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presentation through ALLCEUs. Register at ALLCEUs.com/CounselorToolbox. I’d like to welcome you to today’s
presentation on the sociological approach to reducing risk and building
resilience. As I was putting together This presentation it was kind of like
right in the wake of when Harvey hit.
And then you know recently we’ve had the
shooting in Las Vegas, and some of the counselors, especially counselors in
training that can’t be practiced independently yet that are in some of my
social media groups and in my professional groups have been talking
about how frustrating it is and even some of us who are licensed but just
can’t wake up and go help the Red Cross right now about how frustrating it is
not to be able to help and how much we want to help so what I usually do
because you know I I’m generally not upwardly mobile where I can just drop
everything and go to a crisis what I did after 9/11 was look at what things
in that situation could I positively impact and how could I do it in a way
that made sense but you know for my life because I can’t you know at that point I
for 9/11 I had an infant at home and you know other stuff so we’re going to look
when we’re talking about addressing issues like the opiate epidemic or the
major problem of depression almost I guess anxiety almost one in four people
has anxiety issues and we’re gonna look at some of that and try to figure out
what can be done what can we do from where we are in a way that makes sense
because yes we can influence politics and advocacy but what can we do with
small chunks of time that are beneficial to helping the cause as well as you know
could help the clients we have currently so we’ll define the
socio-ecological not model which is Broth and Brenner’s model we’re going to
apply it to addiction and mental health issues and explore different variables
in this model and then discuss how this framework can be used in prevention and
treatment of co-occurring or independently occurring disorders so
we’re going to talk about how it may
sense to conceptualize not only the development of addiction but also the
development of things like eating disorders and mood disorders in terms of
a socio-ecological model and even some things like bipolar and
schizophrenia can be a person being genetically predisposed or whatever but
there could be certain environmental factors that could you know trigger that
first psychotic episodes so we want to look at what might be going on and how
can we help prevent or treat now prevention can take the form of
three different activities if you will prevent the problem so helping people
not get depressed at all ever so starting to provide those skills and
tools when people are knee-high to a grasshopper hopefully preventing
worsening of the problem so people don’t get severely clinically depressed where
they can’t get out of bed so the early intervention services and effective you
know frontline resources and preventing associated fallout okay the person gets
to press gets clinically depressed well let’s see if we can help them avoid
losing their job because they can’t get out of bed to go to work develop
additional health problems from being depressed or developing an addiction in
order to self-medicate that depression so we’ve there are three different
methods or avenues we can take in prevention and you know we want
to look at them all because when you’ve got somebody who’s becoming clinically
depressed you know they’re depressed you know situationally whatever something
happened and it started to turn into something more than just a couple of
days it’s going to start having associated fallout early and you know
it’s not going to be huge they’re not going to lose a job right off they’re
not going to start having major family problems right off but they are going to
start having little hiccups because that depression causes an imbalance in their
in their environment and we know environments like to maintain
homeostasis and you know the kids are gonna be like well Mom why aren’t you
getting up and doing these things and what’s going on and you know things are
going to start changing and the person will need to be able to deal with that
so the socio-ecological model explores and explains human behavior as the
interaction between the individual and environmental systems there’s
a fifth one that is more of your longitudinal but we’re going to
talk about the four main ones today the micro the meso the EXO and the macro
systems the microsystem involves well let’s start before that the individual
if you look at the model is sort of the bull’s eye here and the individual is
not considered a system but it involves all of the things about the
individual including biology and personal learning that make people who
they are okay so this person exists within a microsystem and that micro
system is their family peers School Church synagogue whatever and health
services things that they probably interface with regularly
work should also be on that but it’s for some reason it’s not on this diagram
anyway the mesosystem is the interconnection between microsystems so
how do family and peers interact I don’t know about you
thankfully my family might be very accepting of most of my peers but I know
other friends of mine who brought home peers who were not as well accepted by
their family so there was some conflict between the the family and the peers and
we know how much peer pressure and peer relationships are important in an
adolescents’ lives which creates conflict and consternation
how does the family interface with school how does Pierce how does
your peer group interact with school and do they see it
as a good thing to do they see it as worthwhile you know etc so when we’re
talking about the microsystem and the mesosystem we’re talking about
things that people interface with daily so I want you to think
about how the mesosystem and you can feel free to chime in on the chat
room if you want how does the mesosystem family peer
school church you know recreational activities health services impact the
development of mental health or illness now you notice I’m trying to kind of
switch ears for health because we want to promote health and we can look at the
opposite for mental illness but you know if you have positive family peer
interactions it’s probably going to support mental health it’s probably
going to support decision-making in the adolescent it’s probably going to I mean
and I’m thinking adults and adolescents here but family and friends you know if
you want to think about you know how do you get along with your significant
others peer groups and do they interface well or is it kind of like oil and water
how does the how does your family interface with your work how do they
deal with how many hours you have to work whether you’re getting called in at
night or getting emails or text messages at 8 p.m. or you know what
are their expectations and how does that influence if there’s a conflict you know
if the family doesn’t like what’s going on at work or the fact that you
know your boss is emailing you at 8 p.m. then it can create
conflict within the environment which can lead to increased anxiety and
depression and Yabadabadoo now how does mental health or illness impact the
mesosystem so again thinking about how if someone is clinically depressed how
does it impact their family how does it impact their peers and if you have a
family member who has you know clinical depression or generalized anxiety how
does it impact how your family interfaces with everything else because
you know you end up having somebody or somebody in the family who may be
caretaking for the person who has depression or anxiety or whatever the
mental health issue is who’s not able to do the stuff that they were able to do
so the rest of the families kind of pick slack so how does that affect how they
interface you know the rest of the family members interface with school and
work you know maybe they end up showing it
more exhausted so it’s important to look at the mesosystem
the exosystem involves links in a social setting in which the individual
does not have a direct active role so for example how would I impact my
spouse’s work and again if I am the identified patient and I’ve got clinical
depression and I’m calling my spouse to come home because I just can’t be alone
or my spouse is late to work or unproductive because he’s always
exhausted when he gets to work because he has so much to do since I am you know
not able to do as much right now then it could negatively impact his work and
so we want to look at how that impacts how the home environment impacts work
and how work impacts the home environment the macro system describes
the culture socioeconomic status poverty ethnicity etc so what we’re looking at
in the macro system is really the larger you know not just within your city maybe
or even closer to your neighborhood we’re looking at what you see in the media
what you see on national TV your your statewide elections your national
elections your state laws and culture and what’s being communicated if you
are a religious person what your religious culture communicates because
you know religion generally is not just in one little area it’s international or
national so what types of things does that communicate to to the person and
how does that influence the development or not development if you will of
depression anxiety or addiction so again think about how the exosystem of the
social setting in which the individual doesn’t have a directive or an active role
think about how much people were influenced after the elections I mean
yeah we had a role if you went out and voted you had a role but you don’t
decide the election so once that happens how do you know the exosystem
impact you know your your emotions your other
community events employment etc and how those things impact the family I know
you know there was a lot of consternation and concern among some of
my friends who are Jewish after the last election so their families experienced a
high ink or a great increase in anxiety development of mental health or mental
illness how does all this stuff that’s going on in the exosystem and
stuff that you don’t have direct control over how does it impact the development
of mental illness you know or mental health and we’re going to talk more
specifically in a couple of minutes and again likewise how does mental illness
or mental health impact the exosystem if you have a healthy workforce if you
have healthy people who are actively participating in work and going to community
activities voting to participate then you’re probably going to have a
healthier outcome than if you have people who are not able I mean they’re
so depressed they’re not able to even get out and participate so we want to
look at the reciprocal nature it’s not one way the community doesn’t just
affect us you know it may affect us but then how we react affects the community
how does the attitude of the culture impact the community if you’ve got a
a culture that is accepting of certain ideologies they’re accepting of LGBTQI
they’re accepting of people who are Muslim in their religion they’re
accepting of people who are Christian and their religion they’re accepting of
you know fill in the blank if the culture is accepting of that how does
that affect the community and those people within the community who might
you know otherwise not have been accepting does it kind of pressure them
in or does it cause anxiety and consternation in those people how
does the attitude of the culture for example about
premarital sex and marriage affect the family how does it affect the
development of and again we’re thinking about anxiety depression and addiction
so how does it affect the development of stress which may lead to mood disorders
or problems and how did the community families and individuals with mental
health or mental illness impacts the culture you know so we have an impact on
our culture we get together we see you know we have Generation X Generation Y
but the baby boomers all had their sort of or we all have our sort
of unique cultures and things that we bring to the table and things you know
that was given to us we said no we don’t want to thank you very much
so there is a give-and-take among the individuals within the
culture and that’s good because that means we can start small you know start
in our locale and create this positive mesosystem and then build from there if
If you have a positive community then that’s probably going to spread think
about when a company goes and dumps fertilizer for example into a waterway
it doesn’t just stay there over time that fertilizer bleeds out and
you start having algae blooms everywhere things don’t stay I mean in our society
things don’t stay in one place for very long they tend to move they tend to
migrate so positive will migrate that’s awesome
negative can also migrate so we want to look at how can we enhance the positive
migration and keep down the negative if you will so now let’s start talking
about what can we do and how can we operationalize all of this we realize
that if we affect the individual it’ll have a positive effect on the meso
system which can have a positive effect on the exosystem Yabadabadoo
so great we also realize that one of the only things we have a lot of
control over is the individual ourselves so a lot of people come to
counseling individually score so this is where we’re going to start
so what things contribute I start by listing risk factors for the
development of mood disorders and addictions and then we talk about capital you know what you have in order
to you need to have to prevent these things and then prevention
strategies so that’s kind of how we’re going to go it’s not going to stay
depressing individuals with chronic pain are at higher risk of mood disorders or
addiction addiction because of the pain management you know drugs that are out
there and you know once they start taking payment management drugs opiates
a lot of times the brain quits producing endogenous opioids the natural
painkillers so when they first come off the body doesn’t automatically pick up
so it takes a little while for the person’s pain tolerance to build back up
which keeps some people from wanting to get off the medication among other
things but chronic pain can also be debilitating it can make people lose
some abilities that they used to have or crush some dreams if you will you
no, I think I’ve told you before that I have a bad shoulder and carpal tunnel so I
can’t garden the way I used to you know I still go out and do it but I’ve got to
pay attention and only be out there for an hour too instead of spending six
hours out on the farm which is frustrating to me it was only mildly
frustrating but my grandfather when he started developing Parkinson’s couldn’t
make his miniatures anymore and he made gorgeous miniatures and I know that’s
not chronic pain but it’s kind of the same thing if you’ve got rheumatoid
arthritis he couldn’t make his miniatures and he became devastated and
became withdrawn so understanding that pain has multiple influences that can
cause depression that may trigger a grief reaction that we need to help
people address now the things I put in bold are things that we as clinicians
can easily help people prevent or/or address chronic pain we can help
For people with low self-esteem that’s a no-brainer
if people don’t feel good about themselves
and they’re looking for external validation they’re going to be at a higher
risk for anxiety fear of abandonment fear of not being good enough fear of
failure and depression a sense of hopelessness and helplessness substance
use especially early substance use can cause changes in the prefrontal cortex
leading to problems with impulse control and decision-making but it can also
disrupt the balance of neurochemicals leading to symptoms of depression and/or
anxiety so it’s important to understand that especially the earlier the
substance use starts the greater the chance that it’s going to cause some
sort of brain changes and we’ve also found that a lot of people, not the
majority but there is a percentage a significant percentage of people that
when they start using early they kind of quit developing coping skills after that
they find something that works they’re like oh I like this I think I’ll use
that from now on when we start talking about people who
started drinking or smoking marijuana when they were you know 9 10 11 12 you
might see more mood issues or addiction issues in those people than
people who didn’t start using mood-altering drugs as early as a history of
abuse can contribute to the development of PTSD but not everybody who
is abused develops PTSD but there can be episodes of anxiety and depression as
well as it increases the chances of the development of addiction genetic
vulnerability we know that mood disorders and addictions tend to run in
families and they’ve done studies that have shown that there is a genetic
component doesn’t mean it’s going to happen it just means you have this gene
there that could be triggered so we don’t want we want to make sure that
clients know that they are not just doomed you know they can prevent
triggering that but they need to be aware that they may be more vulnerable
inappropriate coping responses if we are not born with coping skills
so if somebody doesn’t know how to cope with life on life’s terms
because either because they’ve always been shielded or because they’ve never
had anybody helped them maybe they were kind of on their own from the
get-go so they learned to lash out and get angry or withdraw and get depressed
but they never really learned how to deal with the stuff they’re gonna be at
higher risk of mood and addictive disorders we can help people develop
coping responses are one of the things you want to look at when people are using
seemingly unhelpful behaviors is to remember to ask what is the cause of
this so we want to look at what is the root cause of what is prompting this
behavior and what is the benefit of the current behaviors and I’m going to keep
reminding you of that as we go through this violence and aggression you know
again what’s the cause of the violence and aggression did people do this person
learn that’s how you cope with distress in their family of origin is it a
protective mechanism because they’ve experienced situations where that has
helped them deal with conflict before what prompts this and what the benefit
to it when they act out when they’re violent and aggressive what is the
benefit it gives them power it pushes people away they just enjoy hurting
people hopefully that’s the minority but we want to ask that because we can’t
figure out an alternative until we know what the function is
same thing with risk-taking and impulsivity there are certain theories
that says some people need more stimulation than others they get bored
easily so they tend to be higher risk-takers and maybe more impulsive than you
want to ask if this person doing this you know I have a friend who is an
adrenaline junkie you know skydiving rock climbing you
name it he’s done it and you know more power to him I don’t see a purpose of
jumping out of a perfectly good airplane but he he thrives on that and when he
can’t get out and do those sorts of things he feels good so what is it about
this risk-taking and what kind of risk-taking it risk-taking as
in holding a balloon liquor store or is it risk-taking as
in doing something like skydiving which is theoretically safe and what’s the
benefit it makes gives them a rush makes
they feel good helps him you know escape or whatever great that’s fine
the rebellious nests you know again what is
and this is a key for adolescents especially but even if you’re a
supervisor working with employees if they’re being rebellious you want to
look and say what’s the point what’s the benefit to being rebellious what are
they holding on to and refusing to let go of that you want them to let go of or
what are they refusing to do that you want them to do and what’s the
benefit to it if they are being rebellious and they’re staying like
think again adolescents staying out all night OK well what’s a motivating factor
is it to get under their parent’s skin probably not is it to conform to peer
pressure you know oftentimes that’s maybe the case but you have to look at
the individual and say ok how can you do this in a way that helps you move
forward rejection of pro-social values if the people who espouse the
pro-social values are the people that the person rejects then they’re probably
going to reject those values so we want to look at you to know if you’re rejecting
those what values are you espousing and why are those important to you and
why are you rejecting these over here you know not saying it’s right or wrong
I’m just trying to understand where you’re coming from and you know that’s
something that we’ve got to be sensitive to and different people
are going to hold different values lack peer refusal skills to stay out late
to get into trouble to use drugs to have early sex whatever it is those things a
lot of times indicate poor communication skills and low self-esteem need to be
accepted you know all that stuff that’s challenging during during teen and early
adolescent years those are things we can help with being bullied you know that’s
a risk factor when people are bullied they tend to get depressed and when
they’re bullied they may turn to substances to try to make themselves
feel better to numb the pain they make self-injure there’s a lot of
different things might happen we can help people
develop skills to deal with being bullied since we don’t understand
a hundred percent why people bully we need to help the victims become
survivors we need to help them have the tools to be able to deal with it and
understand why it happens without letting it hurt them early and
persistent problem behaviors that’s just so broad but again look at why the
person’s child acting out an early sexual activity could be a history of sexual
abuse could be a dysfunctional family of origin and the child is trying to get
out I worked with a 14-year-old who once told me she was gonna get pregnant
as soon as she turned 15 because that’s when she could get into housing on her
own so she was intentionally going to get pregnant at 15 and there was a
reason for it she was very clear about her logic a lot of times it’s peer
pressure and acceptance but uh asking what is that what is the cause and is
this cause going to keep the person from developing healthy coping skills and
being happy is potentially going to lead to depression peer rejection you
know that hurts so helping people figure out how to navigate peer rejection
because you’re not going to be liked by everybody academic failure we can help
with now not necessarily as clinicians but we can advocate for the person we
can help them find tutors resources etc lack of information on positive health
behaviors put it out there most of the time youth these days have a pretty good
idea of what’s healthy and what’s not they just aren’t motivated for it
they’re motivated for something else when addictive behaviors are you used to
cope with stress or unpleasant feelings I said coping skills may fail to
develop or when they’re used to enhance self-confidence such as drinking before
going to a party then they may start to develop anxiety and self-consciousness
when they don’t have a drink on board so it may start
prompting the development of some mood disorders in addition to the fact that
repeated use especially in a young brain can cause some neurotransmitter
imbalances using addictive behaviors also to enhance other experiences ties
it to those experiences making them person more likely to use those and
similar situations desensitizing the brain’s pleasure centers so what am I
what do I mean I mean if you typically drink when you are watching football
then you’re going to be more likely to drink every time you watch football it’s
just one of those things you do when you watch football if you’re one of those
people who eat when they watch TV then when you watch TV you’re more likely to
eat when you go to the movies because that’s a similar situation you’re more
likely to want to have popcorn or eat so it’s important to understand that with
addictive behaviors if you have something that produces pleasure it can
be triggered you know the person can start thinking about it in a similar
situations using repeatedly can cause neurochemical imbalances in genetics you
know you can’t be born with a neurochemical imbalance not enough
serotonin too much whatever and poor health behaviors as I’ve talked about a
bunch of times not enough sleep quality poor nutrition and high stress
can also cause neurochemical imbalances so we can educate people about some of
the things that can cause depression and anxiety so they can prevent it we can
educate parents so they can start coaching their kids from the get-go so
personal recovery capital to develop what we need to be happy and healthy
human beings we have to have certain things to help us along the way we need
to have the things to enable us for physical health think about Maslow’s
pure hierarchy bottom level is all your health and biological needs we need to
have our physical health and that includes nutrition Slee
and you know not being in pain all the time sometimes you’re gonna feel pain
that’s being human that’s being alive but we need to have our health for the
the most part we need to have financial assets to get our basic needs met you
now get that food keep clothing on our back
transportation roof over our heads health insurance and access to medication and
there are two different things health insurance covers theoretically
going to the doctor and the mental health counselor etc access to
medication is not covered under a lot of insurance so remember that most
pharmaceutical companies have patient assistance programs that can help
clients access their medication if they can’t afford it because some medication
is a really expensive safe housing conduct that’s conducive to recovery and
that’s not just addictions if you’ve got somebody who is clinically depressed or
highly anxious living in a radically dysfunctional household where there’s
lots of yelling or arguing or other people who are similarly dysfunctional
