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this episode was pre-recorded
as part of a live continuing education webinar on-demand CEUs are
still available for this presentation AllCEUs.com/Anxiety-CEU I’d like to welcome everybody to today’s
presentation on best practices for the treatment of anxiety I am your host, Dr. Dawn Elise Snipes now not too long ago we did
a presentation on strengths-based biopsychosocial approaches to addressing anxiety while
those are wonderful you know I thought maybe we ought to look at you know what’s some of the
current research so I went into PubMed which is I don’t know it’s a playground for me it’s where
you find a lot of journal articles and you can sort I sorted by articles that were
done and meta-analyses that were done within the past five years so that gives us an idea
about current research I mean there’s a lot of stuff that is still the same like some of
the medications that were known to work ten years ago are still known to be you know good
first-line treatments but there are also some newcomers that we’ll talk about and there are
also some changes that we’re going to talk about so we’re going to explore some common causes
for anxiety symptoms to treat, we need to and of course, this does play into
the biopsychosocial aspect we need to understand kind of what causes it because anxiety
that’s caused by for example somebody having a racing heart may be different than anxiety that’s
caused for somebody who has abandonment issues so we’re gonna treat the two things differently so
we want to look at some of the common causes we’re gonna look at some common triggers for anxiety
Do you know what are some of these common themes that we see in practice I will ask you to share
some of the themes that you see that underline or underlie a lot of your client’s anxiety and
identify current best practices for anxiety management including counseling interventions
medications physical interventions and supportive treatments so we care because anxiety can
be debilitating and a lot of our clients have anxiety a lot of our clients have anxiety
comorbid with depression and they’re looking at us going how can I feel anxious and stressed out
and like I can’t sit still and be depressed at the same time you know when you’re depressed you’re
supposed to want to sleep well a lot of times people who have both issues want to
sleep but they can’t so I want to help clients understand that also sometimes anxiety when
people are anxious for long enough the body starts kind of holding on to the cortisol the body
recognizes at a certain point this is a losing battle I’m not going to put energy into
this anymore so it starts withdrawing some of its excitatory neurotransmitters so to speak and
people will start to feel depressed the brain has already said this is hopeless this is
you’re helpless to change the situation so then people start feeling hopeless and helpless
which is sort of the definition if you will of depression low-grade chronic stress and anxiety
arose energy and people’s ability to concentrate so if we’re going to help them become their uber
selves we need to help them figure out how to address anxiety not just generalized overwhelming
debilitating anxiety but also panic social anxiety and those minor anxiety triggers that come along
that may not meet the threshold for diagnosis anxiety is a major trigger for addiction relapse
if you have a client who is self-medicated before or had an addiction for some reason anxiety is a
major trigger increased physical pain when anxiety goes up people tend to tense their muscles when
they tense their muscles they tend to feel more pain I mean think about when you’re stressed you
tend to have more pain like in your neck your back and things that already hurt may hurt more
why because serotonin which is one of our major anti-anxiety neurotransmitters is also one of our
major pain modulators so when serotonin levels are too low because anxiety is high then our pain
perception is going to be more acute and people can have sleep problems if they’re stressed out
your body thinks there’s a threat you’re not going to be able to get into that deep restful
sleep you may have you may sleep you may sleep a lot but it’s probably not quality sleep which
means your neurotransmitters may get out of whack your hormones make it out of whack and your body
is going to start perceiving yourself in a persistent state of stress when you’re exhausted
the body knows that we may be the weakest link in the herd so it continues to secrete cortisol
to keep you on alert a little bit so you may again you may be resting kind of like when
you have a new baby at home those first couple of months that my children were home from the
hospital I slept but I didn’t sleep well I mean the slightest little noise and I was awake and I
was looking around and you know I felt it I felt exhausted and a lot of new parents do so triggers
for anxiety abandonment and rejection and we’re going to talk about ways we might want to deal
with these things but some of the underlying themes that I’ve seen in a lot of clients and when
I do the research and a lot of what themes that come out include low self-esteem if someone has
low self-esteem they’re looking to be externally validated oftentimes they’re looking for somebody
else to tell them you’re lovable you’re okay so that can lead to anxiety about not having
people to tell them you’re okay which makes their relationships tenuous and can make them
dysfunctional irrational thoughts and cognitive distortions may lead people to believe that if I’m
not perfect for example I am not lovable so we’re going to look at some irrational thoughts and
cognitive distortions unhealthy social supports and relationships when you’re in a relationship
it takes two to tango and even if your client is relatively mentally and physically healthy if they
are in a dysfunctional relationship they can fear abandonment and rejection if that other person
is always saying if you don’t do X I’m going to leave you or if that other person is always
cheating on them or whatever so relationships can trigger abandonment anxiety and ineffective
interpersonal skills can lead to relationship turmoil and social exile if our clients are in
relationships even if they’re not completely dysfunctional if our clients are not able to ask
for what they need and set appropriate boundaries and manage conflict effectively because conflict
happens in every relationship then they may start to argue more which may lead to fearing may lead
to relationships ending in the past and them going well every relationship I get into ends which
means I must not be lovable so they start fearing abandonment and rejection these are four areas
that we can look at one more assessing clients another issue is the unknown and loss of control
a lot of times negative self-talk and cognitive distortions can contribute to that if I don’t have
control of everything then it’s all going to be a disaster negative others when clients hang out
or when people hang out with negative people it kind of wears on you after a while you notice
that people who tend to be more negative pessimistic conspiracy-minded tend to hang out
with people who are also negatively pessimistic and conspiracy-minded so if you’re hanging out with
somebody who tends to be anxious then the anxiety can be palpable and it can kind of permeate
physical complaints can lead people to be anxious because they don’t know what’s causing it
like I said earlier sometimes if your heart starts to race if you don’t know what’s causing it you
can start thinking I’m having a heart attack or I’m gonna die when people have panic attacks for
the example they truly think they’re having a heart attack and it’s I’ve had them they are very
very unpleasant experiences but when people start having physical complaints and it can be you
know they have a weird rash that they can’t get to go away or whatever but when they don’t know
what it is and they can’t control it they can’t make it go away they start thinking about all
the worst-case scenarios and going online and getting on WebMD which usually gives you all the
worst-case scenarios um so physical complaints are important we need to normalize the fact that
nobody’s pain-free all the time and you know the fact that you may have an ache or a pain or a lump
or a bump or you know a cough most likely you know when we look at probability the probability of it
being something significant is pretty small now do you want to get it checked out probably but
you know the probability that is anything to be worried about is relatively small and a sense
of powerlessness can trigger fear of the unknown and loss of control for somebody who doesn’t
feel like they have any agency in their life if they have an external locus of control or
if they felt victimized all of their life then they may fear not being in control they may be
holding on and saying okay this is the one area of my life I can control when I grew up you know
I grew up in a very chaotic environment I had no control I was bounced around in the foster system
yadda yadda yadda now that I’m an adult you know I can control these things and I am going to hold
on with white knuckles and if I can’t control everything then that terrifies me to death and
loss are other triggers for anxiety and it can be people or pets and pets are important I don’t
want to minimize pets because you know they are little parts of a lot of our families so making
sure we check that my daughter’s dog for example is it’s getting old she’s getting older she’s 14
now I think and you know she’s in decent health we took her to the vet and the vet said yeah she’s
got a little heart murmur but that’s expected for a 14-year-old dog and but when she goes out if she
doesn’t come back when I call her I have this rush of anxiety for a second oh my gosh I hope this
wasn’t the day so anxious around losing people and you know if she when she crosses the bridge
she will and you know I’m okay with that I’m I have a harder time dealing with my daughter’s
emotional turmoil when that happens and because she’s grown up with this dog so you know those
are the types of things that we want to talk about with our clients what things are weighing on you
that you may not even be thinking about because I know in the back of my mind there’s always that
worry about one of our donkeys and her dog jobs and promotions can trigger anxiety if people are
afraid they’re gonna lose their job if they’re always afraid that you know they’re gonna walk in
and get a pink slip or get fired you know we want to help them look at how realistic they are
you doing what you need to do to achieve and keep your job and sometimes it’s not easy to
answer I mean the first thought that a lot of us have is well you know if you’re doing the right
thing so just do it but there are those bosses out there and I’ve had some amazing bosses
a lot of them and I’ve had two horrendous bosses and those two bosses I could never I
never felt like I was able to do anything right and so going to those jobs there was always this
anxiety about what I’m what am I going to get in trouble for today so you want to talk with people
about does your job cause anxiety what can you do to moderate that anxiety the same thing with
promotions people may get anxious about whether they’re going to get promoted to safety and security
you know when you lose safety and security you can feel anxious so if there’s a break-in at
the house next door or shooting down the road or you start watching the news you can feel very
unsafe and insecure quickly so we want to help people figure out how safe and secure are you
really and a lot of it goes back to really looking at facts when people lose their dreams and hopes
or fear that they’re going to lose their dreams and hopes they can start to get anxious you know
they have this dream that they’re going to be a doctor or I just finished the presentation on
helping high school students transition to college and a lot of high school students for example
start college with these wide eyes and hopes to save the world and they want to be doctors
and engineers and this and that and they get into it and they realize that it’s a lot harder
then they thought or they realize that you know what I don’t like this but I’ve already
committed to it so what do I do I want to help people but I can’t I can’t cut it doing this you
know for me I figured out in my second year that I wasn’t going to medical school because I wasn’t
going to pass calculus and that caused a lot of anxiety it was like okay what am I gonna do now
Do you know what career should I choose to help people figure out do they have dreams that have
maybe kind of crashed and burned and you have to find new ones you know okay that one we’ve got to
accept it figure out that it’s not going to be and what can you do now people may also have dreams
about relationships, they get into relationships and see themselves with this person forever
and then this relationship ends and or starts to get rocky and they’re like but that’s my dream
what happens if that’s got to happen because it’s my dream I don’t know how to function if
that goes away we want to help people be able to rewrite their narrative and then sickness spiders
and other phobias kind of go in with death a lot of times when people get sick they start getting
anxious that oh my gosh what if this is terminal oh my gosh what if this is you know incurable
if I get bit by a spider it’s gonna kill me and which is rare you know there are very few spiders
that is that poisonous same thing with snakes going over bridges I’ve shared with you all
that is not one of my irrational fears you know I am just terrified that you know something’s going
to happen and I’m going to get pushed off the side of the bridge which is completely irrational but
we need to help people look at those and identify the thoughts that they’re telling themself about
those phobias and dealing with that anxiety failure is another trigger for anxiety especially in
this culture our culture American culture is in large part puts a high premium on success
and perfectionism so when people realize that they’re not perfect they may start to get anxious
because they feel like if I’m not perfect then I’m a failure you know those cognitive distortions of
all-or-nothing thinking and they start with that negative self-talk you know you can’t do anything
right so those are some of the issues that you know we often see in counseling sessions so what
do we do you know somebody comes in and is like I can’t live this way doc anxiety depression and
substance disorders as well as a range of physical disorders are often comorbid so this is the first
the thing we need to realize is that we’re very rarely dealing with a very simple
diagnosis you know when somebody comes in we need to figure out you know if they come in and they’re
presenting with depression all right let’s talk about that and then we start realizing that there
depression started to occur after a long period of being anxious okay so we need
to deal with that but we also need to help them with their sense of hopelessness and helplessness
we need to develop that sense of empowerment and then substance disorders we know that substance
use is often a way of self-medicating but we also know that it monkeys with the neurochemicals
in the brain and can contribute to anxiety and depression the same thing to physical issues pain
from physical disorders anxiety about having physical disorders medications you’re taking for
physical disorders can all contribute to anxiety so we need to look at the person as a whole and go
what are all the things that are contributing to the anxiety and what are all the things that the
anxiety is contributing to so we have started having this big list of stuff that needs to be
addressed and then we can start figuring out okay where we start so knowing that these things
are comorbid helps researchers explore pathways to mental disorders so they can start figuring
out you know what little string can we pull to unravel this blanket of anxiety so it doesn’t
suffocate somebody and for us as clinicians it provides us key opportunities to intervene in you
know sometimes clients will come in and start talking about their
anxiety and their physical issues you know maybe their anxieties about you know heart
palpitations and because that’s a common one we may want to encourage them to go see the doctor to
get that ruled out you know rule out anything that has to do with hormone imbalances or you know
heart conditions or anything else that might be contributing to it which can help them address
it and if they do have physical disorders let’s go with hormone imbalances that are contributing
to the heart palpitations then they can start to treat that if they don’t start to treat that then
no amount of talk therapy we do is going to get them to the quality of life that they’re looking
for because they’re still gonna feel those so we want to make sure that we’re addressing them
holistically anxiety disorders should be treated with psychological therapy pharmacy therapy or a
combination of both and what they found and this is no surprise this is kind of old news is that
counseling Plus pharmacotherapy tends to have the best outcomes but separating the two have
similar outcomes in many cases but that’s just looking at and I hate to call it simple anxiety
but we’re just looking at anxiety symptoms here we’re not looking at the full quality of life and we
want to make sure that we’re also including any medical issues behavioral therapy is regarded
as the psychotherapy with the highest level of evidence, there are a variety of cognitive
behavioral approaches ranging from acceptance and commitment therapy to dialectical behavior
therapy to CBT to debt you know any of those that deal with the thoughts and the cognitions that fall in
that realm and it is effective in the current conceptualization of the etiology
of anxiety disorders includes an interaction of psychosocial factors such as childhood adversity
or stressful events and a genetic vulnerability so the psychosocial factors and these are other
things when we do our assessment we want to pay attention to because our approach to treatment
is going to be different for people for example who have trauma-related brain changes maybe
then for somebody who doesn’t so, we want to look at childhood adversity and stressful events
that it may have caused basically what I tell clients is like rewiring of the brain there
are trauma-related brain changes in soldiers and especially in children or in people who’ve been
exposed to extreme trauma that is designed to protect them but it also can cause complications
kind of later on in dealing with anxiety coping skills that were learned that are ineffective you
know sometimes people grow up in a household or an environment or a situation where they don’t learn
effective coping skills so we need to kind of help them unlearn those and learn new ones build on
their strengths and trauma issues that may still need to be dealt with such as domestic violence
you know if they grew up a lot around a lot of domestic violence they may think you know I’m
out of that situation it’s over I don’t want to think about it it’s not bothering me anymore or a
parental absence and I put absence because it can be death it can be a parent that just packed up
and left it could be a child that got put up for adoption whatever put the child in a position of
feeling like they were rejected by a parent can be very traumatic and bullying among other things
but there are a lot of trauma issues that people once they’re out of that situation often say you
know I’m out of it it’s not a big deal I dealt with it let’s move on and they don’t realize the
full ramifications and how that’s contributing to their current anxiety and their current self-talk
and cognitions of current stressors if somebody has a lot of current stressors that’s also going to
impact whether they develop generalized anxiety you know we’re kind of stacking the deck here and
the current availability of social support if they don’t have effective current social support then
they’re gonna have difficulty bearing the weight of everything on their shoulders so we want
to look at all these psychosocial factors when we do our assessment now going back to the trauma
