{"id":27473,"date":"2017-04-12T14:15:33","date_gmt":"2017-04-12T14:15:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/hannahjewell\/dating-a-phd-student-is-mostly-ok"},"modified":"2017-04-12T14:15:33","modified_gmt":"2017-04-12T14:15:33","slug":"24-struggles-youll-only-understand-if-youre-dating-a-phd-student","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/effectsofanxiety.net\/archives\/27473","title":{"rendered":"24 Problems You Are Going To Only Realize If You Should Be Online Dating A PhD Student"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<b>you almost certainly deserve a PhD in crisis counselling.<\/b>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\r\n<div id=\"buzz_sub_buzz\" class=\"c suplist_dec_up suplist_list_show \">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5073083\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">1.<\/span> If you are internet dating a PhD student, your spouse uses everyday obsessing about just one, little, certain subject.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"833\" alt=\"When you're dating a PhD student, your partner spends all day every day obsessing about a single, tiny, specific subject.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/imgur.com\/kI2ic\">imgur.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">However you understand it indicates the world in their mind, so you perform along.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_tweet  buzz_superlist_item_wide   \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071583\">\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">2.<\/span> Even if you&#8217;re having a fantastic weekend or an evening off, you realize just what their mental schedule seems like.<\/h2>\t\t<div id=\"tweet_5071583\">\t<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet bf-tweet\">\t\t<p>exactly what time will it be.<\/p>\r\n\t\t&mdash; AcademicsSay (@Shit Academics Proclaim)\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/BuzzFeed\/status\/569717841353678848\"><\/a>\t<\/blockquote>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071653\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">3.<\/span> So you might have to be truth be told there to give all of them some point of view.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"468\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 468px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>regard this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">Warner Bros. \/ through <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/student-phd-7vdQUdMhicNgY\">giphy.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">&ldquo;no body dies in the event that you don&rsquo;t finish this part <i>tonight<\/i>, darling.&rdquo;<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071663\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">4.<\/span> They truly are never really inside their element until they reach the library&#8230;<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"352\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 352px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>regard this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">funny Central \/ Via <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-hxPwHuAIk7cpW\">giphy.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">&hellip;and then stay truth be told there for 15 hours.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071707\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">5.<\/span> They are able to additionally be slightly hard on on their own.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"291\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 291px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>treat this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">Fox \/ Via <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/reaction-hxPwHuAIk7cpW\">giphy.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">therefore it&rsquo;s important to tell them frequently that they&rsquo;re perhaps not an idiot, fairly speaking.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071811\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">6.<\/span> You&#8217;ll join all of them inside delights of  many years and many years of a strict budget and pupil way of life.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"500\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 500px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"http:\/\/s3-ec.buzzfed.com\/static\/2015-02\/24\/12\/enhanced\/webdr08\/anigif_enhanced-32532-1424798909-14.gif\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/food-noodles-savoury-kNRerY6hpQG4g\">giphy.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">The challenge for investment is genuine, plus it tastes like pot noodles.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071892\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">7.<\/span> Oh, therefore&#8217;ve heard exactly about the rigid competitors for an academic job.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"336\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 336px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">BBC \/ through <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/browngurlwfro.tumblr.com\/post\/28172739319\/the-25-most-absurd-moments-from-tonights-olympics\">browngurlwfro.tumblr.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">essentially, no-one victories that race.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5071914\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">8.<\/span> If their particular subject of these study ever pops up in pop music tradition, you need to handle the inevitable mental fallout.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"350\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 350px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"http:\/\/s3-ec.buzzfed.com\/static\/2015-02\/24\/12\/enhanced\/webdr07\/anigif_enhanced-11907-1424798989-33.gif\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">NBC \/ Via <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/rage-nerd-W50xKz9RM5FPa\">giphy.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">&ldquo;THAT&rsquo;S NOT WHAT THAT MEANS.&rdquo;<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072036\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">9.<\/span> Their particular feeling of humour is a bit special&#8230;<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"421\" alt=\"Their sense of humour is a little bit unique...\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">\r\n<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AskReddit\/comments\/1h1cyg\/whats_the_most_intellectual_joke_you_know\/\">reddit.com<\/a> \/ through <a href=\"http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/daves4\/jokes-only-nerds-will-understand#.slDO60a1P8\">buzzfeed.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072014\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">10.<\/span> &#8230;as is the concept of flirting.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"300\" height=\"390\" alt=\"...as is their idea of flirting.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">BuzzFeed \/ Via the teachings of Marc Weller<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072058\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">11.<\/span> You&#8217;re nearly since worried since they are about their particular thesis protection.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"449\" alt=\"You're nearly as worried as they are about their thesis defense.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>Regard this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">XKCD \/ through <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/xkcd.com\/1403\/\">xkcd.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">By the time it comes around, though, you&rsquo;ve acquired such second-hand knowledge that one could most likely do it for all of them.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072097\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">12.<\/span> Their particular idea of a rockstar is most likely only a little different than yours.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"351\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 351px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>treat this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/neil-degrasse-tyson-jG0XvyRqt170s\">giphy.