may stay up and sleep very little. It keeps you up with your intrusive unwanted thoughts. These may end up making you feel anxious all through the night. In other cases, some of you will sleep excessively and still feel unrested. 5. Catastrophizing every situation. Depression plays tricks on your mind, making you believe negative things. It can get to a point where you’re constantly looking out for bad things to reassure your pessimistic thinking. Every time something bad happens, you use it as evidence to prove how bad life is.   This slippery slope makes it difficult to see life under a brighter light. 6. Terrible eating habits. Those with depression will either eat too much or hardly anything at all. Some of you may find yourself in the kitchen eating everything in side, trying to eat away the emptiness or sadness you’re feeling while others don’t have an appetite and may even feel disgusted by food.   In other cases, some of you may feel so exhausted that that thought of preparing a meal is overwhelming. 7. Lack of motivation. Depression steals your interests and desires right from under you. Your favorite pastimes and hobbies no longer satisfy you, slowly you find yourself feeling dead and numb inside. If you aren’t careful you’ll end up staying in bed all day. 8. Evading your problems. Depression by itself is overwhelming, you can feel devastated and out of control most days, so trying to face situations and problems head-on is difficult enough.   Instead you ignore or set the problem aside, and this in turn can bring trouble because it will continue to pile up. 9. Feeling guilty and feeling self-hatred. If you allow depression to take over your thoughts, then you’ll most likely feel self-hatred. You’ll continue to talk down to yourself and this often leads to the development of self-esteem issues along with poor self-image, eventually you’ll believe you aren’t worth it anymore. Some people with this mental disorder can even feel guilt by thinking all their problems are their fault. And 10: living in fear. People with depression fear that terrible things will happen to them. In severe cases, some of you will sabotage a good situation, believing that it will turn bad. Other times individuals will reject opportunities and stop pursuing their dreams.   It’s a twisted way to protect yourself because this prevents you from living and achieving amazing things. Depression affects us in different ways. The list mentioned in this video contains some of the common behaviors those with the disorder have. Do you agree with these points? What other behaviors have you noticed? Let us know in the comment section below. <3. As found on YouTube Brain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: OIP-73 Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it!

Addressing Negative Thoughts | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with Dawn Elise Snipes