issues if you’ve taken the trauma courses at all CEUs you know that some people are not ready
to acknowledge that the trauma is still bothering them or work on the trauma and that’s okay we
can educate them that it might be an issue and then let them choose how to address it but
we want to bear in mind the fact that you know this could be sort of an underlying force
motivating some of the current cognitions and genetic vulnerability so you take any three
people and you put them or 300 people and you put them through roughly the same psychosocial
situations they’re all probably going to react a little bit differently based on their prior
experiences but also because of their genetic makeup there are certain permutations and they
found four we’ll talk about later that make the brain more or less responsive to stress and
more or less responsive to serotonin which is your calming chemical so brains that are less
responsive to serotonin isn’t going to you know send out as much or send out serotonin as easily
so people can stay kind of tensed and wired that’s an oversimplified explanation but that’s
all you need for right now so genetic vulnerability impacts people’s susceptibility
to the effects and development of dependence on certain substances which can increase anxiety
when people are detoxing from alcohol when they’re detoxing from benzos when they’re detoxing from
opiates they can feel high levels of anxiety when they take opiates some people find that opiates
have wonderful anti-anxiety properties not that I am advocating for the use of opiates I’m
just client experiences have shown that that can be true so some people are going to be
more susceptible to the anti-anxiety effects of certain substances and some people are going
to be Cerrone to become dependent on substances where others may not and that part of that is
genetic vulnerability and they estimate about 30% the predictability of the development
of anxiety disorders is genetic and genetics also impact which medications are effective
if you have genetic makeup then SSRIs might be helpful then
atypical antipsychotics may be more effective and SSRIs might not do anything which is why
a lot of our clients get so frustrated because they know there’s no way to figure out exactly what I
guess there is now that there’s genetic testing out there but up until then it was harder to
figure out which medications to start with and most physicians matter of fact I don’t know of
a single physician that starts by saying well let’s do a genetic profile to see
what med to start you out with most we’ll start with events as with an SSRI or some other
anti-anxiety medication some sort of Benzo that’s been my experience so we may want
to encourage clients to consider genetic testing if they’re having difficulty finding a
medication regime that works for them and they are feeling like they have to have medication
genetic vulnerability also affects what’s going to make somebody more vulnerable now than all of you
in class today you know thinking about sleep you know sleep may not be a big deal for some of you
I know people who can go days or weeks with four or five hours of sleep and they feel fine it’s
not a big deal, not me I need eight or nine hours of sleep so genetically for whatever reason I am
programmed to need a lot of sleep so when I don’t get that much sleep I tend to be it tends to be
harder for me to deal with life on life’s terms and I know that that makes me more vulnerable to
being irritable so genetic vulnerability affects who can become addicted and affects what medications
work best and affects what situations are going to tend to make somebody more vulnerable to
anxiety so our medications and I know the type on here is small but we’re going to go through
the first-line drugs are the SSRIs selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors and SNRs is
selective norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors now the names are a little bit deceptive because
selective norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors also increase available serotonin but the mechanism
of action is different the mechanism of action for each SSRI is a little bit different as well
which is why you can put somebody on Prozac and they have an awful experience and you can put them
on Zoloft and they have a much better experience like I said earlier a lot of the research pre
five years ago had been done on medications and Zoloft paxil luvox lexapro celexa and their
generics have all been found to be effective at treating anxiety in certain people no one
medication works for everybody in the last five years effexor has come on the radar and it has
been found effective according to the Hamilton rating scale for anxiety so that’s another one to
consider if clients are not successful or getting the treatment effect that they need for on some
of the other medications obviously, none of us probably are prescribers but we do need to educate
clients about why the first drug or even the third drug that the doc tries may not work so they
don’t start feeling helpless and hopeless like I said earlier there are at least four different
genetic variations which are correlated with the development of generalized anxiety disorder and
different medications are more or less effective depending on the genetic makeup of the person
there’s a high mortality rate moving on to two benzos the recommendation has switched
to back off from the use of benzos now for some doctors will prescribe an SSRI and for the
first, four weeks while the SSRI is building up in the system they will also prescribe a Benzo
to be taken as needed to moderate the anxiety and you know you could argue on either side
of that, if somebody has a history of substance use or substance dependence benzos are really
a bad idea because they do have a high rate of dependence but the other reasons that they are now
cautioning against the use of benzodiazepines is that there’s a higher mortality rate among benzo
users compared with non-users there’s an increased risk for dependence with use for more than six
months and that’s a long time to be using Benzo and when we’re talking about dependence and six
months we’re talking about somebody who uses it like every four hours or every eight hours
depending on your Benzo every single day, not a PRN user if somebody’s using it at night to
help them go to sleep or you know three or four times a week when the anxiety gets high
the risk of dependence is relatively low but a lot of people with anxiety because if they find
the right Benzo makes them feel so much better they may not want to be off of it and for a lot of
people when that benzo reaches its half-life and starts getting out of the system even more their
anxiety spikes you know they have rebound anxiety which they want to medicate with more benzos
that’s gonna be an issue for them to discuss with their doctor there’s also an increased risk
of dementia identified in long-term benzodiazepine users again this is for the people who use you
know throughout the day every day for six months or relatively every day for six months or more
and it doesn’t matter if it’s you know we’re talking about somebody who’s 65 or somebody
who’s 35 who’s been using Benzos for you know six months a year two years the risk of later
life dementia is greatly increased according to the research benzodiazepines also don’t treat
depression okay so if you’ve got somebody who has concurrent anxiety and depression there’s a much
higher suicide risk if they’re on benzodiazepines so being aware and generally that suicide risk
comes from overdosing on benzodiazepines but not always other treatment options you know if the
benzos aren’t something that people want to touch you know they scare the living daylights out of
I SSRIs and SNRIs don’t seem to be working then tricyclic antidepressants can be tried on those
your older generation antidepressant seroquel is used a lot and there are some there’s some
research that shows it can be effective with anxiety like some of the antidepressants and
depending on the person the benzos seroquel can make people very very very sleepy so you know
it may not be the side effects of the Seroquel the weight gain and the fatigue and you know
sleepiness may be an unacceptable side effect for some clients and boosts perón is the third option
boost Barone works more like an anti-depressive serotonin reuptake inhibitor and that it takes
you know four weeks or so to kind of build up in the system studies have shown that there’s really
no long-term benefit to taking it but after six months to eighteen months of use it has been shown to
be effective in talking with clients a lot of clients report that boost bar when they take it
doesn’t necessarily help them stop being anxious like a benzodiazepine does but it helps them not
go from zero to 200 in 2.3 seconds it kind of you know keeps them from having this gush of a freak
out reaction every time something goes wrong which a lot of clients report helps because they feel
more stable throughout the day after remission medication should be continued for six to twelve
months and during that last six months first six months keep it as is last six months you know
they say that tapering is best it’s best not to stop somebody cold turkey on any of these but
it’s important for people once they’re in remission to not just suddenly go okay I feel
better I don’t need any of this anymore they need to work into it and make sure they’ve developed
the skills and tools that they need to deal with some of the anxiety that is going to
happen in life so physical signs and symptoms of anxiety may include fatigue irritability muscle
tension or muscle aches try laying feeling twitchy being easily startled trouble sleeping nausea
diarrhea irritable bowel syndrome headaches so the first thing we want to do with clients when we’re
talking to them well second thing first thing is say get a physical let’s rule out physiological
causes of this but we can also help clients look at you know what might be causing these
things that you can do to mitigate it what might be contributing to your fatigue what might be
contributing to your irritability and your muscle tension or your muscle aches I mean let’s look at
economics did you recently get a new bed or do you need to get a new bed what about your desk chair I
know you know I get more muscle tension and muscle achy when I do a lot of mousing because I have
deplorable posture being becoming aware of that helps and then I’m like okay well I know it caused
unfortunately, it’s unpleasant but it’s not a big deal trembling or feeling twitchy you know
that can be caused by low blood sugar that can be caused anxiety that can also be caused
by early onset Parkinson’s symptoms you know there’s you know it can be worst case scenario
or it can be something benign so we want to have people figure out you know when you start
trembling or feeling twitchy is there something that it’s related to you know I know when my
son gets excited he’s he just sits there and you can see him almost shake because he’s so
excited about something so we want to have people prevent misidentification we don’t want them
to jump to that worst-case scenario we don’t want them to go onto WebMD and go oh my gosh I’ve
got cancer I’ve got this debilitating disease and I’m going to die in six months probabilistic Lee
speaking it’s not gonna happen yes get a doctor’s opinion I’m certainly not going to tell them it’s
all in your head I want them to get an evaluation but I do want to in the meantime
help them think about how likely is this and other things for headaches and this is
one another one of those that can be frustrating as we get older our eyesight starts to go and
you know there was a period there I did fine and then after I hit 45 my eyesight just started
to like steadily and kind of rapidly in my mind decline so I have to get my eyeglass prescription
changed every couple of years and that can cause headaches so instead of starting to worry
about oh my gosh I’ve got a headache all the time maybe I’ve got a brain tumor you know I know that
it’s probably my glasses or I’m grinding my teeth so other biological interventions that
have been evaluated there’s something called the floatation rest system that reduced environmental
stimulation therapy reduces sensory input into the nervous system through the act of floating
supine which is on your back in a pool of water saturated with Epsom salt you know I’m looking at
this going sounds good and you can’t quite get the same experience in a bathtub because
you’re not floating you’ve got pressure points and you’re still hearing stuff clients can sort of
simulate it with you know earplugs or whatever but it’s if they can access this it’s been shown
to be effective the float experience is calibrated so that sensory signals from visual
auditory olfactory gustatory thermal tactile or tactile vestibular gravitational and preceptive
channels are minimized which means you don’t see here taste touch smell feel anything as is most
movement and speech so you want people to lay just like completely motionless and not talk which can
be hard for some people with anxiety in the study the study I looked at fifty participants
reported significant reductions in stress muscle tension pain depression and negative effects and it
was accompanied by significant improvement in mood characterized by increases in relaxation happiness
and well-being I read the study I’m like where can I sign up you know it sounds in looking at some of
the research this was more effective for addressing anxiety than something like a massage
Tai Chi also produced significant reductions in anxiety there was approximately a 20% treatment
effect 25% treatment effect in patients with anxiety and fibromyalgia who practiced twice a
week for a year now you know we want to look at the confounding things here is it the Tai Chi
itself or is it learning to control the muscles and becoming more in tune with your body and
learning to control your breathing helps people reduce their anxiety either way you know
Tai Chi helps people do that and it was shown that after a year after the first six months, there was
a significant treatment effect but after a year you know it kept growing and after a year it was
about 25% so Tai Chi can be effective acupuncture at the HT 7 median Meridian can
attenuate anxiety-like behavior induced by withdrawal from chronic morphine treatment through
the meditation of the GABA receptor system what does that mean that means if you if the
acupuncture is done in very certain places the anxiety behavior the GABA a receptor
system GABA is your main calming relaxation neurochemical that is triggered and causes your
body to sort of flood that receptor system and this research was done on people who were detoxing
from morphine treatment but we can look at generalizing the results and I would be interested
to see further studies on it pain other things we need to do to help people with anxiety when people
are in chronic pain they often have anxiety that oh my gosh this is getting worse or It’s never
gonna get better or I just can’t take this pain anymore or they may get anxious that they’re going
to be rejected because they can’t do some of the things they used to do because they’re in so much
pain so there’s a lot of guilt and anxiety that can kind of revolve around pain what can we do
to help clients guided imagery is generally very helpful if we can help them imagine you know if
that pain in their shoulder imagine the pain is like the color red flowing out of their arm
or other focus mindfulness so you know when you think about something you know when you get a shot
if I don’t think about it it doesn’t hurt near as much as if the nurse says okay now one two three
and you know she’s counting down and I’m getting prepared and I’m focused on it I had
another nurse one time who she was just talking to me and you know put the alcohol on my arm
and just kept on talking and didn’t tell me she was getting ready to give me a shot and before I knew
it she had given me a shot and she was like okay we’re done I’m like you didn’t give me a shot yet
she said yes I did it’s like oh so not focusing on it and next time you have an itch for example
if you’ve ever been driving on the interstate and you can reach on your foot I get those on
the bottom of my foot sometimes and I’m like okay I’m not going to pull over to each my foot if you
focus on something besides the itch eventually, it goes away I’m not saying the pain is gonna completely
go away but the more people focus on it the more it hurts physical therapy can help so encourage
them to get a referral and encourage them to do a self-evaluation if nothing else of ergonomics in
their car at work where they watch TV and spend most of their time at home and they’re sleeping
so those are the four places that they spend most of their time what do their ergonomics look like
and that can help a lot of people mitigate a lot of pain hormones are another thing that
we need to look at imbalances of estrogen and testosterone can contribute to anxiety symptoms
heart palpitations fatigue irritability having people get a physical we can’t as clinicians do
anything about it but doctors can rapid heart weight rate sweating palpitations are not uncommon
in women in perimenopause or menopause so a lot of women start feeling like they’re developing
generalized anxiety and/or something’s going wrong when they start reaching that mid-40s to mid-50s
area and they start having some of these symptoms again we’re not going to diagnose it but we do
want them to recognize that it may not be anything you know is catastrophic this is something that a
a lot of women experience and help them figure out how to deal with that supportive care biologically
now you know this isn’t gonna treat anything but we can help them minimize their vulnerabilities
help them create a sleep routine so their brain and body can rebalance this can help repair any
adrenal issues that may be going on and improve energy levels people with anxiety don’t sleep well
so helping them figure out how to get some quality sleep is important nutrition minimizing caffeine
and other stimulants are going to be a big help because those make people feel anxious and encourage
them to work with a nutritionist to try to prevent spikes and drops in blood sugar which can trigger
the stress response when your blood sugar goes way up or way down you can start getting kind of shaky
and feel weird and that can cause people anxiety because they might think oh my gosh I’m having a
stroke or a heart attack or you know I don’t know what these tremors are so it’s important that
they don’t miss identify symptoms and encourage them to drink enough water dehydration can lead
to toxic Ardea which is increased heart rate sunlight vitamin D deficiency is implicated
in both depression and anxiety mood issues vitamin D has been found in those main areas where
serotonin receptors are found vitamin D receptors are found so we know the serotonin and vitamin D
have something going on sunlight prompts the skin to tell the brain to produce neurotransmitters and
set circadian rhythms which impact the release of serotonin your calming neurochemical melatonin
which is made from breaking down serotonin and helps you sleep and gaba so sunlight actually
helps increase the release of GABA when it’s time to start calming down and going to sleep
exercise studies have shown that exercise can have a relaxing effect and encourage clients to start
slowly there’s not a whole lot of new research on exercise and anxiety aromatherapy has been
used a lot, especially in other countries in the treatment of people with anxiety people with
hospital anxiety people women who are giving birth and they have some birth anxiety there they’ve
been found to be effective in a lot of those studies essential oils for anxiety include
lavender rose Bedevere ylang ylang bergamot chamomile frankincense and Clary sage encourage
clients to just go to a health food store and you know sniff some of these and see if it makes them
feel happy and calm and content the aromatherapy molecules enter the nasal membranes and they
will start triggering neurochemical reactions and so you don’t need to apply it you don’t need
to ingest it all you need to do is so encourage clients if they’re open to it to think about this
because aromatherapy can be integrated into their bedroom for example with an atomizer or a Mr.