it’s probably not going to prompt those positive cognitions and mindfulness and
everything that we’re trying to establish doesn’t mean they can move
unfortunately a lot of people can’t so we got to talk about how can you create
an area in your housing environment that’s safe people need to have adequate
clothing to stay warm to be able to dress for work and you know go
to their job and be dressed appropriately and transportation to get
their needs met most of us don’t live in a city where we can just walk but
walking I guess is a form of transportation we need to be able to
access the resources that are out there whether it be food or going to work so
we can pay our light bill or whatever it is
values awareness people need to know what’s important to them to
figure out what they need to do to be happy a sense of purpose helps people
keep going and we can help people with this I mean these are easy exercises
when you give them a values activity worksheet you know
what are your top five values when you look at the sense of purpose what is
your purpose in life and a lot of us don’t know but we know what we
want it to be or we can start theorizing about what is the purpose of what I do
as a job on a day-to-day basis, what is the purpose of this activity that I’m
doing so they can start to see some meaning in the stuff they do we can help
people develop hope and optimism and we’ve talked about that one people need
to have a perception of their past present and future they need to be able
to look over the past and it may suck or it may be great but they need to be able
to look back over it and go yep that’s it they need to be able to look at their
present and realistically assess what they’ve got and maybe what they don’t
have but realistically assess what they’ve got and look at their future and
go where do I want to go from here because you’re here and you don’t want
to stay here forever you can’t stay here forever because times gonna move on what
next people need to be able to see but understand that they’re not
necessarily controlled by their past or stuck in the present that they have the
ability to make choices every single moment to work toward what they want for
the future education training and job skills people need to be able to make a
living that’s just the way it is you need to be able to feed yourself and put
a roof over your head so we can make referrals to job training agencies we
can make referrals to social service agencies problem-solving skills
interpersonal skills and self-esteem are all things that we are super
skilled at teaching and we can teach these in chunks they don’t have to be
these long groups don’t have to be big drawn-out sessions we can provide
people snippets you can provide somebody with the concept of distressed tolerance and
the improve acronym in a handout and have them look at that or in an email
you know if you email your clients once each day or on your blog there are a lot
of different ways, you can just get that information out there and in front of
people so I can look at it I call I tell my
clients it’s bathroom reading you know I usually give them a handout or two and I
just put it on the back of the toilet and when you’re in there you know take a
look at it if it’s useful great if not bottle it up and throw it in the the
trashcan I’m good with that but there’s no
pressure and I’m not putting extra assignments on them I’m just providing
information about a skill and then if they want to pursue it further when they
come back to counseling we can talk about it so what can we do we can
promote positive health and wellness behaviors by educating people about why
they’re important and what to do and where to find more information you know
because some of these things like nutrition we can’t be prescriptive but
we can point people in the direction of where to get good advice and information and we can also model this you know in
our treatment plan at least in mind I try to make sure that people are putting
a print emphasizing getting enough
quality sleep eating well and maybe exercising at least moving around if
they don’t want to call it exercise but taking care of themselves and getting
some relaxation and recreation in their bonding to a pro-social culture is
difficult for us to do for people or do with people we can talk about what
are your hobbies what are things that you enjoy doing and encourage people to
try out volunteering or get involved in meetups to engage in activities
with other people but that’s something that they’re going to have to do
on their participation in extracurricular activities again kind of
the same thing we can point them in the right direction of volunteerism meetups
things through their through their church or their synagogue or their you
know whatever clubs that they’re involved in positive relationships with
adults now obviously this is more important if we’re working with children
or teenagers we want to help children and teenagers kind of see where adults
don’t have their head that far in the ground
but we also want to help adults learn how to more effectively communicate with
teenagers because a lot of adults lecture at and I know this and you’ll
you’ll understand when you’re older and you know lots of that kind of stuff
so things that we can do to enhance relationships with adults is to educate
people about you know how to effectively communicate with teenagers for
example who are trying to find their way and trying to assert independence and
resisting some rules how do you deal with that how do you communicate with
them in a way because a lot of parents have difficulty navigating that boundary
between friend and parent so we can help with that
active workshops in the community workshops you can do at churches at
libraries those are things you can do there you can put them on for like an
an hour once a month it’s good if you’re it’s free but it’s a good promotion for
your practice if you know you go out and do it and people come to learn something
from you, they’re like hey that might be helpful social competence it’s another
one of those things that we can do in little snippets we can provide tips and
tips and tools whether infographics on an Instagram page are really
useful for a lot of teenagers they want something that’s you know in a picture
and fast it’s a snapshot so social competence checklists are another
really good thing if you’re teaching different types of skills for
communication or how you’re supposed to use different forks I know the first
time I went to a formal dinner I was looking at all the silverware going I
have no idea what to do with this stuff the sense of well-being and
self-confidence we can help people develop this by encouraging them to
focus on what they do well we want to make sure they have plans
well that means goal setting and since a lot of people don’t know how to goal-set
they don’t have goals, so they’re just kind of floating out there not
looking at the future we want to help people look at the future and
figure out how they’re going to get there so they’re like wow this is
doable this is attainable this is another thing you can put work put
worksheets on your website you can do short workshops to help people
figure out how to look at how to define or learn how to define a rich and
meaningful life and figure out how they’re going to define their goals and
achieve their knowledge about risks associated with addictive
behaviors now a lot of kids you know think back to the old dare programs I
had a lot of clients tell me that those programs only taught me how to you
safely I was like well that’s not what they were intended for but we do want to
educate youth about you know still about the risks of some of those drugs and
even adults not just youth educate people about how dangerous or how
potentially addictive opiates for example can be after three to five days
your body has already started to build up a tolerance that’s kind of scary so
helping people understand that but also addictive behaviors like pornography a
lot of teens don’t think about it a lot of adults don’t think about
it until they’re stuck in it or online gambling you know those are some things
that can kind of catch people unawares because they didn’t think about it
wasn’t a substance we typically think of addictions as substances since it’s not
a substance they didn’t think about the effect that the pleasure from those
activities were going to have on our neurochemicals and create a
a situation where they didn’t feel okay they didn’t feel normal
they didn’t feel happy without having that in their life because their
dopamine receptors had been blunted individual prevention strategies
the big summary is we want to promote attitudes beliefs and behaviors
that ultimately provide the person with healthy coping skills whether it’s
through health class whether it’s through workshops I know at
organizations I’ve worked at before the Jaypee would come in and do periodic
workshops that’s a great way to connect with people and reduce utilization if
you do psycho-educational prevention group because an ounce of prevention is
worth a pound of cure we want to make sure that they’re aware of positive
health behaviors and how to access those resources in Gainesville I don’t know
about up here but I know in Gainesville the mall used to open at six o’clock in
the morning so people could walk inside in a safe place and you know be out of
the elements and yadda-yadda so just letting people know that that
existed was a big step because they were like well I don’t want to join a gym and
go to the mall with effective interpersonal skills we want to make sure people know
how to effectively communicate set boundaries all that stuff that we talked
about this can be taught it’s nice if your local news is willing to use you to
do you know wellness minute I find one of the best places to do that is
either right before or right after the weather because most everybody Tunes in
for the weather, I may not stick around for the animal of the day or whatever
well I always do but I’m always tuned in for the weather so if you get
either right before or right after that you tend to get higher viewership and
reach more people and a minute gives somebody a chunk of something that they
can use today-specific approaches may include education and life skills
training in schools you know is provided to the kids and have them share it
with their parents through the media and community center or library workshops
those are all great ways to get stuff out I encourage you if you want to get
into providing prevention and helping to help your community helping people to
prevent getting depressed or anxious or developing other problems to look at
doing some of these very time-limited things because you don’t want to
lose a lot of billable hours but we still want to be able to do more than
we’re doing at least that’s what a lot of a lot of us tend to feel
like the mesosystem so we’ve been talking about the individuals so far
because that’s where we can have the greatest effect the mesosystem examines
close relationships that may increase the risk of experimenting with high-risk
behaviors or developing mood disorders people’s closest circle of peers
partners and family members influence their behavior and contribute to their
range of experience if you’ve got a child that grows up in a household where
the parent or parents are clinically depressed they’re not able to
model effective coping skills where they model cognitive distortions guess what
jr.
Is gonna pick up if you are in a household where you know you’re in college and
you’ve got four other roommates and all of your your other roommates tend to be
negative and naysayers you’re either probably going to move or you may that
might start wearing off on you a little bit likewise if they are you know all
kinds of go-getters that can wear off on you too so you know there’s going to be
an impact risk factor is peer and family reinforcement of negative or unhealthy
norms and expectations so if your family says you know people suck they’re
always going to take advantage of you what are you going to take away from
that and is that going to contribute to you probably having difficulties with
trusting and maybe developing depression possibly so we want to look at what kind
of messages is the peer group or family sending to the individual that may
contribute to the development of mood or anxiety disorders early sexual activity
among peers could communicate that well this is the norm so everybody’s doing it
ties to deviant peers and gang involvement you know especially at that
particular group there’s a lot of pressure to conform or there’s a
negative consequences family members who don’t spend much time together and this
could be because parents work a lot this could be because everybody’s you know
involved in all kinds of other stuff but they found that
when families are disengaged the parents tend to miss out on subtle cues when
families are disengaged even if they don’t have children in the mix that
there tends to be a weakening of those bonds supportive bonds so people
are at higher risk for development of depression and anxiety because they
don’t have that you know everybody’s behind me sort of feeling parents who
have trouble keeping track of youth can indicate that the youth may be at risk
for developing substance or more mood disorders lack of clear rules and
consequences you think about even just being at work when there’s a lack of
clear rules and consequences you don’t exactly know what you’re supposed to do
I know for me that creates doodles of anxiety I like manuals and to date
pretty much every job I’ve ever taken I’ve walked in and there hasn’t been a
manual and I’ve been like okay there must be a manual written and that’s been
my first thing now I’m kind of on the structured side so I don’t expect
everybody is that way but most of us tend to experience a little bit of
anxiety about failure about acceptance if we don’t know what’s expected so it’s
important whether it’s a family or a job situation to make sure there’s clear
rules and consequences you know what’s expected and what’s going to happen if
you mess up or if you don’t meet this expectation there also needs to be
consistent expectations and limits you know when people especially children but
a lot of us tested our limits when we were kids and even as adults you know I
know you know going back to working in organizations I would have staff who
would test limits and see how long they could go without turning in a progress
note before I’d be knocking on their door going paperwork it’s natural for
people to kind of test limits especially with stuff they don’t want to do stuff
that’s not rewarding family conflict and abuse can cause a high risk of depression
and anxiety whether adults or children I mean if there’s a
a lot of conflict and chaos it’s exhausting and it can cause a lot of
dysphoric emotions and loss of employment that’s kind of
self-explanatory protective factors close family relationships so as
clinicians we can encourage people to identify who they consider their family
it may not be their blood relatives or their family who are there for them
who can they call it 2:00 in the morning and how can they nurture those
relationships encourage people to develop relationships with peers that
are involved in pro-social activities like hiking or volunteering in the
community consistency of parenting is important in terms of producing children
who are who are stronger healthier more resilient encouraging education and
parents who are actively involved can help prevent future depression because
they’re creating children who can join the workforce and have that
individual capital to prevent depression and anxiety and cope with stress
positively and this is a family protective factor and a peer for
protective factor why because we learn from observation so if our peers cope
with stress positively by prayer or exercise or whatever it is they do and
our family has other positive ways of coping with stress and we’re going to
have a greater venue of stuff to choose from supportive relationships with
caring for adults beyond the immediate family is encouraged so we want
children to grow up being able to interact with teachers coaches with
you know Scout leaders whomever and start seeing that people outside of the
nuclear family are trustworthy sharing and family responsibilities including
chores and decision making and that’s true for children teenagers and even
adults you know if you’re living in the same household it
important that everybody feels like they have a say in what’s happening
and participates in the upkeep of the family environment and family
members are nurturing and support each other and this is one where I tend to
stop and I do a love languages little mini class to help people remember that
we don’t always experience nurturance in the same way so understanding one
another’s love language is really important to be able to nurture in a
way that’s meaningful to that other person peer and family interventions are
designed to identify norms goals and expectations in the family foster family
problem-solving skills so there’s not just one person always fixing it develop
structure and consistency within the family unit promote healthy
relationships and engage peers and family of choice in the recovery process
so if somebody’s already depressed we need to be able to hopefully engage
everybody that’s involved in this person’s immediate environment in
helping them move towards recovery and you know preferably not dragging them
back down so we want to engage them and make sure that people have a supportive
others school and work risk factors lack of clear expectations both academic or
performance-wise and behavioral lack of commitment or sense of belonging at
school or at work if you just kind of go and you feel like a number you punch in
punch out that may not make you feel appreciated which can contribute
to depression and you know just bad feelings high numbers of students
failing academically at school and work translates to high amounts of
turnover if you never know who’s going to get laid off it increases stress and
anxiety and parents and community members who are not actively involved
in keeping kids in school and helping make sure that the workforce workforce
is strong but we want to make sure that people have access to how
when it’s needed we want to make sure that people have access to tutoring in
school if they need it to prevent failing school they have access to
transportation to get to work now those are things those are meta concepts that
are more on the community level but it’s important that as a community member you
know we look at different things that we may be able to participate in advocacy
and say you know it’s really important to get a bus system going I live out
about 30 miles east of Nashville and we must have the
the train that goes from my city out to Nashville so people have
access to more jobs so that was important for us to get past the City
Commission protective factors school and work positive attitudes gotta find a
reason why you’re doing this you know and sometimes it’s hard to find a reason
for algebra but we need to help kids find a reason for that we need to help
adults find a reason for why they’re going to work why are they doing what
they’re doing regular attendance shows you know it is associated with higher
mood less less risk of mood or addictive disorders because you’re able to get up
and do it and interface with people and get that social support hopefully from
your colleague’s high expectations are communicated effectively in setting
and positive social development is encouraged you know whether it’s at work
or at school, there are goals there are things you’ve got to accomplish there
are performance objectives but we also want to encourage morale and positive
social bonding whatever the setting having a positive instructional climate
again whether at work or school, I know we learn things when we’re on the
job we learn things and I don’t want people to feel like they’re having
difficulty like they’re stupid I want people to feel like anything that we
teach them as a challenge and something that may be beneficial down the road
leadership and decision-making opportunities are really important again
for students or employees to prevent burnout keep morale up reduce
anxiety and increase a sense of personal empower
and connection and active involvement for everybody is fostered and the school or
organization is responsive to the student’s needs making sure that in
school in the case of school they have access to tutoring resources it’s a safe
environment for them to be in and the children that are going to that school
have enough food in their bellies you know they can’t learn if they’re
hungry all the time workplace is a little bit different but we still need
to be responsive to people’s needs in terms of you know family requirements
whether they need to if they’re going back to school
shifting schedules a little bit we need to try to work with people instead of
being completely rigid and it’s my way or the highway when possible to
promote the best mental health characteristics of settings in which
relationships are often associated with the development of mood disorders and
addictive behaviors so we want to look at the characteristics of schools that are
they safe are they positive environments are they cheering squads or are they
places where people know they’re gonna go and get thrown under the bus
same thing with workplaces you know when you walk into a place you get most of
we get a sense and you’re either like oh this is a cool place to work or oh I
can’t wait til I can get out of here you know we want to go toward the
other end and neighborhoods when you go into a neighborhood – people take care
of their environment do they or do they have trash strewn all over their lawn
all of these things communicate how people feel about their environment and
generally how they feel about themselves and whether they have the energy to take
care of stuff or they just feel completely disenfranchised and don’t
care more about community risk factors no sense of
connection to the community neighborhood disorganization rapid changes high
unemployment a lack of strong social institutions lack of monitoring of youths
activities imbalanced media portrayals of safety health and appropriate
behavior misleading advertising and alcohol or drugs readily available
a lot of stuff we do we’re not going to be able to affect on the community level
so much but we’re gonna hit them real quick we want to improve the climate
process and policies within community schools and workplaces to make it safe and
promote positive health behaviors prevention strategies are designed to
reduce social isolation reduce and address stigma increase awareness of
local recovery models you know who’s out there that has recovered and can serve
as a role model improve economic and housing opportunities so people have a
house a safe roof over their head and they can you know earn money and feel
good about themselves increasing the accuracy and improving the positivity of
media messages and increasing physical and financial ability availability of
recovery so like I said I live in a little town so it’s nice that we have
a community mental health center here so people don’t have to rely on going into
Nashville but also making sure that services are financially available
whether you have a free clinic once a month or you know make sure you’ll you
take Medicaid but there are still a lot of people who have no insurance so where do
they go the socio-ecological model identifies
how the end the individual impacts and is impacted by not only his own
characteristics but also those of family peers community and culture prevention
takes the form of preventing the problem preventing the worsening of the problem and
preventing associated fallout like I said as clinicians a lot of what we’re
going to do is target the individual providing them with resiliency skills to deal
with some of this adversity that might be around them and to help them sort
through some of those media messages and go yeah
that’s not even true you know if I drink this vodka I’m not suddenly going to
have 14 supermodels hanging on me or whatever it is that’s being communicated
so encouraging people to be informed and Wylie consumers any change in the
the system will affect other parts of this system so if it’s a
positive change is probably going to have positive changes negative has
negative changes addressing addictive and mood disorder behaviors require a
the multi-pronged approach we need to look at the individual and you know provide
provide as many skills as possible there because that’s where we’re going to have
a lot of our impact especially in prevention but we also need to
realize that this person resides within a family you know whether they live
alone which sometimes is less problematic or they live in a household
with other people, we need to make sure that where they lay their heads at night
where they spend their non-working hours feel safe and is conducive to recovery
where they work or go to school also needs to feel safe and be conducive to
recovery and that’s part of the community so we need to kind of look at
these areas and if they aren’t safe or they don’t feel safe or aren’t conducive
to recovery, we need to help people how to figure out how they can fix that or
address it like I said they may not be able to move so what can you do to set
some boundaries to create as much safety as you can how can you do this and there
are a lot of different techniques that I’m sure you already have that you used
to help people but it’s important again not to just focus on the individual
because they don’t live in a bubble we need to look at everything right and are
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Benefits of Rosemary for Brain Function in Hamlet, Act, 4, Scene, 5, Ophelia notes that rosemary is for remembrance, an idea that goes back at least a few thousand years to the ancient Greeks who claimed that rosemary comforts. The brain sharpens understanding, restores lost memory and awakens the mind. After all, plants can be considered little chemical factories that manufacture all sorts of compounds that could have neuroprotective benefits.