  CEUs are available at AllCEUs.com/CBT-CEU This episode was pre-recorded as part of a live continuing education webinar. On demand CEUs are still available for this presentation through ALLCEUs. ALLCEUs.com/CBT-CEU I’d like to welcome everybody today to cognitive behavioral therapy addressing negative thoughts. Now a lot of us took courses and cognitive behavioral therapy we’ve worked with CBP for many many years so some of the this is just going to be a refresher and others you know you may pick up a few new tips or tools as we go along so we’re going to define cognitive behavioral therapy and its basic principles just get a really basic refresher on what was that original CDP about well identify factors impacting people’s choices behaviors because you know they always have a choice we’ll explore causes and the impact of thinking errors whether you call them cognitive distortions irrational thoughts or when I work with my clients I try to call them unhelpful beliefs or unhelpful thoughts because distortions and irrational seems sort of pejorative to me so I try to avoid those words as much as possible and help clients see them as not incorrect necessarily but unhelpful and then we’ll identify some common thinking errors and their relationship to cognitive distortions and some of our just very basic fears why do we care well because cognitive distortions or irrational thoughts or unhelpful thoughts whatever you want to say really impacts people on a physical level a mental level and an emotional level a person who perceives the world is hostile unsafe and unpredictable will tend to be more hyper vigilant until they exhaust the stress response system so think about you know a bottle ship and you’ve got a bunch of new people on this battleship and all the sailors every time there’s the least little thing they send off the all-hands-on-deck so a big bird flies over and I mean literally a bird and they freak out found me all hands on deck and this goes on for a week or two or six months you know let’s think about our clients they don’t usually come in right away where everything is set to OFF that startle response everything sets off that fight-or-flight response the staff starts to get exhausted all the rest of the sailors that have to drop everything and run to their battle stations after a little while they’re like really no no we just we can’t even do this and it also reminds me of the boy who cried wolf anyhow I digress sticking with the battleship metaphor so eventually the captain says you know what let’s retrain on what is worth setting off the all hands on deck because everybody here is exhausted and nobody’s even really responding anymore when they come to their battle stations they’re just kind of dragging their butts in like whatever it’s probably another false alarm the same sort of thing is true with us when we’re on on high alert for too long our brain says you know what we got to conserve some energy in case some really really big threat comes along so it turns down what I call the stress response system it turns down the sensitivity so you don’t get alerted for every little thing that would cause you stress but you also don’t get alerted for those little things that would cause you happiness either anything that would cause the excitatory neurotransmitters to be secreted you’re just not getting those anymore which a lot of people kind of refer to as depression it’s just kind of like the F whatever and only the biggest most notable things actually cause an emotional effect we don’t want people to get to that point that’s no way to live so we need to help them learn how to sort of retrain their spotters to figure out what is actually stressful a person who perceives the world is generally good and believe they have the ability to deal with challenges as they arise will be able to allow their stress response system to function normally there are going to be times you have all hands on deck whether it’s a real emergency or whether it’s just a drill but it will happen and they can go they can you know do what they’re going to do they have that adrenaline rush they have the energy and the focus to do their jobs and when it’s over they go back to their quarters they can relax refresh you know just kind of chill for a while and then there’s a low where their body rebalances before the next one and this is kind of what we want in life I mean ideally we wouldn’t have super high peaks very often but we want to make sure we give our body time to rebalance after there’s a stressor and not have to stand on on edge not be hyper vigilant constantly just waiting for the next one to come along so what is the impact of these thinking errors well whenever we have that stress response system activated the body is saying we either need to fight or we need to flee so you’re dumping all kinds of adrenaline and other neuro chemicals so there’s anxiety there can be stress when people start having this reaction you know they start having muscle tension sweating heart rate increases breathing increases people will call that anxiety some will label that as anger either way they’re both sides of the same coin they need to do something but if it lasts too long then we start moving into depression and they just they don’t have to get up and go anymore there’s just not any excitatory neurotransmitters really left they need some time to rest and rebalance behaviorally think about it if you go somewhere and you are just constantly on guard are you going to keep going there or are you going to withdraw so people who have a lot of thinking errors unhelpful thoughts tend to withdraw more they may turn to addictions to kind of numb or blunt some of the inputs sleep problems and changes when you are hyper vigilant when you have this stress response going even if it’s not a full-bore if it’s still there somewhat if you’re stressed out you’re not going to sleep as well you’re going to maintain higher levels of cortisol so you’re not going to get that restful rejuvenating sleep you may kind of goes on and off eating changes you know depending on the person some people eat the self food that some people can’t eat it all but we do see that the hormones Guerlain and lets them get all out of whack not under stress but also when sleep gets out of whack when your circadian rhythms get out of whack so we’re starting to see the Cascade effect where it’s emotional and behavioral physical you’ve got stress-related illnesses that start coming up if you’re on that lunch you’ve got muscle tension for that long it starts to hurt I mean you start to get migraines your back starts to hurt wherever you store your stress so to speak it starts to come out and most people when they’re under a lot of stress for an extended period you know a day is not a big deal for most people but for an extended period become more susceptible to illnesses they start getting sick easier headaches GI distress you know some people store their stress right in their gut socially think about the last time you were stressed were you patient and tolerant and just a pleasure to be around you may have tried to be but you’re more prone to irritability and impatience and again wanting to withdraw all of these affects contribute to fatigue and a sense of hopelessness and helplessness which often intensifies thinking errors so you’ll see this negative reciprocal interaction if somebody feels stressed out and overwhelmed and that they withdrawal then they may start feeling like they have no support and they don’t and they lose all their social buffers to the stress so they feel even more stressed so they want to withdrawal even more so we’re going to talk about how to prevent that now I like this little diagram maybe because it’s got a heart in the center I don’t know but behavior feelings and thoughts this is the outside of the circle all three of these impact diecuts each other when you do something it often impacts your feelings and your thoughts about a situation when you when you’re thinking if you think positively you’re probably going to choose more positive behaviors and more have more positive feelings you’re thinking negatively obviously you may choose more of an escape behavior Protection behavior and may have more feelings of anger anxiety depression etc so these things are going on and they’re all interacting the one really cool thing is if you break this chain somewhere or this circuit then you can stop that reciprocal negative downward spiral so cognitive behavioral helps people who are willing to show up or who are willing to address their thoughts not everybody is willing to start addressing their thoughts right away maybe they want to start addressing their sleep problems in their eating problems or something that’s more physical okay that’s fine because anywhere we interrupt this circuit is going to have positive effects assuming the intervention is positive it’s going to have positive effects on the other ones so what about the triangle well yourself so you’re feeling thoughts and behavior impact you it impacts how you feel and you’re like well yeah okay just stay with me but the way you feel think and act impacts your future and it also impacts how you interact with others so you know that kind of affects things because remember social support is a big buffer for us now core beliefs and you can do this inward to outward or outward to inward but either way it comes down to core beliefs if you have positive thoughts and positive feelings and you generally engage in positive behaviors to keep that cycle going you will probably feel pretty good about yourself have good relationships have a somewhat optimistic feeling about the future and your core beliefs may be more like people are generally good I can do this you know very self affirming and other affirming positive core beliefs about yourself in the world now if your thoughts or feelings are negative then you have this negative outer circle you don’t feel so good you start questioning the goodness and Trust ability and dependable of other people you have more of a bleak look in the future so what do you think is going to happen to the core beliefs the core beliefs may change too if someone doesn’t love me I am completely unloveable they may change to being more extreme more negative and more difficult to rectify if you want to have somebody who’s happy I mean you’re not going to have somebody who’s happy who thinks the world is an unkind unpredictable scary place going it’s just wonderful roses today so we have to help people try to adjust eventually start adjusting those core beliefs and when we get into causing that behavior remember the ABCs your automatic but well your automatic thought then your and beliefs are what happened as soon as that event occurs and those you don’t think about that’s why they’re called automatic so when you have the ABCs these core beliefs are those things that pop up that we need to address so what factors affect this and whoops you know there’s a lot of stuff right here and EBP they call them vulnerabilities you know we’re just going to talk about in general different factors that affect the choices our clients make in terms of behaviors so negative emotions if they are not if they’re feeling angry if they’re feeling anxious they’re feeling depressed they’re probably not going to be really motivated to get up and engage in a whole lot of self affirming activities they’re not probably not going to be having a lot of positive self affirming thoughts they’re going to be focused on whatever is causing that distress and maybe escaping from that physically pain and illness when you don’t feel well it’s harder to be Susie sunshine I don’t think many of us are just a barrel of monkeys when we don’t feel well so if our clients have pain this is one of those if you want to put it in behaviors behavioral areas physical areas we can address and have them go see their physician have them go see their physical therapist and get recommendations so they aren’t feeling physically painful physically and distress all the time because physical distress and emotional distress both mess with sleep unfortunately sleep is the first thing to usually go and I’m not talking about quantity I know a lot of clients who when they get depressed they’re in in bed for you know days they’ll get up they’ll maybe shower and you know go back to bed and they’re sleeping a lot but it doesn’t mean it’s quality sleep so what we need to look at is what is the quality of their sleep are they getting that rejuvenation the time for their brain and neural chemicals to rebalance so they can feel happy so they can have that nice balance of all the the neurotransmitters they need to feel happy poor nutrition well no matter how much sleep they get if they don’t have the building blocks to make the neurotransmitters and the hormones that are needed to prompt the feelings the physiological sensations that we’ve labeled happiness or excitement or you know even depression and anxiety those are all caused by different neurotransmitters being secreted in different combinations if your body doesn’t have the building blocks to make those then it doesn’t matter how much sleep you get you’re not going to get any benefit from it an intoxication and this can be uppers downers anything that is psychoactive if you are messing with that neurotransmitter balance you’re going to get it out of whack and you may either use up too much of the excitatory or cause us a lot of it or you may use up too much of the depressant either way there’s usually a rebound effect which we call withdrawal so you’re not going to be in a good space either during the intoxication sometimes but definitely when you’re sobering up there’s a period where there’s going to be negative emotions negative feelings environmentally yeah your environment can even make you grumpy introduction of a new or unique situation some people love new challenges love going to new places other people not so much depending on the person taking on going somewhere new may be really stressful for them so if they’ve already got de-stress going on because of having to go to this new situation then their thoughts may be a little bit more on the anxious side about a lot of things and they may have less patience and tolerance to deal with other stuff that comes their way because they’re already kind of on edge and exposure to unpress you know going places that you just really don’t want to go maybe and one of the places I used to work we had this meeting once a month and it was literally an eight-hour meeting and we would all sit in there for eight hours and one person at a time would get up and give their staff reports or whatever but it tended to be a relatively dreadful sort of environment or eight hours and we all knew we had to be there and that was fine but it was an unprecedented were grumbling on the way in they were getting their coffee and going well I better do this because I’m not getting out for another eight hours we need to help our clients obsess what is it in your environment if anything that is making you already feel grumpy or not as happy and likewise what can you put in your environment to make you feel happier you know I keep pictures of my kids and my animals on my phone that way if I’m having a moment or not sometimes I just like looking at them I can take a look at it it makes me smile and I’m like okay life is good you know this moment may not be so wonderful but it’s just this moment then we move on to stress of a social nature peers or family who convey irrational thoughts as necessary standards for social acceptance nobody wants to