Tag: assertive spaking for social anxious people

 Hi. I’m Lynette from PanicAttackRecovery.com. We’re a collaboration of former sufferers who are helping those currently struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, and agoraphobia. However, anyone can benefit from our videos. One challenge for many people who have anxiety is learning to say no. We discussed this issue with a psychologist who ran a group for teaching assertiveness and he told us about an interesting experience he had with the group. One evening, all of the attendees were performing an exercise where the person next to them would ask them to do something. They were simply instructed to say no in reply to whatever the other person asked them to do. Many people had trouble doing this. Instead, they felt the need to also explain why their answer was no. This is interesting because the situation was a controlled group exercise and not a real-life situation. The important takeaway messages from this example are the following: First: Many people have trouble saying no. Period. Second: Many people feel the need to reveal additional information because they aren’t comfortable simply saying no. However, the problem is that by explaining themselves, they often give the other person making the request more of an opportunity to challenge their original response. In other words, explaining yourself makes it harder to say no in the end. Had you just graciously said no, that might have ended the discussion. We’re not suggesting that you should go through life simply saying no all of the time. However, if you have a problem being assertive in this regard, try practicing role-playing this suggestion with a friend.  By practicing this suggestion over time you will get better at it. Often anxiety sufferers can be helped by learning how to be gracefully assertive in their relations with others. By learning polite assertiveness, you can decrease your anxiety across several situations. We hope that you have enjoyed this video. To get more help with your anxiety, and obtain instant access to the 5 steps to recovery from panic attacks and agoraphobia, just visit our website and provide your email address. All of our information is free. Please visit our website at PanicAttackRecovery.com.As found on YouTubeThis solution reverses kidney disease! Guaranteed to be effective or your money back: Beat kidney disease. Just by following a simple treatment plan, you can reverse kidney disease. No matter how old you are! Just listen to what people who have tried this solution have to say. “Thank God I came across your solution by accident! Dad’s kidney function decreased from 36% to 73% in just two months. He’s 90 years old! His doctor said people his age shouldn’t have kidneys that efficient!” Graeme Asham, QLD, Australia, And this… “No more dizzy spells! My creatinine has gone down from a staggering 1800 to 1100. My blood count has greatly improved and I’ve been taken off my blood pressure medication. Your solution works! ” Joe Taliana, 55, Malta Simply follow the scientifically backed solution and restore your kidneys, fast! => This solution reverses kidney disease! ← https://www.facebook.com/100000332115031/videos/590895892954739/ яαℓρн ℓєαмαи