So let’s cut down on processed foods and eat lots of phytonutrient-rich whole plant foods, including perhaps a variety of herbs.
Even the smell of certain herbs may affect how our brain works.
Unfortunately, I’ve found much of the aromatherapy literature scientifically unsatisfying, like there’d, be studies like this, offering subjective impressions and so fine sure sniffing.
An herbal sachet is indeed easy, inexpensive, and safe, but is it effective? They didn’t compare tests, scores, or anything Even when there was a control group where researchers had people do a battery of tests in a room that smelled like rosemary, lavender, or nothing, and even when they did compare test results.
The lavender appeared to slow them down, and impair their performance, whereas the rosemary group seemed to do better, But maybe that’s just because of the mood effects.
Maybe the rosemary group did better just because the aroma kind of pepped them up And not necessarily in a good way, maybe kind of overstimulating.
In some circumstances, there have been studies that measured people’s brain waves and were able to correlate the EEG findings with the changes in mood and performance, along with objective changes in stress hormone levels.
But is this all just because pleasant smells improve people? S moods Like if you created some synthetic rosemary fragrance with a bunch of chemicals that had nothing to do with the rosemary plant.
Would it still have the same effect We didn’t know until now that aromatic herbs do have volatile compounds that theoretically could enter the bloodstream by way of the lining of the nose or lungs and then potentially cross into the brain and have direct effects? But this was the first study to put it to the test.
They had.
People do math in a cubicle infused with rosemary aroma, and so yes, they got that same boost in performance, but for the first time showed how much better they did correlate with the amount of a rosemary compound that made it into their bloodstream.
Just from being in the room, and so not only did this show that it gets absorbed, but that such natural aromatic plant compounds may be playing a direct effect on changes in brain function.
If that’s just what smelling it can do? What about eating rosemary? We have studies on alertness and cognition and reduced stress hormone levels, by inhaling rosemary.
However, there were no clinical studies on cognitive performance following ingestion of rosemary.
Until now, Older adults, average age 75 were given two cups of tomato juice, with either nothing or a half.
A teaspoon of powdered rosemary, which is what one might use in a typical recipe, or a full teaspoon, two teaspoons, or over a tablespoon of rosemary powder, and they even gave them some placebo pills to go with it to even further eliminate any placebo effects.
Speed of memory is a potentially useful predictor of cognitive function during aging, and what they found is that the lowest dose had a beneficial effect, accelerating their processing speed, but the highest dose impaired their processing speed, maybe because the half-teaspoon dose improved alertness, while the 4 Teaspoon dose decreased alertness, So rosemary powder at the dose nearest to normal, culinary consumption demonstrated positive effects on speed of memory.
The implicit take-home message being more isn’t necessarily better. Take high doses of herbal supplements extracts tinctures, just cooking with spices is sufficient.
A conclusion, no doubt pleasing to the spice company that sponsored the study.
No side effects were reported, but that doesn’t mean you can eat the whole bush.
This poor guy swallowed a rosemary twig which punctured through the stomach into his liver, causing an abscess from which 2 cups of pus and a 2-inch twig were removed, so explore herbs and spices in your cooking Branch out.
Just leave the branches out.
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Are you extremely afraid of being judged by others? Are you very self-conscious in everyday social situations? Do you avoid meeting new people? These are all trademark signs of social anxiety, which affects approximately 15 million people in the United States alone.
Social anxiety disorder is classified as a significant amount of fear, embarrassment, or humiliation in social or performance-based situations.
It goes far deeper than mere shyness, where shyness is more of a personality.
Trait social anxiety disorder can cause significant disruption of your daily life.
Before we begin, we would like to mention that this video is created for educational purposes only and is not intended to substitute a professional diagnosis.
If you suspect you may have social anxiety, disorder, or any mental health condition, we highly advise you to seek help from a qualified mental health.
Professional With that said here are nine things that social anxiety makes us do One repeatedly double checking the location and time. Do you find yourself repeatedly checking your phone to make sure you’re in the right place? It can be terrifying for those with social anxiety to arrive late or walk into the wrong room.
So double or even triple-checking information is necessary.
Even if you know you’ve got the details right.
It can bring you peace of mind just to make sure it may be the difference between walking in with confidence or hesitation and two rehearsing conversations in your head ahead of time.
While this may be a subconscious practice at first many people who face social anxiety rehearse things they’re going to say before they have the actual conversation.
This often begins as imagining future conversations or running through a list of important points to discuss.
Some people find it more helpful to physically practice having a conversation as well.
That being said, not everyone who rehearses their conversations beforehand necessarily has social anxiety, Memorization and practice are both common tools to aid.
You feel nervous whether you’re anxious about public speaking talking to a specific person or being social in general Number three avoiding phone calls, even though it’s become a bit of a joke among millennials and Gen Zer, who prefer to text avoid phone Calls is actually a fairly common behavior for people with social anxiety.
Psychologist Lindsay Sharfstein told Headspace. Anxiety is typical for all of us.
It’s a universal emotion that we can all relate to.
For the most part.
We know that individuals are not afraid of phones.
They have phones in their office backpack purse.
What they’re typically afraid of is the evaluation or judgment that may happen when they’re on a phone.
This may be why some people prefer to text instead of talk on the phone.
The more one can put between themselves and the other person the more comfortable they generally feel interacting Four faking phone calls Have you ever pretended to be in the middle of a call just to avoid talking to someone or worn headphones to discourage others from approaching you, Although it’s safe to assume that phone calls are not something that people with social anxiety look forward to faking, a call can come in handy.
It can be a lot easier to act busy rather than face the awkwardness of an unwanted conversation.
So, this can become a habit of avoidance. If you have social anxiety, five constantly worrying about how everyone sees you.
According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, those with a social anxiety disorder are increasingly concerned about how they are perceived by others.
The last thing they want is to come off as awkward, fumbling, or boring.
You’ve likely felt this way at some point throughout your life, whether it’s the desire to fit in with friends or make a good impression on a potential employer with social anxiety.
However, this pressure to perform feels constantly heavy and can lead to full-blown panic attacks when in social or performance-based situations Number six is feeling lonely.
Even when you’re surrounded by people, People with social anxiety can share this feeling with those who battle, depression and other mental illnesses as well.
So, unfortunately, a lot of people can relate to this isolating feeling When social anxiety keeps you from being your true self.
It can be difficult to feel included at all. It’s frustrating to be close to others, but not be able to connect with them in a comfortable way.
If you’re struggling to effectively communicate and are extremely hesitant to even start a conversation that adds to your feelings of loneliness, even when you’re, surrounded by others, Number seven clenching your teeth and other physical discomforts, you feel shaky or lightheaded when faced with A social situation: Does your heart rate speed up or do your hands tremble? The stress that comes with social anxiety can manifest through physical symptoms.
Many of the symptoms are signs of nervousness such as sweating, flushing, and feeling shaky According to Mayo Clinic. You might also be dealing with muscle tension, feeling that your mind has gone blank, or having trouble catching your breath.
Number eight obsessing over how you look When you’re, constantly worried about how others perceive you.
You’re likely to be concerned with how you look as well.
You might have a distorted body image and think that you’re less physically attractive.
Your thoughts can flit from your hair to your clothes or flaws in your skin.
Thinking that it’s just all wrong In an attempt to feel comfortable in your own skin, you might spend an inappropriate amount of time and money on fixing your appearance, such as shopping for better clothes, getting high-end beauty products, or going on diets.
If you think you’re overweight and number nine, you feel more like yourself around the people.
You’re comfortable with Yourself, think you’re picky about who you spend time with, and triumph over shyness by conquering social anxiety disorder, Dr. Marie B. Stein and John R. Walker discusses behavior in children called selective mutism.
This is when a child speaks and acts normally around select individuals but is completely silent around everyone else or when placed in certain situations.
This is a more extreme example, but it shows how those with social anxiety are more likely to relax and open up around people. They already know and trust, do you or anyone you know resonate with any of these points mentioned in this video?
If you’re concerned about social anxiety disorder, we encourage you to speak with a mental health professional.
They can help you overcome any fears or debilitating problems you might have If you enjoyed watching this video, give us a thumbs up and share it with someone who might find it helpful as well.
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According to the American Psychological Association People with anxiety have a future-oriented fear which leads them to avoid anything that could potentially trigger a stress response. In 2017, the National Institute of Mental Health reported that approximately forty million people worldwide suffer from anxiety disorders that are highly treatable but recent surveys show that only 36.9% of those suffering from it seek treatment This might be because most people with anxiety worry about the judgment of others and how the stigma against mental illness might negatively affect their lives. Does this sound familiar to you? Do you worry you might be suffering from anxiety and just don’t realize it? Here are ten tell-tale signs of hidden anxiety to look out for. 1. You don’t like talking to people face to face. You can easily keep a conversation going for hours when you’re texting or chatting online with a friend but talking to someone in person… No… That’s an entirely different story. Even if you already know them well or have talked to them online you still get tense and nervous talking to them in person You have trouble making eye contact or finding the words to respond and you want to end face-to-face conversations as soon as they begin to 2.
You’re always self-conscious. Do you walk into a room and immediately feel like everyone is staring at you, listening to you, and judging your every move? Or perhaps you’re overly conscious of the way you walk, the way you eat, the way you sit, the sound of your voice when you talk and so on This could be a sign that you have hidden anxiety 3. You’re easily upset or irritated. Has anyone ever told you you’re too sensitive? Do you find your feelings getting hurt easily? Are you quick to get angry or upset with others over the littlest things? This kind of emotional volatility may be a sign that you have high-functioning anxiety. As anxiety can often make us easily overwhelmed and emotionally imbalanced, frequent mood swings, temper tantrums, and irritability can be expected when you’re overly anxious four.
You’re panicky and easily startled. Anxiety makes you want to be as in control and vigilant as possible. An unexpected phone call, a random knock on the door, an email with no subject, or a forgotten task you can easily finish. Anything is enough to send you reeling with panic. You go into a tailspin whenever something catches you off-guard and you find it hard to relax even when the smallest things don’t go exactly as planned. 5. You’re indecisive. Do you have trouble making even the simplest of choices? Are you afraid of making up your mind about something because you’re so sure that whatever decision you make is going to be the wrong one? Oftentimes, anxiety can manifest as perfectionist tendencies, fear of failure, or distrust in oneself. If you can’t make your own choices without thinking about it for hours and hours first or consulting with all your friends and family, you might be harboring some hidden anxiety.
6. You overthink past conversations. You have a tendency to get hung up on past conversations no matter how much time has passed since then. You analyze the other person’s body language, facial expressions, choices of words, and even the tone of their voice. You can’t help but think about what you should have done or said instead, and it drives you crazy and keeps you on edge every time you remember it seven. You’re always making yourself busy It’s common for people with anxiety to have a strong need to keep themselves busy They’d like to occupy themselves with simple tasks and do as many things as possible in a day because sitting still and doing nothing for a long time can make them feel restless and on edge 8. You talk yourself down all the time.
Life isn’t always kind to us, and self-love and a balanced lifestyle don’t come easily. Living with anxiety, especially if it’s hidden or suppressed, can make it hard for us to feel good about ourselves and let ourselves feel happy. It makes us believe that we don’t deserve it and traps us in a vicious cycle of negative self-talk and constant pressure to be perfect. 9. You have a lot of negative thoughts. Are you a pessimist who is quick to find the downsides in every situation? Do you find yourself getting upset or stressed out over even the most minor inconveniences? Is every day a constant battle with yourself against the spiral of panicked and rational thoughts you have? In 1997, famed psychologist and cognitive therapist, Aaron Beck, termed this kind of thought pattern as catastrophic thinking, which he often observed in his patients who suffered from anxiety. And 10. You experience physical symptoms. Sometimes anxiety can be entirely physical because while your conscious mind may not always be aware of your anxiety it will definitely make itself known to your body.
Things like erratic heartbeats, chest palpitations, muscle tension, a clenched jaw, shaky hands up sweating are all indicative of anxiety. Your body may be trying to let your mind know that you’re feeling anxious and stop it before it gets any worse. Do you relate to any of the problems listed here? Or do you do your best to seem ok? And hide your symptoms because you feel embarrassed about your anxiety? The truth is: you’re not alone and having mental health issues is nothing to be ashamed of.
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“Yoga Put to the Test for Headaches,
Diabetes, Osteoarthritis, and the Elderly” Yoga is an ancient mind-body
discipline which originated in India thousands of years ago, and that’s where most yoga
studies are done to this day. This has raised concerns
that national pride might incline Indian researchers
to quietly shelve any negative results and just publish studies
showing yoga works. This fear is not without precedent. For example, research conducted in
China, Japan, Hong Kong, and Taiwan were found to be uniformly
favorable to acupuncture; all trials, without exception,
were positive.