associate with those people or nobody’s going to like you when you’re like this or you read if you really want to be successful then you need to change fill in the blank it’s always a something needs to change you are not okay for who you are how you are and a lack of supportive peers to buffer stress because we all have negative people in our life it happens but if you have negative supportive peers that you can call afterwards and go yeah I had just had to meet with someone so for an hour and it was just dreadful and that person can go well I’m sorry or be there make you laugh or whatever they do it helps buffer the stress if you don’t have those positive social supports then you’re left walking out of it you’re kind of feeling shell-shocked and then you also at the same time have to figure out for yourself all right what do I do next now it doesn’t mean you can’t do it you know people do it all the time but it is good it is awesome to have supportive peers to buffer your stress so when cognitive therapy clients learn to distinguish between thoughts and feelings realizing that thoughts will trigger feelings but they don’t have to cause continual feelings and behaviors and feelings can cause certain thoughts but they don’t have to you can unhook from them and you can just say this is how I’m feeling right now now where am I going to go from here and we talked about that on Tuesday with unhooking from unhooking from your thoughts and stepping back and going what is the next logical action to get me to where I want to go become aware of the ways in which the thoughts can influence feelings in ways that are sometimes not helpful being critical being jealous envious maybe you just don’t like somebody and you know there’s a whole lot of reasons for that but you don’t like everybody most people don’t like everyone and so it’s you know that’s okay but recognize how that affects your interactions with that person and your thoughts about that person learn how thoughts that seem to occur automatically affect emotions so recognize start getting down to what are these core beliefs that happen every time it’s a negative incident that make me feel angry or anxious constructively evaluate whether these automatic thoughts and assumptions are accurate or perhaps biased evaluate whether the current reactions are helpful and a good use of energy or unhelpful and a waste of energy that could be used to move toward those people and things important to the person so again back kind of to that ACP sort of thing is this a good use of your energy to help you achieve your goals and be the person you want to be and develop the skills to notice interrupt and correct these biased thoughts independently like I said you don’t always have to call somebody you can do it on your own but sometimes it’s nice to have that buffer in that middle moment so what causes these thinking errors how can we even start helping people address their thoughts and until we start thinking about well what caused them information processing shortcuts as we grow up we learn things you know when you were knee-high to a grasshopper you didn’t have a lot of experience so you learned things but things you learned when you were a kid unfortunately because you were cognitively a child are either our dichotomies they’re all or nothing it’s either this way or no way at all so things that you have things that you learn back when you were a child may not have been challenged if you heard something from your parent maybe your parents said you’re a bad girl or you’re a bad boy it’s all or nothing well I am a bad girl so I guess that means I’m not okay and if I’m not okay right now I’m never okay that can stick with a person so these outdated amis schemas can really trip somebody up once the person gets into you know middle schoolish the thoughts aren’t nearly as dichotomous there’s a lot more formal operational thought if you will but up until then I mean you’ve got a child who’s experiencing a lot of stuff and taking in like a sponge everything they hear and it gets sorted into a yes or a No pile there’s there’s no kind of middle pile that there’s no yes and so what we want to do is help people look at those thoughts now and say okay if they’re all or nothing is there a way to find both and so for example we’ll take that exam scenario I gave you earlier if a child hears you’re a bad girl when they’re young they take that to mean always everything about me is bad I’m unlovable so what is the both and compromise as an adult we can look back and go you know I’m a good person I may not make may make poor choices sometimes I may make bad choices but I’m a good person so there’s that both and you know I’m not perfect but I’m good so that it’s not all or nothing and I encourage my clients to really always look for that middle ground how can it be both or does it have to even be that negative one but most of the time there’s a little bit of something on both sides the brain’s limited information processing capacity and limited responses when children are young you know they hear something you know mom comes in and says you’re a bad girl and child hears I’m totally unlovable and it just crushes the child they don’t have experiences to go moms having a bad day she kind of tends to say things she doesn’t mean when she’s having a bad day it’s just it’s devastating to that child when you’re older if somebody says something that’s not necessarily tactful you know you can look at it and go yeah that really wasn’t nice but that person probably did not intend to be hurtful they may have something else going on children have fewer experiences so what was devastating or overwhelming as a child may not still have have to feel that way when you’re a child if your best friend moved away oh that was devastating it was the end of the world now as an adult you can go visit them you can call them and with the internet and everything you can email them you can still stay in touch so there are ways to do it yeah you can’t go out and swing swing on swings together all the time but it doesn’t have to mean the end of the end of time things will change and there’s a little process of grieving that has to go along with that but to an adult a friend moving away is less devastating than say to a six-year-old your parent being angry with you if you grew up in an alcoholic or addicted household you learn don’t talk don’t trust don’t feel when the parent came in if the parent was angry with you you could have been in a lot of hurt you know there could have been some actual danger to your physical or emotional person so it was scary as a 26 year old or however old your client is is it that threatening you know if your parent gets angry with you you don’t depend on them for food and shelter anymore you don’t have to be an inner household if they were violent towards you so is it as terrifying when your parent gets angry yes there’s lots of issues with wanting acceptance from your parents that’s over here there’s a whole nother issue but when your parent is angry do you have to have that person’s approval when we’re in crisis we don’t process much when you’re in crisis your body is worried about surviving if you’ve been in a car wreck if somebody has gone to the hospital whatever the case is you’re not processing all of the data in order to make it in for decision you’re processing what’s right in front of you because when we’re in crisis we generally have tunnel vision and really crappy memory so if something happened when someone was in crisis that hurt their feelings made them angry you know fill in the blank some sort of dysphoric emotion we want to say well let’s look back at that and see if there’s a pose and let’s look back at that and see if there was something that you missed that might help you understand why this person reacted that way but understanding that in crisis we just generally don’t make the most informed decisions so emotional reasoning helping clients understand that feeling or not facts and helping them learn to identify feelings and separate them from facts so if they say I’m terrified all right so you’re terrified got that about what are you terrified you know tell me what are these things that make you feel like the world is such a scary place and let’s list them on the whiteboard or a flip chart what is the evidence that those are present dangers right now that they’re actually impending threats so tell me about what the evidence is in what ways is this similar to other situations where you felt terrified and how did you deal with those situations I have a friend who actually went this morning on an airplane flight and she hates flying totally terrified of it so what is the evidence that this plane is going to crash you know what is the evidence that it is likely that this plane will crash and there really she’s flying on an american-based commercial airliner there really isn’t any when you look at the proportions so okay there’s there have been a couple of crashes over the past 20 years and in a couple of those there were some fatalities no doubt but looking at the proportions and running the numbers what’s the likelihood in what ways this is similar to other situations that you have felt terrified you know maybe there haven’t been any other situations where she’s flown and gotten through it and been like score I did that but what other situations have you had to get through that you were terrified and how did you deal with those help people develop distress tolerance skills one of the things I told her was when you’re sitting on the airplane and you know the airplane starts up don’t wait til you start getting really stressed necessarily but when we were little on the car when we’re in the car we used to find things on the drive find something that starts with a and everybody would find something that started with a and then find something that starts with B and you know so on and if you couldn’t find something that started with that letter you were out so I mean she’s going on this trip with her kids and I’m like why don’t you try doing that because there are some letters that you’re going to have to work really hard and it’s kind of like the game apples to apples you end up finding something really inane in order to get that letter and you laugh and you’re so busy focusing on that you’re not focusing on all of the things that could possibly maybe go wrong other distress tolerance skills you know you can go through the whole DBT curriculum and learn some of those the biggest thing is if you have to face the terror if you have to go through it figure out a way to not have to focus on it and fight it and go I shouldn’t be afraid I shouldn’t be because that doesn’t work if it worked we wouldn’t be talking about it and develop emotional regulation skills so prevent those vulnerabilities set yourself up so you are as prepared as you can to not feel stressed to not feel anxious she has her spouse with her who can help diffuse some of it she’s got her kids with her she downloaded some movies she’s prepared to endure the distress she’s you know trying to go into it with a positive mindset as much as possible and focusing on the destination which you know is ultimately the reason she’s getting on the plane social causes of stress and thinking errors everybody’s doing it well that’s not true there’s very real that everybody does so correcting misinformation how the client gather objective information about you know if they say well everybody else that I know has succeeded okay well let’s gather objective information about that who do you know and tell me if they’ve succeeded if I want to be liked I must do it this need for approval or low self-esteem can cause a lot of problems in thinking errors and fears of rejection so we say okay let’s look at developing some self-esteem so you don’t need to worry about if somebody likes you what would it be like if you woke up in the morning and you didn’t care if so-and-so liked you I mean we all want to have friends don’t get me wrong I’m not saying you want to be her moving out in the woods but if we’re talking about a particular so-and-so what would it be like in the morning to get up and go you know what if that person messages me today or call us me today that’s great and if not I’m okay with that how liberating would that be to get your power back and how people develop social supports that share their same values and goals at least mostly or at least can respect yours so for example when you know I work with people with co-occurring disorders and they don’t drink and they don’t use drugs so they may be around people family friends who drink if you’re going to be in that situation do you have to drink and can you be around do you have social supports that can be supportive of your choice to not drink doesn’t necessarily mean they’re it’s not going to not going to not drink in front of you but at least they’re not trying to get you to drink so the social causes of irrational thoughts if I want to be liked I must do this why can’t you be like for who you are cognitive bias negativity mental filter focus on the negatives and worry about the future most of us know some people like that most of us have had a moment where we felt like this we’ve just gotten ourselves in a tizzy and spun out of control but you can bring it back so you want to ask yourself or have your clients ask themselves what’s the benefit to focusing on the negative if you know that this is going to go south really fast what’s the benefit to just focusing on that could you focus on alternatives or Plan B’s what are the positives to the situation most people who have mood issues who present to us in counseling don’t focus on both sides yes every side you know has a little bit of negative to it if you really want to look hard enough but every side also has a silver lining if you really want to look hard enough so we need to balance the the positives and the negatives so encourage people to look for the positives in the situation yeah this really sucked but and what are all the facts what are all the things going into it sometimes people will go to work and not know or wonder if they’re going to get laid off because you know you’re not necessarily always guaranteed a job anywhere there can be layoffs but if somebody is going to work every day worried about this focusing on the negative up yep I’m definitely going to be the one that’s going to get the pink slip and they go to their mailbox each time looking for that pink slip expecting it to be there how is that going to affect their mood as opposed to alright there may be layoffs coming what can I do to make myself really valuable or and what are my options if I do get laid off let’s make a plan B and C so I don’t just feel like the rug was pulled out from under me coin toss activity if somebody tends to be stuck in negativity have them flip a coin every morning if it lands on heads they can just see their normal selves to their heart’s content if it lands on tails they need to act as if they are a happy positive optimistic maybe even a noxious ly optimistic person for the entire day you know we want them to be farting rainbows and when I say that they usually look at me and laugh and but that’s okay I’m like every time you start having a negative thought I want you to see a unicorn farting rainbows and take it from there and then have them process how they felt at the end of the day if they weren’t constantly focused on negativity and worrying and only seeing the bad stuff disqualifying or minimizing the positive if something happens when somebody says well I just got that promotion because