PTSD Treatment Options – How to Find a Good Trauma Therapist

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Hi everyone. I’m Emma McAdam, and I’m a  licensed marriage and family therapist.   And I make mental-health education videos.  And I’ve made a lot of videos about trauma   and trauma treatment. And so I get asked in a  lot of emails this question: How can I find a  
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therapist who does trauma treatment like you? And  it’s a great question, not because I’m the world’s   best trauma therapist, that is not the case, but  because when it comes to therapy, it’s really good   to be an informed consumer. There are hundreds of  different types of therapy, and every therapist is  
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different in how they approach issues. So  whether you’ve never tried therapy before   or you’ve worked with other therapists in  the past and you want something different,   learning about different treatment  modalities can be really helpful.  
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So first, what is trauma? Trauma is  any experience that was overwhelming,   threatening, that caused pain, distress, or  fear to the point where you felt helpless.   It can include assault and abuse and witnessing  tragedy. It could include frightening medical  
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experiences, near-death experiences, or  a severe loss. But basically when your   response to these situations interferes with  your life, you might receive a diagnosis of PTSD.   Or, if the abuse was ongoing for long periods of  time, you might get a diagnosis of complex PTSD.  
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And symptoms include nightmares; feeling tense or  anxious all the time; being jumpy; feeling numb   or detached; feeling exhausted and depressed;  struggling in relationships, sleep, and and work.   So while almost all therapists have some skills  in treating depression, anxiety, and trauma,  
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because these are such universal problems, not  all therapists specialize in trauma treatment.   So that means that most therapists have at  least a handful of tools to treat trauma,   but some therapists have a lot of skills and  interventions and resources and experience to  
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help you out. And that’s not exclusive to trauma.  The more specific you can get with your diagnosis,   the more specific you can get in finding a  therapist who has interventions tailored to   your needs. Okay. So what are the trauma treatment  options out there, and how do you find a therapist  
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who uses them? There’s a gazillion ways to do  therapy, but I’m going to highlight the ways that   are research-backed, meaning they have a strong  body of consistent evidence that these treatments   are effective. So the first approach to treating  PTSD is cognitive therapy. And this is called  
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a top-down approach. So it includes cognitive  behavior therapy, cognitive processing therapy,   and prolonged exposure. Cognitive approaches focus  on talking about your trauma, changing how you   think about it, and changing behaviors that might  be making it worse. So for example, you would  
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tell your trauma story, and your therapist would  notice that you blame yourself for your abuse,   and then they would help you to challenge that  type of thinking and replace it with something   healthier, like placing the responsibility on the  abuser and forgiving yourself. Now, CBT has a lot  
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of research for a couple of reasons: it’s been  around for a long time and it can be standardized.   They can, they can put it in a manual and say,  “Oh, in session one, do this. In session two,   do this. And then they can measure outcomes.  Most therapists include some form of talking  
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and examining thinking patterns as a part of  therapy, but with a CBT therapist they may have a   very clear set of instructions for you. Prolonged  exposure is another type of cognitive therapy.   It’s essentially exposure therapy. You talk about  your trauma over and over until it’s no longer as  
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scary for you. Essentially, you teach your brain  that you can face your trauma and be okay. Now,   cognitive approaches have been around for a  long time, and they have a lot of research   behind them. One study at Kaiser showed that  even just the simple act of a doctor saying,  
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“I see that you have a history of trauma or abuse.  I’m sorry that happened to you. Would you like to   talk about it?” and then just listening – just  that simple act of addressing trauma without any   specific interventions – this decreased the  physical symptoms of trauma in a significant  
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way. So I I don’t mean to minimize the  effectiveness of talk therapy with trauma,   but I think that I and many other therapists  find that trauma treatment benefits from a   really well-rounded approach. And cognitive  therapies focus on thoughts and memories,  
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but they don’t do much to address the physical  reactions of trauma. Cognitive therapy can also   be really uncomfortable, and in some cases, you  know, re-traumatize the participant by having them   talk about trauma without the skills to calm their  body down. Now, that being said, cognitive therapy  
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is still an effective approach. According to the  VA, around 53% of people who do cognitive therapy   no longer have PTSD after three months of  treatment. EMDR is another great approach to   treating trauma. It’s got a lot of research behind  it. It incorporates body-based soothing with  
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cognitive work while also including eye movement  and bilateral movement as a part of the treatment.   EMDR stands for eye movement desensitization and  reprocessing. So basically, scientists found out   that when we have bilateral movement –  so that’s moving your eyes back and forth  
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or patting your legs one and then the other –  that it stimulates the part of the brain that   processes memories. And this is similar to what  happens in REM sleep, rapid eye movement sleep,   because when you dream, your eyes move  back and forth. And this is a critical time  
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when your brain processes memories without too  much emotion so that it can file them away.   So with EMDR and somatic approaches there isn’t  nearly as much of a focus on retelling the   trauma story or challenging thoughts or homework  assignments. And according to the VA, around 53%  
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of people who do EMDR no longer have PTSD after  three months of treatment. Okay. The next type of   therapy, this next group of therapies incorporates  a much more body-based approach or a bottom-up   approach to healing trauma, and it includes  somatic experiencing, sensory motor therapy,  
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and polyvagal approaches to trauma treatment.  So these approaches focus on the body and the   nervous system and how they get stuck in a trauma  response, and they teach people skills to soothe   the body and turn off the fight/flight/freeze  response and to activate their nervous system and  
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work through the physical tension of trauma. And  it’s based off of the work of Bessel van der Kolk,   Peter Levine, Stephen Porges, Pat Ogden, Deb Dana,  and others. And it’s gaining a lot of momentum,   and the research behind its effectiveness is  growing. Interventions include things like yoga,  
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learning nervous system calming skills, gaining  a greater awareness of your body’s reactions,   and working with your body to restore a sense of  calm. And I teach a bunch of these skills in my   free course, Grounding Skills for Anxiety, Stress,  and PTSD. So if you’d like to learn some of them,  
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just check out the link in the description. When  someone asks me how to find a trauma therapist who   does trauma work the way I do, this approach is  one that I’m drawn to the most. Now, I understand   a lot of cognitive work. I’ve read books or  attended trainings on most of the approaches.  
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And for me, the body-based approach really  adds a lot to the cognitive work that many   people have already tried. Somatic  experiencing is also a newer approach,   so there’s less research behind it, but studies  are promising. Some smaller studies have found  
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that 67% of people experience a reduction of  PTSD symptoms, and a meta-analysis of 16 studies   found overall positive effects  of somatic experiencing therapy   on PTSD symptoms. Okay. Another type of therapy  is narrative therapy. And this is often used in  
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a small-group setting. It’s another approach  that has been used with good results. And   basically you just get a group of people together  to talk about and work through their experiences.   People explore their narrative or their  interpretation of traumatic events with  
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other people, and they create a new story around  their humanity. And it has a lot of good evidence.   Medication is another option to treat PTSD, and it  can be combined with therapy. Antidepressants like   Prozac, Paxil, Effexor, and Zoloft can be helpful  at treating overall symptoms. And basically,  
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medication helps to quiet the alarm system that  seems to be constantly stuck in the on position.   According to the VA, medication is  effective for 42% percent of people. Also,   prazosin can help with nightmares, and anxiety  medications can help with the anxiety symptoms.  
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Medication does come with the possibility of  side effects, and the benefits may go away if you   stop taking the medication. Now, I don’t think  that there is one approach to trauma treatment   that is best for everyone, so you may need to try  a few different things to find out what works for  
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you. Also, a combination of approaches may be  best. Many therapists will integrate a cognitive   approach with body-soothing skills while also  encouraging you to work with a doctor to explore   medical treatments as well. Regardless of which  approach you want to try, it’s important to find  
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a therapist who is experienced. So let me show  you one way I recommend doing that. So if you   go to psychologytoday.com (not a sponsor), their  therapist finder tool has some great filters. So   you just start by entering your location, and then  you can select trauma-focused EMDR or somatic, and  
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then you can see a list of the providers in your  area. You can also filter by gender, religion,   by the insurance they take, and a bunch of other  characteristics. Now, just because someone says   they’re trauma-informed or they practice a certain  modality doesn’t mean they’re certified in it.  
