We all want to live our lives in every way possible. We want to make the most life has to offer. But then again, there are just so many things that are impeding us from getting the life we deserve.
There is work, money, time, other people and OURSELVES! Yes, may be the reason why you are not living the life you ought to live is because you are not letting yourself be in that kind of life. You are so focused on what should you be rather than what you want to be. It is like not being able to differentiate your wants from your needs. You don’t have to have what famous people have to say that you are living a life.
It is not about the things that you don’t have that make a wonderful life, rather it is the things that are already in your possession and how you utilize them. Take note, the bests in life come with no price tag.
Be positive. All the time!
Negativity is just around the corner waiting to consume you. Try seeing the positive side of everything because that is only when you have quality thoughts and happiness. Positivity is a choice.
Believe in yourself!
Happiness is when you do something you wanted to do so badly but the thought of failing is making you take a step backward. The first critic of your actions is yourself. You cannot make people see your worth if you don’t see it yourself. Remember that you are winner that is why you are here (and not those other sperm cells.)
Be courageous. Take risks!
Big opportunities only knock once so when they do, open your doors. Everything is a gamble because you cannot foresee tomorrow. Don’t be afraid to fail because without it, you cannot value the moment when you’ve finally succeeded. Your what if’s will be your greatest midnight hunters.
Be crazy. Violate rules!
Obedience is awesome but rules, like promises, are meant to be broken. Violating rules once in a while is fun, even a simple crossing on the road when the light turns red with the presence of traffic officers will be fun. Just don’t get caught and run as fast as you can. The moment you will be in that place again, I am sure as hell that you are going to laugh at yourself.
Be yourself!
You can idolize someone but don’t try to be completely like them. You are your own unique self and you don’t have to be like someone else to be part of the group. Honesty is the best policy and be honest of your own self. It is so much better to be hated for who you are rather than be loved for what you’re not.
How you handle what life throws at you is the secret on how to be successful and how to make your life worth living. Happiness is a choice. As Leo Tolstoy would say, if you want to be happy, be.
