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7 Signs You Have Abandonment Issues

Hey Psych2go family, welcome back to another video. Do you have an overwhelming fear of losing your loved ones? Do you distrust other people or have anxiety about being abandoned? Abandonment issues typically arise in childhood but can develop later on in life as well. The fear of abandonment is a serious type of anxiety that often stems from a traumatic experience. Some aren’t even aware of their expressed emotional trauma. But it can manifest into unhealthy behaviors over time. So, here are 7 Signs You may Have Abandonment Issues. One: you’re a people pleaser. Do you want to impress everyone you meet? Whether it’s your friends, acquaintances, or family members, you try to meet their expectations to get on their good side. You’re the one who tries harder in your relationship, and you’re willing to put everyone else’s needs ahead of yours, as long as it gets them to stay. If you have a strong need to please people and gain their approval, you may still have some unresolved abandonment issues.Two: you struggle with insecurity. Do you sometimes think that someday, the people closest to you will get sick of you and leave? People who are afraid of being abandoned often struggle with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy because someone you love has walked out on you in the past. You’ve internalized the emotional trauma. You may have wrongly believed that it was YOUR fault that they left. This can result in low self-esteem and a need for constant rereassuranceThree: you find it hard to trust people Do you find it hard to trust others to keep their promises or to be there for you? Do you want to be in control of your relationships and know everything that’s going on with your loved ones? Because you’ve been hurt in the past, you have a strong fear of being left alone.In certain cases, it can lead to feelings of unreasonable jealousy, suspicion, and possessiveness over your friends and romantic partners. Four: you’re afraid to be vulnerable Do you feel uncomfortable during moments of emotional intimacy and honesty? Are you scared of getting close to someone or needing them too much? Your deep-seated fear of abandonment may manifest into a fear of intimacy and emotional vulnerability. You may unconsciously sabotage your relationships by pushing people away just as you start to care for them. You may struggle with commitment, and act detached and indifferent when you do care.Five: you look for reasons to leave. Do you always look for reasons to leave in fear of getting too attached to someone? You hold your loved ones to unrealistically high standards and you only focus on their flaws. You don’t give them any room for mistakes. You do this knowing that they’re bound to disappoint you. And when they fail to meet your expectations, you use it as an excuse to give up and leave. Six: you move on too quickly Do you have difficulty forming meaningful relationships that last because of a deep-seated fear of abandonment? When you cycle through relationships one after another and move on too quickly, you’re not allowing yourself the time and space to deal with the emotional fallout.Instead, you dive into something new and exciting to distract yourself. You never want to be alone, because it would force you to confront the personal issues you’ve been repressing for so long. And number 7… you cling to unhealthy relationships Do you find yourself gravitating towards all the wrong people? Have you stayed with someone knowing they’re bad for you? The trauma of being abandoned, especially at a young age, can stay with you for a long time. And since we’re all hard-wired to recreate our early childhood experiences for comfort and familiarity, your childhood taught you the wrong things about love. It’s not uncommon for you to be drawn to people who treat you poorly. Do you relate to any of the signs mentioned here? I know I did… Is a fear of abandonment harming your relationships and keeping you from being happy? Let us know in the comments below. If you found this video helpful, be sure to like and share this video with those who might benefit from it! Don’t forget to subscribe to Psych2go for more videos! Thanks for watching, and we’ll see you in the next one!
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Do you have an overwhelming fear of losing your loved ones? Do struggle with trust issues or have anxiety about being abandoned? Abandonment issues typically arise in childhood but can develop later on in life as well. The fear of abandonment is a serious type of anxiety that often stems from a traumatic experience. Some aren’t even aware of their repressed emotional trauma, but it can manifest into unhealthy behaviors over time. Here are 7 signs that you may have abandonment issues. If you want to learn more about how your childhood trauma may cause you to have abandonment issues, be sure to check out our video “7 Ways Childhood Trauma Follow You Into Adulthood”:    • 7 Ways Childhood Trauma Follow You In…   #abandonment #issues #psych2go ᵛᶦᵈᵗᵒᵒⁿ™ ².¹ ᴏɴᴇ ᴛɪᴍᴇ ᴏꜰꜰᴇʀ – ᴛʜᴇ 2ᴅ ᴀᴍɪɴᴀᴛɪᴏɴ ᴠɪᴅᴇᴏ ᴍᴀᴋᴇʀ After The Massive Success Of VidToon™ 1.0 And More Than 10ᴋ Happy Customers…WE ARE BACK ON Popular Demand! Redefine Profitability With The World’s Easiest & Most Popular Video Animation Software It’s ʙɪɢɢᴇʀ. ʙᴇᴛᴛᴇʀ. ᴀɴᴅ ꜰᴀꜱᴛᴇʀ.