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">(or even not.)<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_tweet  buzz_superlist_item_wide   \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072133\">\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">13.<\/span> Their educational brilliance doesn&#8217;t rather appear to translate to the real world.<\/h2>\t\t<div id=\"tweet_5072133\">\t<blockquote class=\"bf-tweet\">\t\t<p>Has a PhD in natural Chemistry, but can not set a DVR. #boyfriend<\/p>\r\n\t\t&mdash; TomTeeVee (@Tom Ciaccio)\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/BuzzFeed\/status\/568822013244153856\"><\/a>\t<\/blockquote>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<img class=\"bf_dom progload-tweet lazy\">\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072225\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">14.<\/span> They give you the highlights when they&#8217;re grading students&#8217; essays, that may occasionally be worrying.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"1109\" alt=\"They send you the highlights when they're grading students' essays, which can sometimes be worrying.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/sarahbertelson\/status\/565369406503796736\">Twitter: @sarahbertelson<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072496\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">15.<\/span> Like, <i>truly<\/i> worrying.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"178\" alt=\"Like, really worrying.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/imgur.com\/UlajEbn\">imgur.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">our kids would be the future.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072259\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">16.<\/span> They give you a lot of events to be concerned about their own health.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"145\" alt=\"They give you plenty of occasions to worry about their health.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/imgur.com\/0555v\">imgur.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072302\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">17.<\/span> And their crises of self-confidence tend to be surprisingly regular, however you do your best to reassure them.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"352\" alt=\"And their crises of confidence are surprisingly frequent, but you do your best to reassure them.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/imgur.com\/lFkyU\">imgur.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">&ldquo;Yes, Jack is smarter than you. But only because Jack is a <i>genius<\/i>.&rdquo;<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072337\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">18.<\/span> They just take their particular pupils&#8217; reviews way too seriously.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" class=\"bf_dom\" width=\"625\" height=\"352\" alt=\"They take their students' reviews way too seriously.\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>Treat this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/imgur.com\/zWrMR2t\">imgur.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">Both the flattering plus the unflattering ones.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072764\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">19.<\/span> People they know are other PhD applicants who&#8217;re always speaing frankly about their topic, nevertheless learn enough buzzwords for by at functions.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"469\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 469px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>treat this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">Fox \/ through <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/hello-nerds-cartoon-pKlTXHEraMH4s\">giphy.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5072940\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">20.<\/span> Actually, becoming an outsider to academia will make you seem like a rare and exotic animal.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"276\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 276px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/horse-unicorn-fantasy-jligj6D2MCqOI\">giphy.com<\/a><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">You&#8217;ll inform them just what it&rsquo;s like out there in the real life.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5073111\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">21.<\/span> After the afternoon, your lover helps make the best book guidelines, and that is pretty great.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"351\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 351px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>regard this picture &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">Disney \/ through <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/seriouslysarah.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/gif-belle-books.gif\">seriouslysarah.net<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5073195\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">22.<\/span> And because they spend-all their particular time obtaining grants and scholarships, they may be good at helping you with essays and cover letters.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"353\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 353px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">HBO \/ Via <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/seriouslysarah.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/gif-belle-books\">seriouslysarah.net<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\">Though they may be a very brutal editor occasionally.<\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5073557\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">23.<\/span> You like that you&#8217;re always discovering from your own lover&#8230;<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"275\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 275px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>regard this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">NBC \/ Via <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/degrassi.wikia.com\/wiki\/File:Brand-new-information.gif\">degrassi.wikia.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\r\n<div class=\"buzz_superlist_item buzz_superlist_item_image  buzz_superlist_item_wide image_hit  \" id=\"superlist_3689236_5073705\">\t\t\t<h2>\r\n<span class=\"buzz_superlist_number_inline\">24.<\/span> &#8230;even though normally it&#8217;s totally worthless knowledge.<\/h2>    \t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_content\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"rubbable-container\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"\" width=\"625\" height=\"456\" style=\"width: 625px;height: 456px\" class=\"bf_dom\" alt=\"24 Struggles You'll Only Understand If You're Dating A PhD Student\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"animatedgifs button-rubbable bf_dom\"><\/a>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"print\"><a href=\"http:\/\/s3-ec.buzzfed.com\/static\/2015-02\/24\/12\/enhanced\/webdr11\/anigif_enhanced-2763-1424799471-33.gif\" rel=\"nofollow\"><b>View this image &rsaquo;<\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t  \t\t\t\t<div class=\"sub_buzz_source_via buzz_attribution\">Fox \/ Via <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/giphy.com\/gifs\/funny-lol-futurama-jViAepeOtvoJy\">giphy.com<\/a>\r\n<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"sub_buzz_desc_w_attr\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"twitter-emoji\" src=\"http:\/\/effectsofanxiety.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/14919687386542-2764.png\"><\/p>\r\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\t\t\t<\/div><p>Read more: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/hannahjewell\/dating-a-phd-student-is-mostly-ok\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">http:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/hannahjewell\/dating-a-phd-student-is-mostly-ok<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>you almost certainly deserve a PhD in crisis counselling. 1. 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