It
can be incorporated in a lot of different places again where they’re not applying it or ingesting
it in any way all they’re doing is smelling it they’ve used it in defusing aromatherapy in
hospital emergency rooms and they found that it reduces stress and irritability the people in
emergency rooms and I’ve been to enough emergency rooms over the years to know that
people who are in ers typically are not in the best mood so if it can help those people then
it’s probably going to have some sort of an effect so psychologically helping clients realize
that their body thinks there’s a threat for some reason that’s why it triggered the threat response
system which is what they call anxiety so they need to figure out why is there a threat
you know sometimes it’s like the fire alarm going off in my house it just means that the windows are
open and there’s a strong breeze there is no fire there is no problem there’s just a malfunction
it’s a false alarm a lot of times clients get this threat reaction they get this stress
reaction and it’s not a big deal right now so they can start modifying what their brain responds to
and again those basic fears that a lot of people worry about failure rejection loss of control the
unknown and death and loss distress tolerance is one of those cognitive interventions that have
taken center stage in anxiety research and it isn’t about controlling your anxiety you know
helping people recognize their anxiety acknowledge it and say okay I’m anxious it is what it is
how can I improve the next moment instead of saying I’m anxious I shouldn’t be anxious I hate
being anxious and slang with that anxiety let it go just accept it is what it is have the client
learn to start saying I am feeling anxious okay so distracted don’t react because I explain to them
the whole notion of feelings comes in the crest and goes out in about 20 minutes it’s like a wave so once they
acknowledge their feeling if they can distract themselves for twenty or thirty minutes you know
they figured out there was no real threat if they can distract themselves for twenty or
thirty minutes those emotions can go down and then they can deal with it in their wise mind and encourage
them to use distancing techniques instead of saying I am anxious or I am terrified or whatever
have them say I am having the thought that this is the worst thing in the world I am having the
thought that I cannot handle this because thoughts come and go and that comes from acceptance and
commitment therapy functional analysis makes it possible to specify where and when with what frequency
with what intensity and under what circumstances the anxious response is triggered so it’s
important that we help clients develop the ability to do functional analyses on their own so
when they start feeling anxious they can stop and say okay where am I what’s going on how intense
is it what are the circumstances and they start trying to figure out what causes this for
them so they can identify any common themes from their psychoeducation about cognitive distortions
and techniques to prevent those circumstances or mitigate them can be provided so if the client
knows that they get anxious before they go into a meeting with their boss and it’s usually a high
the intensity of anxiety okay so we can educate them and help them identify what fears that may be related
to techniques to slow their breathing and calm their stress reaction and help them figure out
times in the past when they’ve handled going in and talking to their boss and it wasn’t
the end of the world you know there’s lots of different things we can do there for them there
but the first key and it gives them a lot of a huge sense of empowerment to start becoming
detectives in their own life and going okay now under what situations does this happen positive
writing this was another cool study each day for 30 days the experimental group and this
was high school-aged youth in China but you know the experimental group engaged in 20 minutes of
writing about positive emotions they felt that day so they’re writing about anything positive
that make them happy that made them enthusiastic gave them hope whatever long-term expressive
writing positive emotions so after 30 days it appeared to help reduce test anxiety by helping
them develop insight and use positive emotion words so it got them out of the habit of using
the destruction and doom words and encouraged them to get in the habit of looking at the positive
things and being more optimistic it’s a cool activity that clients can try it’s not gonna
hurt anything if you have them journal each day for 30 days mindfulness also came up in the
research and was shown to be effective in a meta-analysis of six articles about mindfulness
based stress reduction four about mindfulness-based cognitive therapy and three about fear of
negative appraisal and emotion regulation were reviewed all of these showed that mindfulness
was an effective strategy for the treatment of mood and anxiety disorders and is an effective
in therapy protocols with different structures including virtual modalities so you know if you’re
doing it via teleconference mindfulness can still be helpful mindfulness helps people start learning
how to observe what’s going on and become aware of what’s going on more aware of those circumstances
which will help them complete their functional analysis but it also helps them become aware of
vulnerabilities and head off things in the past and if they’re taking better care of themselves
that they’re living more mindfully then they may not experience as many situations that trigger
their anxiety mindfulness also encourages clients to learn acceptance that radical acceptance of
it is what it is I’m not gonna fight it I’m angry right now I am anxious right now however I’m
feeling right now is how I feel and that’s okay it’s hard for clients to get to that but once
they get a hold of that and they truly believe it and they can say all right it’s fine I’m not gonna
feel this way forever I’m gonna do something else until the feeling passes it helps and that’s where
the labeling and letting go comes in mindfulness can also help them identify trigger thoughts
what thought were you having right before you started feeling anxious if people are mindful or
let’s start back when people are not mindful they often notice or don’t notice that they’re getting
anxious until they’re like super anxious when people are mindful they become more aware of
subtle cues address unhelpful thoughts when they say or believe it’s a dire necessity for adults
to be loved by significant others for almost everything they do always running gonna happen
why is it a necessity what we can encourage them to do is concentrate on their self-respect
on winning approval for practical purposes you know for promotions or whatever but it’s not about
me being lovable it’s about me getting a promotion and making more money and focusing on loving
rather than being loved because when we give love we generally get love back with unhelpful thought
number two people feel they aren’t able to stand it if things are not the way they want them to be
or are not in their control so encourage clients to focus on the parts that are in their control
and other things in life which are going well and to which they’re committed number three misery
is invariably externally caused and is forced on us by outside people and events just by reading
that makes me feel disempowered so encouraging clients to focus on the fact that reactions such
as misery or happiness are largely caused by the view that people take of the conditions so if
you see it as a tragedy and devastating then it’s probably going to produce misery if you
see it as an opportunity and a challenge it’s probably going to produce a different emotional
reaction if something is or may be dangerous or fearsome people should be upset and
endlessly upset about obsessing about it a lot of people with anxiety get stuck on this you know
if I feel like it’s fearsome I need to worry about it getting on a plane for example if I fear that
that’s dangerous that I need to think about it and worry about it that’s not going to do any
good so encourage clients to figure out how to face it and render it harmless if possible and
when that’s not possible accept the inevitable so looking at airplanes you know facing it means
researching to figure out how dangerous is it really and realizing that it’s not
that dangerous so that helps render it a little bit harmless in their mind it proves to them
that it’s not as dangerous as it could be and when it’s not possible accepting the inevitable you
know you got a fly so getting on there figuring out how you’re gonna get through it hurricanes
are the same way people especially in places like Texas Louisiana Florida may obsess as soon
as it starts coming to hurricane season or if a hurricane is spotted out in the Atlantic somewhere
they start checking the weather every hour or more wondering what the path is going to be and you
know what there’s you can’t change the path of the hurricane so all you can do is board up your house
evacuate if necessary and deal with the fallout child driving is just another example I’ll give
you know my children are learning how to drive and that’s kind of scary and fearsome you know what’s
gonna happen when they’re out there you know you see crashes all the time well render it harmless
by making sure they’ve got good training on how to drive make sure they’re good drivers and then
accepting that some things are just not within my control it’s easier to avoid than face life
difficulties and responsibilities Well running from fear is usually much harder in the long run
so encourage clients to look back at times when they’ve avoided difficulties and responsibilities
and the eventual outcome you know what happened there people believe they should be thoroughly
competent in achieving in all possible respects or they will be isolated rejected and failures we
need to encourage clients to accept themselves as imperfect with human limitations and flaws and
focus on what makes them loveable human being what qualities like courage and intelligence and
creativity and those things that can’t be taken away what inherent qualities do they have that
make them awesome people because something once strongly affected people’s lives they should
indefinitely fear it if you got lost you know when little kids get lost it’s terrifying when
you’re grown up if you get lost you turn on the GPS and you figure out your way but some people
still, you know freaked out about getting lost if they got lost once so we want to help people look
back at past episodes that may be contributing to the current anxiety and compare the situation’s
you know are you the same person or is this not a big deal now that you’re older wiser stronger
encourage them to learn from past experiences but not be overly attached to or prejudiced by
them yeah you could have maybe got lost in the past and it was a horrible experience well you
were six I can see where that would be terrifying and a horrible experience but it doesn’t have to
continue to impact you that way now when you’re you know 26 getting lost you know could be an
opportunity to try a new restaurant or something people must have complete control over things
well this doesn’t happen so encourage clients to remember that the past and the future are
uncontrollable we can’t change the past it is what it is we can learn from it so it doesn’t repeat
but we can’t change it and the future is largely uncontrollable I mean there are a lot of things I
can do to stay moving toward a rich and meaningful life but life is going to throw me curveballs
sometimes and there’s nothing I can do to plan for or control that we can control our actions in the
present to stay on our preferred path and general develop general skills to deal with adversity
should it arise so we want to help clients develop those general problem-solving skills and
the general support system so when they are thrown a curveball you know it doesn’t knock them upside
the head people have virtually no control over their emotions and cannot help feeling disturbed
by things well encourage them to think about the fact that they have real control over destructive
emotions if they choose to work at improving the next moment and changing inaccurate thoughts then
they’re not going to experience the destructive emotions as intensely or as frequently when you
feel an emotion you feel how you feel but again you don’t have to wrestle with it fight it and
nurture it you can say this is how I feel how do I improve the next moment when it comes to
cognitive distortions encourage them to find alternatives when they start to personalize things
if somebody laughs when you walk out of the room then the and the person starts getting anxious
thinking oh they were making fun of me I wonder what they thought I wonder if I had something
stuck to the back of my dress and they start getting all panicked about it that doesn’t do
any good encouraging them to think you know what our three alternate explanations that hadn’t but
had nothing to do with you for why they laughed magnification of the worst thing you know taking
something and saying if this happens then it’s going to be a catastrophe and minimization going
along with that a lot of times when people magnify and see a catastrophe they minimize not only
their strengths and resources but all the other stuff that they’ve got going for them all
they’re seeing is this catastrophe so encouraging them to focus on the facts of what is actually
happening and what is the high probability event and encourage them to get information
and look at the broader picture you know yes you got into a car crash and your car is totaled and
that is unfortunate you know it sucks but you know that is not going to cause you to lose
your job and then become homeless and penniless and yadda-yadda it might cause your insurance to
go up but okay so you don’t have a car but what are the resources that you have who can Who do
you work with that might be able to give you a ride to work you know let’s look at the resources
you have and work around so problem-solving helps with magnification and also focusing on you know
let’s be grateful for what didn’t happen you know you could have been killed but you weren’t the
car was totaled it’s replaceable all or nothing thinking again have them think about what else
could have been happening like Brittney suggested finding the exceptions instead of saying she
always does this look for exceptions when has she not done that what else has she done instead
of this selective abstraction and filtering is when people look for the good the bad and the
ugly a selective abstraction means you kind of see what you expect to see so if you expect
something to be devastating you see only the devastating aspects of it which kind of goes with
the magnification and minimization you filter out the stuff a lot of times when people are in a bad
mood or are anxious they see the negative because that’s the state of mind they’re in so encouraging
people to complete the picture alright there’s all this bad stuff now what’s the good stuff you
know to encourage them to look at the good the bad and the ugly so they get a wide view of exactly
what’s going on and encourage them to remember that hindsight is twenty-twenty when people have
something embarrassing happens or they get anxious about something that happened they look back
and they go I should have or I could have or Oh I wish I wouldn’t have when you were in that
situation you did what you did and you know maybe you may have had a reason for it or you know
you may have not had other options or it may have just been a bonehead thing to do but okay so you
made one mistake hindsight is 2020 that’s gonna that mistake is gonna stand out just like the
great big letter on the eye chart because you’re thinking back and you’re looking at it and that’s
all you see but encouraging clients to remember that other people are too busy worrying about
themselves to remember what they did jumping to conclusions encourages clients to remember to
get all the data if your significant other male significant other comes home and is smelling like
perfume don’t just jump to the conclusion that he was cheating on you maybe he went to the
mall to get a new tie and walked through the perfume area and got spritzed or bought you some
perfume or who knows maybe the person sitting next to him at work sprayed her perfume on the desk
and some of it filtered on there are all different reasons that that might happen so encourage people
to get all the data mind reading we can’t do it you know you can’t read somebody’s mind you don’t
know what they’re thinking so ask them what you think about this don’t assume anything and
emotional reasoning encourages people to step back from a situation and ask themselves am I feeling
anxious about this because I’m feeling anxious and I’m looking for reasons that it should be scary
or am I feeling anxious about this because it’s really scary for some reason there are facts
support my anxiety a lot of times when we go into new situations we may feel anxious because it’s
a new situation but when we step back we say you know what there’s nothing to be worried
about here you know no big deal I got this and move on so instead of rolling with it and trying
to figure out okay I feel anxious so there must be a reason not necessarily very likely a false
alarm other psychological interventions relaxation skills encourage people to learn how to relax
not only physically but mentally diaphragmatic breathing helps encourage them to breathe
through their stomach and put their hand on their belly and feel their belly expand and contract
slows breathing down which triggers the rest and digestion reaction in the brain which is calming
meditation can be helpful for some people some people find trying to quiet their minds too
frustrating because they’ve got too much monkey mind going on that can be later or maybe
never for some people we don’t want to increase their anxiety with interventions cute progressive
muscular relaxation also has a lot of research support and remembers with cute progressive
muscular relaxation we’re Sakura getting them to attach a cue AK you word like relax or breathe
with the relaxation response so they tense their muscles and then relax their muscles and as
they relax their muscles they say their “querk”-word like relaxed and they work from head to toe or
from toe to head tensing and relaxing different muscle groups so they become more aware of what a
tense muscle feels like versus a reactive relaxed muscle there are great scripts that are online
that people have already recorded that can walk people walk clients through CPM are I highly
encourage it because once they get used to it then they can just think that cue they can think
relax and as they exhale they will start to feel their entire body kind of relaxing because it’s
trained when it hears that just like when you hear the word pop quiz when you were in high school
you had a stress reaction well we want to use it in reverse and train the body so that when
it hears a cue word relaxes helps them develop self-esteem because fear of failure and rejection
a lot of times come from needing other people’s approval to help them develop a rational idea of
their real self develops compassion self-talk instead of saying I’m an idiot or I’m stupid or
I’ll never measure up to anything encourage them to talk to themself like they would talk to their
child or hopefully their best friend and encourage them to spotlight strengths whenever they feel
like they’ve got an imperfection to identify these three strengths that they have so they’re you know
balancing out the imperfections and the strengths of cognitive restructuring reframes challenges in
terms of current strengths, not past weaknesses so if you’re going to give a presentation in front
of 60 people and you hate public speaking instead of thinking about you know this is terrifying
because the last time I went up in front of people I forgot everything I was going to say and drop
my note cards well that’s a past weakness what is your current strength you’re prepared you know
the material you Jabba-dada so encourages people to look at all the strengths and resources they
currently have them develop an attitude of gratitude and optimism because like I said with
that the positive writing exercise when people are in a grateful optimistic frame of mind they
tend to see more of the good stuff they see the bad stuff too but they can also see more of the
good stuff and some of the bad stuff they see opportunistically instead of as a devastation
acceptance and commitment therapy says that some of the reasons that we’re miserable are
fear we get fused with our thoughts we think I am terrified well if I am terrified then I can’t
I mean if I am I can’t get rid of anything I am if I’m having the thought that I’m terrified
well I can get rid of a thought I can forget things easily encourage people to evaluate their
experience and empower them to look at things as challenges and opportunities instead of hardships
encourage them not to avoid their experiences so things that are scary gradual exposure and
finding exceptions like for me bridges you know I love public speaking so that’s not a
thing but when I go to a bridge you know when I Drive to the bridge you know when I’m on the
bridge somebody else is driving I get used to doing that when I Drive over a bridge than when
I Drive over one of those bridges that opens up I hate those bridges um I know y’all are just like
oh my gosh yeah it’s an irrational fear I realize that but instead of going straight for the bridge
that opens up going for the little bridges first and then thinking back over times that I’ve gone
over bridges and there’s been no problem you know there are exceptions nothing happened it wasn’t a
big deal Sometimes I didn’t even notice it until somebody pointed out hey look down there at that
pretty water and I’m like oh we’re on a bridge so encourage people to not avoid their experiences
get used to them embrace them and learn that they have the power to deal with them and stop reason
giving for behavior you know use the challenging questions if something is fearsome let’s look for
at the evidence for and against it instead of you know making excuses for social interventions
improve their relationship with their self which goes with self-esteem improvement people are going
to feel less anxious about getting their needs and wants to be met if they know what their needs and wants
are so part of that is becoming mindful cuz a lot of our clients don’t know what they need and want
they just want to feel better but they don’t know how they don’t know what they need to feel
better so helping them identify their needs and wants to encourage them to be their own best friend
you know when they get a promotion take themselves out to dinner pat themselves on the back whatever
it is don’t rely on
other people to do it because other people it’s not that they don’t care but
other people are often very involved in thinking about their stuff and they may not notice
encourage them to develop a method of internal validation so they can feel like they are all
that ‘no bag of chips and they realize why they are lovable human beings and they accept the
the fact that everybody is not going to like them and nobody is gonna like them all the time and
that’s okay you know my kids don’t like me all the time my husband doesn’t like me all the time
I’m okay with that I know I can be challenging but you know most of the time you know they like me
and that’s okay and there are some people you know who don’t like me at all and okay there’s
nothing I can do about that helping our clients develop an okayness with that helps relieve a lot
of anxiety because a lot of people feel like they have to be liked by everybody and if somebody
doesn’t like them it’s like what did I do wrong oh my gosh encourage them to develop healthy
supportive relationships with good boundaries develop assertiveness skills so they can ask for
help when they need it anxiety a lot of times you know that’s the body saying there’s a threat well
if there’s a threat maybe you need some help you know dealing with it so people need to be willing
and able to ask for help and not feel like that’s going to lead them to be rejected and allow them a
certify this will allow them to say no to requests again without feeling like that’s going to result
in them being fully rejected describe the ideal healthy supportive relationship and encourage
them to separate the ideals from the reals you know let’s look at if you had the best relationship
what would it look like okay you know Warden June Cleaver we got that now how realistic is that
you know let’s look at you know rephrasing this a little bit so it’s less extreme you know warden
June Cleaver never fought their kids were perfect you know all those extreme words let’s look at
what’s real what happens in real relationships encourages people to identify who would be
a good partner in supportive relationships I’m not meaning necessarily romantic I’m meaning
friends and where they can be found you know where would you find people that you could be friends
with and encourage them to play through what it means when gaming cuz a lot of times again this
goes with my reading you know what it means when your friend doesn’t return your text right
away what does it mean when your friend cancels dinner on Friday night what does it mean when
you see where I’m going with this and a lot of times clients with anxiety and rejection issues
and low self-esteem will go to the worst-case scenario so encourage them to go back to finding
the exceptions what else could have been happening what else could it be that caused this and it’s
not about you so anxiety is a natural emotion that serves a survival function excessive anxiety can
develop from lack of sleep nutritional problems neurochemical imbalances failure to develop
adequate coping skills cognitive distortions low self-esteem and a variety of other stuff recovery
Ambala involves improving health behaviors making sure your body’s functioning and making the
neurotransmitters it needs and you know release them as needed to identify and build on current
coping strategies address cognitive distortions and develop a healthy supportive relationship with
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at times. 4. Struggling with sleep. Depression affects your sleeping schedule,
some of you may stay up and sleep very little. It keeps you up with your intrusive unwanted
thoughts. These may end up making you feel anxious
all through the night. In other cases, some of you will sleep excessively
and still feel unrested. 5. Catastrophizing every situation. Depression plays tricks on your mind, making
you believe negative things. It can get to a point where you’re constantly
looking out for bad things to reassure your pessimistic thinking. Every time something bad happens, you use
it as evidence to prove how bad life is.