they didn’t have anybody else to give it to okay if your best friend just got a promotion would you say that to them what is scary about accepting the positive about accepting the fact that maybe you got the promotion because you’re awesome sometimes we disqualify the positive because it fails to meet someone else’s standards so might that be true here you know maybe you got this promotion and you’re actually down deep down inside kind of proud of it but you know that your mother had always wanted you to be this over here and you’re never going to meet that expectation so you minimize it that way nobody else could say well you know better than nothing and take away your thunder egocentrism my perspective is the only perspective take different perspectives I always say three if something happens and you know maybe somebody was rude to you anyone they were rude to me okay they were rude to you what are three reasons what are some alternate perspectives why that person might have been rude maybe what you did something that triggers them maybe they were having a bad day and it’s got nothing at all to do with you you know there are options that we can look at personalization and mind-reading what are some alternate explanations for the event that didn’t involve you if you think well that person that person just really doesn’t like me and you know I’ve got to work with them every day and they hate me my question to my client would be what what’s the evidence for that and what are some alternative explanations for why that person may be behaving that way I had a staff member that a lot of my other staff members had difficulty getting along with and ultimately you know we had to sit down and look when I had some different staff meetings with people and say you know what gives you the idea that she doesn’t like you what gives you the idea that it’s about you and you know they cited all kinds of behaviors and I had to come back to well what are some alternate reasons why somebody anybody not just her might be expressing those behaviors could it be something besides you and of course they came back – yeah availability heuristic remembering what’s prominent in your mind if somebody was if you’re a supervisor for example and you’re doing evaluation for the year what are you really remembering when you’re doing that evaluation the whole year or the last three months and that’s the event fail ability heuristic so when you’re talking to somebody about their relationship with their best friend or their spouse or their kids and if somebody says well that that child has always been a problem okay let’s look at that you know the child is 18 and you’ve had a lot of problems with him lately but what about three years ago so was he always a problem or is this something that’s relatively new that something might have changed magnification people getting stuck on fearing the absolute worst so you want to ask them is this a high probability or low probability outcome if they’re magnifying something that happened like oh my gosh that is the worst thing in the world is this going to matter six months from now maybe you totaled your car and yeah that is a huge bummer and you’re safe in six months is this really going to matter that much you know there are going to be some bills and everything but the big scheme of things is at the end of the world what have you done in the past to tolerate events like these when something really really unpleasant has happened and then if they’re looking at dichotomous ways of thinking which a lot of our clients still do they’re like someone so it always does this or never does this have them look at the differences between love versus hate perfection versus failure and all good intentions versus all bad intentions because a lot of our dichotomies fall in one of these three categories this person always does this or Never or does it intentionally or you know just doesn’t care belief in a just world the fallacy of fairness encourage people to look for for good people they know that have had bad things happen attributional bearers are labeling yourself not a behavior such as saying I am stupid instead of I don’t have good math skills I am is difficult to get rid of I can’t get rid of stupidity if it’s part of me but if it’s a thought or a skill I can either get rid of it or improve it stable I am means I am right now and I probably always will be stupid verses I can change this thought or skill I can learn math and internal attributions mean it’s about me as a person versus about a skill or skill deficit or something completely unrelated so when somebody makes a global internal negative statement we want to help them challenge that global internal positive statements I’m all about but the negative ones I want to say let’s take a look at that is that true that this is about you all of the time and it means that there’s something wrong with you so we want to ask them how are these thoughts how are these ways of thinking impacting your emotions health relationships and perceptions of the world we want to increase motivation to start looking at these spanking errors because it’s a lot of work to start changing the way you automatically think because you’ve got to stop you’ve got to become mindful and then you’ve got to decide well what are the alternative thoughts because this is what I thought for so long how may have this thought has been helpful in the past most of the time thoughts we have came from somewhere and whether it was a thought we had when we were a child something we learned when we were a child that is dichotomous and not quite applicable anymore it may have been helpful in the past to help you navigate situations doesn’t mean it was wrong it means it’s not helpful in the present asking them to always ask themselves is this thought or feeling bringing you the client closer to those people and things that are important to you it’s hanging on to this negativity bringing you closer and and I like the energy philosophy if you will when you are unhappy you are letting this person have your power you are letting this person make you angry when you decide you are not going to give them your power then you may start feeling happier and I don’t always use that with clients but sometimes the power metaphor help when we talk about thinking Ayers asked them are there examples of this not being true and and or how can a statement be made less global stable and internal is it about you or is it about what you do at work is it about you or is it about your relationship with this particular person so the last couple of slides focusing on some of the irrational thoughts or unhelpful beliefs our basic fears are rejection and isolation failure loss of control the unknown and death generally the things that cause people to have this fight-or-flight reaction fall into one of those categories so some of the unhelpful beliefs that we hear a lot coming up when we do the ABCs is that mistakes are never acceptable so if I make one I am incompetent so we’ve got dichotomous thinking and we’ve got a lot of internal global labeling here rejection and isolation when somebody disagrees with me it’s a personal attack against me well sometimes it is what does that mean it’s about you we’re helping them address the rejection and isolation fears we want to ask them you know if they disagree with you were they attacking you and saying you were stupid or were they attack attacking you want to use that word or were they attacking the thought and saying they disagreed with the thought there’s a little bit of a difference it’s somewhat semantics but it’s a difference because they may have a lot of respect for you but they may disagree with what you just said if someone criticizes or rejects me there must be something wrong with me again that’s one of those internal global negative statements to feel good about myself others must approve of me we want to make sure our clients can self validate and they don’t rely on external validation because they’re setting themselves up for a world of hurt if they are not their own best friend to be content in life I must be liked by all people and thanks for a second are you liked by everybody I know I’m not liked by everybody so does that mean that I should not be content in life and what does it say to give people that power to say if you don’t like me that I can’t be content because I’ve got to be liked by everybody sometimes with clients I’ll help them look at what may be going on with the other person why that person might like them because a lot of times other people’s reactions towards you are more about their stuff than about you and helping them see how that might be true my true value as an individual depends on what others think of me so these other unhelpful beliefs pertain to those thoughts of failure and loss of control none of us likes to fail don’t get me wrong it’s not pleasant but it happens and there is a saying out there that says if you haven’t failed you haven’t tried which means we need to get beyond our safety envelope we need to push ourselves behind beyond our boundaries and when we do sometimes we’re going to stumble and fall and we pick ourselves up and we learn from it but to expect to never fail at anything is not realistic so nothing ever turns out the way you want it to how many times have you heard that from your clients I won’t try anything new unless I know I’ll be good at it I’m in total control and anything bad that happens is my fault so let’s look at this locus let’s control thing here you’re in total control so you can make it rain you know it was unpleasant today because I had to come to work and it was raining outside so that was bad it happened was it your fault pointing out and depending on your relationship for your client you’re probably going to be more or less snarky when you present some of these but a lot of times I have a semi joking relationship if you will with my clients and they’re like yeah I see your point that kind of didn’t make a lot of since other times you know if they’re more serious I’ll ask them to identify things that happened that were bad that they had nothing to do with if I feel happy about life something will go wrong or I’m always waiting for the other shoe to drop helping people stay focused in the moment with mindfulness and something’s going to go wrong down the road somewhere sometimes yeah it’s true this will happen let’s enjoy what we’ve got for right now the past always repeats itself it was if it was true then it’s true now so what was true when you were ten is true now that you’re forty always is that true it’s not my fault my life didn’t go the way I wanted everybody conspired against me and there’s no gray area so for people who feel the need to hold on to control its dichotomous it is or it isn’t it’s got to be that way there’s no gray area and it can make life be seem very uncomfortable because they’ve got to put things in one of two buckets and sometimes things don’t fit nicely in buckets what happens if we add a third bucket that both an bucket so a quick note about irrationality the origins of most beliefs were rational and helpful given the information the person had at the time and their ability to process that information because of their cognitive development so things that we identify as unhelpful or automatic beliefs now came from somewhere and they made perfect sense whenever they were formed they may not be healthy or helpful now which is why we want to look at them and either adjust them or just throw them out the door but when they were formed they were on point irrationality or unhelpful nasaw thoughts comes when those beliefs are perpetuated without examination so again we need to look at them continually look at what you’re telling yourself and go is this still accurate and continue to be held despite causing harm to the person sometimes you’re going to look at a thought an automatic thought and you’re going to go yeah that is still spot-on now is holding on to this helping me achieve my goals you know yet the world right now is kind of a scary place is holding on to this fear and terror helping me and be a happy productive yada-yada whatever kind of person you want to be or is it causing me to feel anxious and angry and scared sometimes it’s more productive for clients to think of thoughts as unhelpful instead of irrational because like I said I feel like irrationality and distortions seem very pejorative to a lot of clients so questions clients can ask themselves when they are faced with a situation what are the facts for and against this belief is this belief based on facts or feelings just because you feel scared is it a scary situation does the belief focus on just one aspect or the whole situation does the belief seem to use any of those thinking errors we talked about and if so you know what do I need to do about it what are some alternate explanations for this belief what else could have caused this to happen besides whatever I’m afraid of what would you tell your child or your best friend if they had this belief what would you took what would you want someone to tell you about this belief you could have somebody tell you something that would make you feel okay what would you want them to tell you and how is this belief moving you toward what and who is important to you remembering that beliefs are a combination of thought and fact and personal interpretation of those thoughts and facts I tend to when I talk you know you see me I kind of I’m all over the place with my arms I am a animated talker now if you are seeing me from a hundred feet away and you are seeing me talk might think I was angry because I make a lot of really big gestures because if you had grown up in a situation where there was domestic violence or something but if you had grown up in a household like I did where you had a first generation Italian first generations of ten Italian Americans talk big they talk real big with lots of gestures and sometimes loud and that doesn’t necessarily mean any anger a lot of times it’s just pure excitement so understanding that there’s thoughts in facts you know you see this going on but your personal interpretation can really affect what you get out of it or what you perceive that situation to be so we need to look at how is your personal interpretation maybe adding a negative bias and what what do we do about that it may be 100 percent accurate what do we do about it so it doesn’t keep you miserable thoughts impact behaviors and emotional and physical reactions emotional physical reactions impact thoughts and your interpretation of events irrational or unhelpful thinking patterns are often caused by cognitive distortions my two favorite words in that same sentence cognitive distortions are schemas or shortcut ideas or memories if you will which were formed based on faulty inaccurate or immature knowledge or understanding of the event you know little kids may not have quite understood what was going on they just understood that mommy and daddy were screaming identifying the thoughts the hecklers I call them those negative voices inside your head that are maintaining unhappiness helps people choose whether to accept the thoughts and say yeah you know that’s right I really am not good at that or whatever the negative thought is and change it or let the thought go are there any questions you you thank you miss Benson well thank you all if you come up with any questions you know you’re mulling it over later and you think you know that yet I’ve 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How Do You Stop the Mind’s Chatter? – Sadhguru