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So for someone to be EMDR certified, they need to  have done something like 40 hours of training and   50 plus hours of supervised practice. So look  for a certified provider whenever possible.   To become a certified somatic experiencing  practitioner you have to do eight training  
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modules of four to six days in length spaced  out over two and a half to three years, so   this is really different from someone who’s just  trauma informed or has a different certificate.   There are a ton of other approaches to  trauma treatment that are gaining popularity,  
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but they they just don’t have  as much research behind them.   These include brain spotting, neurofeedback,  mindfulness, acceptance and commitment therapy,   tapping. And there’s a lot of other things that  you can try that may help, but they don’t have as  
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much evidence behind them. And so other other  interventions include things like journaling,   dancing, exercise, improving your overall  mental health, certain nutritional approaches,   and sharing your story with compassionate  people. All these things can be really helpful;  
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they’re just not necessarily meeting that gold  standard of evidence-based treatment. Now, for   all we know, these may work. But the further you  get away from research, the less we know about how   the treatment will affect you. I’m pretty cautious  about recommending treatment without rigorous  
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evidence, but I do encourage people to try a few  things until they find something that works for   them. So there you have it: a handful of different  approaches to treating trauma. I hope this helps   you choose a treatment option that works for  you. Thank you for watching, and take care.
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Discerning of Spirits 💥 This is a Powerful Weapon

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Today I’m going to speak about the remaining gift of revelation, distinguishing or discerning of spirits. The ability to recognize, identify   and distinguish between various  kinds of spirits that confront us.   And in this connection we need to bear in mind  that the Christian ministry is a ministry in   the spiritual realm. In Ephesians 6:12 Paul says  we are not fighting enemies of flesh and blood   or persons with bodies, but we are  arrayed against an evil spiritual kingdom,   spirits of wickedness. And so it is essential that  we are equipped to handle our spiritual enemies. The purposes of this gift, I  would suggest, are fourfold.   First of all, to lift the veil that  covers the unseen spiritual world.   The world that we really have to  deal with if we’re to be effective.
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Secondly, to enable us to see  as God sees. In 1 Samuel 16:7   the Lord told Samuel this, “For God sees not as  man sees, for man look at the outward appearance,   but the Lord looks at the heart.” This gift of  discerning of distinguishing of spirits enables   us to go below the outward appearance  and see the condition of the heart.
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The third purpose of the gift is to protect us  from deception. We are reminded that sometimes   Satan comes to God’s people as an angel  of light. He appears to be very beautiful,   very good and very wise. But his whole  purpose and intention is evil and destructive. The fourth purpose of this gift is to enable us  to diagnose people’s problems and so help them. Now the gift is discerning of spirits,  it’s not just discerning of evil spirits.   There are various kind of spirits that confront  us in the Christian walk. Let me mention four:   First of all, the Spirit of God, the Holy Spirit.  It is very important to discern the Holy Spirit.   Secondly, there are angels, both  good angels and evil angels. Thirdly,   thee are demons or unclean spirits. And fourthly,  there is the spirit of man, the human spirit. Now I want to give you some examples  of the operation of this gift   from the New Testament. First  of all in the ministry of Jesus.   In John 1:47 and following, you read  how Nathanael came to Jesus and it says: “Jesus saw Nathanael coming to Him,   and said of him, ‘Behold, an Israelite  indeed, in whom is no guile!’” (NAS) How did Jesus know that there was no guile  in Nathanael? There was no outward way of   knowing it, but He discerned in Nathanael  a guileless spirit. Nathanael was amazed. “He said to Him, ‘How do You know  me?’ Jesus answered and said to him,   ‘Before Philip called you, when you were  under the fig tree, I saw you.’” (NAS) Probably Jesus was standing preaching and  Philip was standing there somewhere in the   background under the fig tree listening,  but Jesus looking over the heads of those   who were closer to Him, saw that face  and discerned that guileless spirit.   Nathanael was amazed, but Jesus said  to him, “This is only the beginning.” “And He said to him, ‘Truly, truly, I say  to you, you shall see the heavens opened,   and the angels of God ascending and  descending upon the Son of Man.’” (NAS) Jesus said, in effect, not merely will we discern  human spirits, but we’ll discern angel spirits   too. And of course, later on in the New Testament  this was fulfilled a number of times. For instance   in Acts 27 we read about Paul on the ship that  was being so terribly tossed by the storm.   They hadn’t seen the sun or the moon or the stars  for many days. All hope of survival was given up,   but an angel of God came to Paul on the ship.   And after that Paul stood up and spoke to  those men and encouraged them and he said this: “For this very night an angel of the God to  whom I belong and whom I serve stood before me,   saying, ‘Do not be afraid, Paul; you  must stand before Caesar; and behold,   God has granted you all those  who are sailing with you.’” (NAS) So we see that an angel came  to that storm-tossed ship,   but the only one who was aware of  the presence of the angel was Paul.   Paul discerned what the others could not  see, an angelic presence there on that ship. I’d giving you examples of two forms of discernment Jesus discerning a guile spirit in Nathanael and Paul discerning an angel of God on the ship. Now also from the ministry of Paul, I want to  give you an example of discerning an evil spirit,   a very significant and important example. This  describes what happened while Paul and Silas   and their company were in the city of Philippi to  bring the gospel to that city. And they were going   every day to a certain place of prayer, but there  was a slave-girl following them making dramatic   spiritual pronouncements about them. This is  the record as we find it in Acts 16:16–18: “And it happened that as we were going to the  place of prayer, a certain slave-girl having   a spirit of divination met us, who was bringing  her masters much profit by fortunetelling.” (NAS) The spirit of divination in Satan’s  kingdom is the fortunetelling spirit,   the one that predicts the future, that tells  you whether you are going to be rich or poor,   whether you are going to marry a  blonde or a brunette, whether your   mother or your aunt is going to die, and many  such things. That’s the spirit of divination,   the fortunetelling spirit. It is not from God, it  is from Satan. The Scripture then goes on to say: “Following after Paul and us, she kept crying  out, saying, ‘These men are bond-servants of   the Most High God, who are proclaiming  to you the way of salvation.’” (NAS) It is very significant that what she was  saying was absolutely true. That is an example   of Satan coming as an angel of light. But she was  nevertheless not serving God, but Satan. You see,   Satan’s purpose was to confuse the people  of Philippi. They were used to divination,   they were used to people with evil spirits. If  Paul and his company had accepted this girl and   her testimony, the people of Philippi would have  concluded, “Well, here is just another example of   what we have been used to all these centuries.”  But Paul didn’t fall into that trap. Through   discerning of spirits, he identified the spirit as  an evil spirit and this is how he dealt with it: “And she continued doing this for many  days. But Paul was greatly annoyed…   [Do you know that it is legitimate  sometimes to be annoyed?   To be annoyed with the devil is not a  sin.] …But Paul was greatly annoyed,   and turned and said to the spirit [not to the  girl, but to the spirit], ‘I command you in the   name of Jesus Christ to come out of her!’ And it  [the spirit] came out at that very moment.” (NAS) So the evil spirit was discerned by Paul  and then cast out in the name of Jesus.   That was a critical point. It  set the whole city in an uproar.   Satan’s purposes had been revealed and frustrated  and he became exceedingly angry and the most   unnatural tumult broke out in that city. That was  Satan’s response to his devices being revealed. Now let me give you just one example that is a  little similar from my own personal experience.   Actually, this incident in my life is mentioned  in Catherine Marshall’s book Something More.   It happened while I was ministering at a church  in Chicago. At the close of a service a lady came   to me and asked me for prayer. She said she had  personal problems. The Lord showed me, I think,   probably through the word of knowledge, that she  had been a spiritist medium. And I said that I   wasn’t prepared to pray for her. So she went  away but came back a few weeks later. She said,   “I have given up being a medium. I want you  to pray for me.” So I felt that I couldn’t   refuse. I wasn’t confident of her sincerity, but  I began to pray with her, and it was hard going.