This slippery slope makes it difficult to
see life under a brighter light. 6. Terrible eating habits. Those with depression will either eat too
much or hardly anything at all. Some of you may find yourself in the kitchen
eating everything in side, trying to eat away the emptiness or sadness you’re feeling while others don’t have an appetite and may even feel disgusted by food.
In other cases, some of you may feel so exhausted
that that thought of preparing a meal is overwhelming. 7. Lack of motivation. Depression steals your interests and desires
right from under you. Your favorite pastimes and hobbies no longer
satisfy you, slowly you find yourself feeling dead and numb inside. If you aren’t careful you’ll end up staying
in bed all day. 8. Evading your problems. Depression by itself is overwhelming, you
can feel devastated and out of control most days, so trying to face situations and problems
head-on is difficult enough.
Instead you ignore or set the problem aside,
and this in turn can bring trouble because it will continue to pile up. 9. Feeling guilty and feeling self-hatred. If you allow depression to take over your
thoughts, then you’ll most likely feel self-hatred. You’ll continue to talk down to yourself and
this often leads to the development of self-esteem issues along with poor self-image, eventually
you’ll believe you aren’t worth it anymore. Some people with this mental disorder can
even feel guilt by thinking all their problems are their fault. And 10: living in fear. People with depression fear that terrible
things will happen to them. In severe cases, some of you will sabotage a good situation, believing that it will turn bad. Other times individuals will reject opportunities
and stop pursuing their dreams.
It’s a twisted way to protect yourself because
this prevents you from living and achieving amazing things. Depression affects us in different ways. The list mentioned in this video contains
some of the common behaviors those with the disorder have. Do you agree with these points? What other behaviors have you noticed? Let us know in the comment section below. <3.
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to cognitive behavioral therapy addressing negative thoughts. Now a lot
of us took courses and cognitive behavioral therapy we’ve worked with CBP
for many many years so some of the this is just going to be a refresher and
others you know you may pick up a few new tips or tools as we go along so
we’re going to define cognitive behavioral therapy and its basic
principles just get a really basic refresher on what was that original CDP
about well identify factors impacting people’s choices behaviors because you
know they always have a choice we’ll explore causes and the impact of
thinking errors whether you call them cognitive distortions irrational
thoughts or when I work with my clients I try to call them unhelpful beliefs or
unhelpful thoughts because distortions and irrational seems sort of pejorative
to me so I try to avoid those words as much as possible and help clients see
them as not incorrect necessarily but unhelpful and then we’ll identify some
common thinking errors and their relationship to cognitive distortions
and some of our just very basic fears why do we care
well because cognitive distortions or irrational thoughts or unhelpful
thoughts whatever you want to say really impacts people on a physical level a
mental level and an emotional level a person who perceives the world is
hostile unsafe and unpredictable will tend to be more hyper vigilant until
they exhaust the stress response system so think about you know a bottle ship
and you’ve got a bunch of new people on this battleship and all the sailors
every time there’s the least little thing they send off the
all-hands-on-deck so a big bird flies over and I mean literally a bird and
they freak out found me all hands on deck and this goes
on for a week or two or six months you know let’s think about our clients they
don’t usually come in right away where everything is set to OFF that startle
response everything sets off that fight-or-flight response the staff
starts to get exhausted all the rest of the sailors that have to drop everything
and run to their battle stations after a little while they’re like really no no
we just we can’t even do this and it also reminds me of the boy who cried
wolf anyhow I digress sticking with the battleship metaphor so eventually the
captain says you know what let’s retrain on what is worth setting off the all
hands on deck because everybody here is exhausted and nobody’s even really
responding anymore when they come to their battle stations they’re just kind
of dragging their butts in like whatever it’s probably another false alarm the
same sort of thing is true with us when we’re on on high alert for too long our
brain says you know what we got to conserve some energy in case some really
really big threat comes along so it turns down what I call the stress
response system it turns down the sensitivity so you don’t get alerted for
every little thing that would cause you stress but you also don’t get alerted
for those little things that would cause you happiness either anything that would
cause the excitatory neurotransmitters to be secreted you’re just not getting
those anymore which a lot of people kind of refer to as depression it’s just kind
of like the F whatever and only the biggest most notable things actually
cause an emotional effect we don’t want people to get to that point that’s no
way to live so we need to help them learn how to sort of retrain their
spotters to figure out what is actually stressful a person who perceives the
world is generally good and believe they have the ability to deal with challenges
as they arise will be able to allow their stress response system to function
normally there are going to be times you have all hands on deck whether it’s a
real emergency or whether it’s just a drill but it will happen and they can go
they can you know do what they’re going to do they have that adrenaline rush
they have the energy and the focus to do their jobs and when it’s over they
go back to their quarters they can relax refresh you know just kind of chill for
a while and then there’s a low where their body rebalances before the next
one and this is kind of what we want in life I mean ideally we wouldn’t have
super high peaks very often but we want to make sure we give our body time to
rebalance after there’s a stressor and not have to stand on on edge not be
hyper vigilant constantly just waiting for the next one to come along so what
is the impact of these thinking errors well whenever we have that stress
response system activated the body is saying we either need to fight or we
need to flee so you’re dumping all kinds of adrenaline and other neuro chemicals
so there’s anxiety there can be stress when people start having this reaction
you know they start having muscle tension sweating heart rate increases
breathing increases people will call that anxiety some will label that as
anger either way they’re both sides of the same coin
they need to do something but if it lasts too long then we start moving into
depression and they just they don’t have to get up and go anymore there’s just
not any excitatory neurotransmitters really left they need some time to rest
and rebalance behaviorally think about it if you go somewhere and you are just
constantly on guard are you going to keep going there or are you going to
withdraw so people who have a lot of thinking errors unhelpful thoughts tend
to withdraw more they may turn to addictions to kind of numb or blunt some
of the inputs sleep problems and changes when you are hyper vigilant when you
have this stress response going even if it’s not a full-bore if it’s still there
somewhat if you’re stressed out you’re not going to sleep as well you’re going
to maintain higher levels of cortisol so you’re not going to get that restful
rejuvenating sleep you may kind of goes on and off eating changes you know
depending on the person some people eat the self food that some people can’t eat
it all but we do see that the hormones Guerlain
and lets them get all out of whack not under stress but also when sleep
gets out of whack when your circadian rhythms get out of whack so we’re
starting to see the Cascade effect where it’s emotional and behavioral physical
you’ve got stress-related illnesses that start coming up if you’re on that lunch
you’ve got muscle tension for that long it starts to hurt I mean you start to
get migraines your back starts to hurt wherever you store your stress so to
speak it starts to come out and most people when they’re under a lot of
stress for an extended period you know a day is not a big deal for most people
but for an extended period become more susceptible to illnesses they start
getting sick easier headaches GI distress you know some people store
their stress right in their gut socially think about the last time you were
stressed were you patient and tolerant and just a pleasure to be around you may
have tried to be but you’re more prone to irritability and impatience and again
wanting to withdraw all of these affects contribute to fatigue and a sense of
hopelessness and helplessness which often intensifies thinking errors so
you’ll see this negative reciprocal interaction if somebody feels stressed
out and overwhelmed and that they withdrawal then they may start feeling
like they have no support and they don’t and they lose all their social buffers
to the stress so they feel even more stressed so they want to withdrawal even
more so we’re going to talk about how to prevent that now I like this little
diagram maybe because it’s got a heart in the center I don’t know
but behavior feelings and thoughts this is the outside of the circle all three
of these impact diecuts each other when you do something
it often impacts your feelings and your thoughts about a situation when you when
you’re thinking if you think positively you’re probably going to choose more
positive behaviors and more have more positive feelings you’re thinking
negatively obviously you may choose more of an escape behavior
Protection behavior and may have more feelings of anger anxiety depression etc
so these things are going on and they’re all interacting the one really cool
thing is if you break this chain somewhere or this circuit then you can
stop that reciprocal negative downward spiral so cognitive behavioral helps
people who are willing to show up or who are willing to address their thoughts
not everybody is willing to start addressing their thoughts right away
maybe they want to start addressing their sleep problems in their eating
problems or something that’s more physical okay that’s fine because
anywhere we interrupt this circuit is going to have positive effects assuming
the intervention is positive it’s going to have positive effects on the other
ones so what about the triangle well yourself
so you’re feeling thoughts and behavior impact you it impacts how you feel and
you’re like well yeah okay just stay with me but the way you feel think and
act impacts your future and it also impacts how you interact with others so
you know that kind of affects things because remember social support is a big
buffer for us now core beliefs and you can do this inward to outward or outward
to inward but either way it comes down to core beliefs if you have positive
thoughts and positive feelings and you generally engage in positive behaviors
to keep that cycle going you will probably feel pretty good about yourself
have good relationships have a somewhat optimistic feeling about the future and
your core beliefs may be more like people are generally good I can do this
you know very self affirming and other affirming positive core beliefs about
yourself in the world now if your thoughts or feelings are negative then
you have this negative outer circle you don’t feel so good you start questioning
the goodness and Trust ability and dependable
of other people you have more of a bleak look in the future so what do you think
is going to happen to the core beliefs the core beliefs may change too if
someone doesn’t love me I am completely unloveable they may
change to being more extreme more negative and more difficult to rectify
if you want to have somebody who’s happy I mean you’re not going to have somebody
who’s happy who thinks the world is an unkind unpredictable scary place going
it’s just wonderful roses today so we have to help people try to adjust
eventually start adjusting those core beliefs and when we get into causing
that behavior remember the ABCs your automatic but
well your automatic thought then your and beliefs are what happened as soon as
that event occurs and those you don’t think about that’s why they’re called
automatic so when you have the ABCs these core beliefs are those things that
pop up that we need to address so what factors affect this and whoops you know
there’s a lot of stuff right here and EBP they call them vulnerabilities you
know we’re just going to talk about in general different factors that affect
the choices our clients make in terms of behaviors so negative emotions if they
are not if they’re feeling angry if they’re feeling anxious they’re feeling
depressed they’re probably not going to be really motivated to get up and engage
in a whole lot of self affirming activities they’re not probably not
going to be having a lot of positive self affirming thoughts they’re going to
be focused on whatever is causing that distress and maybe escaping from that
physically pain and illness when you don’t feel well it’s harder to be Susie
sunshine I don’t think many of us are just a barrel of monkeys when we don’t
feel well so if our clients have pain this is one
of those if you want to put it in behaviors behavioral areas physical
areas we can address and have them go see their physician have them go see
their physical therapist and get recommendations so they aren’t feeling
physically painful physically and distress all the time because physical
distress and emotional distress both mess with sleep unfortunately sleep
is the first thing to usually go and I’m not talking about quantity I know a lot
of clients who when they get depressed they’re in in bed for you know days
they’ll get up they’ll maybe shower and you know go back to bed and they’re
sleeping a lot but it doesn’t mean it’s quality sleep so what we need to look at
is what is the quality of their sleep are they getting that rejuvenation the
time for their brain and neural chemicals to rebalance so they can feel
happy so they can have that nice balance of all the the neurotransmitters they
need to feel happy poor nutrition well no matter how much sleep they get if
they don’t have the building blocks to make the neurotransmitters and the
hormones that are needed to prompt the feelings the physiological sensations
that we’ve labeled happiness or excitement or you know even depression
and anxiety those are all caused by different neurotransmitters being
secreted in different combinations if your body doesn’t have the building
blocks to make those then it doesn’t matter how much sleep you get you’re not
going to get any benefit from it an intoxication and this can be uppers
downers anything that is psychoactive if you are messing with that
neurotransmitter balance you’re going to get it out of whack and you may either
use up too much of the excitatory or cause us a lot of it or you may use up
too much of the depressant either way there’s usually a rebound effect which
we call withdrawal so you’re not going to be in a good space either during the
intoxication sometimes but definitely when you’re sobering up
there’s a period where there’s going to be negative emotions negative feelings
environmentally yeah your environment can even make you grumpy
introduction of a new or unique situation some people love new
challenges love going to new places other people not so much depending on
the person taking on going somewhere new may be really stressful for them so if
they’ve already got de-stress going on because of having to go to this new
situation then their thoughts may be a little bit more on the anxious side
about a lot of things and they may have less patience and tolerance to deal with
other stuff that comes their way because they’re already kind of on edge and
exposure to unpress you know going places that you just really don’t want
to go maybe and one of the places I used to work we had this meeting once a month
and it was literally an eight-hour meeting and we would all sit in there
for eight hours and one person at a time would get up and give their staff
reports or whatever but it tended to be a relatively dreadful sort of
environment or eight hours and we all knew we had to be there and that was
fine but it was an unprecedented were grumbling on the way in they were
getting their coffee and going well I better do this because I’m not getting
out for another eight hours we need to help our clients obsess what is it in
your environment if anything that is making you already feel grumpy or not as
happy and likewise what can you put in your environment to make you feel
happier you know I keep pictures of my kids and my animals on my phone that way
if I’m having a moment or not sometimes I just like looking at them I can take a
look at it it makes me smile and I’m like okay life is good you know this
moment may not be so wonderful but it’s just this moment then we move on to
stress of a social nature peers or family who
convey irrational thoughts as necessary standards for social acceptance nobody
wants to associate with those people or nobody’s going to like you when you’re
like this or you read if you really want to be successful then you need to change
fill in the blank it’s always a something needs to change you are not
okay for who you are how you are and a lack of supportive peers to buffer
stress because we all have negative people in our life it happens but if you
have negative supportive peers that you can call afterwards and go yeah I had
just had to meet with someone so for an hour and it was just dreadful and that
person can go well I’m sorry or be there make you laugh or whatever they do it
helps buffer the stress if you don’t have those positive social supports then
you’re left walking out of it you’re kind of feeling shell-shocked and then
you also at the same time have to figure out for yourself all right what do I do
next now it doesn’t mean you can’t do it you
know people do it all the time but it is good it is awesome to have supportive
peers to buffer your stress so when cognitive therapy clients learn to
distinguish between thoughts and feelings realizing that thoughts will
trigger feelings but they don’t have to cause continual feelings and behaviors
and feelings can cause certain thoughts but they don’t have to you can unhook
from them and you can just say this is how I’m feeling right now now where am I
going to go from here and we talked about that on Tuesday with
unhooking from unhooking from your thoughts and stepping back and going
what is the next logical action to get me to where I want to go become aware of
the ways in which the thoughts can influence feelings in ways that are
sometimes not helpful being critical being jealous envious maybe you just
don’t like somebody and you know there’s a whole lot of reasons for that but you
don’t like everybody most people don’t like everyone
and so it’s you know that’s okay but recognize how that affects your
interactions with that person and your thoughts about that person
learn how thoughts that seem to occur automatically affect emotions so
recognize start getting down to what are these core beliefs that happen every
time it’s a negative incident that make me feel angry or anxious constructively
evaluate whether these automatic thoughts and assumptions are accurate or
perhaps biased evaluate whether the current reactions are helpful and a good
use of energy or unhelpful and a waste of energy that could be used to move
toward those people and things important to the person so again back kind of to
that ACP sort of thing is this a good use of your energy to help you achieve
your goals and be the person you want to be and develop the skills to notice
interrupt and correct these biased thoughts independently like I said you
don’t always have to call somebody you can do it on your own but sometimes it’s
nice to have that buffer in that middle moment so what causes these thinking
errors how can we even start helping people address their thoughts and until
we start thinking about well what caused them information processing shortcuts as
we grow up we learn things you know when you were knee-high to a grasshopper you
didn’t have a lot of experience so you learned things but things you learned
when you were a kid unfortunately because you were
cognitively a child are either our dichotomies they’re all or nothing it’s
either this way or no way at all so things that you have things that you
learn back when you were a child may not have been challenged if you heard
something from your parent maybe your parents said you’re a bad girl or you’re
a bad boy it’s all or nothing well I am a bad girl so I guess that
means I’m not okay and if I’m not okay right now I’m never okay that can stick
with a person so these outdated amis schemas can really trip somebody up
once the person gets into you know middle schoolish the thoughts aren’t
nearly as dichotomous there’s a lot more formal operational thought if you will
but up until then I mean you’ve got a child who’s experiencing a lot of stuff
and taking in like a sponge everything they hear and it gets sorted into a yes
or a No pile there’s there’s no kind of middle
pile that there’s no yes and so what we want to do is help people look at those
thoughts now and say okay if they’re all or nothing is there a way to find both
and so for example we’ll take that exam scenario I gave you earlier if a child
hears you’re a bad girl when they’re young they take that to mean always
everything about me is bad I’m unlovable so what is the both and compromise as an
adult we can look back and go you know I’m a good person I may not make may
make poor choices sometimes I may make bad choices but I’m a good person
so there’s that both and you know I’m not perfect but I’m good so that it’s
not all or nothing and I encourage my clients to really always look for that
middle ground how can it be both or does it have to even be that negative one but
most of the time there’s a little bit of something on both sides the brain’s
limited information processing capacity and limited responses when children are
young you know they hear something you know mom comes in and says you’re a bad
girl and child hears I’m totally unlovable and it just crushes the child
they don’t have experiences to go moms having a bad day she kind of tends to
say things she doesn’t mean when she’s having a bad day it’s just it’s
devastating to that child when you’re older if somebody says something that’s
not necessarily tactful you know you can look at it and go yeah that really
wasn’t nice but that person probably did not intend to be hurtful they may have
something else going on children have fewer experiences so what
was devastating or overwhelming as a child may not still have have to feel
that way when you’re a child if your best friend moved away oh that was
devastating it was the end of the world now as an adult you can go visit them
you can call them and with the internet and everything you can email them you
can still stay in touch so there are ways to do it yeah you can’t go out and
swing swing on swings together all the time but it doesn’t have to mean the end
of the end of time things will change and there’s a little process of grieving
that has to go along with that but to an adult a friend moving away is less
devastating than say to a six-year-old your parent being angry with you if you
grew up in an alcoholic or addicted household you learn don’t talk don’t
trust don’t feel when the parent came in if the parent was angry with you you
could have been in a lot of hurt you know there could have been some actual
danger to your physical or emotional person so it was scary as a 26 year old
or however old your client is is it that threatening you know if your parent gets
angry with you you don’t depend on them for food and shelter anymore you don’t
have to be an inner household if they were violent towards you so is it as
terrifying when your parent gets angry yes there’s lots of issues with wanting
acceptance from your parents that’s over here there’s a whole nother issue but
when your parent is angry do you have to have that person’s approval when we’re