Now, one possible explanation
for this finding is that acupuncture is just
more effective in countries where it is traditionally practiced,
but it’s a little suspicious. So, are Indian yoga trials
more likely to be positive than those from other countries? They looked at hundreds of
Randomized controlled trials of yoga, both done in India and
done in other countries, and trials on yoga conducted in India
had about twenty-five times the odds of reaching positive conclusions
as those conducted elsewhere. Again, yes, yoga might be more
effective in India than elsewhere, but it is a little suspicious. So, for example, if you’re interested
in whether yoga is helpful for treating headaches,
and you read that yoga appears to be helpful
For those suffering from tension-type headaches,
but then you find out that nearly all such studies were
conducted in India, what do you do
with that information? Also, notably, none
of the control groups had any sort of exercise component,
though this may be less critical for tension headaches, since
neither aerobic exercise training…
Nor does strength training
appear to help them. So, if we’re to believe
the Indian study conclusions, yoga may indeed help
with tension headaches, but even they found
no effect for migraines. What may help migraines,
though, are other types of exercise, specifically aerobic exercise,
decreasing migraine pain intensity, frequency, and duration,
at least in the short term. What about the benefits
of yoga practice compared to physical exercise
in the management of type 2 diabetes? A significant reduction
in both short-term and longer-term blood sugar control
was noted in the yoga groups compared to other
exercise control groups.
However, the findings may need
to be interpreted with caution, since nearly half of the studies
didn’t define and adhere to a well-planned exercise regimen
in the control group. Furthermore, an exercise intervention
comparable in intensity to yoga was followed only in three
out of the eight studies included. And, for what it’s worth,
The majority of the studies, six out of eight, were from India. When yoga was carefully
compared to sham yoga, which consisted of chair exercises,
standing exercises, and slow walking to match
the yoga session, the relative yoga
benefits evaporated.
Both yoga and sham yoga had identical effects
on blood sugar status. Hence, further well-controlled
Randomized trials are required prior to drawing conclusions
about the benefits of yoga in comparison to physical exercise
in patients with diabetes. Similar tentative conclusions were
reached for yoga for osteoarthritis. Put all the studies together
and yoga may indeed be effective for improving pain, function,
and stiffness in individuals with osteoarthritis of the knee,
compared not only to doing nothing but compared
to other kinds of exercise. They had some issues with
the quality of some of the studies, and so only a weak recommendation
for the use of yoga for osteoarthritis, but hey, if you like yoga or if yoga
is the only kind of exercise you’re willing to do, then
It’s probably better than nothing. Finally, in this video,
Let’s look at the effects of yoga compared to active and inactive
controls meaning like compared to other exercise regimens
or just like doing nothing on physical function and
health-related quality of life in adults aged 60 and older. Compared to doing nothing,
They found clear evidence that yoga improves physical function
and psychological well-being in older adults, so it definitely
better than nothing.
What about compared
to other exercises? Yoga pulled ahead for lower limb
strength and lower body flexibility, but for improving balance,
mobility, and walking speed, yoga appeared comparable. Psychologically, yoga appeared
to beat out other exercises for alleviating depression
in older adults, but not anxiety or perceived
mental health in general.
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CEUs are available for this presentation at AllCEUs.com/CBT-CEU Hi everybody and welcome to today’s
presentation on cognitive behavioral therapy skills. Like the other
The presentation we did on assert not assertive community treatment acceptance
and commitment therapy, which is also based on providing information
about skills that can be used not providing an evidence-based practice
We couldn’t cover that in a full hour or just an hour so over the
next hour we’re going to define cognitive behavioral therapy and its
basic principles a lot of us are familiar with this but it’s going to be
a good review and it also may highlight some nuances that you didn’t know about
will identify factors impacting people’s choice of behaviors explore causes and
impact of thinking errors and identify common thinking errors and their
relationships to cognitive distortions so why do we care well as therapists we
want to help people figure out the best way to live a happy healthy meaningful
goals-driven life for some people that’s going to mean using some cognitive
behavioral interventions that can be in addition to mindfulness that can be in
addition to a lot of other things but it’s important to help people understand
that the way we believe things to be the way we interpret things is going to
affect our reactions so for example think about a situation you know you’ve
walked into and maybe you walked into it with a small child and it was a
different situation it was a new situation but you know it was no big
deal you walked in it was not a threatening situation to you because you
were like hey I got this the little kid walks in and goes oh wow there are a lot
of people walking around here, this is really scary same situation as two
different perceptions you probably didn’t have much of a stress reaction
going on whereas the little child probably had this fight-or-flight thing
going on grabbing onto your hand like please don’t let go
Atlanta Airport is a perfect example if you’ve ever
taken a little kid through Atlanta Airport it gives you an idea about how
People can perceive things differently and when you enact that fight-or-flight
reaction you’re going to have all those stress hormones you’re going to have all
either anxiety or anger or whatever that goes with it it may serve to
exhaust the person and leave them feeling hopeless and helpless so what we
want to do is help people see that but we also want to help them see that when
They’re depressed when they’re tired when they’re sick things are going to
seem a lot worse a lot of times because they don’t have the energy to perceive
it differently I mean when you’re sick it’s overwhelming to think of going
through Atlanta Airport so this is what we want to help people start
understanding is it’s two sides of the same coin they interact if one is you
know kind of going wonky is going to affect the other one the good thing is
If one’s going really well the other one’s going to go well if you’re
Having positive thoughts you’re probably going to feel pretty good
there’s an activity and I think we’re going to talk about it later it’s called
the coin flip activity and I asked client clients to flip a coin in the
morning and in the morning if it turns heads then they have to be the most
positive Pollyanna all day long look for the silver lining and everything smile
walk with their head up hold those nonverbals up and see how they feel at
the end of the day besides a little sore because there are muscles they’re using
they haven’t been used in a while if it lands on tails they can just be their normal
selves which generally if they’re seeing me means that they are depressed anxious
stressed out angry about something in the negative realm then we
Talk about how things seemed different on the days when you were feeling better
when you were walking taller when you were smiling even our nonverbals it
doesn’t even have to be sickness it can be our nonverbals that can make us feel
or make our body feel heavy and tired and make it seem like it’s a whole lot
harder to deal with life as a person who perceives the world
generally good and believe they can deal with challenges as
they arise that good old self-efficacy will be able to allow their stress
response system to function normally so if they’re like you know what I can deal
with whatever life throws at me I’ve got it and maybe I need help with it maybe
I’ll need to ask for support but I’ve got it it’s not going to completely
overwhelm me with people who see the world as hostile unsafe and unpredictable You
know for a variety of reasons whatever happened to make their scheme as such
that they don’t believe that people or the world is trustworthy are predictable
They are always on guard they’re always kind of like a hamster in a cage that has
Have you ever had a hamster hamsters doesn’t recognize you and goes Hey that’s my own
Or human contact score hamsters go run under their little house
And you just kind of open the cage and stick your hand in there and flip over
their house and you’re like come here and give me cuddles and you’re like you
know 200 times bigger than they are so the little hamster is like freaking
out this is what it’s like for people and obviously, I’m exaggerating but this
is what it’s like for people who have a negative perspective a negative view or
a hostile view of the world so kind of keep that little hamster in your mind cognitive behavioral therapy we have
core beliefs those things that are in our hearts when I talk with my clients
about honesty step one and that’s what they’ve got to do to start recovery is
get honest with themselves first and then other people we talk about head
heart and gut honesty do you think it’s right does it seem like the right thing
to do does it feel right in your heart you know does it make you happy it
doesn’t make you feel good and then the Spidey senses is your gut saying and or
Is your gut fine if one of those is saying this might not be the right
choice and we need to think about what’s going on so we have those core beliefs
and I put them in the heart just because that’s the middle of the head heart and
gut but you have core beliefs about yourself whether you’re good with
You’re bad whether you’re effective at certain things yadda
You have core beliefs about other people same thing good bad effective
predictable and you have core beliefs about the future and a lot of that goes
with locus of control but also your past experiences if the world in the past is
seemed unfriendly and uncontrollable and you’ve perceived it that way then you’re
going to expect the future to be uncontrollable so what we want to do is
help people look at their schemas and their core beliefs about themselves
others in the future and figure out kind of what they want it to look like these
schemas are going to affect your behavior your thoughts and your
feelings and you know you can pick wherever you want to start it doesn’t
matter because all three interfaces with one another so if you haven’t let’s
Start with negative thoughts If you have negative thoughts then you might feel
anxious angry stressed dysphoric which will affect the behavior you’re going
to do different things than if you have positive thoughts about something you
feel excited and energized you’re going to have different behavior the best
thing example I can give you is if you’ve ever done public speaking or had
to present something Some people detest public speaking it’s just
terrifying for them to get up in front of a group of people so their thoughts
are I’m going to trip up I’m going to forget what I’m going to say I’m going
to make a fool of myself I’m going to you know it can go on forever that when
you get on a roll you can get on a negative roll and go on forever or
positive hopefully get on that roll with those thoughts you start holding onto
Those thoughts remember as we talked about in a CT the other day when you
hold those thoughts and you kind of mush them around in your mind and you come to
believe them that you’re going to make a fool of yourself and it’s going to be
awful you’re going to start feeling terrified which is going to
likely affect your behavior if you go out on the stage and you’re terrified
You’re going to probably stutter you’re probably going to get foggy-headed
You’re going to have that fight-or-flight reaction so there’s an
adrenaline rush and you start sweating and you can’t focus and you can’t
concentrate you want to away as opposed to somebody like me who
loves public speaking and I’m just like cool I get to go out there and try to
engage however many people are in the audience it’s a game for me because when
I can see your faces I enjoy trying to figure out and make eye
contact with people and figure out what it is that they’re there for what is it
that’s going to make them tick what resonates with them so my behavior as
You can kind of see right now when I go out there I’m excited and I want to
engage people and it’s a fun experience for me again just like the airport the
same experience for two different people and two very different interpretations
and reactions to it so what effects I don’t like the term rational but when
We’re talking about CBT irrationally comes up a lot I like to replace it with
helpful because every behavior in its weird sort of way is or probably was
rational at one time that being said we’re going to get back to that stress
affects our behavioral choices if we’re under stress we can have negative
emotions negative emotions will affect our thoughts if we’re feeling sad we’re
probably going to look at the dark side if we feel sad we’re going to look at
the bottom falling out if we’re happy we’re probably going to look for that
silver lining physical factors if you’re in pain sick sleep-deprived poorly
nourished so your body can’t produce the neurotransmitters it needs to or heaven
forbid intoxicated you’re probably not going to make the same decisions as you
would if you were comfortable healthy well-rested nourished and not
Intoxicated any of those things can impact how you perceive a
situation or how you react in a situation, especially the intoxication
whereas in your intoxicated State in your sober state, you may think that you
want to do something but then you’ve got that filter that does not
not a good idea in an intoxicated State or even in a manic state if you’re you
know if you have somebody with bipolar that filter kind of goes away so the
behaviors that someone may normally not do because they have a rational filter
That goes you know punching this guy out is probably not the best idea right
Now the filter goes away when you’re sleep-deprived you’re less generally
People are less patient generally people don’t have as much of a filter thing
about watching your children if you have children or your grandchildren or even
yourself I know myself when I’m sleepy I am giddy as all get-out and things I
wouldn’t normally say because they’re you know stupid I’ll just come out and
say anyway and my kids just roll their eyes or the mom you’re overtired could
go to bed, uh but that’s okay You know I’m okay with that
In that situation now if I acted that way at work it would be a worse thing
environmentally if you’re introduced to a new or unique situation and you
perceive it as stressful because the unknown we know can be stressful then
you may not make as rational of a choice or as helpful of a choice because you
Maybe trying to escape the same thing as exposure to UNPROFOR bellowing for a
word here but UNPROFOR ball is the best I could come up with we all prefer
certain situations some people like I said would rather do just about anything
then get up in front of a lecture hall of a hundred and fifty people and talk
but if they have to do it then they’re going to be under stress which may
affect how they do things so we want people to understand that their
perception and their feelings are affected by a lot of other things not
Just you know an emotion here or a particular memory there’s a lot that
goes into it and social if peers your family convey
irrational thoughts as necessary very standards for social acceptance
people may tend to cling more to it to those unhelpful thoughts and unhelpful
behaviors you know in CBT they say irrational because quote nobody wants to
associate with those people you know who are those people and why can’t we
associate with them there are a lot of things if you think back think high
School you know high school is pretty rough if we’re going to talk about
having irrational thoughts and cognitions if you have to be part of
this particular group to be accepted you have to do this you have to
do that but do you do you do those kinds of all-or-nothing statements
are cognitive distortions and while they may have served a purpose in some way
shape or form in the past we need to encourage our clients to take a look at
them now and go are they still helpful ways of thinking is it still helpful for
me to think that I am only successful if I live in a million-dollar house in a
gated community and do this that and the other or can I be can I define success as a
different way or do I define success differently and lack supportive
peers to buffer stress so we had those peers who caused stress by talking
about the half dues and categorizing and lots of attributions but then there’s
Also not having somebody to go you know does this make any sense
because sometimes we are our own worst enemies and if we go to a friend and we
go you know this is what I’m thinking and I think I have to do this in order
to be acceptable to be loved or you know whatever the case may be
Most people are not going to use those exact phrases A good friend is probably
going to listen and go yeah you’re right or no that’s way off so supportive
peers are essential to reminding us to consciously regularly check in with our
cognitions to make sure that they are hopeful and rational so a note about
irrationality and this is mine this is not from CBT the origins of most beliefs
for rational and helpful given the information the person had at the time
and their cognitive development their ability to process that information so
concepts schemas and core beliefs that people formed when they were five
are probably going to be very egocentric you know the person is going to feel
like everybody sees it my way because this is how I see it you know just like
A five-year-old does A five-year-old doesn’t think Well you know let me take
Johnny’s perspective is no he assumes that Johnny sees it the same way so it’s
going to be egocentric It’s probably going to be focused on only one aspect
of the situation because small children can’t focus on multiple aspects and it’s
probably going to be dichotomous it’s all-or-nothing
Mommy loves me mommy hates me and it could be personalized you know
Everything a lot of kids think that everything has
to do with them so if something happens something bad happens many times
Children will take it personally or be afraid it’s going to happen to them
Again you know if Hurricane Katrina hurricane
Andrew those sorts of things you know we saw a lot of trauma in children and they
developed very real fears about thunderstorms and hurricane season
And if you’ve watched Florida hasn’t had a notable hurricane in years now but
There’s a lot of stuff that goes into that but young people
During some of those really bad hurricane seasons perceive those
situations differently okay so we need to help people understand that if we
especially if we use the term irrational those thoughts you form when you are
knee-high to a grasshopper and they made perfect sense to you back then but now
that you’re an adult you’ve got more experience and you’re
able to take different perspectives your brain is more developed
Let’s take a look at it and see if you can look at different perspectives and
Come up with something a little more helpful maybe a different way of
perceiving this situation the irrational irrationality or unhelpful Nosov Fox
comes when those beliefs are perpetuated without examination so something a
the belief that you formed when you’re five you’re still holding when you’re 35 and
you’ve never questioned it you’ve never gone you know does this make sense is
This is helpful to getting me toward where I want to be Most of us don’t know
We form these attitudes and beliefs when we’re you know growing up when we’re in
elementary school middle school high school from watching TV to being
around our peers from being around our family in our community and we get all
This input of the way things should be and a lot of times people don’t stop to
question and go and go Well does this make me happy Is this really what
I want and they can be irrational if they continue to be held despite causing
harm to the person so the person continues to hold this belief even
though it is causing them general emotional cognitive harm is making them
miserable we need to look at what’s motivating them to hold on to that
belief why is that belief so important and how can we make it so they can live
a happy values-driven life with an emphasis on the harness and how can we make it less
harmful sometimes it’s more productive for clients to think of these thoughts
as unhelpful or helpful instead of irrational sometimes when I say
irrational to clients and you know I’m the same way if somebody says you’re
being irrational I’m like oh I’m not it elicits this instantaneous defensive
reaction it’s like when you tell them they’re being resistant they’re like I
am NOT resistant so helpful or unhelpful and then we talk about why it
is unhelpful in getting them toward their goals
basic principles of cognitive behavioral therapy we teach or help clients learn
to distinguish between thoughts and feelings I can think something is scary
I’ll probably feel it but if I have an automatic you know feeling I walk into
Atlanta Airport and I see yeah I went to an airport in New York I can’t even
remember which one it was because my plane was diverted and I got off and I
walked out there and I have never seen so many people packed in his place like
sardines before in my life I was just completely overwhelmed that was kind of
an automatic feeling now that was a feeling based on you know who knows it
was overwhelming to be surrounded by that many people so then I had to
separate the thoughts and go Okay what am I thinking that’s making me feel so
overwhelmed and at that point you know I didn’t know how to get to my gate and
all that other sort of stuff with traveling I don’t travel well but
encouraging clients to stop and go okay why am I feeling this way what are my
What thoughts am I having that are contributing to these dysphoric feelings
CBT helps people become aware of how thoughts can influence
feelings in ways that are sometimes not helpful
We have hecklers in our gallery the automatic tapes that we plaything
memories that we have whatever you want to call them when you try something
When you are just going through daily life you hear these voices in the back
of your head and not real voices but that is saying you’re never
going to make this or if you would have just blah blah blah then you’d be a
better person helping clients become aware of those thoughts and how they’re
Negatively influencing their feelings and keeping them kind of stuck is a huge
part of CBT we help them learn about thoughts that seem to occur
automatically without even realizing how they may affect emotions again those
thoughts from the they’re saying you’re not good enough
You’re not smart enough and nobody’s going to like you Where did that come from
and do you believe it you know maybe it came from somebody
When you were in high school so was that a valid was that a valid source Maybe it
came from somebody yesterday on Facebook was that a valid source taking in those
thoughts and then figuring out is something I’m going to hold because it
makes me happy or is this something that I’ve got to deal with because I’m having
a negative reaction constructively evaluate whether these automatic
thoughts and assumptions are accurate or perhaps biased the other thing to
remember is a lot of our clients not all of them but a lot of them hold
themselves to a standard there’s like up here and they hold everybody else to a
standard that’s down here so they are a failure if they don’t achieve this but
Everybody else is successful as long as they achieve this so encouraging them to
take a look at how accurate and biased or unbiased are the thoughts and like I
said they may be their thoughts they may be telling themselves these things
evaluate whether the current reactions are helpful and a good use of energy or
unhelpful and a waste of energy that could be used to move toward those
people and things important not impotent important to the person road-rage you’re
In the car you’re driving somebody cuts you off Okay natural reaction fight or
flight reaction you’re just like slam on the brakes and do whatever you got to do
aversive maneuvers you’re good so you could let it go at that point ago got
Lucky on that one and keep driving most people not all but most found that
80% of drivers have reported incidences of road rage which is a
high number but most people will start getting all fired up and irritated
and grumpy and we and just rageful and so my question
would be I hear that and I hear that it made you angry
In retrospect did screaming at the person as you pass them at sixty miles
An hour in your car with the windows rolled up does any good Did it Did
any good at all what else could you have done with that energy if you wouldn’t
have expended it all yesterday we had to wait for the vet to come by and my
daughter just completely wore herself out worrying about when the vet was
going to get there what he was going to say about her donkeys and was beside
herself so by the time it got to evening and it was time for her to go to her
martial arts class she didn’t have the energy to go she’s like um wiped out I