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After a while I paused for a moment. And as I  paused, she began to look at me intently and   there was a kind of strange fixed stare in  her eyes and she said, “I see you in a car   and it’s wrecked against a tree and there’s  blood.” For a moment my heart sank and I thought,   “I’m going to be in a car that’s wrecked  against a tree.” And then I realized that   isn’t the Holy Spirit. That’s the spirit of  divination by which she operated as a medium.   And so the anger of God came over  me and I said, “You divining spirit,   I reject you! I do not accept that as my  destiny! I’m not going to be in any car   that’s going to be wrecked against a tree!  I refuse it! I will not accept it from you!” I don’t believe that the woman was  delivered. At least not at that   time. Because I really don’t believe that  she had repented of her evil practices.   But I really believe that that  was a turning point in my life.
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You see, when you go to a fortuneteller,  the fortuneteller predicts something evil   about your life, as often happens. If you say,  “Oh, isn’t this terrible! Think what’s going   to happen to me!” in a certain sense you are  submitting to Satan’s destiny for your lie.   And if you submit to it, very  probably it will be worked out.   What we have to learn to do is identify Satan even  in his deceptions, reject him, turn away from him,   turn to God and the Scripture and the Holy Spirit,  and receive God’s destiny for our life and believe   that rather than Satan’s destiny. But these days  it’s very important that we are able to discern   even when Satan comes to us in the  guise of an angel of light.
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The Most Effective Way To Release God’s Authority Over A Situation | Derek Prince

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Now, that’s trembling at the Word. That’s the first thing that happened with Moses.
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He suddenly realized the power that was in his rod and he ran from it. He was overawed.
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The second thing that he did was to take hold of the rod. By faith he gripped it and it became a rod again in his hand.
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So when we’ve trembled, then we need to take hold of God’s Word. We need to take a firm grasp on the Word of God. And there’s a Scripture near the end of the book of Psalms which to me is really impressive.
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Psalm 149 the last few verses.
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Psalm 149 beginning at verse 5: Let the saints be joyful in glory; let them sing aloud on their beds. The saints, I believe, is all true dedicated believers. The word saint, Hebrew word hasid.
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How many of you have ever heard of Hasidic Judaism? Very ultra Orthodox. It means somebody who trembles at the word of God who’s totally committed to it.
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Let the saints be joyful in glory; let them sing aloud on their beds. Let the high praises of God be in their mouth, and a two-edged sword in their hand, to execute vengeance on the nations and punishments on the peoples; to bind their kings with chains and their nobles with fetters of iron to execute on them the written judgment. This honor have all his saints.
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It’s an amazing series of statements if you can identify yourself as belonging to the saints. It says that we have to have the two-edged sword which is the Word of God, in our hands, the high praises of God in our mouth and with it we can execute vengeance on the nations, punishment on the peoples – are you seeing yourself in this scenario? Do you realize that this is something God has for you? To bind their kings with chains, their nobles with fetters of iron. I do believe that means in part the satanic principalities that rule the nations but not exclusively. And then it says in the closing verse to execute on the nations the judgment written.
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And it says this honor or this privilege have all his saints. Have you ever pondered on that? God has given us the privilege of executing judgment on the nations.
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The prayer life of many would be different if we began to see ourselves in that light. Now it says to execute the judgment written, or the written judgment. Where is the judgment written, where do we find the written judgment? That’s right, hold it up. That’s right, it’s in here. We are not the ones to make the judgments.
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God has made the judgments. But we have the privilege of executing the judgments on the nations, on their rulers. In other words, we have a unique and decisive part to play in history. See how important this is? And I’d have to say how far away many, many Christians are from even beginning to understand all that God has made available to us and all that God expects from us.
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But I want to emphasize we don’t make the judgments.
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We find the judgments in the written Word of God, but we execute them. How do we execute God’s judgments? By what one word? Proclaiming, that’s right.
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We release the judgments of God that are already written in the Scripture. We proclaim them, we are the heralds.
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We stand in the marketplace of the world and we say, Oyez, Oyez, and then we announce the decree of God.
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Now I think I’m going to try to be very practical and down to earth. We come to the next stage after he grasped the rod. What did he do next when he got back to Egypt? He stretched it out.
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He exercised the authority that was in the rod.
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Now I want to suggest to you that we need to do the same.
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We need to take the written Word of God and we need to stretch it out in any situation where the authority of God is needed. One of the ways – I’m not saying it’s the only way but I think in many ways the most effective way to release the authority of God into a situation is by proclaiming in faith and under the anointing of the Holy Spirit because remember, the word must go with the breath. But when the two go together, when the breath of God, the Spirit of God propels the Word of God out of our mouths we can release it into a situation and it has all the authority of Almighty God in that situation. God didn’t step down off the throne, take the rod out of Moses’ hand and say, Moses, I’ll do it. That’s what most of us, I think, expect to happen. God says, You’ve got the rod. You do it. But it is called the rod of God in the book of Exodus. It was God’s rod but Moses held it. Moses stretched it out.
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Moses and Aaron together. It didn’t make any difference. It was the rod that did the job.
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Use Your Thoughts to Optimize Your Health – Dr Joe Dispenza

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[Music] we have three types of stress that we  process in the physical body we have physical   stress that’s like trauma accidents injuries  Falls and then you have chemical stress like   toxins or pesticides or pollutants or viruses or  bacteria or hangovers or nutritional deficiencies  
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and then you have emotional stress right and  emotional stress could be family tragedies   car accidents second mortgages single parenting  401ks you know whatever that is but each one of   those things physical chemical or emotional knock  the body out of homeostasis out of Regulation out  
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of balance the innate capacity of the body when  it’s not overstressed is that it wants to always   return back and regulate it wants to return back  to homeostasis it wants to return back to order   and that’s inate in us that’s an automatic  process that’s running through the autonomic  
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nervous system so we could say the job of the  autonomic nervous system is to create balance   and Regulation and homeostasis and it’s automatic  and that part of the brain sits under the thinking   neocortex and it’s called the chemical brain  or the emotional brain or the lyic brain or the  
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mamelon brain and it has all of those functions  that make blood sugar balanced hormone levels   digestive enzymes it’s it’s it’s it’s doing  what it can to take the body and constantly   repair it and regenerate it and move it back into  balance all of those stressors knock the brain and  
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body out of balance and the innate mechanism the  stress response brings it back to balance well it   just makes sense if you keep knocking it out of  balance over and over again and you keep moving   it out of homeostasis that imbalance is going to  become the new balance and now you’re headed for  
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disease because that autonomic automatic system  can’t regulate order in the body so a system then   is compromised the system breaks down and so if  it’s physical trauma you know your body can heal   if you rest it if it’s chemical imbalance you  take your uh Pharmaceuticals or you take your  
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nutriceuticals your vitamins your minerals your  herbs you intermittent fast you do anything you   can to get the body back so that it’s using more  energy for growth and repair but the big factor   is emotional stress 75 to 90% of every person  that walks into a Healthcare facility in the  
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Western World walks in because of psychological  or emotional stress pretty much four out of   five people what’s really causing their health  condition is that they’re emotionally stressed   and emotionally out of balance okay so what are  the emotions that are connected to the stress  
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hormones it’s anger it’s hatred it’s frustration  it’s competition it’s control it’s judgment it’s   Envy it’s jealousy it’s insecurity it’s fear it’s  anxiety it’s worry it’s angst it’s uh hopelessness   it’s powerlessness it’s guilt it shame its  unworthiness you know and psychology calls these  
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normal human States Of Consciousness these are  Altered States Of Consciousness so our response   to someone or something in in our environment or  our response to our own thought an image of what   could happen in the future a memory of the past  could actually cause chemicals to be secreted  
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from the brain that causes the body to actually  believe it’s living in that same environment of   fear or danger right so that thought when you’re  seeing that thought in your mind or remembering   that image it’s the image and the emotion it’s  the thought and the feeling it’s the stimulus and  
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response that’s immediately conditioning the body  into that state of imbalance so it’s a scientific   fact that the long-term effects of the hormones of  stress push the genetic buttons and create disease   if you can turn on that stress response just by  thought alone your thoughts are literally going  
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to make you sick that’s the greatest example of  the Mind Body Connection so the next fundamental   question is okay if our thoughts could make us  sick is it possible that my thoughts could make   me well well if that’s the case then then I’m  going to have to manage my attention and I’m  
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going to have to manage my energy because where I  place my attention is where I place my energy and   I’m going to have to inhibit that thought that has  conditioned the body to subconsciously be the mind   and the body is so objective that it does not know  the difference between the real life experience  