in crisis we don’t process much when you’re in crisis your body is worried
about surviving if you’ve been in a car wreck if somebody has gone to the
hospital whatever the case is you’re not
processing all of the data in order to make it in for
decision you’re processing what’s right in front of you because when we’re in
crisis we generally have tunnel vision and really crappy memory so if something
happened when someone was in crisis that hurt their feelings made them angry you
know fill in the blank some sort of dysphoric emotion we want to say well
let’s look back at that and see if there’s a pose and let’s look back at
that and see if there was something that you missed that might help you
understand why this person reacted that way but understanding that in crisis we
just generally don’t make the most informed decisions so emotional
reasoning helping clients understand that feeling or not facts and helping
them learn to identify feelings and separate them from facts so if they say
I’m terrified all right so you’re terrified got that about what are you
terrified you know tell me what are these things that make you feel like the
world is such a scary place and let’s list them on the whiteboard or a flip
chart what is the evidence that those are present dangers right now that
they’re actually impending threats so tell me about what the evidence is in
what ways is this similar to other situations where you felt terrified and
how did you deal with those situations I have a friend who actually went this
morning on an airplane flight and she hates flying totally terrified of it so
what is the evidence that this plane is going to crash you know what is the
evidence that it is likely that this plane will crash and there really she’s
flying on an american-based commercial airliner there really isn’t any when you
look at the proportions so okay there’s there have been a couple of crashes over
the past 20 years and in a couple of those there were some fatalities no
doubt but looking at the proportions and running the numbers
what’s the likelihood in what ways this is similar to other situations that you
have felt terrified you know maybe there haven’t been any other situations where
she’s flown and gotten through it and been like score I did that but what
other situations have you had to get through that you were terrified and how
did you deal with those help people develop distress tolerance skills one of
the things I told her was when you’re sitting on the airplane and you know the
airplane starts up don’t wait til you start getting really stressed
necessarily but when we were little on the car when we’re in the car we used to
find things on the drive find something that starts with a and everybody would
find something that started with a and then find something that starts with B
and you know so on and if you couldn’t find something that started with that
letter you were out so I mean she’s going on this trip with her kids and I’m
like why don’t you try doing that because there are some letters that
you’re going to have to work really hard and it’s kind of like the game apples to
apples you end up finding something really inane in order to get that letter
and you laugh and you’re so busy focusing on that you’re not focusing on
all of the things that could possibly maybe go wrong other distress tolerance
skills you know you can go through the whole DBT curriculum and learn some of
those the biggest thing is if you have to face the terror if you have to go
through it figure out a way to not have to focus on it and fight it and go I
shouldn’t be afraid I shouldn’t be because that doesn’t work if it worked
we wouldn’t be talking about it and develop emotional regulation skills so
prevent those vulnerabilities set yourself up so you are as prepared as
you can to not feel stressed to not feel anxious she has her spouse with her who
can help diffuse some of it she’s got her kids with her she downloaded some
movies she’s prepared to endure the distress she’s you know trying to go
into it with a positive mindset as much as
possible and focusing on the destination which you know is ultimately the reason
she’s getting on the plane social causes of stress and thinking errors
everybody’s doing it well that’s not true there’s very real that everybody
does so correcting misinformation how the client gather objective information
about you know if they say well everybody else that I know has succeeded
okay well let’s gather objective information about that who do you know
and tell me if they’ve succeeded if I want to be liked I must do it
this need for approval or low self-esteem can cause a lot of problems
in thinking errors and fears of rejection so we say okay let’s look at
developing some self-esteem so you don’t need to worry about if somebody likes
you what would it be like if you woke up in the morning and you didn’t care if
so-and-so liked you I mean we all want to have friends don’t get me wrong I’m
not saying you want to be her moving out in the woods but if we’re talking about
a particular so-and-so what would it be like in the morning to get up and go you
know what if that person messages me today or call us me today that’s great
and if not I’m okay with that how liberating would that be to get your
power back and how people develop social supports that share their same values
and goals at least mostly or at least can respect yours so for example when
you know I work with people with co-occurring disorders and they don’t
drink and they don’t use drugs so they may be around people family friends who
drink if you’re going to be in that situation do you have to drink and can
you be around do you have social supports that can be supportive of your
choice to not drink doesn’t necessarily mean they’re it’s not going to not going
to not drink in front of you but at least they’re not trying to get you to
drink so the social causes of irrational
thoughts if I want to be liked I must do this
why can’t you be like for who you are cognitive bias negativity mental filter
focus on the negatives and worry about the future most of us know some people
like that most of us have had a moment where we felt like this we’ve just
gotten ourselves in a tizzy and spun out of control but you can bring it back so
you want to ask yourself or have your clients ask themselves what’s the
benefit to focusing on the negative if you know that this is going to go south
really fast what’s the benefit to just focusing on
that could you focus on alternatives or Plan B’s what are the positives to the
situation most people who have mood issues who present to us in counseling
don’t focus on both sides yes every side you know has a little bit of negative to
it if you really want to look hard enough but every side also has a silver
lining if you really want to look hard enough so we need to balance the the
positives and the negatives so encourage people to look for the positives in the
situation yeah this really sucked but and what are all the facts what are all
the things going into it sometimes people will go to work and not know or
wonder if they’re going to get laid off because you know you’re not necessarily
always guaranteed a job anywhere there can be layoffs but if somebody is going
to work every day worried about this focusing on the negative up yep I’m
definitely going to be the one that’s going to get the pink slip and they go
to their mailbox each time looking for that pink slip expecting it to be there
how is that going to affect their mood as opposed to alright there may be
layoffs coming what can I do to make myself really valuable or and what are
my options if I do get laid off let’s make a plan B and C so I don’t just feel
like the rug was pulled out from under me coin toss activity if
somebody tends to be stuck in negativity have them flip a coin every morning if
it lands on heads they can just see their normal selves to their heart’s
content if it lands on tails they need to act as if they are a happy positive
optimistic maybe even a noxious ly optimistic person for the entire day you
know we want them to be farting rainbows and when I say that they usually look at
me and laugh and but that’s okay I’m like every time you start having a
negative thought I want you to see a unicorn farting rainbows and take it
from there and then have them process how they felt at the end of the day if
they weren’t constantly focused on negativity and worrying and only seeing
the bad stuff disqualifying or minimizing the positive if something
happens when somebody says well I just got that promotion because they didn’t
have anybody else to give it to okay if your best friend just got a promotion
would you say that to them what is scary about accepting the positive about
accepting the fact that maybe you got the promotion because you’re awesome
sometimes we disqualify the positive because it fails to meet someone else’s
standards so might that be true here you know maybe you got this promotion and
you’re actually down deep down inside kind of proud of it but you know that
your mother had always wanted you to be this over here and you’re never going to
meet that expectation so you minimize it that way nobody else could say well you
know better than nothing and take away your thunder egocentrism my perspective
is the only perspective take different perspectives I always say three if
something happens and you know maybe somebody was rude to you
anyone they were rude to me okay they were rude to you what are three reasons
what are some alternate perspectives why that person might have been rude maybe
what you did something that triggers them maybe they were
having a bad day and it’s got nothing at all to do with you you know there are
options that we can look at personalization and mind-reading what
are some alternate explanations for the event that didn’t involve you if you
think well that person that person just really doesn’t like me and you know I’ve
got to work with them every day and they hate me my question to my client would
be what what’s the evidence for that and what are some alternative explanations
for why that person may be behaving that way
I had a staff member that a lot of my other staff members had difficulty
getting along with and ultimately you know we had to sit down and look when I
had some different staff meetings with people and say you know what gives you
the idea that she doesn’t like you what gives you the idea that it’s about you
and you know they cited all kinds of behaviors and I had to come back to well
what are some alternate reasons why somebody anybody not just her might be
expressing those behaviors could it be something besides you and of course they
came back – yeah availability heuristic remembering what’s prominent in your
mind if somebody was if you’re a supervisor for example and you’re doing
evaluation for the year what are you really remembering when you’re doing
that evaluation the whole year or the last three months and that’s the event
fail ability heuristic so when you’re talking to somebody about their
relationship with their best friend or their spouse or their kids and if
somebody says well that that child has always been a problem okay let’s look at
that you know the child is 18 and you’ve had a lot of problems with him lately
but what about three years ago so was he always a problem or is this something
that’s relatively new that something might have changed
magnification people getting stuck on fearing the absolute worst so you want
to ask them is this a high probability or low probability outcome if they’re
magnifying something that happened like oh my gosh that is the worst thing in
the world is this going to matter six months from now maybe you totaled your
car and yeah that is a huge bummer and you’re safe in six months is this really
going to matter that much you know there are going to be some bills and
everything but the big scheme of things is at the end of the world what have you
done in the past to tolerate events like these when something really really
unpleasant has happened and then if they’re looking at dichotomous ways of
thinking which a lot of our clients still do they’re like someone so it
always does this or never does this have them look at the differences between
love versus hate perfection versus failure and all good intentions versus
all bad intentions because a lot of our dichotomies fall in one of these three
categories this person always does this or Never
or does it intentionally or you know just doesn’t care belief in a just world
the fallacy of fairness encourage people to look for for good people they know
that have had bad things happen attributional bearers are labeling
yourself not a behavior such as saying I am stupid instead of I don’t have good
math skills I am is difficult to get rid of I can’t get rid of stupidity if it’s
part of me but if it’s a thought or a skill I can either get rid of it or
improve it stable I am means I am right now and I probably always will be stupid
verses I can change this thought or skill I can learn math and internal
attributions mean it’s about me as a person versus about a
skill or skill deficit or something completely unrelated so when somebody
makes a global internal negative statement we want to help them challenge
that global internal positive statements I’m all about but the negative ones I
want to say let’s take a look at that is that true that this is about you all of
the time and it means that there’s something wrong with you so we want to
ask them how are these thoughts how are these ways of thinking impacting your
emotions health relationships and perceptions of the world we want to
increase motivation to start looking at these spanking errors because it’s a lot
of work to start changing the way you automatically think because you’ve got
to stop you’ve got to become mindful and then you’ve got to decide well what are
the alternative thoughts because this is what I thought for so long how may have
this thought has been helpful in the past most of the time thoughts we have
came from somewhere and whether it was a thought we had when we were a child
something we learned when we were a child that is dichotomous and not quite
applicable anymore it may have been helpful in the past to help you navigate
situations doesn’t mean it was wrong it means it’s not helpful in the present
asking them to always ask themselves is this thought or feeling bringing you the
client closer to those people and things that are important to you it’s hanging
on to this negativity bringing you closer and and I like the energy
philosophy if you will when you are unhappy you are letting this person have
your power you are letting this person make you angry when you decide you are
not going to give them your power then you may start feeling happier and I
don’t always use that with clients but sometimes the power metaphor help
when we talk about thinking Ayers asked them are there examples of this not
being true and and or how can a statement be made less global stable and
internal is it about you or is it about what you do at work is it about you or
is it about your relationship with this particular person so the last couple of
slides focusing on some of the irrational thoughts or unhelpful beliefs
our basic fears are rejection and isolation failure loss of control the
unknown and death generally the things that cause people to have this
fight-or-flight reaction fall into one of those categories so some of the
unhelpful beliefs that we hear a lot coming up when we do the ABCs is that
mistakes are never acceptable so if I make one
I am incompetent so we’ve got dichotomous thinking and we’ve got a lot
of internal global labeling here rejection and isolation when somebody
disagrees with me it’s a personal attack against me well sometimes it is what
does that mean it’s about you we’re helping them address the rejection and
isolation fears we want to ask them you know if they disagree with you were they
attacking you and saying you were stupid or were they attack attacking you want
to use that word or were they attacking the thought and saying they disagreed
with the thought there’s a little bit of a difference it’s somewhat semantics but
it’s a difference because they may have a lot of respect for you but they may
disagree with what you just said if someone criticizes or rejects me there
must be something wrong with me again that’s one of those internal global
negative statements to feel good about myself others must approve of me we want
to make sure our clients can self validate and they don’t rely on external
validation because they’re setting themselves up for a world of hurt if
they are not their own best friend to be content in
life I must be liked by all people and thanks for a second are you liked by
everybody I know I’m not liked by everybody so does that mean that I
should not be content in life and what does it say to give people that power to
say if you don’t like me that I can’t be content because I’ve got to be liked by
everybody sometimes with clients I’ll help them look at what may be going on
with the other person why that person might like them because a lot of times
other people’s reactions towards you are more about their stuff than about you
and helping them see how that might be true my true value as an individual
depends on what others think of me so these other unhelpful beliefs pertain to
those thoughts of failure and loss of control none of us likes to fail don’t
get me wrong it’s not pleasant but it happens and there is a saying out there
that says if you haven’t failed you haven’t tried which means we need to get
beyond our safety envelope we need to push ourselves behind beyond our
boundaries and when we do sometimes we’re going to stumble and fall and we
pick ourselves up and we learn from it but to expect to never fail at anything
is not realistic so nothing ever turns out the way you want it to how many
times have you heard that from your clients I won’t try anything new unless
I know I’ll be good at it I’m in total control and anything bad that happens is
my fault so let’s look at this locus let’s control thing here you’re in total
control so you can make it rain you know it was unpleasant today because I had to
come to work and it was raining outside so that was bad it happened was it your
fault pointing out and depending on your relationship for your client you’re
probably going to be more or less snarky when you present some of these but a lot
of times I have a semi joking relationship if you will with my clients
and they’re like yeah I see your point that kind of didn’t make a lot of
since other times you know if they’re more serious I’ll ask them to identify
things that happened that were bad that they had nothing to do with if I feel
happy about life something will go wrong or I’m always waiting for the other shoe
to drop helping people stay focused in the moment with mindfulness and
something’s going to go wrong down the road somewhere sometimes yeah it’s true
this will happen let’s enjoy what we’ve got for right now the past always
repeats itself it was if it was true then it’s true now so what was true when
you were ten is true now that you’re forty always is that true it’s not my
fault my life didn’t go the way I wanted everybody conspired against me and
there’s no gray area so for people who feel the need to hold on to control its
dichotomous it is or it isn’t it’s got to be that way there’s no gray area and
it can make life be seem very uncomfortable because they’ve got to put
things in one of two buckets and sometimes things don’t fit nicely in
buckets what happens if we add a third bucket that both an bucket so a quick
note about irrationality the origins of most beliefs were rational and helpful
given the information the person had at the time and their ability to process
that information because of their cognitive development so things that we
identify as unhelpful or automatic beliefs now came from somewhere and they
made perfect sense whenever they were formed they may not be healthy or
helpful now which is why we want to look at them and either adjust them or just
throw them out the door but when they were formed they were on point
irrationality or unhelpful nasaw thoughts comes when those beliefs are
perpetuated without examination so again we need to look at them continually look
at what you’re telling yourself and go is this still accurate
and continue to be held despite causing harm to the person sometimes you’re
going to look at a thought an automatic thought and you’re going to go yeah that
is still spot-on now is holding on to this helping me
achieve my goals you know yet the world right now is kind of a scary place is
holding on to this fear and terror helping me and be a happy productive
yada-yada whatever kind of person you want to be or is it causing me to feel
anxious and angry and scared sometimes it’s more productive for clients to
think of thoughts as unhelpful instead of irrational because like I said I feel
like irrationality and distortions seem very pejorative to a lot of clients so
questions clients can ask themselves when they are faced with a situation
what are the facts for and against this belief is this belief based on facts or
feelings just because you feel scared is it a scary situation does the belief
focus on just one aspect or the whole situation does the belief seem to use
any of those thinking errors we talked about and if so you know what do I need
to do about it what are some alternate explanations for this belief what else
could have caused this to happen besides whatever I’m afraid of what would you
tell your child or your best friend if they had this belief
what would you took what would you want someone to tell you about this belief
you could have somebody tell you something that would make you feel okay
what would you want them to tell you and how is this belief moving you toward
what and who is important to you remembering that beliefs are a
combination of thought and fact and personal interpretation of those
thoughts and facts I tend to when I talk you know you see me I kind of I’m all
over the place with my arms I am a animated talker now if you are seeing me
from a hundred feet away and you are seeing me talk
might think I was angry because I make a lot of really big gestures because if
you had grown up in a situation where there was domestic violence or something
but if you had grown up in a household like I did where you had a first
generation Italian first generations of ten Italian Americans talk big they talk
real big with lots of gestures and sometimes loud and that doesn’t
necessarily mean any anger a lot of times it’s just pure excitement so
understanding that there’s thoughts in facts you know you see this going on but
your personal interpretation can really affect what you get out of it or what
you perceive that situation to be so we need to look at how is your personal
interpretation maybe adding a negative bias and what what do we do about that
it may be 100 percent accurate what do we do about it so it doesn’t keep you
miserable thoughts impact behaviors and emotional and physical reactions
emotional physical reactions impact thoughts and your interpretation of
events irrational or unhelpful thinking patterns are often caused by cognitive
distortions my two favorite words in that same sentence cognitive distortions
are schemas or shortcut ideas or memories if you will which were formed
based on faulty inaccurate or immature knowledge or understanding of the event
you know little kids may not have quite understood what was going on they just
understood that mommy and daddy were screaming identifying the thoughts the
hecklers I call them those negative voices inside your head that are
maintaining unhappiness helps people choose whether to accept the thoughts
and say yeah you know that’s right I really am not good at that or whatever
the negative thought is and change it or let the thought go are there any
questions you you thank you miss Benson well thank you all
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Questioner: Sadhguru, I wanted to know that when we are silent, still we feel that mind chattering, which always bothers us. And our thought always shifts back to past and future imaginations, which will not be any of the output. How to get rid of it? Sadhguru: There’s a whole lot of thought about this thoughtlessness. Thoughtlessness, no mind, these kinds of terms have been propagated all over the place, and these terms have been badly misunderstood and made into all kinds of things, and people are striving “how to stop my mind.” It took millions of years of evolution to get a mind of this kind of capability.