7 Signs You Have Abandonment Issues

 Hey Psych2go family, welcome back to another video. Do you have an overwhelming fear of losing your loved ones? Do you distrust other people or have anxiety about being abandoned? Abandonment issues typically arise in childhood but can develop later on in life as well. The fear of abandonment is a serious type of anxiety that often stems from a traumatic experience. Some aren’t even aware of their repressed emotional trauma. But it can manifest into unhealthy behaviors over time. So, here are 7 Signs You may Have Abandonment Issues. One: you’re a people pleaser. Do you want to impress everyone you meet? Whether it’s your friends, acquaintances, or family members, you try to meet their expectations to get on their good side. You’re the one who tries harder in your relationship, and you’re willing to put everyone else’s needs ahead of yours, as long as it gets them to stay. If you have a strong need to please people and gain their approval, you may still have some unresolved abandonment issues. Two: you struggle with insecurity. Do you sometimes think that someday, the people closest to you will get sick of you and leave? People who are afraid of being abandoned often struggle with feelings of insecurity and inadequacy because someone you love has walked out on you in the past. You’ve internalized the emotional trauma. You may have wrongly believed that it was YOUR fault that they left. This can result in low self-esteem and a need for constant reassurance. Three: you find it hard to trust people Do you find it hard to trust others to keep their promises or to be there for you? Do you want to be in control of your relationships and know everything that’s going on with your loved ones? Because you’ve been hurt in the past, you have a strong fear of being left alone. In certain cases, it can lead to feelings of unreasonable jealousy, suspicion, and possessiveness over your friends and romantic partners. Four: you’re afraid to be vulnerable Do you feel uncomfortable during moments of emotional intimacy and honesty? Are you scared of getting close to someone or needing them too much? Your deep-seated fear of abandonment may manifest into a fear of intimacy and emotional vulnerability. You may unconsciously sabotage your relationships by pushing people away just as you start to care for them. You may struggle with commitment, and act detached and indifferent when you do care.  Five: you look for reasons to leave. Do you always look for reasons to leave in fear of getting too attached to someone? You hold your loved ones to unrealistically high standards and you only focus on their flaws. You don’t give them any room for mistakes. You do this knowing that they’re bound to disappoint you. And when they fail to meet your expectations, you use it as an excuse to give up and leave. Six: you move on too quickly Do you have difficulty forming meaningful relationships that last because of a deep-seated fear of abandonment? When you cycle through relationships one after another and move on too quickly, you’re not allowing yourself the time and space to deal with the emotional fallout. Instead, you dive into something new and exciting to distract yourself. You never want to be alone, because it would force you to confront the personal issues you’ve been repressing for so long. And number 7… you cling to unhealthy relationships Do you find yourself gravitating towards all the wrong people? Have you stayed with someone knowing they’re bad for you? The trauma of being abandoned, especially at a young age, can stay with you for a long time. And since we’re all hard-wired to recreate our early childhood experiences for comfort and familiarity, your childhood taught you the wrong things about love. It’s not uncommon for you to be drawn to people who treat you poorly. Do you relate to any of the signs mentioned here? I know I did… Is a fear of abandonment harming your relationships and keeping you from being happy? Let us know in the comments below. If you found this video helpful, be sure to like and share this video with those who might benefit from it! Don’t forget to subscribe to Psych2go for more videos! 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What One Hiker Found In The Mountains of Tennessee Is Beyond Incredible.

While hiking in Tennessee’s Great Smoky Mountains National Park, hiker Jordan Liles discovered something you probably wouldn’t expect to find in the middle of a nature preserve: an entire town, completely abandoned, and being reclaimed by nature. 

The Wonderland Hotel Annex

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A cottage, heavily damaged.

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The town is, or was, named Elkmont, and is now referred to as being part of the Elkmont Historic District. It’s located on the still-active Elkmont Campground, in the park. Since it was built in the early 20th century, the site has been home to a hotel and resort community, and, before that, to a pioneer community and logging town. 

The hotel in the early 1900s.

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The fountain’s foundation can still be found on the property.

The dining room of the hotel in about 1990, two years before closing.

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At this time, there were only six property holders left at Wonderland.