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that’s creating that emotion and the emotion that  person is fabricating by thought alone to the body   it’s exactly the same so the body’s believing  it’s being chased by a predator the body is   believing it’s in an offensive situation where it  has to attack the body’s believing it’s constantly  
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needing to be ready and it’s it’s constantly out  of homeostasis is constantly out of balance it’s   in emergency it’s in fight ORF flight it’s a  different system the autonomic nervous system   where you’re stepping on the gas where you’re  you’re mobilizing enormous amounts of energy  
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for some threat some Danger real or imagined  but that thought and that feeling the image the   emotion the stimulus response is conditioning the  body to automatically be the mind of that emotion   now the body becomes conditioned and addicted  now this gets to be a problem because people  
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get addicted to their own thoughts and they become  addicted to the life they don’t even like because   the response to the coworker to the boss to the  ex is actually giving them Rush of energy A Rush   of agine and they’re they’re associating that Rush  of energy with some problem or condition in their  
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life and now come time to change and manage  your attention and manage your emotion it’s   no different than Breaking addiction to anything  there’s Cravings the body wants to return back to   how it’s been conditioned into the familiar past  into the gnome the body starts saying to the mind  
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you can it’s too hard you’ll never change this  is too uncomfortable I don’t like this go back   to make the same Choice do the same thing create  the same experience feel the same emotion so you   can return back to the known and that’s how people  seamlessly return back to that same identity so we  
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only accept believe and surrender to the thoughts  that are equal to our emotional state we’ll never   accept believe and surrender any thoughts that are  not equal to your emotional state so you could say   I’m abundant I’m Eternal I’ll live forever I’m  healthy and wealthy and if you’re programmed your  
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body into that emotional state it’s going to say  you you’re not that take a person whose identity   is resentment and their identity is anger and and  frustration and betrayal and you ask them why are   you this way and they’ll say I’m this way because  of this event that happened to me 15 years ago  
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strong are the emotion we feel from some event the  more altered we feel inside of us the more that   chemical continuity is disrupted from something  that surprises us that alters our state the more   the brain freezes a frame and takes a snapshot  that’s called a memory but the problem is that we  
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think about that event over and over again after  it happens we’re producing the same chemistry in   the brain and body as if the event was occurring  and so the body is conditioned literally into   the past so you say a person’s resentful about  everything they’re seeing their life through the  
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lens of resentment and frustration and anger  and everything’s upsetting them well that’s a   self-fulfilling prophecy you say okay now it’s an  addiction you got to change that and the person   goes oh okay that makes sense and now now you got  to get out of the bleachers on the playing field  
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say okay these emotions could literally have  something to do with my health just saying if   I stop feeling these emotions what if I start  feeling these emotions okay what would be the   emotions that would make me happy these emotions  are making me feel really bad the memories are  
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making me feel really bad can I remember a  future how would I feel if my future could   happen I got to trade those emotions for different  emotions well if I’ve been practicing feeling   these emotions and I’ve conditioned my body be the  mind it’s going to take some time for me to start  
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making different chemistry with the intention of  making that chemistry getting my body back into   homeostasis and balance work on my breath when I  breathe I change my state practice breathing work   with your body so it can start to relax so that  it feels safe enough to feel something other than  
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that again and if it takes you 3 weeks it would be  worth it so then person then starts okay I really   know how to feel gratitude okay well maybe start  going out and giving and give to people I promise   you start giving you start feeling grateful and  then start practicing feeling gratitude teach  
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your body just for 15 minutes a day what it would  like to feel gratitude what would be like and our   data shows that you take someone to do that  for four days three times a day they make a   immunoglobulin called immunoglobulin a it’s your  body’s natural flu shot it’s the greatest immune  
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chemical we have 50% increase in the subjects we  studied in 4 days immunoglobulin went up 50% in 4   days where is that chemistry coming from they’re  not taking anything it’s coming from within them   right what is the emotional signature of gratitude  when you receive something or you just receive  
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something when something wonderful happened to  you or something wonderful is happening to you   you feel grateful so now if you’re in a state  of gratitude it makes total sense then you will   accept believe and surrender the thoughts that  are equal to that emotional state and you could  
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actually program your autonomic nervous system  to make the pharmacy of chemicals that causes   growth and repair to happen in the body and that’s  exactly what we’re discovering so then when people   understand why they’re doing it the how gets  easier so you can assign meaning to the task  
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and switch on the prefrontal cortex and when you  switch on that prefrontal cortex it wants to get   an outcome it doesn’t want to mess around it wants  the outcome you’re doing it for the outcome and   that’s kind of a strong intention and a change in  energy or an emotional state and that’s changing  
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your state of being and when you change your state  of being like that every day get ready because   you’re going to start having synchronicities and  coincidences and weird things start happening in   your life to prove to you that you’re actually the  creator of your life instead of the victim of your
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Are you Codependent with Anxiety? Free Anxiety Course Introduction

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kucxlrh74sg&list=PLiUrrIiqidTVqab7pZivzb-e-tMA8qjd-

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[Music] How’s your relationship with anxiety? Does it drive you crazy? Does it get in the way of living your life? Do you get stuck worrying and feeling sick to your stomach or sweaty? When you get all codependent with anxiety, it can really mess up your life. Have you ever had an uncle or a coworker, the type who tried to convince you that the world was flat or something? Maybe your relationship with anxiety is a bit like that. Oh, hey, hey. Oh. [Music] Hey. How you doing? Did you know there’s going to be a massive cheese shortage, and it’s gonna send the markets into a Great Depression. Now is a great time to invest in cheese stocks.
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No there’s not. Oh, no, yeah. Yeah, this is a conspiracy from the cheese barons, but first they’ve gotta increase market share by taking out the potato farmers so they can destroy Coca-Cola. Like, where did you hear that? Like, where where are you getting your information? But first they have to take out the potato farmers with cheese-scented laser beams. And if you try to debate him with facts, he only gets more persistent. Okay. Are you serious? Cheese-scented laser beams? Have you ever seen one? I’ve got a friend who works in the silos in Idaho, and his brother’s the governor and says that they’re putting mind-altering drugs in the water. No, listen, listen. I’m sure that if they were putting mind-altering drugs in our water it would show up in the wastewater studies. Like, I know someone who works with the DWR. Look, I – you have been a little bit brainwashed. Come here, come here. Give me a hug. Only with anxiety, it sounds a little bit more like: Oh, hey, hey. How’s it going? Oh, hi, anxiety. Didn’t expect to see you here. Well, I guess I shouldn’t be that surprised. Hey, um, did you know everyone’s looking at you? They’re all looking at you. They’re they’re all wondering why you’re here. Like, where did you hear that? Like – Yeah, I mean, I I heard, I heard Megan and Bob talking about you over there. They’re they’re probably just looking at me because I dyed my hair, and it looks great. Oh, I’m glad you like your hair. I mean, uh, yeah, I mean I guess it’s – I better not say what other people might be thinking. Okay, they probably think it sucks. Sarah invited me here. Why why would she invite me if she didn’t want me to be here? Maybe she was just trying to be nice.
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Like, she didn’t actually want you to come. Yeah, well, maybe everyone’s staring at me because I’m arguing with myself. Now, maybe your uncle – or in this case, your anxiety – makes you so uncomfortable that you just stop going places. You stop going to parties, you stop seeing the people you love because you just don’t want to be around him (your uncle) or it (the anxious voice in your head). Maybe you’ve created a life where you avoid anxiety, but you’ve had to cut out a bunch of things because of that. Now, in this course I’m not gonna promise you that your anxiety will go away or that you’ll magically never feel fear or worry again, but in 30 days you can learn to transform your relationship with anxiety. Now, anxiety itself is not a disorder. It’s what we do with anxiety that determines the quality of our life. When we believe the lies that anxiety tells us, when we let it make choices for us, when we let fear run the show, an anxiety disorder can make us miserable. And when we struggle against it, when we try to like force the anxiety to go away, it often gets louder. So like a relationship with that overbearing family member, I’m going to teach you the skills to set boundaries on your anxiety – like texting before dropping by. Oh, wait, that’s for family. You’ll learn things like knowing what to say to anxiety, how to spend less time with it, and how to not let it bother you so much. And as you build this healthy relationship with anxiety, you might even find that occasionally it has something good to say. Not often, but occasionally it helps you just a little because anxiety serves a function. And learning how to relate to anxiety can give you back your life. In this course you’ll learn how to transform your relationship with anxiety. You’ll learn how to drop the struggle with anxiety and set boundaries on your worries so that you can decrease your worry by 75% or more. You’ll learn how to stop overthinking and get back to enjoying yourself. You’ll learn how to handle that inner critic so that you can maintain your sense of self and you can let go of doubt and work through fears. So just like with that difficult family member, you can learn the skills to show your anxiety compassion, to listen to what it has to say but not believe everything it says, and to live your own life the way you choose – a life that you value that is rich and meaningful. [Music] Oh, hey, hey, you’re probably ruining your children.