Hmm? Isn’t it? Millions of years of the tremendous amount of nature’s work that today you have a mind of this kind of scope. And now, you want to stop it. [Chuckles] Why is it that you want to stop it? If your mind was constantly producing absolute pleasantness for you, would you think about how to stop this mind? Would you? No. It’s producing a lot of unpleasantness, and that’s why you’re thinking of how to stop the mind. This is the first thing, wherever you go in the world, this has gone so much into people’s minds; if you tell them, “You meditate,” they say, “But Sadhguru, I’m not able to stop my mind.” I said, “That will happen only after you stop your kidneys, liver, heart…
[Laughter] If you stop all these things, then the mind will also stop. Do you want it to stop?” “No.” Then why do you want the mind to stop? Why do you have such a horrible prejudice against the mind? You don’t mind if your heart is beating, you can meditate. You don’t mind if your liver is working, you can meditate. Your kidneys are functioning, you can meditate. If your brain functions, you can’t meditate. What is the problem? You seem to have something against intelligence, isn’t it? [Laughs] This is the conspiracy of the stupid against human intelligence, that to meditate means your brain must be frozen. No. You don’t have to freeze your brain. We were looking at this yesterday itself. We will initiate you into Shambhavi – it’s a simple process. There are many ways to do it, this is one simple way, but it’s a powerful process. If you sit here, you will see, your body is here, your mind is somewhere, and who you are is somewhere else.
Once there is space between you and the mind, then what the mind is not doing, what the mind is doing, is not even an issue. It is like you’re stuck in a traffic jam; you know, you’re struggling through the traffic – that’s one experience. Suppose you are either standing on Chamundi Hill, or you are floating in a hot air balloon, and looking down at all the traffic. Very peacefully, “Traffic.
Hmm…” [Laughter] Why? Because of distance, isn’t it? When you’re in it, traffic is a different experience. From really high up there, sitting in a hot air balloon, you look down, and you can’t even hear the sounds, looks wonderful traffic, isn’t it? Yes, or no? Participants: Yes. Sadhguru: Because there’s a distance. So, once there’s a distance between you and your mind’s activity, the mind is not a problem – the mind is a miracle, it is not a problem. And anyway, if thoughts are going continuously, if you’re having mental diarrhea, [Laughter] you ate some bad food, isn’t it? Yes? If you’re having physical diarrhea, you ate some bad food, isn’t it? If you’re having mental diarrhea, you consumed something wrong. What this wrong thing could be is, the moment you identify yourself with something that you’re not, then you’re finished – your mind is a continuous run. There is no other way. Do what you want, and try as hard as you want, it is not going to stop.
If you do not identify yourself with anything that you are not, you know how to be with everything, you know how to use everything, but you’re not identified with it, then you will see, if you sit here, simply, the mind will be like this; [Gestures] if you want to use it you can use it, otherwise, it’ll be like this. Right now your hands are like this; oh, you’re holding it tied up because it’ll go all over, is it? No, you can keep it like this. You can keep it like this, you can keep it like this. [Gestures] When you want to use it, you can use it. So, it’s a useful instrument. Suppose your hands become like this. [Gestures] You know, some people have become like this? Yes, or no? [Gestures] If it becomes like this, you will become ridiculous, isn’t it? If it happens to your mind, also you’re equally ridiculous. It is just that you are living in the comfort that nobody else can see it.
But people can see it; if they watch you closely enough, they can see it, isn’t it? And whether they can see it or not, that’s not the point; the point is, the most important faculty of your life is out of control. It doesn’t matter whether they can see it or not, that’s not the issue; the issue is, the most important faculty in your life is out of control, doing its rubbish all the time, not doing what you want it to do. So, if you have to be freed from this ailment, you should stop eating bad food. Wrong food, or bad food means, you are identifying yourself with things that you’re not. If you sit here, if you’re not identified with this, and with this, [Gestures] then you will see, everything is just fine. Then your mind will do what you want it to do; otherwise, it’ll simply hang there, and that’s how it should be. The mind should not be telling its own stories all the time; it should tell the story that you want it to tell, isn’t it? Otherwise, it’s quite a nuisance.
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Whatever your state of mind has been from your childhood to now need not be the state of your mind for the rest of your life find something that you’re passionate about you need to develop some intensity of attention will naturally come [Music] the easiest thing to do is change the framework of our mind [Music] see when it comes to physical body and the mind no two human beings have come with the same capabilities isn’t it physically mentally what one human being can do another human being cannot do it’s in so many different ways [Music] so instead of getting a title that i’m attention deficiency and add a b c x y z so many things [Music] the thing is how to maximize who you are isn’t it you have attention deficiency but i had another kind of problem i had too much attention if i pay attention to this one i can’t shift my attention to this i’m just looking at this only for hours that also people thought is a problem people thought it is a problem he’s just looking at one thing all the time i remember this situation so well it was so insane you know my father is academically excelled all his life but unfortunately he produces a son like me who has no concern about academics of any kind so he thinks he’s a very strict disciplinarian and evening seven to nine every day in the evening we must all the four siblings all of us must study textbook i pick up some textbooks because it doesn’t matter for me what and i open somewhere i don’t care which page i just open some page and i i find some small speck on the page a tiny speck some flaw in the paper i just look at that that’s about it it just grabs my attention in such a way i just sit there two hours just looking at this spec i don’t read a single word but i never looked up and looked here and there because it really held my attention two hours i’m just looking at the speck because there is so much in a bloody speck you know there’s an entire world in a spec people have spent their lifetimes looking after microscopic molecule or an atom isn’t it speck is much bigger than an atom so people thought i was going crazy because i had too much attention so don’t go on labeling yourself this and that who who decides you have attention deficiency is there some standard how much attention you must have or how much attention you must get there is no such standard anywhere isn’t it you making it up the problem is right from childhood children are labeled and they are supposed to carry this label for the rest of their life what level of attention you have at five what level you may have at six at seven at eight at fifteen or twenty can be entirely different haven’t many of you evolved through this process huh haven’t you first day school you couldn’t figure a damn thing maybe later on you did well or maybe first day you look like you understood everything by the end of the year you did nothing yes or no you you’re a young man there are girls in the neighborhood i’m a mechanical engineer no that’s okay i’m i’m a mechanical engineer are there girls in the neighborhood i asked no engineers generally tend to have neighborhoods which do not have a lot of girls so [Music] they must be moving away for some reason where does this come from mechanical engineer mechanical in the head so you’re at a certain age now you get drawn to somebody you don’t have to concentrate isn’t it hello you don’t have to concentrate they will invade [Music] so it is only a level of interest if you have a deep level of interest in something attention will come why will it not come you still have not found any interest in anything i don’t know which part of the mechanics you’re handling in london i heard the clock is not working so if you become profoundly drawn to something why will you not have attention attention will come do i have as much attention as somebody else maybe not i never had any attention for what was happening in the classroom but i didn’t find that interesting i was but my attention was in all kinds of things does it mean to say i don’t have it i have attention deficiency no i’m not interested in what they’re putting up on the blackboard that’s all so right now unfortunately all the girls have moved out of the neighborhood so you have attention deficiency find something that you’re passionate about attention will come why will it not come not necessarily what i said just anything i’m taking that example of a girl because there is a chemical support yes there is a chemistry working for your attention other things need little more effort to pay attention to you need to develop some intensity of passion that’s something that is important what you think is important if this comes into your perspective attention will naturally come i know others will say other things but what i am telling you is whatever your state of mind has been from your childhood to now need not be the state of your mind for the rest of your life the easiest thing to do is change the framework of our mind isn’t it to change the framework of our body is very difficult to change the framework of our mind is the easiest thing to do because that is the most flexible thing but that you have made it like a concrete block what do you want to use your head for just headbutting [Music] you must keep this as flexible as possible isn’t it hello you have made this into a concrete block what is the intention that’s why i think so many are i mean the such passionate football fans the only thing that you appreciate is this that is also a good thing when it’s done well but head can be used for many more things and you can do many more things only if you keep it completely fluid and flexible otherwise a concrete block is useful only for certain things so it doesn’t matter what labels they put on you if you wish you can change the structure of your mind [Music] my [Music] you
As found on YouTubeBrain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your own brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it!
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Welcome back to another video, before we start, we’d
like to thank you all for the support that you’ve given us. Psych2Go mission is to make psychology and mental health more
accessible to everyone, and you help us do that, so thank you, now back to the video. Are you always insecure
about your relationships? Do you need constant reassurance from your partner or loved ones? Attachment theory
categorizes the way we act in relationships into three-man attachment styles, in today’s video, we will be focusing on the anxious attachment style, which according to mind-body green is a type of insecure attachment
style rooted in a fear of abandonment and insecurity
of being under-appreciated. The anxiety or insecurities you may feel in your relationship today may be due to an anxious attachment style
you developed as a child.
Remember if you find yourself relating to the points we mentioned,
be kind to yourself, and know that you can always work towards improving your behaviors, with that said, let’s
look at the eight signs of an anxious attachment style. Number one is feeling
insecure in relationships. Are you always worried
about not being good enough for your partner? Does it get in the way of your happiness? A sign of an anxious attachment style is feeling insecure in your relationships, and this insecurity may
manifest in several ways. For instance, you may find
yourself very reactive to your partner’s words and actions, or find that you need constant reassurance from your partner to feel okay.
Number two is, the looming fear of abandonment. Are you scared that your
partner will leave you even when nothing is wrong? This fear of abandonment
is pretty common for people with an anxious attachment. It’s likely stemming from
feelings of abandonment and insecurity about your
parents when you were a child. According to how Healthline
this fear and worry that your partner will leave you, often results in a tendency to become overly
dependent on your partner, which may negatively
impact your relationship and your emotional wellbeing. Number three is trust issues. You have a hard time
trusting your partner. Maybe you find it hard to
believe in your partner when they say they won’t leave you, or when your friends tell you that they truly care about you, whatever it is, this
difficulty to trust others may stem from a combination
of feeling insecure about your relationships, and fearing that your
partner or your friends are going to abandon you in time.
If it gets out of hand,
this distrust of others may result in losing your relationships. Number four is clinginess. Have other people called you clingy when it comes to you
and your relationships, maybe you’re over-reliant, or
overdependent on your friends, family, or partner. Unlike some of the other signs, clinginess can be a common
coping mechanism for fears that come with the
anxious attachment style. According to the attachment project, people with anxious
attachment develop clinginess because they’re afraid of being alone. Number five is emotional neediness. Do you always need other
people’s attention? According to Abby Moore from
Mindbodygreen many people with an anxious attachment
style are emotionally needy because they did not receive the proper emotional nurturing
and security as a child. And this emotional neediness
may manifest into behaviors where they constantly seek reassurance, soothing, and attention from
the people in their life. Number six, harsh reactions to criticism. Are you the type to
take criticism to heart? Does it have a strong
impact on your self-esteem? While it is not uncommon to
be sensitive to criticism those with an anxious attachment style might view criticism more intensely.
Instead of seeing criticism
as a way to help you grow, you may take it as a rejection, and let it amplify your
fears and insecurities, which may ultimately
lead to low self-esteem. Number seven is ambivalence
towards intimacy. Do you crave intimacy, or
do you find it overwhelming? Some people with anxious
attachments walk this fine line between craving and fearing
emotional and physical intimacy. And this perception of intimacy may be due to emotional neglect
during your childhood. So while you have a deep
craving for intimacy, you may not know how to, or be comfortable with accepting it. And number eight, feeling unworthy. Do you feel unworthy of love, or that you aren’t good
enough for your relationships? People with an anxious attachment may have low levels of self-esteem, and a negatively distorted
view of their self-worth. This lack of self-esteem is
likely to stem from insecurities and fears of being abandoned, or unwanted by your parents or loved ones, which may lead to a belief
that you’re not worthy enough for your relationships.
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SeanCooper🗯 The Shyness & Social Guy ⇝ The 3 WORST Mistakes You Must AVOID If You Want To Overcome Shyness (PLUS: 1 weird trick that targets the root biological cause of shyness so you can stop being nervous, awkward, and quiet around people…) By Sean Cooper, The Shyness & Social Anxiety Guy. The fact that you’re reading this article tells me you may have already reached a point where you feel your shyness is NOT going away on its own… or you fear it’s getting worse and worse. And I don’t want you to waste one more day living a life where you feel left out, bored, or depressed because you don’t have the relationships which would make you happy. That’s why I’ve put together this page to help you avoid the worst mistakes that keep many people stuck with shyness for years…
often giving up hope of ever improving as you watch other people have interesting “normal” lives without you. Yet this doesn’t have to happen.