To get there, Liles went about a mile up an old gravel road inside the park and entered the abandoned community. It consists of houses and a large hotel, called the Wonderland Hotel and built in 1912. The hotel, and the surrounding houses, became known as the “Wonderland Club,” and were used as exclusive vacation properties in the 1920s and 30s. When the land became a federal park in the 30s, the owners of the cottages were given lifetime leases, so they could keep enjoying their vacation homes. However, the park officials eventually got tired of dealing with the properties, and the lifetime leases became 20-year leases in 1952. By 1992, the park refused to renew the leases, and the hotel and cottages were slated for removal. However, some people considered the buildings historical, and a debate over their fate would go on for the next fifteen years. 

For now, it looks like the Wonderland Club has been spared, though the buildings are falling quickly into disrepair. Restoration efforts would more than likely go into the neighboring Appalachian Club, whose buildings are older as well as more historically significant to the area. 

The Wonderland Annex, which is the only part of the hotel that remains standing.

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This sign provides hikers with information about the Wonderland Club.

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Luckily for us, though, Liles had his camera with him when he rediscovered the Wonderland Club, so even if the buildings deteriorate or are removed, we’ll always have a record of them. Liles compiled his footage into a 22-minute documentary called ‘Tennessee Wonderland,” in which he explores the buildings, including some of the cottages and the Wonderland Annex, which is the standing structure of the hotel. The main hotel collapsed in 2005 after being damaged by a fire a decade earlier, and its remains have been dismantled. 

Be sure to watch it until the end, where you can see images of the Wonderland Club throughout the years, including then-and-now comparison photos. 

Read more: http://viralnova.com/tennessee-wonderland/

Step Inside Any Of These 25 Places… If You Have The Guts. They’re Fascinating Nightmares.

Each day we are distracted by our own lives, too busy to notice what is going on around us. However, most people aren’t disturbed by the chaos. Instead, we only feel fear when there is utter, terrible silence. Stillness is unnerving, not chaos. That’s probably why abandoned buildings, former hotspots of humanity, are so intriguing. It’s addictive to think about the lives that passed through these doors, only to eventually move on and forget.

1.) Reflections at an abandoned institution.

2.) A bus being silently overcome by Mother Nature.

3.) This quiet old mill, nestled in the Bavarian Forest in Germany.

4.) Sand dunes that have overtaken houses in Southern Namibia, Africa.

5.) A cold and desolate mine in Wales.

6.) Santa Maria della Pietà, Abruzzo Italy.

7.) A chilling ghost town in Megargel, Texas.

8.) A fairy door, tucked away in Calcata, Italy.

9.) The stern and haunting School for Girls in New York.

10.) The abandoned Chamber of Commerce in Belgium.

11.) The beautiful and isolated Bokor Mountain church in Cambodia.

12.) This abandoned steel mill control room from Detroit, Michigan.

13.) The majestic Kilchurn castle in Loch Awe, Scotland.

14.) An abandoned Chevrolet truck, abandoned in the middle of a forest.

15.) St. Bonaventure Church in Philadelphia.

16.) This swiftly abandoned beach volleyball arena from the 2004 Olympic Games in Athens, Greece.

17.) A beautiful stained glass window in Belgium, made more beautiful when humans left.

18.) An abandoned power plant’s control room.

19.) The eerie Buzludzha monument in Bulgaria, at the Balkan Mountains.

20.) Hotel Del Salto in San Antonio del Tequendama, Colombia.

21.) The Dunlewy Church ruins, overlooking the Poisoned Glen in Ireland.

22.) This bright, but strange, abandoned yellow house in Nova Scotia.

23.) A rusting schoolhouse, sitting abandoned in the countryside.

24.) The overgrown Nupstadur Farm in Iceland.

25.) An old Graphotype machine found in an abandoned hospital in California.

Life will pass all of us by in just a blink, but the legacies we build on this earth will stay behind us as a monument to our lives. That’s what each of these images are, a testament to what life used to be like for others. It’s something we can only dream about. Source: Reddit Share these beautiful, but strange, pictures with others.

Read more: http://viralnova.com/abandoned-places/

We Post A Lot Of Abandoned Places. But What’s Inside This House Might Be The Best One Yet.

While on a Valentine’s Day road trip, this Reddit user stumbled across a hidden treasure of sorts. Far back from the highway stood a small abandoned house. The only thing nearby were fields, so the little cabin looked lonely… but beautiful. So they decided to wander inside (and we’re so glad they did).

The house was extremely isolated and looked as if no one had been inside for years.

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Inside of the house, there were lots of books focused on language (dictionaries, grammar & phonetics).

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A bucket with beans spilling out.

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Vines were slowly taking over the entire house, creeping in from the windows and winding themselves down the drapes.

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One nearly made it’s way over to an old lace shawl or dress.