just want to go to bed in retrospect we’re looking back and saying okay now
Tell me what it was that you were so stressed out about and let’s talk about
whether that was a realistic and helpful line of thought to perseverate on all
day long and what could you have done differently because she didn’t bother to
mention any of that to me yesterday and then developed the skills to notice
interrupt and correct these biased thoughts independently causes of these
thinking errors information processing shortcuts when we form schemas and we
encounter a situation that reminds us of something in the past like when I go to
my grandmother’s house I have a schema I have a belief system I have you know
stuff that I know about my grandmother’s house so when I go to my grandmother’s
house it’s kind of a shortcut to knowing what to expect when I walk in and how to
behave how to do different things and it helps me plan and predict if you’re
Using outdated or dichotomous all-or-nothing schemas may cause
thinking errors because you may be now incorrectly processing current events
mental noise some of us have it a lot of us have it
Not everybody thinks about trying to focus and study for a final exam in the
middle of a really busy sports bar okay this is a cause of thinking or you’re
going to miss important things you’re not going to be able to focus you’re not
going to necessarily attend to the correct things because there’s just so
much else going on your attention is drawn in 17 different directions and or
the brain’s limited information processing capacity due to age we talked
about that before young kids think all or nothing they think dichotomously
egocentric ly middle school-aged kids and older start developing the ability
for abstract thinking, by the time we get older, you know as adults theoretically
We’re able to you know think pretty well and think pretty clinically about different
events but if we’re in crisis when someone is in crisis it could be
like what we think of clinically as a crisis or it could be they’re just
completely overwhelmed and burned out and have been burning the candle at both
ends for three months they’re not going to process information quite as well
They’re not going to take in all this stuff because they’re just like
shell-shocked have you ever seen teachers in the hallway of like an
elementary school Oh at the end of the second nine weeks they just kind of
stand there with this blank look on their face they’re not processing as
much as they were the first day of school and you know God loved them they
have a lot to deal with but we need to help our clients
understand that there are some times that they are going to have to really
stop and focus write things down so they can remember or they can make decisions
A little more my guess is most of us have times in our lives when we’ve
been able to think through complex problems but then there are other times
where you just can’t keep it all in your head and you’ve got to put it on a
Whiteboard maybe that’s just me but we want clients
to understand that they are not broken they’re not faulty they’re doing the
best they can with the tools they have and the knowledge they have and our job
is to help them see where some of this might have gone a little awry other
causes of thinking errors and emotional motivations I feel bad therefore
whatever I’m thinking must be bad if I’m scared that means whatever it’s coming
on the other end of the phone is bad news moral motivations I did it because
it was the right thing to do and that can be an excuse for doing wrong
behaviors as well it can also be you know you can argue on
The moral one social influence well everyone else is doing it so it must not
be bad set that again a lot of times and this is where the frames approaching the
Motivational interviewing is helpful It stands for feedback
about the reality of what’s going on is everybody doing it let’s look at
statistics you know not subjective information let’s look at objective
information so the impact of these thinking errors makes people want to
fight or flee when they get upset and we use upset as a kind of this
all-encompassing garbage term emotionally they get depressed or
anxious we don’t want to feel that way Anxiety and anger are flee or fight
fight or flee it’s our body saying there’s a threat you got to do something
depression is your body going I give up I just don’t I don’t even have the
energy to do it anymore behaviorally some people withdraw because they
Shut down We all know people get frustrated when they get overwhelmed
When they start feeling hopeless or helpless they just kind of withdraw from
Everything and everyone’s addictions numb that out so they don’t have to feel
the dysphoria sleeping problem and changes when we start being on that
constant fight-or-flight hyper-vigilant sort of thing going on in the body is
always sort of turned on which means you’re not going to sleep as well then
The circadian rhythms get messed up which starts causing exhaustion and
lethargy and then everything seems harder because you’re sleep-deprived and
then you start thinking more negatively and more hopelessly you see where this
is going it’s a downward spiral and eating changes some people eat a lot
more because they’re eating comfort foods some people eat a lot less because
Their stomach is so torn up from the stress they can’t even think about
holding anything down physical stress-related illnesses fibromyalgia
gastrointestinal problems headaches neck aches backaches you know the whole
the gamut of it when you start feeling bad when you start hurting generally it gets
frustrating after a while and that frustration makes it kind of raises the
bar brings you up a little bit so you’re
That thatch closer to kind of just kind of being overwhelmed as you do You have as much
of a cushion as you would if you were happy healthy well nourished not in pain
and socially a lot of times we will get irritable or impatient with other people
or withdrawal when we’re having these negative cognitions these thinking
errors that are keeping us in a dysphoric state these effects of
thinking errors contribute to fatigue a sense of hopelessness and
helplessness which intensifies thinking errors This is an important concept that
I want my clients to understand and I want to drive home in this presentation
so thinking errors what are they emotional reasoning feelings are not
facts and we want to help people learn to identify feelings
and separate them from facts so if somebody says I’m terrified
okay that is a feeling what are the facts supporting that feeling why are
you are terrified what is the evidence that you are in some sort of danger
Right now you know that danger may not be the right word for your client at that
a particular point in time but what’s the evidence that there’s a threat in what
ways is this similar to other situations maybe it’s triggering something from the
past that was scary or you know you were too little to be able to
handle it but you can handle it now and how if you dealt with similar situations
Like in the past, we wanted people to just step back and get some
distance between their feelings and their thoughts and try to figure out you
know which thoughts are helpful and productive and even if a sought makes
people anxious or angry it can be helpful it may be telling them hey dude
you need to get your butt up and get out of there if it’s helpful it means it’s
moving them toward where they want to be happy healthy safe and values-driven
life so happy and helpful developed a stress tolerance skills when people use
emotional reasoning they feel emotions which then they start attributing
finding the facts to support those emotions instead of looking at all the
facts we want to help them learn to tolerate their distress so they can kind
of let that subside for a second they can accept their feeling they can name
them They say I’m scared I’m stressed I’m angry and whatever but they don’t
have to act on it right then they can tolerate the distress for a minute
without having to try to make it go away and emotional regulation skills they can
feel a feeling without having to make it go from zero to 120
You know if they feel sad they go I feel kind of sad instead of grabbing onto it
and going I wonder what I feel sad about I must feel sad about all these sad
things now I’m going to be sad and devastated so we want to
help people learn how to regulate their emotions identify them accept them
Whatever word you want to use tolerate them because feelings are
there for a reason they’re there to tell you your brain thinks something’s going
now thankfully we have that higher-order cognition stuff going on so
We can contradict our brain and we can go you know maybe that’s not true in
this situation cognitive bias negativity mental filter whatever you want to call
it people who focus on the negative they walk in they get up in the morning and
They look outside and it’s partly cloudy They get to work and they say instead
of saying there was it was very light traffic they said there was a fair
amount of traffic everything is always the flip side of
what somebody who’s optimistic would say so asking them what’s the
benefit to focusing on the negative in what ways is this helpful to you
know some people say Well it keeps me from getting disappointed because I know
It’s going to end up negative anyway so we can trap challenges that know that
whatever it is they think they know and see if there have been exceptions when
It hasn’t turned out that way What are the positives to this situation
I give the example a lot of you know I wash my car or it rains and maybe I
wanted to go out on a run that day but I can perceive it I can look at the
positives you know the rain washed my car for me so I don’t have to do it now
score it watered my garden all the better it knocked down some of the
pollen out of there even better I can find and I can encourage people to find
positives in a situation yes there are negatives there are negatives to every
situation if you want to find them you’re going to find them but if you
want to find the positives you can too which takes us down to what are all the
facts there’s the positive and the negative and the neutral I told you
Earlier about the coin toss activity having people toss a coin on the
heads days they act like it is just the greatest day to be alive and see how
Things are different when they do their journal because you know I have my
clients do I’m sort of a mindfulness check-in in
the morning and in the evening and preferably at lunchtime how are they
feeling what’s their emotional state what’s their energy level on the happy
days a lot of times it can be less and sometimes they need a little coaching
throughout because some of those old patterns kick in but I want them to
start challenging some of their automatic thoughts that we’re going to
talk about in a minute disqualifying or minimizing the positive most of us can
probably say we’ve had a bunch of clients that do this they are more than
happy to tell you about all the things that they mess up but then when they do
something right they minimize it encouraging people to hold themselves to
the same standard they would hold everyone else to and I know I talked
about that earlier ask them things like would it minimum would you minimize this.
If it was your best friend’s experience your best friend came to you and said I
just got into such-and-such college would you say awesome or would you say
anybody can get in there how would that go ask them what is scary about
accepting these positive things that you might have had an
accomplishment for some people it means that it might mean other people expect
more of them for other people they just don’t know how to accept the positive
They don’t know how to accept compliments they don’t know how to be
the center of attention and they don’t like it and then we want to look at why
that is sometimes we disqualify the positive because it fails to meet
someone else’s standards so as people might that be true here you know I know
When I was growing up and going through college and going through school and
everything got my doctorate but I will always not being not
a real doctor because a Ph.D. is not an MD and I’m like really
So is it somebody else’s standards or can I feel good about having a Ph.D. egocentrism My perspective is the only
perspective I’ll being egocentric but it doesn’t work
most of the time so encouraging people to take alternate perspectives
Maybe you’re texting with someone and they say something that is not what you
interpret as not the nicest thing and this happens in text messages a lot and
they get upset now an egocentric thinking error would say that purse is
just grumpy today Someone who’s taking other perspectives would stop and go
back and read the text and go I wonder if maybe this could have been taken some
other another you know obvious reaction is not what I intended
So egocentrism if you hold on to that I don’t understand anybody else because
You know I don’t see a problem with anything personalizing and mind-reading This is when you assume that everybody’s
frowning because of something you did your boss walks down the hallway
and looks at you and grimaces and continues to walk on oh I must have done
something wrong No maybe he just got out of his senior management meeting that
was five hours long and he’s got to go to the bathroom you know there could be
a hundred different explanations for why that happened so encourage clients to
ask themselves what some alternate explanations for this event that are
doesn’t involve me you know why this might have happened if they hold
on to that, I must have done something wrong but as soon as their boss calls
them up and goes hey can you come to my office for a second you know where their
thoughts are going to go I’m getting fired I’m going to get laid off I don’t
know what it was that I did wrong but he walked by me two weeks ago in the
hallway and grimaced and I’m just I’m the worst person in the whole world
But where did that come from so encouraging people to not necessarily
assume they know what’s going on in someone else’s mind and not
automatically attributing every person’s negative behavior to something they did
How often and then ask them how often has it been about you
now think about the last 10 times you’ve taken something personally how many of
Those 10 times has it been about something you did versus something with
the other person then the availability heuristic remembering what’s most
prominent in your mind so asking clients what the facts ah the most obvious
One that we talk about is plane crashes You know it is very dangerous to fly on a
plane because you hear about all those plane crashes well yeah you hear about
the airlines crashes but don’t hear about the 20,000 every day that land
safely so you remember it and it seems more dangerous because that’s what is in
your mind that’s what is available to you that’s what you’ve based your
thought processes on because maybe you didn’t know that 20,000 planes or more
fly and land just perfectly every day this can also be true with people
remembering what’s most prominent in your mind sometimes and this can be very
very true in domestically violent relationships if somebody falls in love
with someone and that person is just the greatest person since sliced bread for
the first four months and then the cycle starts and there’s this little tiny
a sliver of the honeymoon period after the battering cycle and the person’s like
That’s the person I fell in love with that’s what I remember and they try to
focus on that that’s most prominent in their mind and they ignore the rest of
the stuff so we need to encourage people to look objectively at the facts magnifying high and
low probability outcomes what are the chances that this is going to happen how
Many clients have worked with have gone to the doctor and gotten into a
physical or get a test run and then the doctor had to call them back and
This could be true for you too and the doctor had to call them back two or
Three days later when the tests came back from the lab and that whole three
days they were just in a panic because they
were afraid they were going to get some terminal diagnosis so thinking about
high and low probability outcomes another instance or example of
magnification is somebody that thinks this is the end of the world whatever it
I think I’ve told you before my little story about um tripping when I
was walking down the hall at work and falling and yeah it was embarrassing my
folders went everywhere and yeah but in that big scheme of things will it matter
That much from now you know are people going to think Oh she is such a clutch she
must be a ditz too no I mean they may have thought that at that time I don’t
know but you know in six months nobody’s going to remember and then ask them in
the past when something like this has happened when you’ve had to get a test
done and you’ve had to wait on results or if you’ve done something that was
embarrassing and you didn’t think you thought everybody was going to remember
it forever how did you tolerate it how did you learn to deal with it building
on those strengths that they already have all-or-nothing thinking errors
These are things like love versus hate I love them or I hate them it’s all or
Nothing she does this all the time or she never does it if I’m going to do it
I’m going to do it perfectly or I’m not going to do it at all thank you all good
intentions or all bad intentions you know sometimes we do things with good
intentions that have some bad repercussions so did we do it with all
Bad intentions are all good intentions and the answer is neither most of the
time life is kind of in that middle-ground gray area encouraging clients to
Look and find examples where something hasn’t been one of the polls when have
they done something that they’re proud of that wasn’t perfect or when again
When has somebody else done something that they were proud of that wasn’t
perfect remembering that with availability
heuristic remembering how often something happens and how long it’s
been since you’ve seen that behavior and remember that sometimes good times are
amazing but how frequent are they compared with the bad times another thinking error is a belief in a
just world or a fallacy of fairness I just asked clients to identify for good
people you know who’ve had bad things happen and in in reality we all have bad
things happen good people do bad people do in between people do attributional
errors and this is a pet of mine you know labeling yourself is not a behavior so
global versus specific and I am stupid versus I’m stupid at math I don’t have
good math skills it’s not about me it’s about the skills I can change skills
stable I am and I always will be versus it’s something I can change it’s
something I can learn internally It’s about me as a person versus it’s about a
skill deficit or something I could learn or change and there’s you know lots of
information on attributions out there on the internet if you need a refresher on
it but we find that a lot of people who have dysphoria have negative global
stable internal attributions so questions for clients remember the
beliefs equal thoughts and facts plus personal interpretation another way of
saying it is reality is 10% perception is 10% reality and 90% interpretation so
what are the facts for and against my belief is the belief based on facts or
Feelings Does the belief focus on one aspect or the whole situation Does the
belief seem to use any thinking errors what are alternate explanations what
Would you tell your child or best friend if they had this belief how would you
want someone to tell what would you want someone to tell you about this belief so
If you’re telling somebody about this what are you hoping they’re going to say
in return and finally, how is this belief moving you toward what and who is
important to you or moving you away from what or who is important to you now they
can do a worksheet and have all of these or you can pick one or two of these
questions that are most salient for your clients but they can have kind of at
their fingertips so as they’re going through the day and something happens
They can ask themselves ok what’s an alternate explanation Or you know
Whatever it is this salient for that client’s irrational thoughts how do these
thoughts impact the client’s emotions health relationships and perceptions of
the world you know this is what we want to ask them How is this thought
impacting you globally how may this thought have been helpful in the past
Where did it come from How does it make sense from when you formed it in the
past when you’re dealing with it ask the person if the thought is bringing you
closer to those that are important Are there any examples of this thought or
belief not being true and how can the statement be made less global less
all-encompassing so it’s about a specific incident a specific situation
less stable which means you can change it and less internal which means it’s
not about who you are as a person but maybe something that you do or a skill
that you have so we’re going to go through some of these thoughts real
Quickly here mistakes are never acceptable and if I make one it means
that I’m incompetent well never is kind of stable and I am incompetent is kind
of global, that’s also that extreme all-or-nothing thinking so you can see
where these cognitive distortions end up leading to unhelpful beliefs
When somebody disagrees with me it’s a personal attack Well there’s
Personalization If I ever heard it before maybe it’s not about you may be
They’re having a bad day and you just happen to be the unlucky target or maybe
they’re disagreeing with you because they have a different point of view and
It’s not a personal attack it’s just their point of view If someone
criticizes or rejects me there must be something wrong with me
personalization all-or-nothing thinking global stable and internal something
wrong with me as a person to feel good about myself others must approve of me
Now this is one we’ve talked about external validation before and we can’t
control other people to feel good about yourself how can you do that
Besides necessarily requiring other people to approve of you to be
content in life I must be liked by all people Wow I’ve never met anybody who’s
liked by all people I’ve never even met anybody who’s been hated by all people
but it’s important to help clients see how this is dramatic to say all
people and for them to be content everybody has to like them
I mean I like to be liked but if everybody doesn’t like me you know
That’s pretty understandable My true value as an individual depends on what
others think of me I would challenge this one this is all you know
Also very personally I would challenge people to look at and say it
so your child’s value as an individual depends on what other people think of
Most people would say no but the perspective thing nothing ever turns
out the way you want it to okay all-or-nothing thinking and probably
availability heuristic if something bad just happened then they may be focusing
on that which causes them to focus on all the other bad things in the past
that have happened not to focus on that is okay you know bad thing
happen but look at all these good things I won’t try anything new unless I will
be good at it this fear of failure fear of rejection
It just really paralyzes a lot of people when they get stuck with that thinking
the area that they have to be perfect I am in total control of anything bad that
happens is my fault well that’s egocentric and personal if
They think they’re in total control that’s their perception of how the world
Do they think if they’ve got everybody on marionette strings anything
bad in the world that happens is their fault how powerful are they
I feel happy about uh if I feel happy about life something will go wrong
It happens sometimes but let’s look at times when you’ve been happy that
something hasn’t gone wrong you know let’s get rid of that all-or-nothing
thinking it’s not my fault my life didn’t go the way I wanted could be true
but it seems like that’s making you unhappy so what do we do about that if
I’m not in an intimate relationship I’m alone
No, again that’s pretty extreme I’m either in an intimate relationship or I
am alone and a loner and you know it’s just me and my 17 cats which follows
with there’s no gray area so encouraging people to look at what these
beliefs are saying important thoughts impact behaviors and emotional and
Physical reactions emotional and physical reactions impact thoughts and
interpretations of events so if you do something and it’s pleasurable
and you have a great physical reaction you know let’s take bungee jumping or
Skydiving if you go out there and it’s scary but you do it and you’re just like
Whoa what a rush Your interpretation of that is probably going to be good which
means you’ll probably do it again if you go out there and it’s just the most
horrible experience you’ve ever had you’re probably not going to do it again
and your interpretation of it is going to be not good which is going to make it
hard to understand why other people would do it irrational
thinking patterns are often caused by cognitive distortions so let’s just look
back at some of those because there are a lot fewer cognitive distortions or
general ways of thinking about the world then there are thinking errors because
There are lots and lots of thinking errors Cognitive distortions are often schemas
which were formed based on faulty inaccurate or immature knowledge or
understanding and by identifying the thoughts of the hecklers you know the
automatic tapes that maintain our unhappiness the person can choose
whether to accept those thoughts or change them.