ADHD stands for attention deficit
hyperactivity disorder and is often described as a mental disorder. children
with ADHD have trouble paying attention are hyperactive and often have
difficulty controlling their behavior. it is estimated that it affects around five
percent of all children aged 3 to 17 globally and that for every girl around
three boys are diagnosed with it. to understand how it affects children in
school let’s look at the story of Leo, a 12-year-old boy who goes to school with
the best intentions but struggles hard to succeed. attention deficit is his biggest problem.
Leo gets distracted so easily it happens even when he tries his hardest to focus.
he often realizes that he has suddenly zoned out and has spent the last 15
minutes thinking about something entirely different. just the tiniest
thing can get him off track. to him it feels like his brain is broken.
he is also forgetful books and homework are often left at home and if he doesn’t
miss an assignment he often loses it somewhere or forgets to turn it in.
His
grades are terrible and some teachers are beginning to think that he is a lost
case. then there is his hyperactivity: when
they have to do group work he is restless and has trouble staying focused.
staying calm and listening while others speak can completely drain him, making
any normal conversation a serious challenge. to him it feels like there is
no capacity left in his brain to deal with all the input that needs to be
processed. he then feels angry about not being able
to follow along. to help cope with his hyperactivity he likes to keep his hands
busy all the time. last, there is his impulsive behavior: he
often cannot refrain from saying things that come to his mind. sometimes he tries
hard to control himself but then just blurts out and interrupts others. his
classmates find this annoying. he leader regrets his hot-headed behavior but he
knows that unfortunately, he will do it again and again. it seems to him that he
can’t learn from his mistakes. teachers get frustrated trying to get
him to behave.
Others become impatient, give up or distance themselves. after he
is diagnosed and receives support through concrete steps, things begin to
get better: at school, he is seated next to a supportive student in the front row
of the class, he gets a notebook that lists all his assignments to help him
remember and to make homework easier to track he receives it for all subjects
only once a week. to relax he is allowed to use fidget objects during lessons and
take short breaks when needed. after school he practices speaking and
listening routines with the specialist. additionally, his dad bikes with him to
school every morning and in the afternoon he is allowed to play the ball
as long as he wishes. for severe cases of ADHD prescription drugs are often
prescribed. before that happens children like Leo need to undergo a
professional age-appropriate diagnosis by a child psychologist who will try to
look below the surface.
ADHD could just be the tip of the
iceberg the root cause might be drama at home, bullying at school, poor sleep or
the wrong diet. Sir Ken Robinson told the story of Gillian Lynne, an 8-year-old
girl that was said to have a learning disorder. she could not concentrate and
never sat still. when she was brought to the specialist who didn’t subscribe any
therapy but instead played music on the radio, the girl started dancing. he then
told her mother: “Gillian isn’t sick, she’s a dancer. take her to a dance school!”
Gillian Lynne later became a famous dancer and then responsible for some of
the most successful musicals in Broadway history. please share your thoughts in
the comments below. if you are hyperactive or if you are diagnosed with
ADHD please tell us about your coping mechanisms so we can learn more about it
from reading your insights. if you want to support our Channel, enabling us
to make more such videos, visit patreon.com/sprouts and check out
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As found on YouTubeBrain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your own brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it!
When we say health if someone says you have no ailment it does not mean you’re healthy when I wake up in the morning or you feel alive and bouncy but not the word health comes from the word hope you must have a certain sense of wholeness of body mind energy and the fundamental nature of your existence if all these things are in alignment now when you wake up in the morning you feel like you just born if this happens to you that means you’re healthy one simple thing all your girls can do is just bring 40 to 50% of the food in its raw form that means it’s alive it must be a live cell it can be a vegetable it can be of fruit it can be enacted can be sprouted gram at least forty to fifty percent the food that you eat must be alive you eat dead food and you want to live this is a little difficult thing to do because you have to raise the dead now when you cook the fruit to tie just the food all the ingredients necessary for touches are not in the body alone the food also brings the enzymes when you cook the food you are largely destroying these enzymes – the enzymes when you eat now the body has to struggle to reconstruct that part that has been destroyed and then only it can digest normally first one one and a half hours after eating it tends to take the body down after that slowly it’s a Commerce so food is for energy but we are making the food in such a way that it takes our energy in the first one and a half hours only after that slowly it comes back anyway however good your digestive process is still you can never reconsider reconstitute all the enzymes that we have destroyed by cooking only partly we can do that if your digestive process is very strong and good you reconstitute about 40 to 50 percent of what’s been destroyed if it is a little timid kind of digestion it’s much less so whichever way if you’re eating cooked food 50 to 60 percent of the food that you’re eating is generally going waste but the body has to still process that and the amount of energy that it spends and the amount of trauma that it goes through is very big would means many things to many people but essentially for the body it’s a few out if you put the right kind of fuel this will be on in a certain way if you put the wrong kind of you will somehow it will manage I’m not telling you eat this way eat that way this experiment and see alright just experiment and see tonight if you go in so we thing whatever cooked food just eat fruits and see tomorrow morning you will not need an alarm bell you will wake up before the alarm bell and you will see all these eyes will not be sticking like this like that you wake up instantly your bright and alert people do not know what it means to be at absolute ease within their body 95% of the people do not know this unfortunately because you put the wrong kind of fuel you can keep this body like grease simply it goes ahead of you you don’t have to drag it wherever you go it must float ahead of you you can do this just put in the right kind of fuel [Music] [Music] you
As found on YouTubeBrain Booster | Blue Heron Health News ⇝ I was losing my memory, focus – and mind! And then… I got it all back again. Case study: Brian Thompson There’s nothing more terrifying than watching your brain health fail. You can feel it… but you can’t stop it. Over and over I asked myself, where is this going to end? What am I going to end up like? And nobody could tell me. Doesn’t matter now. I’m over it. Completely well. This is how I did it!
Minecraft has just released the brand new 1.20 update, which introduces a bunch of interesting stuff to the game, such as archeology armor trims, new mobs, and much more. So today, I updated my hardcore world to the new update, and our goal is to explore all the new features. The very first thing I want to discover is the cherry blossom biome because I strongly believe that Minecraft copied the custom biome that I built in this video. Like, come on, they’re identical! Come on, Minecraft, at least give me some credit. I’m just kidding, but we’re going to have to fly like 5,000 blocks to reach the new world because I’ve already generated a ton of world space by flying around. So, yeah, let’s start flying to generate some new land. Wait, there’s bamboo right here. Hold up, I just remembered there’s a brand new block in the game. If we grab some bamboo right here, bam! I don’t know what it does, but it looks kind of cool though. Now we can turn the blocks of bamboo into bamboo planks, which are just yellow wood. It’s kind of like you just peed over Oakwood and it got stained. But using all these bamboo planks, you can craft a lot of things, basically everything in Minecraft. That’s pretty cool. Oh, and I just remembered, you can finally edit signs. You say hello, done, and then you get hello. And then you can right-click it and edit it again. Like, subscribe. Thank you, Minecraft, for finally adding that. That is the bamboo. Let’s go find the cherry stuff. I’m pretty excited about this new biome because it adds one block that I love. Do you guys know what that is? Wait, what am I doing? I could travel in the Nether. I am so stupid. Because traveling one block in the Nether is equivalent to traveling eight blocks in the Overworld. Let’s go ahead and grab some obsidian so I can craft a portal. I got flint and steel and fly into the Nether. Yep, that was a cool transition. Didn’t take me a while to do. Let’s fly to the top of the Nether and let’s just fly straight in some random direction. Okay, this should be good enough. I’m gonna build an arrow pointing back in my direction so I don’t forget because I didn’t write down my coordinates, which is kind of stupid. Let’s craft a portal though. I am bam! And let’s just see where it takes us. Please be right in the middle of a cherry blossom biome. Um, okay, I’m in a cave. Okay, we’re in a new land because this water just flowed. We got an achievement called Subspace Bubble. And I don’t want to forget where this Nether portal is, so I’m just gonna… Oh, okay, we ran right into the water. Let’s just mine a staircase up to the surface and see where we’re at. And we’re not anywhere fancy. Okay, I don’t want to forget where my portal is, so I’m just gonna build up here and build some structure so I don’t forget where I was. Alright, let’s go exploring. Let’s see what we can find. Is there anything nearby? Oh, it looks like there’s a shipwreck right here. I might be able to find my first-ever ruin. I think it’s called. It’s those weird thingies that you can put on your armor. Now, where’s the chest at? You can’t hide from me forever. I’m coming for you. And… nothing. There’s a buried treasure map, though. And maybe using this, I can find my first-ever ruin. I just realized it’s not even called ruins. I’m talking about armor trims. Yeah, I’m not the smartest person in the world, but I’m right over the top of it. Let’s dig around. I need my first-ever armor trim. Where… where is this thing? Oh, it’s right here. Wait, it’s not right there. What? I’m right over the top of it. How deep is this thing? Oh, it’s right there. Okay, please. Oh my God, is it loaded? But… um, nothing that fancy. That was a waste of time. Oh, there’s also an abandoned Nether portal here. I’m not sure if armor trims gonna spawn in these. I might as well give it a try. Let’s see. And nothing. I’ll replace my flint and steel, though. It’s not considered stealing if I put mine back, right? It’s just a little more damaged. I’m also gonna steal the gold, though. I mean, that’s stealing. And let’s fly away as if nothing happened. Okay, there’s also a snow village right here. I’m just looking for my first-ever armor trim. Anything? Nope. I’m going on a limb, but it looks like I’m in Canada. Why? Well, because these guys are living in igloos. Uh, why am I making fun of Canadians? I’m Canadian myself. This is a friendly fire. But there’s no luck. I can’t find any armor trims. Alright, I guess it’s a lot harder than I thought to find. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off.
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This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. Just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep exploring. I spot another village. Well, I’ll take that because we’re gonna take this saddle and slap it on the camel. Not seeing any luck with this village either. I didn’t know they were gonna be so rare. Another abandoned portal. This is the one. It is not the one. Oh, they changed the knockback. Look at my screen. I’m burning like nodding the people. Yo, what’s up? Oh my, this village is underground. Okay, this is the last house. Come on, please. Nice. Am I being stupid? Are there no armor trims that spawn in villages? I just searched it up and yeah, I was being stupid. Just forget I was doing that, guys. Just delete that from your memory. Okay, thanks. Okay, the next feature I want to find is a desert well. I guess the desert isn’t a new feature, but I can tackle a lot of things about going to a desert, like finding a camel, finding a desert pyramid. They may have armor trims and also suspicious sand spawns in desert temples. And we can get our first look at the archeology they added. Is this a desert? Please, please, please, please, please. I think it’s just a big pit of sand. I think I just found the turtle world, the hidden world of the turtles. What? There are so many turtles. Oh my God, these guys have a water slide too. Oh God, oh my God, he almost pushed his friend off. This guy just committed murder. I’m gonna leave. I’ve seen two. I’m pretty sure armor trims spawn in Pillager outposts too. I’m just gonna run past all of you guys. I’m way too lazy to fight you guys. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind. And no luck. And just a reminder, you only have five hours left to get yourself a King Cookie plushie and it will never be sold ever again. So if you’re interested, click the link in the description for your last chance. Let’s keep flying around and see what we can find. This is kind of exciting. I’m just exploring the world again. Oh my God, it’s right there. The cherry blossom biome. The cherry… The cherry… The cherry blossom biome. It’s not the biggest one ever, but hey, we found it. Let’s mine our first-ever cherry tree. Oh my God, I’m touching brand-new wood right now. Look at all these little flower particles coming down from the tree. This is awesome. I love the ambiance this biome gives off. Wow. But the unknown block I was talking about earlier in the video that I love is the leaves. Look at this. These are the best leaves in Minecraft. And the only other leaf that is another color is pink. It’s like the azalea leaves and oak leaves had a baby and just made a girl leaf. And a cherry leaf came to be. Honestly, I don’t even know what I’m saying. Does this effect only happen in the cherry blossom biome? Because like, I wonder if I just place leaves like this, will it also have falling leaves? Oh my God, it has the particles. I could do a lot of decoration with this block. And I also collect these little flowers. What are these called? They’re pink petals. Okay. Oh my God, you could just stack them on top of each other. They’re like the pickles from the ocean. The cherry sapling also looks nice. Cool. But let’s explore this village as well. I want to find myself some armor trims. I’m gonna steal this actually because I’m gonna need a smithing table at home. What am I doing? Come on, armor trims. Where are you at? Oh, I’m pretty sure you can find them in all these structures. Unless I’m wrong. Come on, where are you hiding them? Give me your armor trims. I look like a noob right now from 1.19. I need to get with the trend. I’m getting old right now. I just turned 22 and I’m falling behind.
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2022 is a year that will go down in history as one of the most significant of the entire 21st century for many reasons. One of the biggest reasons was that 2022 marked the very first time in more than 300 years that China ceased being the world’s most populous country, according to official Chinese State data that was released this year. 2022 marked the first time in more than 60 years that the Chinese population had recorded a decline, the first decline since the depths of the great Chinese famine back in 1960 and 61 that claimed the lives of tens of millions. In 2022, China’s population decreased by around 850,000 people, and it is now primed to continue decreasing every single year for the next several decades. This fact will profoundly change and influence the kind of world that we all live in.
After decent narrowing the gap, India finally officially emerged as the world’s newest most populous country just a few months ago in April of 2023, a title that will likely continue holding over China for the rest of the 21st century. Going forward, as the Indian population continues to grow while China’s continues to shrink, in less than 40 years from now, by 2060, India’s population is projected to further accelerate towards the 1.7 billion people mark before finally stabilizing and contracting slightly by the end of the century. Meanwhile, China’s first year of population decline in 2022 heralds only the beginning of a decades-long process in which the Chinese population will historically speaking begin rapidly declining. In less than 30 years from now, by 2050, China’s population is very likely to lose somewhere between 100 and 200 million people from where it’s at today. And by the end of the century in 2100, China’s population may decline from the 1.41 billion it still is today to as few as only 800 million, representing what will be nothing less than the quickest population decline of any civilization in human history. By that point, the Chinese population may only be around half the size of India’s end-of-century projected population of around 1.5 to 1.6 billion.
Today, in 2023, the Chinese population still accounts for around 18% of the entire human population. For centuries now, at least dating back to the 1700s, nearly one in five humans on the planet have consistently found themselves in China, a fact that has given every Chinese government for hundreds of years now a tremendous amount of influence in global affairs through sheer size. Just for the sake of context, there are more people alive in China right now than in all of Europe, North America, and Australia combined. But if the United Nations population projections for China hold to 2100, when China’s population is expected to decline to as few as only 800 million, there might be a new world very soon in which the Chinese population entering into the 22nd century will only account for less than 8% of the worldwide human population. This fact will significantly weaken China’s demographic influence and clout in global affairs like it has never seen before.
But for Beijing, the future looks a lot worse than even this initially suggests. While China’s population enters into a long period of decline starting now, the population of China’s primary geopolitical rival, the United States, is likely to only continue growing. The same U.N. population projections estimated that by the end of the 21st century, America’s population will probably increase from the present to somewhere around 400 million, which by then will only be around half of China’s 800 million. This will be a completely different reality than the one we have today, where China and America’s populations are each in completely separate leagues, wherein China is roughly four and a quarter times the population base of the United States, giving China a significant advantage in manpower fit for military service and available workers for labor and manufacturing and factory jobs. But by the end of the century, this massive demographic advantage that China currently enjoys over the United States today will almost certainly diminish significantly, and doubly so when you factor in the rest of America’s military allies in NATO and key East Asian allies like Japan, South Korea, Taiwan, plus Australia. Yeah, this American-led alliance structure already today in 2023 has a population of around a billion people living within it, which is about 70% of China’s total population right now. In the event of a conflict between China and every single one of those countries today, China still holds all on its own the advantage in available manpower to pull from. Many countries in the American alliance network are facing steep population declines as well, like Japan, South Korea, Italy, and many others. But others like the United States, Australia, Canada, and France are continuing to grow and are expected to keep growing. Ultimately, meaning that the U.S.-led alliance network in North America, Europe, Oceania, and East Asia is likely to keep its combined population more or less consistent throughout the 21st century. And that means that at some point in the near-ish future, not too much after the year 2050, the American-led Western alliance network will collectively begin approaching the total number of citizens and available manpower that China has under its control, tilting the demographic advantage over to Washington’s side.