  Questioner: Sadhguru, I wanted to know that when we are silent, still we feel that mind chattering, which always bothers us. And our thought always shifts back to past and future imaginations, which will not be any of the output. How to get rid of it? Sadhguru: There’s a whole lot of thought about this thoughtlessness. Thoughtlessness, no mind, these kinds of terms have been propagated all over the place, and these terms have been badly misunderstood and made into all kinds of things, and people are striving “how to stop my mind.” It took millions of years of evolution to get a mind of this kind of capability.   Hmm? Isn’t it? Millions of years of the tremendous amount of nature’s work that today you have a mind of this kind of scope. And now, you want to stop it. [Chuckles] Why is it that you want to stop it? If your mind was constantly producing absolute pleasantness for you, would you think about how to stop this mind? Would you? No. It’s producing a lot of unpleasantness, and that’s why you’re thinking of how to stop the mind. This is the first thing, wherever you go in the world, this has gone so much into people’s minds; if you tell them, “You meditate,” they say, “But Sadhguru, I’m not able to stop my mind.” I said, “That will happen only after you stop your kidneys, liver, heart…   [Laughter] If you stop all these things, then the mind will also stop. Do you want it to stop?” “No.” Then why do you want the mind to stop? Why do you have such a horrible prejudice against the mind? You don’t mind if your heart is beating, you can meditate. You don’t mind if your liver is working, you can meditate. Your kidneys are functioning, you can meditate. If your brain functions, you can’t meditate. What is the problem? You seem to have something against intelligence, isn’t it? [Laughs] This is the conspiracy of the stupid against human intelligence, that to meditate means your brain must be frozen. No. You don’t have to freeze your brain. We were looking at this yesterday itself. We will initiate you into Shambhavi – it’s a simple process. There are many ways to do it, this is one simple way, but it’s a powerful process. If you sit here, you will see, your body is here, your mind is somewhere, and who you are is somewhere else.   Once there is space between you and the mind, then what the mind is not doing, what the mind is doing, is not even an issue. It is like you’re stuck in a traffic jam; you know, you’re struggling through the traffic – that’s one experience. Suppose you are either standing on Chamundi Hill, or you are floating in a hot air balloon, and looking down at all the traffic. Very peacefully, “Traffic.     Hmm…” [Laughter] Why? Because of distance, isn’t it? When you’re in it, traffic is a different experience. From really high up there, sitting in a hot air balloon, you look down, and you can’t even hear the sounds, looks wonderful traffic, isn’t it? Yes, or no? Participants: Yes. Sadhguru: Because there’s a distance. So, once there’s a distance between you and your mind’s activity, the mind is not a problem – the mind is a miracle, it is not a problem. And anyway, if thoughts are going continuously, if you’re having mental diarrhea, [Laughter] you ate some bad food, isn’t it? Yes? If you’re having physical diarrhea, you ate some bad food, isn’t it? If you’re having mental diarrhea, you consumed something wrong. What this wrong thing could be is, the moment you identify yourself with something that you’re not, then you’re finished – your mind is a continuous run. There is no other way. Do what you want, and try as hard as you want, it is not going to stop.   If you do not identify yourself with anything that you are not, you know how to be with everything, you know how to use everything, but you’re not identified with it, then you will see, if you sit here, simply, the mind will be like this; [Gestures] if you want to use it you can use it, otherwise, it’ll be like this. Right now your hands are like this; oh, you’re holding it tied up because it’ll go all over, is it? No, you can keep it like this. You can keep it like this, you can keep it like this. [Gestures] When you want to use it, you can use it. So, it’s a useful instrument. Suppose your hands become like this. [Gestures] You know, some people have become like this? Yes, or no? [Gestures] If it becomes like this, you will become ridiculous, isn’t it? If it happens to your mind, also you’re equally ridiculous. It is just that you are living in the comfort that nobody else can see it.   But people can see it; if they watch you closely enough, they can see it, isn’t it? And whether they can see it or not, that’s not the point; the point is, the most important faculty of your life is out of control. It doesn’t matter whether they can see it or not, that’s not the issue; the issue is, the most important faculty in your life is out of control, doing its rubbish all the time, not doing what you want it to do. So, if you have to be freed from this ailment, you should stop eating bad food. Wrong food, or bad food means, you are identifying yourself with things that you’re not. If you sit here, if you’re not identified with this, and with this, [Gestures] then you will see, everything is just fine. Then your mind will do what you want it to do; otherwise, it’ll simply hang there, and that’s how it should be. The mind should not be telling its own stories all the time; it should tell the story that you want it to tell, isn’t it? Otherwise, it’s quite a nuisance. As found on YouTube Brain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it! OIP-73