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Oh, oh, hi there, worry. Um I don’t have time to talk about this with you right now, but I do have five minutes later. Uh let’s talk at five, okay? [Music] This just in. Breaking news. Um everything is awful, and it is going to be awful forever, and it’s probably actually going to get worse, regardless of all the advances in science, medicine, technology . . . Okay. Well, you can say what you want, but I don’t have to believe you. It’s just terrible. [Music] Oh my goodness, oh my goodness, darling, don’t jump off that diving board. You could fall. Basically, you’re gonna learn how to be the Mahatma Gandhi of worry management: peacefully holding your truth, standing up to lies and oppression, and gaining independence from the trap of anxiety. In this course you’ll learn 30 skills to have an entire toolbox of options for managing anxiety. And when you practice them, you can learn to take your life back. So here’s how the course works: I’ll be publishing all 31 main videos to YouTube, but you can watch the entire series with the extra skills, ad-free, with a workbook, with bonus resources and access to Q and A’s with me on my website. I’m publishing one video per week to YouTube, but I’ll publish the videos to the online course as soon as they’re ready. The first section is all about changing your mindset around anxiety, changing how you think about anxiety, learning how it works, what you’re doing that feeds it, and how to drop the struggle with anxiety. Section 2 teaches you about the thinking patterns that you’re doing that make anxiety stronger and louder and, of course, how to adjust how you think, to set boundaries on anxiety, and drastically decrease it. And then in Section 3 you’ll learn how your nervous system’s response creates this feedback loop that either calms anxiety or exacerbates it. You’ll learn how to lean into your sensations, to lean into the wisdom of your body, and turn on its natural ability to soothe itself. And then in the last segment of the course, you’ll learn how to take back the confident and meaningful life that you really care about. You’ll learn how to get back to doing the things that you care about and bring back the joy and purpose that you used to have in life. So this section is all about moving in your valued direction. Now, this course isn’t just academic; with each lesson there are actionable skills and practical exercises to retrain your nervous system to be more resilient and centered. It’s like lifting weights for your calmness muscle. And like I said before, the course comes with a workbook, bonus lessons, Q and A’s, and lots of body-calming skills and resources to help you feel confident to know what to do when anxiety does pop up and how to set boundaries on it so that it doesn’t impact your life anymore. Everyone feels some anxiety, but you don’t have to let it run the show.
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You can really learn the skills to change anxiety. So here’s your first somatic skill: let’s start by having you curl up. Put your head down, shrink yourself down into like a hunchy little ball like this. Okay. And then say, “I can do this. Okay. I can do this. I can do this.” Notice how that feels. Your body is sending the message to your brain that you’re actually not capable. Now, put your shoulders back, chest out, chin up, and just say, “I can learn new skills. I can learn new things.” Your body is sending you the message that you are competent, you’re capable to learn the skills to manage and work with your anxiety. Now, I know you can do this. Let’s go. [Music]
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7 Japanese Techniques To Overcome Laziness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfPelzWeSvY
Are you tired of starting your to-do list and you’re paralyzed by the twin villains of procrastination and laziness? Trust me, you are not alone. Today, we’re going to be peeling back the layers of these universal struggles and will introduce you to philosophies and techniques to overcome regret and self-blame, poor performance, stagnation, your personal growth, and a decreased productivity.
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Welcome back to the Quick Brain Podcast. I am your host and your brain coach Jim Quick. Today we’re diving into Japanese Zen Secrets, as we explore seven gentle yet powerful techniques that have the potential to transform the way you approach productivity and life. Each technique carries with it a unique philosophy, a cultural way of life. The wisdom that has stood the test of time. First up is the concept of Kaizen, which stands for small improvements and how they have a big impact. Remember, little by little, a little becomes a whole lot. Imagine a life where progress isn’t measured in leaps and bounds, but in tiny, consistent steps. Kaizen at its core encourages us to focus on small improvements every day. It’s becoming 1% just 1% better each day rather than aiming for perfection right from the start. Remember, 1% compounded over the course of a year, 1.01 times 1.01 times 365 times equals a 37 multiple. Your 37 times better just improving 1% at anything over the course of one year. By setting small achievable goals and embracing small gains and celebrating those, we paved the way for lasting success and we train ourselves in becoming more productive. Number 2. The next technique is something we have already discussed before on our podcast. It’s called Shinrin Yoku, Shinrin Yoku. Otherwise known as Nature’s Healing Touch. Doesn’t sound really great. The Japanese words Shinrin means forest. Yoku means bath. And they come together to create an experience where we spend time outdoors surrounded by the healing embrace of nature. It’s not just a walk in the woods. It’s a profound connection with the environment that can rejuvenate the mind, body, and spirit by reducing our stress and anxiety levels. And who doesn’t want more of that? Number 3. Moving forward, we will explore the familiar term Ikigai, also known as the Japanese way of discovering your reason for being. That sounds pretty profound, but this concept holds the key to our reason for being. Ikigai is the driving force that gets us out of bed each morning. The four rules of Ikigai provide a roadmap. Do what you love, do what you’re good at, do what the world needs, and do what you could be paid for. Passion is the intersection of what you love and what you are good at. Mission is the intersection of what you love and what the world needs. Profession is the intersection of what you are good at and what you can be paid for. Vocation is the intersection of what you could be paid for and what the world needs. Bringing these four points together will help you discover your Ikigai and set you on your personal growth and discovery journey.
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You You You You You You You The fourth technique is Wabisabi. Wabisabi known as finding beauty and imperfections The philosophy of Wabi Sabi is where imperfection is celebrated. Instead of chasing perfection, Wabi Sabi encourages us to find beauty in the flawed and imperfect aspects of life. It’s the cracked ceramic filled with gold, symbolizing the magnificence found in life’s imperfections. In practice, you don’t need to wait for the perfect timing, just start. Many of us hold ourselves back because of where we came from and then obstacles we have already faced and will likely face in the future. When in reality, it’s our imperfections that will make you stand out and it will fuel your brilliance. The fifth technique is Shoshin. Shoshin, meaning embracing the beginner’s mindset. Remember, your mind is like a parachute, it only works when it’s open. Shoshin is a concept rooted in Zen Buddhism, calls to the approach that life with a beginner’s mindset. In the words of Shun Rin Suzuki, in the beginner’s mind, there are many possibilities, but in the expert’s mind, there are few. It’s about keeping our minds open, empty and very receptive to the endless possibilities that surround us so that creativity can flow. Being a continuous student and allowing yourself to learn with an open mind will set you ahead of the crowd. Second to last is the practical wisdom of Harahatchibu, teaching us to stop eating when we’re 80% full. By avoiding the excesses of indulgence, we aim for satisfaction without the lethargy that comes from over -consumption. It’s a mindful approach to nourishing our bodies and our brains and avoiding the pitfalls of feeling lazy or sluggish. The quick brain community already knows that maintaining a good diet is a huge factor when it comes to our physical and our mental health. The seventh and final technique is Ganbaru, the spirit of doing your best. This is a concept urging us to do our best and persevere through tough times. It’s about patience, tenacity and a commitment to excellence. In the face of challenges, Ganbaru empowers us to keep going, unlocking our full potential with unwavering perseverance. Consistency is the key to achieving your goals. Our journey today has been a reminder in the pursuit of a fulfilling life. It’s often the small, intentional steps that lead to the most profound transformations. I challenge you, embrace the wisdom that resonates with you and let it be your compass as you navigate the complexities of life. I want to thank you for joining us for this episode of the Quick Brain Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe. Leave a review and share with those who might find value in these timeless philosophies. And here is one small, simple step. Go to gymquick.com forward slash more. This link is in my Instagram profile and you’ll see there a free masterclass on speed reading. Three videos on how to improve your memory. To remember names, easily remember client information, how to give a speech without notes, our brain animal quiz and so much more. Remember knowledge by itself is not power. It becomes power when we what? When we apply it, we take small, simple steps. So I challenge you right now to go to gymquick.com forward slash more. Subscribe to our newsletter. Every single week we send you my favorite brain tips. To be able to level up your life and of course your learning. I’m your brain coach, gymquick. Thanks for tuning in this episode. I look forward to seeing you in the next one. Until then, be limitless.