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Drew Linsalata: This week on the
anxious truth, we’re finally going to do a Frequently Asked
Questions episode. Actually, we’re going to do two of them.
This is the first one. So let’s go Hello, everybody. Welcome back
to the anxious truth. This is podcast episode number 216.
Recorded in July of 2022. The Anxious Truth is the podcast
that covers all things anxiety, anxiety, disorders, and recovery.
I am Drew Linsalata, creator and host of the anxious truth, I am
happy that you’re here. Before we get cooking on part one of
our Frequently Asked Questions episodes, I would like to remind
you that the anxious truth is more than just this podcast
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find all the ways to support my work at the anxious
truth.com/support. Never required, always appreciated.
And yeah, I just appreciate you guys no matter what you do. So
here we are in Episode 216. Really, and truly, I should have
done this episode a couple of years ago, I’ve waited way too
long to do frequently asked questions.
These are the
questions that get asked again and again and again. So I
compiled a bunch of them myself. And then I also asked for help
from some of my favorite people in the world, the admins and
moderators in my Facebook group. Like what are the questions that
we hear all the time in the group, that group is approaching
10,000 people, it’s very busy. And so we get these questions
all the time. So in the eight years that I’ve been doing this
podcast, these are the questions that I get asked again and again
and again. So the reason why I’m doing this episode, and then
next week, episode 217 will be part two of the frequently asked
questions so that we can put them all in one place. And you
could just pop on over to these two podcast episodes, or the
corresponding YouTube videos on my YouTube channel. And just get
those answers if you need them. It’ll just be an easy place for
us to point people.
Hey, here are the top 20 questions that we get
asked Oh, listen to this. So let’s get into it. The first
question that I’m going to cover, and I’m going to do these
pretty quickly, I guess because I don’t want this to be a really
long episode. I get asked all the time am I drew. Are you
fully recovered? Or do you experience anxiety or panic
attacks anymore? And the answer to that is Hell yeah. I am 100%
totally completely recovered. I do not have any anxiety
disorders anymore. I am completely confident in saying
that that is no lie. Now, does that mean that I never
experienced anxiety or panic? Now it doesn’t mean that at all.
One of the things that you will learn if you’re just getting
familiar with this work is that that is not what recovery looks
like, I will tell you that I can have an anxious day down on them
because I can experience stress and sometimes stress is anxiety
for normal healthy human beings.
So yeah, sometimes I feel
anxiety. But all human beings experience anxiety, sometimes.
I’m just not afraid of it anymore. And that’s the
difference between anxiety and anxiety disorder. Can I have
panic attacks? Sure, I might have a couple of panic attacks a
year. Now. It’s been a long time since I had one the last time
was probably eight months maybe ago. I tried to document the
aftermath of that on my Instagram account. If you follow
me over there. It’s a highlight of my stories. But yeah, I could
I could have a panic attack today. It’s possible. I just
don’t care if I do or I don’t. I mean, I prefer not to because
it’s disruptive. But how do I know that I’m completely and
utterly recovered and that I do not have an anxiety disorder
anymore, that I don’t care? I just do not care whether I panic
or don’t panic, and I don’t care whether I’m anxious or not.
Because anxiety now occupies a regular normal, healthy space
in my life. So that’s the difference between anxiety and
anxiety disorders.
I do not have an anxiety disorder. I’m no
longer afraid of what I think and how I feel. Nor am I worried
that I might be anxious or panicky tomorrow, because even
if I were to panic right after I finished recording this podcast,
it will start it will peak it will and the whole thing will be
over in about 10 minutes. I’ll feel shaky for another half hour
or 45 minutes and I’ll get on with my life.
And that’s
recovery. And that is me I am fully recovered 100% I’m not
lying, I swear to God. So the next question that I get asked
is full recovery actually possible? And while I just kind
of answered that, so yes, I am 100% fully recovered if you
paraded me in front of one hundred therapists and toll and ask them
to assess me and diagnose me. I am I’m completely confident I
would bet you every physical asset I have in the world that
100% of them would find out the diagnosis to be had. But it’s
not just me, right? So, I don’t want to say that well, because
If I’m recovered, then that means everybody can recover.
I just
have seen too many people, hundreds of 1000s of people over
the years that I’ve been privileged to interact with you
guys have also reached a state of complete and full
recovery, and will tell you the same thing that I just told you.
Sometimes they get anxious, they might panic now and then they
might have intrusive thoughts. And then they might
experience anxiety sensations now and then, but they are 100%
fully recovered from their anxiety disorder. So yes, I
promise I would not spend the time that I do on this if I did
not fully believe and see evidence every day and a large
population of people that full recovery is, in fact possible.
It is. It’s possible I see them every day. If you’re in my
Facebook group, you see them every day, too. You just might
not notice that. Or you might be skewed and thinking, Well, this
person had a panic attack, I have been told I’ll use my own
personal experience.
I’ve been told by people online that
because I had a panic attack eight months ago I’m lying,
and I’m not recovered. What’s the point if you still can have
a panic attack, and they’re missing the whole thing? And
they can have that opinion if they want. That’s okay, we won’t
see eye to eye. But sometimes the fact that you’re so
desperate to never panic again, you’re so desperate to feel
better, you’ll discount what recovery actually looks like,
right now.
I get that that’s okay, you’re getting there. As
you work it down the road. As you get better with the process,
you’ll start to understand what it really means. And you’ll see
oh, yeah, people really do recover, and I can be one of
them. So I promise full recovery is only possible I see it every
day. And just about every therapist that you can find in
the world that specializes in treating anxiety disorders will
tell you that Oh, sure.
It’s fully possible. Some people with
OCD will say well, you can never cure OCD. But you can live
without it crippling you and controlling your life. And
that’s what sometimes gets debated. Because just like with
anxiety, you may have thoughts, you may have intrusive thoughts
now. And then they may pop up, especially when you’re stressed.
But even then even people that say, well, it’s there’s no cure
for that will tell you, but you don’t have to be crippled by it
anymore.
And that’s recovery. So that’s question number two.
Question number three, Excuse me, this is a bit of a loaded
question. And you guys know that it’s something that I don’t
spend a whole lot of time talking about. But I have to
address it because it comes up all the time every day. And
question number three is, can I recover without medication? So I
will if you aren’t really interested, I did a three-part
series in this podcast about a year and a half ago, I don’t
remember which episodes those are if you just go to the
anxious truth.com and use the search tool and search for
antidepressant or SSRI you’ll see those three episodes. I told
the whole story. Can I recover without medication? Yeah, yeah.
Now, let me preface this by saying that if you believe that
you are better off on medication, and you think that
you should just take that for the rest of your life, I am
still going to 100% support you as one human being to another, I
completely respect your ability to make a decision that you
think is best for you.
100%. So I’m going to say that it is
possible to recover without medication. But please do not
tell me that I met shaming everybody, or anybody, you may
choose to take medication. And that’s a perfectly valid choice.
What I’m saying right now, doesn’t make that doesn’t make
what I’m saying is untrue. And it doesn’t mean that I’m
invalidating your path. But I get asked, Is it possible to
recover without medication? And the truth of that is, is that I
have besides me again, hundreds and 1000s of people that I’ve
seen do it. So, what am I supposed to say?
The answer is yes.
Yes, it’s there. The evidence is right
there. I’m evidence, as are these hundreds and 1000s of
people that I see all the time. Again, if you were in my
Facebook group, you know, people that have recovered without
medication, you know, people who were on medication did the work
of tapering off. Sometimes it was pretty fast. Sometimes it
was a struggle. But yeah, you can people do recover without
medication. So if you are taking meds now and you’re hoping one
day to not I get you because that was me, that used to be me.
Yes, you can come off it. Sometimes it’s difficult, that’s
for sure. But is it possible to come off your medication and
fully recover? It is possible. So, the answer to that question is,
can I recover without medication as I did, and many, many people
do, but your circumstance is yours and you get to make the
decision that you think is right for you.
And everybody should
respect that. All right, so that’s all I’m going to say about
medication. Please don’t ask me and tell me that I’m med-shaming
anybody. I’m not excuse me. If you want to take medication, and
you think it’s best for you to go for it. Don’t let anybody knock
you down for that including me. So that fourth question is not
really a question. It’s more of a statement and this is a thing
that people will kind of not throw at me.
They’re not being
mean. I understand. And that is this statement. You know, that’s
easier said than done. Drew, I, and I understand it totally is
it completely. This is all easier said than done. But I
will weighed down that I never talked
about it being easy. In fact, I talked about how hard it is all
the time, every single day, I will validate that this is very
difficult. The recovery plan that I’m always talking about,
and I’m not the only one, I didn’t invent this, remember, I
did not invent any of this. I just seem to be good at relaying
it to people and explaining it. To me, I guess. But I didn’t
invent this. But nobody who’s in the business of treating anxiety
disorders or being an advocate, whatever it is, and talks about
the things that I talked about, and believes in this approach,
nobody will tell you that it’s easy. So if anybody comes at
you, and tells you that, you know, they have a fast way for
you to cure your panic disorder, or your agoraphobia, or your
OCD, or your health anxiety, run because there really aren’t
really easy ways to do this.
This is hard. The plan and the
concept are simple. But the execution is hard. It is hard.
And I’ve done a podcast episode about that. Now, if you go to
the anxious truth.com/ 216, in the show notes of this episode,
on my website, I will link the episodes that I’m referencing
here, I did an episode entirely dedicated to that. Like, why is
recovery so hard? Well, there’s a bunch of reasons why it’s
hard. First and foremost you have to be brave, you have to
face your fear.
It’s counterintuitive. It’s the
opposite of what you want to do. You’re running toward
discomfort. Nobody wants to do that. So when you tell me,
that’s easier said than done, my answer to you is correct. That
is correct. I never promised you easy. I never talked about easy.
I talked about it being hard all the time. This is easier said
than done. It’s a simple plan, it’s really hard to execute for
a variety of reasons. Right? So that’s not question four. It’s
statement four. How’s that? So number five, in the hit parade
here, and our frequently asked questions in this episode is,
how can I be sure that this really is just anxiety? This is
definitely a tough live question. I hear it all the
time. But how can I be sure that it’s just anxiety?
So let me put
this into context. If you are a typical sufferer of things like
panic attacks or agoraphobia, health, anxiety, whatever it
happens to be, if you’re typical, and you kind of follow the
patterns that most of us follow that I follow that many, many
people follow, you have been checked out again, and again.
And again, maybe you’ve been to the ER or the A&E, like you
Guys call it in the UK.
Maybe you’ve been to the emergency
room in the hospital again, and again, and again, maybe you’ve
been to 16 general practitioners and a bunch of specialists and
you keep asking for different tests. And you always need to
Well, what about this, let’s go to this symptom. You know, I bet
you check that out. So the context that I’m talking about
right here is that you have gone through all of that. You
have been told by a team of medical
professionals that there is nothing wrong with you right
now.
This is anxiety. So that’s the question that I’m answering,
right? So it’s okay to get yourself checked out. Everybody
does it. When new things come up in your body, it’s okay to check
them out. There’s no crime in that. There’s nothing wrong with
that. But once you have been checked out and given that
medical clearance, how can I be sure that it’s really just
anxiety? The doctor keeps telling me that everybody keeps
telling me that drew. How can, I be sure? The answer to that
question? This is a sucky one. And I did an episode on this
too.
So I’ll link that in the show notes of this one. The
answer is you can’t ever be sure. That’s true. You cannot
ever be 100% certain, but you don’t need to be right. So
people who are not suffering in the grips of disordered anxiety
and the irrational fear that comes with that. And the
distortions of magnifications. Understand that they are not
living in certainty either. They’re just willing to be
certain enough. I did a podcast episode with Sally
Winston, where she talked about, that she and Marty Self
wrote a book called Needed to Know for Sure, which is a great,
great book that I highly recommend. And she talked about
being short enough, like air quotes, normal people, and I
know you can’t see me because no video in this episode, but so-called normal people are short enough.
People with disordered
anxiety can never be sure enough. But the reality of this
is part of the recovery process is that you are learning
how to be short enough. And in the episode that I did
titled How can I be sure this is really anxiety, I went into a
thing that I call life math, and I talked about this, and the
distortions and magnifications that really overblow the
risk in your mind right now. But as you go down the road and you
become more and more recovered and a little bit closer to
to so-called normal that life math goes back to a normal state
The risk is no longer overblown and you learn to be sure enough
again. And trust me, that is a state that is perfectly okay.