Overcoming Attention Deficiency – ADD & ADHD | Sadhguru

  Whatever your state of mind has been from your childhood to now need not be the state of your mind for the rest of your life find something that you’re passionate about you need to develop some intensity of attention will naturally come [Music] the easiest thing to do is change the framework of our mind [Music] see when it comes to physical body and the mind no two human beings have come with the same capabilities isn’t it physically mentally what one human being can do another human being cannot do it’s in so many different ways [Music] so instead of getting a title that i’m attention deficiency and add a b c x y z so many things [Music] the thing is how to maximize who you are isn’t it you have attention deficiency but i had another kind of problem i had too much attention if i pay attention to this one i can’t shift my attention to this i’m just looking at this only for hours that also people thought is a problem people thought it is a problem he’s just looking at one thing all the time i remember this situation so well it was so insane you know my father is academically excelled all his life but unfortunately he produces a son like me who has no concern about academics of any kind so he thinks he’s a very strict disciplinarian and evening seven to nine every day in the evening we must all the four siblings all of us must study textbook i pick up some textbooks because it doesn’t matter for me what and i open somewhere i don’t care which page i just open some page and i i find some small speck on the page a tiny speck some flaw in the paper i just look at that that’s about it it just grabs my attention in such a way i just sit there two hours just looking at this spec i don’t read a single word but i never looked up and looked here and there because it really held my attention two hours i’m just looking at the speck because there is so much in a bloody speck you know there’s an entire world in a spec people have spent their lifetimes looking after microscopic molecule or an atom isn’t it speck is much bigger than an atom so people thought i was going crazy because i had too much attention so don’t go on labeling yourself this and that who who decides you have attention deficiency is there some standard how much attention you must have or how much attention you must get there is no such standard anywhere isn’t it you making it up the problem is right from childhood children are labeled and they are supposed to carry this label for the rest of their life what level of attention you have at five what level you may have at six at seven at eight at fifteen or twenty can be entirely different haven’t many of you evolved through this process huh haven’t you first day school you couldn’t figure a damn thing maybe later on you did well or maybe first day you look like you understood everything by the end of the year you did nothing yes or no you you’re a young man there are girls in the neighborhood i’m a mechanical engineer no that’s okay i’m i’m a mechanical engineer are there girls in the neighborhood i asked no engineers generally tend to have neighborhoods which do not have a lot of girls so [Music] they must be moving away for some reason where does this come from mechanical engineer mechanical in the head so you’re at a certain age now you get drawn to somebody you don’t have to concentrate isn’t it hello you don’t have to concentrate they will invade [Music] so it is only a level of interest if you have a deep level of interest in something attention will come why will it not come you still have not found any interest in anything i don’t know which part of the mechanics you’re handling in london i heard the clock is not working so if you become profoundly drawn to something why will you not have attention attention will come do i have as much attention as somebody else maybe not i never had any attention for what was happening in the classroom but i didn’t find that interesting i was but my attention was in all kinds of things does it mean to say i don’t have it i have attention deficiency no i’m not interested in what they’re putting up on the blackboard that’s all so right now unfortunately all the girls have moved out of the neighborhood so you have attention deficiency find something that you’re passionate about attention will come why will it not come not necessarily what i said just anything i’m taking that example of a girl because there is a chemical support yes there is a chemistry working for your attention other things need little more effort to pay attention to you need to develop some intensity of passion that’s something that is important what you think is important if this comes into your perspective attention will naturally come i know others will say other things but what i am telling you is whatever your state of mind has been from your childhood to now need not be the state of your mind for the rest of your life the easiest thing to do is change the framework of our mind isn’t it to change the framework of our body is very difficult to change the framework of our mind is the easiest thing to do because that is the most flexible thing but that you have made it like a concrete block what do you want to use your head for just headbutting [Music] you must keep this as flexible as possible isn’t it hello you have made this into a concrete block what is the intention that’s why i think so many are i mean the such passionate football fans the only thing that you appreciate is this that is also a good thing when it’s done well but head can be used for many more things and you can do many more things only if you keep it completely fluid and flexible otherwise a concrete block is useful only for certain things so it doesn’t matter what labels they put on you if you wish you can change the structure of your mind [Music] my [Music] you   As found on YouTube Brain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your own brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it! OIP-c2

8 Signs of an Anxious Attachment Style

  (upbeat music) – [Narrator] Hey Psych2Go Welcome back to another video, before we start, we’d like to thank you all for the support that you’ve given us. Psych2Go mission is to make psychology and mental health more accessible to everyone, and you help us do that, so thank you, now back to the video. Are you always insecure about your relationships? Do you need constant reassurance from your partner or loved ones? Attachment theory categorizes the way we act in relationships into three-man attachment styles, in today’s video, we will be focusing on the anxious attachment style, which according to mind-body green is a type of insecure attachment style rooted in a fear of abandonment and insecurity of being under-appreciated. The anxiety or insecurities you may feel in your relationship today may be due to an anxious attachment style you developed as a child.   Remember if you find yourself relating to the points we mentioned, be kind to yourself, and know that you can always work towards improving your behaviors, with that said, let’s look at the eight signs of an anxious attachment style. Number one is feeling insecure in relationships. Are you always worried about not being good enough for your partner? Does it get in the way of your happiness? A sign of an anxious attachment style is feeling insecure in your relationships, and this insecurity may manifest in several ways. For instance, you may find yourself very reactive to your partner’s words and actions, or find that you need constant reassurance from your partner to feel okay.   Number two is, the looming fear of abandonment. Are you scared that your partner will leave you even when nothing is wrong? This fear of abandonment is pretty common for people with an anxious attachment. It’s likely stemming from feelings of abandonment and insecurity about your parents when you were a child. According to how Healthline this fear and worry that your partner will leave you, often results in a tendency to become overly dependent on your partner, which may negatively impact your relationship and your emotional wellbeing. Number three is trust issues. You have a hard time trusting your partner. Maybe you find it hard to believe in your partner when they say they won’t leave you, or when your friends tell you that they truly care about you, whatever it is, this difficulty to trust others may stem from a combination of feeling insecure about your relationships, and fearing that your partner or your friends are going to abandon you in time.   If it gets out of hand, this distrust of others may result in losing your relationships. Number four is clinginess. Have other people called you clingy when it comes to you and your relationships, maybe you’re over-reliant, or overdependent on your friends, family, or partner. Unlike some of the other signs, clinginess can be a common coping mechanism for fears that come with the anxious attachment style. According to the attachment project, people with anxious attachment develop clinginess because they’re afraid of being alone. Number five is emotional neediness. Do you always need other people’s attention? According to Abby Moore from Mindbodygreen many people with an anxious attachment style are emotionally needy because they did not receive the proper emotional nurturing and security as a child. And this emotional neediness may manifest into behaviors where they constantly seek reassurance, soothing, and attention from the people in their life. Number six, harsh reactions to criticism. Are you the type to take criticism to heart? Does it have a strong impact on your self-esteem? While it is not uncommon to be sensitive to criticism those with an anxious attachment style might view criticism more intensely.     Instead of seeing criticism as a way to help you grow, you may take it as a rejection, and let it amplify your fears and insecurities, which may ultimately lead to low self-esteem. Number seven is ambivalence towards intimacy. Do you crave intimacy, or do you find it overwhelming? Some people with anxious attachments walk this fine line between craving and fearing emotional and physical intimacy. And this perception of intimacy may be due to emotional neglect during your childhood. So while you have a deep craving for intimacy, you may not know how to, or be comfortable with accepting it. And number eight, feeling unworthy. Do you feel unworthy of love, or that you aren’t good enough for your relationships? People with an anxious attachment may have low levels of self-esteem, and a negatively distorted view of their self-worth. This lack of self-esteem is likely to stem from insecurities and fears of being abandoned, or unwanted by your parents or loved ones, which may lead to a belief that you’re not worthy enough for your relationships.   We hope you enjoyed learning about some of the signs of an anxious attachment style. Do you relate to any of the things we’ve mentioned above? Let us know in the comments below. If you found this video helpful, be sure to like and share this video with those who might benefit from it. Don’t forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell icon to get notified whenever I decide to go post a new video. The references and studies used in this video are added in the description below.   Thanks for watching, and we’ll see you in our next video. As found on YouTube

SeanCooper🗯 The Shyness & Social Guy ⇝ The 3 WORST Mistakes You Must AVOID If You Want To Overcome Shyness (PLUS: 1 weird trick that targets the root biological cause of shyness so you can stop being nervous, awkward, and quiet around people…) By Sean Cooper, The Shyness & Social Anxiety Guy. The fact that you’re reading this article tells me you may have already reached a point where you feel your shyness is NOT going away on its own… or you fear it’s getting worse and worse. And I don’t want you to waste one more day living a life where you feel left out, bored, or depressed because you don’t have the relationships which would make you happy. That’s why I’ve put together this page to help you avoid the worst mistakes that keep many people stuck with shyness for years…

often giving up hope of ever improving as you watch other people have interesting “normal” lives without you. Yet this doesn’t have to happen.