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9 tactics to build a stronger mind | Lisa Genova

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fcx3WEhodBw
– People are worried about their memory. If you’re forgetting to show up for your four o’clock meeting, or you forgot the actor who played Tony Soprano in the HBO series ‘The Sopranos.’ “Can’t remember that guy’s name, what is it?” A lot of us tend to blame ourselves.
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This absent-mindedness is a sign of mental weakness, or a failing memory, or a lack of character, but 99% of forgetting that happens to all of us, is normal.
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So there are things that we can do to be less afraid, less panicked, to have a better relationship with our memory today- because forgetting is a normal part of being human. My name is Lisa Genova.
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I am an author and neuroscientist.
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The name of my book is “Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting.” So how do we reinforce our memories? How do we make our memories stronger, resilient to time, so that we can recall them decades later? The first essential ingredient in creating a memory that’s going to last longer than this present moment is attention.
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If I put my glasses down and don’t give it a moment’s attention to notice where I’ve put this, I can’t remember where they are because I never formed that memory to begin with.
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Your brain will never remember what you don’t pay attention to.
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Chronic stress is really bad for our memory. Stress hormones mobilize your brain and body to respond, to fight, to flee, to react quickly- not to think.
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Stress is meant to be an acute, quick, on and off phenomenon. So what happens in your brain and body if you’re exposed to chronic, unrelenting stress, and how does that affect your memory? Under chronic stress, your body will just keep dumping adrenaline and cortisol, and it can’t shut off. This is bad for memory.
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You are actually shrinking your hippocampus- the part of your brain that’s essential for forming consciously-held memories is going to be smaller.
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You’ll be inhibiting ‘neurogenesis,’ the birth of new neurons.
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The very good news about all of this, because I’ve probably just scared everyone, is that there are things that we can do to combat stress. This is where things like yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and exercise come into play. All of these have been shown to restore the size of people’s hippocampus who have been chronically stressed.
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A quick word on meditation: A lot of people are intimidated by meditation. They sort of know that this is probably good for them in lots of ways, but maybe don’t know how to do it. Here’s a nine-second meditation to help restore your cortisol levels, and to help save your hippocampus and your ability to remember.
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Close your eyes if you can.
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Breathe in through your nose to the count of four. Hold it for a second, and then breathe out through your nose to the count of four.
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And notice how you feel.
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Here’s what’s going on: Stress response causes you to breathe like this- By breathing slowly in and out through your nose, you are telling your brain and body that you are safe. We also wanna get enough sleep.
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Sleep is not a state of doing nothing where you’re unconscious and it’s a waste of time.
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You’re very biologically busy while you sleep, and there are a number of super-important things that are going on in your brain with respect to memory.
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For example, if I got a horrible night’s sleep last night, I’m gonna wake up today and my frontal lobe is gonna have a hard time dragging itself to its day job- and one of its most important jobs is paying attention. And if I can’t pay attention to what’s going on today, what am I not gonna be able to do well today? Form new memories.
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Also, your hippocampus consolidates the information you’re learning into a lasting memory that you can consciously retrieve while you sleep. So what happens if you don’t get enough sleep? Your hippocampus might not have had enough time to do the job, and so your memories from what happened yesterday and the stuff you learned yesterday, might not be fully formed today, or they might not be formed at all.
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Caffeine is actually good for memory, because caffeine increases your attention. So anything that’s an attention booster is gonna be a memory booster.
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We know that sleep is super important for forming memories, so caffeine’s good for memory. You just wanna be careful that it’s not compromising your sleep.
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Our brains are not designed to remember people’s names. These are abstract concepts.
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They live in neurological cul-de-sacs. Ultimately, there’s only one way into that house that lives at the end of that street, and there’s no other way to get there.
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So can we supply more associations to the person’s name to give us a chance? In psychology, this is called the ‘Baker-Baker Paradox.’ If I’m trying to remember your name and your name is Mr. Baker, that’s really tough for me to remember- abstract concept.
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But if I were asked to remember the word “baker,” I can picture him wearing an apron, and he’s got flour on his face and, “Oh, I remember the bakery I used to love as a kid and we used to get danishes there on Sundays.” So now I’ve got all of these associations in my brain, attaching to that word “baker,” and gives me a chance to hook into it.
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For all of these memories, they benefit from repetition. The more we repeat, the more we practice, the more we rehearse a memory, we are strengthening those neural connections, making that neural circuit stronger, and more likely to be fully retrieved. One of the ways that we can repeat a memory is by writing it down.
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If I’ve experienced a certain number of things today, and I keep a journal- what I’ve chosen to write down will become a stronger, more reinforced memory in my brain. I will also have the opportunity to revisit that memory by reading it later.
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So many people come up to me, so worried, saying, “If I don’t write what I need to do later down, I’m gonna forget to do it.
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That’s gotta mean I’m getting Alzheimer’s.” And I tell all of them, “No, it’s your prospective memory. It’s terrible.
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It’s not cheating to write it down. It’s actually good practice.” Airline pilots do not rely on their brains and their prospective memories to remember to lower the wheels before landing the plane. They outsource the job to a to-do list, a checklist. We should all write it down, put it in your phones, put it in your calendar alerts, make to-do lists. If you wanna remember to pick up milk at the grocery store, write it down.
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Another way to better remember this information has to do with self-testing.
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If I’m trying to consolidate something into memory, and I’m only putting the information in, I’m traveling one way on the neurons. If I then try to recall the information, I’m pulling the information out- now I’m going the other way.
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Going over those circuits in both directions will help reinforce and make that memory stronger.
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Okay, having a word stuck on the tip of your tongue is a normal glitch in memory retrieval.
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It’s just a byproduct of how our brains are organized. So looking up a word, Googling a word that’s on the tip of your tongue isn’t cheating. It will not cause digital amnesia.
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It will not make your memory weaker in any way. It frees you up.
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We can Google anything that we can’t remember in a moment’s notice, and then use that information to continue thinking, to continue the conversation, to learn more.
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You have my permission to Google it and look it up. What I would love for you to take away from all of this is that your memory is amazing.
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It is limitless in what it’s capable of remembering if you supply it with the right kind of information, if you supply it with the right kind of tools and associations. And it’s wildly imperfect, and that’s just the price of owning a human brain.
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Forgetting is a normal part of being human.
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How to enter ‘flow state’ on command | Steven Kotler for Big Think

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znwUCNrjpD4
– Flow is often described as a state of kind of ‘effortless effort.’ We feel like we’re propelled through the activity. Everything else just seems to disappear.
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Time is gonna dilate, which is a fancy of saying it’s gonna pass strangely.
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Five hours go by in like five minutes. Occasionally, it’ll slow down, you get a freeze-frame effect, I mean, anybody who’s been in a car crash for example. Intuition tends to get turned up a lot.
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This is a basketball player in the zone, seeing the hoop and suddenly it’s as big as a hula hoop. And our frown muscles tend to be paralyzed. And what that frowning is, is a sign that the brain is doing work. This is a constant issue in my marriage where my wife thinks I’m mad at her or somebody and I’m like, “No, no, I’m just thinking.
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This is just me thinking. I’m in robot mode.” My name is Steven Kotler.