That’s the normal human state. How can I be sure that if I have
pain in my chest after a stressful day it’s not a
heart attack? I can’t be 100% Sure I can’t. But I don’t have
to immediately assume that it is a heart attack and go into
immediate emergency mode.
So that’s the answer to that
question. How can I be sure you can’t ever be 100% sure of
almost anything in life, but you can learn to be short enough? And you
can learn when anxiety goes back to a healthy position in your
life, to navigate that uncertainty more productively
and more effectively so that you know, now it’s time to call for
help. It’s time to go see a doctor, you’ll know. Believe me,
I know. Now, back then I had no idea. I thought it was always
time to see a doctor. And I’m sure you do too, right now. And
it seems super scary to not see that doctor, but you’ll get
there. So let’s move on to Question six. Where are we 15
minutes? How can I be brave and face the anxiety without
running? Look, this is at the core of everything that I talked
about right is about going toward the anxiety or allowing
it without resistance. I use the term surrender. Josh Fletcher
talks about willful tolerance, Claire Weeks talks about
acceptance and floating. So, we are allowing this scary stuff,
the scary sensations, the disturbing thoughts, the OMG
thoughts, the catastrophic guts, we’re allowing all of that.
And
We’re facing it and allowing it to reach its peak so that it
comes back down naturally. And we can learn I can navigate
through this. I don’t have to run from it. But that requires
courage. Because I’m going to do a podcast episode on this shortly
I would dedicate an episode to the fact that you will be
afraid. Yeah, yeah, you’re going to be afraid you’re going to be
uncomfortable, you’re going to be vulnerable and unsure and
uncertain. And those are really tough things to just deal with
to just sit in and allow. And people will ask me all the time,
but how can I be brave? And do that? And the answer to that is,
I can’t tell you how to be brave. And a lot of times it
doesn’t. And I’ve done episodes on this to bravery. I’ve written
my morning newsletter, the anxious morning, and did a whole
series on bravery.
How can I be brave and face anxiety without
running? There are no lessons on how to be brave. Just gain an
understanding that being brave doesn’t mean you’re not afraid. Brave
means that you are in fact afraid. But you’re doing
the thing that you have to do anyway. So, my best tip for
how to be brave is to first start with an understanding that
brave means that you’re afraid and if you take a leap of faith
that you can you’ll be okay. Even if you’re afraid. That’s
what bravery is. So, a lot of people are convinced that like,
Well, I’m not brave, because I’m still really afraid. Yeah,
you’re going to be afraid bravery doesn’t mean not being
afraid.
It means being afraid and doing it anyway. And before
I move on from this question, I need to clarify that this is not
I mean, yeah, there’s that old I don’t even know where comes from
maybe it was a book self-help book. Feel the fear and do it
anyway. Okay. Yeah, kind of like that’s a gross
oversimplification. Do it anyway. Okay, a little bit of an
oversimplification simplification. Just do it. You
know, like the Nike slogan, do not ever let anybody tell you
that my message or the message of anybody that sounds like me
is just do it. That Frost’s me that grinds my gears in
a big way. Recovery is not just doing it; nobody is telling you to
suck it up. No one’s telling you to just do it. This isn’t a
badass, hardcore character, proof of character, or strength
thing. This is hard. Being brave is hard.
And it’s nuanced. And
You’d be braver on Tuesday than you are on Wednesday. And then
Maybe you’ll be brave again on Sunday. You don’t know it waxes
and wanes. So just allow all that, like, do the best you can.
Sometimes bravery is very imperfect. Most of the time.
It’s imperfect. That’s okay. But none of this just boils down to
silly stuff, like just do it. Hate that don’t like that very
invalidating.
Okay, so the next question, this is a big one. And
this is also a sensitive topic. Don’t I need to find the
root cause of my panic attacks to get better? Sometimes the
word healing don’t I have to heal to stop my panic attacks?
Well, here’s the deal. When you are now afraid of the panic
itself, and I’ve talked about this, I’ve talked about this. In
some of my earliest episodes, anxiety is physical Anxiety
disorders are cognitive. I’ve explained how these things come
to be and the evolution of what an anxiety disorder looks
like. But the crux of the matter here is, don’t I need to find the
root cause. Don’t I have to heal my pain? Or my suffering in
order to stop my panic attacks? The answer is maybe. But if you
are now primarily concerned with the fact that you are anxious,
then you have a different problem. So you may just have
that problem in my life. That’s the only problem I’ve ever
found. For whatever reason, I started to have panic attacks. I
don’t know why I may never know why.
But guess what, I fully
recovered without ever finding out why. And I may never know
one day I may know, I don’t know. But once I was only afraid
of the next attack, once I became afraid of my own
heartbeat, my own thoughts, my own emotions, my own lungs, me
own legs. Once I became afraid of the state of being anxious
itself, then if there was some sort of root cause or pain
trigger, it didn’t matter anymore. So the litmus test here
is, what am I afraid of? Right so if you walk out of your
house, and you experience panic because you have been assaulted,
and you are you feel unsafe because have the memories of that
assault, then yeah, then that’s a root cause thing for
sure.
I would never ever invalidate that. It’s true. But
if you started that way, and are now just afraid that well, if I
walk into the house, and then I don’t like how I feel, that has
become the primary fear. Well, now you have two problems, you
have to work on the disorder and anxiety part. And then maybe
There’s some healing, some trauma work to do. Yeah, that
could be more than one thing can be true at one time. So, when I
say that you do not need to find the root cause of your panic
attacks or anxiety to get better. I’m talking about a
situation where you have learned to be afraid of your own body
and thoughts. Right. So, in that situation, the root cause kind
of doesn’t matter anymore.
It still might be there. And one
day, you may do that work, maybe you’ll do that work
simultaneously, as you’re doing the anxiety disorder, recovery
work could be people do that. But to stand on your feet
again, and no longer be afraid of your own heartbeat, which is
the thing I use all the time. No, you don’t need to find a
root cause.
Whatever that root cause is, did not make
you are afraid of your own heartbeat. It may have been the
trigger that caused your heart to beat faster, and those first
waves of anxiety as far as panic attacks. But now you’re afraid
of your heart itself. So the root cause is on the back burner
now, sorry, it is. And the beauty of some of this
process is many, many people in our community come to this
process and figuratively, metaphorically, they’re on fire,
they’re burning, they’re burning, I can’t get out of my
own bed, I can’t leave my bedroom, I cannot even walk to
the other side of the house. without panicking. I have to sit
in the dark all day. I’m super sensitized. I can do nothing I
just panic, panic, panic all day long.
I’m anxious, anxious,
anxious, the thoughts, the thoughts, the thoughts. And they
stopped digging for root causes, they started doing this kind of
work, and they put the fire out. And then they discover like,
Okay, I’m back to a state where now maybe I could do some of
that root cause work. I see that every single day. And for those
people, they have very difficult but sometimes very rewarding
journeys and experiences. But digging for a root cause because
everybody just assumes that panic is caused by some sort of
unhealed pain is really a very damaging narrative in the
anxiety disorder community. So no, you don’t need that. And I
will tell you right now, if you’ve been working with
anybody, whether they just be supportive friends, family
members, or a therapist that has been digging for your root cause
for two years, and you still can’t find it, and you still
can’t leave your house, you got to rethink that relationship.
I’ll say it.
Okay, I can say that. So that is the answer to
the root cause question. I’ve talked about this, all of the
things I’m talking about today, I’ve written about that, in my
books there another episode of the podcast are in the morning
newsletter, and they’re in my social media content. They’re
all there. So let’s move on to the next question. Another sort
of hot topic that I catch a lot of heat about, why don’t I talk
about things like nutrition or diet or supplements? I get
asked, I don’t understand Drew. It’s a mind-body thing.
Everybody loves the mind. The body loves the mind and body. Listen, I have no
problem with mind-body. I’m cool with that. I don’t believe that
the fact that there’s a connection between your mind and
your body is news.
Like, we kind of know this already. It’s
not news. It’s not profound. It doesn’t necessarily inform the
recovery process. Just like my answer to the last
question, if you are afraid of your own heartbeat, or you have
thoughts that you can’t, necessarily unhinged, unhitch
from and they are dragging you up and down the street every
day, even though you know they shouldn’t, and you know, they’re
not true, but you get dragged around anyway. If you’re afraid
of your own breath, if you’re terrified to be alone, because
What if something happens, and nobody’s here to save me,
because I might panic. And my anxiety might be dangerous this
time, then there is nothing in your gut biome that’s going to
Make a hill of beans a difference about that.
Now, this
is not to say that I don’t believe in taking good care of
your body, we should all take good care of our bodies. There’s
nothing wrong with that whatsoever. Again, these are not
mutually exclusive things. I don’t talk about diet or
nutrition or supplements, because everybody should take
care of their bodies. But in this paradigm that I have
embraced in my life, that many, many of us in this cognitive
behavioral approach to anxiety disorders have embraced,
that doesn’t enter into it.
Really, you know, look, don’t
let yourself get run down. Don’t be unhealthy. Take good care of
yourself as best you can. But I’m going to tell you right now, that I
have run across hundreds and hundreds of people who have
fully recovered from a steady diet of sugar, processed foods, and
cigarettes. They still got better. They probably have
terrible gut biomes I’m guessing I’m no expert on that. But the
reason why I don’t talk about those things is because even
though you feel anxiety physically, an anxiety disorder
is not a physical problem. Is it possible that I don’t know
something in your leaky gut syndrome or something
that caused your initial panic attack to maybe, but now you’re afraid
of the attack?
Itself. This is why the
community is full of people who spent just gobs and gobs of
money on all kinds of supplements and herbs and
special diets and programs, who still are having a problem, they
may have incredibly well-balanced gut biomes. And I know
I keep going back to that, you know, they’re treating that air
quotes the second brain as best as you, as we know, to treat it,
feeding it the most, you know, whole organic foods and
supplementing properly, but still can’t get better. There’s
a reason for that.
There’s a reason for that. So that’s why I
don’t talk about nutrition or diet or supplements because, to
me, it’s a red herring and recovery. It’s a thing that
everybody should take good care of take, Please take good care
of your physical health, please. Like I wouldn’t, you know,
advise everybody to do that.
But chasing diet, supplements, herbs
in recovery is a red herring, it leads us down paths, and we don’t
need to go and it becomes frustrating. Because I’m
guessing that for every 100 people listening to my words,
Right now, there are at least thirty-five of you who have a closet or a
box, or a big plastic container full of at least 300 US dollars
worth of vitamins, supplements, herbs, special diets, magnesium
powder that you all were just hoping we’re going to be the
answer.
And I’m sorry that they weren’t. But that’s why I’m
talking about this because it’s somewhat irrelevant in recovery.
But please, please be healthy. Please take as good care of your
body as you can. Okay, so question number nine,
and then we’re going to do this one. And then one more, we’ll
wrap it up.
Why don’t I know I’m sorry. Question number nine is
why we need a recovery plan. So, if you read my book, The
Anxious Truth, which is my recovery guide, you’ll talk
about having a plan all the time. Like why do we need to
plan? So I know this is confusing for
a lot of people, especially since we’ll talk about this in a
question next week and episode 217. Like, but I don’t have
panic attacks. I don’t know what my exposures are. So, what would
my plan be? I understand that’s confusing, but why do I say that
we should have a recovery plan? Look, you cannot plan every
second of your recovery.
So some people hear the plan and they think
that they can literally plan every hour of every day
specifically to optimize the recovery. No, you can’t this is
you can’t become a robot. But the reason why I say we need a
plan is that if we do not have a plan to follow, that informs the
actions that we will take, we will too easily fall into only
acting based on how we feel. We’ll only challenge ourselves
on the good days when we’re feeling better. That’s bad that
we don’t learn anything. When we’re feeling better. We will
make our decisions based on our emotions, our symptoms, and our
thoughts, We make a plan so that we can put some objectivity, and
to that, I woke up this morning, and I’m anxious as hell.
But my
plan says that I go and do my exposures in the morning. So I
will go do that. So a plan injects some much-needed two
things, much-needed objectivity into the process? Because odds
are if you’re still kind of lost right now and don’t know what to
do. You’re making all of your decisions based on subjective
judgments. How do I feel? What does this mean? What do I think
about this? What might be wrong? Oh, my God, what could this be?
That’s all subjective. We need objectivity. And a plan gives us
objectivity. When we are in an anxious state, and we are
frantic, and beside ourselves, we are terrible decision-makers.
So a plan gets us out of the business of making decisions on
the fly. Right? So American football teams, and I’ve talked
about this all the time, create playbooks.
They know who they’re
playing on Sunday, they get ready and they know what the
first 15 plays are that they’re going to run that’s just
scripted, done. They have playbooks to tell us in this
situation, we run this play in this situation, we’re on this
plate. Yeah, there’s some creativity there, of course, but
they don’t wait to make it up on the fly in the heat of a game.
And this is the same reason why I talked about having a recovery
plan. It’s so to me, it’s very important because otherwise you
will be governed by your fear, your irrational fear
distortions. magnifications, how you feel your symptoms, that
stuff will just drag you around. And then you wind up in
that situation where it’s like, I’m doing my exposures. Oh,
well, when was the last time you did a driving exposure? Well, I
was I being out on Friday and today’s Wednesday, like, but
that’s not exposure that’s interrupted avoidance.
There’s a
difference and not to get into the details. But having a plan
helps us stay clear of that trap. Right. So that’s why I say
we need a recovery plan for objectivity and to get ourselves
out of the decision-making game minute by minute when we’re
suffering and when we’re not feeling good. Make the decisions
ahead of time and then execute those decisions, no matter how
you feel. A plan does that for us. So, question number 10, which
will be the last one for this week. This is always one of my
favorite ones. You guys have heard me say this before. This
question any tips for dot fill in your symptom? Fill
in your scary thing. Any tips for nausea, any tips for
dizziness any tips or depersonalization? Any Tips for emetophobia any tips
for You know, I can probably go for another 15 minutes a name
all the specific things, Do any tips for that breathing
or feeling? Any tips for that My nose getting tingly. Any tips
for feeling like, you know having a panic attack at night?
Like, no, no, I don’t have any tips for those things.
I never
have tips for those things. The reason why I don’t have tips for
those things is that they’re all the same fear.
Right? So, anybody who has ever gone down the road of trying to
address each individual fear, like today, I’m afraid of my
heart. This is a big one. Any tips for cardio phobia? How
do I overcome a fear in my heart? And at the very same
time, there are three people asking me how they overcome
heart fear.
There are four other people telling me that
depersonalization is the worst possible thing, and how do they
overcome that? And then there are three other people behind them
that are talking about that short of breath, air hunger
feeling, and that’s the worst for them. And they want to know
how to overcome that. But the answer is the same all the time.
In the Claire weeks world, and that’s really what launched this
whole thing for me. Dr. Weeks talked about accepting and
floating, letting time pass. It’s the answer for all of them.
Even though I know that the thing that you want special tips
for right now feels much scarier than the other things. And
because it scares you more, you think it’s worthy of a special
approach to try to specifically address that fear.
But
Especially if you’re new at this game, look around at the people
who are further down the road from you. And almost without
question, they will tell you that when I get over one fear
another one often takes its place. So this is why I did a
podcast episode about following the principles of recovery and
not just instructions. I’ll link that one in the show notes.
Anxious trip.com/ 216 for the show notes of this episode. I talked about that. Then learn
the principles and apply the principles of allowing accepting
floating, willful tolerance surrendering all of navigation.
Right, he did a video with Lauren Rosen not too long ago,
We talked about the thing, the tools that we use in recovery
are not tools of eradication, they’re tools of navigation. So
I know in my own personal journey, as soon as I learned to
navigate air hunger, I was able to use those navigation skills.
When I would have PVCs and skipped heartbeats, I was able
to use those navigation skills when I experienced the
realization or dissociative state.
So I just forklifted the
same navigation skills across multiple fears. And then it all
became so obvious. And anybody who’s down the road and closer
to recovery will tell you like Yeah, I thought they were all
special. And it turns out they weren’t. So that’s why the
answer to any tips for and then you insert your scary thing
there is always the answer is always the same. And I say it
again, and again. And again. I know I start to sound, you know,
dismissive or flippant. And if you’re in my Facebook group,
you’ve seen me post this at least once a month.
Special
Reminder, no symptom is special. None. No symptoms are special. I
know you think that your symptom is but it is not. It is not.
Because, like I said if your particular thing is that you’re
afraid of your heart and you want to throw down like no, this
is the scariest one. I’ll bring somebody in the room here that’s
terrified of their own breath, and they will fight you like
They will throw hands at you because they will insist that
Theirs is worse.
And the people who have air hunger will insist
that theirs is worse and the people that are DPD our people,
They will insist that there’s more than there’ll be a big
Brawl because everybody is 100% convinced no but this one is
this special? How could you not have a tip for this? I can’t tell you the number of
times that I’ve had somebody say I would pay to have a rapid
heartbeat.