ADHD: Signs, Symptoms, Solutions

  ADHD stands for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and is often described as a mental disorder. children with ADHD have trouble paying attention are hyperactive and often have difficulty controlling their behavior. it is estimated that it affects around five percent of all children aged 3 to 17 globally and that for every girl around three boys are diagnosed with it. to understand how it affects children in school let’s look at the story of Leo, a 12-year-old boy who goes to school with the best intentions but struggles hard to succeed. attention deficit is his biggest problem. Leo gets distracted so easily it happens even when he tries his hardest to focus. he often realizes that he has suddenly zoned out and has spent the last 15 minutes thinking about something entirely different. just the tiniest thing can get him off track. to him it feels like his brain is broken. he is also forgetful books and homework are often left at home and if he doesn’t miss an assignment he often loses it somewhere or forgets to turn it in.   His grades are terrible and some teachers are beginning to think that he is a lost case. then there is his hyperactivity: when they have to do group work he is restless and has trouble staying focused. staying calm and listening while others speak can completely drain him, making any normal conversation a serious challenge. to him it feels like there is no capacity left in his brain to deal with all the input that needs to be processed. he then feels angry about not being able to follow along. to help cope with his hyperactivity he likes to keep his hands busy all the time. last, there is his impulsive behavior: he often cannot refrain from saying things that come to his mind. sometimes he tries hard to control himself but then just blurts out and interrupts others. his classmates find this annoying. he leader regrets his hot-headed behavior but he knows that unfortunately, he will do it again and again. it seems to him that he can’t learn from his mistakes. teachers get frustrated trying to get him to behave.   Others become impatient, give up or distance themselves. after he is diagnosed and receives support through concrete steps, things begin to get better: at school, he is seated next to a supportive student in the front row of the class, he gets a notebook that lists all his assignments to help him remember and to make homework easier to track he receives it for all subjects only once a week. to relax he is allowed to use fidget objects during lessons and take short breaks when needed. after school he practices speaking and listening routines with the specialist. additionally, his dad bikes with him to school every morning and in the afternoon he is allowed to play the ball as long as he wishes. for severe cases of ADHD prescription drugs are often prescribed. before that happens children like Leo need to undergo a professional age-appropriate diagnosis by a child psychologist who will try to look below the surface.   ADHD could just be the tip of the iceberg the root cause might be drama at home, bullying at school, poor sleep or the wrong diet. Sir Ken Robinson told the story of Gillian Lynne, an 8-year-old girl that was said to have a learning disorder. she could not concentrate and never sat still. when she was brought to the specialist who didn’t subscribe any therapy but instead played music on the radio, the girl started dancing. he then told her mother: “Gillian isn’t sick, she’s a dancer. take her to a dance school!” Gillian Lynne later became a famous dancer and then responsible for some of the most successful musicals in Broadway history. please share your thoughts in the comments below. if you are hyperactive or if you are diagnosed with ADHD please tell us about your coping mechanisms so we can learn more about it from reading your insights. if you want to support our Channel, enabling us to make more such videos, visit patreon.com/sprouts and check out what we do. As found on YouTube Brain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your own brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it! OIP-c2

Benefits of Raw Food over Cooked Food

  When we say health if someone says you have no ailment it does not mean you’re healthy when I wake up in the morning or you feel alive and bouncy but not the word health comes from the word hope you must have a certain sense of wholeness of body mind energy and the fundamental nature of your existence if all these things are in alignment now when you wake up in the morning you feel like you just born if this happens to you that means you’re healthy one simple thing all your girls can do is just bring 40 to 50% of the food in its raw form that means it’s alive it must be a live cell it can be a vegetable it can be of fruit it can be enacted can be sprouted gram at least forty to fifty percent the food that you eat must be alive you eat dead food and you want to live this is a little difficult thing to do because you have to raise the dead now when you cook the fruit to tie just the food all the ingredients necessary for touches are not in the body alone the food also brings the enzymes when you cook the food you are largely destroying these enzymes – the enzymes when you eat now the body has to struggle to reconstruct that part that has been destroyed and then only it can digest normally first one one and a half hours after eating it tends to take the body down after that slowly it’s a Commerce so food is for energy but we are making the food in such a way that it takes our energy in the first one and a half hours only after that slowly it comes back anyway however good your digestive process is still you can never reconsider reconstitute all the enzymes that we have destroyed by cooking only partly we can do that if your digestive process is very strong and good you reconstitute about 40 to 50 percent of what’s been destroyed if it is a little timid kind of digestion it’s much less so whichever way if you’re eating cooked food 50 to 60 percent of the food that you’re eating is generally going waste but the body has to still process that and the amount of energy that it spends and the amount of trauma that it goes through is very big would means many things to many people but essentially for the body it’s a few out if you put the right kind of fuel this will be on in a certain way if you put the wrong kind of you will somehow it will manage I’m not telling you eat this way eat that way this experiment and see alright just experiment and see tonight if you go in so we thing whatever cooked food just eat fruits and see tomorrow morning you will not need an alarm bell you will wake up before the alarm bell and you will see all these eyes will not be sticking like this like that you wake up instantly your bright and alert people do not know what it means to be at absolute ease within their body 95% of the people do not know this unfortunately because you put the wrong kind of fuel you can keep this body like grease simply it goes ahead of you you don’t have to drag it wherever you go it must float ahead of you you can do this just put in the right kind of fuel [Music] [Music] you   As found on YouTube Brain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it! OIP-c2

I Played the NEW 1.20 Update in Minecraft Hardcore

 
Minecraft has just released the brand new 1.20 update, which introduces a bunch of interesting stuff to the game, such as archeology armor trims, new mobs, and much more. So today, I updated my hardcore world to the new update, and our goal is to explore all the new features. The very first thing I want to discover is the cherry blossom biome because I strongly believe that Minecraft copied the custom biome that I built in this video. Like, come on, they’re identical! Come on, Minecraft, at least give me some credit. I’m just kidding, but we’re going to have to fly like 5,000 blocks to reach the new world because I’ve already generated a ton of world space by flying around. So, yeah, let’s start flying to generate some new land. Wait, there’s bamboo right here. Hold up, I just remembered there’s a brand new block in the game. If we grab some bamboo right here, bam! I don’t know what it does, but it looks kind of cool though. Now we can turn the blocks of bamboo into bamboo planks, which are just yellow wood. It’s kind of like you just peed over Oakwood and it got stained. But using all these bamboo planks, you can craft a lot of things, basically everything in Minecraft. That’s pretty cool. Oh, and I just remembered, you can finally edit signs. You say hello, done, and then you get hello. And then you can right-click it and edit it again. Like, subscribe. Thank you, Minecraft, for finally adding that. That is the bamboo. Let’s go find the cherry stuff. I’m pretty excited about this new biome because it adds one block that I love. Do you guys know what that is? Wait, what am I doing? I could travel in the Nether. I am so stupid. Because traveling one block in the Nether is equivalent to traveling eight blocks in the Overworld. Let’s go ahead and grab some obsidian so I can craft a portal. I got flint and steel and fly into the Nether. Yep, that was a cool transition. Didn’t take me a while to do. Let’s fly to the top of the Nether and let’s just fly straight in some random direction. Okay, this should be good enough. I’m gonna build an arrow pointing back in my direction so I don’t forget because I didn’t write down my coordinates, which is kind of stupid. Let’s craft a portal though. I am bam! And let’s just see where it takes us. Please be right in the middle of a cherry blossom biome. Um, okay, I’m in a cave. Okay, we’re in a new land because this water just flowed. We got an achievement called Subspace Bubble. And I don’t want to forget where this Nether portal is, so I’m just gonna… Oh, okay, we ran right into the water. Let’s just mine a staircase up to the surface and see where we’re at. And we’re not anywhere fancy. Okay, I don’t want to forget where my portal is, so I’m just gonna build up here and build some structure so I don’t forget where I was. Alright, let’s go exploring. Let’s see what we can find. Is there anything nearby? Oh, it looks like there’s a shipwreck right here. I might be able to find my first-ever ruin. I think it’s called. It’s those weird thingies that you can put on your armor. Now, where’s the chest at? You can’t hide from me forever. I’m coming for you. And… nothing. There’s a buried treasure map, though. And maybe using this, I can find my first-ever ruin. I just realized it’s not even called ruins. I’m talking about armor trims. Yeah, I’m not the smartest person in the world, but I’m right over the top of it. Let’s dig around. I need my first-ever armor trim. Where… where is this thing? Oh, it’s right here. Wait, it’s not right there. What? I’m right over the top of it. How deep is this thing? Oh, it’s right there. Okay, please. Oh my God, is it loaded? But… um, nothing that fancy. That was a waste of time. Oh, there’s also an abandoned Nether portal here. I’m not sure if armor trims gonna spawn in these. I might as well give it a try. Let’s see. And nothing. I’ll replace my flint and steel, though. It’s not considered stealing if I put mine back, right? It’s just a little more damaged. I’m also gonna steal the gold, though. I mean, that’s stealing. And let’s fly away as if nothing happened. Okay, there’s also a snow village right here. I’m just looking for my first-ever armor trim. Anything? Nope. I’m going on a limb, but it looks like I’m in Canada. Why? Well, because these guys are living in igloos. Uh, why am I making fun of Canadians? I’m Canadian myself. This is a friendly fire. But there’s no luck. I can’t find any armor trims. Alright, I guess it’s a lot harder than I thought to find. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. ↯ This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind.   Read More: Why China is Shrinking VERY Fast As found on YouTube