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I’m a writer and a researcher, and my latest book is “The Art of Impossible.” Flow itself, actually, the term is coined by Goethe, who uses the German word “rausch,” which means overflowing with joy.
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Nietzsche actually wrote about flow.
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William James worked on the topic, but Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi is often referred to as the Godfather of Flow Psychology.
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He was very interested in sort of well-being, meaning of life, and he went around the world talking to people about the times in their lives when they felt their best, and they performed their best.
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Everywhere he went, people said the same thing. “I’m in this altered state of consciousness where every action, every decision I make, seems to flow effortlessly, perfectly, seamlessly from the last.” Flow actually feels ‘flowy.’ More specifically, it refers to any of those moments of rapt attention and total absorption. You’re so focused on the task at hand, so focused on what you’re doing, everything else just seems to disappear.
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But one of the things that athletes talk about a lot is what they call “the voice.” Often, when I’m skiing in flow, I will get directions- right, left, do this, do that, and it’s very quick.
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You either do what the voice is telling you to do or you tend to crash.
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The challenge-skills balance is often called the “golden rule to flow.” And the idea here is pretty simple.
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We pay the most attention to the task at hand when the challenge of that task slightly exceeds our skillset. So, to do this work and to get good at it, you have to get good at being comfortable with being uncomfortable.
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You wanna stretch but not snap. So there are a number of different things you can do to sort of prepare yourself and prepare the environment to drop into flow.
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The flow triggers are your toolkit.
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22 of them have been discovered.
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There are probably way, way more, but so far, researchers have identified 22. The most basic of flow triggers- complete concentration.
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You really wanna sorta start your work session if you can in relationship to your physiology.
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I like to wake up at 3:30, four o’clock in the morning. That’s when I’m most awake, most alert. I am married to a night owl.
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My wife doesn’t wake up ’til five, six, seven o’clock, eight o’clock at night.
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That’s when her brain comes alive.
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And then you wanna try to block out 90 to 120 minutes for uninterrupted concentration.
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Practice distraction management ahead of time. So you wanna turn off your phones, turn off email, Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, et cetera, all your messages, all your alerts.
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There was a study where they found that coders in flow, if they get knocked out by distraction, a knock at the door, a text alert, or whatever, it can take ’em 15 minutes to get back into flow if they can get back in at all.
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Flow only shows up when all of our attention is in the right gear, right now. One way to kind of explore flow triggers, there’s a cluster of them that are predominantly dopamine triggers. They drive focus, they drive attention, they drive alertness and excitement, and there’s a lot of different ways to get dopamine.
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Novelty produces dopamine.
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We see the same thing with unpredictability, complexity, the experience of awe.
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You look up at the night sky and you see stars everywhere and you know those stars are actually universes, and you get sorta perceptual vastness.
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If you’ve ever done a crossword puzzle or sudoku, you get an answer right, that little rush of pleasure you get, that’s dopamine. And then you usually get a couple of answers right in a row, that’s because the dopamine that is now in your system is amplifying pattern recognition.
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We get that same dopamine from risk-taking. And this could be physical risks, emotional risks, social risks, intellectual risks, possibly spiritual risks.
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We get the dopamine not as a reward for taking the risk, which is what some people used to believe, but now we know it’s to kind of drive motivation. Now, there are lots of different intrinsic motivators, but from a motivation standpoint, there are five and they’re all designed to be built into one another and work in a sort of specific order, in a specific sequence.
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The most basic human motivator is curiosity. One of the things we get from curiosity is focus for free. When we’re curious about something, we don’t have to struggle.
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We don’t have to burn a lot of calories trying to pay attention to it.
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Curiosity is designed, biologically again, to be built into passion. And think about, we’ve all fallen in love, how much attention you pay to the person you’re falling in love with.
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You can’t stop thinking about them, can’t stop staring at them.
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That’s a tremendous amount of focus for free.
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Now, passion is incredibly useful, but as a motivator, you can go one better, which is purpose.
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Everyone’s talking about, “Oh, I have a purpose,” and it’s this big altruistic thing and it’s good for the world, and all those things may be true, but from a peak performance perspective, it’s very, very selfish.
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Once you have purpose, the system demands autonomy.
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I want the freedom to pursue my purpose. And once you have that freedom, the system wants the last of the big motivators, mastery. Mastery is the skills to pursue that purpose well.
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One of the really incredible things about being human is we’re all built for peak performance. Flow is universal in humans.
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It’s actually universal in most mammals and definitely all social mammals.
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There’s a shared collective version of a flow state, a team performing at their best, a group performing at their best.
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This is called ‘group flow.’ In fact, studies have shown that the people who score off the charts for these characteristics, who score off the charts for overall well-being and life satisfaction, are the people with the most flow in their lives.
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We’re all capable of so much more than we know. That is a commonality across the board. It’s the largest lesson in 30 years of studying peak performance has taught me.
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And the way I sorta like to think about it, is motivation is what gets us into the game.
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Learning allows us to continue to play. Creativity is how we steer. And flow, which is optimal performance, is how we amplify all the results beyond all reasonable expectation.
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3 Instantly Calming CBT Techniques For Anxiety

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Hi, I’m Mark Tyrrell of Uncommon Knowledge and welcome to 3 Instantly Calming CBT Techniques for Anxiety Now, Marcus Aurelius said, “Very little is needed to make a happy life, it is all within yourself in your way of thinking.” Now I’m a huge admirer of Aurelius and loved his ‘Reflections’, which I read many years ago, but in the interests of thinking for myself I open with the this quote from the famous stoic philosopher and Roman Emperor because in my humble opinion it’s just plain wrong, or at the very least vastly incomplete. So let me explain! People thrive in environments that help them meet their innate emotional and physical needs, so as human beings we have these innate needs, and we have an instinctual desire to fulfil them and when we don’t fulfil them we unavoidably suffer and I think it’s reassuring to let clients know sometimes that their happiness isn’t just about what they do inside their own minds it’s also to do with the extent to which their environment meets their needs it’s also about taking action to identify and meet their needs, so people who meet their needs in a balanced way are less likely to suffer anxiety.
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Just as thirst is a signal that you’re not meeting your need for hydration, anxiety is a signal that you are not meeting your needs in some way.