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A tiny straw tiger was found in the corner, a beautiful remnant of childhood.

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The creepy doll’s head with no eyes? Not so much.

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A long boot…

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Measurement guides and recipes lined the walls.

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This, at one time, used to be a quaint farm house with a pet.

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There were lots of these trophies inside, too. Someone had a penchant for darts.

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The simple, but beautiful, view from the kitchen window.

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The drapes were so tattered, but even they were oddly beautiful.

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There was only one spot of graffiti in the house, thankfully it didn’t take away from the eerie beauty too much.

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Vines creeped in from all angles.

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And a final message, who knows when this was left.

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There are many different kinds of beauty in the world, and a decaying house full of memories and remnants of times past? Some may say that it’s very beautiful. Source: Reddit Share this unique place with others, whether you like it yourself or not. It is interesting, after all.

Read more: http://viralnova.com/beautiful-abandoned-house/

What This Youngster Within An Abandoned Residence Is From Your Own Worst Nightmare. Trust me.

For five years, the Dayton, Ohio residence of Edward Brunton choose go unattended. Dirt, earth, and citation documents covered just what little relating to little blue residence that hadn’t become one utilising the overgrown yard. It absolutely was abandoned, but the moment an adventurous twelve-year-old determined to explore the decrepit domicile, he quickly discovered that who has beenn’t the simple fact. You won’t believe what sort of son or daughter respected.

After making their own suggests into demonstrably vacant residence, the man had been pleased with a pungent fragrance. It was via a closet. Not simply one to shy definately not any such thing, he started the entry and saw the single thing as a result surely aggravating so that it’ll positively adhere to him in their life: a corpse dangling from a belt.

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He alerted their mommy about their particular development and after she verified that woman son or daughter ended up being certainly informing the facts, she labeled as the authorities. Authorities determined that body ended up being when compared to home owner.

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For 50 percent of decade, Brunton’s suicide had opted for undetected, but given that the bureau safeguarded it from light, heat, and dampness, your body had scarcely decomposed in the end. Like stumbling upon a skeleton wouldn’t may actually have now been distressful sufficient, the indegent kid had find a mummified body.

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Precisely what a terrifying and tragic image. If at all possible, the man and Brunton’s household has to be capable continue from harrowing development to see convenience. Might share this post using the option another.

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When You See Where This Abandoned Island Is Located, You’ll Question Everything.

New York City is place with a lot of well kept secret places. Probably the best (or at least most interesting) of these places is North Brother Island. The island is located in the East River between Queens and the Bronx. Today, it’s completely abandoned, and nature is slowly reclaiming it.

Here is North Brother Island. The island is technically located in the Bronx, but you can see the very edge of Queens there in the bottom corner.

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The entire island is about 20 square acres in total.

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The island was uninhabited until 1885, when Riverside Hospital moved there from Roosevelt Island.

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The mission of the hospital on North Brother Island was to isolate and treat victims of small pox and other quarantinable diseases like typhoid.

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Following the end of World War II, the island became home to returning veterans and their families in the midst of the post-war housing boom.

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In the 1950s, the facility on North Brother Island was converted to treat adolescent drug addicts.

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Treating heroin addicts was the specialty of the facility.

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Upon arrival, they were usually confined to a locked room in the facility (most against their will) until their addiction was broken.

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By the time the 1960s rolled around, the drug treatment facility closed down.

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It’s suspected that widespread staff corruption was the cause of the shutdown.

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From then on, the hospital remained abandoned, and the island uninhabited.

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During the 1970s, attempts were made to sell the island to private investors, but to no avail.

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It’s astonishing that no company wanted to develop the island.

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Before completely abandoning the island, state officials toyed with the idea of building a prison on the island in the 1980s. The idea did not come to fruition.

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Finally, the island was purchased by the City of New York.

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Now it’s designated as a bird sanctuary.

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Inside some of the crumbling buildings are pieces of patient art from before the hospital closed down.

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It’s crazy to think this was once a bustling, modern medical center.

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There are even old food items on some of the shelves.

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Someone shot up this door pretty good. Scary to think what might be on the other side.

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Up close.

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Nature is slowly but surely reclaiming what it lost.

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What remains of an old gate.

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Nature is relentless when left unchecked.

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In a few years time, there might not be any standing buildings left on the island.

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This is the view of Manhattan from the tallest building on the island.

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Via: Sliptalk 

This is amazing. How can such a creepy treasure sit under the noses of the millions of people living in New York City without anyone knowing about it? Very cool. I just wish they gave tours of the island.

Read more: http://viralnova.com/north-brother-island-is-new-york-citys-creepy-secret/