Why China is Shrinking VERY Fast

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  2022 is a year that will go down in history as one of the most significant of the entire 21st century for many reasons. One of the biggest reasons was that 2022 marked the very first time in more than 300 years that China ceased being the world’s most populous country, according to official Chinese State data that was released this year. 2022 marked the first time in more than 60 years that the Chinese population had recorded a decline, the first decline since the depths of the great Chinese famine back in 1960 and 61 that claimed the lives of tens of millions. In 2022, China’s population decreased by around 850,000 people, and it is now primed to continue decreasing every single year for the next several decades. This fact will profoundly change and influence the kind of world that we all live in. After decent narrowing the gap, India finally officially emerged as the world’s newest most populous country just a few months ago in April of 2023, a title that will likely continue holding over China for the rest of the 21st century. Going forward, as the Indian population continues to grow while China’s continues to shrink, in less than 40 years from now, by 2060, India’s population is projected to further accelerate towards the 1.7 billion people mark before finally stabilizing and contracting slightly by the end of the century. Meanwhile, China’s first year of population decline in 2022 heralds only the beginning of a decades-long process in which the Chinese population will historically speaking begin rapidly declining. In less than 30 years from now, by 2050, China’s population is very likely to lose somewhere between 100 and 200 million people from where it’s at today. And by the end of the century in 2100, China’s population may decline from the 1.41 billion it still is today to as few as only 800 million, representing what will be nothing less than the quickest population decline of any civilization in human history. By that point, the Chinese population may only be around half the size of India’s end-of-century projected population of around 1.5 to 1.6 billion. Today, in 2023, the Chinese population still accounts for around 18% of the entire human population. For centuries now, at least dating back to the 1700s, nearly one in five humans on the planet have consistently found themselves in China, a fact that has given every Chinese government for hundreds of years now a tremendous amount of influence in global affairs through sheer size. Just for the sake of context, there are more people alive in China right now than in all of Europe, North America, and Australia combined. But if the United Nations population projections for China hold to 2100, when China’s population is expected to decline to as few as only 800 million, there might be a new world very soon in which the Chinese population entering into the 22nd century will only account for less than 8% of the worldwide human population. This fact will significantly weaken China’s demographic influence and clout in global affairs like it has never seen before. But for Beijing, the future looks a lot worse than even this initially suggests. While China’s population enters into a long period of decline starting now, the population of China’s primary geopolitical rival, the United States, is likely to only continue growing. The same U.N. population projections estimated that by the end of the 21st century, America’s population will probably increase from the present to somewhere around 400 million, which by then will only be around half of China’s 800 million. This will be a completely different reality than the one we have today, where China and America’s populations are each in completely separate leagues, wherein China is roughly four and a quarter times the population base of the United States, giving China a significant advantage in manpower fit for military service and available workers for labor and manufacturing and factory jobs. But by the end of the century, this massive demographic advantage that China currently enjoys over the United States today will almost certainly diminish significantly, and doubly so when you factor in the rest of America’s military allies in NATO and key East Asian allies like Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, plus Australia. Yeah, this American-led alliance structure already today in 2023 has a population of around a billion people living within it, which is about 70% of China’s total population right now. In the event of a conflict between China and every single one of those countries today, China still holds all on its own the advantage in available manpower to pull from. Many countries in the American alliance network are facing steep population declines as well, like Japan, South Korea, Italy, and many others. But others like the United States, Australia, Canada, and France are continuing to grow and are expected to keep growing. Ultimately, meaning that the U.S.-led alliance network in North America, Europe, Oceania, and East Asia is likely to keep its combined population more or less consistent throughout the 21st century. And that means that at some point in the near-ish future, not too much after the year 2050, the American-led Western alliance network will collectively begin approaching the total number of citizens and available manpower that China has under its control, tilting the demographic advantage over to Washington’s side. In addition to Washington’s pre-existing advantages in military technology, hardware, and finances, this realization that from now on, China’s population base will be shrinking through the rest of the 21st century will have profound influences and impacts on both China and America’s foreign policies and geopolitical events going forward. Especially as the People’s Republic weighs its ability and ideal time scale to successfully conduct a military invasion of Taiwan. Beijing now realizes that its demographic window of opportunity to exact its desired changes upon the world order, like establishing firm political control over Taiwan, is limited and beginning to close shut. And will almost certainly completely shut together by the early 2030s, next decade. This fact implies that if the People’s Republic is going to invade Taiwan, the best opportunity for them to do so will be either before that window closes shut for good or never at all. It suggests that a Chinese invasion of Taiwan will most likely happen within the next eight years from en this video is released or it will never happen at all. So how did China even get itself into this situation, and what will be the world’s fastest shrinking population since it has been the world’s most populous country for so long? Ever since the era of the Qing dynasty in China in the early 1700s, China has continually been the home of the world’s largest popular a period of roughly four decades between 1911 and 1948, China faced significant internal and external crises and pressures that kept the population from growing very quickly as the Western world was industrializing and growing rapidly. In 1911, a revolution toppled the centuries-old Qing Dynasty and suddenly overthrew more than 2,000 years of Imperial rule in China. What had constituted China was quickly catapulted into nearly universal chaos as ethnically separate regions of the Qing Dynasty, like Mongolia and Tibet, declared their independence, while several aspiring warlords rose to local power across much of the rest of the country, all as the central government, calling itself the Republic of China, was increasingly failing to maintain its control and authority. Then, the Chinese Communists, led by Mao Zedong, rose and began fighting a decade-long civil war with the Republic of China’s government in 1927. A devastating civil war that was massively interrupted when the Japanese decided to take advantage of China’s internal chaos by invading and biting off Manchuria in 1931 before launching a full-scale invasion and conquest across the whole of China in 1937 that would last until 1945 and claim the lives of somewhere around 20 million people. During that invasion, the Republic of China’s government and the Communists briefly set aside their civil war to fight together against the Japanese. But after it was concluded in 1945, the civil war almost immediately resumed for another four years until 1949 when the Communists finally emerged mostly victorious and proclaimed the People’s Republic of China over the mainland that we know today. While the Republic of China’s government retreated to the island of Taiwan, where it also remains in control to this day. No peace agreement or armistice between them has ever been signed, and so the civil war between them continues on paper to this day, with the Communists on the mainland claiming the island of Taiwan as a rogue province of China that they are the legal government of, and with the Republic of China on Taiwan officially claiming that all of the mainland are a series of rogue provinces of China that they are the legal government of. Both governments recognize Taiwan as a core province of their idea of China; they just disagree on who should be the rightful government of China. After the People’s Republic of China invaded Tibet in 1950 and then annexed it in 1951, the country emerged with its presently recognized shape after almost exactly 40 years’ worth of continuous wars and conflicts waged across the whole of China that probably collectively claimed the lives of well over 30 million people and understandably cut down on China’s ability to grow its population base. But after 1951, China emerged from all of that chaos mostly unified under the single, strongly centralized government of the Chinese Communist Party, and so a long era of relative peace and stability has followed ever since, with the civil war remaining between the mainland and Taiwan staying a cold one for now. During times of war, chaos, and uncertainty, people are less hopeful about their future and less likely to have children. Conversely, during times of general peace and stability, people are much more hopeful about their future and more likely to have children. And so, a baby boom took off in China following the conclusion of the civil war in 1949, similar to the baby boom that also happened in post-war E25 years America. Over just 25 years between 1950 and 1975, China’s population completely skyrocketed by nearly 66% as the country added in around 364 million people. And that’s even after including the period of the great Chinese famine, which lasted between 1959 and 1961 and claimed the lives of anywhere between 15 and 55 million people in the country, wherein China saw its final two years of population decline until the 21st century in 1960 and 61. After the famine ended, China’s baby boom generation entered the world during a period from 1963 to 1975 when there were more than 20 million births taking place within China every single one of those years. By 1970, the average Chinese woman was still having 6.1 children each, at the same time when American and German women were only having an average of 2.3. This led to widespread fears within the Chinese Communist Party leadership at the time that China was facing a massive and endemic overpopulation problem that would hinder the country’s future, as the government would struggle to cartoon videos for so many new people. Thus, to combat the perceived specter of overpopulation, the ChineLatermmunist Party introduced the “later, longer, fewer” campaign in 1973. It raised the legal age of marriage in the country up to 23 for women and 25 for men, strongly encouraged a three-year waiting period between births, and restricted the number of children to only two per family, with penalties that would be applied to people who failed to comply. The policy ultimately proved to be very successful very quickly, as the average birth rate of 6.1 children per woman in China in 1970 crashed down to 2.7 children per woman only a decade later in 1980. But 2.7 births per woman was still well above the replacement ratio of 2.1 children per woman, meaning that China’s population was continuing to grow despite the “later, longer, fewer” campaign. The government felt that the policy hadn’t gone far enough to curb China’s inevitable future. A long time ago, the government of China wanted to make sure that there were not too many people in the country. They made some rules to help with this. They said that people could only get married when they were older, and they had to wait for a few years between having babies. They also said that families could only have two children. If people didn’t follow these rules, they would get in trouble. These rules worked very well, and not as many babies were being born. But the government still wanted fewer babies, so they made another rule. They said that families in cities could only have one child was a vastly overpopulated state, so it was followed up with the now well-known one-child policy that was launched nationwide across China in 1980. A policy that strictly limited urban couples in the country to only being allowed to have a single child. The policy was slightly relaxed by the mid-1980s to allow ethnic minority groups in the country and rural families to have up to two children, but only under the condition that their firstborn child was a girl because of widespread cultural preferences in China for boys, who were viewed as the ones that would take care of their parents in old age. The one-child policy led to decades worth of well-documented gender-selective abortions of female pregnancies and girls passed up for adoption so the couples could try again for their preferred only male child, a practice that became so widespread following the adoption of the one-child policy that it has created numerous demographic consequences for China today in the 21st century. It’ll be difficult to reverse. One study published back in 2015 in the Population and Development Review suggests that there are around 62 million missing women and girls in China today who would have otherwise been born or not adopted by foreigners had the one-child policy never been enacted. And as a consequence, China’s population today has a lopsided gender ratio, where there are probably somewhere around 35 million more men than there are women and about 17.5 million more men than there are women in the 20 to 40 age range who are considered potentially marriageable. This implies that around 17.5 million young men in China will simply never be able to find a woman to marry and start a family with unless they search abroad. Furthermore, as a result of decades worth of the government’s intervention to crush the national birth rate, births indeed began to plummet in China from the 1990s, a decade into the one-child policy. The fertility rate in China had already dropped to just 1.5 children per woman by the 2010s, and as of 2020, it has fallen to a historic low of only 1.3 children per woman. This means that China’s birth rate has been well beneath the replacement level of 2.1 children per woman that is required to keep the population stable for decades now, pretty much ever since the 1990s. By the 2010s, the Chinese Communist Party leadership began to recognize that the country was beginning to tip from the panic of overpopulation that gripped them in the 1970s and 80s to the new and opposite problem of depopulation and terminal demographic decline. In 2013, the one-child policy was slightly relaxed to allow any parents in the country who themselves were only children to have a second child, regardless of gender. Then, finally, in 2016, after 36 years of being on the books in China, the one-child policy was officially ended, and all couples in the country were allowed to begin having two children again. And then just a few years later, in 2021, recognizing the severity of the problems their policies in the 70s and 80s had created, the government rolled out the new and current three-child policy, allowing and even encouraging, with tax incentives, all Chinese families to have up to three children. But these recent policies are, for the most part, too little and too late for the country, a fact that becomes much more obvious when you take a look at China’s current population pyramid that tracks the ages of all the 1.4 billion people who lived in the country circa 2020. Note the huge bulge in China’s population of people roughly between the ages of 45 and 60, the baby boom generation of China that I mentioned earlier, born after the Great Famine between 1961 and 1975. This is the largest cohort of China’s age group. They are all beginning right now to enter into mass retirement as they age into their 60s, with significantly fewer amounts of young people beneath them who can support them. In demography, there is the concept of the working-age population, made up of people between 15 and 64. Any younger than that are children who aren’t working jobs and contributing to the economy, and any older are mostly retirees who are also no longer working jobs and contributing to the economy. And then even further, there is the prime age population, the age of citizens who are working the hardest, earning the most income, and paying the most taxes, which are people between the ages of 25 and 54. The higher the percentage of the overall population that this age group represents within a country, the generally stronger potential that country’s economy has. And conversely, the higher the percentage of people over 64 in retirement ages, known as the old-age dependency ratio, the less potential that country’s economy has because you just have more people in retirement who are no longer contributing to the economy and consuming more resources to support themselves in old age. China’s working-age population of people between 15 and 64 already peaked back in 2016, while China’s prime-age population of people aged between 25 and 54 peaked even earlier, more than a decade ago, back in 2011. China’s old-age dependency ratio, the percentage of the population over the age of 64 in retirement, has been steadily increasing every single year since 2016. So as China’s population keeps declining in overall terms, the ratio of China’s remaining population will increasingly become older and older. And as more die from old age and enter retirement, there are fewer and fewer young people left to take their place. This means that ever since 2016, China has faced an ever-increasing shortage of workers with every passing year as more and more people enter retirement age. And unless China can attract significant immigrants from abroad to replace those workers, the country now faces a permanently decreasing amount of labor with every passing year. It will steadily result in increasing costs for scarcer Chinese labor and make Chinese manufacturing increasingly less competitive and inflationary. And it’s doubtful that China will be capable of attracting significant immigration because China has the lowest levels of immigrants of any mostly developed country in the world today. Germany and the United States, France, the UK, Italy, and other countries have all largely solved their own declining birth rate problems by encouraging millions of young migrants from abroad to relocate to their countries and assume many of the jobs the aging populations have retired from. And even countries that are less well-known for immigration, like Russia, South Korea, and Japan, all still have significantly higher ratios of immigrants than China, which is only at about 0.1% of their overall population. China has virtually no modern history of large-scale immigration, and unless something radical changes in the country, this is likely to remain the case. And that means that China’s rapidly aging and shrinking population is set to become a major drag on the Chinese economy going forward for the next several decades. A similar situation to what has already played out in Japan in both demographic and economic terms. China appears, in a lot of ways, to be around 30 years ahead of Japan. Back in 1950, Japan had a massive young population at the bottom of their population pyramid, with a median age of only 21 compared to America’s 29, just like how China had 30 years later in 1980. Japan then benefited tremendously from decades worth of explosive economic growth that even outpaced growth in the United States as this bulge of hyper-productive young people moved their way through the overall population pyramid and became an increasingly larger percentage of the overall Japanese population. The GDP per capita in Japan skyrocketed from only 16% of the levels in the United States in 1960 to 154% of it 35 years later in 1995. Fears were rampant on Wall Street in the 1980s and early 90s that the Japanese economy was seemingly destined to overtake America as the largest in the world. And the closest it got was in 1995 when the Japanese economy was about 73% the size of America’s, a similar ratio to China’s and around 76% of the U.S. economy today in 2023. But as Japan rapidly developed across that time, Japan’s birth rate also began rapidly declining alongside it. And by the early 1990s, around the same time as Japan’s GDP per capita peaked, Japan’s prime-age working population also peaked at roughly the same time Japan’s median age surpassed America’s median age. And ever since 1995, the percentage of elderly people in Japan older than 64 has been growing as a larger percentage of the overall population. Consequently, Japan’s GDP per capita has steadily decreased nearly every single year since then, and Japan’s economy has remained largely stagnant for nearly 30 years of history ever since. As of 2022, the Japanese GDP is still smaller than it was 27 years before, back in 1995, as Japan’s overall population has continually grown older and entered into a state of continuous decline that began back in 2008. China’s demographic and economic experiences are increasingly seeming to almost mirror this process that already took place in Japan. In 1980, China had a massive young population at the bottom of its population pyramid and a median age of only 21 compared to America’s 29, exactly like how Japan had in 1950. China then experienced decades worth of explosive economic growth, buoyed by this rising tide of young and highly productive workers rising through the population pyramid and becoming an ever-increasingly higher percentage of the overall Chinese population. It was during this period from 1980 onwards through roughly the present that China became known as the world’s factory, a period in which Chinese labor was abundant and wages were cheap, the period in which China’s global competitiveness as a manufacturing hub was unmatched anywhere in the world because of its massive and cheap labor force. But China’s birth rate also crashed during this period. And so, by 2011, China’s prime-age labor force peaked and then began declining as an overall percentage of the population. In 2012, China’s working-age population aged 15 to 64 peaked and then began steadily declining in 2016. Overall, the text has been significantly improved in terms of grammar and clarity. However, there may still be some areas that could be further refined for better readability.   Similar to how Japan began shrinking back in 1995, the growth rate of GDP in China has already begun to decelerate from the seven percent seen in 2015 to as little as three percent in 2022. This is partially due to China’s old-age dependency ratio increasing and the working-age population shrinking. Chinese manufacturing, which is the backbone of the Chinese economy, will continue to decline in competitiveness as the labor pool becomes more scarce and wages rise to compensate. This will create more inflationary pressure on companies and countries that rely on Chinese manufacturing. However, this decline in China’s manufacturing industry will tremendously benefit other countries like India and Mexico, whose economies still have room to develop and who have massive young populations at the bottom of their population pyramids. These populations will surge through their working and earning years over the next several decades. India and Mexico are therefore the most well-poised countries to supplant China’s increasingly less competitive manufacturing industry by 2030. By 2030, China’s median age will be about five and a half years older than America’s, and by 2033, China’s old-age dependency ratio of people older than 64 will exceed America’s. The growth rate of China’s GDP is generally expected to fall beneath America’s growth rate sometime between 2031 and 2035, and it will probably never be capable of catching back up again, just like Japan’s. China’s economy is already demographically peaked, just like Japan’s peaked back in the mid-1990s. Beginning in the early 2030s, China’s economy will likely begin stagnating, just like Japan’s did, in the face of continued growth in America. As China’s population ages, China’s available manpower fit for military service will also continue to decline. China’s demographic decline from the 2030s onwards will be a gradual process, rather than something that happens overnight. China will most likely retain its position as the world’s second-largest economy for decades to come. However, there is a significant gap between China’s waning demographic and economic strengths and Beijing’s ultimate geopolitical objectives, such as establishing political control over Taiwan. The strategic calculus involved in accomplishing this goal and realizing that China’s strengths will decline relative to its rivals shortly may lead to China’s leadership becoming susceptible to a more aggressive foreign policy. This could include strategic miscalculations and misjudgments, similar to the path that Russia has taken after the collapse of the Soviet Union in 1991. Russia has faced an aging and declining population nearly every year since then. As military planners in the Kremlin realized that their population was in a state of terminal decline and that their demographic strengths would be weaker in the future, the Russian government adopted an increasingly aggressive foreign policy to accomplish its goals of restoring authority across the former Soviet Union. This culminated in the invasion of Georgia in 2008, the first invasion of Ukraine and annexation of Crimea in 2014, the intervention in Syria in 2015, and the full-scale invasion of Ukraine in 2022. The foreign policy calculus within Beijing is now becoming highly similar to Russia’s since the mid-2000s. China’s population is set to decline every year for the next several decades. The longer the Chinese Communist Party waits to act militarily on its ultimate foreign policy objective of establishing control over Taiwan, the harder it will be for them to do so as their economy and manpower reserves dwindle in the face of the American-led alliance network that will likely oppose any invasion attempt. The Chinese government has never renounced its right to use force to bring Taiwan under its control, as Chinese President Xi Jinping publicly stated during the October 2022 Chinese Communist Party National Congress. There likely exists a narrow window of opportunity between 2027 and 2031 in which the People’s Republic of China will have the highest likelihood of success during an attempted invasion of Taiwan. This is because, in 2027, the People’s Liberation Army (PLA) will experience its 100th anniversary and finish its scheduled modernization and reform plan. China’s armed forces have to be ready and extensively prepared for a lightning operation to ideally win and subjugate Taiwan before any foreign intervention can take place. By 2027, Xi Jinping will almost certainly be awarded a fourth term as China’s president, and in 2031, he will be turning 78 years old, which is the average life expectancy in China. In the early to mid-2030s, China’s population will be rapidly declining and aging, and the Chinese economy will likely be stagnating and growing slower than America’s. If China is going to invade Taiwan, the best opportunity will be between 2027 and 2031, before the PLA finishes its reforms and modernization and before Xi Jinping grows too old and the Chinese demographic time bomb begins to set off. If they wait too long past that point, the best opportunity to invade will be lost, and they may never be able to force Taiwan into the People’s Republic of China again. Now, I know that many of you are highly motivated individuals who value your time. That’s why I want to introduce you to our video sponsor, HelloFresh. HelloFresh is a meal kit that gives you all the benefits of cooking at home without the downsides. You can select from 40 weekly recipes, and a box will arrive on your doorstep with all the ingredients and recipes you need to cook those meals. This cuts out the boring and time-consuming parts of shopping and prepping, so you can skip straight to the fun part of cooking. 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