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you’re not meeting your needs in some way now this isn’t to say that what we do in our minds has no relevance to our happiness or lack thereof of course it does but the way we feel is not just a response to the way things really are out there in the world it’s also about how we make sense of what’s happening to us okay now in case you thought I was done ranting I have one other issue with cognitive behavioral therapy that I need to air before I give you three easy to apply CBD techniques for treating anxiety that I’ve found over the years incredibly useful when work with anxious clients so let’s look at this shaky theory first of changing thoughts to change feelings now strong emotion arises not after thoughts not because of thoughts but before them and if you see reference one you’ll know what I mean so it’s often easier and more powerful to change feelings than it is to change thoughts okay again this basic neuroscience contradicts classical CBT emotions are a fundamental human characteristic essential for immediate physical survival they’re more powerful and thoughts occurring much more quickly than cognition and sometimes with no associative thoughts at all clinical hypnosis is the best way to change feelings directly see reference to and a change in our thoughts is a natural consequence of a change in our emotional responses so for post-traumatic stress disorder and phobias for example it’s not faulty thinking that’s the problem and the chances of making significant progress through CBT alone are very remote okay but I’m not completely condemning CBT here I do believe it can be really useful for less severe anxiety conditions but only when used with skilled approaches that work directly to calm feelings right down so here are three simple techniques that focus on the thinking and behaving part of a person to help them take back control when they’ve been feeling anxious so CBT technique one is focus on how the feelings will change it’s very simple so I’ll often remind clients that feelings are fluid and inevitably change so even if after all the relaxed mental rehearsal work that we’ve done with the clients they find themselves starting to feel a little anxious in a situation I want them to be thinking about what their feelings will be once they’ve started to feel better again specifically focusing on that expected change so it might help to write down those expect changes in a few words so for example if they’re nervous about a presentation they might write down something like I’m feeling somewhat nervous which is natural when those feelings change I expect to feel calm and clear-headed again so they’ve given themselves a blueprint a template for what to expect so on top of this I’ll ask them to imagine what the very first little sign might be that those alterations in feeling are starting to happen because they will inevitably happen okay so they might tell me that they um they’ll find themselves speaking more spontaneously to their audience or it might be helpful to write those words down too okay so feelings always shift and even just remembering that is really useful having your client write or think about how they expect their feelings to improve and the very first little indications that anxiety is morphing into calm take that concept to the next level so all good psychological interventions help change expectations and this technique is no exception okay now the next technique can be applied in lots of different ways and is more behavioral than cognitive so the second CBT technique is chew it over and act normal okay so anxiety is a survival responses you know it’s not an illness but it’s a response that can go wrong sometimes to the point that it hinders rather than helps like a guard dog that feels like it’s helping even as it bites the leg of the friendly postman or mailman or the little old lady next door so your anxiety response kicks in because it senses a threat even though that perceived threat may not actually be a real threat at all so one way to train anxiety to be selective and behave itself is to give it feedback to let it know that thanks but you’re not needed right now okay because anxiety takes its lead from what clients ooh okay as well as simple emotional pattern-matching so if the client acts in ways they wouldn’t act in a real emergency the anxiety will fade away for example during an emergency we wouldn’t talk softly and calmly we wouldn’t smile we wouldn’t salivate we wouldn’t breathe deeply and we wouldn’t have open body posture okay now if we adopt purpose purposefully adopt some of these behaviors or even just one of these behaviors when we begin to feel stressed then we’re altering the feedback loop where where we’re sending the feedback back to our sympathetic nervous system the fear response that it’s not needed that all is fine good and well we send it a message see if there was a real threat I wouldn’t be salivating I wouldn’t be talking normally I wouldn’t be breathing out for longer than I breathe in so something even the most anxious client can easily do is chew gum or even just imagine they are and this is something you’d never be doing during a genuine threat because chewing gum of course produces saliva in anticipation of eating so it can very quickly switch off the cascade of anxiety we don’t tend to have the luxury of eating in life-threatening circumstances okay so we can encourage our clients to act normal during stressful times to quickly change the feedback loop and switch off anxiety fast okay so very powerful but simple approach and just knowing they can do this can give clients a huge boost in confidence and a sense of control back because anxiety tends to take away people’s sense of control anxiety is all about expectation which tends to be catastrophic so let’s bring some thought to it next so the final CBT technique is catch the underlying assumption and chase down the logical conclusions okay so if someone feels anxious about something it’s because they have a fear of some consequence but what is that consequence so for example if I fear attending a party I might ask myself what consequence do I fear and I might decide you know I fear meeting new P poor okay but what’s the consequence of that I could ask myself I might say well they might not like me but what’s the consequence of that and I’ll well that I’ll feel upset and what’s the consequence of that well I’ll feel that I’m unlikable and so on and we can go on and on with this but how will I deal with that okay I’ll remember people who do like me okay I’ll soon forget about the party it’ll be in the past I’ll remember that I can be wrong when assuming people don’t like me okay so we’re finding contradictions to the ultimate conclusion of the fear okay and I’ve done that with people who are insecure in relationships by having them describe what it is precisely they fear and begin to see that the relationship breakdown wouldn’t be in fact some kind of catastrophic end but a step along the path to something else that wouldn’t necessarily even be bad so when someone comes to feel that even if their relationship did end they would and could survive or even thrive then the fuel of the insecurity dries up okay so the takeaways here are one strong feelings shape the thoughts not the other way around although Marcus Aurelius did have some great insights we can directly help lift and calm feelings so thoughts fall into line with karma emotionality to working to reframe thoughts can be really useful and three we can help people remember that feelings always change and focus on how they expect any current unpleasant feelings to change this alone can begin to bring about the very expectation they have imagined for we can teach clients to alter their behavioral feedback so as to send the message to their sympathetic nervous system nothing to report here no emergency down and just knowing this is possible for clients can help them feel more secure and confident and five finally we can enable clients to catch underlying assumptions and follow the logical conclusions to think about how they would actually survive even thrive if the worst or the so-called worst did happen Marcus Aurelius also said we ought to do good to others as simply as a horse runs or a bee makes honey or a vine bears grapes season after season without thinking of the grapes it is born and we can’t say fairer than that so I hope you found this useful and if you did please hit like subscribe and if you want to hear where my next video is published hit the notification bell below I’m mark Tara of uncommon knowledge and I hope I’ll see you soon over at uncom slash blog
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How to diagnose Sjogren’s Syndrome affecting the brain and spine?

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How do we diagnose Neurosjogren or Sjogren  involving the central nervous system?  Cerebrospinal fluid or the spinal  fluid analysis is very important   for the diagnosis of Neurosjogren. We can see certain changes like your  
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lymphocytes being elevated there your IGG index  being elevated but less oligoclonal bands and   we’ll talk about that in a little bit. We also do blood work the blood work   that I mentioned before we test  for your Ana SSA and SSB antibody. 
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We look at your number of white blood cells we  look to see if you have more gamma globulins.  We look to see if you have chromative Factor  complement levels all of these are important to   be tested and what it was seen in patients that  have CNS involvement or central nervous system  
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involvement is that not all of them they have a  positive n a and only 38 will have a positive DNA   about 48 percent have a positive SSA and only  six percent will have a positive SSB antibody   as I just mentioned in shogron that affects your  brain and your spine only 40 to 50 percent of them  
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will have a positive SSA antibody and only six  percent will have a positive SSB antibody and this   is important because that makes the diagnosis very  challenging this type of antibodies SSA antibodies   they actually have been associated with a more  aggressive disease of the brain what does it  
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mean it means that if you have SSA antibodies  with neurological involvement that could mean   that you have a more aggressive disease towards  your brain or your spine we do use other tests   like visual evoked potential which are abnormal  in 61 percent of patients we use EEG or Electro  
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asphalogram which sometimes has a limited value  but it can be useful to detect subclinical signs   of neurological involvement we also use MRI and  I’m going to take the time to explain to you   the value of MRI in neurological involvement  of shogran MRIs are more sensitive that CAT  
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scans to detect anatomical abnormalities in  primary CNS or primary neurological chogran   there are multiple areas of increased signal  that will show inflammation specifically   located in the subcortical and periventricular  white matter and those lesions are found more  
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frequently in patients that have involvement  of their brain let me talk to you more about   brain MRI findings in sjogren I mentioned to you  about white matter lesions and I made the comment   that they have to be located in certain areas  like periventricular areas and this makes the  
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diagnosis challenging because some patients with  multiple sclerosis they can have the lesions in   the same areas we’ll talk more about that in  a little bit in some patients we do see signs   of cerebral Venous Thrombosis and in other  patients we do see two more like lesions that  
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are actually not tumor but there is a sign of  program syndrome let’s talk about spinal MRIS   spinal MRIs are ordered to evaluate the spinal  cord involvement and they can show in patients   with sjogren intensities or hyperintensities in  the cervical area most of the time 82 percent  
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of patients will have that problem or they  can have extended lesions in cases of acute   myelopathy this is an MRI of a patient with  Hyper signal in the cord that is suggestive   of acute myelopathy this is also an MRI from a  patient with extensive transverse myelitis this is  
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also another MRI of a patient with neuromyelitis  Optica a patient that also has shogron this is   another case of neuromyelitis optica where you  can see involvement of the dorsal midbrain and   and the point in lesion in a patient with sjogren  that develop neuromyelitis Optica we also use  
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combinations of tests like MRI and a voxel-based  morphometry and this is a method commonly used   to quantitate and objectively evaluate the  differences in Regional cerebral volumes this   type of test was able to shown that patients with  sjogren had certain areas of white matter hyper  
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intensities and those areas were also associated  with more atrophy these studies show that Patients   with Primary sjogren that have this white matter  intensities and gray and white matter atrophy   those are probably related to a sort of cerebral  vasculitis or inflammation in the vessels of the  
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brain there are other tests like single Photon  emission CT fees or pet scans that can evaluate   the blood flow in the brain and it was shown  that patients with children they have reduced   cerebral blood flow they have brain atrophy and  decreased glucose metabolism in the brain in  
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certain patients neuropsychological testing it’s  also very important to evaluate symptoms that are   very subtle in affecting the brain cerebral  angiography is used more rarely in patients   with primary sjogren but when it was used in 45  percent of Highly selected patients with children  
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