in today’s video, I’m going to share with
you how you can relieve stress and anxiety from your life and actually
start to live in a state of what I call well-being peace and ease my name is
Ilan Feldman I’m a speaker mentor and coach and I run a company called Satori
Prime and one of the biggest things that we work on with clients is how to get
their system out of a state of anxiety and worry because I don’t know about you
but I have not yet met a human being that when they’re in that state of worry
when they’re in a state of frustration and anger they go out and
produce excellent results if you look at your life you’ll probably notice that
the results the best results that you’ve produced have always come when you’re in
a state of well-being when you feel happy when you feel peace what do you
feel fulfilled so the real question is how do we do that
and one of the biggest components of having stress or overwhelmed or anxiety in
the system is something called resistance see the human mind has a
The funny thing is that it does it is constantly looking to protect us now it
doesn’t look to protect us from the immediate actions or immediate
circumstances that are happening you’ll probably notice that there are some
circumstance in your life right now that what your mind has done is created every
what if every shoulda every cut up and it’s already looking to plan ninety
seven steps ahead of where you are right now whether that’s getting in
or out of a relationship whether that’s taking some sort of step in your
business or maybe it’s even something with your spouse or kids you’ll notice
that the mind likes to create things for us to worry about
now how do we backtrack that because that will always lead to stress and anxiety
and worry the make-believe stories that the mind makes will always feel you
leaving frustrated angry overwhelmed so the first thing to understand is
inch-by-inch is a cinch yard by yard it’s hard meaning what if you actually
looked at just the one next action step that you can take because look at the
reality of life have you ever created a game plan so far out that everything’s
happened the way that you designed it Mike Tyson used to say everyone’s got a
game plan then they get punched in the face
the truth is that life happens to all of us no one’s got it figured out no one
has the answers to everything because life is constantly unfolding and it’s
sending us things that we don’t necessarily like I took a course one
time and someone said you know choose between vanilla and chocolate but life
doesn’t show up choose between vanilla and chocolate sometimes life just says
choose vanilla and you don’t like vanilla or sometimes even worse it says
choose cancer or choose being fired or choose losing a loved one now do you
have a choice and how these things unfold no you do however have a
choice in how you respond to these things and that’s worth going to work on
because that is what creates suffering that is what creates pain that is what
creates anxiety and stress and those things in your body are killers so you
want to go out and live this amazing life but if in your system there’s a
a constant state of anxiety and stress and being overwhelmed because you’re worried about
things that probably will never even occur because of your resistance to what is the
reason that you struggle if you could just bring yourself to a state of
accepting and realizing this is exactly my perfect life experience this
is exactly what I meant to experience because there’s some valuable
a monumentally valuable lesson in this for me look back at your life and you’ll
probably realize that your biggest hardships up until this day are the things
that were hardest for you to go through have been
the biggest blessings are in disguise now what if you can bring that awareness to
your current situation right now what if you could look at that and realize this
too is a gift this too will make me stronger and find the ability to think
and accept that exactly what is occurring in your life gets you back
into that state of well-being and then from there you’ll notice how much easier
and more effortless your life can be so let me know in the comment box if this
resonates with you what you took from this and if you did make sure you like
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