In addition to Washington’s pre-existing advantages in military technology, hardware, and finances, this realization that from now on, China’s population base will be shrinking through the rest of the 21st century will have profound influences and impacts on both China and America’s foreign policies and geopolitical events going forward. Especially as the People’s Republic weighs its ability and ideal time scale to successfully conduct a military invasion of Taiwan. Beijing now realizes that its demographic window of opportunity to exact its desired changes upon the world order, like establishing firm political control over Taiwan, is limited and beginning to close shut. And will almost certainly completely shut together by the early 2030s, next decade. This fact implies that if the People’s Republic is going to invade Taiwan, the best opportunity for them to do so will be either before that window closes shut for good or never at all. It suggests that a Chinese invasion of Taiwan will most likely happen within the next eight years from en this video is released or it will never happen at all.
So how did China even get itself into this situation, and what will be the world’s fastest shrinking population since it has been the world’s most populous country for so long? Ever since the era of the Qing dynasty in China in the early 1700s, China has continually been the home of the world’s largest popular a period of roughly four decades between 1911 and 1948, China faced significant internal and external crises and pressures that kept the population from growing very quickly as the Western world was industrializing and growing rapidly. In 1911, a revolution toppled the centuries-old Qing Dynasty and suddenly overthrew more than 2,000 years of Imperial rule in China. What had constituted China was quickly catapulted into nearly universal chaos as ethnically separate regions of the Qing Dynasty, like Mongolia and Tibet, declared their independence, while several aspiring warlords rose to local power across much of the rest of the country, all as the central government, calling itself the Republic of China, was increasingly failing to maintain its control and authority.
Then, the Chinese Communists, led by Mao Zedong, rose and began fighting a decade-long civil war with the Republic of China’s government in 1927. A devastating civil war that was massively interrupted when the Japanese decided to take advantage of China’s internal chaos by invading and biting off Manchuria in 1931 before launching a full-scale invasion and conquest across the whole of China in 1937 that would last until 1945 and claim the lives of somewhere around 20 million people. During that invasion, the Republic of China’s government and the Communists briefly set aside their civil war to fight together against the Japanese. But after it was concluded in 1945, the civil war almost immediately resumed for another four years until 1949 when the Communists finally emerged mostly victorious and proclaimed the People’s Republic of China over the mainland that we know today. While the Republic of China’s government retreated to the island of Taiwan, where it also remains in control to this day. No peace agreement or armistice between them has ever been signed, and so the civil war between them continues on paper to this day, with the Communists on the mainland claiming the island of Taiwan as a rogue province of China that they are the legal government of, and with the Republic of China on Taiwan officially claiming that all of the mainland are a series of rogue provinces of China that they are the legal government of. Both governments recognize Taiwan as a core province of their idea of China; they just disagree on who should be the rightful government of China.
After the People’s Republic of China invaded Tibet in 1950 and then annexed it in 1951, the country emerged with its presently recognized shape after almost exactly 40 years’ worth of continuous wars and conflicts waged across the whole of China that probably collectively claimed the lives of well over 30 million people and understandably cut down on China’s ability to grow its population base. But after 1951, China emerged from all of that chaos mostly unified under the single, strongly centralized government of the Chinese Communist Party, and so a long era of relative peace and stability has followed ever since, with the civil war remaining between the mainland and Taiwan staying a cold one for now.
During times of war, chaos, and uncertainty, people are less hopeful about their future and less likely to have children. Conversely, during times of general peace and stability, people are much more hopeful about their future and more likely to have children. And so, a baby boom took off in China following the conclusion of the civil war in 1949, similar to the baby boom that also happened in post-war E25 years America. Over just 25 years between 1950 and 1975, China’s population completely skyrocketed by nearly 66% as the country added in around 364 million people. And that’s even after including the period of the great Chinese famine, which lasted between 1959 and 1961 and claimed the lives of anywhere between 15 and 55 million people in the country, wherein China saw its final two years of population decline until the 21st century in 1960 and 61.
After the famine ended, China’s baby boom generation entered the world during a period from 1963 to 1975 when there were more than 20 million births taking place within China every single one of those years. By 1970, the average Chinese woman was still having 6.1 children each, at the same time when American and German women were only having an average of 2.3. This led to widespread fears within the Chinese Communist Party leadership at the time that China was facing a massive and endemic overpopulation problem that would hinder the country’s future, as the government would struggle to cartoon videos for so many new people.
Thus, to combat the perceived specter of overpopulation, the ChineLatermmunist Party introduced the “later, longer, fewer” campaign in 1973. It raised the legal age of marriage in the country up to 23 for women and 25 for men, strongly encouraged a three-year waiting period between births, and restricted the number of children to only two per family, with penalties that would be applied to people who failed to comply. The policy ultimately proved to be very successful very quickly, as the average birth rate of 6.1 children per woman in China in 1970 crashed down to 2.7 children per woman only a decade later in 1980. But 2.7 births per woman was still well above the replacement ratio of 2.1 children per woman, meaning that China’s population was continuing to grow despite the “later, longer, fewer” campaign. The government felt that the policy hadn’t gone far enough to curb China’s inevitable future. A long time ago, the government of China wanted to make sure that there were not too many people in the country. They made some rules to help with this. They said that people could only get married when they were older, and they had to wait for a few years between having babies. They also said that families could only have two children. If people didn’t follow these rules, they would get in trouble. These rules worked very well, and not as many babies were being born. But the government still wanted fewer babies, so they made another rule. They said that families in cities could only have one child was a vastly overpopulated state, so it was followed up with the now well-known one-child policy that was launched nationwide across China in 1980. A policy that strictly limited urban couples in the country to only being allowed to have a single child.
The policy was slightly relaxed by the mid-1980s to allow ethnic minority groups in the country and rural families to have up to two children, but only under the condition that their firstborn child was a girl because of widespread cultural preferences in China for boys, who were viewed as the ones that would take care of their parents in old age. The one-child policy led to decades worth of well-documented gender-selective abortions of female pregnancies and girls passed up for adoption so the couples could try again for their preferred only male child, a practice that became so widespread following the adoption of the one-child policy that it has created numerous demographic consequences for China today in the 21st century. It’ll be difficult to reverse. One study published back in 2015 in the Population and Development Review suggests that there are around 62 million missing women and girls in China today who would have otherwise been born or not adopted by foreigners had the one-child policy never been enacted. And as a consequence, China’s population today has a lopsided gender ratio, where there are probably somewhere around 35 million more men than there are women and about 17.5 million more men than there are women in the 20 to 40 age range who are considered potentially marriageable. This implies that around 17.5 million young men in China will simply never be able to find a woman to marry and start a family with unless they search abroad.
Furthermore, as a result of decades worth of the government’s intervention to crush the national birth rate, births indeed began to plummet in China from the 1990s, a decade into the one-child policy. The fertility rate in China had already dropped to just 1.5 children per woman by the 2010s, and as of 2020, it has fallen to a historic low of only 1.3 children per woman. This means that China’s birth rate has been well beneath the replacement level of 2.1 children per woman that is required to keep the population stable for decades now, pretty much ever since the 1990s. By the 2010s, the Chinese Communist Party leadership began to recognize that the country was beginning to tip from the panic of overpopulation that gripped them in the 1970s and 80s to the new and opposite problem of depopulation and terminal demographic decline.
In 2013, the one-child policy was slightly relaxed to allow any parents in the country who themselves were only children to have a second child, regardless of gender. Then, finally, in 2016, after 36 years of being on the books in China, the one-child policy was officially ended, and all couples in the country were allowed to begin having two children again. And then just a few years later, in 2021, recognizing the severity of the problems their policies in the 70s and 80s had created, the government rolled out the new and current three-child policy, allowing and even encouraging, with tax incentives, all Chinese families to have up to three children. But these recent policies are, for the most part, too little and too late for the country, a fact that becomes much more obvious when you take a look at China’s current population pyramid that tracks the ages of all the 1.4 billion people who lived in the country circa 2020.
Note the huge bulge in China’s population of people roughly between the ages of 45 and 60, the baby boom generation of China that I mentioned earlier, born after the Great Famine between 1961 and 1975. This is the largest cohort of China’s age group. They are all beginning right now to enter into mass retirement as they age into their 60s, with significantly fewer amounts of young people beneath them who can support them. In demography, there is the concept of the working-age population, made up of people between 15 and 64. Any younger than that are children who aren’t working jobs and contributing to the economy, and any older are mostly retirees who are also no longer working jobs and contributing to the economy. And then even further, there is the prime age population, the age of citizens who are working the hardest, earning the most income, and paying the most taxes, which are people between the ages of 25 and 54. The higher the percentage of the overall population that this age group represents within a country, the generally stronger potential that country’s economy has. And conversely, the higher the percentage of people over 64 in retirement ages, known as the old-age dependency ratio, the less potential that country’s economy has because you just have more people in retirement who are no longer contributing to the economy and consuming more resources to support themselves in old age.
China’s working-age population of people between 15 and 64 already peaked back in 2016, while China’s prime-age population of people aged between 25 and 54 peaked even earlier, more than a decade ago, back in 2011. China’s old-age dependency ratio, the percentage of the population over the age of 64 in retirement, has been steadily increasing every single year since 2016. So as China’s population keeps declining in overall terms, the ratio of China’s remaining population will increasingly become older and older. And as more die from old age and enter retirement, there are fewer and fewer young people left to take their place. This means that ever since 2016, China has faced an ever-increasing shortage of workers with every passing year as more and more people enter retirement age. And unless China can attract significant immigrants from abroad to replace those workers, the country now faces a permanently decreasing amount of labor with every passing year. It will steadily result in increasing costs for scarcer Chinese labor and make Chinese manufacturing increasingly less competitive and inflationary. And it’s doubtful that China will be capable of attracting significant immigration because China has the lowest levels of immigrants of any mostly developed country in the world today. Germany and the United States, France, the UK, Italy, and other countries have all largely solved their own declining birth rate problems by encouraging millions of young migrants from abroad to relocate to their countries and assume many of the jobs the aging populations have retired from. And even countries that are less well-known for immigration, like Russia, South Korea, and Japan, all still have significantly higher ratios of immigrants than China, which is only at about 0.1% of their overall population. China has virtually no modern history of large-scale immigration, and unless something radical changes in the country, this is likely to remain the case. And that means that China’s rapidly aging and shrinking population is set to become a major drag on the Chinese economy going forward for the next several decades. A similar situation to what has already played out in Japan in both demographic and economic terms.
China appears, in a lot of ways, to be around 30 years ahead of Japan. Back in 1950, Japan had a massive young population at the bottom of their population pyramid, with a median age of only 21 compared to America’s 29, just like how China had 30 years later in 1980. Japan then benefited tremendously from decades worth of explosive economic growth that even outpaced growth in the United States as this bulge of hyper-productive young people moved their way through the overall population pyramid and became an increasingly larger percentage of the overall Japanese population. The GDP per capita in Japan skyrocketed from only 16% of the levels in the United States in 1960 to 154% of it 35 years later in 1995. Fears were rampant on Wall Street in the 1980s and early 90s that the Japanese economy was seemingly destined to overtake America as the largest in the world. And the closest it got was in 1995 when the Japanese economy was about 73% the size of America’s, a similar ratio to China’s and around 76% of the U.S. economy today in 2023. But as Japan rapidly developed across that time, Japan’s birth rate also began rapidly declining alongside it. And by the early 1990s, around the same time as Japan’s GDP per capita peaked, Japan’s prime-age working population also peaked at roughly the same time Japan’s median age surpassed America’s median age. And ever since 1995, the percentage of elderly people in Japan older than 64 has been growing as a larger percentage of the overall population. Consequently, Japan’s GDP per capita has steadily decreased nearly every single year since then, and Japan’s economy has remained largely stagnant for nearly 30 years of history ever since. As of 2022, the Japanese GDP is still smaller than it was 27 years before, back in 1995, as Japan’s overall population has continually grown older and entered into a state of continuous decline that began back in 2008.
China’s demographic and economic experiences are increasingly seeming to almost mirror this process that already took place in Japan. In 1980, China had a massive young population at the bottom of its population pyramid and a median age of only 21 compared to America’s 29, exactly like how Japan had in 1950. China then experienced decades worth of explosive economic growth, buoyed by this rising tide of young and highly productive workers rising through the population pyramid and becoming an ever-increasingly higher percentage of the overall Chinese population. It was during this period from 1980 onwards through roughly the present that China became known as the world’s factory, a period in which Chinese labor was abundant and wages were cheap, the period in which China’s global competitiveness as a manufacturing hub was unmatched anywhere in the world because of its massive and cheap labor force. But China’s birth rate also crashed during this period. And so, by 2011, China’s prime-age labor force peaked and then began declining as an overall percentage of the population. In 2012, China’s working-age population aged 15 to 64 peaked and then began steadily declining in 2016.
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Similar to how Japan began shrinking back in 1995, the growth rate of GDP in China has already begun to decelerate from the seven percent seen in 2015 to as little as three percent in 2022. This is partially due to China’s old-age dependency ratio increasing and the working-age population shrinking. Chinese manufacturing, which is the backbone of the Chinese economy, will continue to decline in competitiveness as the labor pool becomes more scarce and wages rise to compensate. This will create more inflationary pressure on companies and countries that rely on Chinese manufacturing. However, this decline in China’s manufacturing industry will tremendously benefit other countries like India and Mexico, whose economies still have room to develop and who have massive young populations at the bottom of their population pyramids. These populations will surge through their working and earning years over the next several decades. India and Mexico are therefore the most well-poised countries to supplant China’s increasingly less competitive manufacturing industry by 2030.
By 2030, China’s median age will be about five and a half years older than America’s, and by 2033, China’s old-age dependency ratio of people older than 64 will exceed America’s. The growth rate of China’s GDP is generally expected to fall beneath America’s growth rate sometime between 2031 and 2035, and it will probably never be capable of catching back up again, just like Japan’s. China’s economy is already demographically peaked, just like Japan’s peaked back in the mid-1990s. Beginning in the early 2030s, China’s economy will likely begin stagnating, just like Japan’s did, in the face of continued growth in America.
As China’s population ages, China’s available manpower fit for military service will also continue to decline. China’s demographic decline from the 2030s onwards will be a gradual process, rather than something that happens overnight. China will most likely retain its position as the world’s second-largest economy for decades to come. However, there is a significant gap between China’s waning demographic and economic strengths and Beijing’s ultimate geopolitical objectives, such as establishing political control over Taiwan. The strategic calculus involved in accomplishing this goal and realizing that China’s strengths will decline relative to its rivals shortly may lead to China’s leadership becoming susceptible to a more aggressive foreign policy. This could include strategic miscalculations and misjudgments, similar to the path that Russia has taken after the collapse of the Soviet Union in 1991.
Russia has faced an aging and declining population nearly every year since then. As military planners in the Kremlin realized that their population was in a state of terminal decline and that their demographic strengths would be weaker in the future, the Russian government adopted an increasingly aggressive foreign policy to accomplish its goals of restoring authority across the former Soviet Union. This culminated in the invasion of Georgia in 2008, the first invasion of Ukraine and annexation of Crimea in 2014, the intervention in Syria in 2015, and the full-scale invasion of Ukraine in 2022.
The foreign policy calculus within Beijing is now becoming highly similar to Russia’s since the mid-2000s. China’s population is set to decline every year for the next several decades. The longer the Chinese Communist Party waits to act militarily on its ultimate foreign policy objective of establishing control over Taiwan, the harder it will be for them to do so as their economy and manpower reserves dwindle in the face of the American-led alliance network that will likely oppose any invasion attempt. The Chinese government has never renounced its right to use force to bring Taiwan under its control, as Chinese President Xi Jinping publicly stated during the October 2022 Chinese Communist Party National Congress.
There likely exists a narrow window of opportunity between 2027 and 2031 in which the People’s Republic of China will have the highest likelihood of success during an attempted invasion of Taiwan. This is because, in 2027, the People’s Liberation Army (PLA) will experience its 100th anniversary and finish its scheduled modernization and reform plan. China’s armed forces have to be ready and extensively prepared for a lightning operation to ideally win and subjugate Taiwan before any foreign intervention can take place.
By 2027, Xi Jinping will almost certainly be awarded a fourth term as China’s president, and in 2031, he will be turning 78 years old, which is the average life expectancy in China. In the early to mid-2030s, China’s population will be rapidly declining and aging, and the Chinese economy will likely be stagnating and growing slower than America’s. If China is going to invade Taiwan, the best opportunity will be between 2027 and 2031, before the PLA finishes its reforms and modernization and before Xi Jinping grows too old and the Chinese demographic time bomb begins to set off. If they wait too long past that point, the best opportunity to invade will be lost, and they may never be able to force Taiwan into the People’s Republic of China again.
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