Like I’m so afraid of my breathing that I would pay to
be afraid of my heart. I have had people say that. I wish I
was dizzy. I wish I was dizzy. I’m so afraid of my heart. I
wish I was dizzy. That must be a walk in the park. That’s easy.
See what happens. So that’s why the answer to any tips is
it’s all the same tip you’re going to have to work through
navigating through the thing that you are afraid of. To learn
that I don’t have to be afraid of it it’s super disturbing and
uncomfortable and all of those things but not worthy of an
emergency response. And when you learn it for one fear you
forklift those skills to other fears and it becomes portable
across multiple fears. And then when I say all your fears are
one fear becomes painfully apparent, like holy cow, he was
right.
So if I can get through the air hunger I can get through
the dizzy, I can get through the tingly toes. I can get through
this and get like all of the things I don’t Okay, they’re
nothing new. It’s just like Oh, thanks anxiety gets through
another one than me? No problem. I know what to do with this
without needing specific instructions for oh, I need
special breathing instructions. Now I need special pdf
instructions. Now I need special nausea instructions. You don’t
need principles, learn the principles, apply them across
multiple symptoms and fears and you’re good to go. So no, I
don’t have any tips for and that is part one of our frequently
asked questions. We did 10 questions today and we will do 10
More questions next week and Pod gets episode 217.
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– [Narrator] Hey (indistinct), here are six ways to
overcome social anxiety. Number one, create awareness. Becoming more mindful, and aware of where your
thoughts are coming from. You can start to notice the triggers that cause your social anxiety to worsen and challenge and disarm
these intrusive thoughts. Number two, engage in
relaxation techniques. You can practice some relaxing techniques since they can be incredibly helpful. Number three, try yoga. Practicing different types of yoga poses can help you reduce your anxiety by engaging your mind and
shifting your focus away from the overwhelming and
negative thoughts in your head. Number four, set goals. Having goals will help you
figure out where you want to go and guide you on how to get there.
Number five, make something. Art therapy can be a way
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– Hey, Psych2Go viewers,
Welcome back to our channel. Do you get bouts of
anxiety from time to time? This can be normal before a
first date or a job interview since these emotions often
subside after a while. But if your anxiety is persistent,
This can be concerning. Continuing to feel very
anxious, even after a date, job interview or speech can
indicate something else, an anxiety disorder. Does this sound familiar? If anxiety is something
that you deal with, you’re not alone. Approximately 19% of
Americans have experienced an anxiety disorder, and about 31% of Americans will experience an anxiety disorder in their lifetime. Many of us usually think of sweaty palms and heart palpitations
as symptoms of anxiety, but anxiety can manifest
itself in other ways too. Most of the other signs go unnoticed. So, what are they? Here are six signs of anxiety
that often go unnoticed. Number one, jaw pain. Have you ever noticed
jaw pain from anxiety? Anxiety is usually not the first thing you may think of when you
experience jaw pain or toothaches. You may usually blame a cavity
or another dental problem, but jaw pain and toothaches
can also be caused by anxiety.
More specifically bruxism. This is when an individual
unconsciously and excessively grinds or clenches their teeth. Bruxism is a by-product of stress. When we’re stressed our
whole body clenches up in preparation to fight or flight, hence teeth grinding and jaw pain. Studies support this theory, stating that there is a high
index of anxiety among bruxers, as opposed to non-bruxers. But anxiety is not the only
mental health condition that causes this. People with depression and neuroticism can also experience toothaches
as a result of bruxism. The condition is usually
self-diagnosed and can be treated. Most teeth-grinding
activity happens overnight. So, you may not notice that early on. Morning tooth pain is
usually the first clue. If you wake up with jaw pain frequently, consider finding what
is causing you stress. It may take some time but always seek help from a licensed professional if necessary. Number two is scattered thinking. Another sign of anxiety,
scattered thinking.
Anxiety floods, your thoughts
with negativity and doubts. Often these thoughts are disruptive, and can easily make you
forget your surroundings. You may come off as inattentive. While intrusive thoughts
can steal your attention, there’s also another reason why
you may feel scatterbrained. Anxiety can have neurological effects as well as physical ones. It affects your limbic system, specifically the prefrontal cortex. This part of the brain is known
for executive functioning, but it’s also responsible
for social behavior. When you’re anxious, your prefrontal cortex and other structures of your
limbic systems are impaired.
As a result, you may find
that you lose the thread of a conversation or have
trouble concentrating on a task. If this is something to deal with often, try to ground yourself in the present. There are many wonderful
grounding techniques. The most popular one is box breathing. Wanna try? Okay. Breathe in for four seconds. One, two, three, four. Now hold for four. One, two, three, four. Now exhale for four. One, two, three, four. And then hold again for four. One, two, three, four. Ah! Better? I sped it up a little bit, but try to take your
time with it next time. Number three, cold feet. I’m sure you’ve heard the
term getting cold feet. There’s a reason this popular
idiom describes being nervous. When you’re anxious, perhaps similar to right
Before you get married, your body jumps into a fight or flight. This reaction triggers a
cascade of neurological and hormonal shifts. One of them is that it tells your brain to release adrenaline.
Adrenaline helps you
redirect your blood flow so that most of it is sent
to your vital organs, like your heart and lungs. Consequently, your extremities
start to feel cold. Number four is irritability. Do you easily become irritated? Irritability is a common sign of anxiety. However, it’s a symptom we
often overlook or ignore. It’s a sign that you’re
overwhelmed with stress. Anxiety is associated
with hypersensitivity, meaning that you’ll be much more sensitive to your surroundings, which may cause you to feel
more irritated than usual. Number five is impulsive buying. Another sign of anxiety is impulsivity. In this case, impulse buying. However, impulsivity can manifest itself in many ways, such
as engaging in risky behavior.
Impulsivity because of anxiety can be due to numerous factors. The main one is that your
orbital frontal cortex, another branch of your
limbic system, is affected. Studies found that anxiety
increases the blood flow to that region, which
consequently, increases activity. An increase in activity can lead to either impulse control issues,
hoarding, or impulse spending. Additionally, anxiety affects
your prefrontal cortex and makes it harder for you to make wise and thoughtful decisions. Impulse buying, as well as hoarding, are also forms of self-soothing. They provide a false sense
of comfort and security. If you do find yourself caving in and taking financial risks, please consider reaching
out to a therapist for help. And number six, crying easily. When was the last time you cried? One last sign that goes
unnoticed is crying easily. Inexplicably bouts of crying can mean you’re overwhelmed by the
situation you find yourself in. Not only can it be because
of a sensitivity to stress, but it can also be due to
your fight or flight response.
The correct terminology is
fight, flight, or freeze. Feeling stuck or freezing
amidst a perceived threat can progress these overwhelming
feelings of stress. When you find yourself crying, attempt to relax by taking a deep breath. Then allow yourself to cry. Crying can release all of those feelings you may be holding onto. It may be great to find
additional ways to self-soothe when you’re feeling anxious as well. So have you experienced
any of these signs? I have. What are some self-soothing
behaviors that help you? I enjoy walking. Feel free to let us know
in the comments below. Anxiety is quite common
and can be manageable. If you ever need help or guidance reaching out to a therapist
or mental health professional can be a good idea. Feel free to like and share
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foreign [Music] a lot from our government let me explain now again I don’t care what color or what side of the aisle you’re on but I want you to notice something you notice that there’s one part of our active government that no matter what they stick together right and then there’s another part I’m trying to be very ambiguous there’s another part that’s constantly fragmented no one can agree no one can come together the Bible says A House Divided cannot stand and that’s a paraphrase of something that Jesus said what I want to say to you is that we as Christians must it’s time for us to put aside I’m not talking about the radical difference perhaps in some that fit outside the pale of we’ll call it standardized Christianity but it’s time for Christians to band together and put aside some of the pettiness and what I call absolute Supreme stupidity that keeps us divided we need to be a United people because I’m telling you something the challenges we face as Christians are no joke and let me give you a clue on this I’m probably not going to tell this story very accurately but you can do the research yourself if you remember I told you about a church in San Jose that during covid did not shut down gee that sounds familiar but unlike other churches that decided to stay open this particular church was targeted and got many fines now there’s a lot of details I’m not going to get into a lot of the weeds here but they received a lot of fines and they were trying to fight the fines and now it’s come to light that the state of California was basically spying through the cell phones of people I don’t know if any of you know this raise your hand if you know a little bit of this story oh there’s enough of you that know it thank God that tells you and this is not conspiracy stuff this is not tin foil stuff this has happened in the state of California state that seemingly doesn’t sorry doesn’t give Adorn about people defecating in the street but God forbid you should want to stand your ground inside a house of worship so let me just say this to you expect more I don’t mean expect more from your government I mean expect more of that there’s now talk and I want you to hear it from me if you don’t watch the news there is talk that mask mandates will be back by mid to late September and there’s even talk of us having more lockdowns um you know this is going to drive a lot of people crazy but you know what I’m hoping it does I’m hoping that it brings enough people to say enough of I’m sorry we don’t we used to not tolerate our children being bullied well I don’t want to be bullied by the government if if you want to wear a mask over every orifice knock yourself out but here’s what’s disturbing and I’m saying listen you know how I am I say it like it is I don’t play at church I don’t play it caring about you and the things that matter to me but imagine how insane this is I want you to give thought to this although this has nothing to do with church service it will affect this service eventually six uh weeks or possibly more from this time that I’m talking to you if they start doing these mandates again now what’s disturbing is that there are official releases from the CDC and other Medical governance bodies that have said masks do not work and to give you a perfect case in point medical professionals who know what to do with a mask even they can mess up but you know what we do when we put on a mask first of all most of us don’t even wear it right yeah exactly we touch our face We Touch everything we touch ourselves after we’ve put the mask on to protect ourselves then we’re busy touching everything and our face it doesn’t work and you can listen you can wear a mask if it makes you feel better I’m not ridiculing you but I’m saying I want you as Christians but now as Americans to think about what’s going on because if an announcement is made from the CDC and from other people that math don’t work by the way even the grand Dr Fauci Grand wizard Fauci he said no we’re double in triple Mast and then was actually recorded it’s recorded of him saying it doesn’t work so why would you ask your citizens to mask up again now listen to me I understand people who have underlying health conditions I understand if you’ve got issues or you feel safer or better that’s like I said I’m not ridiculing you but scientifically speaking and I don’t know listen if you’re listening to the science the same science that says that Dylan Mulvaney is a woman that’s the same science that tells you that to wear a mask then wear a mask but it’s time for us to stop the nonsense Stop The Bullying I have rights as a citizen you have rights as citizens of this country we are not yet communist Marxists we may have been overtaken and infiltrated but we are as a populist I do not think we are there most of us relish our freedom including the right to not wear a mask including the right to not get a job including the right to stand your ground if it is religion whatever that religion is and I’m not just speaking for Christians I’m really getting annoyed at this we’ll call it it’s deliberate and calculated attacks mostly aimed at Christians I heard nothing through the whole pandemic about mosques or synagogues just Christian churches about masks you could say well maybe they closed down you think do your homework and you’ll find out they didn’t but the media never went there why because if you should talk about a mosque you will be Islamophobic and if you talk about a synagogue you will be antisemitic by their definition but we’re just fair game and punching bags that’s what I’m telling you it is really time I’m not asking you to do anything crazy but it’s time for us to put on our brains we are thinking people band together this is not a time to play I don’t know I’m not sure this is a time to say no and I have rights and until those rights are taken away that the Bill of Rights and the Constitution is parsed ripped up or burned I will not stop talking about this because there are too many people who are sheep who are just carrying in the corner for a government edict to come out is oh I’ll do it I’ll do it uh this is the problem by not teaching people history always repeats itself unless we are studying and reminding ourselves do you really think when you listen to if you are reading any of these things I’m talking about do you really think the design of a smart 15-minute city is to give you more freedom and to help the climate or is it to control the populace don’t answer it’s rhetorical because most of you know the answer so all I’m saying to you is you know there are other people who might be talking about all kinds of stuff I’m only interested in one thing right now and that is Christian Unity a house United can withstand any type of attack and trust me it is coming it’s coming for the church first and foremost and I have no idea of what will happen in six months but I can tell you this when you have the president just announced that there is a push they just asked to secure more funds for a new vaccine and out of the president’s mouth whether that’s him speaking or somebody else every American will get one period well brother come knocking on my door come knocking I wonder I wonder if we were back in the foundational years of this country I just wonder how many people would be hunkered down saying oh we just can’t offend the English no the Redcoats we just can’t do that there was enough people that had enough of Taxation and although there is a story within a story the bigger picture is the people now have to speak and please do not say we’re going to go vote because that may or may not actually be your vote being counted sorry to tell you that but what I can tell you is this body of people in the sound of my voice and anyone who identifies as a follower of Christ please put aside your differences and your pettiness I’m not talking about syncretism where we adopt somebody else’s ideologies or theologies but those who are focused on Christ that is the center and the circumference of why we’re here start thinking about this because it will matter in the future it will matter that we band together and I’m not just saying us here I’m talking to other pastors their congregations some of you pastors can’t do what I can do you’ve got a deacon board and you’ve got all kinds of people that are the master puppets telling puppeteers telling you what you can or cannot say I’m not telling you to go against your board or the governance of whatever institution you are involved in but I am saying if we cannot as a body take a page from history and all I have to do is think of a man named Dietrich Bonhoeffer pastor someone who believed that their work was the most important which he did and paid the ultimate price for it but wouldn’t be quiet and I I’m really taking my pages of action from certain things that he did and the reason being is this is not the time for cowardice this is not the time to run away this is not the time to hunker down and go along with the plan because going along with the plan will get us right back where we were basically at the beginning of covet 19’s surgeons I’m not going there I don’t know how many of you want to go back there and how many of you understand that listen to me I know that there are a lot of people out there shouldn’t do this but I’m going to I know that there are a lot of people out there and there’s a lot of people in this congregation that when it was said you must get vaccinated you know how do you want to kill your citizens pick away do you want them to die of stress because they’re going to lose their job if they don’t buckle into what should never be never be anything but a personal choice that you and I make as to our medication if the president said you must take statin drugs or you’re a traitor I’d say pick a finger great so why would you mandate something like in other words if this is a free country and maybe this is the last of our freedom it’s time for people to understand that when we band together as a group we’re powerful we’re strong and when we band together we can be what actually I believe Christ intended us to be which is a Christian Army not the type that goes out on the battlefield with machine guns or machetes depending on where you live but the Christian Army that lives by faith stands on the solid rock is not uh persuaded to buckle down and just go with the flow I’m sorry that is that we’ll never be Christianity and if you think that is you’re sorely mistaken so actually what I’m doing here is I’m asking you to think about this I’m not asking you to do anything else except think and pray that we can all come together and stand strong as a body because as these things begin to come our way listen I’m not afraid I’ve taken the mindset that you know the Bible says Don’t Fear what they can do to the body fear what they can do the soul I will not back down from this will not back away and I’ve seen too many of real pastors peppered across the around the world who are paying the ultimate price for not only giving instruction to their congregation but pushing back and saying no we won’t either and if that’s what it takes then that’s what it takes for at least on my part I live by this you can say this is not Christian talking you can have your opinion I will live free and I will die fighting for my freedom I will not have it taken from me for my last breath same things I’ve said to you my life is here open this book talking about the word of God until God takes my breath away but as for everything else in my life I have learned a lesson and that is if you decide to back away and run away there may not be another person to stand in your place there may not be another person to say no I won’t and why are we so afraid of this anyway why are we I’m asking you it’s really rhetorical why are we afraid until right now we are still a free country why are we afraid of a government that has become um basically Marx existent Communists why are we afraid of this when we still have rights and these rights are still protected we say well have you seen what’s going on yeah I have and I’ve seen it not just here but globally we have brothers and sisters in Canada that are their lives have become such a mess because of the government and by the way for those that send me your messages trust me I’m getting them and I’m praying for you and I’m praying for your country as well because whatever happens is just a stone’s throw across the border manages to trickle over here and the effects are felt trust me worldwide so for the pastors who listen to me now is the time to stand in faith now is the time to instruct people to be courageous that’s 90 of Faith courage and the rest of it God will take care of and let me just say this as a last and final word here you will never know what your faith in these matters will mean in eternity and you say but this is time versus eternity yes but whatever we do here as Christians matters so if you want to stand back in the distance and do nothing and say nothing that’s your prerogative I will not be quiet over this and my job first and foremost is to give you the ammunition out of the word and if there’s anything else that’s to encourage to stay the course stay strong in the faith and recognize we are still a people that have been blessed with Liberty until it is revoked and completely taken away remember you as citizens have rights and do not be shy to learn what they are in their entirety you know some people say oh I don’t want to sit and read a law book and some people are curious engage now is the time that’s all I have to say about that [Music] coming to this house magnify the low lift up holy hands coming to this house
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